I’m a poet Who speaks about empowerment sometimes My bedroom at home offers a great symbol of who I am and what is important to me .the walls are painted pale and decorated with photographs of imagination.my briefcase are filled with some books I bought from every failed date I went ,and my desk is covered in makeup stains . I’m not very feminine so I sometimes struggle with my identity You and I may have a different definition of a *GOOD DAY *this week I paid my rent and my bills .... Follow me on Instagram let’s vibe @Extra_almondmilk
love when ppl talk shit and bring up my struggles because damn right I lost it all and I'll never deny that LOL but let's talk about the strength that I had to get the fuck up and get myself out of every situation I have endeared these past years alone! Quick to say it couldn't be you , you're right bitch God would never put such a heavy load on a weak Ass person like you
Pay attention to the environments where you become your favorite version of yourself.
It's all gonna work out. This love shit, this healing shit,
Try not to think about tomorrow, just be present for today
Sometimes resting is the most productive thing you can do for your mind, body, and soul. Stop guilt-tripping yourself for doing what's best for you. Take a break & sit the fuck down. Recharge yourself as much as you recharge your phone. Clear your head, you don't have to go to every party, every kickback & every link-up. Get into some self-affirming activities. Embrace uncertainty... lay low but still stand out.~Unkown
You are a different person to different people. Annoying to one. Talented to another. Quiet to a few. Flawless to your lover. Stranger to some. Insecure to others. The best to your friend. The worst to your enemy Someone to one. The one to another. Smart to a few. Daring to others. Difficult to a lot. Unknown to the rest. Who you are is too vast to be classified by the state of your attitude, or categorized by the opinions of others. How others see you isn't as important as how you see yourself! So love & accept the person you are. By ASHVIN, ELLI &Fegor
This monologue is from Casting Africa ❤️but was too shy to submit it
You are allowed to change the price of what it costs to access your energy. Boundaries will feel “disrespectful" to people when you've spent your whole life over-giving, oversharing, & being the genuine friend in order to take care of others around you.
Two lessons I learnt from this episode The best exercise to a healthy lifestyle is to swing your head left and right when you're being handed junk (NO) Every time you eat a meal you're either treating a disease or feeding a disease
When you've really outgrown/ healed from certain things you do not want to be around or associate yourself with that anymore. You can give others grace and understanding but sometimes you're literally disgusted with who you used to be. It's not about thinking you're better it's about wanting better for yourself. Y'all should try it instead of victimizing yourselves when a person is elevating and you might not be a part of the elevation.~ Tash
Get you someone that understands life fr. Find someone who understands Priorities.
If you are serious about growth, be serious about accountability. If you are serious about abundance, be serious about gratitude. If you are serious about intimacy, be serious about vulnerability. If you are serious about discipline, be serious about delayed gratification.~
I stay away from people who avoid self reflection & accountability , cause if you can't keep it real with yourself, ain't no way in hell you gone keep it real with me.
I think the saddest thing is when you see a woman stay with a man that's clearly not meant for her or doing right by her, and he starts sucking the life out of her… she stops dressing nice, stops wearing makeup and doing her hair, goes from lively and happy to timid and depressed, her whole aura fades from vibrant to meek... some of these people are killing beautiful women from the inside out and it's so sad to see, I pray for everyone of my sisters in a toxic relationship and I hope one day you have the energy to leave.~
Stop dating ppl you aren't compatible with dating wise!!!!!!! •If you watch porn daily, don't date someone that considers watching porn cheating! •If you want an old fashion living style/ relationship, don't date someone that wants to go 50/50 on bills! •If you only want monogamy don't date someone that wants a poly relationship! •If you want to travel the world, don't date someone that wants to buy a house in their home town! •If you like to go MIA for hours for whatever reasons, don't date someone that wants to stay in contact for most of the day! My point is: Stop trying to date ppl JUST bc you think they're attractive.Pple will have nothing in common with their partners and wonder why the relationship isn't working...
there's nobody life that I look at with envy or feel as if I need it. not even if you have a partner to add value I still don't. whatever you choose. it's your choice and your decision. the life that I have is the only life that I have right now and i've been on one side for way too long. so, i'm going to morph, switch, rip out and or change whatever it is I need to change within my own life externally and internal to accomplish a life that I personally set out to achieve. that has complete fulfillment, happiness, peace, mayhem and many goals accomplished. I don't care who can understand it. my grass is the only grass I'm watering. focus on your own roots. before you peek over my fence with curiosity.~
Im ending my season with a clean slate. Am removing myself from people's perception of who they see me to be.
DEAR GOD, I hope my relationship with you continues to get better
our energy is really our true currency. u gotta treat it like u would treat money. budget it, save it, find ways to increase it, invest it where u know you'll get it back in return !!
I love awkward. I love weird. I love when people stumble over their words and when they don't know what to do with their hands. I love someone who laughs “too loudly” or cries “too easily”. I love the sensitive. The passionate. The people who can only express themselves through song. I just love the subtle quirkiness humans possess.”
I pray for a relationship full of assurance, consistency and honesty, someone who can match your genuineness and loyalty.
I'm answering some questions people are finding difficult to get answer . Sex is not something you do just to “get off”. (PART ONE)It's a practice performed between two people who are inlove and value each other enough to procreate. Why have sex with someone you don't wanna procreate with?
I used to stutter. I had a twitch. I used to fidget. Could never stay still in a classroom and had to take walks at least twice each class. I have a nerve issue and a condition having to do with my skin. I'm extremely impulsive. But God continues to heal me
When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully at the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us.... As long as you remember everything is a blessing & a lesson, you won't regret anything & you will stop looking back...
Maturity “ is when you don't force people to choose you
“You can't help, love or care for everybody. I been crying my ass off lately and I'm emotional without the tears. But lately i been crying and its needed to detox, release, and flush this out.
I appreciate some of the friendships I picked up this year. I had to let go of things that didn't deserve me and serve me and I'm glad I trusted God. I have faithful, strong, and powerful people I can call on. But God don't stop there! I need my tribe I need my person
“I don't want to be the kind of mother that will tell my son to be a man when he is hurting I wanna be the one to tell him to cry cos it hurt
“Sometimes a man can't truly love you because he can't really see you!!
On this Journey of Life make sure you have a partner that's not intimidated by your Growth, Your Healing or Your Financial Stability..... Because where you're headed you don't need nobody that's in competition with you on your team...
I believe there's so much I want to say, but you already know what it i……
I am a constant WORK IN PROGRESS. Never stop growing. There are moments where it's ok to be dormant, just as plants and animals are. We all go through cycles and seasons. Honor it all, and always strive to be the best version of your self and stay true to who you are at the core of your being…you can never go wrong.
If you find yourself consistently compromising in a relationship and losing bits and pieces of yourself in return then opt out of that relationship. Don't stay there until you're gone just so you can pat yourself on the back for giving someone your all. That's not loyalty. That's stupidity. And you're very DELUSIONAL
Anything that promotes feelings of love & intimacy is healing; anything that promotes isolation, separation, loneliness, loss, hostility, anger, depression, & alienation, often leads to suffering, disease, and premature death…from all causes — Dean Ornish
Options are plentiful, devotion is not. There are SO many people in the world who will be attracted to you, intrigued by you, and interested in getting to know you. Any decent looking or attractive person, at whatever age, will always have a plethora of options to date. But devotion, at any age, is not plentiful. Not even in your early twenties. Connecting with a person who is genuinely devoted to loving you and choosing you, in seasons of growth and health and loss and wealth and transformation and evolution. It isn't plentiful.
I was depressed in 2016,17,18 and 2021 It was a battle of either dying or living there was no purpose for me ,but the most weird thing was I kept on posting happy stuff online but I was depressed asf ,turns out I was carrying the burden of Unforgiveness … I stopped dwelling in stuff I can't control I stopped saying yes and more Nos I stopped disassociating from ppl who constantly remind me of toxic stuff I walked out of relationships when I was still in love I took accountability for stuff I stopped being a child I started journaling my day to day ❤️ Asking God for my purpose SOLITUDE BECAME MY SHELTER,It became my happy place,it became my safe haven ,it became where I find happiness! Mind you it's not a one day job everyday you have to show up as your highest self MAKE YOURSELF PRIORITY not your child,not your lover but yourself ❤️
A video of me Giving oral s*x was sent to my Boyfriend **Part 5
I'm happy I'm really a girl who just be herself! through the embarrassment, through the struggle, through whatever life brings at me!! I ain't gotta pretend for NOBODY!~unknown
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