Stop Shoulding On Yourself

Cuffing Season is in full effect and some are already boo'd up for the holidays! Now, the question is... are they the one or are they just a holiday boo? How do you know?

How to spot a f*ck boy 101 in this week's episode (;

They say that people who grew up with strict guardians have similar experiences. Can you relate?

What's the whole deal about sharing passwords with your significant other? Should you do it or keep it to yourself? 

Is it just us or are so many more people in long distance relationships nowadays? Well, here's what we have to say about it.

What'd you get hooked on during this pandemic? Let's talk! 

It's right around that time when college is starting again! So we started reminiscing about our (not-so) glorious college nights when we'd party til the sun would rise. 

Is this even real? Is there such a thing as meeting the right person at the wrong time?

Sometimes we get back into relationships with the hopes that whatever broke it off never happens again. But does it actually work out or is it all just wishful thinking?

One of our friends is thinking about going on a break with her boo to (hopefully) bring peace to their relationship. But let's be real. Do breaks actually work?

Jessica's friend is dealing with a break up (yikes!) & the worst part about the break up is the aftermath. So let's talk about closure and what might be the best way to get it.

So your friend got boo'd up, but you're starting to realize that you might not really like this new person. Do you tell your friend or let your friend do their thing?

Breaking up with a partner is hard enough, but what about the aftermath? Because everything's different as an ex. So what's the best way to do this? Let's talk!

When is it acceptable to lie to your partner or friend? ... Is it ever okay?!

Sometimes we have friends who enable toxic behaviors... but sometimes WE are that enabler friend. In this episode, we discuss being a supportive friend vs a toxic enabler.Music: allthat by bensound.com

You shared a part of your life with someone, and now that chapter's done. But do you keep your ex as a part of your past? Or should you stay friends with your ex? Here's our two cents. Music: allthat by bensound.com

Our idea of success has definitely changed throughout the years, and in this episode we talk about how we currently define and measure success. Music: allthat by bensound.com

California has fully re-opened, which means... We're going to be seeing a lot of first dates happening in restaurants and bars this summer! So let's prep for it and talk about what you shouldn't do on those first dates.

So much can change in 10ish years, like what we look for in potential partners. Today, we're talking about what we use to vs. what we currently look for in a partner.  Music: allthat by bensound.com

Let's talk about some "life lessons" that we should have learned by now and should know how to listen to... but don't.Music: allthat by bensound.com

What are some questions that you really shouldn't ask people? Music: allthat by bensound.com

We're at that age where we should feel grown up-ish since we're technically an adult, but should being an adult automatically mean that we're grown up too? 

Whether you're still WFH or returning to the office, we're always managing so many different personalities. But let's start with exploring our own work personalities as we get ready to integrate back into the physical workplace. Music: allthat by bensound.com

You're on a first date with Potential Boo #1. Conversation's flowing, the vibes are astronomical, and then... here comes the cashier with the check. Who should pay? You or Potential Boo?Music: allthat by bensound.com

We all strive for healthy relationships, but sometimes toxicity seeps through the cracks. Let's get a bit personal and address these toxic traits and how to identify them.Music: allthat by bensound.com

There are questionable trends that are attempting to make a come back, and we've got some strong opinions about it. Let's talk!

What are some of the beauty standards that you were convinced you should uphold? Idk about you, but we're tired of all of them... Let's talk about why.Music: allthat by bensound.com

In this minisode, we share the side effects we personally experienced with the second dose of two different Covid vaccines. Music: allthat by bensound.com

Double standards are f*cked up. Just our opinion, that's all.

Wondering how to confront someone? Well... we don't have all the answers, BUT in this minisode we talk about personal experiences with confronting strangers, friends, partners, and potential bosses... that may or may not have led to some potentially dangerous and crazy situations. Tune in!Music: allthat by bensound.com

Getting sick is a b*tch. So we did the responsible “adult” thing and got Covid vaccines

Our families and significant others mean the world to us, and there comes a point where both worlds must meet. So how should we introduce our partners to our more traditional Asian parents who may expect us to date within our race and sometimes...our own ethnicity? Let's talk.Music: allthat by bensound.com

Let's dive into the unique experiences of growing up as Asian American--from forbidden sleepovers, taboo sex talks, to shouldy thoughts of speaking up... we reveal it all.

We've all been in that position where we're staring at our phones a little too long while wondering, "Should I text them first?" Ughhh. *Cue eye roll. Well, sometimes a little pep talk from a couple friends on a podcast can help you answer that.

Welcome to Episode 1! Get to know us as we talk about meeting for the first time, reconnecting friendships, and navigating our romantic relationships during this pandemic.

Welcome to Stop Should'ing On Yourself with Jessica and Jamie!  We're two friends who talk about navigating the should's and should not's of our adulthood. We talk about it all, with some topics being silly, serious, relatable, or just random AF. We're here to have a good time with good conversations, so join us for the ride!Music: allthat from bensound.com