Podcasts about Good Girl

Send a textAnna Rollins grew up as the kind of girl who took her faith seriously — and that's exactly why it hurt her so much. In this conversation, Anna and I dig into her memoir Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl, where she traces how purity culture's messages about desire, self-denial, and the body quietly fueled decades of disordered eating, compulsive exercise, and sexual pain. What strikes me most is that Anna's parents were loving, her church wasn't overtly abusive — and yet the cumulative message she absorbed was shrink yourself.  I think this conversation is going to resonate deeply with so many of you.THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR:To Heal or Harm: Scripture's Use as Poison or Medicine for Abuse Survivors by Dr. Steven Tracy. How to refute it when Bible verses are weaponized! https://amzn.to/4rSYkZuTO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED: Get Anna Rollins' book FamishedFollow Anna on SubstackWatch our Love & Respect Docuseries The Portuguese version of The Great Sex RescueThe Chinese version of The Great Sex RescueThe Spanish version of The Good Girl's Guide to Great SexSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Since the beginning of time, girls and women have been split into two impossible categories and identities: the Good Girl  and the Bad Girl. The "good girl" - she's obedient, self-sacrificing, and pleasing and the "bad girl" - she's rebellious, outspoken, risky, and “too much.” Me, Indie, I was the "Bad Girl." However, most women carry both inside of us, but we naturally, and sometimes forcefully, lean more into one or the other depending on who we are at our core and the expectations of our environments. They both come with their own set of stigmas, shame, and judgement, so we actually never win when we stay in this confines of these expectations.This lesson explores how these inner identities are formed through natural propensity, family expectations and dynamics, experiences, culture, religion, relationships, and survival; how they silently shape our choices in love, work, self-worth, and so much more. We'll also discuss how we break out of these CAGES and finally get free!Let's get into it!

So many of the women I work with are brilliant, heart-led, and deeply called to do meaningful work — and yet they find themselves hesitating, overthinking, or holding back from being fully seen. Not because they aren't ready, but because they've been conditioned to be “good.” The good girl keeps the peace, follows the rules, doesn't take up too much space, and definitely doesn't risk getting it wrong. In this episode, we're talking about what it really takes to break that conditioning and step into your confident era — not through force or perfection, but through self-trust. I'm joined by the incredible Carly Clark Zimmer for a conversation that felt both deeply validating and powerfully activating. Carly shares her journey from being painfully shy and disconnected from her own voice to becoming a coach who helps women decondition from people-pleasing, perfectionism, and the patterns that keep them small. Join me and Carly as we talk about: The subtle ways good girl conditioning keeps you from being seen and fully expressed Why confidence isn't the first step — self-trust is How to stop tying your worth to your work or other people's responses The importance of surrounding yourself with spaces that normalize your growth A practical tool you can use to move through overthinking and into aligned action How to start collecting your own evidence so you can truly believe in yourself   If you've been feeling the nudge to show up more boldly, to use your voice in a bigger way, or to make a move you know is aligned — but you've also been feeling that internal pull to stay safe and small — this episode is for you. Your confident era doesn't begin when you finally feel ready. It begins the moment you decide to trust yourself. Listen in, and if this conversation speaks to you, share it with a woman in your world who's ready to break the good girl code and step into the visibility and leadership she's meant for. And be sure to connect with Carly through the links below — her work in the world is truly transformational.   Interview links: Connect with Carly  Instagram  Check out Carly's 5-part mini-audio series, Trust Issues Get Carly's 5-Minute Laser Coach Custom GPT here for FREE with the code FREECLARITY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Anna Lundberg had spent her whole life being the good girl. Top of the class as valedictorian, Oxford graduate, and the shiny P&G title to show for it. She'd ticked every box, perfected the image, and then she did something very off-brand: she quit.What she didn't expect was how long the good girl mindset would follow her. Even now, a decade into solopreneurship and 370 episodes into her podcast Reimagining Success, Anna still feels the pull of the old scripts. Say yes, never chase, be likeable, and fill up your diary to feel important.We talk about what success looks like once the gold stars disappear and you're left to figure it out on your own. Anna's advice? Bring your A game, set the boundary, go the extra mile – but whatever you do, don't go two.Links to learn more about Anna Lundberg:WebsiteLinkedInBookPodcastAny thoughts? Share them with us!Support the show✨✨✨If you miss the "workshops work" podcast, join us on Substack, where Myriam builds a Podcast Club with monthly gatherings around old episodes: https://myriamhadnes.substack.com/

Which archetype has been quietly shaping your life story and is it time to release the role or rewrite it? How would your relationships change if you stopped being the role and started seeing the role?Join me, Nancy Smith, for a discussion that explores the powerful and sometimes limiting roles of archetypes: the inner patterns we inherit, replay, and eventually outgrow. From the Good Girl or Good boy to the Wounded Child, from the Fixer to the Warrior, we will talk about how these archetypes can trap us in family patterns or empower us when met with awareness. Discover how self-love and conscious awareness can move you out of the drama triangle of Victim, Victimizer, and Fixer - and into a balanced, authentic life aligned with Soul.Live Thursday at 1:30 EST on https://www.facebook.com/NancyofAngelscapes Join us and post comments and questions!

What if the only thing standing between your current role and the C-suite isn't your resume, but your own internal "Good Girl" script? Imagine walking into a high-stakes meeting not hoping to be liked, but fully grounded in the power of your own perspective.SummaryIn this episode, acclaimed executive coach Sara Anderson joins Erica Rooney to bridge the gap between competence and confidence for high-performing women. They dive deep into dismantling the "Good Girl" conditioning and mastering the inner game required to transition into top-tier leadership roles.Inside the EpisodeThe Competence-Confidence Trap: Why hitting your goals often makes you feel like more of a "fake" rather than more secure.The "Want What You Want" Framework: How to reconnect with your own desires to break the cycle of people-pleasing and over-functioning.Dismantling the Good Girl Script: Why the behaviors that made you a great operator are exactly what's holding you back from becoming a great executive.Option C Thinking: Moving beyond binary choices to find creative solutions for work-life integration.Exposure vs. Exposed: Navigating the biological fear of "getting kicked out of the tribe" when you start taking up space.The Nightmare Scenario Drill: A practical tool to deconstruct the fears that stop you from building your personal brand on platforms like LinkedIn.The Leadership Training Ground: How to view a toxic or "stuck" environment as a masterclass in boundary setting before you make your next move.ResourcesGuest: Sara Anderson, Executive Coach & Leadership ConsultantHost: Erica Rooney, HR Executive & Keynote SpeakerMentioned: The Her Collective Group Coaching BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors Connect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the only thing standing between your current role and the C-suite isn't your resume, but your own internal "Good Girl" script? Imagine walking into a high-stakes meeting not hoping to be liked, but fully grounded in the power of your own perspective.SummaryIn this episode, acclaimed executive coach Sara Anderson joins Erica Rooney to bridge the gap between competence and confidence for high-performing women. They dive deep into dismantling the "Good Girl" conditioning and mastering the inner game required to transition into top-tier leadership roles.Inside the EpisodeThe Competence-Confidence Trap: Why hitting your goals often makes you feel like more of a "fake" rather than more secure.The "Want What You Want" Framework: How to reconnect with your own desires to break the cycle of people-pleasing and over-functioning.Dismantling the Good Girl Script: Why the behaviors that made you a great operator are exactly what's holding you back from becoming a great executive.Option C Thinking: Moving beyond binary choices to find creative solutions for work-life integration.Exposure vs. Exposed: Navigating the biological fear of "getting kicked out of the tribe" when you start taking up space.The Nightmare Scenario Drill: A practical tool to deconstruct the fears that stop you from building your personal brand on platforms like LinkedIn.The Leadership Training Ground: How to view a toxic or "stuck" environment as a masterclass in boundary setting before you make your next move.ResourcesGuest: Sara Anderson, Executive Coach & Leadership ConsultantHost: Erica Rooney, HR Executive & Keynote SpeakerMentioned: The Her Collective Group Coaching BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors Connect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

Anna Rollins is the author of Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl. Anna's debut memoir examines the rhyming scripts of diet culture and evangelical purity culture, both of which direct women to fear their own bodies and appetites.Anna is an award-winning instructor who taught English in higher education for nearly 15 years, and her writing has appeared in outlets like The New York Times, Slate, Electric Literature, Salon, Joyland, and more. In today's episode, Anna shares how societal messages around beauty and body image contributed to her struggles with disordered eating. We also discuss Anna's research on purity and diet culture's impacts on women's relationships with their bodies and food, as well as how the concept of self-control might be helpfully framed as we enter the season of Lent.My hope is that as we name and shed unhelpful theologies related to food and our bodies, we might find more freedom, healing, and wholeness.Buy Melissa L. Johnson's book, Soul-Deep Beauty: Fighting for Our True Worth in a World Demanding Flawless, here. Learn more about Impossible Beauty and join the community here.

In this episode, Maya breaks down the importance of YA books by diving into Confessions of an Alleged Good Girl by Joya Goffney!Sierra Madre Golf https://sierramadregolf.com/?ref=mayag or use Code MAYAGSubscribe to the My Take newsletter that comes out every other friday: https://mytake.aweb.page/p/5c793f97-1177-42ff-a0a9-5c9f3b7313b1 My Take also has a Patreon, where every month there will be fun bonus content, including a book club, so it would mean the world if you could support us there! Connect with Maya:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mytake/?hl=enPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/mytakepodWebsite: https://mytakepodcast.weebly.com/ 

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We have a very special episode for you today! Chris coaches a brave soul live on our podcast. Nikky gets coached on the deeper “why” behind her rushing, overdoing, and defaulting to “I'll just do it” — and how these patterns can quietly suffocate your health, your joy, and your ability to live with real intention. It's a rare honour to listen in on a very personal coaching session, so a big thank you to Nikki for allowing us to publish this episode. And also give Nikky some virtual/energetic love and compassion, as you listen to this intimate conversation. You'll hear how easy it is to fall into “life hacks” and coping strategies… and why real change often requires going deeper than mindset alone. Today's episode gives you a glimpse into our “metaphysical” side of healing, which we call “Spark”. Spark is a CRITICAL piece that is often missed in the health industry. It gets to the very root of body burnout, by identifying deep-seated beliefs and stories that are causing sickness, and keeping you stuck from healing. Essentially, the process dives deep into your brain, your nervous system and your unconscious mind, and rewires your healing abilities from within. In today's episode, Chris coaches Nikky on: Chris's “twitch grass” metaphor (and why it's the perfect picture of subconscious programming that spreads into every area of life) The hidden rulebook Nikky has been living by: “I need to do the things that need to be done” — and how it creates pressure, overwhelm, and resentment underneath the surface The “good girl” conditioning that can start early (being the helpful one, the compliant one, the one who keeps it together) and how it shapes adult behaviour, boundaries, and people-pleasing Scarcity mindset + rushing energy: why it can make you productive… but also makes you do a “pretty crappy job” when you're trying to clear your plate fast Using “FUSES” (Frustrations, Uncomfortable Sensations, Emotional Situations) to find your triggers in real time — and trace them back to the belief underneath What it actually looks like to do the deeper work: journaling, reflection, asking better questions, and being willing to dig even when it's inconvenient Show Note Links: Join our free LIVE coaching workshop: “It's A New Life For Me” Join our Ending Body Burnout Method here. Take Chris & Filly's Ending Body Burnout Assessment here Disclaimer: This Ending Body Burnout Show podcast and any information, advice, opinions or statements within it do not constitute medical, health care or other professional advice, and are provided for general information purposes only. All care is taken in the preparation of the information in this Podcast. Chris & Filly Functional Medicine does not make any representations or give any warranties about its accuracy, reliability, completeness or suitability for any particular purpose. This Podcast and any information, advice, opinions or statements within it are not to be used as a substitute for professional medical, psychology, psychiatric or other mental health care or natural medicine health care. Chris & Filly Functional Medicine recommends you seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Inform your doctor of any changes you may make to your lifestyle and discuss these with your doctor. Do not disregard medical advice or delay visiting a medical professional because of something you hear in this Podcast. To the extent permissible by law Chris & Filly Functional Medicine and the Ending Body Burnout Show Podcast will not be liable for any expenses, losses, damages (including indirect or consequential damages) or costs which might be incurred as a result of the information being inaccurate or incomplete in any way and for any reason. No part of this Podcast can be reproduced, redistributed, published, copied or duplicated in any form without the prior permission of Chris & Filly Functional Medicine.

Mary Kubica is a New York Times bestselling author of thrillers including The Good Girl, Local Woman Missing and She''s Not Sorry. Her books have been translated into over thirty languages and have sold over five million copies worldwide. She's been described as “a helluva storyteller” (Kirkus Reviews) and “a writer of vice-like control” (Chicago Tribune), and her novels have been praised as “hypnotic” (People) and “thrilling and illuminating” (LA Times). She lives outside Chicago with her husband and children.Killer Women podcast is copyrighted by Authors on the Air Global Radio Network#podcast #author #interview #authors #KillerWomen #KillerWomenPodcast #authorsontheair #podcast #podcaster #killerwomen #killerwomenpodcast #authors #authorsofig #authorsofinstagram #authorinterview #writingcommunity #authorsontheair #suspensebooks #authorssupportingauthors #thrillerbooks #suspense #wip #writers #writersinspiration #books #bookrecommendations #bookaddict #bookaddicted #bookaddiction #bibliophile #read #amreading #lovetoread #daniellegirard #daniellegirardbooks #marykubica #parkrowbooks

Mary Kubica is a New York Times bestselling author of thrillers including The Good Girl, Local Woman Missing and She''s Not Sorry. Her books have been translated into over thirty languages and have sold over five million copies worldwide. She's been described as “a helluva storyteller” (Kirkus Reviews) and “a writer of vice-like control” (Chicago Tribune), and her novels have been praised as “hypnotic” (People) and “thrilling and illuminating” (LA Times). She lives outside Chicago with her husband and children. Killer Women podcast is copyrighted by Authors on the Air Global Radio Network #podcast #author #interview #authors #KillerWomen #KillerWomenPodcast #authorsontheair #podcast #podcaster #killerwomen #killerwomenpodcast #authors #authorsofig #authorsofinstagram #authorinterview #writingcommunity #authorsontheair #suspensebooks #authorssupportingauthors #thrillerbooks #suspense #wip #writers #writersinspiration #books #bookrecommendations #bookaddict #bookaddicted #bookaddiction #bibliophile #read #amreading #lovetoread #daniellegirard #daniellegirardbooks #marykubica #parkrowbooks

Mary Kubica is a New York Times bestselling author of thrillers including The Good Girl, Local Woman Missing and She''s Not Sorry. Her books have been translated into over thirty languages and have sold over five million copies worldwide. She's been described as “a helluva storyteller” (Kirkus Reviews) and “a writer of vice-like control” (Chicago Tribune), and her novels have been praised as “hypnotic” (People) and “thrilling and illuminating” (LA Times). She lives outside Chicago with her husband and children. Killer Women podcast is copyrighted by Authors on the Air Global Radio Network #podcast #author #interview #authors #KillerWomen #KillerWomenPodcast #authorsontheair #podcast #podcaster #killerwomen #killerwomenpodcast #authors #authorsofig #authorsofinstagram #authorinterview #writingcommunity #authorsontheair #suspensebooks #authorssupportingauthors #thrillerbooks #suspense #wip #writers #writersinspiration #books #bookrecommendations #bookaddict #bookaddicted #bookaddiction #bibliophile #read #amreading #lovetoread #daniellegirard #daniellegirardbooks #marykubica #parkrowbooks

This episode is for ADHD mums who have ever sat in a car park before an assessment and felt their whole nervous system start negotiating with the evidence.Because the paperwork looks fine.The report cards look fine.Your life looks fine.And you're standing there knowing that ‘fine' is exactly what disqualifies you.This is the ADHD myth as it actually lands. Not as a hot take online — but as a private internal audit that starts the second you consider asking for help.It's the voice that says: ‘Everyone says they have ADHD now, don't they?'And the way your body believes it before you even get to answer back.WHAT WE COVER– The ‘good school report' trap and why it makes women doubt themselves– Why visible competence is often just quiet compensation– How anxiety, eating disorders, burnout and depression get missed when you're not disruptive– The internal investigation ADHD mums run before they ever ask for help– Why ‘you've managed this long' lands as dismissal, not reassurance– How vigilance gets trained in childhood and then masquerades as personality– Why gender shifts the cost of impulsivity, mistakes, and social timing– How hypervigilance becomes the price of belonging– Why motherhood doesn't create the load, it exposes it– The difference between being tired and constantly compensating– How media narratives about ADHD being a ‘trend' reinforce silence and shameTHIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF…– you have ‘good' school reports and still feel like you're drowning– you rehearse what to say before appointments so you don't sound ‘dramatic'– you minimise automatically and tell yourself other people have it worse– you've been called controlling when you're actually doing risk management– you feel embarrassed even seeking an assessment– you relate to being ‘a pleasure to have in class' while quietly falling apart– you've carried the mental load for years and only now it's breaking throughRELATED EPISODESYou Were the Good Girl. That's Why You're Falling Apart Nowhttps://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-35-you-were-the-good-girl-thats-why-youre-falling-apart-now/Making the Invisible Mental Load Visible (Partners)https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-73-making-the-invisible-mental-load-visible/The ADHD Myth of ‘Just Try Harder' (Quick Reset)https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-24-quick-reset-the-adhd-myth-of-just-try-harder/RESOURCES & REFERENCES– ADHD in women and girls: internalising presentations and delayed identification– Burnout, anxiety and depression as common outcomes of long-term compensation– The impact of social conditioning and gender expectations on symptom visibilityLISTENER QUESTIONS & COMMUNITYSubmit a Listener Question (anonymous option)If there's something you want answered on the podcast, you can submit a question here — anonymously if you prefer.https://form.jotform.com/251238118486864Share Feedback or Topic RequestsHave a topic you'd like covered, or feedback you want to pass on?

In this episode, we are joined by Spiritual Strategist, Retreat Host, and Author Latha Jay to explore how to bridge the gap between "woo" and "wow" by rewriting your worthiness story. Latha reveals why imposter syndrome is a pattern of the nervous system rather than a character flaw and provides the tools to shift your internal vibration to create real-world success in your business and life.Tune in to learn:How to break the exhausting cycle of "good girl" conditioning that causes high-achieving women to shrink their voices and undercharge for their value.The secrets to identifying where you have been holding back and how to move past people-pleasing into a state of deep, internal alignment.Why transformation is both practical and mystical, and how to use shadow work and nervous system regulation to rewire your internal safety.Practical steps to set "brave boundaries" with your time, your rates, or draining relationships to create the clarity necessary for your authority to flourish.Everything starts on the inside—it is time to water the root of your authority and stop shrinking to fit others' expectations.Free Gift: Business is Spiritual E-BookDiscover how to align your professional strategy with your spiritual path by bridging the gap between the practical and the mystical. This eBook provides a soulful roadmap for shifting your internal vibration to create sustainable, real-world success in your business and life.Latha's Giveaway Contribution: 1-1 Business SessionReady to break through the internal barriers holding your business back? Enter the giveaway to win an exclusive 1:1 Business Session with Latha to identify your specific mindset blocks and align your energy for your next level of expansion! This is a rare opportunity to work directly with a master strategist!Connect with Latha: Website | Instagram ---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!

In this deeply personal episode, I share the story of how my lifelong drive to be “the good girl” ruled my relationships, my nervous system, and even my sense of self. For most of my life, I played by the rules—always saying the right thing, doing the right thing, living up to everyone else's expectations. But it wasn't until I unexpectedly fell in love with someone society might label as "the wrong person" that everything cracked open. What followed was the most transformative, heart-opening journey of my life—one that taught me how to reclaim my truth, my voice, and the courage to live by my own rules. This story isn't just about love—it's about breaking generational patterns, healing the abandonment wound, and learning how to finally feel safe being your full, complex, imperfect self.If you've ever felt like you couldn't mess up, couldn't ask for what you need, or couldn't be too much, this episode is for you.https://marinayt.com/the-unburdened-heart Connect with me:❥Softening into self- 3 month 1:1 with Whats App Support:https://marina-yt.mykajabi.com/offers/PAWQhZHu❥❥1:1 Coaching with me: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfWcZM5s9c2OjOLwoGMI5jE6rh_JAzjN2d_vCtuVe7e3pVGxw/viewform❥❥❥Stay or Go Course: ⁠https://marinayt.com/stay-or-go⁠ ❥❥❥❥ FREE RESOURCE: a step-by-step process of working with your triggersTRIGGERED TO ROOTED: A ROADMAP TO CREATE TREASURES FROM YOUR TRIGGERSThis powerful step by step process will walk you through how to somatically move through a trigger, ground yourself, allow the emotions to come up and experience massive growth in your lifeDownload here:⁠ ⁠https://marinayt.com/trigger-2-rooted⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram:⁠ ⁠www.instagram.com/marina.y.t⁠⁠ Subscribe to YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@marinatriner Top Episode Quotes:“Perfectionism doesn't always look like a tidy house—it can look like never upsetting anyone.”“My whole life I was trying to stay safe by being sweet, quiet, and kind. And it was exhausting.”“The moment I broke the rules, I finally found myself.”“Being seen in your fullness isn't just possible—it's necessary.”somatic healing, nervous system regulation, perfectionism, anxious attachment, trauma healing, emotional healing, good girl conditioning, feminine healing, somatic journey, breaking the rules, healing abandonment, generational trauma, inner child healing, vulnerability, authentic relationships, self-worth healing, embodied self

Knox Brew Stories is a weekly live radio show and podcast that offers an in-depth look into the beverages, businesses, artists, and inspiring humans who make Knoxville an amazing place to be!In this episode you'll find our regular weekly news about craft beer, as well as:Brew News (5:55)Live Music with Sam Downs (9:56)Interview with Rayanne & Lauren of Good Girl Books (15:55)Live Music with Sam Downs (48:10)Next Week on Tap (53:10)Live Music with Sam Downs (55:28)Co-Host & Producer: Ace Preston Co-Host & Producer: Kevin SummittAudio Engineer: Clyde TimbsPodcast Producer: Asher CokerLinks for our featured Guests:https://www.instagram.com/goodgirlbooksknox/https://linktr.ee/goodgirlbooksknoxhttps://www.instagram.com/armfrogfrogarm/Be sure to tune in live every Monday at 6pm EST at http://ChannelZradio.comAnd check out https://www.knoxbrewstories.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/suttreeshighgravity/

Mama, please remember that God IS love! God loves you because love is who He is. His love is not based on your ability to be “good” and He does not withdraw when you are “bad”. Let's join Lorraine for today's devotional that will surely encourage and strengthen your relationship with Him!"I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have the power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ"  Ephesians 3:16–18✨ Important Announcement: Dear Mama, in 2026, the Lord has called us to step away from social media so we can go deeper with you in the Radiant Mom Sisterhood. Join HERE for just $4.99 a month or $50 a year, and walk this next season of motherhood with us! **And... we are offering the Radiant Mom Sisterhood for FREE in the month of January to welcome our new mamas! Use code JAN2026 For more information about our ministry, visit our website http://helpclubformoms.comCheck out our YouVersion plans HERE!Our prayer team prays for you every day! Send us your prayer requests at admin@helpclubformoms.com.

Why These Women Are Saying The REGRET BEING THE GOOD GIRL by Greg Adams

Who taught you how to be “good”? And at what cost? In this tender, illuminating episode, Dawn Morningstar and Dr. Mary Newstrom lovingly unpack the Good Girl conditioning many women have carried for generations — the quiet rules, unspoken expectations, and inherited beliefs that shaped who we learned to be in order to be accepted, safe, and loved. Together, they explore where the Good Girl archetype came from, how it lives in our bodies and choices, and how it may be silently limiting our joy, voice, power, and authenticity. With compassion, humor, and deep spiritual wisdom, this conversation invites you to gently question what you've been taught — and to reclaim the parts of you that are ready to rise, speak, and live more freely. This is an episode for every woman who has ever felt the pull between being “good” and being true.   Dr. Mary Newstrom's website: ZenithHigh.com Dawn Morningstar's websites: NewWorldWomen.com and RadiantFace18.com Produced by New World Women New World Women co-founders Dawn Morningstar (founder of Venerable Women) and Shawn Vougeot (founder of Empowering Women) have created a global sisterhood and sanctuary for women to remember their power, reclaim their worth and rise up… together. Support New World Women's mission to empower women around the world by shopping at Birdi - an all-women-vendor marketplace.

Last week a report from the Welsh Health and Social Care Committee revealed that women in Wales felt that they were being failed by gynaecological cancer services, with many facing long waiting lists to see a specialist or start treatment. Anita speaks to Jess Mason who was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2022, Lowri Griffiths, Director of Policy, Research and Insight at Tenovus Cancer Care and Aarti Sharma, Consultant Gynaecology Oncology Surgeon, University Hospital of Wales.Politicians in France have moved to abolish so called "conjugal rights," the concept of a marital duty to have sex with your partner. A bill approved on Wednesday in the French National Assembly adds a clause to the country's civil code, which currently defines the duties of marriage as "respect, fidelity, support and assistance," and says couples commit themselves to a "community of living." The proposed law makes clear that "community of living" does not create an "obligation for sexual relations." Anita is joined by the French journalist Anne-Elisabeth Moutet.Across Wales more than 700 women volunteers regularly bring faulty toasters, ripped jeans, wobbly chairs and other broken stuff back to life for free. They are part of Repair Café Wales, a charity that spans 134 locations. They are launching 'Fix It February', a month-long campaign to inspire people to repair one broken item instead of replacing it. Anita is joined by Repair Cafe Wales director Phoebe Brown and Lucy Harris, one of the volunteers.The writer and performer Paris Paloma has a new single out today about women's bodies called Good Girl. Paloma joins Anita to sing and talk about her music, including her 2023 track Labour about women's unpaid work which started a social media trend as women around the world related the song to their own experiences with sexism.Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Rebecca Myatt

Have you ever felt like you're trying so hard to be a good mum… but somehow it still never feels like enough? In this Moment, Zoe talks about good girl conditioning – the deeply ingrained beliefs many of us carry into motherhood without realising it. The need to be agreeable, to keep the peace, to over-give, and to measure our worth by how much we do. When these patterns come into motherhood, they don't disappear – they intensify. Suddenly, we're not just trying to be a good girl, we're trying to be a perfect mum. And that can leave us exhausted, resentful, and disconnected from ourselves. This episode is about recognising that there is nothing wrong with you. These are learned behaviours – and they can be unlearned. In this Moment, we explore: What good girl conditioning is – and how it shows up in motherhood Why people-pleasing and perfectionism lead to burnout, not fulfilment How meeting your own needs and setting boundaries creates real confidence If you've ever felt burnt out from trying to be everything to everyone, this one's for you. If you liked this moment, listen to the full episode: Breaking Free From Perfectionism and People-Pleasing Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing. Feeling different since becoming a mother? Get clarity on who you're becoming now and download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet Connect with Zoe: Follow Zoe on Instagram  Get Zoe's Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations' This Motherkind episode is sponsored by: Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women's supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply. For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You've been the "good girl" your whole life. The one who keeps the peace. The one who smooths things over, explains herself, and carries everyone else's emotions so no one gets upset. And now you're exhausted, resentful, and quietly disconnected from yourself. Imagine if you could speak your truth without blowing up your relationship. Imagine setting boundaries without guilt. Imagine no longer abandoning yourself just to be liked, chosen, or kept safe. In this episode of No More Good Girl, I'm breaking down why being "nice" was never the same as being kind — and how the good girl survival strategies that kept you safe as a child are now costing you your voice, your passion in your relationship, and your peace. This conversation is for the woman who knows she's meant for more… but keeps shrinking to avoid conflict. Inside this episode, you'll learn how to: ✔️ Recognize how people-pleasing and over-explaining are trauma responses — not personality traits ✔️ Stop managing your partner's emotions and take your power back ✔️ Understand why staying silent to "keep the peace" actually destroys relationships ✔️ Set boundaries with clarity and kindness (without becoming someone you're not) ✔️ Assert yourself early so resentment doesn't build later You don't need to be nicer. You don't need to explain better. You don't need to try harder. You need to stop abandoning yourself. LINKS: ✨ Free Empower YOU Breathwork: Snag it here ✨ Boundary Babe Academy: Join Here ✨ Follow My Journey: Instagram ✨ The Supported Woman Group Transformation Experience: http://amandaclark.biz/supported-woman-group-coaching Repair Guide for the Woman Taught to Keep the Peace: https://breathworkcollective.myflodesk.com/repair-guide-for-women  

So many of us grew up believing that being a “good girl” was the ultimate measure of success, and somehow, that belief followed us straight into adulthood. In this episode, we're unpacking what it really means to break up with the good girl persona and why constantly being agreeable, quiet, and accommodating might be costing you more than you realize. We talk about how early conditioning taught women to prioritize likability over honesty, comfort over truth, and other people's needs over their own, and how those patterns quietly show up in everything from ordering dinner to navigating family dynamics and long-term relationships. Through candid stories and real-life examples, we explore how often we abandon ourselves just to avoid being perceived as “difficult.” You'll hear why constantly shrinking yourself erodes confidence over time, how people-pleasing sneaks into even the most loving relationships, and why learning to tolerate disappointment (yours and theirs) is a critical part of boundary work. This conversation isn't about becoming selfish or blowing up your life, it's about rebuilding trust with yourself, one small moment at a time. Today we cover:Why “being a good girl” is often tied to approval, not integrityHow self-abandonment shows up in everyday decisions (and why it adds up)The emotional cost of avoiding discomfort to keep the peaceWhy breaking the pattern feels scary and why that's normalSmall, practical ways to start using your voice without burning everything down Connect with Whitney & Stephanie: captureyourconfidencepodcast@gmail.comStephanie IG: @_stephanie_hanna_The Other 85: https://theother85.net/ Whitney IG: @whitneyabraham

There is a kind of grief that mums are not supposed to name. It could be called ungrateful.. but a lot of us feel it. So it stays private, carried quietly while life keeps moving and decisions keep getting made.This episode sits with the grief of the unlived motherhood — the version of parenting that was imagined, planned for, and socially rewarded, and then slowly dismantled by reality. Not because the mum did anything wrong, but because parenting did not arrive as promised, and the cost of adjusting was absorbed almost entirely by her.In This Episode, We Cover– Realising the life you planned no longer fits– Changing schools, routines, and priorities without calling it loss– Supporting children while privately missing your old life– Being told to be grateful while something keeps breaking– Noticing the grief surface long after the decision is made– Carrying expectations that don't match daily realityThis Episode Is For You If– Mornings don't look how you thought they would– Your days are built around needs you didn't anticipate– You've adjusted plans more times than you can count– You support your family while missing parts of yourself– You're functioning, but something feels quietly unfinishedRelated EpisodesYou Were the Good Girl. That's Why You're Falling Apart Now.https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-35-you-were-the-good-girl-thats-why-youre-falling-apart-now/Curated Related LinksThe Orchid and the Dandelion — Thomas Boycehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25614459-the-orchid-and-the-dandelionDr. Vanessa LaPointe — Official Websitehttps://drvanessalapointe.comThe Unlived Life of the Parent — Carl Jung (concept reference)https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201112/the-unlived-lifeThe Work — Byron Katiehttps://thework.comThis isn't weakness.This is adaptation under pressure.Mums are doing impossible things every day — and still standing.

Leah sits down with dynamite writing due Julie Murphy and Sierra Simone to chat about Fundamentals of Being a Good Girl. 

There's been a stark warning to MPs about the number of women pensioners living in poverty. The House of Commons Work and Pensions committee has been hearing the pension system is dysfunctional, and contributing to more gender disparity, that's according to the feminist economic think tank the Women's Budget Group, which gave evidence this week. Anita Rani is joined by their incoming director Dr Daniella Jenkins and Sarah Pennells, consumer specialist at Royal London finance company.It's less than a week to go until the Winter Olympics gets underway in Italy. With a record 47% of female athletes competing, the games will be the most gender-balanced in Winter Olympic history. Two women who are gearing up to cover every twist and turn of these Games are former two-time Winter Olympic snowboarder and broadcaster Aimee Fuller and Jeanette Kwayke, who'll be fronting the BBC's coverage as part of an all-female line up alongside Clare Balding and Hazel Irvine.The writer and performer Paris Paloma has a new single out today about women's bodies called Good Girl. Paloma joins Anita to sing and talk about her music, including her 2023 track Labour about women's unpaid work which started a social media trend as women around the world related the song to their own experiences with sexism.Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Dianne McGregor

Welcome to Season Five - and to 2026!  In this powerful kickoff episode, Valerie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to be selfish in a world that has taught women to disappear. This isn't just a refresher course. It's a full-on reintroduction to the philosophy, fire, and unapologetic truth at the core of The Selfish Woman movement.  You'll hear:  Why 'selfish' is still the most radical word a woman can claim  What the old Good Girl contract cost you, and how to burn it for good  Why every powerful woman you admire had to get selfish  How to give from overflow, not obligation  What's coming in 2026: bold new tools, mythic framewords, and sacred strategies no on else is teaching  If you're ready to make 2026 the year you come home to yourself, start here.  Get The Selfish Year  Subscribe to the YouTube series  Follow on Instagram  Get my blog, The Selfish Gospel  Go forth and be selfish.   

Anna Rollins joins Let's Talk Memoir for a conversation about the relationship between evangelical purity culture and diet culture, incorporating research and reporting into personal narrative, the intricate connections between religion, God, and body shame, fearing our own desires, extreme thinking, body dysmorphia, viewing our bodies as suspect, the physical effects of belief systems, writing memoir plus, tying our work to the culture, learning how to pitch and get bylines, the logistics of placing short pieces in large outlets, religion on our own terms, rejecting scripts, and her new memoir Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl. Info/Registration for Ronit's 10-Week Memoir Class Memoir Writing: Finding Your Story https://www.pce.uw.edu/courses/memoir-writing-finding-your-story   This episode is brought to you by Prose Playground. If you've been writing for years but haven't published, have tons of ideas but can't get them on the page, if you have a book coming out, or you're simply curious about writing, join Prose Playground—an active, supportive writing community for writers at every level. Visit www.ProsePlayground.com to sign up free.   Also in this episode: -church hurt -publishing scores of stand alone essays -tuning into the newscycle and calendar to sell our work   Books mentioned in this episode: Before and After the Book Deal by Courtney Maum Writing That Gets Noticed by Estelle Erasmus The Byline Bible by Susan Shapiro The Creative Act by Rick Rubin A Swim in the Pond in the Rain by George Saunders   Anna Rollins is the author of Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl. Her groundbreaking debut memoir examines the rhyming scripts of diet culture and evangelical purity culture, both of which direct women to fear their own bodies and appetites. Her writing has appeared in outlets like The New York Times, Slate, Electric Literature, Salon, Joyland, and more. She's also written scholarly articles about composition and writing center studies. She's an award-winning instructor who taught English in higher education for nearly 15 years. She is a 2025 West Virginia Creative Network Literary Arts Fellow. A lifelong Appalachian, she lives with her husband in West Virginia where they're raising their three small children.   Connect with Anna: Website: http://annajrollins.com Substack: http://annajrollins.substack.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/annajrollins Book: https://amzn.to/3Lu6uHR   – Ronit's writing has appeared in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, Poets & Writers, The Iowa Review, Hippocampus, The Washington Post, Writer's Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in the 2021 Housatonic Awards Awards, the 2021 Indie Excellence Awards, and was a 2021 Book Riot Best True Crime Book. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts' 2020 Eludia Award and the 2023 Page Turner Awards for Short Stories.  She earned an MFA in Nonfiction Writing at Pacific University, is Creative Nonfiction Editor at The Citron Review, and teaches memoir through the University of Washington's Online Continuum Program and also independently. She launched Let's Talk Memoir in 2022, lives in Seattle with her family of people and dogs, and is at work on her next book. More about Ronit: https://ronitplank.com Subscribe to Ronit's Substack: https://substack.com/@ronitplank   Follow Ronit: https://www.instagram.com/ronitplank/ https://www.facebook.com/RonitPlank https://bsky.app/profile/ronitplank.bsky.social

Kim and Barb are joined by Ellen R. Albertson, host of The Midlife Whisperer Podcast, for a powerful conversation on moving from “good girl” programming to embodied, wild sovereignty in midlife.Together, they explore how good girl conditioning is a nervous system adaptation, not an identity, and how the Fire Horse energy, bold, rare, and uncontainable, mirrors the midlife ignition from external validation to inner authority. They also discuss the role of Human Design in giving permission to live unboxed and light up from within.Connect with Ellen R. Albertson

Today on The Natural Birth Podcast we have Malou Malou is a mama of two from the Netherlands and the co-founder of Natural Heroes, which she runs together with her partner Nevil, the father of her two children. She is the head of R&D and a formulator, so her daily life is all about blending science, plant-based ingredients, and a very intuitive approach to wellbeing. That same blend of intuition and research shaped how she approached becoming a mother.She's had two vaginal births, but they couldn't have been more different. Her first birth was meant to be a natural, physiological experience at home, but it eventually became a medicated hospital birth. Looking back, that birth taught her a lot about her own good girl tendencies, about support, self-trust, and how things can unravel when the environment doesn't fully align with what you need. It was challenging and transformative in ways she only understood later.Her second birth, only 15 months later, was the complete opposite.. the most freeing, powerful, intuitive experience of her life. It unfolded in three hours and felt like a deep reclamation of everything that didn't go the way she hoped the first time. It was fast, intense, and profoundly healing. She moved through it with clarity and strength and it reshaped her entire relationship with birth and motherhood.That contrast, the rupture of the first birth and the liberation of the second, is what we talk about on the podcast today. Both births were rites of passages in their own way, and together they tell the story of how she's grown, healed, and stepped into motherhood.Curious about Malou? Find her on @hybrid_nomads & Natural Heroes @naturalheroes Want to work with Anna or join The Sacred Birth Worker Mentorship?Find Anna's Website, about her Mentorship & How to Work with Her, as well as all Links & Resources she mentions in the episode here:www.sacredbirthinternational.com/links-podcast

January has a way of bringing out the part of us that really wants to do everything right — especially with money. In this episode, I talk about what I call the good girl hangover: that rule-following, people-pleasing energy that shows up after the holidays and leaves us feeling pressured, restricted, and exhausted. We'll talk about how this “good girl” part learned to keep us safe, how she shows up in our money decisions, and why trying to be perfect with money often backfires. Most importantly, we'll explore what it might look like to move through January with a little more honesty and kindness toward ourselves — instead of more rules and self-criticism. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Cozy Earth has been part of my routine lately, especially this time of year. You can use my link below for 20% off at cozyearth.com with the code MONEYISNTSCARY. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ If you loved this episode, please take a moment to follow, rate, or review Money Isn't Scary — it helps more women find these much-needed conversations. You can also find me here:

Have you ever said yes when you meant no, held it together, and then felt flat or resentful afterward?That feeling is what I call the good girl hangover.In this episode, I share what the good girl hangover really is, why it sneaks up on so many women, and how the pattern quietly pulls you away from your truth. We explore the subtle signs you're in a good girl season and why overgiving often feels safer than being honest.I also walk you through three simple but powerful shifts to help you step out of people-pleasing without guilt, self-judgment, or swinging into rebellion. These shifts bring you back into self-trust, clarity, and emotional safety.This conversation is a loving invitation to stop abandoning yourself to be liked and start choosing honesty instead.You don't need to become harder. You just need to become truer.Head to www.melissaambrosini.com/687 for the show notes.Join my newsletter: www.melissaambrosini.com/newsletterGet my FREE ZenTone Meditation: www.melissaambrosini.com/zentoneFollow me on Instagram: @melissaambrosiniGet Time Magic: www.timemagic.me Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of Currently Reading, Meredith and Kaytee are discussing: Bookish Moments: experimenting with our reading and taking on choker books Current Reads: all the great, interesting, and/or terrible stuff we've been reading lately Deep Dive: answering the questions of how or why we rate our books The Fountain: we visit our perfect fountain to make wishes about our reading lives Show notes are time-stamped below for your convenience. Read the transcript of the episode (this link only works on the main site). .  .  .  2:39 - Our Bookish Moments of the Week 3:01- The Complete Stories by Flannery O'Connor 3:05 - Bookshelf Thomasville 3:07 - From the Front Porch podcast 3:31 - It by Stephen King 4:53 - Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel (#1 in the Cromwell series) 5:30 - Footnotes and Tangents on Instagram 6:45 - The Stand by Stephen King 6:47 - Laura Tremaine on Substack 8:52 - Our Current Reads 9:00 - Matched by Ally Condie (Kaytee) 9:32 - The Giver by Lois Lowry 11:26 - The Selection by Kiera Cass 11:30 - The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins 13:04 - Turns of Fate by Anne Bishop (Meredith) 14:45 - The Tainted Cup by Robert Jackson Bennett 18:15 - Cultish by Amanda Montell (Kaytee) 18:21 - Wordslut by Amanda Montell 21:52 - Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain (Meredith) 23:00 - The Secret by Rhonda Byrne 23:35 - The Painted Porch 23:40 - The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holliday 26:05 - The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron 27:37 - When the Tides Held the Moon by Vanessa Vida Kelley (Kaytee) 30:43 - CAWPILE 31:38 - The Ghostwriter by Julie Clark (Meredith) 35:51 - The God of the Woods by Liz Moore 36:28 - The Last Flight by Julie Clark 36:50 - Deep Dive: How And Why We Rate Our Reads 37:53 - A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson 37:59 - Dante and Aristotle Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Saenz 38:04 - Wives Like Us by Plum Sykes 38:14 - Victorian Psycho by Virginia Feito  49:41 - CAWPILE system 51:53 - Meet Us At The Fountain 52:41 - I wish that we would all pick one small way to challenge our reading this year. (Kaytee) 54:23 - I wish you would sign up for our newsletter! (Meredith) 54:25 - Sign up for the newsletter on our website  Support Us: Become a Bookish Friend | Grab Some Merch Shop Bookshop dot org | Shop Amazon Bookish Friends Receive: The Indie Press List with a curated list of five books hand sold by the indie of the month. January's IPL is our annual visit to Fabled Bookshop in Waco, Texas. Love and Chili Peppers with Kaytee and Rebekah - romance lovers get their due with this special episode focused entirely on the best selling genre fiction in the business.  All Things Murderful with Meredith and Elizabeth - special content for the scary-lovers, brought to you with the behind-the-scenes insights of an independent bookseller From the Editor's Desk with Kaytee and Bunmi Ishola - a quarterly peek behind the curtain at the publishing industry The Bookish Friends Facebook Group - where you can build community with bookish friends from around the globe as well as our hosts Connect With Us: The Show: Instagram | Website | Email | Threads The Hosts and Regulars: Meredith | Kaytee | Mary | Roxanna Production and Editing: Megan Phouthavong Evans Affiliate Disclosure: All affiliate links go to Bookshop unless otherwise noted. Shopping here helps keep the lights on and benefits indie bookstores. Thanks for your support!

If you've done everything “right” and still feel anxious, disconnected, and like you're somehow failing…this one is for you.Dr. Jody and Grace Emmons unpack good girl conditioning burnout: how patriarchy, perfectionism, and people-pleasing can make high-achieving women look fine on the outside while quietly falling apart on the inside. Grace shares her own rock-bottom (including why she felt stuck in a toxic relationship) and the surprising moment that reignited her sense of aliveness.They also get practical about what it means to “wake up” again: intuitive vision, how intuition actually shows up (it's not one-size-fits-all), and why reconnection to yourself might be the most important antidote to the disconnection we're living in.In this episode:Why “doing it all” became the new impossible standardThe hidden cost of people-pleasing + perfectionismHow to tell intuition from anxious mental chatterFive ways intuition can communicate (and how to find yours)Spiritual connection without the pressure of organized religionWhy technology can deepen loneliness—and what to do instead---Links & Resources:• About | Forward with Grace: https://forwardwgrace.com/about• Forward with Grace | A Spiritual Consultancy: https://forwardwgrace.com/• Why Good Girl Conditioning Keeps Women Stuck | Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/self-made/202506/why-good-girl-conditioning-keeps-women-stuck• Podcasts | Forward with Grace: https://forwardwgrace.com/podcasts• Unlonely with Dr. Jody Carrington (show page) | Acast: https://shows.acast.com/everyone-comes-from-somewhereFollow Grace Here:@forwardwgrace@topangacanyonoasis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

She had everything she was told would make her happy. So why did it feel like a cage?   Ashley Jordan built a life that looked perfect on paper. The dream house. The marriage. The career as an activist. A life that looked enviable from the outside. The result … feeling absolutely caged on the inside.   She walked away from it all. The marriage to a good man. The activist career. The friendships that couldn't handle her evolution. And she rebuilt everything from the inside out based on who she actually is, not who she was told to be. This isn't a story about dramatic betrayal or abuse. It's about the quiet  suffocation of living a life that isn't yours. The terror of leaving safety for the unknown. The death of your ego when you stop performing goodness and start embodying truth.   This conversation captures the messy, beautiful journey of unbecoming. Of stripping away every mask to find the truest self underneath. Of walking away from a good man and a good career because good wasn't enough. Of losing friendships that couldn't survive her transformation. Of discovering that grief is actually love calling you home.   Ashley shares the raw truth about:

We're joined today by romance favorites Denise Williams, Julie Murphy, and Sierra Simone! We're talking about their upcoming romance novels, the strength of the romance community, how romance authors show up for fellow romance authors, and so much more. Listen, enjoy, and don't forget to pre-order The Re-Do List by Denise Williams and The Fundamentals of Being a Good Girl by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone.  Don't miss seeing Denise, Julie, and Sierra in person at Prairie Moon Winery on Tuesday, January 27, at 7 PM to celebrate the release of The Re-Do List by Denise Williams! Tickets available now. Get yours HERE Ellyn's Currently Reading | The Cove by LJ Ross Katie's Currently Reading | Rein Me In by Kayla Grosse & The Long Game by Rachel Reid Denise Williams' Currently Reading | The Fundamentals of Being a Good Girl by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone, Love and Sportsball by Meka James, Only on Gameday by Kristen Callihan & The Percy Jackson Series by Rick Riordan Sierra Simone's Currently Reading | Son of the Morning by Akwaeke Emezi Julie Murphy's Currently Reading | The Long Game by Rachel Reid ______________________________________________________________________ Make sure to subscribe and rate the Bubbles & Books Podcast. And don't forget to share it with your friends. Follow us on Instagram: @bubblesandbookspodcast Follow Dog-Eared Books on Instagram: @dogearedbooksames Shop Dog-Eared Books and pick up your books in store or have shipped HERE. Interested in audiobooks? Listen while supporting Dog-Eared Books HERE. Interested in e-books? Listen while supporting Dog-Eared Books HERE. Learn more about a Dog-Eared Books book subscription HERE. Visit us! www.dogearedbooksames.com

Send us a textBeing kind is not the problem. Being ethical is not the problem. Being heart-led is not the problem. But being “good” like a "good girl conditioning" at the expense of being honest, direct, decisive and in your full embodied power is costing you clients, money, momentum and success.In this episode, we're talking about the hidden cost of “good girl business.”We unpack:How being agreeable dilutes your messagingWhy over-consideration creates under-conversionThe ways moral superiority sneaks into under-earningHow fear of being judged keeps you vague instead of potentWhy neutrality is not safety, it's actually invisibilityI also share:How the need to be liked undermines authorityWhy clarity feels “edgy” when you've been conditioned to soften everythingThe difference between ethical leadership and self-silencingHow your business becomes more impactful when you stop trying to be palatableWhen you stop trying to be “good,” you create space to actually DO GOOD in the world with the resources you are responsible for. And that's when your work truly reaches the people it's meant for.With love,Robyn xoP.S. If you loved this episode, I'd appreciate if you could leave a review or share on your socials. It truly means the world to me and helps amplify this message for other mothers desiring a supportive business for motherhood. If you would like to learn more about The Mothered Business Mastermind, click here. Please say hi to me on Instagram @robyn.gooding or take a peek at my website for more info www.robyngooding.comClick here to book your call anytime! Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared reflects my personal experience and professional perspective as a coach. Any stories shared are anonymized or composite examples drawn from real experiences, with identifying details changed to protect privacy. This podcast does not constitute medical, legal, financial, or mental health advice. No specific outcomes or results are guaranteed, and individual results may vary.

What happens when you stop trying to be “good” and start listening to your body? In this intimate and eye-opening conversation, Aideen welcomes back empowerment coach Julie Vander Meulen to explore the hidden rules of Good Girl Syndrome—how it frays our nervous systems, shapes our relationships, and quietly erodes our joy.Through real stories and practical, compassionate tools, Julie shares how a single word like“ouch” can soften conflict, why pausing to feel fear can change the entire direction of a conversation, and how circling back later can repair moments where panic once shut everything down. Together, we dig into the deeper roots: why so many of us confuse praise with love, why criticism can feel like exile, and how gentle self-acceptance practices can rebuild inner safety.Julie offers grounded rituals for reclaiming your worth: mirror moments, affectionate self-talk, and giving yourself rest without permission slips. We challenge achievement as the measure of value and offer a truer anchor: your essence is worthy by existing. From that truth, your voice softens, your boundaries strengthen, and connection becomes a place of honesty rather than performance.And then there's joy. Joy as a practice, not a prize. If happiness feels far away, begin with a memory of laughter and let your body remember. Reclaim small delights you once dismissed as unproductive: music that moves you, simple meals, playful imitation. In a world that hurts, joy isn't denial—it's fuel. When we allow ourselves to feel fully and show up fully, we become safer for each other.If this conversation resonates, subscribe, share it with someone who needs permission to be imperfect, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to their own voice. Your voice matters here.Support the showThanks for listening! To book a free consultation with Aideen visit https://www.confidenceinsinging.com/contact/

Growing up in the Midwest during the 1980s, Kristi Straw was raised with traditional values of being the quiet, grateful “good girl," don't speak too boldly, and never outshine others. Alongside this mandate to be humble and accommodating came the classic Midwestern lessons in kindness, like let others go first at an intersection, and cook a pot roast for the new neighbors. But lurking underneath the surface was an undercurrent of self-diminishment. These expectations and beliefs would be both barriers and fuel for Kristi's eventual rise in the corporate world. Leaning into relentless drive and adaptability, she climbed from individual contributor to bank president and C-suite executive in just a few years. But behind the impressive title and substantial paycheck was a steadily growing sense of inauthenticity. She describes years of “chameleonizing” or masking her true self to fit an environment that wasn't built for her bold ideas, her height, or her emerging leadership voice. Ultimately, her success required constant shape-shifting and sacrificing parts of herself, a survival tactic rooted in childhood messages about what women “should” be. Everything came to a head when, after finally reaching the top, Kristi realized three hours into her dream job that she simply couldn't conform anymore. She found herself lying on her office floor with the stark realization that this life was no longer "fine." The money, status, and access couldn't mask the fundamental misalignment between who she was becoming and who she wanted to be. That raw acknowledgment sparked her greatest pivot yet. Now, Kristi is fiercely committed to building communities based on authentic connection, collaboration, and high standards of integrity. As a coach and author, she champions what she calls “psychological agility,” aka the ability to adapt, stay open to surprise, and continually learn regardless of the outcome. I suspect you'll relate to her story of realizing that sometimes the most successful-looking life is in fact the one that's keeping you furthest from your true potential. And that no matter what, you have to find the courage to break the rules that never fit you in the first place. Kristi's Hype Song All I Do is Win https://youtu.be/GGXzlRoNtHU?si=9dwag_ZqVPmTJhgV Resources Website: www.LighthouseLeadershipConsultants.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kstrawmba/ Instagram: @LighthouseLeadershipConsultant Invitation from Lori:This episode is sponsored by Zen Rabbit. Smart leaders know trust is the backbone of a thriving workplace, and in today's hybrid whirlwind, it doesn't grow from quarterly updates or the occasional Slack ping. It grows from steady, human communication. Plenty of companies think they're doing great because they host all-staff meetings, keep “open door” policies, and throw the occasional team-building event. Meanwhile, leaders who truly care about culture are choosing better tools. That's where I come in. Forward-thinking organizations bring me in to create internal podcasts that connect people through real stories, honest conversations, and genuine community—your old printed newsletter reinvented for the way people actually work now....

In this episode, I'm sharing my top 10 list of new romance book releases for January 2026 so get ready to jump-start your to-read list for the new year. From F1 romance to nanny romance, marriage of convenience romance and a bit of kink, you are going to love this list of must-read books!BOOKS MENTIONED:Drive Me Crazy by Lizzy Dent: https://amzn.to/4hToI1wThe Odds of You by Kate Dramis: https://amzn.to/3LASn3FRoom to Breathe by Kasie West: https://amzn.to/47zOCUEFundamentals of Being a Good Girl by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone: https://amzn.to/3I2CiCxHart Street Lane by Samantha Young: https://amzn.to/47U8YXuCatch Her If You Can by Tessa Bailey: https://amzn.to/4gyNeEMAnne of a Different Island by Virginia Kantra: https://amzn.to/4hW7nVPFalling for the Fake Lumberjack by Sara Ney: https://amzn.to/47CslWdThe Slow Burn by Ali Rosen: https://amzn.to/43tsd97Dom Com by Adriana Anders: https://amzn.to/3WVpX6OLINKS MENTIONED IN THIS PODCAST: Join the She Reads Romance Books Book Club: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/bookclubA Year of Reading Romance Card Deck: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/a-year-of-reading-romance/Romance Book Reading Journal: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/romance-book-journal/FOLLOW ME! Join My Email List: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/joinBlog: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/ Podcast: https://www.shereadsromancebooks.com/podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shereadsromancebooks Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/shereadsromancebooks Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shereadsromancebooksblog/LEAVE A REVIEW!If you liked this episode or got a book recommendation you can't wait to read, please give a star rating and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast platform. It helps me know what you like and want to hear. Thanks!This post may include affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, GoodGirl LA takes us inside her journey of artistry and reinvention, beginning with her early love for writing lyrics and the sparks of inspiration she found watching icons like Lady Gaga. She speaks on how intuition shapes her fashion, her performances, and the worlds she creates—always balancing beauty with chaos. GoodGirl LA unpacks the symbolism behind her use of knives, not as mere shock value but as an emblem of power and rebellion against expectations placed on women. She describes her music as both weapon and elixir, a force to cut through limitations and awaken creativity in others.From worldbuilding her latest project to reframing the “good girl” narrative as defiance and liberation, she shares why her work is bigger than herself. Ultimately, GoodGirl LA's story is one of embracing authenticity and inspiring the next generation to take up space boldly. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anna Rollins, author of "Famished," joins us for an honest conversation about the intersection of purity culture, eating, body image, and sexual intimacy in marriage in general and especially Christian marriage. We explore what happened in the Christian movement around weight and body image that went beyond general cultural dysfunction and became particularly harmful in church spaces, such as Anna's church creating an eating based programs as she talks about here in and in her book. Drawing on research from Sheila Wray Gregoire's survey of 20,000 women (one of our favorite past guests), Anna unpacks the connection between body shame and sexual intimacy, including the often-hidden correlation between body shame and painful sex that many women don't realize exists. She shares her personal journey of moving from controlling her body through over-exercising to actually caring for and stewarding it well, how she's parenting with intention, and how her relationship with her body has drawn her at first farther but ultimately closer, ultimately, back to God. This conversation is essential for anyone navigating body image in marriage or raising children in the intersection of faith and culture. Find "Famished" wherever books are sold and connect with Anna's work. Listen here on YouTube! Get Anna's book Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing up a Good Girl here! https://a.co/d/eO5BbMa Follow Anna Rollins'Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/annajrollins/?hl=en Find more about your type, the pod, freebies, and SO much more at our website right here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.EnneagramandMarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Get Christa's Best-Selling Book, The Enneagram in Marriage, here! ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/df8SxVx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tenderoni Hotline #10: Hello my love, and welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, our soft and spacious corner of the Feminist Wellness Podcast where we explore your most tender questions about healing, nervous system care, and coming home to yourself. In today's episode, we're doing something a little different and a lot of fun. I'm joined by my dear friend and fellow coach Sara Fisk for a warm, thoughtful, and deeply validating conversation about people pleasing, fawning, and how to find your voice again after a lifetime of being trained to shrink. Together, we unpack what it really means to be a “good girl,” how people pleasing shows up as both a social strategy and a nervous system response, and why so many of us freeze or default to yes even when we mean no. Sara also shares a powerful communication tool that helps you speak with more clarity and confidence without swinging into harshness or abandoning yourself in the process. This episode is filled with laughter, real talk, and body-based insight you can start using right away. If you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “Why didn't I say what I really meant?” this one is for you. So get cozy, pour yourself a little something soothing, and come laugh, learn, and heal with us. Got a question for the Tenderoni Hotline? Send it to me at: podcast@beatrizalbina.com Order your copy of End Emotional Outsouring here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Learn more about Sara Fisk: https://www.sarafisk.coach/

SPONSORS: 1) TRUE CLASSIC: Upgrade your wardrobe and save on @trueclassic at https://trueclassic.com/JULIAN! #trueclassicpod 2) EXPRESS VPN: Secure your online data TODAY by visiting http://ExpressVPN.com/JULIANDOREY PATREON https://www.patreon.com/JulianDorey ****TIMESTAMPS in description below**** Sarah Edmondson is a Canadian actress and podcaster. Edmondson is a former member of NXIVM, a now-defunct s3x cult and pyramid scheme founded by Keith Raniere. PRE-ORDER SARAH's BOOK: https://www.sarahedmondson.com/book SARAH's LINKS: IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarahedmondson/?hl=en X: https://x.com/sarahjedmondson YT: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=a+little+bit+culty FOLLOW JULIAN DOREY INSTAGRAM (Podcast): https://www.instagram.com/juliandoreypodcast/ INSTAGRAM (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/julianddorey/ X: https://twitter.com/julianddorey JULIAN YT CHANNELS - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Clips YT: https://www.youtube.com/@juliandoreyclips - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Daily YT: https://www.youtube.com/@JulianDoreyDaily - SUBSCRIBE to Best of JDP: https://www.youtube.com/@bestofJDP ****TIMESTAMPS**** 0:00 - Intro 1:28 – Many People Can Fall Into Cults…NXIVM, Scientology, HBO's The Vow 12:54 – Good Until It Got Dark, Keith, DOS, Sarah's Acting Background 23:34 – Returning to Vancouver, Sarma, Being Ripe for a Cult 33:02 – What The Bleep, Shifting Consciousness, Situational Vulnerability 44:57 – Open-Minded but Angst, L5D, Micro-dosing, Curriculum, Meeting Mark 54:47 – Rose McGowan, Weinstein, Hollywood Cults, Epstein Parallels 01:04:42 – Sarah Avoiding LA, NXIVM Structure, Tacoma WA, Suzanne 01:15:14 – Suzanne's Manipulation, Holiday Inn Trainings, Nancy & Gaslighting 01:26:15 – Gaslit Expression, Day 3 Switch, Coaching Pyramid, Actors at the Top 01:36:44 – Nancy's Hypnotism, Keith's Manipulation, Spiritual Wives, A-List Trainings 01:54:45 – Vanguard Week, Christ Imagery, Festival of Flowers, Moral Weaponizing 02:04:54 – Dark Turn, Harem Building, Fawn Response, Sarah's Close Calls 02:15:18 – Acting in NXIVM, MLM vs Pyramid, Dalai Lama Endorsement, Tourette Claims 02:24:54 – Tourette Cases, Pseudoscience, Bronfmans, Wild Wild Country, Baskin Robbins Heiress 02:35:50 – Reaching Proctor, Giving Up Acting, Mexican President's Son, Belonging 02:45:30 – Orange Level, Meeting Nippy, Keith's Lip Kissing, Dating in NXIVM 02:55:16 – The Final Quarter, Suspicions Rising 03:04:29 – Real Improvement or Cult Illusion?, 20k Members, Commitment Patterns 03:08:37 – New episode coming... CREDITS: - Host, Editor & Producer: Julian Dorey - COO, Producer & Editor: Alessi Allaman - https://www.youtube.com/@UCyLKzv5fKxGmVQg3cMJJzyQ - In-Studio Producer: Joey Deef - https://www.instagram.com/joeydeef/ Julian Dorey Podcast Episode 361 - Sarah Edmondson Music by Artlist.io Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Want some pure chaos in the best way? You're in the right place. Nicole and I are back with another Coco & Lala Show takeover, and we're inviting you to get a little…unhinged.

In this episode of 'The Biggest Table,' host Andrew Camp welcomes Anna Rollins, author of 'Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl.' They discuss her memoir, which examines the harmful parallels between diet culture and evangelical purity culture, both of which pressurize women to fear their bodies and appetites. Anna shares her personal struggles with disordered eating, rooted in her upbringing in a strict Christian environment, and how she has navigated healing. The conversation also touches on societal norms, racial implications of body ideals, and the importance of discussing these topics openly. Anna emphasizes grace, forgiveness, and the necessity of honest, nuanced conversations to break free from harmful cultural scripts.Anna Rollins is the author of Famished: On Food, Sex, and Growing Up as a Good Girl (out December 9, 2025 from Eerdmans). Her groundbreaking debut memoir examines the rhyming scripts of diet culture and evangelical purity culture, both of which direct women to fear their own bodies and appetites. Her writing has appeared in outlets like The New York Times, Slate, Electric Literature, Salon, Joyland, and more. She's also written scholarly articles about composition and writing center studies. She's an award-winning instructor who taught English in higher education for nearly 15 years. She is a 2025 Tamarack Foundation for the Arts Literary Arts Fellow. A lifelong Appalachian, she lives with her husband in West Virginia where they're raising their three small children.Follow Anna:Anna's Substack: annajrollinsAnna's Instagram: @annajrollinsThis episode of the Biggest Table is brought to you in part by Wild Goose Coffee. Since 2008, Wild Goose has sought to build better communities through coffee. For our listeners, Wild Goose is offering a special promotion of 20% off a one time order using the code TABLE at checkout. To learn more and to order coffee, please visit wildgoosecoffee.com. 

Purity culture taught us to hide our desire — but what if your pleasure was your power?

In a small town outside the Quad Cities, the shadows came first—quick, darting things that slipped across walls when no one was looking. Her father saw them, her stepmother feared them, but it was the daughter who saw what the others couldn't. One afternoon, she stepped out of her bedroom and froze at the sight of a little blond boy on the stairs—blue eyes, striped shirt, denim overalls. He looked right at her, then turned and vanished before her eyes. It wasn't imagination. Not in that house. Not after the night her stepmother fled a towering shadow that filled the doorway, or the hours she lay awake hearing game controls being mashed in an empty room. Years later, her father confessed that when she was just a toddler, she used to try prying open her window—because “the little boy wanted her to come out and play.” She never saw him again after they moved, but she still wonders why she was the only one he showed himself to. Maybe the shadows had chosen her from the start. #HauntedHouse #RealGhostStory #ParanormalEncounters #ShadowPeople #GhostChild #AfterlifeSigns #VisitationDream #PastLifeMemories #ReincarnationStory #QuadCitiesHaunting #TrueParanormal #SpiritCommunication  Love real ghost stories? Don't just listen—join us on YouTube and be part of the largest community of real paranormal encounters anywhere. Subscribe now and never miss a chilling new story: