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High-achieving and still feeling lost in love? In this episode, Amanda Carroll unpacks why smart, successful women keep choosing the wrong men—and how to break the cycle fast. You'll learn how the “sex & status” blueprint conditions you to confuse adrenaline with chemistry, why your nervous system panics around healthy men, and the exact steps to rewire attraction toward reciprocal love—a partnership built on safety, respect, and mutual growth. In this episode, you'll learn:The real reason you're drawn to emotionally unavailable men (it's not your fault)How “sex and status” trains your body to chase chaos over connectionWhat Reciprocal Love is—and how to recognize it on date oneThe 6 Roots of Real Love to spot in a healthy partnerA simple nervous-system strategy to make peace feel like passion❤️ Ready to stop chasing chaos and start attracting calm, committed love?Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda Carroll.
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Sarah Harlow is an Adult Performer, Naked News Anchor, and Photographer. Sarah has been working behind the lens as a published and award-winning photographer for many years! Today she joins the Mitchell Report Unleashed Podcast to chat about her career, journey, dating & relationships and more importantly, who she is outside of what she does and how she wants to be understood by society. This was a fun podcast, with some gems for building a brand on whatever scope you want! We kick off the podcast with “Do adult entertainers have better relationships in dating and marriage?” Happy watching the podcast, thanks for the support and make sure you check out Sarah's portfolio! Timestamps: 0:00 - Sarah Harlow Introduction4:11 - Do adult entertainers have better relationships in dating and marriage?7:43 - As an OnlyFans creator, how does the dating world work, and how open is it?16:23 - How should the general public view Sarah Harlow?18:50 - When did Sarah get started in photography?23:16 - Sarah drops a BIG announcement?28:03- Sarah talks about her Twitch journey39:20 - What is the stick? And the recovery from surgery? FOLLOW SARAH HARLOW LINKS: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sarahharlowsworld/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@sarahharlowsworldX/TWITTER: https://x.com/sarahxharlowTIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahharlowsworldSNAP CHAT: https://www.snapchat.com/@sarahharlowxoAMAZON STORE FRONT: https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1RGBNY7E5RXLS?ref_=wl_share CONTACT ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 1:1 CONSULTING CALL: https://calendly.com/rorymitchell-biz/15-minute-discovery-call?month=2025-02 INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officially.rory/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@officiallyroryX/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/officiallyroryHOO.BE: https://hoo.be/officiallyroryPAYPAL DONATIONS: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/rorymitch
Send us a textButterflies don't build marriages—choices do. We open up about the rush of infatuation, the friction of the fight for power, and the quiet strength of mature love, weaving our 26-year story through the science, the pitfalls, and the simple practices that help couples grow. You'll hear why dopamine and oxytocin make those early days feel like a dream, how cortisol and stress twist small annoyances into big battles, and what it takes to move from me-versus-you to us-versus-the-problem.We break down the three stages of love with honesty and hope. From late-night balcony confessions to the seven-year itch, we name what changes, what hurts, and what actually heals. Along the way, we offer concrete tools you can use tonight: summarize-before-you-respond listening, ground rules for hard talks, the three-to-one affirmation rule, and a pause, pray, plan approach for high-stakes decisions. We also tackle comparison, stonewalling, and scorekeeping, and we share how weekly family meetings, shared values, and small, daily touches restore trust and affection.If you've wondered where the spark went, or feared you've fallen out of love, this conversation reframes conflict as the classroom where love grows up. Mature love isn't less passionate; it's more secure, more generous, and far more sustainable. And yes, the butterflies can return in moments—when your habits make space for them. Want more? Our new book, Butterfly Love, tells the whole story and hands you the tools we use. Listen, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review so others can find the show. Then tell us: which stage are you in, and what tool will you try this week?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888
What if the end of something wasn't a failure… but the beginning of finally coming home to yourself? In this deeply personal episode of How to Be Happier for Entrepreneurs, Yvonne Trost, Chief Happiness Officer at LimitlessYou, invites you into one of the most transformative seasons of her life — the moment she chose truth over appearance, freedom over fear, and real love over self-betrayal. Through raw honesty and grounded wisdom, Yvonne shares how her divorce became the doorway to rediscovering her worth, peace, and power. You'll learn how to move through guilt, grief, and uncertainty with grace — and how choosing yourself isn't selfish, it's sacred. This isn't just about ending a marriage. It's about ending self-abandonment. It's about remembering who you are and rebuilding a life that feels aligned, authentic, and alive. So take a deep breath, open your heart, and join Yvonne as she shows you how every ending can become the start of your most beautiful beginning — the one where you fall in love with you. Connect With Us:
Refuge | This is Real Love - Love Rejoices in the Truth | Jon Kinzle | 10.29.25
Let's be real: dating in today's swipe-right world can feel like a game you didn't sign up for. Between ghosting, mixed signals, and second-guessing your own needs, it's easy to wonder: Am I doing this right? In this empowering episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeanne Michele — relationship specialist, psychologist, and author of The Infidelity Cure — to talk about what it really means to date and love authentically. Jeanne brings her signature blend of heart, wisdom, and straight talk to help us see dating not as a performance, but as a mirror — a reflection of who we are, what we want, and where we might be holding ourselves back. Together, we dive into: The difference between dating and relationshipping — and why both matter in building healthy love How to have Courageous Conversations that honor your needs without pushing love away The subtle ways we betray ourselves in relationships (and how to stop repeating old patterns) Why dating is one of the best mirrors for self-awareness — and how to use it for growth How to stay open-hearted in love while still protecting your truth and boundaries This conversation is an invitation to approach love with courage, compassion, and clarity. Whether you're single, dating, or redefining what love means to you, Jeanne's insights will help you stop settling, start honoring yourself, and finally create the kind of authentic connection you deserve.
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(4:35) Bible Study: Romans 8:31b-39 Why do you REALLY love Jesus? (21:10) Break 1 (23:17) Letters: Father talks about the word to believe in the bible. Father answers a bible verse verb problem about praying to yourself. What is double predestination? Father answers these and other questions, send him a letter at simon@relevantradio.com (36:25) Break 2 (37:34) Word of the Day three (42:23) Phones: Joe - Repeat the saying about Christianity being more of a relationship than a religion. Dan - How do we personally know that we love God. Craig - I lead a bible study and we are on the part about peter loving Christ Sylvia - What can I be doing to be a saint?
Refuge | This Is Real Love- Love Doesn't Demand It's Own Way | Isaac Goulson |10.22.25
When was the last time you felt truly at ease with someone? Do you feel that kind of ease often, or was it rare? In this special live episode recorded at the DAR Constitution Hall in Washington, D.C., Jay sits down with bestselling author and therapist Lori Gottlieb to explore the hidden dynamics that shape our relationships. Together, they unpack why so many of us feel the need to “perform” for love and how fear of rejection, perfectionism, and old emotional patterns can quietly erode connection. Lori shares how true intimacy begins with acceptance, not just of our partners, but of ourselves, and why showing up authentically is the only way to feel genuinely seen. Through humor, warmth, and real audience interactions, Jay and Lori dive into topics like vulnerability, emotional safety, and the balance between “me time” and “we time.” They share how to stop trying to fix or control your partner, how to communicate without defensiveness, and how to build relationships rooted in curiosity and compassion instead of criticism. This conversation is a reminder that love isn’t about finding someone who reads your mind, it’s about learning each other’s language, embracing imperfections, and creating a safe space where both people can grow. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Stop Performing for Love How to Create Emotional Safety in a Relationship How to Let Your Partner Be Vulnerable How to Build Connection Through Acceptance How to Communicate Without Getting Defensive How to Balance “Me Time” and “We Time” How to Love Without Trying to Fix Love is not a performance, it’s a practice. It’s built in the quiet moments when we choose to listen instead of defend, to understand instead of control, and to show up even when it feels uncomfortable. Every relationship, whether romantic or otherwise, becomes stronger when we replace judgment with curiosity and fear with honesty. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:54 Earning Love Through Real Connection 03:16 Why You Should Speak Up Early 06:51 Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability 11:20 Can You Love Someone Without Loving Yourself? 13:55 How Acceptance Strengthens Your Relationship 20:37 Compatibility vs. Chemistry: What Matters More? 25:07 Do Couples Need Individual Therapy Too? 28:05 A Live Couples Therapy Session 44:06 Communicate Clearly Not Through Assumptions 47:08 Healthy Ways to Approach Conflict 51:28 Understanding the Many Forms of Love 57:46 Are Both of Your Needs Being Met? 01:01:44 Learning to Embrace and Communicate Differences Episode Resources: Lori Gottlieb | YouTube Lori Gottlieb | Instagram Lori Gottlieb | Website Dear Therapists Podcast Maybe You Should Talk to SomeoneSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Join Pastor Derek Neider in this inspiring episode of The Daily Devotional as he kicks off a powerful new series on the book of Romans. In today's devotional, Derek introduces us to one of the most theologically rich books of the Bible, unpacking the significance of the apostle Paul's words and the gospel's eternal message.In this first chapter, Derek dives deep into Paul's self-description as a servant of Christ and a chosen messenger of God's good news. Through thoughtful reflections, Derek encourages us to embrace our calling to serve Christ wholeheartedly and live out our faith with purpose and surrender.Tune in for insightful teachings, practical application, and a fresh perspective on what it means to live as servants of the gospel. This is just the beginning—there's so much more to come as we journey through Romans together!Thank you for listening! Here are some ways to learn more and stay connected!New to faith? Click here!Learn more about Pastor Derek NeiderFollow Derek on Instagramor FacebookSubscribe to email Subscribe to the daily devotionalExplore recent messages!This podcast was created by Pastor Derek Neider as a ministry of Awaken Las Vegas.Visit our website. We are located at 7175 W. Oquendo Road, Las Vegas, NV 89113. Our gathering times are 9am & 11am Sundays and 6:30pm Thursdays.
The Emergence of Real Love The WISDOM podcast Season 5 Episode 95 ~ Into my heart I live and breathe. The emergence of real love. My solemn destiny. ~ The wisdom that you call to life is the love of miracles born of you and into the faithful moments of love's calling. For the boundless lives of you. It holds only love. Love and the pure happenstance of endless devotion ~ endless love ~ the real world calling unto life itself. For I know this love ~ it fosters within me a divine presence. A certain calling My endless path is of worldly desire - worldly ambition. Boundless in my true calling to love evermore. ~ Namaste
Jesus is inviting us to experience the joy of growing up in love. He wants us to know, to live in, and live from His deep and relentless love for us. How do we do that? That's what this message is all about!---In this Plan, we'll explore the fruit of the Spirit and how we can partner with God to cultivate these qualities in our lives. https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/61956-a-virtuous-life| SWITCH IRL |Find a location near you here: https://www.life.church/locations/| SOCIAL |
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Love doesn't show up when you chase it—it comes when you finally let go.. In this video I'll share the 3 biggest blocks keeping love “around the corner,” and how to release control, overgiving, and the need to manifest it. If you're a coach or aspire to be one, I'm running a FREE 3-week online program called Conscious Coaches Accelerator (normally $1,997) to help you start and scale your online business. It starts on November 3rd. Grab your spot here:
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It's that time of year again — the temperature's dropping, hoodies are being borrowed, and DMs are heating up. But is cuffing season about finding connection… or just avoiding loneliness until spring? Patty and the Millennials break down the rules, risks, and realities of modern-day “situationships.” From social media flings to the pressure of holiday plus-ones, the crew debates whether cuffing is a sign of love, convenience, or just good marketing. Expect laughs, a little shade, and a few truth bombs about dating, timing, and emotional maturity.
Refuge | This Is Real Love- Love is Not Boastful or Proud | Shania | 10.8.25
"I wanted each character to be complex enough and sympathetic enough that there's some deep reason you could identify in yourself." — Elizabeth LoHow do you tell a story that's intimate, ethically complicated, and rooted in real-life secrecy—without exploiting your subjects?In this episode, Rain Bennett speaks with acclaimed documentary filmmaker Elizabeth Lo, director of Mistress Dispeller, one of the most talked-about films this year.The film follows a professional “mistress dispeller” in China hired to break up extramarital affairs on behalf of betrayed spouses—yes, it's exactly what it sounds like.Elizabeth opens up about how she gained the trust of real people in real love triangles, how she balanced empathy with narrative clarity, and how she created emotional tension through stillness instead of sensationalism.They discuss ethical gray areas, building documentaries without control, and letting stories unfold naturally while still crafting a cohesive arc. If you're a nonfiction filmmaker or just someone interested in telling hard stories with humanity, this episode is a must-listen.In this episode, you will learn to:Earn the trust of documentary subjects by building long-term, authentic relationshipsLet stories unfold naturally instead of forcing a narrative structureNavigate ethical storytelling with sensitive, real-world materialUse stillness and silence to create emotional tensionAlign your personal values with the stories you choose to tellFor more storytelling tips and tricks,Visit rainbennett.com or thestorytellinglabpodcast.comFollow on TikTok @rainbennett.storyellerFollow on Twitter @rainbennettFollow on Instagram @rainbennettFollow on Facebook @thestorytellinglab Subscribe to the Youtube Channel Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Warning: this episode may contain MIND-BLOWING moments. Stephen Gross is a practising psychoanalyst and a personal hero of mine. He has worked with patients for more than 45 years and his first book, The Examined Life, drew on these experiences. When it was published in 2013, it caused a sensation and went straight to number one in the Sunday Times bestseller list. Since then, hundreds of thousands of readers, including me, have taken it to our hearts. Now 12 years on from his debut, Grosz is back with Love's Labor, which asks fundamental questions around how to love and be loved in return, drawing on his almost half a century of clinical expertise. In this episode we discuss why real love causes suffering, why failed marriages are often the best kind, the difference between surrender and submission in relationships, why loss has to be part of being human and how we can be happy. Plus: a fascinating peek into what it's like to be a psychoanalyst when I get to ask ‘are you ever annoyed by your clients?' ✨ IN THIS EPISODE: 02:28 Understanding Attachment to Suffering 04:25 The Role of Denial in Our Lives 06:32 Failures and Self-Perception 07:23 Stephen's Childhood 21:46 The Power of Unconscious Signals 25:24 Navigating Change and Loss 26:25 The Anxiety of Letting Go 28:22 The Price of Love 29:23 Writing from the Heart 30:16 Support Systems 32:27 Family Dynamics and Psychoanalysis 36:51 Surrender vs. Submission 45:25 Understanding Pain and Grief 48:25 Final Thoughts and Farewell
Looking for real insights and actionable advice about love, dating, and relationships in the modern age? You won't want to miss this episode of the Get Obsessed Podcast, hosted by the dynamic Julie Lokun. In this compelling conversation, Julie dives deep into the world of contemporary romance with special guest Kerry Brett—award-winning photographer, relationship storyteller, and creator of the SHOT AT LOVE brand (book | podcast). Why You'll Love This Episode Are you feeling jaded about love? Wondering if dating apps like Tinder or Match.com truly work? Or just navigating the emotional rollercoaster of dating post-divorce (or at any age)? Kerry Brett, host of the hugely popular SHOT AT LOVE podcast and author of SHOT AT LOVE: How to Find Love After Heartbreak, joins Julie Lokun to share her wisdom, humor, and hard-won truths. Together, they unpack: The evolution of love—from puppy love to mature relationships Why belief in love matters, no matter your age or past heartbreak The REAL truths about dating apps and finding your match online Savvy strategies for dating in person and maximizing your odds Expert red flags and green flags for first dates and beyond How to protect your heart and keep your standards high The difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why both matter Highlights from the Conversation Love as a Birthright: Kerry discusses why love is for everyone, how to maintain optimism, and why "love is a superpower" even after setbacks or heartbreak. Online Dating Demystified: From the early days of Match.com to today's swipe-friendly apps, Kerry gives listeners a masterclass on navigating the dating landscape with confidence. Empowering Women (and Men): The importance of leaning into natural energies, letting men “be the hunters,” and why focusing on what you really want brings results. Top Dating Tips: Original opening lines, texting etiquette, who pays on dates, overcoming ghosting, and the critical importance of self-worth. Red & Green Flags: Spot the signs early, avoid common pitfalls, and learn from Kerry's personal and often hilarious stories from the frontlines of modern love. About Kerry Brett Kerry Brett is not only an authority in love and dating, but also in visual storytelling, bringing her photography expertise to crafting a picture-perfect dating profile. She's the author of SHOT AT LOVE: How to Find Love After Heartbreak (now available on Amazon and soon on Audible!) and the host of the acclaimed SHOT AT LOVE podcast. Her mission? To empower singles to find the love they deserve with humor, grit, and tactical know-how. Get Obsessed with Connection The Get Obsessed Podcast (hosted by Julie Lokun) is your go-to destination to elevate your life and become obsessed with progress, passion, and possibilities. Check out more episodes at Get Obsessed Podcast and connect with an inspiring community! Connect With Kerry Brett and Resources: Shot at Love Book (Amazon) Shot at Love Podcast (Apple) Kerry Brett Instagram Kerry Brett Photography Connect With Julie Lokun and the Get Obsessed Podcast: Get Obsessed Podcast Julie Lokun Coaching Get Obsessed Podcast Instagram Ready for Real Love? Don't just swipe—listen in! Subscribe and leave a review for the Get Obsessed Podcast so you never miss empowering conversations with dynamic thought leaders like Kerry Brett. If you want to transform your love life and your outlook, this episode is your new must-listen. Tune in now, take your shot at love, and get obsessed with your life. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ladies, let's talk truth. You don't have to settle. You don't have to reward a man just for being a “good guy.” That's baseline. In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between the Build-a-Bear — the man you have to fix, motivate, and carry — and the Elite Man, who's already in his purpose, ready to pour into your life, and equipped to lead, love, and protect you. I'm sharing how I went from attracting broken, draining relationships to being married to my best friend — an elite man who believes in me, invests in me, and makes my life softer and more abundant every single day. You'll learn the exact energetic balance that magnetizes a high-value man, and how to clear the subconscious love blocks that have been keeping you from the love that's already calling your name. Because here's the truth: real love isn't luck, it's alignment. When you embody your feminine energy, you naturally attract the man who was designed for you — the one who will love your soul and build an empire with you. This is your sign to stop settling for potential and start receiving partnership. Your elite man is already waiting — it's time you align with the frequency of love that matches your worth.
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This week on When Reality Hits, Ben Higgins from The Bachelor opens up about his journey from cubicle life to leading one of TV's most famous franchises. He reflects on being the first Bachelor to say “I love you” to two women, the pressures of reality TV fame, and what dating was like after the show. Ben also shares how he ultimately found his wife, became a dad, and the lessons he's learned along the way.Please support the show by checking out our sponsors!Apretude: Bring your A-game and talk to your doctor. Learn more at APRETUDE.com or call 1-888-240-0340.Progressive: Quote your car insurance at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust ProgressiveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Colossians 3:12Each day you can make a difference in someone's life. The people you come into contact with give you opportunities to extending kindness, courtesy, and compassion.
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Is “The One” a myth or just misunderstood?In this powerful episode, Michael Rearden offers deep insights into the pursuit of real love through the lens of Relationship Coaching. He breaks down the emotional, mental, and practical elements necessary for finding and sustaining a meaningful relationship, starting with self-awareness, mindset, and emotional growth.From recognizing red flags to understanding how to grow together through different seasons of life, this episode offers a holistic roadmap to finding and keeping lasting love. If you're ready to stop settling and start connecting on a deeper level, this conversation will transform how you view love, dating, and commitment.Key Takeaways:✅ Finding “the one” involves personal growth, shared values, and emotional connection.✅ Self-awareness is the first step to choosing the right partner. ✅ Communication and a shared mindset are pillars of long-term success. ✅ Red flags should never be ignored—they signal future issues. ✅ Building together strengthens emotional intimacy and vision. ✅ Relationships change with life's seasons—adaptability is key. ✅ Look beyond surface traits—character is what sustains love. ✅ A supportive network or guide can provide clarity in relationships. ✅ Love requires vulnerability, effort, and intentional growth. ✅ The journey to love is as important as the destination.#RelationshipCoaching #FindingTheOne #EmotionalConnection #LoveMindset #DatingWithPurpose #RedFlags #LastingLove #CoachingInSession #MichaelRearden #PersonalGrowthInLove Send us a MessageSupport the showWebsite: www.Revenconcepts.comEmail: Coachinginsession@gmail.com Youtube: @Revenconcepts Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share the podcast with others who would benefit from it!
Our greatest human need is love—to know we're loved and able to give love in return. But in our broken world, some of us have been so hurt that we've lost the ability to receive and give love—from God and others.In this message, Jill Briscoe shows how God's love is deeper, bigger, unconditional, and endless. It's not a feeling but an action. And when we let the Holy Spirit heal us and work in us, we can once again become vulnerable enough to open our hearts to God's love—and in turn reflect His love out to other people. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1141/29
For many of us, emotional security is the missing piece in our relationships. It's subtle, but its absence is exhausting. Without it, love feels like walking on eggshells, never fully able to relax into who we are. This week on The Terri Cole Show, I share what emotional security really means, why it matters so much, and how to start cultivating it in yourself and with the people you love. Because when it's missing, everything is more challenging than it needs to be. But when it is present, everything becomes easier and more transparent. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/766
In this episode, I talk about redefining real love as the act of multiplying peace, faith, respect, and growth in your partner's life rather than dividing it, exploring how alignment, prayer, communication, and shared values create a foundation for lasting partnership, challenging you to first embody the qualities you seek in a partner — peace, humility, self-awareness, and devotion to God, relationships as mirrors of personal evolution, where love is proven through consistency, respect, and intentional choices and more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here's the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Answered Prayers Are Often Disguised As Uncomfortable BlessingsApple: https://apple.co/3HTDsjGSpotify: https://bit.ly/3JYc4l7
What does it really mean to live in the “easy yoke” of Jesus?In this conversation with our friends Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, we explore how empathy, grace, and slow faithfulness transform our everyday walk with God. Together, we unpack their decades of counseling, ministry, and personal growth—learning what it looks like to move through walls in our faith, practice self-empathy, and reflect God's love in our relationships. From the practical “four A's of empathy” to the hope of God meeting us right where we are, this episode invites us to discover how deeply loved we truly are.Support the show
Do you ever think about ‘the cost' of real love? I'm talking about the kind of love that stretches, challenges, and asks you to grow. That's what we're getting into in this episode of The Terri Cole Show. Because while love is beautiful, meaningful, and deeply fulfilling, it also asks something of us. And that's not a bad thing. But it's something we rarely talk about. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/763
Refuge | This is Real Love- Love is Patient
Pastor Garvon shares from I John 4:7–11 what real love is, that love is God's initiative and it is to be shared. This message was given September 14, 2025.
Welcome to SpeakUPZee Podcast, the show designed to motivate, inspire, and uplift you to become the best version of yourself!In this episode, Zee dives deep into a question many of us wrestle with: Is what you're experiencing real love, or is it actually toxic? We talk about the signs of a healthy relationship vs. a harmful one, how to set boundaries, and how to protect your peace without losing yourself in the process.Whether you're in a relationship now, healing from one, or trying to figure out what love should even look like, this episode will give you perspective and encouragement to choose yourself and choose better.
Refuge | This is Real Love - No Love No Gain
Welcome to Sylvan Way and thanks for joining us as we worship Jesus! Real Christianity - Real Love - 1 John 4:7-12 Where we seek to Love God, Love Others, and Live on Mission. We are a church that strives to live fully for Jesus, while sharing His story with others. To learn more: sylvanway.com Send us your prayer requests & comments: sylvanway.com/connect To partner with us through giving: sylvanway.com/give
Send us a textIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson continue their Fundamentals of Wellness series with a deep dive into the third level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs: love and belonging. Together they explore the universal ache for connection, community, and healing felt across society today and ask an essential question: what kind of love and belonging truly nurtures wellness and mental health?Drawing a distinction between the “tsunami of stress” and “rational intimacy,” Tom and Ruth unpack how certain relationships, communities, and affiliations may appear loving and inclusive, yet actually perpetuate stress, trauma, insecurity, and disconnection. In contrast, they describe how authentic love and belonging cultivates safety, security, contentment, and mutual growth — the true foundation for self-actualization, resilience, and wholeness.Listeners will learn how to recognize the signs of false belonging, how to choose pathways that foster genuine wellness, relational health, and homeostasis, and why this choice is central to becoming our truest, healthiest selves.If you've ever wondered whether the spaces you belong to are building you up or holding you back, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and practical insights for personal growth and sustainable wellness.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom thomasjpals@innerworkings.orgEmail Ruth ruth@bridgeandrhino.comSupport usWe appreciate you!
“How could Jane Austen write so convincingly about love and heartbreak if she never fell in love?”In this episode, I'm joined by author and literary critic Paula Byrne to explore Jane Austen's love life, beyond the well-known stories.You might already know about the dashing Tom Lefroy, made famous in Becoming Jane with Anne Hathaway and James McAvoy. Or perhaps you've giggled at the tale of Harris Bigg-Wither, whose proposal Jane accepted only to change her mind and flee less than 24 hours later.But what if there was another man in her life... one whose story is filled with passion, longing, and heartbreak?Paula and I dive into the mysterious seaside romance Jane is believed to have experienced in the summer of 1801. Could this be the man who truly captured her heart? Paula's new novel Six Weeks by the Sea is her fictional reimagining of this emotional and enigmatic chapter of Austen's life.
Following up on Aliene's videos about soul ties, a recent question was asked regarding their connection to marriage relationships. The concepts of marriage, soul ties, and codependency are often intertwined in relationships, leading to confusion and misunderstanding. Join us Monday at 7:30PM EST as we untangle this question and give you Biblical solutions so you can experience healthy relationships God's way! Watch the series on Soul Ties here: Part 1: https://youtu.be/ymkouNuRr8U?si=sHhnlav5aaddccuq Part 2: https://youtu.be/RXcuptSwKFo?si=ldG1uEHn4KVi5B2m What is Real Love? From the Conquer Codependency God's Way Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g63u3Sh5kTU&t=354s How We Love: https://howwelove.com/core-patterns/controller-victim/ Order the book from Amazon: https://amzn.to/3VrtUzz "*Disclaimer: We are a participant of the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program and earn a small commission on qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you when you click on our links to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Thank you for supporting Treasured Ministries." God has timeless truths to help you navigate life and live in freedom as He intended. Join us LIVE on Mondays at 7:30 PM ET where we answer your questions on how to Conquer Codependency God's Way. Do you have a question you would like Aliene to address? We've got you! Just leave your question in the comments below or email questions@treasuredministries.com Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment if this episode resonates with you! For more information/resources check out the links below: ⇨ Visit the Treasured Ministries Website: https://treasuredministries.com/ ⇨ Join the Treasured Tribe https://treasuredtribe.com/ ⇨ Sign up for our FREE newsletter and get inspiration for your faith journey https://treasuredministries.activehos... ⇨ Donate: https://treasuredministries.com/donate/ ⇨Sign up for retreat https://treasuredministries.com/retreat/ _____________________ Treasured Ministries provides discipleship, biblical resources, and community for women so they can exchange codependency for God dependency and thrive. For more information visit https://treasuredministries.com ______________________ Aliene Thompson is the president of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method, and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online Christian community for women. Her popular series on YouTube, "Conquering Codependency God's Way", helps women worldwide move from codependency to God dependency so they can live in freedom as God intended. #codependence #conqueringcodependency
In this episode, Chad and Robert discuss the biblical picture of love as we see in 1 Corinthians 13, and challenge popular myths about marriage, romance, and commitment. Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this conversation explores how real love isn't about feelings, but about self-sacrifice, grace, and choosing to love even when it's hard.Subscribe to receive our latest videos!Website: https://www.sunvalleycc.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sunvalleycc/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sunvalleycc/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sunvalleyccTo support Sun Valley and help us continue to reach people all around the world click here: https://www.sunvalleycc.com/givingGod loves you no matter who you are, what you've done, or what's been done to you. This is the vision of Sun Valley Community Church, led by Pastor Chad Moore and based in Gilbert, AZ with multiple locations throughout the Phoenix valley.Chapters00:00 Real Love Isn't a Feeling 00:47 What Is Love? A Biblical Picture 03:13 Paul's Story and a Love That Transforms 06:39 1 Corinthians 13: The Portrait of Love 08:31 Jesus Is the Definition of Love 09:56 Love Is a Choice, Not a Reaction 13:54 How God Designed Marriage to Work 15:57 The Reality Behind Our Romantic Fantasies 19:22 Choosing to Die to Self in Marriage 23:28 Real Intimacy Comes from Being Fully Known
Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to help protect their family. Apply today in just minutes at meetfabric.com/TRENT Speed up hiring with Indeed! Now get a $75 sponsored job credit when you go to Indeed.com/trent Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/trent EXCLUSIVE NordVPN Deal ➼ https://nordvpn.com/trent Try it risk-free now with a 30-day money-back guarantee! Too many people mistake pain for love and convince themselves that loyalty means tolerating toxicity. But here's the truth, unconditional love does not mean unconditional tolerance. In this episode, I'm breaking down why toxic relationships are not love at all and why letting go is sometimes the most powerful form of love you can give yourself. If you've ever struggled with walking away, this conversation will set you free.
If love feels like it keeps slipping away, it's not about doing more—it's about how safe your body feels to actually receive it. In this video I break down why your nervous system is the hidden key to attraction. Once you shift your energy, love stops feeling hard and starts flowing to you. If you want to join my next 3-day live event in London on Sept 26-28th and become the most magnetic you, grab your tickets today here: https://www.theshiftexperience.com/london63412704
Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think? Whether it's overanalyzing a text, fearing confrontation, or people-pleasing to avoid being disliked, this episode is for you. Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen unpack the fear of being disliked and reveal why embracing it can actually make you more attractive. If you've ever felt trapped by the need for approval or struggled to assert yourself in dating or relationships, this episode is here to help. Links: ►► Try Matthew AI (and ask any relationship question for free): AskMH.com ►► Join us for my October Weekend Retreat (in-person or virtual): MHRetreat.com ►► Get 40% off Cozy Earth sheets (and much more!) with code LOVELIFE: CozyEarth.com ►► Protect your data and stream your favorite shows with NordVPN (and get four extra months here): NordVPN.com/LoveLife