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Best podcasts about those confused

Latest podcast episodes about those confused

Electric Intimacy
E42: A Personal Healing with Robert Kendall

Electric Intimacy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2023 49:38


Even though I listened to the entire BBC Podcast Series and watched the Netflix documentary, I am glad I didn't realize who Robert Kendall was until I started interviewing him.Don't know who he is? If that's the case, I invite you to listen to the show and let it unfold for you, as it did for me. Here is some of what you'll find in today's episode:How and experience at Burning Man in the 90s helped open intuition.Because he didn't trust himself, he entered into a community, and after a decade, it took him a year to plan his escape.How he continues his work supporting women.Robert apologizes to Betsy for any harm done by the organization he helped co-found.Robert's Website:www.RobertKandell.comunHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them:https://robertkandell.com/book/Sign up for the free Masterclass Intuition 101: How to Trust Yourself in Uncertain Times here:https://howtotrustyourintuition.com/To get your free session and sign up for Maya Diamond's program, go here:https://empowerlove.us/apply/(Make sure you mention this podcast to get your free 60-minute one-on-one bonus session with Maya via zoom, worth $500!)Follow us on Instagram: @howtotrustyourintuition https://www.instagram.com/howtotrustyourintuition/Sign up for the free Masterclass Intuition 101: How to Trust Yourself in Uncertain Times here: https://howtotrustyourintuition.com/ To get your free session and sign up for Maya Diamond's program, go here:https://empowerlove.us/apply/(Use the code BETSY 100 to get your free 60-minute one-on-one bonus session with Maya via Zoom, worth $500!)Follow us on Instagram: @howtotrustyourintuition https://www.instagram.com/howtotrustyourintuition/ If you don't trust yourself, who will?

Ian Wants To Learn
Episode 18... Can You Live Off the Grid?

Ian Wants To Learn

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 52:03


In this week's episode Ian wants to Learn... Well, he could just Google it... Or ask Alexa... Or check his phone, or say OK Google, or use his Nest or facebook or Instagram Messenger, or send a text, phone call or email. Maybe he can see where he's been and try there, or an advertisement will be targeted at his exact need in this moment, divine intervention if you will, from the almighty Algorithm. Or he can just get away from it all, go live in a cave..... until He's Evicted. Also, R.I.P. Cat. 00:17- What do you want to learn about today? 00:40- WHY do you want to learn this...? 02:45- Ian talks about a Big Bummer. involving Cats 07:50- Sources 08:10- Can You Live Without a Phone? 08:50- What Tech Companies know about You 09:00- What does Google Know About You? 09:55- How to manage Ads on Google 10:05- Location History in Google 11:50- Alternative, Privacy Focused, Browsers 12:05- Amazon Knows... 15:40- Alexa

The Intimate Marriage Podcast
41. Evolving Individually Through Growth in Relationship, with Morgan Mellas and Rob Kandell

The Intimate Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 31:50


When two emotionally mature adults build a relationship together, amazing things are possible. Morgan and Rob describe their journey, and what it called forth from each of them as they created the depth, juiciness, and joy they share with one another as they meet life's challenges. Together. We discuss controlling women, acquiescence to “the Feminine”, wounding from our relationships with our mothers along with the collision of beliefs about what it takes to have a successful relationship. Through all of that Rob and Morgan continue to find the “yes, and” that becomes possible with deeper listening, open hearts and open minds. BIO: Morgan Kandell is passionate about Functional Medicine, becoming her Limitless Self, self-centering and changing the distorted reality in which we are creating ourselves from within. Robert Kandell is an experienced veteran in many industries. Leaving his corporate job at the height of San Francisco's dotcom explosion, he started his first consulting business in 1999, creating technological solutions for premier financial firms. He then leveraged his business acumen to cofound his first business guiding it from a paper-napkin sketch to an eight-figure international corporation before exiting in 2014. He currently works as a Fractional CFO for several companies. In addition to his business and management skills, Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer. In 2018, he published his first book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them, which is an international best-seller. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Inc, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, The Atlantic, Time, The Huffington Post, and Vice.  Book - unHidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them: https://amzn.to/3zRsvWi Alexandra's website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage

The Intimate Marriage Podcast with Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Evolving Individually Through Growth in Relationship, with Morgan Mellas and Rob Kandell

The Intimate Marriage Podcast with Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 31:50


When two emotionally mature adults build a relationship together, amazing things are possible. Morgan and Rob describe their journey, and what it called forth from each of them as they created the depth, juiciness, and joy they share with one another as they meet life's challenges. Together. We discuss controlling women, acquiescence to “the Feminine”, wounding from our relationships with our mothers along with the collision of beliefs about what it takes to have a successful relationship. Through all of that Rob and Morgan continue to find the “yes, and” that becomes possible with deeper listening, open hearts and open minds. BIO: Morgan Kandell is passionate about Functional Medicine, becoming her Limitless Self, self-centering and changing the distorted reality in which we are creating ourselves from within. Robert Kandell is an experienced veteran in many industries. Leaving his corporate job at the height of San Francisco's dotcom explosion, he started his first consulting business in 1999, creating technological solutions for premier financial firms. He then leveraged his business acumen to cofound his first business guiding it from a paper-napkin sketch to an eight-figure international corporation before exiting in 2014. He currently works as a Fractional CFO for several companies. In addition to his business and management skills, Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer. In 2018, he published his first book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them, which is an international best-seller. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Inc, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, The Atlantic, Time, The Huffington Post, and Vice.   Book - unHidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them: https://amzn.to/3zRsvWi (https://amzn.to/3zRsvWi) Alexandra's website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage

Daily Devotional By Archbishop Foley Beach
More Important This Day than Ever for You to Talk the Talk and Walk the Walk of God’s Word to Those Confused and Fearful of the World

Daily Devotional By Archbishop Foley Beach

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2020 1:00


More Important This Day than Ever for You to Talk the Talk and Walk the Walk of God’s Word to Those Confused and Fearful of the World MESSAGE SUMMARY: In today’s “Social Distancing”, sharing God’s Word my seem difficult; but people are thirsting for hope and answers for their fear and uncertainty -- God’s Word has their answers. They can hear God’s Word when you speak up at every opportunity; but, more importantly, they can see Christ and God’s Word in you by the way you live and personally handle issues in this Coronavirus world.  Jesus expects you to go and to make Disciples while sharing God’s Word. In normative times, God’s Word can best be shared through your personal relationships. However, today, your mission fields are everywhere! When you discuss the Gospel with those you know well, you are often inhibited and constrained. Paul tells you, in Romans 1:16, that you should never be ashamed to communicate the Gospel: “I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek.". When you communicate stories of your life situations and experiences with the people you know and with whom you have relationships, they will ask you questions. From these conversational questions will come a natural discourse about your faith and relationship with Jesus in your life because you are a follower of Jesus. In Mark 5:19-20, Jesus was very explicit that we are to go to our “friends” and tell them of Jesus’ good news: “’Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.’ And he went away and began to proclaim in the Decapolis how much Jesus had done for him, and everyone marveled.". Jesus, in Luke 9:26, also, cautioned us about being ashamed or constrained in communicating His Word: “For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.". It is more important today than ever for you both talk the talk and walk the walk of God’s Word at every opportunity!   TODAY’S AFFIRMATION: Today, I affirm that, because I am in Jesus Christ, I will live as Jesus would. (Philippians 1:27). “I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.”. (Philippians 4:14). SCRIPTURE REFERENCE (ESV): Luke 11:5-8; Matthew 28:18-20; Matthew 16:13-20; Psalms 71a:1-12. THIS SUNDAY’S AUDIO SERMON: You can listen to Archbishop Beach’s Current Sunday Sermon: “God Wants Us to Live In His “Hope” and His Word, through Bible Scripture, which Gives us so Much “Hope”", at our Website: https://awtlser.podbean.com/ WEBSITE LINK TO DR. BEACH’S SERMON VIDEO – “We All Need “Hope” in Today’s World of Fear, Doubt in Our Faith, and Feelings of “Hopelessness”; and God Is this “Hope””:  www.AWFTL.org/watch DONATE TO AWFTL: https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXDonateNow?id=a0Ui000000DglsqEAB

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good Time

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2020 38:52


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin. 3:54 – I had a good time 7:50 – A space to express love 10:00 – Committing to changing 12:51 – A story about bedbugs 17:38 – Ego guiding work 20:32 – Surfing the wave of Covid-19 22:32 – Rob’s father wound 25:21 – Ending the podcast 26:46 – Letting go and having faith 28:35 – Having space to reflect 29:07 – Comments from listeners 34:44 – Thank you’s Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
257: Stopping Corrupted Love with Vanya Silverten

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2020 35:56


Vanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people – from children to royalty. Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic understanding of how the body, mind and soul function through her extensive training and experience. She passes this knowledge on by teaching and qualifying students to become practitioners of Theta Healing® Vanya is a qualified Nutritional Therapist. She has studied and worked extensively with herbs, vitamins, homeopathy and Australian Bush Flower Essences. Vanya is experienced at helping her clients overcome food allergies, hormonal and nervous problems. In 2015, Vanya became a mother to a beautiful daughter. This life-changing experience has deepened her appreciation of the female body temple and it’s potential to reach heightened states of sensual enlightenment. She shares these teachings in her women’s workshops, retreats and online courses. 1:49 – How corrupted love affected Vanya 5:27 – Understanding and transforming our stories 8:26 – Letting go of identities 10:38 – Techniques to help someone let go of their stories 14:04 – How she works with people 16:36 – How she started reading energy 19:44 – Theta healing 21:39 – Changes in Women’s sexuality 24:16 – Techniques for keeping a relationship intimate 28:15 – Understanding how our family lineage impacts us Find Vanya at: www.VanyaSilverten.com As well as her Free Courses: courses.vanyasilverten.com/collections?category=free Her book “Sacred Revolution: A Woman’s Path to Love, Power & Sensual Enlightenment” www.amazon.com/Sacred-Revolution-Womans-Sensual-Enlightenment/dp/198224352X And her Instagram: www.Instagram.com/VanyaSilverten Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
256: Myths of Age and Romance with Violent Lange

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2020 34:04


Violet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby. 1:42 – Violet’s background 5:19 – How she helps women find fulfilling relationships 7:31 – Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success 10:24 – Helping women connect with their desires 12:42 – How long does it take? 15:09 – Being okay with being single 16:28 – Disproving the myth of “Men aren’t interested in women my age” 19:29 – Disproving the myth of “There are no good men out there” 20:54 – Recommended dating apps 22:51 – Tips for using dating apps 24:05 – Continuing exploring “There are no good men out there” 27:05 – Disproving the myth of “I have too much baggage” 29:33 – Sexuality over 50 Find Violet at: VioletLange.com/Talk As well as Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/FreeYourFeminine/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/VioletLoveLange Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
255: Xponential Intelligence with Mas Sajady

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2020 44:02


Mas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state. From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge enlightened him with the limitless possibilities in human potential. Today, Mas fulfills his purpose by helping others reprogram and elevate their frequency, to activate their inner force and experience life from a place of confidence, stability, significance, and abundance. As the founder of Xponential Intelligence, Mas facilitates rapid changes through quantum reprogramming, which eliminate old dynamic energy partners. During sessions with Mas, regardless of whether you share your problems with him or not, he will discover and eliminate what has obstructed your life in the past. Mas has counseled tens of thousands of people around the world and has worked with business leaders, influencers, professional athletes, celebrities, royal families, and Fortune 500 executives from companies such as Capital Records, Starbucks, Facebook, Fox, Microsoft, FedEx, and many more. As a philanthropist, Mas donates his time to assist schools, hospitals, special needs organizations, and low income communities. In his spare time, Mas enjoys time with his family, travel, adventures, and various philanthropic activities that elevate the human consciousness. 2:24 – What is Xponential Intelligence? 9:14 – Generating frequencies 17:19 – The limitations of modern mindfulness practices 19:32 – Is Xponential Intelligence God? 22:16 – Connecting to one’s source and love 27:21 – Gender reversals 35:12 – Questions from Facebook 38:49 – Focusing on driving change externally versus internally 41:44 – Details of Das’ Sunday Metahealing sessions Find Mas Sajady at: https://mas-sajady.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/Mas_Sajady Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
254: Men in the Time of Coronavirus with Adam Gilad

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2020 37:23


Adam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives. 2:30 – Adam’s experience of 2020 so far 9:19 – The impact on children 11:23 – Men in Coronavirus 16:35 – A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of listening 25:18 – Being in relationships with differences 29:51 – The Bold Life Brotherhood Find Adam at: www.TheBoldLifeBrotherhood.com As well as: Instagram: www.instagram.com/RealAdamGilad And Email: IAmAdamGilad@gmail.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
253: What It Means To Be A Woman Today with Anna Rova

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2020 43:02


Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called “Claimed” that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations. Together with her husband, Anna has traveled the world being on the road full-time building her coaching practice, writing her personal blog, recording episodes on Girlskill Podcast, practicing yoga, and spreading love and positivity. In December 2018, Anna gave birth to her first child and is currently residing in Australia continuing to coach women all over the world. 2:09 – Anna’s work and an overview of three lies about female success 4:15 – Recent changes that have led to the current state of being for women 8:18 – Previous gender roles 12:13 – Men not stepping up to the level of empowered women 15:54 – Gender roles in media 22:48 – Evolutionary psychology 28:03 – Monogamy and men’s drive away from it 30:48 – Three lies about female success in-depth 31:17 – Lie 1: Women can and should do it all 35:01 – Lie 2: Feminine power is in independence and strength 37:17 – Lie 3: Femininity is weakness Find Anna at: Home As well as her webinar on How to Start Attracting Committed Masculine Men by Releasing Control & Letting Him Lead: https://girlskill.com/webinar And her Instagram: www.instagram.com/annarova Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
252: Rob Rant: It’s Okay Not To Know

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2020 25:16


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the large array of uncertainty across the world and in his own life during this time. Rob explores COVID, Black Lives Matter, the economic and political situation in the USA, as well as his relationship with his father and life partner. He outlines how while it’s okay not to know, it shouldn’t stop you: do the internal work to know yourself and all aspects of your being. 3:23 – My superpowers 6:37 – Things Rob doesn’t have certainty around 8:52 – Black Lives Matter 12:44 – The economic and political situation in the USA 15:07 – Rob’s dad’s death 18:25 – His relationship with Morgan 19:57 – Staying conscious 22:12 – Surrender versus acquiescence: know thyself 23:16 – Being okay with what is Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
251: FLAUNT Yourself with Lora Cheadle

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 42:20


Lora Cheadle is a transformational thought leader and media personality who empowers women to express themselves fully, find uninhibited joy, and gracefully take the lead in the dance of life despite any external circumstances. She is the author of the bestselling book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self that is available wherever books are sold. Listen to her podcast or find out more at www.loracheadle.com where you can download your free Bundle of JOY gift pack. 1:47 – Acknowledging the outcries following George Floyd’s death 5:20 – Who is Lora? 8:51 – Life choreographer 13:09 – Fears dictating one’s life 17:01 – Being curious about life’s difficulties 19:36 – Dealing with infidelity 22:13 – Working with Lora: FLAUNT 29:41 – Why “Finding Your Fetish”? 32:36 – Working towards Accepting Unconditionally 36:14 – Undoing false beliefs Find Lora at: LoraCheadle.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/LifeChoreographer/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/LoraCheadle/ Her Bundle of Joy Gift Pack: Bundle of Joy As well as her FLAUNT Flock Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/FlauntFlock/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
250: The Power of Polarity in Relationships with Arielle Brown

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2020 43:59


In this episode, Rob welcomes long-time friend and colleague Arielle Brown to discuss the premise for the workshop that they held on June 17th 2020. Arielle describes the workshop as follows: “The degree of power and influence we have in our life is directly related to the amount of sensation we can hold in our body. Similarly, the level of ability we have to create real, authentic connection in our lives is directly related to our ability to hold polarity within our body. To “hold polarity”, in my definition, means to be able to hold (at least) two perspectives, truths, or belief systems within our awareness that seem to DIRECTLY conflict with each other. The cultivation of holding polarity is a practice in personal mastery, because in a world that has taught us to believe that being “right” is what creates safety, allowing ourselves to consider and hold a perspective that directly challenges our belief systems is a great threat to our (Ego) identity. Robert Kandell and I have built much of our respective bodies of work around intimacy, sexuality, communication, and human relating, on the premise that true safety is based on our ability to be CONNECTED in our relationships, rather than being RIGHT.” 3:09 – The motivation for Rob and Arielle’s workshop 6:43 – Being honest with your partner and yourself 11:23 – Different speeds of evolution in relationships 13:36 – Doing inner work and how it affects relationships 16:48 – What is distortion? 17:56 – Jealousy and polarity 23:24 – Why did Rob start this work? 30:17 – What do men need? 32:53 – Women holding space for men 36:04 – The impact of shifts in relationships on sex 41:19 – Their workshop To get a flavor of what was covered, check out these videos: What Does it Mean When Something Is Polarizing?: What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? Posted by Arielle Brown on Tuesday, May 19, 2020 Polarity Workshop Teaser with Arielle & Rob: Tuff Love: A Teaser for Our Polarity Workshop for Couples w/ Arielle Brown Arielle recently invited me to do a workshop with her around the concept of relationship, polarity, relationship, and communication. I said immediately, I'm IN!The price is $48/person for 12 people. Benefit is that you'll be part of the course. In other words, interactive! Afterwards, we'll post the replay for the cost of an email address.TO REGISTER: SEE THE LINK BELOW IN THE COMMENTSSome questions that will be discussed:>> How do we navigate the dance of opposites in our romantic relationship when your desires and belief systems directly contradict your partner’s?>> How do you honor your inner boundaries while staying curious and receptive to opposing perspectives?COME JOIN US!Arielle Brown is a teacher of intimacy energetics and spiritual embodiment, with a focus on erotic intelligence and transparent communication skills. Through her private coaching work, group containers, and online courses, Arielle has cultivated a body of work addressing the increasing need for evolutionary approaches to intimacy, sexuality, and spirituality that facilitate power-WITH (vs. power-OVER) models of relating. Her work emphasizes shadow integration and the unification of polarities in service to self-actualization and somatic awakening.Robert Kandell known as “The Modern Mantor,” is an interpersonal communications and relationship expert, speaker, podcaster and author. His focus lies in navigating and educating the public around the modern man and his many nuances in the modern era. Kandell is the host of a podcast called TuffLove – Your Pragmatic guide to relationships, sex and purpose in the 21st century and author of an Amazon #1 Best Seller – unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Confused By Them. Posted by Robert Kandell on Thursday, May 28, 2020 Find Arielle at: www.ArielleBrown.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
249: Pain Into Pleasure with Aimee Batuski

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2020 40:37


While Aimee spent her first two years out of college building a career in corporate Manhattan, it quickly became clear to her that her passion was wilder than that. She packed her apartment and shipped herself all the way across the country to Los Angeles, where everything in her life as she knew it made a complete 180… except her love life. Without a job or an income, she found a home with her friends, hired her first Life Coach, and started building her own business. On paper, her life was shaping up, but she found she was still struggling to feel good in her skin and find romance. When a friend invited her to a transformational course about intimacy and orgasm, she was terrified. But she knew it was the next step for her – she was desperate to learn anything that could turn things around for her sex life. Within six months, her entire life was unrecognizable. Learning to live from her desire absolutely changed her experience of herself. For the first time, she was finally loving her body, living less in her head and feeling more connected to her intuition. She started meeting great men, and having deep, meaningful relationships, AND connected, pleasurable sex. She had to share what she’d learned, and before long, she was sharing the work with all her friends and clients. She learned that her new commitment to living life pleasurably was a professional passion too. In the years since she moved here, she’s coached successful women from entrepreneurs to mothers, artists, C-Suite executives and even other coaches across the country. she’s given talks to major organizations, led retreats internationally, and she’s only just begun. In saying yes, she finally discovered self-development work that wasn’t only focused on her career or other relationships (I had that stuff mastered); there was a whole world to explore around her desire, intimacy, and connection with others. After that initial course, she fully immersed herself in trainings and retreats all centred around sexuality, eroticism, relationships and desire. Today, she wants to find out how she can help you fall in love with yourself and your life as much as she has. Don’t waste another day feeling uncomfortable in your skin, feeling disconnected in your romantic life, or having unfulfilling sex! 4:53 – Her journey 6:56 – Not trusting men 9:59 – Weakened sexuality 12:22 – Being conscious on dating apps 15:25 – Pleasure is not just sex 18:17 – Self-pleasure as a practice 21:59 – Sexual experiences and processing resentment to men 28:20 – Breaking out of the loop of unconscious dating and sexuality 32:14 – Techniques for finding pleasure in everyday life Find Aimee at: www.AimeeBatuski.com As well as her Instagram: www.instagram.com/AimeeBatuski The Turned on Tribe – Desire On Fire Community: www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire Instagram: www.instagram.com/DesireOnFire Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
248: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? With Blake Boles

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2020 38:00


Blake Boles is the founder and director of Unschool Adventures and the author of Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School?, The Art of Self-Directed Learning, Better Than College, and College Without High School. He hosts the Off-Trail Learning podcast and has delivered over 75 presentations for education conferences, alternative schools, and parent groups. Blake and his work have appeared on The New York Times, The Christian Science Monitor, BBC Travel, Psychology Today, Fox Business, TEDx, The Huffington Post, USA Today, NPR affiliate radio, and the blogs of Wired and The Wall Street Journal. In 2003 Blake was studying astrophysics at UC Berkeley when he stumbled upon the works of John Taylor Gatto, Grace Llewellyn, and other alternative education pioneers. Deeply inspired by the philosophy of unschooling, Blake custom-designed his final two years of college to focus exclusively on education theory. After graduating he joined the Not Back to School Camp community and began writing and speaking widely on the subject of self-directed learning. In his previous lives, Blake worked as a high-volume cook, delivery truck driver, summer camp director, Aurora Borealis research assistant, math tutor, outdoor science teacher, camp medic, ski resort market researcher, web designer, and windsurfing instructor. His biggest passion is sharing his enthusiasm and experience with young adults who are blazing their own trails through life. He was born in 1982. 2:53 – What is unschooling? 4:21 – Blake’s background 5:30 – Facing biases and assumptions around conventional schooling 8:43 – Parents’ fears 15:31 – Games 18:18 – Alternative ways to develop skills 22:41 – Intrinsic versus external motivation 25:50 – Forcing children to attend school 29:08 – Fear of getting consent from children 31:41 – Considerations for parents Find Blake at: www.BlakeBoles.com As well as his podcast “Off Trail Learning”: www.OffTrailLearning.com/Podcast Facebook: www.facebook.com/Blake.Boles Twitter: www.twitter.com/BlakeBoles Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
247: Saving Sex for Marriage with Robb Kowalski

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2020 43:34


Rob Kowalski is a self-professed “reformed bad boy” with a riveting personal testimony from living as the biggest stripper in his hometown of Baltimore, Maryland to running the nightlife. He gave up a life of casual sex and addictions and is now the founder of the thriving non-profit, CityFam whose mission is to solve loneliness. Raised by a mother with an eighth-grade education, only fifteen years his elder and no support from his father, he taught himself how to be a man. At 19 he began working for the various entertainment agencies “to get out of the hood” and put himself through college. Oftentimes after he got off work he would go out to the nightclubs with co-workers. Because he was well known he was approached by a club owner and asked to promote a night. It wasn’t long before Rob became known for his ability to bring people together and move crowds. By 1999 he had weekly parties running in Baltimore and DC. But the lifestyle took its toll and at 27 years of age Rob had a life-changing experience and decided to head in a more positive direction. Instantly, with no real plan, Rob did what he describes as “a complete 180”, quitting his jobs and going from popular party boy to homebody. Through his journey, he discovered a major void for anyone looking to make positive changes in their life. Rob became passionate about finding a community of like-minded people, that like him were searching for “fun without regret” as well as wanting to make a positive contribution to society. When he couldn’t find it, because he was good at bringing people together and getting the word out, he created CityFam. Currently, Rob serves as the Chairman of the Board of Directors for CityFam 501(c)3. He is the author of the best-selling book, Why Waiting Works, and has the #1 video in its category worldwide on YouTube with 10 Reasons Not To Have Sex Before Marriage with over 1.5 million views and climbing. In his spare time, Rob also runs a promotion company that puts on some of the largest concerts and events in Baltimore like the Charm City Countdown New Year’s Eve Party. Rob believes in using his ability to promote social events to bring awareness to causes in the community and recruit people that may have never volunteered to serve. Rob believes that if you socialize with the right group and give back to the community, YOU change and become the best version of yourself. Rob is working on opening a coffee bar/live music venue called HOME. It will serve as a meeting place for anyone craving deep, meaningful connections and redefine how people self-actualize. Rob’s story has recently been featured in numerous publications including; Daily Mirror, Chat, Daily Mail, Antena Stars, Trinitas, God TV, and others. 3:05 – Rob’s story 6:43 – Male role models from movies 8:03 – His relationship with his mother 9:40 – Statistics regarding sex and marriage 12:20 – How much does waiting matter? 17:45 – Why not something in the middle? 22:33 – Non-monogamous relationships and communication 29:10 – What about people evolving with time? 31:32 – Men and women in waiting for marriage for sex 35:33 – How do you know you won’t lose connection after having sex in marriage? 36:42 – Cityfam Find Rob at: www.RobbKowalski.com As well as his book “Why Waiting Works”: https://WhyWaitingWorks.net YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/RobbKowalski Instagram: http://instagram.com/RobbKowalski Twitter: Tweets by rbkowalski1 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
246: Moving from 3D to 4D to 5D with Taylor Simpson

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2020 47:44


Taylor Simpson is a sought after Motivational Speaker, a Podcast Host and Online Mindset Coach. Through her methodology of combining Science, Spirituality, and Mysticism, Taylor helps women around the world tap into the Frequency of Money and step into their unique Super Power, allowing them to live the Abundant life they desire – unapologetically. With her unique ability to infuse light frequencies into her work, Taylor guides women through an entire DNA & Soul Upgrade process where they find themselves in a new dimension on the other side. Taylor has been featured in The Washingtonian, Very WellFit, Reader’s Digest and spoken on stages such as EventLuv, Align & Rise, Mary Kay and many others. It is Taylor’s mission to wake women up to their true potential so they can be the magical goddesses they’re meant to be. 3:39 – Taylor’s story 10:25 – 3D, 4D, and 5D living 15:08 – Unschooling ourselves 19:50 – The Law of Attraction 24:53 – Taking responsibility for our state 26:33 – Manifesting experiences in our lives 31:24 – The age of Ascension 35:36 – Living in an age of greater adversity 42:29 – Pragmatic steps for moving into your next level Find Taylor at: www.AbundanceRewired.com As well as her guided Money Meditation: www.AbundanceRewired.com/Meditation Her podcast “A Taylored Adventure To Happiness”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-taylored-adventure-to-happiness/id1044301397 And Instagram: www.instagram.com/IAmTaylorSimpson Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
245: Compassionately Dismantling the Patriarchy with Harriette Hale

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 46:08


Harriette is the UK’s Leading Certified Soul, Money and Mindset coach. A serial entrepreneur with 12 years experience and six businesses, Harriette has a global clientele base of creative and spiritual freelancers, fellow entrepreneurs and individuals on the path to self-growth and ascension. Her teaching & coaching stems from principles based in Universal Energy Law, first inspired by the well known ‘Law Of Attraction’ ideology, however, the practical side of business and life coaching takes equal precedence. As the High Priestess of Light, Harriette also applies her energy healing, energy reading, and powerful psychic channel to coaching and mastermind sessions to create a truly life-transforming result. Author of ‘The Knowing’, public speaker, and general Light-bringer-about-town, Harriette is both down to earth and fully tuned in to the Universe, on her mission to bring the true meaning of Abundance back to Planet Earth. 2:30 – What’s going on in the world? 5:09 – Fear 8:40 – The importance of negative emotions 13:50 – What is a high priestess? 19:31 – Connecting to one’s intuition 22:48 – Compassionately dismantling the patriarchy 28:04 – #MeToo and communication 30:56 – Flowing between masculine and feminine 35:24 – Advice for couples 38:26 – The importance of patience with partners Find Harriette at: www.AskHarriette.co.uk As well as her School of Mastery: Waiting List Instagram: www.instagram.com/HarrietteHale Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
244: Origins of Skewed Masculinity with Johnny Elsasser

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2020 38:58


Johnny is a former special operations U.S. Army Ranger with 4 combat tours between Iraq and Afghanistan. After the military Johnny worked for a private company protecting the U.S. Ambassador to Iraq in Baghdad for 5 years. After spending almost 10 years in and out of the Middle East, Johnny struggled with his transition to the daily life of being back home. Johnny decided that he needed to support other men struggling with similar experiences and in doing so he developed his new purpose. Johnny has seen the field of masculinity from an extremely alpha perspective and knows the trials and tribulations the hardest men deal with. Through his podcast and social media platforms, Johnny has taken his experience to follow a new mission helping men realize they are not alone and through techniques ranging from rewiring their synaptic responses and incorporating internal awareness, they can build a life where they are no longer alone, depressed, and fighting to find purpose. 3:12 – Johnny’s story 7:40 – Relationship to men inside the military 12:07 – Leadership and association 14:07 – Adversity and intimacy 15:38 – The concept behind his work 18:50 – Templates of masculinity 21:34 – His work and what differentiates him 24:44 – The Alpha Male shell 28:41 – Looking at one’s current and desired masculinity 31:58 – The door handle check 34:42 – A success story Find Johnny at: JohnnyElsasser.com As well as his email: Johnny@JohnnyElsasser.com Facebook: www.Facebook.com/The.Johnny.Elsasser And: www.Facebook.com/ArtOfMasculinity Instagram: www.Instagram.com/Johnny.Elsasser Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
243: Why Aren’t Couples Having Sex? with Megan Lambert

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 36:20


Megan Lambert is an intimacy expert, specializing in helping couples reignite their sex life, and singles dismantle walls to love in order to find their life partner. She offers 1:1 and couples’ coaching as well as workshops and retreats around the world. She holds a summa cum laude double BA in psychology and neuroscience from the University of Southern California. She spent 4 years as an executive leadership coach and facilitator for Fortune 100 companies before leaving the corporate world to start her own company. She’s a master-level certified relationship & sexuality coach, with 5 years of experience helping hundreds of people experience more connection, intimacy, and love in their lives. She currently lives in Ubud, Bali where she leads workshops along with ecstatic dance and yoga classes. 2:20 – Her journey to where she is today 5:22 – Love and sex during quarantine 8:20 – What is significance? 10:29 – Opening up in her own relationship 12:40 – Bringing both partners’ needs into a relationship 14:32 – Coaching women who think there are no good men 18:04 – Phases of sexuality in her own relationship 20:44 – Working with a couple where one partner is not open 23:52 – Self-exploration practices 26:28 – A success story 28:12 – The comfort of resentment 29:20 – Fem Rising retreats 30:56 – Fear of desire 33:02 – Her big desire Find Megan at: www.MeganDLambert.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/MeganDLambert And LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/megandlambert Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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242: Rob Rant: How Plandemic Almost Ended My Marriage

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2020 34:31


In this week’s episode, following his recent experiences with his partner, Rob rants about movies such as Plandemic and the impact they make on the relationships people have. Rob dives into exploring his own prejudices and judgements, as well as looking at examples of how others have reacted, and how people can overcome the chasms created to reach new levels of connection. 3:07 – What happened 6:59 – Critical thinking resources 8:40 – Watching one’s judgements rise up 11:22 – What it means to be triggered 13:17 – Men and chauvinism 16:09 – Reflecting on his relationship goal 17:39 – Four key belief systems for connection 19:41 – “What I know about what I know” 23:55 – How films like Plandemic are impacting relationships 27:23 – Going forward 32:26 – How things are now Sources mentioned: – Plandemic the Movie – Website taken down. Get a big mug of joe and google Plandemic – London Real – https://londonreal.tv/1000000-fighting-for-freedom/ – Out of Shadows – https://www.outofshadows.org/ – Daniel Pinchbeck ‘s post – https://www.facebook.com/daniel.pinchbeck/posts/10156844763101262 – Roy Piper’s excellent post – https://www.facebook.com/KingOfMilwaukee/posts/10157962376426999 – Aaron Nichols’ post – https://www.facebook.com/aaron.nichols.10000/posts/2886056461480154 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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241: Brave Conversations with Elisabeth Cardiello

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2020 40:07


This infinitely curious, coffee-loving, Brooklyn native had business cards at six and her first product on shelves at 13. After graduating from college, where she played Division 1 soccer, and business school with highest honors, she spent four years on Wall Street, at an investment bank and at a $4 billion alternative asset management fund. She dealt with loss, found her passion, more loss and learned the meaning of post-traumatic growth. She started a coffee company called Caffè Unimatic, with an awe-inspiring story, featured in the Netflix documentary “Coffee For All”. She has gone on to create a line of coffee, give two TEDx talks, co-found an education company to deploy the methodology designed to instill an unshakable sense of confidence and resilience in college-age women and started speaking in the US and abroad. Most recently, she’s combined her passions and become host of Brave Conversations Over Coffee, a workshop series, whose structure is rooted in neuroscience and grounded in the world’s favorite morning ritual, to help us trust ourselves more and become someone that others can trust as well. Her family is still wondering where that shy nine-year-old went… 3:34 – Her coffee business, Unimatic 9:34 – Dealing with moments of doubt 16:22 – The motivation behind brave conversations over coffee 18:31 – What makes a brave conversation? 21:49 – How to listen: B.R.A.V.E. 27:30 – Responses to her work in businesses 30:32 – Isolation 33:18 – Future tripping 34:20 – How Unimatic works Find Elisabeth at: BraveConversationsOverCoffee.com As well as: www.CaffeUnimatic.com Her TEDx Talk: www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPzhFB6ZzNk Instagram: www.instagram.com/CaffeUnimatic Twitter: www.twitter.com/CaffeUnimatic Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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240: How to Speak More Truth with David Wood

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 43:03


A former Consulting Actuary to Fortune 100 companies – including Sony Music, Chanel, and Exxon – David left his cushy Park Avenue job 20 years ago to build the world’s largest coaching business. He became #1 on Google for “life coaching”, serving an audience of 150,000 coaches, and coaching thousands of hours in 12 countries around the globe. Alongside his clients’ successes, David is no stranger to overcoming challenges himself, having survived a full collapse of his paraglider and a fractured spine, witnessing the death of his sister at age seven, anxiety and depression, and a national Gong Show! He is the author of “Get Paid For Who You Are,” with a foreword by Jack Canfield. He was nominated to the Transformational Leadership Council alongside such thought leaders as Don Miguel Ruiz, John Gray, and Presidential Candidate Marianne Williamson. David believes that the tough conversations we avoid are our doorways to confidence, success, and love. They become the defining moments which shape our careers, our relationships, and our lives. He coaches high performing entrepreneurs, executives and teams – and now prison inmates – to create amazing results and deep connection. One tough conversation at a time. 2:31 – Speaking your truth more 4:04 – Why people do not speak the hard truth 7:01 – Vulnerability 8:28 – Benefits of difficult conversations and an embarrassing story 14:10 – Withholding communication 16:01 – David’s Case Model 16:17 – 1. Clarify 22:21 – 2. Ask permission 25:14 – 3. Share 26:10 – 4. Enquire 27:09 – Importance of brevity in sharing 29:31 – Mediums of communication 31:15 – What if things go bad? 34:44 – Sticking with it through difficulties Find David at: www.PlayForReal.life As well as his free Tough Conversations CARE Model: www.playforreal.life/blueprint And his podcast “Tough Conversation with David Wood: www.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tough-conversations-with-david-wood/id1485812446 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
239: Less Takeout, More Makeout with Marc Wendt

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2020 38:54


Marc Wendt began his coaching journey at age 9, working with the children of his parents’ clients, during weekend workshops based on the work of Thomas Harris’ book, “I am Ok You’re Ok” Since then he has gone on to have a professional career in the film industry, and for the last several years as a Personal Coach. Marc has completed formal coaches training programs with Ken Blackman and Alexandra Stockwell in their year-long “Coaching Dojo”, Brig Feltus’ “ReMember Institute Curriculum for Diversity Consciousness”, and Zat Baraka Elias’ “Men’s Wisdom Work Coaches Training”. Additionally, he continues to expand his personal development and integrity through ongoing transformational work with his own personal coaches. In addition to his full-time personal coaching business, he administers a 3500 person Facebook group dedicated to quantum masculine development, leads online workshops dedicated to developing men’s intimacy, EQ, and communication skills, and is a musician, songwriter, and screenplay writer. 2:43 – Marc’s practice of “Less Take Out More Makeout” 6:03 – Getting started 10:22 – Sensuality versus sexuality 11:52 – Outcomes of the practice 16:42 – Recommendations for men who work full time 17:56 – Genders and housework 22:40 – Practical tips for preparing meals 26:10 – Mistakes and war stories 29:57 – His coaching work 34:59 – Listening to the body in business Find Marc at: www.MarcWendtCoaching.com As well as his initiative “Less Take Out More Makeout”: www.LessTakeOutMoreMakeout.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/MarcWendtCoaching Instagram: www.instagram.com/MarcWendtCoaching Twitter: www.twitter.com/MarcWendtCoach LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/marc-wendt-1a6b26/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
238: Navigating Relationships in the Time of CV with Rachel Wright

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2020 35:32


Psychotherapist Rachel Wright is recognized as one of the freshest voices on millennial and couple-preneur relationships. She and her husband Kyle co-founded Wright Wellness Center in 2016 to bridge the gap between a self-help book and a therapist’s couch. Together, they’re changing how we approach relationships, sex, and mental health. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel has worked with thousands of couples all over the world, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe and is also a sex educator, writer, and co-host of the popular Bachelor-themed podcast, The Wright Reasons. Rachel has been featured widely in the media including Cheddar TV, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Simplify Magazine, InStyle, CNN, Women’s Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CNN, Refinery29, MindBodyGreen, Bustle, and dozens of other outlets. She currently lives in New York City, where she nurtures her love for all things musical theatre. Learn more at wrightwellnesscenter.com or by following @thewright_rachel on Instagram. 3:31 – Who is Rachel Wright? 5:51 – Lack of personality in a therapist 8:19 – Becoming more public 10:19 – Relationships during the CV pandemic 16:54 – Boundaries and when to say “No” 23:53 – Quarantining with others 30:50 – Polyamorous dating Find Rachel at: www.WrightWellnessCenter.com As well as her support group during CV: www.rachelwrightnyc.com/supportgroup Facebook: www.facebook.com/RachelGibbsWright Instagram: www.instagram.com/TheWright_Rachel Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
237: Your Permission Slip with Madelyn Moon

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2020 40:44


Madelyn Moon is a walking permission slip, embodiment teacher and transformational coach. Her mission is to help women and men unify all pieces, including the Feminine with Masculine, Light with Dark, Introvert with Extrovert and Doing with Being. Through transformational experiences such as coaching, shadow work, spiritual healing, polarity, and Feminine and Masculine embodiment, Maddy will warmly guide you deeper into your own truth. Her work and story have been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice, Greatist, Men’s Health, PEOPLE and ABC News Nightline. She’s hosted the popular Mind Body Musings podcast for nearly six years, ranking in the Top-50 of ALL TIME in the U.S. and Great Britain in Self Improvement. 3:06 – Experiences on the street during this time 9:35 – Coping mechanisms 14:02 – Addressing unconscious distractions 18:34 – A society of disapproval 21:44 – Productivity and comparison 25:36 – Her recent life-changing experience 28:16 – Her personal embodiment practice 33:35 – A practice for frustration and anger Find Maddy at: www.MaddyMoon.com Her workshop with Jamie Wollrab “The Embodied Archetype”: www.MaddyMoon.com/Events As well as her freebies: www.MaddyMoon.com/FreeGift Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
236: How to Find Your F*#$k Yes in Your Life with Sandra Bershad

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020 43:28


Sandra Bershad, M.A. is a visionary mentor and awakening catalyst deeply devoted to empowering people in becoming intimate with the resonance of their highest truth and inner guidance. She is on a mission to create spaces of radical permission that invite individuals to tap into the full spectrum of their inner knowing, visions, gifts, and the specific genius they are meant to share. As a truth resonator and amplifier, she strives to demystify the perception that we need something outside ourselves to connect with our intrinsic nature that is infinite, innately wise, and already whole. Her approach has been forged through rigorous study of the merging between mind, body, spirit, and hard science, a deep passion for healing and growth, and the clinical application of therapeutic modalities, healing arts, and spiritual traditions. She has a Master’s Degree in Mindfulness-based Transpersonal Counseling Psychology and dual Bachelor’s Degrees in Somatic Psychology and Psychology of Health and Healing. Recognized for her intuitive gifts and psychic abilities, she has appeared on Anderson Cooper, Psychic Children: Their Sixth Sense, Good Morning America, and The Doctors. 2:30 – Sovereignty and freedom 6:18 – Rob’s experience of starting to live “unhidden” 11:37 – Self-sabotaging our own freedom and sovereignty 14:36 – Early TV appearances starting as a 17-year-old 20:02 – Her journey from being ungrounded to being balanced 25:03 – Approaches to healing 29:45 – The importance of commitment to one’s self-work 31:59 – Her approach to healing 38:59 – A success story from one of her clients Find Sandra at: www.SandieBershad.com As well as Facebook: www.facebook.com/SandieBershad8 And Instagram: www.instagram.com/TheHighlySensitiveSuperwoman Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
235: StoryTime: My Sophie’s Choice

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 39:20


In this week’s episode, during a time of global challenge, Rob tells the story of his experience of his own “Sophie’s Choice” in a formative part of his life, that went on to create who he is today. Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
234: How Our Self-Worth Can Block Our Pleasure with Amanda Biccum

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 37:46


Amanda Biccum is an Evolutionary Coach dedicated to helping individuals discover deeper connections to themselves, their passion and their pleasure. She is currently living in Bali where she is the creator of Tantric workshops, temples and experiences which create deep interpersonal connections and healing spaces rooted in the work of sacred sexuality. 2:00 – Amanda’s view of what self-pleasure is 6:53 – Her road to self-discovery around self-pleasure 11:11 – First steps on the road to self-pleasure 14:22 – Showing love to our own bodies 16:28 – The relationship between self-worth and self-pleasure 19:37 – Societal values and self-worth 22:45 – Breaking feeling “I am bad” 26:54 – Initial steps for couples who have lost touch with their sexuality 34:18 – Her resources and her course “Worship the Goddess” Find Amanda at: www.InstituteOfIntegratedIntimacy.com As well as: www.amandabiccum.com And her course “Worship the Goddess”: www.InstituteOfIntegratedIntimacy.com/WorshipTheGoddess On Instagram: www.instagram.com/MadamBiccum Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
233: Modern Manhood with Cleo Stiller

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2020 42:34


Cleo Stiller is on a mission to encourage health, education and positive social action around the world. She is an award-winning journalist, speaker, and television host — and most recently, the author of Modern Manhood: Conversations About the Complicated World of Being a Good Man Today out with Simon & Schuster on November 12th, 2019. Cleo received a prestigious Peabody Award nomination for public service journalism in 2018 and an Emmy Award nomination in 2015. Her health-focused television show for Univision’s cable network Fusion is the network’s highest-performing original series premiere. Her work receives frequent coverage, including The New York Times, Rolling Stone, Fortune Magazine, PBS, Mother Jones, ABC News, Variety, Self, Essence and many more. She speaks regularly around the country about her work and social impact, most recently at New York University Global Affairs: Women’s Global Health Conference. 2:09 – The reaction to her book “Modern Manhood” 4:04 – Writing her book 9:31 – The impact of #MeToo on men 14:31 – The script given to men in the past 17:52 – New roles for women 20:30 – Reflecting on gender roles in splitting the bill 24:13 – #ItWasMe 25:23 – Men and friendship 29:44 – Why men use locker room talk 35:32 – What she would like to come from her book Find Cleo at: www.CleoStiller.net And her book “Modern Manhood”: www.amazon.com/Modern-Manhood-Conversations-About-Complicated/dp/1982132019 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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232: Rob Rant: Antagonistic vs Collaborative

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2020 34:23


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication. Pulling ideas from the key concept of James P. Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games”, as well as the work of Simon Sinek, Rob explores the games that we play and people’s relationship to scarcity in relationships and business. 3:09 – James Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games” 7:26 – Reflecting on the idea of finite and infinite games 11:54 – Being right versus being connected 13:34 – Your scarcity incites the scarcity of others 17:37 – Tone in communication 19:26 – Societal training regarding scarcity 20:21 – Servant leadership 24:03 – The effects of profit-first business 26:23 – A model of Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication 30:54 – Incentives for antagonism 32:12 – Self-antagonism Find James Carse at: www.JamesCarse.com And find Simon Sinek at: www.SimonSinek.com Find resources for Rob’s model of Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication at: www.RobertKandell.com/collaborative Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
231: Rob Rant: The Impeachment of the United States

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 20:00


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the outcome of the recent impeachment trial of Donald J. Trump, and the impact it, as well as who he is, has on the world, and its occupants. Rob explores what he sees in the president’s behaviour as it relates to bullying tactics, climate control, racism, and separation, as well as the standard set for young boys. 3:52 – Separation and speaking to a small base 5:23 – Rob’s experience of separation and racism growing up 8:02 – Trump becoming president 10:02 – Bullies and role models 12:48 – Appealing to the disempowered 14:04 – Presidential misconduct 15:45 – Questions and answers Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
230: Jealousy with Olivia Lara Owen

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2020 47:33


Olivia Lara Owen is an expert in Human Transformation, Intimacy and is a Coach and Guide for Men and Women. Olivia works with clients privately, runs online programmes, speaks publicly, writes on the internet and facilitates immersive experiences. Olivia has cultivated a body of work around the Unleashing of the Fully Expressed Self for both Men and Women. The Unleashed path is using the power of sexual embodiment to unlock your authentic expression and recreate an entirely new relationship to your power. Her next release is called The Unleashed Man guiding the modern man in how to be powerful, embodied, confident and fully expressed in his true nature. 2:47 – Jealousy 5:26 – One’s relationship with jealousy 10:55 – Rob’s experience of jealousy 15:42 – Desire and jealousy 19:19 – Understanding what jealousy reflects about ourselves 23:34 – Men’s responses to hearing their partner is jealous 25:42 – Hearing a man express jealousy 28:00 – Enjoying jealousy 30:52 – Processing jealousy 33:10 – Not judging one’s emotions 34:16 – Speaking to men experiencing their partners’ jealousy 39:04 – Collaborative versus antagonistic 43:46 – Unleashed Man Find Olivia at: www.FireUpYourDesire.com Instagram: @OliviaLaraOwen Facebook: www.facebook.com/OLIVIALARAOWEN Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
229: Empowerment Through Feng Shui with Patricia Lohan

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 36:10


Patricia Lohan helps entrepreneurs make their homes & businesses magnetic to money, fame and new opportunities. She shows you what they don’t teach in business school, what lies between the lines, your top-secret tool for success. She is a Feng Shui expert & and passionate female entrepreneur who has shaped her dream life living in Bali with her husband. Patricia has a gift at making Feng Shui simple, easy to understand and implement. She has helped thousands of people across the globe embrace Feng Shui and create lasting changes in their businesses, homes and lives. Patricia has been featured on CNN, Fox, Forbes, The New York Post, She Knows, Essence, Mind Body Green, USA Today and Elephant Journal. 2:26 – Feng Shui 6:00 – The origin and basics of Feng Shui 11:05 – Basic approaches to addressing a studio apartment 14:54 – Addressing clutter and stagnation 20:08 – Success stories 25:46 – The people that approach her 27:20 – The relationship between our conditions and our mindset 30:46 – Having the intention of improving one’s life 33:48 – Asking for help, and taking back power Find Patricia at: www.PatriciaLohan.com And her free offers: www.PatriciaLohan.com/freebies Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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228: Book Release: Conscious Cock with Kris Lovestone

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 40:33


Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and relationship consultant who survived six divorces in his childhood and went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so people can win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, education & integrity. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 14-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and has been endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world. 2:21 – Behind the title of “Conscious Cock” 4:44 – The importance of words in sexuality 6:30 – Men and their shame 8:51 – Penis size 14:00 – Lasting longer in bed, having stronger erections 18:31 – Practice for strengthening pelvic muscles in men 21:17 – Having open conversations about sex and sexuality 23:49 – Porn as the main source of education for sexuality 25:49 – Being more present in the bedroom 27:41 – Responsibility for partners’ orgasms 30:07 – Climax vs orgasm 32:15 – Men navigating gender dynamics today 37:29 – Book launch offer Find Kristopher at: www.ConsciousCock.com/Book And his book at Barnes and Noble: www.barnesandnoble.com/w/conscious-cock-kristopher-lovestone/1136252361?ean=9781771434072 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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227: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation with Jeff Abraham

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2020 42:25


Jeff is a successful entrepreneur and the CEO of Promescent, a leading sexual wellness brand that helps couples Make Love Longer. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space. 3:09 – The portion of men affected by Premature Ejaculation (PE) 5:22 – The Arousal Gap 9:33 – Physiological causes of PE 14:02 – Ejaculating before you want to 15:48 – The pressure men experience 23:39 – Men being open about their problems 25:16 – Long-term relationships and intimacy 29:39 – Products to address PE 30:41 – Ensuring there are no side effects 32:15 – Introducing products into a relationship 34:27 – Presenting products as enhancing, rather than fixing sexual experiences 36:11 – The dream impact of these products Find Promescent at: www.Promescent.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/Promescent Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

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226: Unblocking Your Core Pattern(s) with Kristen Kancler

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2020 35:57


Kristen Kancler is a Relationship Coach who helps successful, single men find the woman they want to spend the rest of their life with. With over 10 years of experience, Kristen is committed to helping men effortlessly attract the love of their lives through clearing 5 Core Relationship Patterns that appear in all people. 3:06 – How Kristen started her work 5:02 – The difference between traditional and somatic therapy 10:08 – The 5 Core Relationships Patterns 14:40 – Process to identify moments that create patterns 18:42 – Releasing patterns 21:30 – How our Core Patterns create distance between who we are and what we want 25:53 – Self-esteem and fear 27:26 – How men start Kristen’s work 29:53 – Coaching from the opposite sex 32:01 – Predictions and wishes for gender dynamics Find Kristen at: www.KristenKancler.com And her free assessment at: www.KristenKancler.com/love-alignment-assessment Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
225: Rob Rant: It’s the End of the Year

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 25:01


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the transition from 2019 to 2020, the past decade, and how his life has changed. Rob explores the decisions he’s made in his career and relationships, the roles different people have played in shaping him, significant experiences from the past decade, and his outlook for the years ahead. 3:40 – Looking back 6:08 – Turning 50 and enjoying life 8:58 – The previous change of the decade 11:11 – The past decade and the best decision Rob ever made 13:22 – Reflecting on 2019 14:44 – Medicine journeys 17:06 – His business roles expanding 18:56 – HIs relationships 22:02 – His relationship with himself Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
224: How to Deal with Getting Hooked with Jade Connelly-Duggan

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2020 45:22


Growing up in a family of wellness and organization development pioneers, Jade Connelly-Duggan, M. Ac., was the guinea pig for what would become the first Master’s of Transformative Leadership and Social Change in the U.S. Using tools from the arenas of ontology, biology of cognition, chaordic design, TLSC principles, natural scale and the proprietary Duggan Method, alongside her clinical acupuncture practice, Jade uses a particularly practical and physiologically grounded skills-based approach to culture and leadership design. Jade’s signature work is in the arena of empowering more effective living and leadership through listening to the body and treating an organization or community as a body using principles of acupuncture. Her unique skill is in teaching individuals and groups to notice and activate their physiology towards leadership- thus naturally away from stuckness or “stress” patterns. Her favorite party trick is transforming team culture impacting thousands of downline employees in 24 hours or less. Jade has worked with leaders and groups from Pepsi, FINRA, NSA, Accenture, Lockheed Martin, FDA amongst others around leadership, communication, mindfulness, safety and corporate culture. 2:55 – Transitioning from acupuncture to corporate consulting 4:01 – Philosophies of acupuncture 4:46 – An individual’s needs, versus the organization’s 6:58 – The impact of an owners’ outlook on their business 7:56 – Getting “hooked” 9:29 – Reality TV and fear 15:03 – How technology changes humans 17:01 – The co-creation of being “hooked” 21:07 – Our stories when hooked 27:43 – Practically approaching getting hooked in relationships 30:01 – Being conscious of our responses 36:12 – Releasing emotions 39:44 – Being curious rather than defensive Find Jade at: HumanWellness.life Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
223: Being a Mentally Tough Man with Dominick and Bryan

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 47:12


Dominick Quartuccio and Bryan Stacy are two men generating worthy inquiry and meaningful introspection into the forces that shape a man’s sexuality, behavior and intimate relationships. Through their podcast, The Great Man Within (formerly The Man Amongst Men), running regular retreats, and their monthly live event The Discerning Dick, they are creating forums for men to discuss what it means to be a man today, and giving them the tools to become the Great Men that they all have the potential to be. 3:09 – Men’s behavior with women 8:10 – Power dynamics and behavior 13:46 – The “Hitch” model of consent 16:12 – Practices for mental toughness: 16:42 – Breathwork and the 60-second breath challenge 21:18 – The difference having support makes 24:58 – 100 press up challenge 27:06 – Cold showers 31:49 – Long-form meditation 35:56 – Temporary absence periods 42:31 – 30-day no dessert challenge Find Dominick and Bryan at: www.DoInnerWork.com And their resources: www.DoInnerWork.com/Resources Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
222: The Mandatory Necessity of Men’s Groups with Jason Lange

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 39:16


Jason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life’s purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men’s group for the growth and support opportunities they provide. Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters. He is also the co-founder of the non-profit Authentic Los Angeles which teaches Authentic Relating tools that make easy the art of deep connection and community. Twice a month he hosts drop-in men’s groups in Los Angeles, and hosts three deep dive Shadow Breakthrough Weekend’s for men ready to make massive shifts in their lives. His flagship online program, Pillars of Presence, is a 10-week bootcamp for men ready to transform their dating lives from the inside out. Outside of men’s work, Jason is also a filmmaker and is blessed to be married to his amazing wife, Violet, who coaches women on love and femininity. 3:05 – Jason’s journey 7:00 – Being a misfit in school 10:03 – Authentic relating and Authentic Los Angeles 15:38 – Why men need to join men’s groups 22:00 – Having people to talk to other than your romantic partner 24:48 – The Shadow Breakthrough Weekend for Men 26:49 – The impact of not feeling emotions 30:10 – Groups that are just for men, versus those for men and women 33:42 – Competition between men Find Jason at: www.AuthenticLosAngeles.com His men’s work at: www.Evolutionary.men His next deep-dive weekend for men is on 18 and 19 January 2020, with details available at: www.Evolutionary.men/shadow-breakthrough-weekend-for-men Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
221: Changing Your Mindset with Marla Mattenson

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2019 51:04


Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship, increase pleasure, joy and passion all while crushing sales. Over the course of her 25-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award-winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla was also a National Board Certified mathematics teacher in Los Angeles for seven years and is currently on the board of directors of a charter school in Hollywood consulting for them on their sexual education programs for 7th – 12th grade. She’s coached couples, families, individuals, companies, as well as school culture and leadership. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with entrepreneurial couples to transform their negative habitual patterns because the hidden power of successful businesses is the stable, loving relationships behind the scenes. 3:00 – Competition in the relationship work industry 5:45 – Defining mindset 9:29 – Judgements in relationship 13:46 – Consciously choosing how to react to an upset partner 17:52 – Making the conscious decision to pivot towards one-another 24:23 – Diving into uncomfortable emotions 27:34 – Collaboration and antagonism in relationship 31:21 – Freedom, evolution, and the power of “Yes, and…” in relationships 34:19 – Disagreement and interpreting “No” 38:45 – Consciously choosing behaviors to achieve desired outcomes 44:16 – Business and romance in relationships Find Marla at: www.MarlaMattenson.com Instagram: @theintimacyexperts Email: marla@MarlaMattenson.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Journey Forward with Joree Rose
The process of becoming unHidden

Journey Forward with Joree Rose

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 43:29


In this interview with Rob Kandell, he shares how his journey has led him to coach men in how evolve and break from the outdated rhetoric and socialization in which they’ve been modeled.  He’s showing men how to live up to the bar that their women are raising for them. From understanding the culture of entitlement that men historically and culturally have had, you can see how it's negatively impacted the quality of healthy relationships. If you are in a relationship with a man, or you are a man who seeks to be in a healthy and effective relationship, then this interview is worth your time.    Rob’s Bio: Robert Kandell is an interpersonal communication expert, speaker, podcaster and the author of the bestselling book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Since 2002, Robert’s mission has been to help people find themselves and use their internal power to live their best lives. He has helped thousands of students up-level their communication, leading them to live more balanced, energized, connected and purposeful lives.Robert is a veteran of many worlds, having moved seamlessly from corporate America and the startup world, to becoming an authority in the personal development sphere, to building an international 8-figure business and authoring a bestselling book. He is the host of the podcast, Tuff Love, where he puts his compassionate, hard-hitting insight to work helping people move forward in their lives with clarity. He has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. His style is challenging, fraternal, highly rewarding, and definitely not for the faint-hearted. Website & Social Media Links:   Website: https://www.robertkandell.com  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kandellconsulting / https://www.facebook.com/robert.kandell Twitter: https://twitter.com/Robertkandell @RobertkandellInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ @robert.kandell

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
220: The Masculine in Relationship with G.S. Youngblood

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 31:47


G.S. Youngblood is a coach for men in relationship, former Silicon Valley executive, founder of a tech company that he eventually sold, and the author of two books (including the recently published “The Masculine in Relationship”). His teachings are based on 12 years as a student and creator in the realm of the Masculine-Feminine dynamic, as well as principles he pulls from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. 2:21 – His divorce as the start of his journey 5:07 – Taking responsibility 10:02 – Seeking help 12:46 – The Masculine Blueprint 13:52 – The first element of the Masculine Blueprint: Respond versus React 16:08 – The second element of the Masculine Blueprint: Provide Structure 17:56 – The third element of the Masculine Blueprint: Create Safety 19:01 – Advice for men with female partners in their masculine 21:58 – Pragmatic steps to stop reacting form anger 26:04 – The importance of male companionship 28:11 – The man his book is intended for Find G.S. Youngblood at: www.GSYoungblood.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
219: Understanding Men with Alison Armstrong

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 49:01


Alison Armstrong has been designing, leading, and executing a prodigious array of transformational projects for adults and children for nearly 30 years. Alongside her friend Joan McClain, she founded PAX Programs Incorporated with the mission of “altering society’s culture by transforming the way women relate to men”. She believes that by shifting the relationship between women and men from an adversarial context, environments can be created where conflicts become resolved quicker, and more peace can be found on this planet. 1:51 – The biggest changes in man-woman dynamics over the last 30 years 5:55 – Men’s complexity 8:00 – Labels given to men to show women’s dissatisfaction 13:20 – What it means to be a man, and asking for help 17:20 – Evolution in relationships 20:46 – #MeToo 23:36 – Complicity to abuse of power 26:44 – Addressing abuse of power in the world 32:57 – Toxic masculinity 35:10 – The hierarchy of instincts 42:46 – Fight, flight, or freeze Find Alison at: www.UnderstandMen.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
218: Rob Rant: The Stories We Tell Ourselves

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 23:10


In this week’s episode, Rob rants about our internal stories and how they impact our lives, and the lives of those around us. He looks at the stories we tell ourselves about our own identities, about how we relate as individuals to society, and the stories that affect the way we interact with children. 1:09 – Insights from a recent medicine journey 5:50 – The impact of stories we have 10:23 – Stories creating isolation 13:10 – Social media 14:56 – The story of reality and agreement 17:44 – Stories and parenting 19:38 – The stories we tell about ourselves Find Marla Mattenson at: MarlaMattenson.com And David Neagle at: DavidNeagle.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Guy's Guy Radio with Robert Manni
#345 Robert Kandell: unHidden - The Truth About Men, and Those Confused By Them

Guy's Guy Radio with Robert Manni

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 55:00


On the 4th episode of Guy's Guy Radio on KCAA FM, author and men's expert Robert Kandell returns to the show to discuss his new book, unHidden: A Book about Men, and Those Confused by Them. Robert Kandell Robert is the host of the Tuff Love podcast where he brings his enthusiasm and acumen to his beloved audience on subjects around relationships, intimacy, communication and gender dynamics. He's spent time in corporate America, a start-up, a small computer shop, and then built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality called OneTaste. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own Consulting firm helping small businesses in the Los Angeles area to become marketable and profitable. Join Robert Manni, author of The Guys' Guy's Guide To Love as we discuss life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Subscribe to Guy's Guy Radio on iTunes! Buy The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love now!

The Evolving Man Podcast
#25 Tuff Love - The Special Sauce of Intimate Relationship - with Robert Kandell

The Evolving Man Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2018 66:25


Robert Kandell, host of the Tuff Love podcast joins me for a conversation about how to have authentic relationships in business, social, and with romantic partners. Bringing "tough love" and having tough conversations is not easy, and often uncomfortable, but the payoffs for the quality of your relationships is huge. Robert has a new book our called unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them, and you can find that (and pre-order) on his website. Quick reference for this show, we cover: The Junkyard dog - a real archetype that the world needs How to improve your self-esteem and find freedom How men remain hidden in the world Robert's 8 step process for UnHiding: Confront - face the uncomfortable reality you've been avoiding Investigate - explore that reality. Find answers. Find sanity. Commit - Make a decision to DO something Design a strategy - make it achievable, don't white-knuckle it Complete the milestone - complete the cycle Celebrate - Actually celebrate, physically. Debrief - find our where you can restructure Repeat - Do another cycle Why a man would consider quitting porn. How to have a "tough love" conversation The secret to releasing the tension of that thing you've been withholding: Apology Robert's Bio: Robert Kandell has spent the last 20 years helping people re-energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through more honest and authentic connection and communication. After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded One Taste (orgasmic meditation) with Nicole Daedone in 2004. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market, Robert built the company from a paper napkin sketch to an 8-figure international corporation. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own consulting firm, Kandell Consulting, which helps small businesses become marketable and profitable. Robert is also an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer with over 400 workshops under his belt. He also brings his enthusiasm and passion to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love podcast on subjects around relationships, intimacy, sex, communication and gender dynamics. He also has written a book titled unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Themwhich will be released November 15th this year. robertkandell.com - preorder the book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | Entrepreneurship
TSG 50: The State of Today's Man with Robert Kandell

The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | Entrepreneurship

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018 33:48


There are so many messages of manliness out there in the world these days, all vying for more and more of your attention, but which ones are true? Which messages are good for you, and which are good for everyone? There's a big difference there. Some influencers will have men believe that the world is getting softer and that men need to focus more on being manly, growing beards, and getting tough. Some are focused on being the best version of yourself so you can have a more authentic impact on the world around you. My personal perspective is that the world is becoming more WIIFM every day. WIIFM, if you're not familiar is "What's In It For Me" – and it's killing the vibe in everything. We are demolishing nature so we can be rich. We're poisoning our bodies so we can be thinner. We're naming our kids absolutely asinine things because we think it's cool. We don't help our fellow man unless there's some upside to it for us, but we all get the "feels" when we watch an inspirational clip on Facebook about someone helping out someone else. We don't treat each other with respect or even courtesy anymore unless there's something in it for us. So what's the deal? What's the state of today's man? To answer that question, I've had other guests on the show, and I've been talking to guys all over the country to discover a little more of their perspective. Today, however, I have a treat. In this episode, I'm joined by Rob Kandell, speaker, author, coach, and innovator in communication. Rob has been helping men find themselves for sixteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex (he's the co-founder of OneTaste, a practice or Orgasmic Meditation), and more happiness. He is the host of the highly successful podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. We're talking about the state of today's man. What does he have going for him? What is he up against? What can he do to improve without being seen as less of a man? Often, it's not what you're doing wrong that counts, it's what's you're doing right. Rob and I dig into what that is and come out on the other side. Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments below. [Subscribe Here]