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The Employer Blueprint Podcast is proud to present the Principal of Kandell Consulting, Speaker, and Author of unHIDDEN: A Book for Men & Those Confused by Them, Robert Kandell. Robert in an interpersonal communication expert who’s “mission has been to help people find themselves and use their internal power to live their best lives.” ~ quoted from Robert’s LinkedIN profile because it was well stated. As Robert explains in this episode of the Employer Blueprint Podcast, he was able to start a venture from an idea on a napkin and build it to an 8 figure business. Before that, Robert was a rising star in the corporate world as a 6 figure earner in his late twenties, and thought he had it all figured out, until things hit a wall. As Robert explains, he was overweight, unhappy, over stressed, and disconnected from his wife. This was when Robert decided to make a change and started focusing on personal development. Through this focus on personal development, Robert met a woman named Nicole and they became immediate friends. Together they started an organization for others to focus on their own personal development called One Taste. As Robert explains in the podcast, they were able to take the idea from a paper napkin sketch to a world wide 8 figure business. In this ten year adventure, Robert and Nicole were able to open up satellite offices in London, France, and all across the United States. In creating something so great, Robert found it to be impacting his health, so in 2014, Robert sold his shares and moved to Venice Beach California to start his own consulting firm. At Kandell Consulting, Robert is able to focus on what he loves the most, which is sharing his experience and knowledge with others to help them thrive in business. You can find out more about Robert, and his podcast, consulting firm, and best selling book at https://robertkandell.com. Thank for tuning in to this week’s episode of the Employer Blueprint Podcast, and we hope that you will subscribe to make sure you don’t miss any future episodes!
Are you feeling ‘numb and dumb’? Indoctrinated by a society that teaches men NOT to feel? To disconnect from qualities like warmth and receptivity? If you’re ready to break apart the armor and live a more fulfilling life, it’s time to let go of the things that no longer serve you and leverage a framework for change. Personal development expert Rob Kandell is a speaker and podcaster on a mission to help people up-level their communication skills and live more balanced, energized and purposeful lives. He left the corporate world in 2002 to become an entrepreneur, founding the global 8-figure business OneTaste. Today, Rob is the Principal of Kandell Consulting and host of the Tuff Love podcast on relationships, intimacy and gender dynamics. He is also the author of the new book unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Today, Rob joins Emerald to discuss how our patriarchal society trains men not to feel and share the embarrassing moment that inspired his decision to evolve. He describes OneTaste’s focus on pleasure, explaining the connection between good sex and liking yourself. Rob also explores the value in training your brain to see success and the challenge in making change without the help of a support team. Listen in for Rob’s framework for transformation and learn how he is inspired by a belief that men can live full, empowered, healthy lives! What You Will Learn The moment Rob realized the depth of his ignorance How our patriarchal society trains men not to feel How the pain of staying the same inspired Rob to change The principles behind Rob’s former business, OneTaste The connection between good sex and liking yourself Rob’s general framework of change Confront Investigate Commit Create practice Celebrate + debrief Why it’s much more difficult to change without a team Rob’s skill in coaching clients on psychology + leverage How Rob is inspired by men’s potential to live full lives Rob’s insight around training your brain to see success Connect with Rob Kandell Rob’s Website Rob on Instagram Rob on LinkedIn Tuff Love Podcast Kandell Consulting on Facebook Connect with Emerald GreenForest Creative Age Consulting Group Emerald’s Website Emerald on LinkedIn Emerald on Twitter Emerald on Instagram Email: listeners@menonpurposepodcast.com Resources unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them by Robert Kandell OneTaste Nicole Daedone Erwan Davon Joseph Campbell Foundation Angry White Men: American Masculinity at the End of an Era by Michael Kimmel The Butterfly Effect: How Your Life Matters by Andy Andrews This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.
Is life confusing for men these days? Are men confusing to you these days? So, what's this all about? Why are men and women confused about the roles of men? Or, are they? My guest thinks they are!Personally, I think that there is much confusion over roles, and that they are fluid in each family. It's a BIG, IMPORTANT conversation for every couple to have before they get married: to learn about each other, talk about values, vision for life, beliefs, and goals. Talk about how those values will play out in the roles each of you want, and/or accept, BY AGREEMENT.Making agreements requires willingness to communicate deeply. Now, we're getting into the thorny issues about why these issues can all be too fuzzy. People don't want to talk about difficult things. They want to stay with their fantasies about a life together all magically working out. It doesn't.It's not news that you have to consciously work on your relationship. You have to work on it and at it. You have to be present, and willing to talk, change, grow together.Listen in to this fascinating conversation, and see what questions it leaves you with. You can ask them by liking my Facebook page, Relationship Help Shows, and we can talk there.If you want my help directly, we can do that, too.GUEST: Robert Kandell, Coach, Lecturer, Consultant My guest today, Robert Kandell, hailed as “part football coach, part loving dad, and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”, has spent the last 20 years helping people re energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through authentic connection and honest communication.After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded One Taste (orgasmic meditation) in 2004. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own consulting firm, Kandell Consulting, which helps small businesses become marketable and profitable.Robert is also an accomplished coach, and lecturer with over 400 workshops under his belt. He also brings his enthusiasm and passion to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love (over 100k downloads) on subjects around relationships, intimacy, sex, communication and gender dynamics.HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Why men are so obsessed with their phonesWhat Robert Kandell means by a "chasm of intimacy"Why he says "aggrieved entitlement" is what causes your man to withdrawWhat Robert thinks about the idea that the #MeToo movement causes men to be scaredHow women can encourage men to speak about their anger CONNECT WITH ROBERT KANDELL:Website: RobertKandell.comTwitter: @RobertKandellFacebook: Facebook.com/Robert.KandellLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RobertKandellInstagram: Instagram.com/Robert.KandellCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!Free Passive-Aggressive ChecklistFree Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for RelationshipsFREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#mentoday #communicationwithmen #Phonesinrelationships #RobertKandell #relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #emotionalintimacy # See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Is life confusing for men these days? Are men confusing to you these days? So, what's this all about? Why are men and women confused about the roles of men? Or, are they? My guest thinks they are!Personally, I think that there is much confusion over roles, and that they are fluid in each family. It's a BIG, IMPORTANT conversation for every couple to have before they get married: to learn about each other, talk about values, vision for life, beliefs, and goals. Talk about how those values will play out in the roles each of you want, and/or accept, BY AGREEMENT.Making agreements requires willingness to communicate deeply. Now, we're getting into the thorny issues about why these issues can all be too fuzzy. People don't want to talk about difficult things. They want to stay with their fantasies about a life together all magically working out. It doesn't.It's not news that you have to consciously work on your relationship. You have to work on it and at it. You have to be present, and willing to talk, change, grow together.Listen in to this fascinating conversation, and see what questions it leaves you with. You can ask them by liking my Facebook page, Relationship Help Shows, and we can talk there.If you want my help directly, we can do that, too.GUEST: Robert Kandell, Coach, Lecturer, Consultant My guest today, Robert Kandell, hailed as “part football coach, part loving dad, and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”, has spent the last 20 years helping people re energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through authentic connection and honest communication.After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded One Taste (orgasmic meditation) in 2004. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own consulting firm, Kandell Consulting, which helps small businesses become marketable and profitable.Robert is also an accomplished coach, and lecturer with over 400 workshops under his belt. He also brings his enthusiasm and passion to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love (over 100k downloads) on subjects around relationships, intimacy, sex, communication and gender dynamics.HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Why men are so obsessed with their phonesWhat Robert Kandell means by a "chasm of intimacy"Why he says "aggrieved entitlement" is what causes your man to withdrawWhat Robert thinks about the idea that the #MeToo movement causes men to be scaredHow women can encourage men to speak about their anger CONNECT WITH ROBERT KANDELL:Website: RobertKandell.comTwitter: @RobertKandellFacebook: Facebook.com/Robert.KandellLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RobertKandellInstagram: Instagram.com/Robert.KandellCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!Free Passive-Aggressive ChecklistFree Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for RelationshipsFREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#mentoday #communicationwithmen #Phonesinrelationships #RobertKandell #relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #emotionalintimacy # See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Robert Kandell, host of the Tuff Love podcast joins me for a conversation about how to have authentic relationships in business, social, and with romantic partners. Bringing "tough love" and having tough conversations is not easy, and often uncomfortable, but the payoffs for the quality of your relationships is huge. Robert has a new book our called unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them, and you can find that (and pre-order) on his website. Quick reference for this show, we cover: The Junkyard dog - a real archetype that the world needs How to improve your self-esteem and find freedom How men remain hidden in the world Robert's 8 step process for UnHiding: Confront - face the uncomfortable reality you've been avoiding Investigate - explore that reality. Find answers. Find sanity. Commit - Make a decision to DO something Design a strategy - make it achievable, don't white-knuckle it Complete the milestone - complete the cycle Celebrate - Actually celebrate, physically. Debrief - find our where you can restructure Repeat - Do another cycle Why a man would consider quitting porn. How to have a "tough love" conversation The secret to releasing the tension of that thing you've been withholding: Apology Robert's Bio: Robert Kandell has spent the last 20 years helping people re-energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through more honest and authentic connection and communication. After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded One Taste (orgasmic meditation) with Nicole Daedone in 2004. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market, Robert built the company from a paper napkin sketch to an 8-figure international corporation. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own consulting firm, Kandell Consulting, which helps small businesses become marketable and profitable. Robert is also an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer with over 400 workshops under his belt. He also brings his enthusiasm and passion to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love podcast on subjects around relationships, intimacy, sex, communication and gender dynamics. He also has written a book titled unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Themwhich will be released November 15th this year. robertkandell.com - preorder the book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Robert Kandell has spent the last 20 years helping people re-energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through more honest and authentic connection and communication. After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded One Taste (orgasmic meditation) in 2004. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market, Robert built his current thriving company, Kandell Consulting, from a paper napkin, and now is helping businesses all over the world become marketable and profitable. Robert is also an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer with over 400 workshops under his belt. He also brings his enthusiasm and passion to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love, on subjects around relationships, intimacy, sex, communication and gender dynamics. This is one of my favorite episodes to date. I learned so much from Robert and I can’t wait to have him on the show again! This episode is for you if: You want to learn how to tell your partner the truth You want to better understand how men and women communicate differently You want to create structures to have a more honest relationship You want to know how to ask for what you want in bed Highlights of our conversation 2:15 - Getting to know Robert 6:15 - Robert discovers home at Burning Man 9:45 - Communication 101 for men and women 13:40 - The key differences between masculine and feminine 17:00 - Bridging the gap when you can’t change their mind 21:37 - Why are we afraid of honesty? 24:08 - What is the role of tough love in a relationship? 26:03 - The three elements of communication 28:05 - Insidious forms of communication OR stop texting 31:27 - Communication, sex, and #MeToo 37:20 - Should a white cisgender man be able to complain? 40:30 - How can women encourage men to be more feminine? 43:00 - Have the best sex of your life 50:14 - Robert answers the jar of Lols Find Robert Visit Robert Kandell’s website - https://kandellconsulting.com/ Listen to Robert’s podcast, Tuff Love - http://tufflove.live/ Learn more about orgasmic meditation - https://onetaste.us/ Credits Interview: Robert Kandell Theme music: Superstar by Gyom - https://www.premiumbeat.com/royalty-free-tracks/superstar Podcast edited and mixed by Andrew Geary - https://twitter.com/spelledgeary
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ROB KANDELL has spent the last 10 years working with literally thousands of people on the charged topics of love, sex, and intimacy with the international company he co-founded, OneTaste. Through his company, Kandell Consulting, he helps artists and visionaries, and thought leaders manifest their ideas by breaking them down into finite, minute steps so they can get […]