Bad Girl's Guide to Love with Dr. Ayo

If you have ever lived or loved at all you have likely been through the dreaded event of a breakup.  Some seem to rebound fairly quickly, but for others it seems like you just can’t...

If you have been in the dating game for any amount of time, you know about the phenomenon of ghosting.  The complete disappearance of the guy that you have been dating with absolutely NO warning!! ...

We’re doing something different this week. I was a guest on Right to Real Love, the number one relationship podcast for Christians. You can listen to the entire interview, uninterrupted on this episode.

Every relationship is going to encounter conflict.  It is inevitable.  If you are trying to avoid conflict or worried that you do not have healthy conflict resolution skills within you relationship…this episode is for you! ...

There have been a number of celebrity stories breaking recently regarding cheating, abuse and overall relationship scandals.  Everyone has their opinion, but the real question is..should they walk away?  This week I discuss how to...

Is your life not where you thought it would be?  Do you desire more for yourself in all things, including love?  If so, this episode is for you.  This week I will be sitting down...

Are you a Bad Ass in life and your workplace, but have trouble with dating or love?  It may be because of society’s expectations of women and the myths of how an alpha female may...

Cohabitation is a major move for a relationship and is a hot topic!  With the cost of living going up faster than ever, it is something that many consider.  Are you thinking about moving in...

Thinking about stepping outside of your typical dating box?  Or maybe you are interested in a guy, but he just doesn’t give you all the feels??  If you are wondering how important it is to...

Are you constantly frustrated with your love life?  Do you feel like things are not going the way you planned or expected them to?  Well this episode is the one for you.  After re-watching a...

The stability and consistency of a relationship are two of the most attractive things about finding the one.  But, they are not all what a relationship should be about!  It is important to keep the...

More often than ever before, women are earning more than their partners.  Recent statistics show that 40% of wives earn more than their husbands.  But what does this mean for relationship dynamics?  Can a partnership...

You may be a bad girl who is confident and goes after what you want, but if you are a Christian or Woman of God that means making tough decisions surrounding your intimate life.  In...

Have you been on numerous first dates with no luck?  Are you getting ghosted or had one too many guys fizzle out?  Maybe there is something going awry during your first date or interaction!  First...

Does the idea of a serious relationship right now sounds exhausting?  Do you need some time to focus on other areas of your life?  If you are in a place where you want to date...

Have you been dating online with no success?  Or maybe you are thinking about dating online, but haven’t yet given it a shot?  Well if so, this episode is for you.  I give you the...

Who said dating had to be hard?  When you have the correct thought process and guidance in place, you can find the guy that is right for you and not waste time with the ones...

No matter what your status, the new year is the perfect time to address the things that have been holding you back or getting in the way of your relationship satisfaction.  Just like developing a...

The start of the year is the perfect time to learn new relationship skills, and asking for what you want in a relationship is an essential one to know!  It is so easy to get...

The end of the year is a great time to assess how things have been going in your life and the people who made it better or special.  It is also great to take an...

The holidays are supposed to be a time of cheer and celebration!  But what happens when you are dumped right before the “most wonderful time of the year?”  This week I discuss why it is...

King Jay Barnett is not your average former NFL Football Player!  He is a motivational speaker, author and mental health advocate.  He has been open and honest about his story focused on his struggle with...

If you are still dating one person at time before a commitment, then this episode is for you!  Dating multiple people has so many benefits and has actually been shown to help you find the...

On today’s podcast we will discuss how to manifest the life and relationship that you want with beautiful and talented Spiritual Success Coach Latoya Beverly.  We cover relationships down to the nitty gritty with topics...

Have you been dating online with limited success or numerous horror stories?  If so, this episode is for you!  No more losing at love or blindly swiping.  This week, certified dating coach, radio host and...

Knowing what you want is key, but what happens when your goals are an idealized version of what is possible? We have been sold so many dreams and given so many messages of what to...

  Being a bad girl means refusing to settle for less than you deserve.  In this week’s episode of Bad Girl’s Guide to Love, I discuss how to recognize when you are too good for...

One reason nice girls often finish last is because they do not recognize when they are being played.  Always seeing the best in people seems like a great quality, but can be detrimental to your...

Single women often idealize marriage and motherhood.  Much of the marriage experience is glamorized, so getting to it becomes the ultimate goal and prize.  But, there are many positive things about being single and the...

If you are a successful woman with a lifetime of accomplishments, yet find yourself struggling in the relationship space…this episode is for you!  There is an epidemic of amazingly talented women having trouble finding the...

You must build a healthy relationship with self before you can have a healthy relationship with someone else.  Self-love and awareness are crucial to bringing your best to the table once you enter a relationship. ...

Women often try to attract a man based on the things they like about themselves, but men are looking for something completely different!  Ladies, you are actually working too hard and missing the mark on...

Today’s guest on The Bad Girl’s Guide to Love is my friend and colleague – The Love Engineer, Alex Merritt. Alex uses her engineering background in applying scientific methods to matters of the heart. Join us as...

We often ignore what is right in front of us because we want to be happy so bad. You have to pay attention to the cues, trust your gut, and be honest with yourself when...

We often stay in situations that are beneath us because of the fear of being alone or not being good enough for something better.  You have to know your worth and resist the temptation to...

Welcome to The Bad Girl’s Guide to Love! I am so excited to share this podcast with you. I’m Dr. Ayo Gathing — board certified psychiatrist, bestselling author, and health and relationship expert. I’m going to guide...

You NEED to know your value! Today on The Bad Girl’s Guide to Love, I’m going to share key tips and expertise surrounding how to keep your priorities in mind while dating.  Men love a...

A bad girl is confident and knows what she wants out of life, so doesn’t sit around waiting for things to happen.  Do not be afraid to switch it up with changes or even make...