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BEHIND CLOSED DOORS IS A PODCAST ABOUT SEX, RAW AND UNEDITED. I GOT TIRED OF HAVING MY STIMULATING CONVERSATIONS ABOUT SEX, RELATIONSHIPS, LIFE AND OTHER RANDOM STUFF SIMPLY DISAPPEAR LIKE SO MANY ERECTIONS. SO, I PUT A MICROPHONE IN THE ROOM AND BEHIND CLOSED DOORS WAS BORN.

Jerome Stuart Nichols


    • Aug 30, 2017 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 73 EPISODES


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    Why do I hate you? - BCD 69

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2017


    Laying down the knowledge - BCD 61

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2016


    Ego Checking New Submissives - Behind Closed Doors 60

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2016


    Better Service - Behind Closed Doors 59

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2016


    Banning Danny - Behind Closed Doors 58

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2016


    After a major breach of trust, we must say goodbye to one of Bubby's partners

    My Kind of Dom - Behind Closed Doors 57

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2016


    You're clearly a Dom, Katelyn - Behind Closed Doors 56

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2016


    A good day - Behind Closed Doors 55

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2016


    Negotiating Corporal Punishment - Behind Closed Doors 54

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2016


    Dick or Death - BCD 52

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2016


    Don't touch me - BCD 51

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2016


    Bubby is having some problems with his boundaries and I'm just a mess. Yay.

    This Multi-Orgasmic Man - BCD 48

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2016


    Puppy Comes Home - BCD 47

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2016


    Finances & Metamours - BCD 46

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2016


    Flogging Ali Mushtaq - BCD 45

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2016


    California-based doctoral candidate and sexy mofo Ali Mushtaq stops by to talk about gay kink culture, being brown and mental health.

    Understanding trust - BCD 44

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2015


    I'm not feeling as trusted as I think I should and it's time to finally get to the bottom of it. 

    Dom alpha beta - BCD 43

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2015


    Bubby has a new play partner and is in need of some advice. 

    Rethinking Marriage - BCD 42

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2015


    Rituals & Routines - BCD 41

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2015


    Restarting an active D/s relationship means figuring out what works and what doesn't. So, we did. 

    Comprehending Submission - BCD 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2015


    Now that everything isn't all doom and gloom, we've found some time to get back into an active kink life. Things got off the rails, but we got to a great destination regardless. 

    Dominant Vulnerability - BCD 39

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2015


    As a Dom, remembering to stay open is important. Even the ones in charge need to feel loved.

    A kick in the ass - BCD 38

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2015


    Sometimes you need to give your partner a kick in the ass. For me and Bubby that time has come. 

    Emotional Politics in Polyamory - BCD 37

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2015


    A partner Bubby and I share recently came back into our lives and it sparks an important discussion. 

    Checking In - BCD 35

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2015


    Seen, Heard, Understood and Valued with Devi Ward - BCD 34

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2015


    This week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store.

    Love through vanishing vulvas with Alicia Beth - BCD 33

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2015


    This week, I'm joined by Alicia Beth HIV, sex educator and former host of Raw Sex Radio. In this episode, the bulk of our chat focuses on lichen sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that attacks the genital tissue. We also venture into dating with this disease and similar ones that affect one's sexuality physically, as well as tips for partners of those affected. Support Behind Closed Doors: Patreon.com/KeepItSexy

    Make me over, please - BCD 32

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2015


    Exploring body image, confidence and why it's ok to feel "meh" about your partner. Bubby and I love each other and have great sex. Yet, I'm ambivalent about his looks overall. We explore what this means for us and in general.

    Accepting pleasure with Garland Jarmon - BCD 31

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2015


    Pleasure is a tricky bitch. In this episode of Behind Closed Doors, we explore what it means to give and receive pleasure. Our guest, Garland Jarmon of Spiritual Eros shares his expertise on the topic and even helps me learn to open myself to the joy.

    How to handle a mental health crisis - BCD 30

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2015


    Support LTASEX on www.Patreon.com/keepitsexy Bubby was recently hospitalized after a suicide attempt and a major freakout. Dealing with that has been more stressful than I imagined it would be. Here's how we worked our way through it. 

    Devotion, commitment and service - BCD 29

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2015


    This episode marks a turning point for Behind Closed Doors. I address this in the intro then we transition in to discussing what it means to sacrifice for your partner, remembering to enjoy the good times and what mature love really feels like.

    Dealing with poly drama - BCD 28

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2015


    Even when poly relationships start off smoothly, they can get off course quickly. Bubby's new partner is already causing trouble, so we talk about what to do.

    The joys of new poly partners - BCD 27

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2015


    I'm always happy to welcome new lovers to the family. Bubby recently got a new partner and it's going pretty well

    No more drama - BCD 26

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2015


    Once the storm is over, it's important to get back to normal. Having fun is super important to maintaining long, strong relations.

    Is this true love? - BCD 25

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2015


    Life with Bubby and his borderline personality disorder is often very tough. Even still, our relationship is strong and devoted, even if we forget sometimes.

    Dom sub emotional therapy - BCD 24

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2015


    Now that things are settling back into a rhythm within my relationship, we're taking some time to really get those lingering feelings out. Of course, it's with a kinky twist, though.

    Softer Side of Sadism with Mistress Morgana Maye - BCD 23

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2015


    Mistress Morgana Maye stops by to discuss the lesser known, softer side of sadism. It's not all whips and restraints.

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