“A” Perspective w/ Aaron & Ashley

When you're going over a date's house that you met on an app what's more concerning, seeing no books around or if they don't have filtered water? Are you going over their house or having them come to yours? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. Find out why Pizza Hut was a topic during #UnderMySkin. From Harry Potter to Insecure we're discussing a few shows during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discusses if people really do better when they know better. Ashley talks friendship code and if working for your friend's ex breaks it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

While there's only 10 episodes, there is still plenty to discuss as we continue with season 7 of The Game. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

One of these iconic portrayals has to go: Jamie Foxx as Ray Charles, Angela basset as Tina turner, Denzel as Malcolm x, or Jennifer Lopez as Selena. In your opinion what is difference between applying pressure and harassment? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. Find out who had to hop a curb in their car and why during #UnderMySkin. Insecure the fifth and finale season shows up during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about the validity of reaching out to someone months or years later to apologize. Aaron talks about navigating critiques or harsh opinions of loved ones in professional spaces. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Introducing Keira and Blue as we say goodbye to Melanie and Derwin in season 7 of The Game. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Does cheating “Up” make it better? How much responsibility does the instigator bare for the outcome of a negative situation? Aaron & Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode? Find out what happened on a Tuesday night at 10:00 and why it made it to #UnderMySkin. There's a bunch of great shows being discussed during #WhatAreYouWatching including Queen Sugar. Aaron discusses the thin line between great customer service and bad customer. Ashley discusses family and the thin line between protecting your peace and letting family into your personal space. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We're keeping it going with season 5 of The Game! Let's welcome Chardonnay aka Brandy to the family! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Denzel Washington- JohnQ or MalcolmX? Julia Roberts- Steal Magnolias or PrettyWoman? Angela Basset- Waiting To Exhale or What's Love Got To Do With It? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. Dogs hanging out in the gym shows up during #UnderMySkin while someone started watching Izombie on Netflix during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley discusses her friendship “turn-offs” and Aaron talks about his friendship “boundaries” when being honest. We're talking friendship! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Yup, we're talking about season 4 of The Game! Two words: cotton swab. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

The Dream- Falsetto or Rockin' That Shit? Chris Brown- Run It or Gimme That Remix? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. Find out who locked themselves out of the gym during #UnderMySkin and who watched Suicide Squad during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about “dignity” in reaching out to someone who's hurt you and wonders if it's worth it. Aaron talks about “open” relationships and wonders if that's even possible. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“How bout a round of applause” (in Tasha Mack's singing voice) for season 3 of The Game! ~~~~ 2:45 Derwin/Melanie 22:23 Jason/Kelly 31:56 Tasha 39:43 Malik --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Is there a statue of limitations on cheating? How do you feel about a women “retiring” her husband because she can financially support him? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. Find out who was charged over $4k and why during #UnderMySkin. Have you seen Flight Attendant? Are you watching the new Gossip Girl? Well we are and talking about it during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron explains “family business” and discusses what the rules are when talking about it with non-family members. Ashley explains “erotic massages” and discusses if it's an appropriate thing to get when you're married. ~~~~ 1:13 5Questions 18:54 Under My Skin 30:40 What Are You Watching 39:40 Family Business 46:25 Erotic Massage 1:08:45 What Are You Looking Forward To 1:10:00 Reflections --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Dancing and emphasizing, dancing and emphasizing” right into season 2 of The Game! ~~~~ 2:46 Melanie/Derwin 25:36 Malik/Tasha 32:57 Kelly/Jason --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

In spades is saying “play to win” considered talking across the table? With all the reboots that have been happening in television and movies, if you could reboot foods which ones would you bring back? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. If you've never heard of Cicadas before ‘you gone learn today' as they show up during #UnderMySkin. Find out who started watching Lucifer during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about making peace with situations that's don't turn out the way you expect. Aaron explores doing your ex a favor, especially when kids are involved. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

On this week’s Minisode we’re talking about Derwin and Melanie, Kelly and Jason, Tasha and Malik…. YES! We’re discussing The Game season 1. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Should polyamarous relationships be normarlized? What areas of your life do you still struggle to put yourself out there in your friendships? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Chipotle charging extra on the kid’s meal?! Find out more during #UnderMySkin. Season 2 of A Black Lady Sketch Show is back and we’re excited about the ‘A Different World’ intro. Aaron explores “marriage is just a piece of paper” statement while Ashley discusses cheating and friendships. “That's what friends are for, for good times and bad times, I’ll be on your side forever more.” Dionne Warwick --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re talking boundaries w/ friends, family, relationships, and at work. Friends 2:26 & 14:45 Family 8:35 Relationships 22:00 Work 29:10 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

If a rapper had to freestyle on the spot to save your life, who are you choosing? Is it possible to be in a marriage and not cheat? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why Siri and auto correct were the star of #UnderMySkin and see if you can relate. Law and Order: Organized Crime is reexamined during #WhatAreYouWatching. SPOILER, it’s a good show. Ashley asks if inconsistency hurts a relationship and Aaron wonders if it’s possible to be free in a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Stabler’s back! We’re discussing the Law & Order SVU and Organized Crime crossover event. Were you excited to see Benson and Stabler on screen again?! Also, are friendship dates normal?! Listen as they answer this question and explore the different opinions given on social media. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

You decide to reach out to someone who you haven’t talk to in over a year, what’s the first text you send to them? Is the missionary position too intimate for someone you’re not in a relationship with? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why Ashley’s macaroni and cheese experience showed up during #UndersMySkin and Aaron’s discussing Grey’s Anatomy and it’s shocking death in #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to talk about all things relating to the “first phone conversation” after his recent experience. Ashley uses an episode of Superstore to discuss remembering a pivotal argument amongst friends and what it means when one does and one doesn’t..... “When’s the last time you did something for the time?” -Drake --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re playing 5 Questions: Panorama/Panasonic Edition (COVID-19) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

During the bachelorette or bachelor party your fiancé ends up getting more than a lap dance. Is it considered cheating? If you could recreate Oprah’s Legends Ball, name 5 legends and 5 youngins you would celebrate? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who’s neighbor’s are in #UnderMySkin and what they did to get there. Grey’s Anatomy is back so we’re discussing it during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about dealing with a fallout between siblings. Aaron wants to know when it’s appropriate to introduce “sex talk” when getting to know someone. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Do you have to lose yourself in order to find happiness? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Would you apologize to someone if you believed you were not in the wrong? What is a genuinely innocent question yet usually offensive to the person it’s directed at? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this weeks’s episode. Find out why McDonald’s Sweet Tea made it to #UnderMySkin and someone finished watching Psych during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks about experiences that may or may not define who we are. Ashley talks about falling in love again and if it’s possible to have that “puppy love” “first love” “innocent love” a second time. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Watch out world I’m grown now, I’M GROWN!” We’re digging into our top three storylines since the return of Grown-ish. #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

What would you do if a close friend was trying to trick another close friend into thinking their baby was theirs? Have you ever dated someone to make others jealous? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more on a Bridgerton inspired #5Questions. Find out why Sprint, now part of T-Mobile ended up getting #UnderMySkin and what someone thought of The Little Things during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about how to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a relationship where every day is Valentine’s Day. Aaron is thinking about dating, in a pandemic. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re discussing ‘Girl Like Me’ from Jazmine Sullivan’s latest project Heaux Tales. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Antoinette’s Tale, Ari’s Tale, Donna’s Tale, Precious’ Tale, & Amanda’s Tale- we’re using Jazmine Sullivan’s project Heaux Tales on this week’s episode during #5Questions. The lack of respect for personal space during a pandemic shows up during #UnderMySkin while someone forgetting to watch Grown-ish almost caused the episode to end early during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discuses the “American Dream” and wants to know how our idea of success has shifted over the years. Ashley explores the boundaries of discussing your past when you’re with both your partner and friends; is it possible to respect your partner and be true to yourself? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Have you heard Jazmine Sullivan’s new project Heaux Tales? Well if you haven’t listened, we’re sure after you hear this you won’t hesitate to press play. On this week’s Minisode we’re discussing the song ‘Lost One’ and asking is it selfish to make those kinds of request to an ex? ALSO, did you hear about the upcoming season of Issa Rae’s Insecure? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Let’s talk about sex baby!” Name a time in your life where you were emotionally slutty (revealed too much too soon)? What’s something you find comfort in that could be holding you back from the next level? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. It’s a new year but the same things are still getting #UnderMySkin as parents and commercials show up during this part of the show. During #WhatAreYouWatching we’re discussing Netflix’s Bridgerton as well as SVU and who we’re looking forward to seeing come back this season. Ashley discusses being comfortable talking to friends about sex and how detailed you should get. Aaron talks about the impact a past experience can have your future self, even after you’ve “moved on.” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

HAPPY NEW YEAR! We’re kicking off 2021 recapping our favorite #5Questions of 2020.... So press play to hear the 10 we choose and we’ll see you soon with new episodes and fresh minisodes! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Go back to your ex or repeat 2020? Should sexually fluid men notify men that they’ve been with other men? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had 3 things to talk about during #UnderMySkin, including washing their face with dish detergent. During #WhatAreYouWatching find out who’s falling for Law & Order SVU all over again. Aaron talks about the imbalances in certain types of relationships and if it’s sustainable. Ashley discusses normalizing revenge and the imbalance between those who carry out revenge and the reason why they did it.... MERRY CHRISTMAS! ~~~~ 1:06 5Questions 19:17 Under My Skin 25:19 What Are You Watching 36:28 “A” Perspectives 1:19:01 Reflections --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

It’s FIIIIVE QUESTIONS (Whoo-Whoop!) Agree or no- Independent women will never ask for anything so you should just offer or do for them. Something you’ve learned in 2020 and something you missed in 2020 What would you do if you had to chose between saving the mother of your child or saving the child at Itself? Rate yourself 1-10 and you cannot use 7? What are you “must haves” when you’re moving? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Is twerking acceptable brunch behavior? What’s one thing you want your exes to be able to say about you even after the breakup? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Some people don’t respect the rules of public bathroom etiquette. Find out how this and sloppy joes ended up in #UnderMyskin. Law & Order SVU and Grey’s Anatomy are back in #WhatAreYouWatching! Ashley talks about the importance of the Christmas holiday in relationships. Aaron wants to know when does saying what’s on your mind cross the line. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re thankful for YOU.... and few other things! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

It’s bitter sweet but the end (if that’s what they wanna call an ending) is here and on this week’s #Minisode we’re discussing season 8 of Girlfriends. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Can masturbation become boring? Explain. Chili and cornbread or chili and rice? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out whose neighbors and why Apple showed up during #UnderMySkin. During #WhatAreYouWatching we continue our dissection of “My Giirrllfriends (myyyy girlfriends)” with season 7 episodes 12-22. Aaron talks about the 18/30 18/90 rule and why some parents should reexamine their part in who their children have become. Ashley uses a hilarious play to have a serious conversation about the influence mothers have on their child’s relationships. —— 1:24 5Questions 16:16 Under My Skin 27:09 What Are You Watching 59:39 “A” Perspective --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Season 7 Episodes 1-11 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS (myyyyyyy girlfriends).... #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

If you could no longer watch one of these Mara Brock Akil shows which one would you give up and why- The Game, Being Mary Jane, or Girlfriends? If your friend gets with someone who you’ve had a relationship with before do you tell them? Would you want to know if it were you? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find why a trip to the nail salon showed up during #UnderMySkin- it may shock you. We’re on to season 6 of MY GIIRRLLFRIENDS during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about double dating while Aaron discusses asking questions vs. being told information while dating. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Season 5 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Think about someone that loves you and they’re not family- how would you describe their love? Unpopular opinion: Kripsy Kreme is trash.... yes or no? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Traffic OH traffic! Why do you always show up during #UnderMySkin. A quick Big Brother recap starts #WhatAreYouWatching while season 4 of #Girlfriends dominates the conversation. Aaron talks about assumptions that create tension in friendships. Ashley discusses roommate etiquette when your boyfriend/girlfriend is over. ~~~~ 1:06 Business 1:32 #5Questions 12:03 #UnderMySkin 15:02 #WhatAreYouWatching 56:51 “A” Perspective 1:24:14 Looking Forward 1:26:34 #Reflections --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Season 3 of “My GIIRRRRLL FRIENDS....” #Girlfriends --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

24 hours with Drake, 24 hours with Beyoncé, or 24 hours with Will Smith? Unpopular opinion: you don’t need to flush after you pee; agree or no? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out why “Yo-yo” and a dog showed up during #UnderMySkin. My Giiiiirrrlfriends has become a long term resident at #WhatAreYouWatching! Ashley uses an @instagram post to lead a conversation about appropriate behavior between two parents who are no longer together. Aaron explores the mindset of someone who ignores red flags just so they can be in a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

If this wasn’t a minisode the title would be “Annalise Keating Perspectives” as Mara Brock Akil’s GIRLFRIENDS is investigated, tried, and judged during this conversation..... and we barley scratched the surface! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

What’s a grudge/hard feeling that you still have and need to let go of? Unpopular Opinion: ranch is overrated, yes or no? Aaron & Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. So we’re just not wearing mask in public anymore?! Find out who what when where during #UnderMySkin. When Mara Brock Akil’s Girlfriends showed up on Netflix it showed up during #WhatAreYouWatching next to Big Brother. Aaron talks about the conversations friends aren’t but maybe should be having with each other. Ashley explores forgiveness of self when in conflict with someone else. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

FIIIIIIIIVE QUESTIONSSSS! #5Questions 1. Which Marvel character villain did you find it hardest to root against- Thanos or Killmonger? 2. What’s one of your weird/unique hobbies that others may side eye you for? 3. In honor of the Pynk, if you were performing on Murda Night what would be your song? 4. Unpopular Opinion: Taco Bell is the best Mexican fast food. Agree or no? 5. What’s a sure way that someone can get under your skin when you’re out with a group of friends? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

WE HAVE BUSINESS TO TAKE CARE OF on this week’s episode.... Hook up with the last person you were with in high school or the first person you were with in college? Angel In Disguise or Love All Over Me? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions. Find out who didn’t go see a family member and why, and who doesn’t like people going #2 and leaving the door open during #UnderMySkin. Moesha’s trying to go work for Vibe and a lot happened in two weeks of Big Brother All Star during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about dealing with loss as a couple. Aaron discusses intentions behind confessing your love for someone years later. Both give personal perspectives. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Welcome to the Pynk! #Pvalley on Starz --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Unpopular opinion: soul food is overrated? Name three artists or groups that you can recite 5 of their songs with at least 95% accuracy? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. During #UnderMySkin Ashley has some words for those with something to say about WAP and Aaron is excited to talk about Big Brother during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discusses the protocol/rules for how you act when there’s a friendship breakup. Ashley uses Hulu’s movie The Weekend to discuss the reality of exes going on weekend trips together while in another relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

#WhatAreYouWatching because this week Ashley watched three seasons of Moesha and Aaron watched I May Destroy You season 1 episode 9.... Let’s talk about it! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Would you rather be poor but help people or become incredibly rich by hurting people? Why do we judge ourselves by our intentions but judge others by their actions? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions. Find out who got under their own skin during #UnderMySkin and who’s watching I May Destroy You during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley explores a scenario where a guy introduces his new girlfriend to the mother of his children. Aaron explores how people engage in conversations where they cannot relate. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

How do you show up for your friends? When do just listen and when do you decide to react/offer advice? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message