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Most men carry a wound they rarely talk about—and it often begins with their relationship with their father. Whether your dad was absent, emotionally unavailable, overly critical, or simply unable to give you what you needed, that experience can quietly shape your identity, relationships, ambition, anger, and even the way you parent your own children. In this episode, Ryan shares his own story of growing up without a present father and explores how the "father wound" influences countless men long into adulthood. More importantly, he explains why understanding the wound isn't about making excuses—it's about taking responsibility, breaking generational cycles, and becoming the man your children need. If you've ever found yourself chasing approval, struggling to feel "enough," or determined not to repeat your father's mistakes, this conversation is for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 The Father Wound Most Men Never Discuss 02:36 Growing Up Without a Present Father 04:52 The Hidden Cost of Father Absence 06:40 What the Father Wound Really Is 08:54 How the Wound Shows Up in Adult Men 13:21 Understanding Isn't the Same as Blaming 14:45 Grieve It—Don't Bury It 15:52 Becoming Your Own Father 18:43 Stop Waiting for His Approval 21:02 Breaking the Generational Cycle 22:30 Forgiveness Is Not the Finish Line 24:41 Build Your Band of Brothers (Iron Council) 26:06 Final Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Healing the Father Wound and Restoring Healthy Masculine Essence: A Guided Hypnotic JourneyChristel Arcucci welcomes spiritual practitioners and healers to the Mystic Body Show and frames the episode as a body-based, hypnotic audio journey to help restore healthy masculine essence and heal the collective father wound through balancing masculine and feminine energies. She invites listeners to set intentions, relax through breath and visualization, and enter a protected nature sanctuary to meet inner archetypes, focusing on the inner child and inner masculine while the inner feminine holds space. The guided process includes soul-level witnessing of one's father or the “infinite father,” optional forgiveness, and receiving support for past pain. Listeners then connect with healthy masculine archetypes—wise king, warrior, magician, and lover—and envision integrating wise and wounded inner aspects. The episode closes with self-inquiry questions.Invitation: If you're ready to consciously install a new operating system a Hypnosis Recode session is designed to Delete the default program, stop pouring energy into the life you've outgrown, and start living on your own terms. Book your session at mysticbodyacademy.com/recodeListen to the wisdom teaching behind this journey: Healing the Father Wound by Cultivating Healthy Masculine Essence #16000:00 Divine Masculine Call00:27 Show Welcome Mission00:59 Hypnosis Recode Offer01:31 Set Intentions Prayer02:57 Breath Relaxation Start05:47 Nature Sanctuary Visualization07:10 Inner Child Father Healing12:27 Soul Gaze Forgiveness15:21 Masculine Archetypes Four17:33 Integration Future Self19:49 Self Inquiry Questions21:16 Return Grounding Thanks21:57 Akashic Recode Promo22:50 Closing Review FarewellQuestions? Message me here :-)Support the showDid you know the chapter you didn't dare write yet is already written?The Akashic Recode helps you stop pouring energy into the life you've outgrown and pour every ounce of life force into the life you want to be living. We're not rehashing what didn't work. We're shifting the agreements you've been unconsciously keeping so you can release the version of yourself you built for everyone else and begin the pleasure-led, purpose-filled life that's been waiting for you.This is designed for the pleasure-led woman who is ready to own her power, embody truth, and live unapologetically.Begin your Unapologetic Era. https://www.MysticBodyAcademy.com/recode
In this deeply personal episode, Marley shares one of the biggest breakthroughs she has ever had around masculine energy, money, relationships, and healing childhood wounds. She explores how the unmet needs we carry from our relationship with a parent can unconsciously shape our experiences with love, money, and life itself. Through a powerful framework and real-life examples, Marley explains why we often seek externally what we believe we are missing internally, and how reconnecting to your own inner source can transform every area of your life.If you've ever felt abandoned, unchosen, unsupported, or like you're constantly chasing something outside yourself, this episode will give you a completely new perspective on healing, manifestation, and personal freedom. In This Episode We Cover:Why childhood experiences with your parents can shape your relationship with money and loveThe hidden wounds that attract repeating relationship patternsHow unmet needs create subconscious beliefs that influence your realityThe connection between masculine energy, money, and emotional safetyWhy external validation can never heal an internal woundThe difference between seeking from lack versus creating from wholenessHow to identify the phrase you always wished you heard from a parentWhy the universe mirrors your unhealed wounds back to youThe concept of becoming "whole" by healing the "holes" withinHow reconnecting to a higher power can shift feelings of abandonment and rejectionLearning to give yourself what you've been seeking from othersWhy your relationship with money often reflects your deepest emotional patternsHow to move from desperation and scarcity into overflow and abundanceThe power of becoming your own inner source of love, safety, and validation Key TakeawaysThe things we spend our lives seeking from money, relationships, and the world around us are often reflections of unmet needs from our past. When we learn to source those needs from within and reconnect to our own wholeness, we stop chasing and start attracting. True abundance begins when you realize that everything you've been looking for already exists inside of you. Resources & Links✨ Book a 1:1 Subconscious Clearing Call with me! https://tidycal.com/marleyrose/subconscious-clearing✨ Join my FREE live training: Clear Your Limiting Beliefs: www.marleyrose.ca/clear ✨ Download the Higher Self App: https://www.instagram.com/higherself.app/✨ Join House Of Freedom https://www.marleyrose.ca/houseoffreedom✨ Explore my programs and coaching opportunities: linktr.ee/marleyroseharrisConnect With MarleyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/marleyroseharris/Website: https://www.marleyrose.ca/Email: hello@marleyrose.caYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marleyroseharrisLove The Podcast?If this episode resonated with you, I would be so grateful if you left a review.Send a screenshot of your review & email it to hello@marleyrose.ca and we'll send you a special gift as a thank you for supporting the show.Thank you for being here, angel. I appreciate you more than you know.
Could your father wound affect your marriage? Maybe it surfaces in struggling with trust, low self-esteem, or difficulty forming healthy boundaries. Kia Stephens helps you learn how to heal, using practical tools to overcome insecurities and find wholeness with God. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Could your father wound affect your marriage? Maybe it surfaces in struggling with trust, low self-esteem, or difficulty forming healthy boundaries. Kia Stephens helps you learn how to heal, using practical tools to overcome insecurities and find wholeness with God. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Born and raised in the Philippines, Alma spent much of her life repeating patterns she couldn't fully understand, patterns shaped by childhood experiences, cultural conditioning, relationships, and subconscious beliefs formed early in life.For years, she searched for change through external circumstances, believing a new environment, relationship, or achievement might finally bring the freedom she was looking for. Yet the same emotional struggles and recurring patterns continued to surface.In this episode of Back At It, Alma shares her journey from growing up in the Philippines, to building a life abroad in Dubai and later Poland, and how those experiences ultimately led her toward deeper trauma-informed healing and Root Cause Therapy.Tune in on the latest episode of Back At It as Alma and David explore how childhood environments shape adult relationships, the hidden impact of subconscious beliefs, the patterns many Filipinos silently carry through generations, and what becomes possible when we begin addressing challenges at their roots rather than only managing the symptoms.Today, Alma is a trauma-informed coach and Root Cause Therapy practitioner who helps people uncover the subconscious beliefs, emotional conditioning, and survival patterns shaping how they show up in life, from self-abandonment and people-pleasing to emotional suppression and difficulty trusting themselves, so they can break recurring patterns and create meaningful change in their relationships, decisions, and lives.TIMESTAMPS:(00:00): Intro(01:30): In-depth to her conditioning growing up in the Philippines(08:08): How childhood memories would lead to limiting beliefs played out in adulthood(16:31): Mother & Father Wound(22:44): Moving to Dubai and trying to seek validation(30:43): Moving to Poland and confronting her trauma(36:27): Discovery of Root Cause Therapy(47:37): The changes in her life as a result of root cause therapy: digging into the root of her emotions and behavior(56:09): First steps to apply root cause therapy into your own life(59:39): Her goal using root cause therapy as a means to help Filipinos break multi-generational behavior and be themselves(1:07:10): The habits to build to be proud of who you are(1:12:11): Where does Alma see herself in the next 5 years?(1:16:29): Not regretting learning root cause therapy later rather than sooner(1:18:58): The main lesson she wants her children to learn as they grow up(1:21:39): Closing Remarks
What happens when a leader confronts their own trauma?In this fascinating conversation, Piers Cross sits down with Dr. Ron Kamacho, police chief, leadership consultant and author, to explore how emotional intelligence transformed his life and leadership.Ron shares his journey from highly driven, ego-based leadership to a more compassionate, accountable and emotionally intelligent approach.Together they discuss: Childhood trauma and leadership The father wound and identity Emotional intelligence in policing Leadership under pressure Building healthy organisational culture Why ego destroys careers Self-awareness and introspection Compassion and accountability Mental health in law enforcement The future of leadership A deeply honest conversation about what it truly means to lead yourself before leading others.Timestamps (1:03:25)00:00 Introduction to Dr. Ron Kamacho 02:05 Childhood trauma, policing and proving himself 07:30 Therapy, emotional intelligence and transformation 12:15 Leadership lessons from Afghanistan and Mexico 18:00 Humility, ego and personal growth 22:15 Leadership under pressure and SWAT experiences 28:10 Emotional regulation and self-awareness 33:20 Why leaders struggle with self-awareness 39:10 Growth mindset versus fixed mindset 43:45 Building culture through leadership 49:00 Ego kills careers 53:15 Accountability, compassion and leadership 57:30 Trauma, policing and mental health 01:01:00 Ron's book: Bringing Ego to the Forefront 01:03:25 Closing reflections---Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/
My dad passed away last Thursday. In this episode, I reflect on his life. Kierkegaard had a very complex relationship with his father also. No matter what our fathers did or did not say and do in this life, we have a Heavenly Father who loves us and made provision for us in Christ. My dad was reading the "Four Loves" by C.S. Lewis which I did not know until my brother and I cleaned out his room at the Assisted Living facility on Monday. That has given me great encouragement that my dad was seeking and finding before he passed from this world. This episode is dedicated to George Bierker, 1935 to 2026.
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I break down what people really mean when they talk about “daddy issues” and the deeper father wound that often goes unspoken. I explore how a woman's relationship with her father can shape the way she experiences love, trust, and validation in adulthood. We look at the patterns that emerge - not from blame, but from understanding - and how these dynamics show up in relationships. Most importantly, I talk about what it takes to recognize and break these cycles so they don't keep repeating.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - The “Daddy Issues” Conversation Begins00:45 - Why This Isn't About Blaming Fathers01:20 - Absence, Inconsistency & Emotional Distance02:05 - How Love Gets Wired Through Instability03:10 - Chasing Validation in Relationships04:05 - Not Evil, But Conditioned07:25 - Seeing Love Through the Lens of Betrayal11:40 - Pushing Away What You Actually Need16:10 - How the Father Wound Shapes Identity21:30 - Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns27:05 - Awareness as the Turning Point31:10 - What Isn't Healed Will Repeat***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
We've ignored this for too long.A generation of women is carrying wounds from absent or distant fathers—and it's shaping everything: identity, anxiety, even how we see God.Today, we're calling it out.You are not an orphan. You are deeply loved. And it's time to start living like it.Shop MyFreedomCart for trusted, American-made products that support your values.http://myfreedomcart.com/heidiShow mentions: http://heidistjohn.com/mentionsWebsite | heidistjohn.comSupport the show! | donorbox.org/donation-827Rumble | rumble.com/user/HeidiStJohnYoutube | youtube.com/@HeidiStJohnPodcastInstagram | @heidistjohnFacebook | Heidi St. JohnX | @heidistjohnFaith That Speaks Online CommunitySubmit your questions for Fan Mail Friday | heidistjohn.com/fanmailfriday
Welcome to another collaboration between myself and myself and my old ally 'from across the pond', John Fontaine. This conversation takes us through the world of literature—our own personal experiences with it, the books and stories that have influenced us, and the creative process we now use to produce our own literature (non-fincion for myself, fiction, poetry and biography for John). We talk about known literature works such as: Stephen King's IT, The Hardy Boys Mystery Stories, the Bible... We mention authors like J.D.Salinger, Gerald Durrell, Tolkien, Shakespeare and many more. And of course, our own works—especially John's latest spy-novel Turn the Page and my own Father-Wound and the Blueprint for Masculinity. We also reflect on the writing process, its many twists and turns, and what it takes to produce a finished book as an independent author. If you enjoy literature of any kind, this podcast episode has something to offer you! You can watch the video here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=O9fGU_JRb7M
Healing the father wound through Christ is more than just a spiritual concept—it's a pathway to reclaim your true identity and break free from generational pain.If you've ever felt the ache of an absent or unloving father, this episode offers a powerful revelation: your worth and who you are can be reshaped by understanding God's unwavering, nurturing love. Discover how confronting deep-seated abandonment through scripture can dismantle the lies of unworthiness and help you embrace your divine identity.In this heartfelt conversation, J. Rosemarie Francis shares her personal journey of healing—from uncovering painful truths about her biological father to realizing that God's love is the ultimate source of security, acceptance, and purpose. You'll hear how a few biblical insights transformed her perspective, freeing her from the chains of pain and guiding her to lead with confidence and compassion.This episode is a vital reminder that no matter what you've endured, there's a resilient, loving presence waiting for you to accept it.You'll discover: practical steps to heal the father wound—like forgiving yourself and your earthly father, immersing yourself in scripture, and documenting your growth.Plus, J. Rosemarie breaks down key biblical stories, like Genesis 3 and Cain's story, to illustrate God's tender, fatherly heart even when we stray. She explains how embracing God's love can be the anchor for your identity, your relationships, and your legacy, empowering you to break cycles of hurt and become a cycle breaker for the next generation.If you're a single mom feeling the weight of past abandonment and longing for true acceptance, this episode offers clarity, hope, and actionable tools to turn pain into power. It's about rewriting your story in Christ's love—so you can walk forward with confidence, purpose, and a renewed sense of self. Your healing journey starts here.This episode captures the universal pain of father wounds while offering a clear, hopeful pathway toward healing in Christ. It combines heartfelt storytelling with practical steps, making it both relatable and actionable—perfect for single moms ready to reclaim their identity and nurture resilient, faith-filled lives.Host: J. Rosemarie Francis is a passionate speaker, author, and podcast host dedicated to helping single moms heal, grow, and thrive through faith. Her personal story and biblical insights make her a trusted guide for breaking free from the pain of the father wound.Explore books by J. Rosemarie Francis: https://amzn.to/481EhReJoin the discussion: Courage to Believe Devotional Group | SoloMoms! Talk Podcast ChatIf you find this podcast helpful, please share it with another solo mom or write us a review on Apple or Spotify. Thanks.https://solomomstalk.mysites.io/podcast-2-copy/healing-the-father-wound-through-christ-to-unlock-your-true-identityThis podcast is hosted by Captivate, try it yourself for free.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy
You're not “too much.” You're not “too ambitious.” And you're definitely not unlucky in love.But if you keep finding yourself over-giving, overworking, and attracting emotionally unavailable men… there's a deeper pattern at play.In this episode, we're unpacking the father wound — and how it silently shapes the way high-achieving women relate to masculine energy, aka men and money.Because this isn't just about dating the wrong guy. It's about why receiving feels unsafe. Why you default to proving, chasing, and perfecting & why no level of success ever quite feels like enough.Inside, I break down:Why the father wound wires you for anxious attachment and attraction to unavailable menHow it drives over performance in business (and blocks true wealth)The hidden link between emotional unavailability and your “type”Why “queen energy” isn't a vibe — it's a result of inner safety and wholenessAnd how to shift from chasing to magnetismThis episode will call you forward and show you what's actually been running the show behind the scenes.So pour your matcha, open your journal, and get ready babe — because this is where you stop earning love, money, and validation… and start receiving it.Intrigued by this episode and committed to diving wayyy deeper this year?This is the work we do inside my brand new 4-month mastermind experience, THE MAGNETIC WOMAN.Lemme break the curriculum down for you and give you a pre-taste of what awaits you when you go all in:Identity & Mindset Recalibration— aka not “thinking differently”, but being different, and leading yourself differently in everyday life situations. Feminine Embodiment + Nervous System Safety— Think – attraction without anxious attachment. Connection without neediness. Inner wholeness. No more rushing around, stressing, overthinking, or chasing out of fear.Somatic Healing Work— That's when old patterns dissolve, and your standards for yourself and others naturally rise. Aligned Wealth + Career Expansion— Strategy + resource management to make your life and career effortless and successful. It's time to master money, take quantum leaps in your career and have more freedom.Love + Relationship Calibration— Embody secure, healthy feminine energy in your love life to finally have that yummy, healthy, polarised romance you desire and deserve.And if you felt your body expand just by reading this…this first-ever round may just be meant for you, bby.Ready to become The Magnetic Woman who attracts effortlessly in 2026 & become THAT WOMAN? CLAIM YOUR SPOT IN MY BRAND NEW, INTIMATE MASTERMIND EXPERIENCE HERE! —-In this episode, I discuss: 00:55 - Intro to the episode - how to become magnetic by healing your father wound04:20 - The reason why top tier women chase masculine energy (men & money)10:30 - The connection between your anxious attachment & chasing energy13:45 - Why perfectionism is the silent driver of your life + how this plays out25:50 - What *Queen energy* looks like in action + why it requires inner wholeness 35:25 - Fun fact - chasing men and money is a result of the exact same pattern39:12 - Practices to begin healing those old patterns 46:10 - A quick little life update + what's next for me—Connect with Laura: Laura's Website: https://www.lauraherde.com/Laura's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura.herde/Laura's 1-1 Coaching: https://www.lauraherde.com/application-1-1Laura's Coaching Certification Course: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedcoachacademy/>> EMAIL ME TO CONNECT/ FOR QUESTIONS: hello@lauraherde.com>> FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM FOR MORE CONTENT: @laura.herde Feel free to share this episode with your bestie, and tag us on IG when you listen so we can repost you. If you're a loyal listener and would like to support the show, leave us a rating/ review, it means the world!Make sure to be subscribed to UNFUCK YOUR LIFE, we publish episodes for you every single Tuesday.Thank you so much for tuning in, love xx
In this episode Manpreet shares her personal story for rewiring her nervous system which was creating in a complex ptsd environment with relational trauma for love, money, expansion and success Complex PTSD and Relational trauma survivors have more protective mechanisms in their nervous system. So when you are actively working on evolving past your childhood to attract healthy love and relationships e.g. money , health. You have to rewire your nervous system for EASY LOVE which will feel dangerous for a system wired for conditional love and self sacrifice for belonging. In this video I break down how I did this for love and then for my business with money and clients. This video is LIFE CHANGING wisdom 00:00 relational patterns 01:40 current relational set point 05:07 stage 1: intention activation 06:27 stage 2 : mirror 08:57 stage 3: awareness 09:32 stage 4: review mirror again 13:57 stage 5: Embodying the love 14:25 stage 6: Relational reality shift and review Join community ITS WITH ME here FREE Healthy love tracker here Join Mastermind for lightworkers , entreprenenurs calling in money and abundance in your careers and life in Overflow here Follow me on socials: Instagram: Tik tok: You tube:Substack: Details on how to work with me here
In today's episode of Brave Talkshow, we dive into a powerful and often unspoken subject: the father wound and the father role. Was your father physically present? Emotionally present? Both… or neither? For many women, the presence—or absence—of a father shapes how we see ourselves, how we trust, how we love, and how we move through the world. In this conversation, we explore how our relationships with our fathers influence our confidence, identity, boundaries, and the stories we carry into adulthood. This is a brave, honest conversation about healing, awareness, and reclaiming our power as women. Because nothing is off the table here.
How does a missing, distant, or imperfect dad shape a life? In the movie He Calls Me Daughter, director Rick Altizer and Rachelle Starr explore father wounds and their ripple effect on faith, identity, and trust. Through Scarlet Hope's bold ministry in the sex industry, real stories of redemption, obedience, and God's transformative love reveal how compassionate faith can heal deep hurts and restore hope in families and hearts. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
A dad is foundational in every person's life, but not everyone has a solid, stable father figure to rely on. When Mark and I work with couples and individuals in our coaching sessions, we are often able to trace a person's current challenges back to father wounds. So many people are still being negatively affected by the difficult relationship they had with their father growing up—many of them without even realizing it.As we help these people unpack the past, we can't undo their experiences. But we can point to our Heavenly Father and remind them that there is incredible healing to be found in the unfailing, unconditional love that only God can provide.My guest today sees the effect of father wounds in her everyday ministry work. Rachelle Starr is the founder of Scarlet Hope and Freedom Signa, a ministry that reaches and disciples exploited women. She's the author of the book Outrageous Obedience, and is passionate about reaching women with hope wherever they are.In this episode, you'll hear:How God used a home-cooked meal to start an entire ministryWhy it's so important to understand that true healing takes time and patienceHow the love of the Heavenly Father can heal wounds we receive from our earthly fatherAnd more!I appreciated Rachelle's story of how God led her to show up in the lives of these precious women, and the healing that has come to so many as a result.Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: https://jillsavage.org/rachelle-starr-289/Check out our other resources: Mark and Jill's Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses Books Marriage Resources: Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources: New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest...
Many women carry what experts call a “Father Wound” — the deep emotional trauma caused by an absent, distant, or abusive father. These wounds can follow a girl into adulthood, shaping her identity, her sense of worth, and even the way she relates to God. But healing is possible. In this episode, director Rick Altizer and Rachelle Starr (founder of Scarlett Hope) discuss the powerful documentary He Calls Me Daughter and the stories of women who share their journeys of pain, faith, and healing. Learn more at https://www.momsforamerica.us. Follow Moms for America on all social platforms: X https://x.com/momsforamerica Instagram https://www.instagram.com/momsforamerica Facebook https://www.facebook.com/MomsforAmerica1/
We interrupt your regularly scheduled programming for a special announcement! Friend of the show Rick Altizer joins us to talk about a powerful new film coming soon to theaters: He Calls Me Daughter. If you've ever wondered how your role as a dad shapes the women in your life, this conversation will grab your heart. This film explores the deep impact fathers have on their daughters and the healing that can happen when we reflect the love of our Heavenly Father. None of us will do that perfectly. We're human, after all. Still, we can learn to love our wives and daughters with more humility, more awareness, and more Christ-like care. That's exactly the kind of conversation this film is meant to spark. Mark your calendars for March 17th-18th. Go out and support this God-honoring, high-quality project when it hits theaters. Grab some tickets, bring your family or small group, and help spread the word. We'll link the website below where you can learn more and find showtimes. Get tickets and learn more: https://hecallsmedaughter.org/
In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof welcome author, speaker, and embodiment coach Preston Smiles for a powerful conversation on the Father Wound — and how paternal presence or absence shapes the nervous system. Together, they explore how a father's regulation, emotional availability, and play patterns influence brain development, stress physiology, attachment, intimacy, and leadership. Drawing from both lived experience and developmental research, this episode examines the real impact of masculine containment — not through blame, but through understanding. From childhood patterning to adult relationships, parenting, and community repair, this conversation offers grounded insight, somatic depth, and a hopeful path toward nervous system healing. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro/The Good Boy Pattern 08:00 – The Father Wound 17:30 – Play and Masculine Energy 33:30 – Shame and Reclaiming the Masculine 52:30 – Capacity and Embodied Partnership Key Takeaways: The fatherwound isn't just emotional, it's neurological and somatic, shaping how we regulate stress, relate, and play. Healthy masculine presence supports brain development through movement, physical play, safety, and co-regulation. Many relational patterns come from what was never modeled, not from personal failure. Healing happens through embodied experience, safe relationships, and repeated nervous system repair, not just insight. Resources Mentioned: The Bridge Method – Workshops led by Preston Smiles: https://www.thebridgemethod.org/ Spiritual Millionaire, by Preston Smiles: https://preston-davis.mykajabi.com/book Instagram: @PrestonSmiles: https://www.instagram.com/prestonsmiles/ Call to Action: Neurosomatic Intelligence is now enrolling : https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/nsi-certification Learn to work with Boundaries at the level of the body and nervous system at https://www.boundaryrewire.com Get a two-week free trial of neurosomatic training at https://rewiretrial.com Sacred Synapse: an educational YouTube channel founded by Jennifer Wallace that explores nervous system regulation, applied neuroscience, consciousness, and psychedelic preparation and integration through Neurosomatic Intelligence. Wayfinder Journal: Track nervous system patterns and support preparation and integration through Neurosomatic Intelligence. 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The father wound doesn't just affect your childhood—it impacts every relationship you have, from romantic partners to money, friends, and even your relationship with yourself. In this episode I share my personal journey of healing from a toxic father and breaking the cycle of dysfunctional relationships. I show you exactly how I rewrote my relational blueprint, raised my standards, and ultimately met my husband. You'll learn: How to identify your non-negotiables and must-haves How to remove unhealthy relationships from your life How to embody emotionally available love for yourself How to attract the love you deserve, without chasing or settling
Ever felt like you're doing everything and still being told you're “lucky”? Let's name what culture keeps invisible: the mother and father wounds that train women to carry the emotional and mental load while men are praised for “helping.” Digging into how these patterns form, why your nervous system might read imbalance as normal, and what it takes to build fair, loving homes without martyrdom.I share how “we never argue” can hide suppression, why repair beats perfection, and how trained tolerance stealthily shapes who we choose and how we relate. We talk about weaponised incompetence, the praise economy that centres men for basics, and the subtle scripts that teach children Dad rests and Mum compensates. Then we move to solutions: shifting from “just tell me what to do” to proactive noticing, running weekly logistics councils, auditing the mental load, and raising kids who see and act. This is trauma-aware work, with space for nuance if anger once meant danger; we practise boundaries, co-regulation, and small wins that compound.You'll hear a reframe on healthy feminine and masculine energies as capacities we all hold—attunement and structure, receptivity and initiation—used not to excuse imbalance but to create presence, accountability, and ease. Awakening can be messy and grief-filled, yet it opens room for better agreements and genuine reciprocity. If you're ready to stop tolerating what drains you and start building a household where contribution is shared and seen, this conversation is your map. If it resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review.More from me at KirstyDee.comText the show. Ask a question
In this episode of Let's Get Vulnerable, we continue our 3-part series The Parent Wound & Your Attachment Style by exploring how the father wound shapes the way you experience love, intimacy, and self-worth. I'm breaking down how emotional absence, inconsistency, criticism, or unpredictability from a father figure wires your nervous system and becomes the blueprint for the partners you choose, the dynamics you repeat, and what feels “normal” in love. If you've ever found yourself overgiving, avoiding closeness, or feeling unsafe with emotionally available partners, this episode will help you understand why and what actually heals it.Inside the episode:What the father wound is and why it shapes love so deeply, including how approval, protection, and being chosen become core attachment needsHow the father wound shows up in anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment, influencing who you're attracted to and why certain relationships feel familiarWhat it takes to heal the father wound, from grieving what you didn't receive to updating your relationship model and learning to choose emotionally available partnersThis work is about understanding your patterns without shame, reconnecting to your sense of worth, and rewiring what love feels like in your body. You are not broken—your nervous system learned what it needed to survive, and it can learn something new.✨ VIP 1:1 Coaching with Dr. Morgan ✨If this episode resonates and you're ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns, I do offer a very limited number of VIP one-on-one coaching spots where we go deep into healing attachment wounds and building secure, emotionally healthy relationships. This is for you if you're serious about doing the work at the root level and creating lasting change.
Why do the same relationship struggles keep showing up — passivity, fear of speaking up, emotional shutdown, or attraction to unavailable partners? In this episode, David breaks down how the father wound quietly shapes a man's confidence, emotional capacity, and behavior in relationships. From absent or critical fathers to passive or volatile ones, each imprint leaves a lasting mark on how men lead, love, and handle conflict. You'll learn how unmet needs from childhood create patterns like people-pleasing, fear of criticism, emotional avoidance, and difficulty committing — and why healing this wound isn't about blaming your father, but about reclaiming your inner authority. This episode offers a grounded framework for understanding your patterns, separating the human father from the wound, and beginning the process of fathering yourself with strength, clarity, and compassion. Key Topics: ⭐ Why Men Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns ⭐ The Father As a Man's First Blueprint ⭐ Understanding the Father Wound and Where It Comes From ⭐ The Ghost Father and the Pain of Emotional Absence ⭐ The Critical Father and the Birth of the Inner Critic ⭐ The Passive Father and the Loss of Direction ⭐ The Dominant Father and a Man's Relationship With Fear and Anger ⭐ "I'm Not Good Enough": The Core Belief Shaping Men's Lives ⭐ Emotional Shutdown and the Struggle to Express Feelings ⭐ How Father Wounds Quietly Sabotage Relationships ⭐ Why Men Seek Validation in Romantic Partners ⭐ Healing the Father Wound by Learning to Father Yourself Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe
2025 didn't break you — it refined you. And 2026 isn't asking you to become someone new. It's asking you to come home. In this episode, we explore why the “new year, new you” mindset often leads to burnout and self-sabotage — and why real change doesn't come from urgency, hustle, or fixing yourself. We talk about: Why your body and nervous system respond to safety, not pressure How integration matters more than intensity right now Why so many New Year goals fail — and what actually supports lasting change The difference between reinventing yourself and returning to who you've always been This is the heart behind The Nourished Woman Within — a space where nutrition, movement, energy, faith, and inner child healing come together instead of competing. If you're in the in-between…no longer who you were, not quite who you're becoming…this episode is for you. You don't need a rebrand. You need a return. Roots & Wings Retreat F45: 2 Weeks for $26 Chapters: 00:00 Embracing Change, Reflection, and the End of 2025 02:20 Rebranding in 2026 vs. a Return to Yourself 03:15 A Year of Stripping Away & Refinement 05:41 The Father Wound & How Abandonment Shows Up 05:48 What Integration Really Means (Mind, Body, Energy) 08:51 Why Healing Can Make You Physically Tired 10:36 Rest, Self-Care, and Supporting Your Nervous System 11:31 Setting New Year Goals from Self-Love, Not Pressure 13:34 Entering the New Year with Supportive Energy 13:44 The Shift from Doing to Being 16:10 Fasting for 10 Years — A Tool That Still Feels Supportive 17:50 Coming Home to Yourself 20:00 F45 Promo: 2 Weeks for $26 21:05 Roots & Wings Weekend Retreat 21:39 The Nourished Woman Within — 4-Month Integration Container 24:01 Soup as Individual Ingredients vs. True Nourishment 29:11 Integration: Bringing It All Together 34:30 How Integration Shows Up in Everyday Life 35:00 Signs, Synchronicities, and Listening to the Invitations 36:34 Facing Fear of Rejection & Sharing Your Gift 42:07 Permission to Arrive Home to Yourself
Welcome into the Young Dad Podcast — whether you're outside grilling, mowing the lawn, changing dirty diapers, or maybe you got a moment to sit back and relax — thanks for being here and thanks for tuning in. Today's guest is Drew Soleyn — a man on a mission to empower fathers, equip professionals, and strengthen families across Canada and beyond. As the Director of Dad Central, Drew leads one of the most powerful father-focused initiatives out there, helping dads build stronger bonds with their kids while developing as leaders at home and in life.He's here to talk real — about the pain and pressure of fatherhood, navigating false accusations, co-parenting after trauma, and why most dads get it wrong when it comes to presence, leadership, and emotional connection.Listeners, if this episode hit home for you, check out:
In the spirit of celebrating my first Christmas as a Christian, this week is the perfect time to share a delightful conversation I had with Chris Legg. As both a licensed professional counselor and the lead pastor of a church, Chris has a rare combination of expertise he describes as being "a bit of a unicorn." Chris is also the founding owner and clinical director of Alethia Family Counseling Center, which now operates six locations across Texas with thirty therapists on staff.We explore the intersection of faith and psychology, discussing how secular therapy approaches to self-esteem fall short without a spiritual foundation. Chris challenges the contemporary affirmation-based therapy model, arguing that true humility comes from an accurate understanding of who we are in light of who God says we are. We discuss the persistent human tendency toward self-deception, examining why building identity solely on ourselves is fundamentally delusional—and what happens when we recognize ourselves as treasure through God's eyes instead.Our conversation ventures into controversial territory, including the relationship between Christianity and psychedelics, where Chris explains his measured "five out of ten" stance. He shares clinical examples of clients whose severe addictions were transformed through professional psychedelic-assisted treatment, while also emphasizing the need for Christian voices to remain engaged in this conversation rather than retreating into reflexive rejection. We discuss the theology of the Father, father wounds, and how childhood experiences shape our intuition of God. We examine prayer through the lens of the persistent widow and the friend at midnight, exploring what it means to approach God boldly as his children rather than with practiced piety. Chris shares insights on marriage, sacrifice, and how his son co-authored their book "Sex and Marriage" after witnessing the congruence between his father's theology and his treatment of his mother. Finally, we touch on near-death experiences, spiritual integration, and the beautiful, ongoing process of faith deconstruction and reconstruction that characterizes a lifetime of spiritual growth.Pastor Chris Legg, LPCs, and his wife Ginger have been living out the parable of God's love for His people since 1993 and have been blessed with five great kids. He is the Lead Pastor at South Spring Baptist Church in Tyler, TX and is also the founding owner and clinical director of Alethia Family Counseling Center, which offers training, counseling, speaking and business consulting in several locations in Texas. He and his son, Mark, are the authors of the book Sex and Marriage, which is intended to restore to marriages the power God intended. He also writes on Substack and hosts the Reconstructed Faith podcast.Books Mentioned in This Episode:Ragamuffin Gospel by Brennan ManningAbba's Child by Brennan ManningLion and Lamb by Brennan ManningImagine Heaven by John BurkeImagine the God of Heaven by John BurkeThe Great Divorce by C.S. LewisNarnia Series by C.S. LewisSex and Marriage by Chris Legg and Mark LeggBreaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Joe Dispenza[00:00:00] Start[00:01:09] Meet Chris Legg: Pastor and Therapist[00:11:54] The Father Wound and Our Intuition of God[00:18:45] Bold Prayer: Keep Hounding God[00:32:35] The Problem with Self-Esteem[00:40:00] Affirmation-Only Therapy Will Be Replaced by AI[00:43:15] Psychedelics and Christianity[01:05:00] Paul on Intention and What's Truly Forbidden[01:16:10] Chris's Vulnerability on Lifelong Addiction[01:32:30] Chris's Book: Sex and MarriageROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Now featuring 24/7 personalized AI support implementing the tools with RepairBot! 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Whether your dad was a constant presence or a total mystery, that first relationship shaped how you see yourself today. He was your first blueprint for what love, protection, and worth should look like—and if that blueprint was broken, it's likely affecting how you show up in your relationships right now. In this episode, we're digging into: How "father wounds" impact your adult attachment style. The reality of being "physically present but emotionally absent." How to stop waiting for him to change and finally start living for yourself. You deserve to be free from the weight of his choices. Let's talk about how to start healing.
In this powerful transmission, Yasmine Minnifield, founder of Womb of Peace, joins Kit Maloney for a profound exploration of the Father Wound and how healing our inner masculine is a path to feminine restoration. Yasmine shares how wounding to our inner masculine affects our sense of safety, openness to intimacy, and feeling worthy of provision and protection - often showing up as overfunctioning, burnout, or a hard, protective shell. She maps the energetics of the wound onto the body through mineral imbalances, offering a tangible, multidimensional pathway to healing through herbal medicine, remineralization, and inner work. Yasmine describes how Yoni Steaming supports every level of this process, from the physical release of old blood, tissue, and emotions to remineralization through the herbs in the steam. She invites us to use our steam practice to develop deeper intimacy with self and the ancestral line to create lasting mental and emotional repatterning. Healing the inner masculine allows the mature feminine to rise, the Queen, who knows how to live and lead in a deeply nourishing, empowered way. Yasmine Minnifield blends functional mineral science and somatic healing to help women decode their body's messages, with hair mineral testing as the doorway into deep restoration. Order a Hair Mineral Test with Yasmine Connect with Yasmine on Facebook and Instagram
WATCH NOW: https://youtu.be/_S_YZGIPX-8This conversation is different.Pastor Brian Carn sat down with Willie Moore Jr for one of the rawest and most honest interviews he's ever done. No edits. No hiding. Just truth, maturity, grace, and years of lessons lived out in front of the world.Inside this episode, you'll hear Pastor Carn open up about:• Growing up without a father• Being “raised publicly” in ministry• The weight of prophetic calling• The shift from law to grace• His battles, flaws, and becoming the message he preaches• Healing church hurt• How God dealt with him in private• What he believes is coming to America• What young prophets MUST understand before they fall• His heart posture today, humble, broken, and wiseIf you've ever questioned faith, calling, pressure, identity, or grace…This is the episode you need to watch from start to finish.
If you're a woman with “random” flare-ups every time life gets hard…autoimmune symptoms after heartbreak…thyroid drama after betrayal…or burnout that no amount of sleep can fix—This episode is for you.We've been taught, “Your body is attacking you. Germs make you sick. Your immune system is weak.”In this episode, I show you why that story is wrong.Your immune system is not broken.It's overloaded with unfinished stress and grief from your lineage – especially from the father line.Think:The tight gut around your family
This week on the Tequila & Champagne Podcast, we're pouring a strong one and diving deep into a topic that touches so many lives: Daddy Issues and the enduring impact of the absent father. Join us as we explore the complex and often painful reality of the father wound in both men and women. We'll examine the root causes of paternal absence—from emotional distance to physical separation—and shine a light on the significant, long-lasting effects it can have on adult relationships, self-esteem, and identity. We're going beyond the clichés to discuss how to recognize the unmet need, break destructive generational patterns, and ultimately find a path toward healing and wholeness. Tune in for Episode 99: The Unmet Need: Healing the Absent Father Wound.
When your parents divorce, you almost always miss out on the mentorship and guidance that parents are meant to give their children about life, relationships, and so much more. Without that kind of guidance, you feel lost, alone, and stuck - unsure what to do about it all.But that's where a mentor can be incredibly helpful and even healing.In this episode, we dive into the power of mentorship: why it's essential if you grew up without one or both parents, how to find the right mentor, and how those relationships can heal what was broken.If you've ever wished someone older and wiser could show you the way, or wondered how to stop repeating your family's dysfunction, this episode is for you.Visit Brandon's websiteGet the Book or FREE chapters: It's Not Your FaultWatch the Documentary: KennyWatch the Trailer: Kenny (3:31 min)Listen to Episode #036: Healthy Relationships Are Impossible Without BoundariesListen to Episode #058: Forgiveness: The Secret to Healing and Freedom | Fr. John BurnsGet Dakota's FREE Guide, The Biggest Fitness Mistakes to AvoidGet the Book: Healing the Family Tree Get the Book: Never FinishedGet the Book: Searching for and Maintaining PeaceGet the Book: How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleShownotesQuestion for Joey or our guests? Text us. We'll answer on the show as soon as we're able. You can be anonymous if you'd like!
In this episode, we're getting real about something most adults never stop to unpack — the father wound. Whether your dad was absent, emotionally unavailable, or even well-intentioned but distant, the imprint he left is shaping the way you love, lead, and connect today.You'll discover how the unmet needs from your father are still influencing your marriage, your triggers, your self-worth, and even your ability to trust. This isn't about blame — it's about awareness, healing, and breaking generational patterns so your family story ends differently.In this episode, you'll learn:What the “father wound” actually is and how it shows up in adulthoodThe hidden ways it affects your marriage, intimacy, and communicationWhy so many high-achievers carry a “silent ache” from their fathersHow healing your father wound strengthens your relationship with God and your spousePractical steps to begin healing and reclaiming your emotional freedomHow to avoid creating a father wound in your own children or future children Order your GoodKind products today! Use the code DIVORCEPROOF at checkout for 10% off✨ Advent Blocks — Make the countdown to Christmas meaningful again with this intentional, hands-on way to point your family back to Jesus.
I take you on a deep dive into the Father Wound through a Jungian lens. I explore how your relationship with your father shapes your identity, sense of worth, and connection to the masculine. You'll learn how this wound shows up in perfectionism, rebellion, or emotional distance—and discover five practical steps to begin healing and “fathering yourself.” This conversation is about reclaiming inner authority, developing discipline, and embodying a mature, grounded masculinity.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:01 - Introduction & Overview02:16 - Defining the Father Wound07:07 - The Father Archetype & Order10:06 - How the Wound Shows Up in Men15:01 - The Impact on Relationships17:00 - The Unlived Life of the Father19:28 - The Five Healing Steps26:15 - Rituals & Emotional Integration27:40 - Closing Reflections***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Many couples find themselves trapped in a painful cycle where a woman seeks the safety her father never provided, while the man tries desperately to prove his worth. No matter how hard he tries, it's never enough; she feels unmet and unseen; he feels inadequate and resentful. Both are exhausted and disconnected.Left unchecked, this dynamic leads to deepening resentment, emotional distance, and eventually relationship breakdown. But this episode offers a pause moment for both men and women, creating opportunities to break the cycle.Mentioned in this episode:Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine A 4-week immersive program for womenThe Cycle Breaker's Path A 2½-hour immersive workshop to heal your lineage, step into your calling, and reclaim your light.
Have you ever been ghosted, breadcrumbed, or found yourself stuck in yet another situationship, wondering, How did I end up here again? If so, you are not alone, and nothing is wrong with you. In this episode of The Terri Cole Show, we are unpacking what these painful experiences can teach you about your deeper relational patterns, because it's rarely just about that one person who vanished or strung you along. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/772
In this episode of Abide in Jesus, Carolyn Rice shares how to practice gratitude in hard times through three simple yet powerful steps. Whether you're walking through a joyful season or facing mountains that feel impossible to move, learning to give thanks can shift your heart and renew your hope.Join Carolyn as she shares how gratitude journaling helped her find peace in the middle of life's storms — and how you can do the same. You'll discover practical ways to focus on God's goodness, remember His faithfulness, and keep your eyes on Him even when life feels heavy. Listen in to learn:How gratitude can lift your spirit in hard timesThree simple ways to practice daily thankfulnessHow to recognize God's hand in your everyday lifeFind your copy of Healing the Father Wound here. Carolyn Rice is an author and Bible teacher. She overcame her past by sitting at the feet of Jesus, and she's written several books on finding freedom in Christ. You can find out more about Carolyn and her books at CarolynsBooks.comMusic is "Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus" by Dan Brown Jr. Licensed and purchased at Premium Beat.
In this episode you will find Christian words of encouragement and a prayer for when you are going through situations that have caused you grief and heartache. The Bible verse we are talking about is Psalm 34:17-19 Find your copy of Healing the Father Wound here. Carolyn Rice is an author and Bible teacher. She overcame her past by sitting at the feet of Jesus, and she's written several books on finding freedom in Christ. You can find out more about Carolyn and her books at CarolynsBooks.comMusic is "Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus" by Dan Brown Jr. Licensed and purchased at Premium Beat.
Today I am sharing my story of what happened while I was gone and sharing Christian encouragement for you. We're talking about Matthew 14 where Jesus walks on the water. Carolyn Rice is an author, Bible teacher and has a Youtube Channel on Bible journaling at https://www.youtube.com/@Abrushoffaith She overcame here past by sitting at the feet of Jesus and has written several books on finding freedom in Christ. You can find out more about Carolyn and her books at Carolynsbooks.comFind your copy of Healing the Father Wound here. Carolyn Rice is an author and Bible teacher. She overcame her past by sitting at the feet of Jesus, and she's written several books on finding freedom in Christ. You can find out more about Carolyn and her books at CarolynsBooks.comMusic is "Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus" by Dan Brown Jr. Licensed and purchased at Premium Beat.
“The most important thing you can do for either spiritual or conventional success is to heal the mother and father wound.”Today, I sit down with my client David Cutler to explore what it truly means to embody the work. David shares openly about his own journey of healing the core wounds that live beneath the surface of so many of our struggles, especially the mother and father wound. He explains how these unconscious patterns shape our self-worth, relationships, and even our ability to succeed in business, and why addressing them is the gateway to accessing our deepest power.We dive into how unresolved insecurity keeps us stuck in cycles of proving, striving, and seeking validation, and how everything begins to shift when we finally turn inward. David shares how internal healing creates inevitable transformation in our external reality, from the way we show up in relationships to the opportunities that flow into our lives.If you've been doing the “work” but still feel blocked, or you're craving a deeper integration of healing that moves beyond the surface, this episode will remind you that real power isn't about fixing yourself, it's about remembering who you are and living from that truth.TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTSEmbodying the work rather than just talking about itHealing the Mother and Father Wound Insecurity at the Root – How deeper layers of insecurity drive external struggles, and what changes when they're resolvedEmbodiment vs. Performance – The difference between “doing the work” and living the work authenticallyTransformation in Relationships – How internal shifts inevitably reshape external relationships and dynamicsReleasing the Need for Validation – Understanding how healing ends cycles of proving, striving, and approval-seekingAccessing Power Through Presence**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD** When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world. My 4-week Unblock Your Business immersion is coming up in October. It's specifically for business owners who feel stuck, plateaued, or for those of you who want to start a business, but feel unmotivated, procrastinate, or put everything off without knowing what's stopping you from moving forward. Email me so we can talk about it.Join me on Substack where I'll be sharing my hot takes on dissolving childhood wounding that keeps you small, so you can make a lot of money living your purposeCore Wound Solution Private Podcast Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.CONTACT DAVIDSign in to David's Energetic CircleFollow on IG davidleoncutlerGet the Prove Your Power ProgramCONTACT ALYSEalysebreathes.comIG @alyse_breathesinfo@alysebreathes.com
In this episode of the Asking Why podcast, host Clint Davis engages in a deep conversation with therapist Kevin Alderman about the journey of counseling, the impact of father wounds on men, and the importance of community and vulnerability in healing. They explore themes of identity, self-worth, and the balance between grace and discipline, emphasizing the need for authentic relationships and mentorship in personal growth. The discussion highlights the challenges men face in seeking help and the transformative power of faith and community support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Counseling and Personal Journeys 03:03 The Father Wound and Its Impact on Men 05:52 Navigating Identity and Self-Worth 08:54 The Role of Community and Church in Healing 12:14 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Grace 14:53 The Importance of Vulnerability and Authenticity 17:54 Finding Purpose and Personal Responsibility 21:09 The Balance of Discipline and Grace 23:53 The Role of Mentorship and Support 26:52 Conclusion and Call to Action
Kristina and Anna unpack the Hungry Shapeshifter archetype, mapped to Enneagram 7, the Father Wound (self-worth, identity, power), and the Throat Center in Human Design. They explore how attention, identity shapeshifting, and voice become coping strategies, how this arc differs from the Vain Controller (3) and Eternal Child (4), and how it transforms into the Fabricator (Hero) and ultimately The Present (Legend). Pop-culture touchstones include Everything Everywhere All at Once and I Heart Huckabees, plus a lively “Am I the A**hole?” case that spotlights performative empathy and attention-seeking.Quick guide to this arcVillain (Primary): Hungry ShapeshifterCore hunger is attention and specialness. Masters of adopting identities and stories to secure validation.Pinnacle Villain: The ThiefSteals attention, time, and identity, often unconsciously.Successful Antagonist: The PersecutorUses pressure, performance, and voice to dominate the narrative.Wounded Child: The DefensiveHighly reactive when the crafted identity is questioned.Covert Form: The EntertainerIrresistible at parties, self-deprecating, will “do anything” for a good story.Hero: The FabricatorStops using force, integrates formerly rejected identities, chooses non-violence and nuance.Legend: The PresentStillness and presence replace performance. Time “slows” through grounded attention.How it differs from nearby arcsVersus Vain Controller (3): The 3 works to accrue status and resources. The 7 curates identities and stories for attention and specialness.Versus Eternal Child (4): The 4 escapes into inner worlds for meaning. The 7 samples identities and external experiences for validation.Clinical and energetic notesWound: Father wound, with emphasis on identity and powerCenter: Throat (voice, expression)Pattern often seen: ADHD tendencies, diffused focus and persona-switchingPath of healing: Focus, presence, integrity in speech, letting attention be earned by reality rather than performancePop-culture anchorsLoki as the archetypal shapeshifterEvelyn in Everything Everywhere All at Once: early ravenous sampling of parallel selves, later pivot to Waymond's gentler strategyJude Law's character in I Heart Huckabees: recycled stories for validation, performative charmTimestamps00:00–03:10 Hello and warm-up, quick recap of arcs 1–603:10–05:25 Introducing the Hungry Shapeshifter, Father Wound, Throat Center, Enneagram 705:25–07:30 Specialness and attention as fuel, the cost of consuming others' identities06:20–07:45 I Heart Huckabees example, story-stealing for validation07:45–10:30 The Thief, unconscious attention-taking, “stealing time,” personal anecdote10:30–12:15 Wounded Child: defensiveness when identity is challenged12:15–13:15 Diagnostic shortcut: when someone feels like a 3 and a 4, look at 713:15–14:10 Covert form: the Entertainer at parties14:10–16:20 Actors and open throats, personal resonance and life phases16:20–17:25 Multiple active villains over a lifetime, complexity beyond a single arc17:25–19:10 Hero: the Fabricator, Waymond's non-violence and relational repair19:10–19:55 Legend: The Present, stillness, “the generous present moment”19:55–21:56 AITA reading: “I am an empath,” or attention-seeking22:00–23:26 Real-life example of making another's crisis about oneself23:26–24:06 ADHD, focus, presence as medicine, closePractice promptsVoice audit: Where do I speak to be seen, rather than to be trueStory integrity: Which stories do I retell for attention, and are they mine to tellFocus training: One commitment, one audience, one promise at a timePresence reps: Two minutes of quiet before speaking in a charged momentEpisode glossaryFather Wound: Distortions around self-worth, identity, powerThroat Center: Expression, timing, and the compulsion to speak for attentionFabricator: Hero form that fabricates reality through choiceful, ethical creation, not performanceThe Present: Legend form, a clear, still field where attention is no longer chasedMentioned worksEverything Everywhere All at OnceI Heart HuckabeesCall to actionCurious which Inner Villain patterns lead in your lifeTake the Inner Villain Quiz: [add your quiz link here]CreditsHosts: Kristina Wiltsee, AnnaProduction: Inner Villain WorksNote: Contains light spoilers for Everything Everywhere All at Once.*Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Today's Topics: 1, 2, 3) Bob Kroll on his book: "The Father Wound," a powerful book about the importance of the father in a child's life www.withallyourheart.org Foreword by Dr. Bob Schuchts, founder of the John Paul II Healing Center. Bob Kroll worked with Terry for several years selling CDs and the CD of the Month for Lighthouse Catholic Media 4) Is the cat out of the bag? Viral song "Rich Men North of Richmond" says it all https://cforc.com/2023/08/viral-song-rich-men-north-of-richmond-says-it-all/Virgin Most Powerful Radio, VMP Radio, VMPR, Internet Radio, Jesus 911, Jesse Romero, Eddie Chavez, Paul Clay, Ruben Nava, Anita Romero, Dan Schneider, Kyle Clement, spiritual warfare, Bible, Catholic, Scripture, Catechism, War College, The Father Wound, Bob Schuchts, John Paul II Healing Center, Rich Men North of Richmond
Talking points: fatherhood, psychology, mindsetA while back, I put up an episode on the mother wound, aka healing your mommy issues. But there's always more to the story. There's also the "father wound", and it can have massive impact on everything from self-worth to relationships to skill at work. Listen in for a serious look at what it is, what creates it, and what to work on.(00:00:00) - Intro and defining the “father wound”(00:04:47) - The kinds of fathers/childhoods that create this(00:13:53) - Symptoms of father wounding, and why they're important to know(00:23:52) - Common “archetypes” of fathers that create a father wound(00:26:40) - So what do you do? (00:32:09) - On fathering yourself***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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