Harbor Church Podcast

Ever feel like fear is defining whether or not you move forward? Whether it's your family, your health, your finances, or your future, God is calling you to move beyond the wilderness of the "known" and step into the "new." This week, we're diving into Joshua 1 to see how we can find the strength and courage to enter the new territory God has for us - even when we don't feel prepared or have all the answers.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We all want good friends, but are we being the kind of friends the Bible describes? This week, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose explore the "above and beyond" lifestyle. We're moving past surface-level "How are you?"'s and looking at how to show up when life gets inconvenient, creative ways to serve your friends, and removing the barriers that keep your community from Jesus.

True friendship is more than just showing up; it's about carrying one another through good times and bad. But how do we mirror that sacrificial love in a world that prioritizes "self"? Join us as Pastor Josh walks through a powerful biblical example of faith in action—showing us how to become the kind of friends who bring others to what they need, even if it's inconvenient.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We often treat boundaries like concrete walls designed to keep people away. But what if their true purpose is to help us love better? This week, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose are breaking down the difference between healthy limits and relational withdrawal. We explore how to set boundaries that honor your soul while keeping you leaning toward—not away from—God and your community.

If boundaries aren't defined, dysfunction will define them for you. In this week's message from the Family Matters sermon series, Scripture reframes boundaries as far more than self-protection. Boundaries are a way of honoring God and putting what He has for you ahead of what others want from you, with the clarity and courage to name it, set it, and live it.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

What happens when God interrupts your plans with a better way? This week, Erik Cabral joins Katie Rose to share his honest journey of transformation. From navigating the complexities of a blended family, to surrendering his marriage to God's design, to battling cancer, Erik discusses how the most difficult seasons of his life became the foundation for his greatest blessings.

In real families, workplaces, and church communities, unity rarely happens by accident, especially when people bring different histories, expectations, and wounds into the same space. This message from the Family Matters series walks through Colossians 3 with a simple goal: creating relationships where grace is stronger than tension, love is louder than criticism, and peace becomes the standard instead of the exception. If conflict has started to feel normal, this is an invitation to build something healthier, step by step. If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Growth is rarely a graceful process. If you're currently in a season of relational tension or personal struggle, this episode is for you. Pastor Josh and Katie Rose are discussing the "growing pains" of the soul: why God uses the difficult things for our good, the reason relationships are our biggest refining fires, and how to start looking out for others when you feel like you're barely hanging on yourself.

Nobody actually likes being uncomfortable. But if we want to see growth in our lives and our families, we can't stay in the "comfort zone" forever. This week, we continue our Family Matters series with a powerful message from guest speaker Scott Harrop. Scott reminds us that those "growing pains" we feel in our relationships and our faith aren't just obstacles - they're a vital part of the spiritual journey God has for us. If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

This week, we're getting into the messiness that is parents & kids. Pastor Josh and Katie Rose get honest about how parents shape the way we view not only ourselves, but our Heavenly Father. Plus, they get practical about how to navigate the different phases of parental relationships, from diapers to diplomas and beyond. Whether you are a parent or are just reflecting on your own parents, this one will give you lots to chew on.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connectPhases of Parenting Graphic: Link

Often, relationships with children, grandchildren, or even employees are approached as though the goal is behavior management. The scriptural aim is not control, but to reflect the heart of God. In this message, Pastor Josh reminds us that connection must precede correction so we can ensure discipline focuses on restoration, growth, and a clearer picture of who God is. If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Many of us treat Easter like a yearly reminder to try harder, but we're actually missing the point. In this episode, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose get honest about the "God-guilt" we all carry, breaking down why grace isn't about fixing your behavior and why the Gospel is actually way more scandalous than we think.If you're tired of the "fake it 'til you make it" Christian life and you're ready for real transformation (minus the shame), pull up a chair. Let's get into it.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Everyone knows what it's like to cover a stain and hope nobody notices, but hiding never removes what's underneath. Easter is the reminder that Jesus loved us enough to die for us and was powerful enough to not stay dead, so forgiveness is real and cleansing is possible. This Easter, discover why the cross was necessary, why the resurrection changes everything, and how freedom begins when the hiding stops.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We all have a "laundry chair"—that pile of stuff we know needs to be dealt with but we'd rather just ignore. In this episode, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose get honest about the "dirty laundry" of our lives: the secret sins, the recurring mistakes, and the heavy shame we carry around like a backpack full of lead. Why is it so hard to actually hand our mess over to God? How can we reach for Jesus and finally stop letting our past define our present (extend that same grace to others)?

Dirty laundry gets piled up, pushed aside, and sometimes written off as “too much to deal with.” People do the same thing with shame and sin, hiding it, managing it, or scrubbing at it alone until they're exhausted. This Palm Sunday begins Harbor Church's new sermon series, Dirty Laundry, with a simple truth: if the stain could be handled in human strength, there would be no need for a Savior, and Jesus is the One who cleanses, restores, and gives a new story.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We all want that "mountain-top" faith, but most of our lives happen in the mundane middle. This week, we're getting honest about self-discipline. It's not about being a spiritual superhero; it's about showing up (even when you don't feel like it) and finding rhythms that invite God in every day. Katie Rose and John get real about why staying disciplined is so hard, the small steps that make the biggest difference, and the freedom to be found on the other end of consistency.

If you've ever thought your marriage struggles were the only ones in the room, this episode is your reality check. We're pulling back the curtain on the Refueled Marriage Conference to answer the unfiltered questions submitted by couples just like you that we weren't able to get to while we were at Refueled.From the "small" things to the heavy hitters, Pastor Josh and Kaleigh are diving into the questions that actually matter, and the answers that will help your marriage to go the distance (part two of two).

God's correction isn't proof of abandonment; it's proof of adoption. This final week of our Endure sermon series reframes discipline as love: not punishment that pushes people away, but training that forms holiness and produces a peaceful harvest. Self-discipline and divine discipline are partners in becoming who God is shaping believers to be.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

It's one thing to talk about endurance, and another thing to live it out. Katie Rose sits down with Lexi, Teams Coordinator & Young Adults Group Leader at Harbor Church, to get real about what faith looks like in the hard seasons. No platitudes, no empty encouragements - true stories of God's real faithfulness when the going got tough, and practical discussion on how you can find strength from that same source.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

If you've ever thought your marriage struggles were the only ones in the room, this episode is your reality check. We're pulling back the curtain on the Refueled Marriage Conference to answer the unfiltered questions submitted by couples just like you that we weren't able to get to while we were at Refueled.From the "small" things to the heavy hitters, Pastor Josh and Kaleigh are diving into the questions that actually matter, and the answers that will help your marriage to go the distance (part one of two).

What do you do when faith feels hard and life hurts? In week four of our Endure series, Pastor Josh breaks down a biblical framework for perseverance and reminds us that perseverance is not explosive intermittent effort, it's stubborn consistency, especially when we're discouraged, distracted or on the verge of giving up.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We all know the feeling of an empty tank, but how do we keep moving when the road gets steep? This week, we're digging deeper into Hebrews 12:1. Pastor Josh and Katie Rose discuss the specific weights that drain their spiritual energy, the daily rhythms that can keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, and how to build a life designed for the long haul rather than the immediate crisis.

Ever feel like you're running in circles? Turns out the problem may not be how you're running, but what you're focused on. Our lives are so full of distractions that it feels impossible to know where we're supposed to go - but God has a purpose, a path, and a finish line for each of us. If you're tired of wasting your energy, check out this message.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Life isn't a sprint, and neither is your faith journey; it's a marathon of steadily running in the right direction. If you find yourself exhausted and wanting to give up, it may be that you're setting the wrong pace. Tune in to this week's message to hear how to drop the weights of worry, guard your perspective, and tap into the strength God offers to get us through each mile.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We're diving into the deep end answering listeners' questions today, talking about the struggle of sexual identity in faith spaces - if God made everyone, why are some people born with different sexual preferences? Plus, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose tackle the ultimate head-scratcher: Is prayer a cosmic suggestion box, or is God's mind already made up?

Some things aren't evil, they're just heavy. And sometimes sin doesn't look like rebellion; it looks like quiet compromises that slowly shift your direction. This message will help you name what's weighing you down, release it, and run more freely toward Jesus with fresh focus.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

It's easy to stay in the boat where it's safe, dry, and comfortable. But Jesus calls His followers to something more active: fishing. For people. Join with our missionary to South Africa, Blake Hunter, as we dive into Matthew 4 and Luke 15 to see why God goes to such great lengths to find what is lost. From the streets of Cape Town to a little girl named June, see how God can use one person's "fishing trip" to change generations - and how that person could be you.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Let's be real: talking about money in church can be…tough. But what if God isn't after your cash, but your freedom? In this episode, Katie Rose and Pastor Josh tackle the "fear factor" of giving. They discuss why money has such a massive grip on our emotions and how to take that scary leap of generosity. Spoilers: God isn't a debt collector looking to punish you; He's a Dad who knows that holding on too tight is actually what's keeping us stressed.

What if the way you handle your money actually revealed how much you trust God? This message challenges the cultural norm of ownership and invites us into new possibilities around money and true freedom. This message helps us unpack the ways that giving God control of our finances opens the door to deeper trust, true contentment, and lasting freedom.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

What if the way you handle your money actually revealed how much you trust God? This message challenges the cultural norm of ownership and invites us into new possibilities around money and true freedom. This message helps us unpack the ways that giving God control of our finances opens the door to deeper trust, true contentment, and lasting freedom.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Everywhere we look there's information, advertisements, questions, desire, and fear surrounding sex. But so much of our modern struggle with sexual identity stems from a fundamental misunderstanding of where our value comes from. Who are we, really? How do we tackle this topic with ourselves, with our children, and with the way we approach relationships? Join Katie Rose and Kaleigh as they talk about why churches have such a heard time dealing with the topic of sex, where we get it wrong, and what God has to say about the shame so many of us carry.

Our culture is obsessed with desire and self-expression, promising that total freedom leads to total fulfillment. But somehow we're lonelier and more confused than ever. What if the satisfaction you're looking for can't be found in a partner, a preference, or in your own pleasure? Pastor Josh is diving into the Biblical truth that God designed sex, and God designed you. His boundaries aren't barriers to your joy - they're the blueprints for it.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We've all heard the Christian clichés: "Just pray about it," or "God won't give you more than you can handle." But what happens when you're trying to follow Jesus and your mind still feels like a battlefield?In this episode, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose are stripping away the mask of toxic positivity. We dive into the reality of mental health through a Gospel lens, discussing how God meets us in the trenches and the actual, practical weapons He's given us to take our thoughts captive. If you're tired of pretending you're okay, this one is for you.

You've been sending in your questions, and now it's time for some answers! Tune in to hear Pastor Josh and Katie Rose dig into the topics sent in by you, the listeners - knowing the difference between God's voice and our own heads, what it actually means to be a part of a church, and…did Jesus have a wife? If you've got a question you'd like answered, we want to hear it! Text them in to 508-500-6656 or email 

We're more anxious, overwhelmed, and exhausted than ever. Fortunately, what our Heavenly Father offers us isn't just psychological change but spiritual restoration. Join us in our "What If" sermon series to hear Pastor Ron Sears' take on this powerful question: What if God was at the center of all my thoughts, reactions, and decisions?If you're new to Harbor, have questions, or are looking to get connected in anyway, head to harborchurch.com/connect!

We're more anxious, overwhelmed, and exhausted than ever. Fortunately, what our Heavenly Father offers us isn't just psychological change but spiritual restoration. Join us in our "What If" sermon series as we explore this powerful question: What if God was at the center of all my thoughts, reactions, and decisions?If you're new to Harbor, have questions, or are looking to get connected in anyway, head to harborchurch.com/connect!

 Be honest - when people ask how you're doing, are you tempted to respond, “busy”? We all feel it. Full schedules, not enough time to do everything we'd like, and yet the obligations just keep coming. In today's episode, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose get real about the root behind our need to constantly be going. What if God has a better way that doesn't involve collapsing into bed every night wishing for a day off? 

Time is your most limited resource and how you spend it reveals who you trust. In this message, Pastor Josh challenges us to stop wearing “busy” like a badge and start seeing rest as a spiritual discipline, not a luxury. If you've been running on fumes, this is your reminder that real strength comes when your time and your trust is in God's hands.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

What if the biggest barrier between you and the life God has for you is your own disobedience? In this message, Pastor Josh challenges us to move from sentiment to substance, because surrender isn't the same as obedience. We may feel surrendered, but until we actually obey, we're still holding back. If Jesus isn't Lord of all, He isn't Lord at all.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Let's be honest - most of us say "Thy will be done" while white-knuckling our way through each day. In this episode, Pastor Josh and Katie Rose are digging into the anatomy of control: why we crave it, how it's exhausting us, and what actually happens when we stop playing God. If you're ready for 2026 to actually be different, and to see some change that lasts beyond February, take a listen.

What if the best year of your life doesn't come from striving harder, but from surrendering deeper? In this message, Pastor Josh unpacks what it means to fully trust God's plan, release control, and let Him lead. You don't find God's will by discovering yourself; you find it by surrendering yourself.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

2025 was a year of ups, downs, and more than anything a display of God's faithfulness. Join Katie Rose and Pastor Josh for a time of reflection, sharing stories, and remembering God's goodness before we get into 2026.

Sometimes you start on a journey, only to find that God has different plans for you. In this message, Pastor Josh looks into what it means for us to have to take a different route than we intended. Hear about what true trust looks like - even in the face of unexpected detours.We're so glad you're joining us for this online only service, and can't wait to be back together in person next weekend. In the meantime, if you're new, have questions, or are looking to get connected in any way, click the link below!https://harborchurch.com/connect

If you've ever felt like you're behind in your journey with God, or like you missed a moment, this one's for you. Pastor Josh and Katie Rose dig into the idea of being behind in life, and how important it is to (like the wise men) have people traveling beside you.

Not to shake up your nativity scene, but the wisemen were late. Fortunately, all are welcome in the presence of Jesus, regardless of their timing. In this Christmas message, Pastor Josh reminds us that God isn't checking our timing, He's looking at our heart. Whether you're early, late, broken, or doubting, you still belong. God meets you where you are, and late worship is still powerful worship.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

Every good story has a bad guy….and all of our lives involve people that aren't always on our side (even if they think they are). So how to we deal with the naysayers? And what if the people who are working against us also happen to be people we love? Pastor Josh and Katie Rose talk through why we shouldn't be surprised that not everyone is cheering us on, and what Biblical boundaries actually look like.

Not everyone who's close to you is really for you. In this message, Pastor Josh unpacks the story of Herod and the wise men to reveal how “frenemies” can look supportive on the outside but be dangerous on the inside. Learn how to discern intentions, guard your heart, and follow God's voice above all else.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

What if the sacrifice God is calling you to isn't about your bank account, but your emotional life? In this episode, we dig deeper into the Biblical concept of "laying it at the feet of Jesus” - something the Wise Men did a couple thousand years ago with their gifts, and something that we still need to practice today. So what does practical, everyday, sacrificial discipleship look like? Pastor Josh and Katie Rose unpack the small but surprisingly difficult sacrifices they've had to make, and how it's completely changed the way they view God.

What does your worship really say about what you believe? The Magi's gifts weren't random; they reflected their understanding of who Jesus was. In this message, Pastor Josh unpacks how true worship always involves sacrifice. God measures giving by trust, not by amount. If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect

We're officially in Christmas mode at Harbor! This week, we're taking an intentional look at the journey of the Wise Men—twists, turns, and tests included—and what that story means for our own walk with God. Does following Him require leaving everything behind? Is He "testing" us from Heaven? Pastor Josh and Katie Rose sit down to tackle these challenging questions and more. From the Patriots to The Muppet Christmas Carol to the small habits that transformed their lives, tune in for a discussion designed to challenge and equip your faith this holiday season.

Great moves of God often begin with small steps of obedience. Just like the wise men and Abraham, faith requires action before clarity and movement before guidance. When we take the first, often uncomfortable, step in obedience, even without full understanding, God meets us in motion and uses our faith to impact others in ways we may never fully see.If you're new to Harbor or want to get connected in any way click this link to get your New Here gift, find upcoming events or get involved!https://harborchurch.com/connect