Talk Space with Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam! Welcome back to Talk Space with Gen and Qui—your go-to podcast for unfiltered convos, healing vibes, and a little bit of laughter with your favorite virtual besties. On today's episode, we are diving into a topic that so many of us know all too well: Eldest Daughter Syndrome. If you know what it's like to carry everybody's weight while tryna keep your own life together, this episode is for you. We're talking expectations, boundaries, guilt, and that deep-rooted pressure to be ‘the strong one', especially as Black women. This one's for all our big sisters. We see you. So come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat.   xoxo  Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!! In this episode we continue the conversation about dating preferences and negative stereotypes.  If you haven't tuned in to part 1, make sure you go back and listen. **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**   XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam! We have got a good one for your today!  In this episode, we begin addressing a video we have seen floating around social media in which a gentleman speaks on his preference of ethnicity while dating and why he does not date American Black Women specifically.  You guys already know we had much to say about this! So go ahead and get cozy as we dive in in part 1.   Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat!   xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!! We are so glad that you have joined us for another episode. Tonight we dive into what (in our opinion) makes a relationship toxic, the work that needs to be done, and ways to get out.   It isn't the easiest topic to talk about or situation to be in but peeling back the layers and self-reflecting are the first steps to changing the narrative.  Tune in for a powerful conversation on how to recognize when it's time to walk away, and the personal growth journey that follows. Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo, Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam! Gen and Qui as the reflect on and recap the recent couples chat conversations they had with their partners.   xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!! We are back with another couples edition episode.  Tune in as Gen and her partner discuss their relationship and how they navigate through the challenges.  Get to know them just a little bit more as they continue to get to know each other.   XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!! We have been talking about them for quite some time and not you finally get to meet and hear from the partners in our lives.!   In this episode Qui and Mr. Qui (a.ka. Kev)  take a deep dive into asking some reflective questions to each other about the health and wealth of their relationship.  Join us as we tune in to their insights and hilarity!!   xoxo, Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!! It is so great to be back and discussing the topics that matter to us.  In this episode we talk about the current climate from policies to DEI and the preliminary impacts of some of the things we see happening around us.  If you know us then you know that we do not shy away from heavy hitting or controversial topics and this episode is no exception.  It is only February and we are already exhausted trying to keep up with all of the changes, investigations, allegations and news that we seem to be consistently flooded with.  Nonetheless, you know that we will always keep it real!   Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat.   xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey Talk Space Fam!!! We are back baby!! We know it has been quite some time but we are back and better than ever!  Tune in as we have an honest conversation about what kept us away! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo Gen and Qui

Talk Space Fam Are y'all ready?? Because we are back and ready to bring you new and exciting content! We are re-launching because we are refreshed and re-focused!! New Episodes Launching Weekly Starting Tonight!! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey girl hey!! Luvs, this week we were jumping in to the niddy griddy of what is to come (after our normal shenanigans of course) and then......motherhood came knocking... literally.  Make sure you tune in to the entire episode for a special guest appearance at the end.  Be sure to leave us a comment and say hey to our guest host! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey Luvs! We are a month into the new year and for many of us, nothing has slowed down.  Sometimes being on our grind and hustling to make the life we want for ourselves and for our family leaves us feeling exhausted. That exhaustion on a continuous basis leads to burnout. Something many of us are all too familiar with.  In this episode we discuss how having faith and doing the work can carry us through or even relieve some of that burden from time to time.    Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat! xoxo, Gen and Qui   **Music by SouthStreet24 Media**

Hey luvs! This week Gen and Qui are talking about getting older and facing the challenges that life brings that previous generations have not had to deal with as well as facing the fears that come along with the unknown of adulting.  Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. XOXO - Gen and Qui

**Trigger Warning**  Please know that in this episode we speak about the death of loved ones and the impact it has had on our lives. In this episode we are perhaps, the most transparent we have been thus far.  Gen and Qui take a deep dive into how the death of close family members in our adult lives has impacted us.  We also discuss grieving things other than death such as relationships, identify, and even careers.  Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo Gen and Qui

Happy New Year Luvs!!  We are so excited and encouraged about all that 2024 has to come. Join us in this episode as we discuss some of our goals for the new year both individually and collectively!   Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat! XOXO - Gen & Qui

Hey Luvs! Have you ever had to think to yourself...did he/she/they just say that to me while in the office/work environment? Dealing with microaggressions at work can be such a challenge. Navigating responses/reactions and ways to approach the situation at times can be the most challenging part of our day.  Tune in as we discuss what microaggressions are and as we share a few stories of how we have handled them in the past.  Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey Luvs! Besides catching up from our holiday break, in this episode we begin our deep dive into a multi-part series focusing on creating healthy relationships with men that were never allowed to be boys and instead were made to be the man of the house from a very young age.  While sometimes this can present as an excellent life experience, what we are learning as adults is that there are many fundamental things that we take for granted in our understanding of how we function in relationships and our expectations of our partners.  Sometimes, the residual effects of the emotional immaturity and overall lack of community show more than some would like to admit in our partners when there were not two fully present, emotionally intelligent, and healthy parents in their lives/household.  And unfortunately, we end up bearing the burden of teaching them to be the partner that we need while almost seemingly teaching them to be adults as well.  Join us for this conversation! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat!   XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey Luvs! Besides catching up from our holiday break, in this episode we begin our deep dive into a multi-part series focusing on creating healthy relationships with men that were never allowed to be boys and instead were made to be the man of the house from a very young age.  While sometimes this can present as an excellent life experience, what we are learning as adults is that there are many fundamental things that we take for granted in our understanding of how we function in relationships and our expectations of our partners.  Sometimes, the residual effects of the emotional immaturity and overall lack of community show more than some would like to admit in our partners when there were not two fully present, emotionally intelligent, and healthy parents in their lives/household.  And unfortunately, we end up bearing the burden of teaching them to be the partner that we need while almost seemingly teaching them to be adults as well.  Join us for this conversation! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat!   XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey luvs! Every around this time, we begin prepping our homes and our waistlines for all things thanksgiving.  But who is bringing what? In this episode we discuss what we consider the do's and don'ts of Thanksgiving dinner.   We even get a little bit sentimental when talking about our own families.  So, Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey Luvs! If you tuned in last week then you know that we began a conversation circling around the disconnect between what is and is not appropriate for children (from our perspective of course).  This one took us longer than expected so we had to break it up into two parts for you.  In this part two of the episode, we reminisce on what discipline looked like in our households growing up as well as some classic sayings we heard as children over the years! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat! XOXO Gen and Qui   **Music by SouthStreet-24**

Hey Luvs! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat! This week while deciding on what to talk about, we had an epiphany and decided to discuss how sometimes in our current society, there is a disconnect between what is and is not appropriate for children (from our perspective of course).  This one took us longer than expected so we had to break it up into two parts for you.  In part one we talk about the lack of an appropriate market for those children that fall into the adolescent/pre-teen age group.  Stay tuned for part two! Thank you for sticking with us and tuning in.  XOXO Gen and Qui

Hey luvs! Is marriage the ultimate goal or nah? In this episode we discuss the societal expectations of getting married just for the sake of getting married and why that doesn't quiet sit well with us.  We also delve into the importance of having positive examples of healthy relationships and support systems to help guide s through the challenges of relationships and marriage... So, come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. **Music by SouthStreet24-Media** XOXO, Gen and Qui

Hey luvs!   On today's episode, we dive into the stigma that we as women cannot have it all.  You already know we beg to differ.  Having it all, doesn't always mean having it all the way together all of the time.  Sometimes, things get compromised. Sometimes things get sacrificed.  But that is life, and we have the amazing ability to make it happen on our terms.  So join us for another one of our deep dive conversations! Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat!! XOXO, Gen & Qui

It has been quite some time...but we are back and better than ever.  We are so excited about this new season and cannot wait to dive into some of our juiciest topics yet!! Come on in, have a seat, grab your favorite drink....and let's just chat!!   XOXO, Gen and Qui

Hey GQPodCrew, Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat about understanding that red flags are subjective and can change and evolve as we change and evolve.  With that said, we must remain true to ourselves and set those boundaries so that we can ensure we are not creating more uncomfortable space in our relationships by not showing up as our authentic selves.  In this episode, we also discuss giving yourself a minute to breathe between relationships/situationships/entanglements or encounters.  In that space, it is good to reflect on not only our former partner's actions and emotions but ours as well.  This is a good place to check-in and be honest with ourselves. Take inventory of what we liked, loved, appreciated, and could do without, and then take that growth, that positivity (after we have worked through any potential trauma) into our next relationship leaving no baggage to drag in and place upon our next partner. Expecting the next person to carry our baggage is unrealistic and unfair.  Give them the same clean slate chance that you would want to be given.  As always, we are immensely grateful for your listenership and feedback. We appreciate you. xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey TSGQ Crew! Come on in, come on in... In this episode, we are discussing the taboo topic of including family and friends in your relationship.  We all know that it can be tricky navigating through the balance of what to tell and what not to tell.  We also revisit counseling before, during, and after those tough times with our partners.    Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo Gen and Qui   **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**

In this second part of episode one in our relationship series, we continue our discussion on setting clear expectations in both casual dating and relationships. We also go over how important it is to check-in not only with your partner but with yourself to ensure that everything and everyone is on the same page.   And you know we included a few of our own experiences and humor in the mix.   Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. xoxo - Gen and Qui **Music by SouthStreet-24Media**

In this first installment of our relationship series, we tackle communicating effectively with your partner or dating interest, having clear standards, and understanding today's dating culture.  Understanding your partner's communication style and what they need in order to feel like there is effective communication is very important.  But before you understand what your partner needs, you have to understand what you need.  And you know we included a little bit of our own experiences in the mix.   Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat.   xoxo - Gen and Qui Music Provided by **SouthStreet24-Media**

Hey Pod Fam! So many people are either starting or interested in starting their own business and if that's you, we want you to know some of the things we had to learn by trial and error.  In this episode, we cover the very basic steps and tips we feel are important when starting that new venture.  Whether you are planning a little side hustle or getting ready for your company to eventually take over the market let's start right so we can continue strong.  Below, you'll find some resources we found helpful, as well as a summary of the steps we mention throughout the show.   https://www.legalzoom.com/articles/how-to-start-a-business https://www.sba.gov/business-guide/10-steps-start-your-business https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/4686-how-to-start-a-business.html https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/small-business/how-to-start-a-business https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/apply-for-an-employer-identification-number-ein-online  Steps mentioned: - Find your niche - Develop and register your business (name) - Develop a business plan - Get an Employee Identification Number (EIN) - Research and acquire financing options - Establish your business bank account, credit cards, and line of credit - Establish your legal/accounting team - Research and acquire a location for business (if not home-based) - Acquire or make inventory or service materials - Set up a website and social media profiles - Obtain HR/accounting software - Hire employees - Grind and Thrive   As always, thank you so much for listening! xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey GQCrew!  You have heard us mention things like life insurance and retirement accounts before but in this episode, we dive right in with more tips so that you can set yourself and your family up for financial stability moving forward.  We discuss the basic differences between whole life and term life insurance policies, different types of retirement accounts from your Traditional to Roth IRA, to 401K plans, paying down debt the smart way, and even 527 college savings plans.  Some key mentions in this episode include: Fidelity Go (https://www.fidelity.com/managed-accounts/fidelity-go/overview)  Acorns (https://www.acorns.com/) Charles Schwab (https://www.schwab.com/invest-with-us)  New York Life (https://www.newyorklife.com/) https://brokercheck.finra.org/ (to check the validity of your financial advisor) Please note that by no means are we advocating for or sponsored by any of these companies.  No company is perfect for everyone and none are without their pros and cons however, these are just some that we are familiar with.    Thank you so much for rocking with us!   xoxo Gen and Qui

Hey girl hey! In this episode, we continue the conversation on effective ways to budget and save in this new year and beyond. We focus on things such as the 50/30/20 model where no more than 50% of your regular net income should go towards your reoccurring monthly expenses such as rent/mortgage/utilities/credit cards/insurance payments and regular monthly bills.  30% of your net income can be set aside for entertainment/spending purposes and 20% can go into savings and investment accounts.  We also discuss the idea of having petty cash during the week to limit how often we swipe those debit and credit cards.  Some of the other honorable mentions in this episode are cashback and savings apps such as CashApp, Dosh, Rakuten, Groupon, and Acorns. We hope you listen and enjoy. Don't forget to follow us on social media @ talkspacegennui. Like, Follow, Comment and Share! xoxo - Gen and Qui

2022 is here and while everyone else has fitness and weight loss goals we are on another journey.  It is time for our money to no longer be funny and this year our financial fitness is just as important as our overall health and wellness.  It is time to make it a priority.  Join us in this episode as we discuss some basic tips and strategies to ensure that we are budgeting and saving accordingly to obtain and maintain the lifestyle and habits we want for ourselves and ultimately for generations to come.   Remember when setting a budget we should probably consider the following: 1)  Net income 2)  What we are spending our money on  3)  Our overall goal   Mentions in this episode include the 50/30/20 rule as noted in Forbes Magazine. 50% of your net income should go towards all of your monthly bills/expenses 30% of your net income should be set aside for entertainment and activities 20% of your net income should go towards your savings and/or investments   xoxo Gen and Qui

With conversation this good we had to give you a part two. In this episode we continue our mental health chat with our resident homegirl therapist Ms. Christian Jackson. Please know that in this episode we do discuss topics such as suicide, depression, and the oppressive mentality that has followed so many people of color throughout history. Thank you Christian for joining us, we love you, we appreciate you...here are your flowers now!!  Therapy resources: https://therapyforblackgirls.com/ https://therapyforblackmen.org/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ https://rainn.org/  XOXO Gen and Qui **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**  

Hey PodFam! Mental Health couldn't just be a one episode conversation. On this episode we bring in Coach Christian to weigh in on the conversation.  Our resident home girl therapist and licensed mental health professional reiterates the message and the movement to raise awareness to Mental Health challengers that we all face. Yes we said ALL because it's true. There is not a single person walking this earth that has not experiences some type of challenge in their life.  We continue to break down barriers and stigmas in this episode and really unpack what so few of us speak about openly and without judgement. Check out part 1!! Please know that in this episode we do discuss topics such as suicide, depression, and the oppressive mentality that has followed so many people of color throughout history.   Thank you Christian for joining us, we love you, we appreciate you...here are your flowers now!!    XOXO Gen and Qui   **Music by SouthStreet24-Media** **Sound Effects by mixkit.co**

In our journey to returning to normal and recording this podcast we had to take a break and regroup.  The importance of that break has been extremely beneficial.  In this episode, we acknowledge that and begin discussing why the states our all of our minds and feelings are things that we need to have open dialogue about on a consistent basis.  We have to begin and continue taking care of our personal trinity.... Mind....Body.....and Spirit. The stigma around mental health in our communities of color must end.  If you need someone...say something...find someone...and begin healing, processing, and unpacking.  We love you!! XOXO ` Gen and Qui   Just a Few Mental Health Resources www.betterhelp.com www.therapyforblackgirls.com www.inclusivetherapists.com www.therapyincolor.com  

In this episode we take a glance into Qui's pregnancy journey and some of the obstacles she has faced along the way from multiple miscarriage's, the pressure of fulfilling familial expectations, to the tough conversations she has had to have with her love, family, and herself.  We also shed light on where she is now...basking in all of the pregnancy glory!! Thank you for your courage and vulnerability! To learn more about PCOS visit any of the resources below:   https://www.pcosaa.org/    https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos#:~:text=Polycystic%20ovary%20syndrome%20(PCOS)%20is,that%20form%20in%20the%20ovaries.   https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/pcos/symptoms-causes/syc-20353439   **Trigger Warning** Please note that miscarriage's and lost pregnancies are briefly discussed in this episode.   **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**

We know we have been gone for a little but we are back and ready to dish on what has been going on.  Did you miss us?  We definitely missed you guys!   **Music By SouthStreet24-Media**

There seems to be a lot of buzz around the idea that the modern day woman has forgotten or lost sight of her traditional role in the heterosexual realm of relationships.  Some people have resorted to seeking advice from others that proliferate the very stereotypes and ideology that limit our potential and mental health.  Well, you know we are having no parts of that.   In this episode we take a look at the words, beliefs, and opinions, of Kevin Samuels and we remind all of us that we were not meant to be confined by stigmas that someone else deems necessary.  We have had enough and to those ideas we stay enough is enough. Come on in, grab you favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat. Make sure you follow us on Instagram and Facebook and let us know what you think about this episode. -XOXO- Gen and Qui   **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**

Happy Juneteenth Everyone!! In this episode we discuss a little bit of history behind the holiday that means so much to so many.  We also begin talking about our own families just a bit. Come on in, grab your favorite drink, have a seat, and let's just chat.   **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**   Thank you for listening,   Gen and Qui

Ever have one of those day that doesn't go as planned and you just have to relax and go with the flow? Well this is that episode for us.  Join us we discuss future topics and how we would love to have our listeners weigh in mixed with a little bit of randomness!! Come in, grab a drink, have a seat, and let's just chat.

Get ready to dig deep in this episode where we uncover and admit our truths. Come in, grab a drink, have a seat and let's chat.

Everyone has a different experience, journey, and story to tell.  This is ours.  Welcome.  Please follow us on our social media platforms:  Instagram -  https://instagram.com/talkspacegennqui?r=nametag    Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/Talk-Space-with-Gen-Qui-114531537399944/    Also, be sure to check out our resident therapist homegirl Christian Jackson. She is doing amazing things in the advancement of mental health and healing from daddy issues. Couch with Christian https://www.couchwithchristian.com/   https://www.couchwithchristian.com/blog-1  https://www.instagram.com/couchwithchristian/ https://www.facebook.com/couchwithchristian  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5VmJFkyjh1zBiGy4vAWCHA    **Music by SouthStreet24-Media** Thank you, Gen and Qui

Everyone has a different experience, journey, and story to tell.  This is ours.  Welcome.  Please follow us on our social media platforms:  Instagram -  https://instagram.com/talkspacegennqui?r=nametag    Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/Talk-Space-with-Gen-Qui-114531537399944/    Also, be sure to check out our resident therapist homegirl Christian Jackson. She is doing amazing things in the advancement of mental health and healing from daddy issues. Couch with Christian https://www.couchwithchristian.com/   https://www.couchwithchristian.com/blog-1  https://www.instagram.com/couchwithchristian/ https://www.facebook.com/couchwithchristian  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5VmJFkyjh1zBiGy4vAWCHA    **Music by SouthStreet24-Media** Thank you, Gen and Qui

This is Talk Space with Gen and Qui.   We are here to discuss all of the things, while standing in the truth! Join us on this journey. **Music by SouthStreet24-Media**