How to Be Badassish - Archived

In this episode I realize 5 fundamental truths at the exact same time (Thanks Hamilton lyrics!) ☝

When did you give up your passion? Your TRUE passion? Was it when your parents told you you could never make money with it? When you knew you'd never be famous? Or did it slowly die like a lost love? And furthermore, why do we encourage our children not to follow their passion? Even if it's just for fun and they never WANT to be famous? I feel like if we allowed more passion for the sheer joy, we would be a lot less miserable as a species. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Since when did Porn become the standard in the way women should look, and what is "sexy"?! Today I talk about the different sides of nude photos, how one is empowering and the other feels like a cry for validation. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

When exactly in history did sex become taboo? And why are we so incapable of talking about the thing that all of us do, most of us enjoy, and literally is the reason all of mankind exists?! I don't know, so let's talk about it. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Why do we believe everything that's worth it, needs to be hard? What if everything is supposed to be easy? What if those huge, ginormous, amazing dreams we have really are our calling and we've believed a society that thinks unless it's hard, we don't deserve it? And yet...we idolize those that seem to have an effortless life. What if they just stopped believing society? ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

"Even a goddess must carry a machete from time to time." I was sent a message in my DMs from a person who said "For someone who says they are spiritual, you sure seem rather angry. Maybe you should meditate more." To that I say: I'm extremely spiritual...and that's what makes my passion so wonderful. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Never one to back down from controversy, I talk in great detail about the Black Lives Matter movement, why white people have visceral negative reactions to it, and how if we don't address this NOW then we will never evolve as a human race. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Laura Charelle LOVES her dark chocolate. Not the 65% dark chocolate on strawberries at Valentine's Day...the dark chocolate (or as I call it: black chocolate because it's damn near solid black) that has 85% cacao or higher. One step away from bakers chocolate. Why? Because according to this healthy hottie, it contains TONS of magnesium which is basically the main nutrient your body needs during your period. But even better than that, Laura has hacked her hormone system to a level we dream of. She knows exactly when to schedule meetings, and when to schedule naps. (Read that again!!) She's figured out how to HEALTHILY lose weight (put the shake down!) What kind of exercise you SHOULD be doing each week (not you, P90X...) How to be more efficient in work and your day to day And even has some brilliant thoughts on why women shouldn't apologize at work... Bonus? She can teach you all the things.

Medicine is defined as: (among North American Indians) any object or practice regarded as having magical powers, while Drugs are defined as: a chemical substance used in the treatment, cure, prevention, or diagnosis of disease or used to otherwise enhance physical or mental well-being. Most humans would say medicines are GOOD, while drugs are BAD. But what if our definitions of what make a drug a drug, and a medicine a medicine....are backwards? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Cat Eckrode is a super geek with a love of Skyrim and GoT. But Cat is also a business owner that realized "how spending time outdoors got me to own being a badass." In her 30s, she went from an unhealthy, sedentary lifestyle and almost zero previous athletic experience, to outdoor adventure badass who explores all over the PNW (Pacific NorthWest) and inspires others to get after their own epic adventures. The best part? Even if you're a city dweller, she shows you all the ins and outs on trail safety, the best spots to go to just be (with nature or yourself!), and can give you all the facts on WHY you totally want to go into the wild! If you want to connect more with Cat Eckrode and The Outdoor Adventure Kind, click the links above. Follow her on social media below: www.theoakind.com Insta: @TheOAKind FB: @TheOAKind ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Sh*z is SERIOUSLY crazy right now. And scary. And unending.... And yet, we're so freaked out about getting COVID-19, we forget that we WILL all die someday. Because we're living organisms and that's the life cycle. So, yes, the entire world is topsy-turvy...but if you're honest with yourself, were you REALLY even living in the first place? ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

We put so much effort into all the relationships in our lives...but what about the one with the person who was there from day one, and will be there until you go back to the sourse? Yourself. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Sh*! is scary right now...and yet, is it scary because it's unknown? Or because of media? Being claircognizant (knowing things I "shouldn't" know because I have no experience or research) is both a blessing and a curse. People always ask "How do you know?" and honestly, man. I don't know where the knowledge comes from...but I DO know I get downloads. Admitting my gift is almost as terrifying as watching the news right now. But I feel it's important. Today I go in depth about the download I got during a meditation about the COVID-19. The good, the potential, the bad, the reason it started...and the ugly. All I can say is the resounding universal message is: Don't waste it. It CAN be a gift, or the apocalypse. For the first time in history, YOU get to choose which way the outcome goes. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Dr. Anita M Jackson loves Pringles and movies, cooking, entertaining, and sleeping. (Don't we all!) But her normalcy isn't the astonishing part, it's the comforting part. Because very often we assume those with great success and lots of degrees (she has quite a few) means they don't have human stuff, or a past for some odd reason. Like they never had troubles or downfalls before becoming this badass we know today. I mean...she's definitely a badass! The awesome fact that she sang in a quartet at Disney's 25th Anniversary, is the founder and CEO of Unlimited Woman Alliance, HER Global Voice, and AMJ Productions and Publication helps! However, in her words: "My professional background is impressive but my journey in life has been transformational, to say the least, with its ups, downs, losses, pain, profound struggles, and deep divine revelations that have helped me heal into my higher self as an Unlimited Woman, CEO, #1 best-selling author twelve times over, exec producer of two online radio and two shows, and so much more. More specifically, my story has abuse, domestic violence, homelessness, ADHD, depression, suicide attempts...and other stuff." I genuinely enjoyed my chat with this powerhouse woman and her explanation between "purpose" and "calling" while getting deep about life, and how sometimes your life imploding is the best gift you can get from the universe. Dr. Anita M Jackson now helps women move from the disempowering belief system of "I'm not enough" to the life-changing empowering truth of "I AM Enough and Unlimited in life, business, wealth and so much more." If you want to connect more with Dr. Anita M Jackson and her programs, click the links above. Follow her on social media below: www.dranitamjackson.com Insta: @DrAnitaMJackson FB: @DrAnitaMJackson ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Here's the deal...I KNOW I'm attractive (now.). But growing up I never felt it. I felt hated by women for looking a certain way, and coveted by men for the same thing... But seriously? Is that REALLY all you think there is to me? Or any woman?? Do we really believe that a woman's entire worth is how she looks in a bathing suit or with makeup? I certainly don't. Let's chat about it in today's episode in celebration of International Women's Day 2020!! #IWD2020 #EachforEqual ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

No, no. Not what does SOCIETY think it means to be successful.....what do YOU feel would make you a success?  It's a question we're never really asked and so we get swept up in the overwhelm of "striving for success" and at what cost? How detrimental is the rest of your life because "success" is all you can think of? Let's chat about this in today's episode... ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Elisabeth Anderson-Sierra has one of the biggest hearts I've ever had the honor to know, and her insane overnight fame has never altered that most beautiful feature of her...and yet she's funny as hell. "Do whales fart?" was a question I was asked before recording (because I open it up to intervewees to ask questions before we get started), and truthfully she peaked my curiosity about it....after I nearly peed laughing. But alas, no whale farting was talked about. Instead we did a deep dive in how she KNOWS she's soooooo unrelatable due to her extreme hyper-lactation condition, and yet after donating nearly 300,000 ounces of breastmilk in less than 5 years (actual numbers! Literally, NO exaggeration!) this badass mamma jamma is the one you WANT to get help from if you are having issues breastfeeding your child. And she has a multitude of ways to allow ANY mom to get it, and 10,000 successful flange fittings for moms to prove it. Elisabeth regularly works 90 hour weeks running multiple massive fan pages, multiple mom support groups, and is putting in place even more ways to support mothers. This serious badass mom of two is prior decorated military, saved someone's life on a plane, an artist and seamstress, and is doing her damndest to save the world one drop of breastmilk at a time. Because above all, Elisabeth believes: "You is kind, you is beautiful, and you is important." If you want to connect more with Elisabeth Anderson-Sierra and One Ounce At At Time™, click the links above. Follow her on social media below: www.OneOunceAtATime.com Insta: @OneOunceAtATime FB: @1OunceAtATime ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Those words are not synonyms. We believe that if we forgive those who have done damage to us, traumatized us, or hurt us...that they are off the hook. But an anchor has no idea that it's stopping a ship from exploring the world. Today I talk about how my journey of forgiveness opened doors I didn't know existed, and how it made the reappearance of ghosts of the past easier to handle. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

SYSTEMS!!! Oh How I love systems. Today I put on my TechWitch hat and talk about the total awesomeness of setting up systems: for your biz or for your life. No matter HOW small your biz is!!! (I'm looking at you solopreneurs!) Wanna learn about setting up your system to finally take a bunch of sh*t off your plate?! Participate in the epic Secret Ops Society

IF you have a #MeToo story that is still too raw and real to hear another, PLEASE skip to 23:15. If you have never had one, congrats. You are an anomaly. I suggest you listen from the beginning.... Traumas. We've all had them, we all suppress some, we all are affected differently. We talk about healing BIG traumas, the ones that shaped our lives when we were children, but what about the ones that others would see as "not a big deal"? Today, I share my most horrific trauma, and one that only was horrifying to me. And how I healed from both. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

"Self-Care" is actually on my shit list for "incorrectly overused words". Why? Because somehow we started believing that self care is easy, is nothing more than a bubble bath or pedicures, and has nothing to do with those surrounding us. So, I'm calling bullshit. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

Why? Why do we have the Imposter Syndrome? Where does it come from? We don't have it as kids when we discover what we are good at. We don't start a business with something we are terrible at. We don't become experts in our fields because we suck at our skill set...so why on Earth does it exist?? Something I ponder and marvel at in today's episode. --- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

When we tell our stories, we always have a bad guy. Our ex, our former friend, our parents...but what if YOU are the villain? What if no matter your integrity, purpose for your choice, or circumstance, you are the bad guy? Today I talk about elements in which I KNOW I'm the bad guy, and I'm weirdly ok with it. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

It's been a full year and then some since my life was completely shattered...and you know what? Now, I'm doing amazing. What would happen if instead of wallowing in our failures - like I've done countless times in my past - we actually celebrated the failures? I'll tell you what happens: Magic. In this episode I give a bit more detail about how I epically failed one year ago, and how it was literally the best thing to ever happen to me. ---- Intro music by: bensound.com Follow me in Instagram: @HowToBeBadass.ish --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtobebadassish/support

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