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"Fatherhood vs. Social Media: In today's world, the challenges of being a dad are more complex than ever. As we navigate the pressures of parenting, social media has added a new layer of influence—both good and bad. From constant comparison to digital distractions, how is social media shaping modern fatherhood? Join me and special guest The Nixxologist as we dive into the impact of balancing screen time with family time, the pressure to appear 'perfect' online, and how young dads can reclaim control in a tech-driven world. Let's explore the real effects of the digital age on fatherhood." Connect with us through Social Media!For TheNixxologist ⬇️Facebook ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/TheNixxologist?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/thenixxologist?igsh=MmNxbHhha3Nocng3TikTok ➡️ tiktok.com/@thenixologist?_t=8jE5qNZzSJy&_r=1Booking info for your next event ➡️ gigsalad.com/thenixxologist_sherwoodFor Real Men Talk ⬇️Let's Connect: Facebook ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100068242136748&mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/real_men_talkpodcast?igsh=ajg2Yml3bTAyZXls&utm_source=qrTikTok ➡️ https://www.tiktok.com/@real_men_talkpodcast?_t=8l2gOa3qIzC&_r=1YouTube ➡️ https://youtube.com/@realmentalkpodcast1284?si=6B6411yOEGQPXIeE

In today's fast-paced society, there is a constant pressure to excel and be the best in every aspect of life. Whether it be in academics, career, or personal achievements, we are often pushed to strive for perfection and stand out from the crowd. However, in this never-ending quest for success, there are certain individuals or groups that often go unnoticed and are underestimated – the overlooked ones. The overlooked ones are those who may not fit society's expectations of success. They may come from a less privileged background, have certain limitations, or simply do not possess the conventional traits associated with success. As a result, they are often brushed aside and their potential goes unnoticed. They are the underdogs, deemed to have lower chances of succeeding in life. But what many fail to realize is that the overlooked ones possess invaluable strength and resilience that can bring about astonishing results. One of the main reasons for overlooking these individuals is the societal construct of success that has been ingrained in our minds. Success is often equated with power, wealth, and achievements. People who do not possess these qualities are sometimes seen as failures in the eyes of society. In reality, however, success comes in different forms and is not limited to what is portrayed by society. The overlooked ones may possess traits that may not be visible at first glance but are crucial for success, such as determination, perseverance, and empathy.

We are all going to face moments in life when we feel discouraged or frustrated. It's normal to feel angry as well, and sometimes we can even get mad at God. This feeling of anger may come suddenly or linger for quite some time, and it's often hard to put into words. But, no matter how deep it is, it's possible to move through it. Start by understanding that it's okay to feel angry. Don't beat yourself up for your emotions. Instead, take the time to focus on God by talking to Him and listening for His response. Find a supportive environment where you can express yourself and receive guidance from trusted people in your life. Allow yourself moments of quiet to reflect on why you're feeling so mad at God. Question why these feelings have manifested, and be gentle with yourself as you do. Consider the verses from the Bible that offer wisdom and guidance on how to face difficult situations. Remember that God is always with us, even in moments when we are angry. Lean into Him and allow Him to be your strength as you journey through this hard time.

It can sometimes be difficult to take a step back, and appreciate where you are in life right now. Living in the moment means being aware of your current situation, and accepting it as it is. When we take the time to really appreciate our surroundings and all the little moments that fill up our lives, we can begin to become more mindful and content with our current state. This practice can help us stay present in our lives, and become more aware of our own thoughts and feelings. Living in the moment means being mindful of all that is around you - the sights, the sounds, the tastes, and the smells. It is important to take a moment and truly appreciate the wonderful things in your life, and give yourself credit for what you have accomplished. Living in the moment not only gives us peace and contentment, but it allows us to better appreciate all of the wonderful moments that make up our lives. So take a few minutes today to live in the moment and appreciate all that you have.

How to Embrace Change

It seems like no matter what I do, it always comes back to me. Why can't I catch a break? Is there something missing? Answering this question is not as easy as it sounds. Life is unpredictable and often has a way of working out in unexpected ways. The reality of the situation is that it's not always about you. It could be related to external influences and other aspects of your life that can't be seen or controlled. It's important to remember that whatever experiences you go through, there are always lessons to be learned. Through adversity and obstacles, you can gain a greater understanding of yourself and what you are capable of. Learning how to cope with difficult times is ultimately a process that takes effort and time, but the outcome can be incredibly rewarding. The best thing to do is to seek out people who can help you work through the things that life throws your way. Those that have gone through similar experiences can often provide valuable advice and lend a sounding board for your thoughts. Though it may feel like it's always you, life has a way of working out eventually.

Not being appreciative of the things around us could cost us dearly!!

It's a common belief that to be successful, you need to be perfect. But here's the thing - perfection doesn't actually exist. Strictly speaking, perfection is an impossible ideal, and trying to achieve it can set us up for failure. When we set ourselves unrealistic expectations of perfection, we start feeling overwhelmed and discouraged when we can't meet them. Instead of striving for something that's impossible, focus on the idea of progress instead. It's much more achievable, and you'll feel more satisfied with the end result. Know that it's okay to make mistakes and have flaws. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses, and as long as you're doing your best, that's all that matters. Don't beat yourself up if something doesn't turn out exactly as you planned - use this as an opportunity to learn and grow.

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The reason you feel the way you do it's not because you are doing everything wrong. It's not because of your age, race, or the place you live. It's because you are Out of Position. Join Stan Da Man and listen in on ways to yourself back on the track to Success. Get ready to Position yourself for Greatness!! God will always Position just right.

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We often tell ourselves lies or make up stories that help us cope with difficult situations. For instance, if we don't pass an exam, we might tell ourselves that it's because we're too busy or that we just didn't have enough time to study. While these lies can be incredibly helpful in giving us a sense of control or even just a calm mindset, they can become damaging if taken too far. It's important to assess when a lie could be harmful or when the truth might be best. If we consistently rely on lies to cope with our problems, it can create a habit of not taking responsibility for our actions. Additionally, it can lead to an unhealthy denial of reality, causing us to ignore important facts and situations. Another issue with comfortable lies is that they can prevent us from challenging our beliefs and growing as a person. They can make us stay in our comfort zone because it feels easier and less scary. While staying in our comfort zone can be beneficial in certain circumstances, it can be detrimental when we rely on it too much or use it to avoid facing our fears.

So why is saying no so hard? Part of the reason may be that we don't want to cause any offense to those we need to say no to. We worry about upsetting them, or even ourselves, when we turn down requests. We often feel guilty for not doing what we're asked or wanted to do. However, saying no is acceptable and it can be done in a polite and respectful way. It helps you set boundaries and maintain your mental and emotional health. It also helps you make decisions based on what's best for you, instead of giving into peer pressure or feeling obligated to do something you don't want to.

Welcome, everyone! Do you ever feel like there is something missing in your life? Like you're searching for something that you can't quite put your finger on? It could be that you're looking for a deeper connection with yourself and with a greater power. That greater power is God. He's the one who created the universe and sustains it to this day. He is the source of all love, joy, and peace. And He is the one who can fill that missing feeling inside of you. The great thing is that God is always reachable and available to you. He's waiting for you to draw close to Him. All you need to do is reach out in prayer. Prayer is conversation with God. You can talk to Him about your worries, your fears, or your joys. But most of all, use prayer to develop a relationship with Him.

We live in an increasingly selfish society — one that takes without giving back, and treats relationships like transactions. Too often, people forget how powerful it is to give — to selflessly help someone else. We're so focused on getting what we want that we forget that the world is a two-way street. Being used by someone can be a very uncomfortable experience. When people use your resources — your time, your skills, or even your money — without offering anything in return, it can lead to resentment. This is especially true in romantic relationships, where one person gives more than they receive. The key to ensuring that relationships stay balanced is communication. It's important to express what you need and want from the other person, and to respect their needs as well. If you find that someone is taking advantage of you, don't be afraid to speak up and set boundaries. Tune in and get the RMT take on this subject!!

Today we wanted to address a very difficult but important issue. It is something that we all have personally struggled with from time to time , but I have come to the realization that it is something we all must confront: admitting when we are wrong. It's often hard to admit that we're wrong. We can feel like it's a sign of weakness or shame, and so we avoid it at all costs. We come up with excuses, try to rationalize away our mistake and find any way possible to justify it. We cling to our pride even when faced with the most obvious of errors. But this isn't the right approach, and while it may be difficult to accept, there are times when we make mistakes or do something wrong. During these situations, it is important to face our mistakes head on, confront what we have done wrong and most importantly, take responsibility for them.

We've all faced failure at some point or another, and it can be a difficult thing to experience. But failure doesn't have to mean the end – it can also be a great opportunity for growth. It's important to remember that failure is not the same as a lack of success. Failure doesn't mean you're not capable or talented, it just means that you haven't achieved the desired result yet. The most successful people in the world have all faced failure at some point or another, and it's how they dealt with it that ultimately allowed them to move forward and achieve success. So, what's the key to succeeding at failure? The first step is to make sure you view it as a learning experience rather than a personal attack. We can tend to focus solely on the negative aspects of the situation and then give up without making any progress. However, if we take a step back and try to find out what went wrong, it gives us a chance to understand where we can improve in the future.

We all make mistakes in life, the important thing is not to be afraid to own up to them. There is no shame in admitting when we have done something we regret. In fact, this is a sign of courage and strength. When we choose the wrong path, it can be difficult to heed the consequences of our actions. I know this from experience, as I recently made a decision that I wish I had never made. I did it for someone else, and it was wrong. But now I have the opportunity to make things right. To own up to my mistakes and learn from them is a chance to grow and become a better version of myself. So today, I encourage each and every one of us to look our mistakes in the face and learn from them. Whether it is something small or something big, we must dare to face what we have done and to make amends if possible.

We'll be taking an in-depth look at how men can shape the dynamics of family life. Integrating masculine energy into the home has the potential to create a balance between traditionally masculine activities, such as outdoor activities or fixing things around the house, and traditionally more feminine activities such as cooking, nurturing, and emotional support. We'll discuss how families can balance the presence of a man in the household with respect and understanding. We'll examine situations such as single mothers raising young children, blended families with several generations living together, and households with men transitioning from college or singlehood to marriage and fatherhood. Of course, it's important for families to keep in mind that there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to the presence of a man in the home. Each family is unique, with different personalities and dynamics.

The reality is that life can be unpredictable and unkind. No matter who you are , it's likely you face your own personal struggles and sometimes these can seem insurmountable. But, don't lose hope because life's hardships can be overcame. Tune in to get the R.M.T perspective on this topic.

Tune in to get the RMT take on this subject with special guest ​Mr. Courtney Miller! Fathers play an important role in a child's life. They can be loving, supportive and provide a positive role model. Fathers are needed to provide discipline, structure and guidance. They are needed to offer a helping hand and teach their children the values and lessons for life. Being a positive father figure also involves listening to your children when they talk and adjusting your behavior when it can be improved. Fathers need to be able to lead by example and show that they care about their children and are willing to do what's best for them. In conclusion, fathers play a critical role in a child's life, providing discipline, structure, love, guidance and support along the way. We cannot underestimate the need for fathers in our society!!

ave you ever felt frustrated when someone doesn't respond to you like you expected them to? You know, the type of frustration when you expect a response back from them immediately, or don't get the response you wanted? Well, if you can relate to this experience, thee you're not alone. Sometimes, people can appear to be unresponsive or not think of our conversations as important. But there can be a few things causing this lack of response. For one, they may be super busy and don't have the time to respond right away. Despite how we may feel, life goes on for them, and they have other priorities. Tune in and get the R.M.T perspective!

Have you ever felt that you're wearing a mask in order to fit in with everyone else? Do you feel like you're hiding who you really are? If so, then you're not alone. All too often, people put on a mask and live under the facade of who they're not. We all need to be accepted and at times, we choose to sacrifice our identities just to fit in. It's easy to bend the truth and make ourselves look and act like something we're not. But why do we do it? We try to impress others and this often results in a mask that hides our true selves. We can spend so much of our lives pretending that we forget who we really are. We get so used to wearing this mask that it becomes our identity, leaving us unable to be true to ourselves.

The reality is that life can be unpredictable and unkind. No matter who you are, it's likely you face your own personal struggles and sometimes these can seem insurmountable. But, don't lose hope - because life's hardships can be overcome and the journey to that point can be empowering. In this video, we'll discuss some of common life obstacles and how to approach and eventually overcome them.

Cheating in a relationship is never okay. Infidelity carries a heavy emotional toll for both the one who cheated and the one who was cheated on. However, there are some exceptions to this rule, and it's important to understand the difference between cheating behavior and a understanding! Ultimately, it's important to remember that relationships require honesty, communication, respect, and trust in order to thrive. Cheating is never okay, but an understanding can be beneficial for some couples looking for an alternative way to explore outside relationships. Taking the time to evaluate your current relationship dynamics, determine what is right for you and your partner, and understanding the risks associated with it may help set you up for a better future!

God's plans are often mysterious and it can be hard to understand why we are sent to places or tasked with jobs that we don't necessarily want to do. But it can be beneficial to summon faith and remind ourselves that God knows what is best for us, even if we don't always understand why.

Life isn't always easy and sometimes it can be cruel. When you've worked hard and poured your heart into something you care about, it can be crushing when it turns out to be a failure. Human beings are resilient, but facing failure and imperfection can still take a toll on us. You have the strength to put yourself back together and stand up for yourself in spite of life's challenges. You don't have to be defined by your mistakes or your limitations; instead, you can use them as an opportunity to grow and become a better version of yourself. Let the world see that you're much more than damaged goods.

Lust can be difficult to manage and can cause us to make decisions that can negatively affect our lives. We may be tempted to do something that is out of character for us such as engaging in affairs or being unfaithful to our partner. That's why it's important to understand how to handle your lust and manage it in a way that doesn't cause harm to yourself or others.

As we move through life, it's natural to want things to appear perfect on the outside. We do our best to make our lives appear ideal—the perfect job, the perfect life partner, the perfect home, and the perfect family. We put on a brave face, make sure our Instagram feeds look immaculate, and pretend that there's no room for struggle or disappointment. It's ok to not be ok. It's ok to feel pain and disappointment. This isn't a sign of failure—it's just a reminder that we are all fragile and vulnerable in some way. It takes courage to acknowledge it and even more courage to move forward in spite of it.

GPS can offer more than just directions. Its uses can be enhanced through our ability to be grounded, poised and smart with our decisions. We start by having the knowledge and understanding of what path we want to tread and how to make the most of our journey. This allows us to take a step-by-step approach and build upon our choices over time. It helps us break the trip down into manageable chunks, measuring progress along the way.

Life isn't always smooth sailing. No matter what stage of life or profession you are in, there will be times when you hit an obstacle. These bumps can take many forms. Maybe you'll face delays or setbacks, financial issues, relationship troubles, or even health problems. Whatever the challenge, it's important to be prepared and have a plan for when these obstacles appear.

When it comes to inspiring others, it starts with you. The best way to help those around you grow is to lead by example. Show them how you're improving and trying to become the best version of yourself. Be open about the things you're learning, the challenges you're going through, and the steps you're taking to become a better version of yourself.

At times our day to day problems can often cause us to misjudge people, situations and relationships. But by having your mind, body and soul line up in the right place you can ultimately come up with the best decision. Listen in on the RMT take on the matter! #podcast #life #love

We all heard and saw the happily ever after fairy tales in movies and tv shows. Does this really happens in real life?I mean actually finding the one for you? Listen in on the RMT take on this subject.

It's often the things that are most import that goes UN-NOTICED until something goes wrong!! On this episode the R.M.T crew discuss how overlook certain aspects of our lives due to just thinking it will always be there!

Have you ever felt a tug inside telling you to go left then again something is telling you right is the way to go. Often this tug creates problem inside of us that no one can solve but you! Come join the conversation and get the RMT take on this matter‼️

Critics call this episode… “INSIGHTFUL “ and to put it in a nutshell, it would simply mean…Things in life we THINK we need, but truth be told…We never needed at all.

It's a rare condition this day and age to see a family reunion or even people taking out time to spend with their family. Now is that really this case? Do we still have some of them GOOD OLE DAYS family tradition. Tune and listen to the RMT perspective of this issue!!

Have you ever had someone give you bad ADVICE on a imperative decision that you are about to make?? Maybe even have family to “chime” in on your relationship or ships that you have been in??? Come join in the conversation with RMT for their outlook on this situation!

Two people can come together and make a beautiful bundle of joy…but what still remains true is that both parents are 2 INDIVIDUALS. This could bring the differences in beliefs, and methods of disciplining to the surface. These things often rock marriages and relationships to the core!…the key is to find out how to navigate those troubled waters and still come out on one accord! Wanna hear more??…check this episode out…IT'S A GOOD ONE

Rather it be the voices from others(haters) or the voice in our own head, they BOTH are NOT reality! These voices always make themselves known right after great inspiration, creativity, and those dreams that make us feel that we can have the desires of our hearts. The key is to remember…THEY ARE NOT REALITY! They're only nightmares

Sometimes we can spend weeks and months trying to know if a relationship is dead and if we need to break up. However, there are some clear signs to look out for that the relationship is dead or at least needs serious work. Check out the RMT perspective‼️

There's no feeling in the world like the shame of swiping your card for a purchase and seeing the words “insufficient funds” pop up on the screen. This is also true for those of us who always do for everyone else, only to find out that we've depleted ourselves and now can't enjoy the good things in OUR OWN LIFE!!!…this episode breaks it all down.

New Year's resolutions seem to never come out right or come to fruition period. Is there significance in the numerical meaning of a new calendar year? Or has the answer been right under our noses the whole time? The new year is waiting on the new YOU! Wanna know the recipe? Set time aside to watch this episode, IT'S A GOOD ONE

It is said that money makes the world go round. Money has been the reason that the world has seen many beautiful, long lasting relationships and even marriages. If loyalty is shown, given, and experienced…does the means or the source of the loyalty truly matter? This episode gets down to the nitty gritty!

This world today is hypnotized by the false idea of acceptance by means of likes, follows, and comments! The pursuit of acceptance is a dangerous road to travel, and we all have been down this path in some shape or form. Find the light at the end of the road by checking this

Let's just face it, THINGS CHANGE! But the beauty of it all is how we bob and weave to maneuver the grips of life! Let's eavesdrop on the RMT take… --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realmentalk/support

What good is a lie if it's to yourself? The most dangerous thing we can do in life, is lie to ourselves! We can always change because ultimately WE know the truth! Check this awesome episode out for more with R.M.T --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realmentalk/support

Who would've known that the TRAGEDIES and DISAPPOINTMENTS of life, are on the same team as the best times and joys of life. Whaaaaat??????….tune in as the RMT crew explains and clarifies this crazy theory! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realmentalk/support

It may not be DRUGS....it may not be ALCOHOL.....but what's your vice??? What's driving you to do certain things? And is there a such thing as being under the influence for the good? Tune in to hear the RMT perspective!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realmentalk/support

Today we talk about letting people gain access to valuable information that they shouldn't be privileged to have. In this conversation we talk about limiting your access to people and things that could affect your LIFE moving forward. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/realmentalk/support