RAINBOWS with Elaine Dizon

In this episode, Elaine invites Twyla David, an regional humanitarian professional. They talk about how individuals and organizations can begin their journey to social inclusion.

In this episode, Elaine shares a short message for the podcast's anniversary.

In this episode, Elaine talks about the song Barbie Girl and its meaning.

In this episode, Elaine and Pryce collaborate to write and perform “If I were a boy”.

Yes! Part one. Planning to do a spoken poetry on this topic as part two of this topic. For topic suggestions, comments or letters for the open letter series email me @elainegracejdizon@gmail.com

In connection to the Pride month, Elaine and Pryce talked about the misconceptions, stigmas and stereotypes in relation to gender. They tried to define and redefine terms in the gender spectrum, and spontaneously talked about their experiences. Terms such as biphobia, non-binary, and deadnaming definitely came into the discussion table.

There is a negative connotation when we speak of the word, " ALONE". We feel and think of the words, "unwantedness and unbelongingness". When, infact, thinking of being alone from another spectrum means, "power, freedom, strength, and most of all, INDEPENDENCE."

In this epiosde, Elaine talks about the advantages of having no children. She highlights on women who do not have children. She emphasizes the need to redefine norms, womanhood, and most of all, motherhood

For the opening episode, Elaine invites her mom to talk on purpose. What is the purpose of life? How will we know our purpose in life? You may send your letter via DM @rainbowswithelainedizon; email me at elainegracejdizon@gmail.com. New episodes will be every Friday.

In this season ender episode, Elaine and Ashley talk about the depth and effects of leaving people and being left.

What is retroactive jealousy? Is it normal for us to feel insecure? Listen to what Ashley (the psychological part) and Elaine (the linguistic part).

In this episode, Elaine talks about the books and poems that she highly recommends.

What is ideal is far from what is real. How far would you go for someone? Dave and Peachy lasted 10 years in a long distance relationship.

In this episode, Elaine talks about the love story of Jon and Juliet. There were a lot of realizations, that sometimes we can get cold feet from something that is good. And it's okay; there is nothing wrong. We can get scared and move away, because relationships are big decisons; for good relationships are really thought of.

I wish to educate and inspire people on long distance relationships. I wish you find something new and inspiring with Kiel and Grace.

One interesting topic in relationships would be age differences. This love story is one story that would capture your heart. It talks about liberty, empowerment, and greatness in a relationship. Elaine shares the love story of King and Mau and how age was never a hindrance in love.

Elaine talks about the dynamics of commitment and the fear of entering it. A lot fear commitment because of poor and failed previous relationships, a trauma or setbacks, which your present potential mate has nothing to do with. Commitments symbolize loss and control, if looked at a negative way, but it can also be seen as growth, support, and connection.

Don't ever think that February is only about couples and romantic relationships, because the best relationship we could ever have is the relationship we have with ourselves. Never be afraid to fall inlove with yourself. For the relationship you have with yourself, sets the tone for all your relationships.

For the month of February, Elaine will talk about issues on love and relationships. In this episode, Elaine invites Lor to talk about physical attraction in a relationship, gender preferences, karma in relationships, and gratitude.

In this episode, Elaine and Ethel talk about the struggles, weaknesses, strengths and advices of being a single mom.

Elaine talks about the love story of Ajae and Rhods in her perspective. She also talks of her learnings and realizations on the relationship of Ajae and Rhods.

Elaine talks about how we fail to see beyond gender. Madalas natin sabihin, okay siya, matalino siya, mabait siya pero sayang kasi bakla siya. Bakit may pero? Bakit may sayang? Did we really waste our lives just because we are gay?

I have to emphasize that these lessons are based from my experiences from 2020, though I hope you could learn from them. Question! What did 2020 teach you???

Since the beginning of this year, a lot of people posted about moving forward or moving on. Listen to this episode to what I have to say.

Disclaimer: Elaine and Erika are not law makers and law experts. The SOGIE Bill has been signed but it is NOT yet a law. These are just their views and opinions on the SOGIE Bill and on discrimination in general. Due to Covid protocols, Elaine and Erika did not record this episode physically; hence, the episode has minimal signal difficulties and delays in responses.

Elaine invited a feminist-lawyer to discuss common questions on feminism.

Elaine and Erika define happiness in their own perspective. How would they define happiness? Is defining happiness even important.

Elaine with her mom talk about the challenges, experiences, and views of raising a lesbian.

Elaine and Erika talk about their views on long distance relationships, and the difficulties of dating during the pandemic. They talk about the struggles and different spectrums of these forms of dating.

The year 2020 hit us hard, but we should never look backwards. The way to moving on is to look forward. Our struggles in 2020 should be a breakthrough, never a breakdown.

How do we see and base a woman's worth? Is her value determined based on a man?

Elaine talks about how people can leave scars or wounds. People from broken relationships can have an impact in our lives. We need to recognize this. We are part of our broken relationships. We are part of the drifts and the separation.

Why do we blame people for the unfortunate things that happen to them?

There is NO such thing as TOTGA--- The one that got away. We were made to believe by movies on what the one should be, but in reality, the one is a total opposite of what is depicted in movies.

What are the common lesbian stereotypes? How do we detoxify from these stereotypes?

This episode talks about my struggles, fears, and challenges in life as a lesbian. For comments and questions, you can DM me @rainbowswithelainedizon.

I wrote this piece when I was in quarantine. I spent a whole month literally alone in my apartment, before I decided to finally to go home to my parents. If you had the gift of the golden watch, would you change anything? Send me your thoughts and comments, DM me @rainbowswithelainedizon

Is there a possibility that the dumper would feel regret or pain? Is the dumper happy or contented with his/ her decision? DM me your thoughts after you listen to this episode @rainbowswithelainedizon

What is the secret to a long term relationship? What are our experiences and views on long term relationships?

How do we let go? Is letting go even necessary?

Have you ever treated someone so badly? And in the end, this person was the one who helped you after you treated them badly.

How do we deal with pains and struggles? We should make an effort to accept realities, then heal.

Is it possible to raise kids when you're gay? How do gay couples raise their kids? Does gender matter in parenting and family building?

This SHORT episode talks about homophobia. Never say your not homophobic then use the word BUT.

We identify with our names. Our names give a clear information of who we are.

Can you mention one thing that is permanent in life, except change? Nothing is ever permanent.

Who makes your timeline?

What was your coming out story? Why is it important to come out?

How can we overcome racism, discrimination, pain, and struggles? What does Pat Parker have to say? Listen until the end.

My voice speaks volumes of sadness. How are you coping with the new normal? What has changed in you since the pandemic?

What is toxic femininity? How do we define women of quality? Are you a toxic woman?