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The week of April 21, 1975 saw Jack Nicklaus on the cover of Sports Illustrated after he had won his 5th Masters in a classic tournament by one stroke over Tom Weiskopf and Johnny Miller. It was the Golden Bear's 13th major championship and came one year after he had already been inducted into the World Golf Hall of Fame. Inside that issue was another excerpt from the book Nice Guys Finish Last by another Hall of Famer… Leo Durocher was put into Cooperstown after amassing the 5th most wins as a manager when he retired after the 1973 season with the Houston Astros with a total of 2,008 victories which now ranks him 12th all-time. In his 23 years as a skipper, Leo the Lip won one World Series which came in 1954 and went to another in '51 when his Giants overcame the Dodgers 13.5 game lead and won the pennant on the Shot Heard Round the World before beating the Yankees in 6 games. It was one of the greatest comebacks in sports history and Bobby Thompson became a legend for his 3-run pennant winning HR off Ralph Branca of the Brooklyn Dodgers to complete the Giants ascent to the Fall Classic. A moment that will forever live in baseball lore that now 74 years later lives in controversy. That's because of a telescope, a buzzer and a scheme the Giants implemented that helped them figure out what pitches were coming and catapulted New York to finish the season winning 37 of their final 44 games and overtake the Dodgers on the final pitch of the final inning of the final game of their season prior to the World Series. A fastball that Thompson knew was coming. Author and journalist Joshua Prager heard about this story and started to investigate it, and soon he had enough to write a front-page story for the Wall Street Journal and in 2006, a book called The Echoing Green: The Untold Story of Bobby Thompson, Ralph Branca and the Shot Heard Round the World. He goes into great detail of how the Giants took their 3rd base coach, Herman Franks, and put him in the clubhouse in centerfield armed with a telescope and a buzzer to alter the course of baseball history. Prager joins us on Past Our Prime and tells us how Thompson and Branca's lives were both forever altered by that one pitch and how years later they were able to get past it and move on. He tells us how Franks confessed to him what took place right before he died, over 50 years after it all took place. And he tells us how a young 20-year old kid by the name of Willie Mays wanted to know what pitches were coming but didn't want to come to bat in that bottom of the 9th inning and watched from the on-deck circle as Thompson connected for the famous/infamous 3-run blast. Before the Astros banged their way to a World Series title in 2018 it was the Giants and Leo Durocher who were doing whatever it took to get an advantage back in 1951. Nice guys finish last but what about cheaters? In this case, they became world champs and we tell you how it all went down with Joshua Prager on this weeks Past Our Prime podcast. Listen and subscribe wherever you listen and subscribe to podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The strongest man in the world 50 years ago was Vasily Alekseyev of the Soviet Union and there he was on the cover of Sports Illustrated on April 14th, 1975. The question is… was he a nice guy? Apparently the answer was no. Because also in that issue was the 2nd part of a 4 part series from the book, “Nice Guys Finish Last,” from former player and Hall of Fame manager, Leo Durocher. The “Lip” was a heckuva ballplayer, spanning 20 years with the Yankees, Reds, Cardinals and Brooklyn Dodgers from 1925-1945. A 3-time All-Star, and 4-time World Series champion, Durocher ended his playing days as a player/manager in Brooklyn and would go on to retire as the 5th winningest skipper in MLB history. Starting in 1939 with the Dodgers and then spending 8 more years with the Nw York Giants from 1948-1955, Durocher won his only World Series as a manager when Willie Mays and the Giants swept the Cleveland Indians in 1954. The next year was his last in New York and he wouldn't manage again until the Cubs hired him in 1966. Chicago was 59-103 in his first season guiding the team but didn't have a losing season in the remainder of his 5+ seasons at the helm. He would finish his Hall of Fame managerial career in Houston with another winning season in 1973. On that '73 teams was a young lefty who started 40 games for the Astros, completing 12 of them and amassing 279 innings pitched. Jerry Reuss was just 23 years old when he played for Durocher and the two had an adventurous time together with Durocher riding his young stud as often as he could, and Reuss often questioning the tactics of the veteran manager. It was a memorable season in Houston for the southpaw who would go on to win 220 games in his 22 years in the bigs. Reuss tells us how he pranked Dave Parker when he and The Cobra met up with Muhammad Ali in an elevator while playing for the Pirates. He takes us to Candlestick Park on a warm June night in 1980 when he no-hit the Giants, and he recounts the time Ron Cey was beaned in the head by a Goose Gossage fastball in the '81 world Series. But more than anything we talk to Reuss about what was it like for a kid born in 1950 to play for a manager who had been managing in the majors for 23 years by the time their paths crossed in the Lone Star state. It was a bumpy ride to say the least. Reuss tells us that much of it was his fault and that he and Durocher didn't see eye-to-eye most of the time. He goes on to tell us that years later they met up in the office of another Dodgers manager, Tommy Lasorda, and both admitted they could have handled things differently. Reuss and The Lip patched things up and shortly thereafter, Durocher passed away. One of the greatest managers in baseball history was a mercurial and difficult man who never finished last in his 24 years as a manager. Was it because he was a Hall of Fame manager or because only Nice Guys Finish Last? In Durocher's case… probably a little of both. Listen, download, subscribe and review the Past Our Prime podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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In this episode, I take on the trope, "Nice Guys Finish Last". This would be something to be concerned about if it were true. I see no significant evidence of that and in fact, the overwhelming amount of evidence suggests the opposite.In episode, I first define what I mean by "nice" and I do not mean by being "nice". I then define the the opposite of being nice, the ________, and whether the traits of being a __________ are necessary for or actually impede success.To support my argument, I offer the preeminent nice guy, Super Bowl winning coach Andy Reid and his two word philosophy related to being nice. It's his agreeableness that allows him to be successful.What about Bill Belichick? That only enhances my argument and I will explain why.Of course, there are exceptions to every rule, but my argument rings true in the vast majority of cases.Finally, I offer one caveat to the power of being nice. Defendant and advance your principles. Occasionally, you got to throw down.But above all, be nice.It's the key.
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? We've all heard the phrase, nice guys finish last, but is it really true? In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz dives into the hidden costs of being too nice—how people-pleasing can hold you back in relationships, career, and life. But don't worry, the solution isn't to become a jerk. Instead, you'll discover the real opposite of nice: authenticity. Learn how to express yourself boldly, set boundaries without guilt, and step out of the nice cage so you can stop finishing last and start living fully. If you're ready to break free from the fear of upsetting others and claim your confidence, tune in now! --------------------------------------------------------------- You've probably heard the phrase, “Nice guys finish last.” But is it really true? What does it mean for you? Are you doomed if you're too nice? Isn't being nice a good thing? If you've ever wondered about the impact of people-pleasing on your life, you're in the right place. In today's post, we'll dive deep into the origins of this phrase and, more importantly, how being overly nice may actually be holding you back in life. I'll share with you some powerful insights and actionable steps to stop pleasing others at the expense of your own happiness, so you can start living more boldly and authentically. The Real Cost of Being "Nice" Being nice might sound like a virtue, but when it's rooted in fear of rejection and disapproval, it can actually harm your relationships, career, and even your health. Niceness isn't the same as kindness. Kindness is about genuinely caring for others, but niceness is driven by a desire to avoid conflict or rejection at any cost. This people-pleasing behavior can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself, burned out, and ultimately, overlooked by others. “Niceness is not kindness; it's fear. Fear of being rejected, judged, or abandoned. When you live in fear, you end up losing yourself.” If you've ever said “yes” when you really wanted to say “no,” you know exactly what I mean. This habit of putting others' needs above your own comes at a price — one that often leads to frustration, resentment, and even physical symptoms like burnout. The Myth of "Nice Guys Finish Last" The phrase “nice guys finish last” originated in the world of sports, when Leo Durocher, a baseball manager, claimed that being overly nice was detrimental to success. The idea was simple: in competitive environments, the nicest person is often the one who gets passed over or overlooked. But what does that mean for you in your everyday life? Being nice out of fear doesn't just hurt you in sports; it's a pattern that shows up in every part of life. Whether it's at work, in relationships, or in social situations, excessive niceness can make you feel like you're finishing last. You might be overlooked, undervalued, or even taken advantage of because you haven't learned to assert your needs, wants, and boundaries. Breaking Free from the "Nice" Cage Here's the good news: You can break free. The opposite of being nice isn't about becoming a jerk or a narcissist; it's about being authentically you. It's about expressing your true thoughts, setting boundaries, and confidently saying “no” when you need to. “The opposite of being nice isn't being mean, it's being authentic. You don't need to please everyone to win in life. You need to please yourself first.” In my upcoming event, Not Nice Live, we'll dive into how you can shed the pattern of people-pleasing and start living in alignment with who you truly are. We'll explore powerful tools and practices to help you break free from the cage of niceness. You'll gain clarity on why you've fallen into this pattern, how it impacts you, and most importantly, how to start shifting it during the event — and carry those changes forward into your life. The Permission to Be Bold Imagine a life where you confidently say no when you need to, ask for what you truly want, and express your feelings without fear of judgment. That's the power of reclaiming your authenticity. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but with consistent practice and the right support, you'll start to feel a sense of freedom and empowerment. “The true cost of staying nice is the regret of not living fully. The cost is a life that's out of alignment with who you are meant to be.” I know it may sound like a far-off dream, but this is within your reach. You can step out of the shadows of people-pleasing and step into the light of being unapologetically yourself. The best part? You don't have to do it alone. Action Step: Start Reclaiming Your Rights Today As a first step, start by giving yourself permission to do one thing you've been holding back on. Maybe it's saying “no” to an invitation you don't want to accept, or expressing your true feelings about something that's been bothering you. Write it down, say it aloud, and practice it every day until it feels natural. The more you practice, the more you'll internalize this new way of being. And I promise you, it will change your life. Remember, it's not about being rude or inconsiderate; it's about showing up as your true self, without fear of judgment. If you're ready to take your boldness to the next level, I invite you to join me for Not Nice Live in March. The event is virtual, so you can attend from anywhere in the world, and we're offering a special early-bird price right now. Don't miss out — this is your chance to step into the life you truly want, without the guilt.
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Amye and Amanda recap and chat about Last Resort S2:EP9 Nice Guys Finish LastThe couples try to help Gino and Jasmine reconnect, but they're at a crossroads; camping brings everyone outdoors and hypnotherapy gets them out of their comfort zones; Julia reveals a secret that puts her relationship with Brandon in jeopardy.Support the show:To get ad-free and bonus episodes including: Sister Wives, cult content, murder shows, and Gen X content, sign up here:https://www.patreon.com/littlemissrecaphttps://littlemissrecap.supercast.com/Give the gift of Little Miss Recap EXTRA: https://littlemissrecap.supercast.com/gifts/newVisit our sponsors:Factor Meals:Get started at www.factormeals.com/littlemiss50off use code littlemiss50off to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping.Check out Earth Breeze laundry sheets. They save the environment and are free of all harsh chemicals! Use code: RECAP to save 40% off when you subscribe!https://earthbreeze.com/recap and use code: RECAPGet in touch:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/littlemissrecapFacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/littlemissrecapInstagram: @littlemissrecap Voicemail: www.littlemissrecap.comEmail: amye@littlemissrecap.comGet some merch! https://littlemissrecapmerch.myshopify.com/Little Miss Recap is part of the Acast Creator Network. To advertise with us, please contact amye@littlemissrecap.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Who says engineers can't write? My next guest spent a long career as an engineer at NASA. He oversaw teams of people working to develop space flight missions. Along the way he learned a thing or two about the contemporary workplace. So much so, he wrote a book about it called Nice Guys Finish Last and Other Workplace Lies. Engineer and writer John Ruffa joins me now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Who says engineers can't write? My next guest spent a long career as an engineer at NASA. He oversaw teams of people working to develop space flight missions. Along the way he learned a thing or two about the contemporary workplace. So much so, he wrote a book about it called Nice Guys Finish Last and Other Workplace Lies. Engineer and writer John Ruffa joins me now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Every man listening to this has, at some point, experienced a woman losing attraction for them because they were too nice. You treated her like a princess, became her obedient pet, and she stomped all over you and ran off with the jerk who barely paid any attention her. Sound familiar? Women tell you they want a nice guy, society tells you to be the nice guy, but the truth is the whole thing is a lie. What women say they want and what they respond to are two wildly different things. In today's episode, you'll learn the 5 main reasons why being the nice guy is not the right move if you want to achieve success with women, business, friendships, and life. Grab Your NLP Masterclass Ticket Here: https://coachmarksing.com/NLP-masterclass/ Follow Mark on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Watch UMP Episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCybix9PZoDgcyyt5hNxPLuw Grab Mark's Free Program: "The Approach Formula": https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula Contact Mark Directly: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Are you a good man struggling to find your footing in relationships? Author G.S. Youngblood reveals a powerful truth: many men today are caught in a painful cycle. They want to lead with strength, but anxiety and self-doubt hold them back. When their partners express disappointment, old wounds surface, triggering defensive reactions that erode trust and intimacy. In this episode, Youngblood shares his proven framework for breaking free from the "nice guy" trap without swinging to toxic masculinity. Whether you're a man seeking to show up more powerfully in your relationships, or a woman wanting to understand your partner's journey, you'll discover practical tools for creating deeper connection while maintaining authentic masculine presence.LEARN HOW TO:Stay grounded during emotional triggersExpress your needs without losing connectionCreate safety while maintaining strengthTransform relationship conflicts into opportunities for growthEPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate links GS's WebsiteGS's Free Gift | The Masculine In Relationship Tool KitGS's Book | The Masculine in Relationship GS's Book | The Art of Embodiment for MenSxR Episode #112 | Damien Dieke SxR Episode #95 | Lenerd LouwSxR Episode #87 | Alex MischkaSxR Episode #68 | Freddy Zental WeaverKING & QUEEN OF HEARTS. Leah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Buy Now. 10% off Coupon: KINGANDQUEEN10. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. THE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female Gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST 20 LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. Support the showSxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website
This week, we talk about the differences between "nice guys" and "good men". We share personal experiences as well as stories from others that help to illustrate that the "nice guys" often are not at all as they seem. Links: 8 Striking Differences Between a Nice Guy and a Good Man: https://olubunmimabel.com/differences-between-a-nice-guy-and-a-good-man/ 30 Stories From Women Who Gave "Nice Guys" a Chance: https://www.boredpanda.com/women-share-nice-guys-experiences/?utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook&utm_term=BP_122861&utm_campaign=Bored+Panda&utm_content=image 10 Big Differences Between "Nice Guys" and "Good Men": https://www.myjoyonline.com/10-big-differences-between-nice-guys-and-good-men/ Nice Person vs. Good Person: 10 Ways to Spot the Difference: https://hackspirit.com/difference-of-nice-person-vs-good-person/ The Difference Between Being a Good Guy and a Nice Guy: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-difference-between-being-a-good-guy-and-a-nice-guy/ Like what you hear and want to show your support? Visit: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/homewreckerpodcast to donate and hear bonus content! Please Check Out: https://www.homewreckerpodcast.com https://www.innerstandingshypnosis.com https://www.tarotbymonique.com https://www.alexarionfitness.com Buy Alex's Books: https://alexarion.gumroad.com/l/GcNBk https://alexarion.gumroad.com/l/LnNUw Find Monique on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moniquepliakos Follow us on X/Twitter: @Homewreckerpod @MoniquePCHt @THEAlexArion @_MoniqueGisele_ Thanks for listening! Help spread the word about the Homewrecker Podcast by subscribing (it's free). We really appreciate your support!
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Back in H-town. In this 5th consecutive solo episode, I continue the discussion on money & investing.But first—I share feedback on the recent blog article: "Why Nice Guys Finish Last: An Open Letter to Men." (Mens' responses were positive; womens' mixed.)I also explore investment strategies for high net worth individuals, share thoughts on IPOs, ETFs & individual 'tickers' you might not be aware of.Then I go back to the future to talk about the prospects of more nuclear energy. You might remember "Doc's" Delorean ran on the "Mr. Fusion Home Energy Reactor." Well, since the energy landscape is rapidly changing, I talk about investment opportunities in nuclear power and AI/Robotics.
Today we're honored to share a very special interview with the great Harvey Lewis, one of the world's top ultrarunners of all time. (Also, like Courtney Dauwalter in our last episode, one of the nicest.) Harvey is not only an accomplished runner but also a dedicated high school teacher at the School for Creative and Performing Arts in Cincinnati. He runs to work every day on what he calls his "run commute," and I had the incredible opportunity to join him on one of those runs—from his home all the way to his school, winding our way through Cincinnatti and Kentucky, over and back across the beautiful Ohio River. In this episode, we'll talk about Harvey's journey as an ultrarunner, including his record-setting win at Big's Backyard Ultra, where he ran an astounding 454 miles over 4 and a half days. We'll dive into what drives him to push beyond physical limits, and his approach to inspiring others to live healthy, active lives. After relistening to and reflecting on this interview, I think that what comes through the most is not just what Harvey has to say, but how he says it. He truly has a passion, not just for running, but for inspiring and helping others—whether that's other runners, people that he passes on the road, his fellow competitors in a race, his students or animals. When we finished our run commute, I had the chance to meet with some of Harvey's students, and I asked them what it's like to have such an extraordinary person as their teacher. I'm grateful that they allowed me to share their responses, which will give you a real sense of the impact Harvey has, both inside and outside the classroom. Of course, I'm also grateful to Harvey for such a memorable run and for sharing so much with us. And, of course, we're all grateful to our partners at Brooks Running. For over a century, Brooks has been propelled by a never-ending curiosity with how humans move. It drives their every decision and every innovation. Because they believe movement is the key to feeling more alive. And we're all moving towards something. It could be the top of a mountain, a first-ever 5K, or peace of mind after a stressful day. So… let's run there. With gear and experiences specifically designed to take you to that place. Whether it's a headspace, a feeling, a finish line, a cure for Parkinson's, more ethical treatment of animals, or first period government class at the School for Creative and Performing Arts in Cincinnati. Let's run there. Head to BrooksRunning.com to learn more.
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Dr. Jordan B. Peterson sits down with author, researcher, and professor of psychology at the University of Georgia, Dr. Keith Campbell. They delve deep into the weeds of narcissism, exposing the “good guy” fallacy; why alpha males attract more women; the axis of introversion, extroversion, and neuroticism as it applies to personality disorders; and the obsession with self-esteem which only fosters misery. W. Keith Campbell, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of Georgia, is the author of more than 200 scientific papers and several books, including “The New Science of Narcissism” and “Professor OCEAN: A small tale of personality's Big Five.” His work on personality has appeared across print media and he has made numerous media appearances, from the “Today Show” to the “Joe Rogan Experience.” He wrote the popular TED-Ed lesson on narcissism and writes a Substack called “Explorations in Personality.” He holds a BA from the University of California at Berkeley, a Ph.D. from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and did his postdoctoral work at Case Western Reserve University. He lives in Athens, Georgia, with his wife and daughters. This episode was recorded on September 4th, 2024 - Links - For Keith Campbell: On X https://x.com/wkeithcampbell?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Website https://www.wkeithcampbell.com/?_sm_nck=1 Substack https://substack.com/@wkeithcampbell
2:20 Does that phrase "Do Nice Guys Finish Last" really mean anything? 3:30 The real reason nice guys feel like they finish last and why you should stop doing this one thing. 5:20 The box of being a "provider" and need to be perfect is getting in the way. 06:00 Vulnerability and the need to embrace it if you want to find your authentic love 8:15 Reflection questions for the "nice guys" and for women who are seeking authentic love. 13:00 Toxic masculine beliefs that are keeping you from connecting authentically with women and everyone. 14:00 Being obsessed with the provider role and being a smart guy diminishes your ability to receive. 15:00 Themes of men that I've worked with as clients 24:00 Ways you might be keeping YOURSELF stuck in fake love 25:00 Question for reflection: If I were less concerned with being a nice guy, what would the "real guy" inside my heart say? 33:00 Your joy sets in and love begins when you are authentic To take the next step in becoming your authentic self, reach out. Don't be shy or hesitate to contact me (Parinaz) to get started on your journey to authenticity: shamsguidance@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/parishams/support
Episode Highlights: The Myth of 'Nice Guys Finish Last', Creating Safe and Connected Sexual Experiences, The Importance of Comfort and Communication in Sex, Reflecting on Childhood Memories, Navigating Challenging Sexual Experiences, Prioritizing Foreplay and Communication Summary: Welcome to this Thursday edition of The HOT Seat where team member, Terri Boucher is back to put Kaylor in the hot seat. Do nice guys really finish last? Kaylor and Terri dive deep into this age-old question, exploring the complexities of kindness, boundaries, and masculinity. From childhood sweet memories to spicy tales, they hold nothing back as they share their most intimate experiences and discover the secrets to a fulfilling sex life as they discuss the importance of safety, connection, and open communication. Don't miss it! Takeaways: Kindness is important, but being a perpetual people pleaser can lead to negative outcomes in various areas of life In relationships, women are often attracted to men who can lead and set boundaries, creating a sense of safety and security The best sexual experiences are characterized by deep connection, comfort, and a sense of harmony Communication and rhythm are key in creating a pleasurable sexual experience Childhood memories can vary, and not everyone has positive experiences to recall Feeling safe and connected is crucial for good sex Open and honest communication is key in the bedroom If you enjoyed the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag @thekaylorbetts. Also, please make sure to give us a review and a five star rating if you're loving what we are doing! _____________________________ SPONSORS: Truly Tallow | https://www.trulytallow.com/ Use code “SUNNYBALLS10” at checkout for 10% off your order The Wellness Company | https://www.twc.health/products/bison-trifecta Use Code WINNING at checkout for 10% off your order _____________________________ IMPORTANT UPDATES: Check out the Awake & Winning Website | https://awakeandwinning.com/ Join the Awake & Winning Life AW-cademy | https://theawlife.com/ Join the Awake & Winning Business AW-cademy | https://theawbiz.com Join the Awake & Winning POD-cademy | http://yourwinningpodcast.com/ Follow Kaylor on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thekaylorbetts/ Follow Terri on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/terri_boucher/ _____________________________
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Nice guys finish last
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Are you tired of feeling overlooked and undervalued? Have you ever wondered why being a"nice guy" doesn't always lead to success in relationships, career, and life? In this transformative solo episode, dive deep into the groundbreaking insights from Robert Glover's bestselling book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy. If you're ready to shatter the "nice guy" stereotype and step into your true potential, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and embark on self-discovery and empowerment like never before. Let's stay connected : Subotalkspod
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Being a "nice guy" is not always the best approach, especially not when getting the approval of others comes at the expense of staying true to yourself. When we're constantly saying "yes" just to avoid upsetting others, it can be easy to lose touch with what's really important to us individually. In this episode, Matt O'Neill sits down with men's coach Chuck Chapman to discuss the importance of integrity in living an authentic, purposeful life. Matt and Chuck debate practical examples of when "being nice" helps or hurts, and the line between people-pleasing and integrity. Here are some power takeaways from today's conversation: Integrity's impact on happiness and well-being Virtues of courage and humility as foundations for integrity Integrity as the integration of virtues Maintaining integrity and balance in relationships and decisions Balance, accountability, forgiveness, and trust [06:31] Courage as the North Star of All Virtues According to Chuck, courage is the "North Star of all virtues." He sees courage as the first step toward living with integrity. Courage is necessary in order to do any virtue, because it takes courage to override our natural instincts and do what aligns with our values and integrity. Living with integrity often requires having difficult conversations or facing pain, which is where courage comes in. As Scott Peck said, courage isn't the absence of fear but the ability to move forward in its face. [16:21] Integrity as an Integration of Virtues Chuck realized integrity is not just one single thing, but rather an integration or combination of virtues. He describes living with integrity as similar to how all the individual parts of a watch (sprockets, springs, cogs etc.) need to be in alignment and integrated for the watch to serve its purpose of telling time. In the same way, he believes the 16 virtues need to be integrated within a person for them to be able to serve their highest purpose and live without inner conflict or suffering that comes from being out of integrity. [18:29] "Nice Guy" vs. "Man of Integrity" Chuck is making an important distinction between being a "nice guy" and being a "man of integrity." He states that the opposite of a "nice guy" is not a jerk - but what he calls a "man of integrity." He suggests that while a nice guy's niceness often comes from a place of seeking approval or avoiding conflict, a man of integrity acts from a place of genuine care, following his values and staying true to himself even if it's not the easiest thing to do. This highlights how integrity requires courage rather than just being pleasant, and speaks to the discussion around discerning when "being nice" helps or hurts one's character. Notable quotes: [07:03] Courage really is the first step of living in integrity because it takes an act of courage to do that. [07:11] [12:01] When you live in love, and grace and compassion and humility, you feel a whole lot better. [12:10] [18:29] The opposite of a nice guy isn't a jerk… it's what I call a man of integrity. [18:35] [22:55] If all I'm doing is loving everybody else, and not loving myself, then what happens is, I'm out of balance. [23:00] Resources Mentioned: www.chuckchapman.com Gobundance Download this week's free resource instantly when you sign up for The Good Mood Show newsletter here! Or, reach out on our contact page at GoodMoodShow.com/Contact and we will email you a copy of any free resource you request. About the Guest Chuck Chapman is a licensed therapist and men's coach with over 15 years of experience helping men live authentically. His upcoming book "Finding Your Way Without Losing Yourself: The Path of Integrity" draws from his personal journey of discovering integrity after his life fell apart.
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Do Nice Guys Finish Last? In the words of the poetic quartet Boys ll Men, “Sympin Ain't Easy”. Better stated, nice guys DO finish last! Why does the nice guy get friend zoned or tromped on in a relationship? Why does the super nice yes-man get passed over for career advancement. There is also a huge misconception that a nice guy is the same as a “good guy”… Don't be fooled. The Sip Boyz tackle this topic head on hoping men will be more aware and suppress their inner simp while helping ladies recognize and admit that what they really want is a good man. Let's get after it, y'all! Questions, reviews and topics you would like to hear on the show: Website: podcastsoe.com Instagram: @soe_podcast YouTube: Sippin On Excellence Connect with Doc! Website: huntspine.com Instagram: @leonelhunt Connect with Coach KJ! Website: coachkj.com Instagram: @coachkjknows
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A tale as old as time - Does the nice guy finish last? This week Damien & Nathalie dive into this phrase, what it means, is there truth to it & they take a deep dive into the traits that we tend to see in this so called 'nice guy'. But, do nice girls also finish last? Is there such thing as a 'fake' nice guy? And no... We don't mean 'finish' in the bedroom. Be sure to rate, subscribe & follow the podcast, tag Nathalie & Damien on socials if you enjoyed this episode or send them a message to their socials. Damien - https://www.instagram.com/damienbroderick/ Nathalie - https://www.instagram.com/nathalielennon_/
In this latest episode of Uptown After Dark, host Uptown Brown meets with guests Zay and Wolf to discuss if nice guys finish last. Also, hit us up in the comments and let us know what you think. While you are doing that, don't forget to like and subscribe. Visit our website: www.uptownafterdark.com #SexEducation #Sexpert #Relationships
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Why do the same women complaining about “no good guys left” proceed to friend zone all the nice guys? And for the ladies, we will ask the question, do guys seek out the kind of women that friend zone them? But most importantly, we are going to explain the difference between “nice guys” and “good men.”Sponsored By Good Ranchers: Get a free 10lb holiday ham ($99 value) when you go to https://go.goodranchers.com/mta and use promo code "Nick." Tread Around And Find Out MERCH: https://shop.nickjfreitas.com/------------------------------------------------Join our community chat: https://bit.ly/43zQDLNSubscribe to the MTA channel: https://bit.ly/MTAVideoYTSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3aYSrD9Subscribe on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2UUAVKDSubscribe to The Why Minutes: @thewhyminutes ------------------------------------------------Find Nick: Instagram: www.instagram.com/nickjfreitas/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NickFreitasVACommunity Chat: https://bit.ly/43zQDLNTwitter: https://twitter.com/NickJFreitas
This week, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists Brett and Christa look into the psychology of being nice. Did you know that this is actually a personality trait called Agreeableness? Brett and Christa discuss how to know if your niceness is a vulnerability or an asset.Do you have feedback or topic requests? Email us at: podcast@nystromcounseling.comWe'd love to hear from you!Follow alongInstagramFacebookNystrom & Associates
Beth and Andrew speak with author Alexandra Hudson about her recently published book, The Soul of Civility. She discusses the difference between politeness and civility, and shares her opinion on where today's uncivil society stands in relation to other eras in history. We talk about the role that social media plays in modeling uncivil behavior […]
This week, we discuss whether The Nice Guy really exists, through Aziz Ansari, Ross from Friends, and other guys who made a thing out of finishing last. Respectfully Disagree is The Swaddle Team's very own podcast series, in which we get together to discuss and dissect the issues we passionately differ on. Credits: Featuring: Denise D'Souza, Neha Shetty Co-Producers: Shrishti Malhotra, Rohitha Naraharisetty Cover Art: Neha Tewari Art Director: Neha Shekhawat Executive Producer: Karla Bookman
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The phrase "nice guys finish last" is a common expression that suggests that individuals who are kind, considerate, and respectful often find themselves at a disadvantage in various aspects of life. This notion has been a topic of debate and analysis, with several theories attempting to explain why this phenomenon occurs. One possible explanation is rooted in evolutionary psychology. According to this theory, individuals are drawn to certain traits that are associated with reproductive success, such as confidence, assertiveness, and dominance. Nice guys, who are often perceived as more passive and accommodating, may not exhibit these traits as prominently as others. Tune in Wednesday starting at 8 PM ET for the "He Said What Podcast" featuring your hosts Simplee Bree, (@_simpleebree_) Ezel Moon (@ezelmoon_), and RG (@rgainesii). With some of the hottest topics in the community, hopefully this trio will play well as they bridge the gap in communication between men and women. Here's your homework: Subscribe to the He Said What Network YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/c/hesaidwhatnetwork)
Adam talks about his recent push to speak his mind and be more vocal about his opinions; How possessing traits of listening, care, and compassion often lead to being overseen and how he can build a story in his mind, that he is a failure. What happens when compassionate strength turns into being a push over?Want more Reading Aloud Podcast? Become a member of our Pateron! Check us out at https://readingaloud.captivate.fm (Subscribe, Download, and Review)Follow along on this journey through life on Instagram or facebook at @readingaloudpodcast or send us a message at readingaloudlove@gmail.comThanks for listening!