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**We apologize for the poor audio quality this week. Our systems crashed while recording. While we did our best to recover the audio, we're sorry if things are hard to understand.**This episode is for the guys! How do you know what to be looking for in a girl? This week, Josiah goes somewhere most people won't: the real green flags and red flags that actually predict whether a relationship will thrive or slowly drain you.It's not about a checklist of qualities. It's about one question: is she living for something bigger than herself? Because sweetness isn't the same as selflessness, and how she treats you now is a terrible indicator of how she'll treat you twenty years from now.This one might be the most practical episode of the series. Whether you're dating someone right now or just trying to figure out what you actually want, this is worth your time.
Most of us were never taught what to actually look for in a partner. We go off vibes, attraction, and whether they seem like a good person and then wonder why things fall apart five years in. This week, Josiah gets specific about what separates a healthy man from a toxic one and the answer might not be what you expect.It's not about who's hotter, more successful, or says the right things. It's about trajectory. Does he take initiative or make excuses? Does he take responsibility or quietly let everything drift to whoever's most comfortable? Does he add shame to your life or actively work to take it away? Toxic and healthy men can look almost identical on the surface. Until they don't.We also talk about why the person you keep choosing might say more about how you see yourself than how you see them, and what it looks like to actually raise your standards instead of just saying you have.
There's a reason breakups sometimes hurt way more than they "should." Or why you can't stop thinking about someone you know wasn't good for you. Or why that situationship left you feeling more empty than fulfilled. Turns out, there's actual neuroscience behind it and it has everything to do with how bonding, oxytocin, and intimacy work in your brain.This week, Josiah gets into what modern psychology and an ancient text both seem to agree on: sex is not just physical. It bonds you. And when that bond gets broken without real commitment, it leaves a mark. We talk about why "consensual" doesn't automatically mean "healthy," what it actually means to want all the perks of closeness without any of the vulnerability, and the one question that's way more honest than "how far is too far?"No shame. No gatekeeping. Just a real conversation about relationships, attachment, and what it might look like to actually protect yourself and someone else.
In this live Q&A episode, Josiah Bogue, Chuck Olminsky, and Vinnie Lobello respond to some of the most common questions people have about Christianity.Has the Bible been changed over time?Are there real contradictions in it?Are some translations more trustworthy than others?Why does suffering exist if God is loving?Can you be a “good person” and still end up in hell?These questions come from people inside and outside the church, including skeptics, seekers, and longtime believers. The conversation explores how the Bible was translated, how Christians think about apparent inconsistencies, and how faith intersects with doubt, pain, and free will.If you have ever had serious questions about the credibility of the Bible or the character of God, this episode walks through them in a thoughtful and accessible way.
Romance causes more anxiety than almost anything else in life. How do you find the right person? How do you avoid repeating the same mistakes? How do you know when to stay or when to walk away? And why does something we want so badly so often end up hurting us?In this episode, Josiah lays the foundation for a series on relationships by challenging one of the biggest assumptions in modern dating: that love is about what we receive. Drawing from social research, cultural trends, and the teachings of Jesus, he explores why so many relationships collapse and others don't.
What do you do when something in the Bible really bothers you? When a passage feels confusing, offensive, or completely at odds with what you expect God to be like? A lot of people quietly walk away at that point. Others stay but stop being honest.In this episode, Josiah explores one of the most overlooked ideas in faith: questioning Jesus. Using the story of John the Baptist's doubts, this conversation looks at how expectations shape belief, why we're tempted to remake God in our own image, and the difference between looking for confirmation versus being open to conviction.
A lot of people wonder the same thing, whether they're religious or not: If God is real, how would anyone actually hear from Him? Is it a feeling? A sign? A random thought? And how do you know you're not just making it up?In this episode, Josiah breaks down one of the most common and confusing questions people ask about the Bible. He explores why so many of us feel unsure about God's voice, why spiritual signals can feel overwhelming or unreliable, and how Jesus actually said God communicates with people.
A lot of people try spiritual habits like prayer, reading the Bible, or going to church… and walk away feeling bored, frustrated, or unchanged. Some assume they're doing it wrong. Others assume God isn't real.In this episode, Josiah talks about why so many spiritual practices don't work the way we expect—and why that might actually be the point. It isn't about being more disciplined, more religious, or fixing your life. It's about why so many of us feel distant, even when we're “doing all the right things,” and what closeness is actually supposed to look like.If you've ever thought, “I tried this stuff and it didn't work,” this one's for you.
After a brief production pause, The Criminologist Podcast returns with a powerful blend of updates and reflections — both current and classic!!! In this episode, host Joseph Arvidson shares some exciting developments surrounding the ongoing implementation and development of the TIDES Supervision Model, including: ✅ Recent success rolling out TIDES with Partners in Behavioral Health in Minnesota ✅ Expansion of our training delivery options — now offering both in-person (3-day) and virtual formats for the Initial User Training ✅ The launch of our Train-the-Trainer (ToT) curriculum, designed to support internal agency capacity-building ✅ A heartfelt shoutout to Nicole Kimberley-Staeheli (TIDES Co-Creator) and Heather Young (our newly minted TIDES Trainer) — your dedication is helping this model thrive!
Every year, we tell ourselves this one will be different. New goals. New habits. New mindset. But sooner or later, something unexpected hits — stress, loss, disappointment, change — and everything we were trying to build feels shaky again.In this episode, Josiah explores one of the most honest things Jesus ever taught about life and stability: why some people stay grounded through chaos while others feel like they collapse the moment something goes wrong.Whether you consider yourself religious or not, this conversation is about why external achievements can't create internal stability. If you've ever wondered why progress never seems to stick, this one's worth listening to.
A lot of people are comfortable saying Jesus was wise, loving, and influential. Some even say he was one of the greatest teachers who ever lived. But there's one question most of us avoid because of how uncomfortable it is: Did Jesus actually claim to be God?In this episode, Josiah walks through what Jesus really said about himself, why so many people misunderstand it, and why the answer matters even if you don't consider yourself religious. It's an honest look at history, Jesus' own words, and the difference between admiring Jesus and actually taking him seriously.
For a lot of people, the biggest obstacle to believing in Jesus isn't the Bible, science, or unanswered questions. It's Christians. The judgment. The double standards. The feeling that church is full of people who talk about love but don't live it.In this episode, Josiah looks at a surprising truth most people miss: Jesus was more outspoken about religious hypocrisy than anyone else in history. He confronts why hypocrisy happens, how it actually forms, and why it pushes so many people away from faith. This is an honest, self-critical conversation about compassion, judgment, and what Jesus was really after in people's lives.If Christianity has ever given you the ick, this one is for you.
Josh is joined by AFLW SUPERSTAR Blaithin Bogue. They discuss how quickly she adapted to footy, the nerves before a Grand Final, and who was the 'Queen of the afterparty?"Follow the socials to get your thoughts read out on the podcast!Instagram: @furthernorthpodFacebook: Further North PodcastEmail: furthernorthpod@gmail.comTikTok: @furthernorthpodLeave a 5 star review on Apple or Spotify, you the real MVP!
A lot of people vibe with Jesus' ideas like love, peace, and purpose, but feel confused, frustrated, or boxed in by actual “Christian” expectations. In this episode, Josiah breaks down one of the most surprising moments in Jesus' life: a massive crowd loved what Jesus did for them, but had almost zero interest in actually knowing Him.
the Bible says that emotional maturity isn't about pretending you're grown up. It's about learning what hope is and where it actually comes from.
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You ever make a huge decision for God… and then immediately mess it up? In this episode, Josiah talks about Peter messing up and what that moment says about how Jesus handles failure. If you've ever wondered if God's disappointed in you or done giving second chances, this one's gonna hit home.
If God is real… why doesn't He just make it obvious? Why not write His name in the sky or give everyone a personal miracle? Wouldn't that make believing easier? In this episode, Josiah unpacks one of the most honest questions people ask about faith — and what kind of “belief” actually changes your life.
Life can feel like a maze. Everyone's trying to figure out which path actually leads somewhere good—but what if what feels right isn't right at all? In this episode, Isaac explores why trusting God can be so hard, especially when what we see seems safer than what He promises. If you've ever questioned whether faith actually works in real life—or if God's way is really better—this one's for you.
Imagine walking into a coffee shop and seeing Jesus laughing with the worst person you can imagine. Not yelling. Not correcting. Just… enjoying them. How offended would you be? That's exactly what happens in this story. But it turns out that, if you don't believe Jesus can love the most broken of people, then you'll slowly start to believe that He can't love you either.
In this episode, I talk with Mike Walker of Bogue. Mike shares the story of Bogue who were at the center of Detroit's garage rock scene in the 2000s. They soon recorded a demo with Jim Diamond in Detroit. Sadly tragedy struck when guitarist Dan Maister committed suicide. A couple of years later, drummer Matt Blake passed away due to a heart attack. Thankfully, Mike Walker persevered and has recently released Bogue's demo on vinyl. Mike shares the origin story of Bogue as well as the story of releasing their demo after over 20 years. It is a great talk and I very much appreciate Mike sharing it with you and me. Get over to the Bogue bandcamp page to get your copy of their icon album, How'd You Feel About Talkin' to Me. It is a fabulous record.BogueCheck out his musicFollow on Youtube, SpotifyFans With BandsSubscribe to Fans With Bands on your favorite podcast service such as Apple, Youtube, Spotify, Audible, or Amazon Music. Be sure to rate the show and please send us feedback. We would love to hear from you.You can also follow Fans With Bands on Facebook, Youtube, Instagram, and BlueskyFor samplings of music by artists featured on Fans With Bands, check out our playlist on Spotify Get full access to Fans With Bands at fanswithbands.substack.com/subscribe
The "Day of the Lord" is a phrase that shows up all over the Bible. Jesus talked about it all the time. The prophets warned about it. And according to the Bible… it's coming. But it might not be what you think. And it might be closer than you realize.
We're in the middle of our series, Lock In: What Jesus Actually Teaches About His Return and the End of the World.In this week's message, Jesus tells a story about three servants preparing for His return. The first two make God proud. But the third? Apparently, he ends up in hell??What on earth is this parable about? What is Jesus saying?Turns out, it's not really about performance... But it is about your heart.