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Life can get hard when you’re 20-something facing new challenges and relationships! If you’re looking for a relatable and comedic perspective on life and love, join Ashley and Brenda as they dive into their own lives to give you real ass advice on dating, adulting, and everyday experiences! It’s about to get real. New episodes every Monday!

Let's Get Real


    • Jul 19, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 44m AVG DURATION
    • 74 EPISODES

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    Latest episodes from Let's Get Real

    We're Not Really Strangers | Ep. 74

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 46:48


    This week, Ashley and Shaquille are back with part 2 of last weeks conversation! In this episode, they dig deeper into eachothers minds, discuss friendships, dating fails, and then pull cards from the popular game “We're not really strangers”.

    Something Different ft. Shaquille | Ep. 73

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2022 49:25


    This week, Ashley is joined with another guest. She sits down with Shaquille to get the male perspective on some hot topics! They unpack his unique view on platonic relationships, Ashley opens up about her recent dating failure, and they both discuss why chivalry is dead is westernized culture. This episode is something different than what you're used to, but it's definitely worth a listen!

    Love, Sex and Relationships ft. Anne | Ep. 72

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 56:43


    This week, we're switching things up! Ashley features a guest co-host named Anne. Anne is a 24 year from Toronto with lot's to share! She opens up about her experience moving to Canada, her dating life, long distance relationships and so much more! Ashley picks apart her brain and Anne is more than happy to spill all the tea. They overshare over some wine, and this week - no topic is off limits! Find Anne: Tiktok: Lifewithannunnie & annunneigh Instagram: Annunnie

    Toxic Love & Relationship Cocooning | Ep. 71

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 44:11


    This week, things are a little different! Ashley's on her own today and ready to spill it all. She recaps you on her 3 day bender at Toronto pride (while still recovering) and then gets into some more serious topics such as toxic relationships and relationship cocooning. A term invented by Shan Boodram to explain the transformational phase that comes after going through a breakup. Definitely an episode you don't want to miss! Check out Shan Boodrams episode of Lovers and Friends: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RbiIBqFa1ODAKKSZV6Mqc?si=pfFa9_YNT7iBJcijr8E4iw

    Are my Standards too High or am I Picky? | Ep.70

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 46:10


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss dating standards. They break down their own list of dealbreakers and preferences, and share some relationship stories. Are standards non-negotiables? Can someone's standards be too high? Are preferences just as important? Hear their opinions on these topics and more, on this weeks episode of Let's Get Real.

    Cutting Someone Off | EP. 69

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 46:48


    This week, Let's Get Real dives into the topic of cutting someone off. Ending a relationship isn't always easy, and Brenda and Ashley are here to help! They share stories and advice on cutting off friendships, significant others and even family ties. (The right and *wrong* way to do it). They also discuss setting boundaries, and knowing when it's time to let go. This is definitely and episode you don't want to miss!

    Overrated vs. Underrated pt. 2| Ep.68

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 59:58


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley share their opinions on popular trends and whether they're overrated or underrated! They debate topics such makeup sex, selling foot pics, reality tv and more. Are these topics worth the hype in their eyes? Find out what they think this week on Let's Get Real.

    Does Pretty Privilege Exist? | Ep.67

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 42:40


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss pretty privilege and it's effects on society. They share their own experiences, and how their outward appearance affects how they are treated. Is pretty privilege an advantage, or disadvantage? Is it even real? They answer these questions and many more, this week on Let's Get Real.

    Girl Code | Ep. 66

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 53:06


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley get into the rules of Girl Code. What is off limits? Is dating an ex ever okay? They answer these questions and more, and even break down the 10 rules of Girl Code. They also share stories on some former friends who broke the code! This is definitely an episode you don't want to miss.

    Do Nice Guys Finish Last? | Ep. 65

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 53:41


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss the topic of nice guys. Do nice guys finish last? Do most girls love a bad boy, or is that a myth? They share their own personal stories and debate the topic this week on Let's Get Real.

    What Gives you the Ick? | Ep.64

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2022 43:19


    In this weeks episode Brenda and Ashley revisit the topic of “the ick”. Ever been so turned off by someone that you can't ever look at them the same? Usually over petty or gross moments that will change the way you view your crush forever! The Ick. Brenda and Ashley share hilarious storytimes, and talk about how to get over an “ick”. Is it the point of no return?

    Are you the Problem? | Ep. 63

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 52:01


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss toxic friendships and relationships. The topic of “Are you the problem?” is debated and Brenda and Ashley share personal stories and experiences from their own failed friendships and relationships. If you're struggling with losing friends, or being perpetually single - this is the episode for you!

    Overrated vs. Underrated | Ep. 62

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 48:14


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley share their opinions on popular trends and whether they're overrated or underrated! They debate topics such as falling in love, moving out, famous celebrities and more. Are these topics worth the hype in their eyes? Find out what they think this week on Let's Get Real.

    Does Everyone Need a Hoe Phase? | Ep. 62

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 34:50


    In this this episode, Brenda and Ashley talk “hoe phases”. Should every one have a hoe phase? When is the right age to put it to rest? Is it necessary to get it out of your system in order to commit? Hear their thoughts on this topic and more in this weeks episode!

    Is he a Fuckboy? | Ep. 60

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2022 59:40


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about fuckboys! They share their own crazy experiences and give crucial advice on how to spot one before you're in too deep. They also have an exciting new announcement they've been keeping for weeks and are finally ready to share. You don't want to miss this episode!

    What Women Secretly Wish Men Knew! | Ep. 59

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 25:23


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley expose what women secretly wish men knew in the world of love and relationships. They discuss the small things that men should be doing to please their woman, and give lots of specific and hilarious examples! Whether your single or dating, this is definitely and episode you don't want to miss!

    Am I the Asshole? | ep. 58

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 60:32


    And this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley read popular posts from the Famous Reddit thread, “am I the asshole?” They share hilarious story times, and debate over many controversial topics. If you're a fan of AITA, This episode is for you!

    Feeling Lost in Your 20's | ep. 57

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2022 60:00


    Contrary to popular belief, the 20s are not the best years of your life. They're actually a shit show. This week, Brenda and Ashley normalize that by opening up about their own lives and experiences as a 20 something. They discuss feeling lost, goal setting, finding your purpose, dating and more!

    The Art of Being Alone (but not Lonely)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 33:22


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss the art of solitude. Learning to be comfortable with being alone isn't always easy, so this week - the girls talk all about how they've learned to find peace within solitude. If you struggle with learning how to enjoy your own company, or even with feeling content as a single person - this is the episode for you!

    Why We've *Really* Been Gone + Toxic Relationship Cycles | ep. 55

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 51:21


    No you're not imagining things, Let's Get Real is back in your subscription box, and ready for a new season! After a long hiatus, the girls are back and ready to share their thoughts on life, love, and daily struggles. This week they discuss their absence, and talk about the toxic cycle of on and off relationship dynamics.

    Dating 101: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2021 37:10


    On this weeks episode Brenda and Ashley talk Chemistry vs. Compatibility in relationships. Are they one in the same? Which one is more important? Can you have one without the other? They answer all these questions and more in this weeks episode. Whether you're single or dating, this episode is for you!

    Where We've Been... | Ep. 53

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2021 49:49


    They're back! In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley fill you in on what's been going on since they've been gone! Ashley talks all about her drunk nights, Brenda started a summer project, and the two have some stories to tell! They also give some advice and answer listener questions!

    How to be Single | Ep. 52

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2021 49:03


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about how to be single! They dive into navigating through single life as a 20-something by sharing advice, do's and dont's and some personal experiences! They discuss the benefits to being single vs. In a relationship, and even share their own oppinions! Whether your single or in a relationship, this episode is for you!

    The Chaotic Episode | Ep. 51

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2021 41:49


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley share their inner thoughts and talk about whatever is on their mind! They go over what age you should be engaged, sleeping with an ex, be-friending your BFF's partner and more!

    The “Ick”: Point of no Return? | Ep. 50

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2021 41:10


    In this weeks episode Brenda and Ashley talk all about “the ick”. Ever been so turned off by someone that you can't ever look at them the same? Usually over petty or gross moments that will change the way you view your crush forever! The Ick. Brenda and Ashley share hilarious storytimes, and talk about how to get over an “ick”. Is it the point of no return?

    Are you an Empath? | Ep. 49

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 40:48


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about the spiritual topic of being an empath. What is being an empath? How do you know if you are one? Is there a dark side? This week, they answer all those questions and more! As two empaths themselves, they have a lot to say!

    Should you Have your Mom on Instagram? | Ep. 48

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2021 59:00


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley reminisce about their days growing up with strict parents. They share some stories from their teenage years and reflect on their lives before moving out. If you need a good laugh, this is the episode for you!

    How to Date in your 20's | Ep. 47

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 50:59


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about dating in your 20s! They share some previous dating stories and experiences, and give some advice on how to navigate the dating scene as a 20-something. They also go over how to meet potential love interests during a pandemic, and so much more!

    Answering Your Questions! | Ep. 46

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 37:26


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley answer listener submitted questions! They give their honest advice and feedback on personal issues, and don't hold back! In this weeks Q&A things get really real!

    How to Make Friends in Your Twenties | Ep. 45

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 40:03


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talked all about making friends in your 20's. Who knew it would be so hard! They get personal on friendship break ups, their current relationships, and how they've made friends over the years. They also came up with the five types of friends you should have in your life, and how to make them. If you're lonely in quarantine and need some company, this is the episode for you.

    Life During Highschool | Ep. 44

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 48:50


    This week, Brenda and Ashley revisit their high school experience. Ashley talks about her trap house encounter at 17, and Brenda shares the details on her first love! They tell you about who they were in highschool and what led them to where they are now. This is an episode you don't wanna miss!

    Let's Normalize Anxiety. | Ep. 43

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 50:29


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about anxiety. This topic hits close to home, so they are able to open up and get very vulnerable on the topic. They share personal stories, and give advice on how to cope with anxiety so that it doesn't control your life. If you're someone who suffers from anxiety, and you want to feel understood, or get advice - this is the episode for you! http://trybetterhelp.com/letsgetreal

    The Spirituality Episode | Ep. 42

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 59:01


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley get super deep and talk about all things spiritual! Do past lives exists? Is witchcraft real? How do crystals work? Do we even exist? This week, they answer these questions and many more! You don't wanna miss this episode. http://trybetterhelp.com/letsgetreal

    Get out of your Comfort Zone | Ep. 41

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 49:42


    They're back! After a two month hiatus, Brenda and Ashley make their season three comeback! They catch you up on everything that's gone down since they've been gone, and answer some juicy questions. They also get into some deep conversations, and Brenda opens up! http://trybetterhelp.com/letsgetreal

    Meet the Boyfriends | Ep. 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 73:18


    This week, Brenda and Ashley bring on special guests...their boyfriends! They talk about relationships, soulmates, turn offs and more! The guys also answer questions that most girls are too afraid to ask, and Brenda spills tea on a secret she's been keeping for four years! As season 2 comes to a close, this is the episode you don't want to miss.

    Conspiracy Theories | Ep. 39

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 56:28


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk about conspiracy theories! They dive deep into multiple conspiracies that will have you mind blown by the end of the episode. If you want to hear their input on topics such as solipsism, technology taking over, Mandela effects and more - tune in!

    How to Level up in 2021 | Ep. 38

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2020 42:00


    New year, new me. This week, Brenda and Ashley talk all about everything they have planned for 2021. They discuss about how to level up in the new year and stay committed to your goals. If you have big goals for the new year and need some advice on how to execute them, this episode is for you!

    Signs he Might be Cheating... | Ep. 37

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 43:11


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley teach you how to catch a cheater. Having suspicions about your partner? This is the episode for you! This week, they tell you exactly how to catch your partner: the heathy way, and the toxic way. Yes, you can just ask them, but why do that when you can hack the iPad? Whether you're single, or trying to catch your man - this is a must listen!

    Instagram vs. Reality | Ep.36

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2020 36:33


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss social media vs. real life. They talk all about catfishing (is it ever okay?) and share personal catfishing stories. They also get into the impact that social media has on our life, and how toxic it can be to compare your real life to curated online lives. If you have an unhealthy relationship with social media, this is the episode for you!

    Moving Out for the First Time | Ep. 35

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 46:39


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss moving out for the first time! They tell you everything you need to know about finding an apartment, packing your whole life up, shopping for decor, and most importantly - saving your coin! If you plan on moving out anytime soon, this is an episode you can't miss!

    Our First Fight as Roommates | Ep. 34

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 49:56


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk about moving out! As new roommates, they're getting to know eachother on a whole new level! They go in depth on their moving process, and share some stories and things they've experienced together so far! They also open up about their pet peeves and trigger moments with eachother! Definitely an episode you want to hear!

    Caught my Man Cheating... | Ep. 33

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2020 42:35


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley answer some juicy “What would you do” questions! What would you do if you catch your ex in the act of cheating? Or if your partners best friend made a move on you? This week, they answer these questions and so many more! Send us more questions on our Instagram: @letsgetrealthepodcast

    Is it ok to go Through Your Partners Phone? | Ep. 32

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2020 43:42


    This week, Brenda and Ashley discuss privacy in their relationships! They talk all about what information (and access) they're entitled to, and what is taking it too far. Should you and your partner have eachothers location services on? Are read receipts a must? Should you have eachothers passwords? This week, Brenda and Ashley go into details and expose their relationships!

    The Stripclub Fight | Ep. 31

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 42:21


    October 31st is quickly approaching, so this week, Brenda and Ashley talk all things Halloween! They reminisce on crazy Halloween stories from their past, get into some scary topics and even talk about their paranormal experiences. Do they believe in ghosts? Have they ever tried a ouija board? Find out in this episode!

    The Talking Stage | Ep. 30

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2020 43:45


    This week, Brenda and Ashley talk all about “The Talking Stage”. When you're dating - but you're not actually DATING. They dive into what it's all about, their own dating experiences, situationships, and when to have the forbidden “what are we” talk.

    How to be a Better Partner | Ep. 29

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2020 33:27


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley give dating advice! They discuss what they think men and women look for in relatioships and give tips on how to become the best partner for your loved one! Whether you're new to the dating scene, or in a long-term relationship - this episode has something for you!

    Would You Rather? | Ep. 28

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 36:44


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley go over some juicy ‘would you rather questions'! They put eachother in crazy scenarios and compare answers. If you need a good laugh, this is the episode for you!

    Being Single vs. Relationship (Q&A) | Ep. 27

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2020 34:55


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley answer some personal and thought provoking questions. Grab some popcorn and a drink as they get into juicy storytimes, and exploring their personality. They refuse to hold back, and spill ALL the tea!

    Getting Back With Your Ex | Ep. 26

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 33:35


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley open up about their experiences with rekindling a relationship. They talk about what it's like to get back with an Ex, and whether it is a good or bad idea. Is it toxic or healthy? When should second chances be given? This week, they spill all the tea!

    Would You Start an OnlyFans? | Ep. 25

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2020 38:35


    In this week's episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about OnlyFans! Would they ever start one? Are they okay with their boyfriends subscribing to OF creators, or do they consider it cheating? They also discuss Bella Thorne and if they think she ruined the platform for creators! This episode's a good one!

    Friends With Benefits | Ep. 24

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2020 35:45


    In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley go over some trending topics, then discuss anything to do with being friends with the opposite sex. They share personal stories on friends with benefits, situationships, dating your male friends, and much more!

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