Issues of Life

Sometimes you are really looking forward to receiving something. Your expectation is over the roof about that thing and then poof, it doesn't happen and you have so many questions that seem unanswered. You feel disappointed but you don't want to acknowledge that it is directed at God. Well, today I'm sharing a personal experience with disappointment and those feelings that we often try to mask. I hope this encourages you on your journey. Don't forget to share this with someone that is going through a season of feeling disappointed or discouraged.

I saw a documentary about visa scams and while it is sad for the people who were duped, I was wondering, are they really innocent? Let' s talk about scams and why they happen...

So I've recently found myself watching dating shows and asking myself how the participants found themselves on these shows.Then it got me thinking about dating apps too...Is it a sign of desperation for someone to actively look for a spouse in such spaces? Click play to listen and join in the conversation!

It's safe to say that we live in a well-informed world. There is so much information available at the scroll or tap of your fingers. But where do you actually draw the line between helpful information and an information overload?

My experience working in Nigeria has been a classic case of "What I ordered versus what I got" Today, I'm sharing some of the things that I wish I had known so that I do better in the future. I'm sure I'm not the only one with stories to tell so I'm looking forward to reading them in the comments. Don't forget to help spread the word about The Issues of Life Podcast :)

This is one of those episodes where I'm just pouring my heart out cuz I'm in one of those phases where it feels like I'm being stretched to the limit. Apparently it's the pain of growing...

We have a guest on today's episode!!! @ayo_is_joy stopped by to talk about recommending people that like us, whether being friends with exes is a wise idea and all that good stuff. Happy listening!!!

There seems to be a demand for the most personal information online these days and so people find themselves giving way too much about themselves in a bid to be popular or loved. Where do we draw the line on how much is too much?

Is respect earned or a right? Are Gen Z people really the most disrespectful generation to have lived? Are Nigerians really as respectful as they think they are? Plenty questions, plenty answers in today's episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

So here are a couple of stories of my experiences with cab drivers toasting me amongst other gist. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

This is coming a little late in the day but you know what they say, "Better late than never". Today's episode is pretty short but I'm hoping we can have conversations about it. Why are Christian men (and women) trying to create new standards that are different from the ones in the Bible? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

It's probably an unpopular opinion but a friend and I were wondering if guys actually really have a spec. I honestly believe that the concept is overrated. Press play so you can hear the whole story. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

So this week is a fun story time. I hope you enjoy it. Also let me know if you would want to hear more stories. Don't forget to follow the podcast and share it with someone that would find it interesting. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

We often use our personal experiences as the reference point when judging other people but it is important to ensure that we aren't ethnocentric in our approach. But what does ethnocentric even mean? Find out all about it in today's episode of the Issues of Life Podcast. Also here is the link to The Not So Common Sense Book https://selar.co/541118 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

We are back with the rest of the insightful episode on toxicity in the family. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Long time no solo episode... Well I'm back talking feminism, confidence and so much more based on the themes of the book, "The Confident Woman". I hope you enjoy the episode! Don't forget to share it with someone too. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

This is one of those table shaking episodes because, how can family be toxic, right? Or you might be a person who absolutely believes that toxicity in the family is a thing. The term "toxic" is definitely another one of the buzzwords of our time but in today's episode we dive into what it actually means in relation to the family. I teamed up with none other than the_holistic_sage because who better to discuss this than two mental health advocates. She also has a podcast which you should listen to: https://open.spotify.com/show/0kcKTgrbWA8HXXu4NzVu5c?si=52ace5bf51af4d2c --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

The National Youth Service Corps year is often one of mixed feelings for many, but it comes to an end pretty quickly. In today's episode I had my friend Baqi on to share his experience now that NYSC is over. We also had plenty of laughs as we looked back at what it was like being "corpers" Don't forget to follow the podcast and share it with some that you know would find it interesting. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

And we are back with another fun episode, and I have the lovely Mosope in the building!!! Today we are talking about how to navigate friendships with your friends that have gotten married. It was an eye opening conversation for me and I'm sure you will enjoy it as much as we did. To listen to Mosope's podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/1hlOVlt51LKQkOg5GUSZ01?si=71815f8687934c5c --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Have you ever felt like you were too drained to get through another day? You are actually not alone! For this episode I teamed up with my friend @judith.jae to talk about burnout. Judith also has a podcast that you can listen to here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7MYXPgN0Ncd7R1MYMeZSf0?si=ygtqRdDxTcW29PijfNv6-g --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Navigating the sea of unsolicited advice in our latest podcast episode. Tune in as we explore the well-intentioned, the absurd, and the unexpected gems that come our way. Let's talk about the art of gracefully handling the unsolicited and finding wisdom in unexpected places. #PodcastWisdom #UnsolicitedAdvice --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

This is the long awaited sequel to our last episode on relationships. Apparently it was a hit! So today we are reviewing a movie and obviously there will be plenty shenanigans in between. If you are curious enough to watch the movie, here is the link: https://youtu.be/aJ9XPjSBazk?si=8SdgHcp48wuHS_0e --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Soooo Valentine's day has come... Whether you're indifferent, pressurized, excited or something in between, the episode go sha make sense to you :) That's the caption...Happy listening!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Consistency is about showing right? I wasn't too sure what to talk about today so the episode is a cocktail of random thoughts :) Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

This is the money episode :) And the best part is that I have the amazing Anjola as my guest!!! I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed recording :) Into music: Yahweh - Superz ft. Nathanael https://open.spotify.com/track/7pPbQTR0g6Dwvy5QUCp4wZ?si=FmXQ5ujTSRST5xyh93pA6Q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

New Episode Alert!!! I really enjoyed realing "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale so I decided to come on here and share some things that stood out for me. Music: Yahweh - Superz ft. Nathanael https://open.spotify.com/track/7pPbQTR0g6Dwvy5QUCp4wZ?si=FmXQ5ujTSRST5xyh93pA6Q --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

It's go time fam!!! Thank you so much to everyone that has been a part of the podcast journey so far! I'm so thankful for you! I know that this year will be an amazing one so here is your official welcome to a new season!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

I am back after a long disappearance and today's episode is about my experience recommending A for B.. Doesn't make sense much yeah? That's why you need to listen to the episode :) I wan to hear from you, have you had experiences with referrals that went south? Send in a voice message with your story: ⁠https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music!You have to go check him out on:Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9gSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

So this is one those episodes that was super fun to record, I had my sister @ayo_is_joy on and we had a lot of laughs and interesting thoughts shared. Are arranged marriages oudated? What is Chemistry? Are you open to matchmaking? She has a podcast too! It's called the Multi-talented's Dilenma Here's the link https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/DUH8Dwk80zb I definitely want to hear your opinions on everything we talked about in this episode. Follow the podcast on Instagram @issuesoflifepodcast Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music!You have to go check him out on:Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9gSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-linkSend in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

Being an adult is an entirely intricate process on its own, thrown in the dynamics of frienship and you have a hodge podge of complication. At least it seems that way on the surface but is that the reality? It might be for some people but it honestly doesn't have to be the norm. I share my thoughts and experiences on adult friendships on today's episode. Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

I've always described myself as being from 1945 but well based on my birth year I'm actually Gen Z. I don't think there is anyone who hasn't heard about the war between Gen Z's and Millennials but beyond the jabs and clapbacks on Twitter there are fundamental differences in ideology that make the battle so deep. Today's episode dissects the stereotypes that follow the Gen Z lot. Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

What was the first thing that came to your mind when you saw the topic of this episode? If you're anything like most of us, you immediately thought about romantic relationships and then proceeded to think about whether the answer is a yes or no. I've noticed that romantic relationships gather quite the traction as compared to other topic of life, is this the case? Let's discuss. I'm so excited to have my sister on the episode and I know you will have as much fun listening as we had recording. Don't forget that you can leave your feedback because I absolutely enjoy hearing from you. Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

I'm super excited to be bringing content on a steady... Well maybe I should stop making noise about it till I've been at it for a couple of months/ Then again, we need to celebrate the small wins? Anywayssss, today's episode is a combination of stories, random thoughts and more. I hope you enjoy the episode! Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/olamide-olawale/message

It's a new year and with new years come the feeling of new beginnings. A big part of many people's new year is new year's resolutions but what's the point of them anyways??? Let's have the conversation in today's episode... As usual a big shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

I have been gone for a few weeks...again. So there is a whole story, I promise the end of 2022 was quite dramatic! You can also send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

When you think about the standards that you have for your potential spouse do you have high standards, low standards, or standards somewhere in between? What even qualifies as a standard anyway? Is money or good looks a standard? Let's talk about standards and all the drama that goes with them these days... Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

So I've seen a lot of "living with the family" situations and it can be quite interesting observing the dynamics of the relationship when everyone is choking each other with love. We generally believe that being close to family means being in the same space with them. But does physical proximity actually mean closeness in relationships? Where do we draw the line on how "in my space" people should actually be? Today's episode talks boundaries, closeness and eating in the same plate :) Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

Hello!!!!! This is my official return to the podcast world! Life has been happening but I'm back and don't plan to be gone again! This is the episode where I tell the story of why I haven't recorded an episode in over a year! I had to go back to high school after getting a Masters degree! And that isn't clickbait! There's a lot you should know so grab your earphones and listen in on the story. Shoutout to Ko'rale for this season's music! You have to go check him out on: Instagram: https://instagram.com/koraleclasik?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4xNetlAlJiNRvQGCdL3e9g Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Fvr1wBzDl0Qy3QwcbAVnS?si=7LBS81sfSiO6FJssI-Nx3g&utm_source=copy-link --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

You may have heard it said that you attract what you are. I think it's not always the case though --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

Soooo women are now being encouraged to shoot their shots because apparently some guys are tired of being rejected. Let's talk about it, who should be shooting shots? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

So in case you didn't already know, I'm a graduate of Clinical Psychology, that means that I will definitely have at least one episode dedicated to my field. This is a casual chat addressing some issues that I have identified as concerning to me, I believe there's something to be gained for every listener. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

You didn't think I was done with my rant just yet did you? I still had a couple of things to say so here's the part 2. But this is the end for now... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

This episode is honestly more of a rant about some of the things I've experienced as a "Nigerian living in the Diaspora". Anyone who didn't grow up in Nigeria can definitely relate to this episode. I'd love to hear some of your experiences, comments, thoughts etc on the subject in general! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

Doesn't it feel just wonderful to know that guy/girl likes you? I hate to break it to you though, "I like you" is not a statement of intent. Let's talk about the phrase "I like you" in this episode... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

"Failure to plan is planning to fail." You have likely heard this being said before... The saying motivates us to always have a backup plan but what happens when we focus more on the backup than the actual plan? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

It is common knowledge that Nigerians throw some of the most lavish weddings in the world and the practice of spraying money is a part of the party. This episode talks Nigerian weddings. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

I always cringe when someone outrightly tells me that they want to be my friend because I believe that friendships don't need an introductory clause. It took me a lot longer to realize that the statement is actually a pick up line, I know, I sound like I lived under a rock. So let's talk about this whole new definition of friendship... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

I'm sure we all know that feeling when someone says something really offensive and then goes "I didn't mean it..." Do you believe them or do you think they actually meant it? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

We all want and need to have money, but where do we draw the line on what is a healthy need for money and what isn't? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

We're back with season 2!!!!! Here is the trailer, well sort of, cuz this is much longer than two minutes but anywaysss welcome to the new season. Feel free to suggest topics you would discussed. If you are just joining, welcome on board! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message

The question "What's next?" can be tough to answer and could leave one feeling like you really don't have a plan for your life. Does not having a plan at the moment mean you are done for? I share my experience in this episode. *Song: Open my eyes - Angeloh * --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/olamide-olawale/message