F*ck Weddings Podcast

Allie and Brittany tackle wedding rentals, a major “hidden” piece of many weddings. At 12min, we bring David Santiago of La Piñata Party Rentals and Lauren Montgomery of Collective Rental Design House. More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ La Pinata Party Rentals http://lapinataparty.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lapinataparty/ Collective Rental Design House https://collectiverentals.com/ https://www.instagram.com/collective_rentals/ This podcast is brought to you by:Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com  Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com 

Allie and Brittany discuss what a Full Planner is, and a few tips to keep in mind when hiring.  At 12:55 Gabi of Gabriela Pilar Events hops on to drop some *real knowledge* If you're thinking of hiring wedding help of any kind, definitely give this episode a listen. More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/   Gabi can be found at: https://gabrielapilar.com/ https://www.instagram.com/gabrielapilarevents/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com  Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com 

Selina and Nick paid $50k to host 200 guests in Long Beach for an absolute blowout wedding experience with multiple performers (yes, performers!). Selina gives great, actionable advice for combining cultures and how to make your wedding your very own.  They had a clear goal to give their guests a memorable experience and that was centered around 3 zones -- eating, drinking, and dancing. Outside of those zones, sacrifices have to be made but it’s so worth it in the end.  Highlights: 13:20 The rule of 3 - the #1 thing to keep in mind for wedding planning. More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Allie and Brittany chat with Candice of Spin the Dial Productions. Highlights: 04:35 Basic videography vocabulary (Documentary vs Cinematic, etc) 07:20 How different styles affect your wedding day 11:15 Tips to be natural on camera 27:30 New Idea Alert. Someone please do this (and if you have, let us know!) More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/   Candice can be found at: http://www.spinthedialproductions.com http://www.instagram.com/spinthedialfilms/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com  Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com 

Allie and Brittany chat with Gabby of 'Cause We Can Events to gain some clarity on the elopements trend. We talk about elopements vs micro weddings vs destination.  More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/   Gabby can be found: https://causewecanevents.com/ https://www.instagram.com/causewecanevents/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com  Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com 

Allie & Britt have a brief conversation about how the coronavirus might affect your wedding.  *CDC doesn’t recommend gatherings over 50 people.*Mechanics of postponing. (Resource: doodle.com)*Possible cost of postponing.  More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

We bring Courtney from Walden Floral LA on the podcast for a DEEP dive into floral design - the artistry, the process...and why it costs so dang much!  More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/   Courtney can be found: http://www.waldenfloralla.com/ https://www.instagram.com/waldenfloral/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

A short and sweet episode diving into wedding rehearsals, rehearsal dinners, and welcome receptions.  02:30 What is a rehearsal?05:30 When do you schedule it?10:30 A unique idea…13:55 Who is invited?16:50 Rehearsal Dinner or Welcome Reception?17:40 Hot tip, if you loop in a photographer19:00 Allie’s hot tip! (Hint: clink clink)20:10 Who pays for this sh*t?24:10 lol More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Weddings are pretty....full of trash and waste and can be downright bad for the environment. This episode focuses on easy ways you can make your wedding a more eco-friendly event, without sacrificing style (or getting too crunchy).   We have a conversation with two guests- Belinda of Opus Events, a wedding planner who focuses on creating upscale, eco-friendly events, and Emily, a bride who got married in 2019 and made efforts to lessen her carbon footprint while planning.   Belinda of Opus Events www.opusevents.co/ IG @opuseventsco   Composting https://www.compostablela.com/    Vegan Catering https://www.pinksaltcuisine.com/    More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Real-deal post wedding breakdown from the couple themselves. We get into the nitty gritty- family drama, cost, decision making, day-of details and what was worth it (and not worth it) in the end. This is the first of a new format for the podcast and we are so excited to share this unique perspective of wedding planning advice.   Corinne and Patrick $40,000 and 110 guests in Downtown Los Angeles Venue: Millwick Coordinator: Pop the Champagne Photographer: The Hendrys Florist: Rogue and Fox Catering: A Miho Bar: The Whaling Club DJ: Red Shoe More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Weed Weddings! They're becoming a thing as more states legalize recreational cannabis. If you're interested in incorporating marijuana into your wedding, this episode is for you! Highlights: 01:05 Mom and Mom are fighting! (Jk, but we don’t agree *all* of the time :) 02:45 Allie kills Brittany’s high with logistics 04:20 Insurance! 09:10 Interview with Jessica of White Rabbit High Tea More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ White Rabbit High Tea http://www.whiterabbithightea.com/ https://www.instagram.com/whiterabbithightea/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Kids at your wedding? Yes or no? Something in between? Allie and Brittany break down one of the most controversial topics of wedding planning. Guest Mollie of Black Tie Kids comes in with the perfect middle ground!  Highlights:01:58 Britt’s parenting perspective04:04 Mic drop -- the deciding factor of kids in your ceremony05:25 Exceptions and explanations08:40 Be prepared to accept regrets10:30 Interview with Black Tie KidsListen through for tips and tricks to keep kids entertained and out of trouble during a wedding! More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ Black Tie Kids: https://www.blacktiekids.com/ /https://www.instagram.com/blacktiekids/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Tips and tricks, of course LOGISTICS, and even a little bitching about the patriarchy. Interview with Desireé DeLattre of Hustle and Glow Makeup Highlights:4:00 Hot Tip #1 (hint: trial!) 5:00 F*ck the patriarchy 9:30 Who gets pro makeup? 10:15 Hot Tip #2 (hint: Mom!) 12:30 Who pays for this? 16:50 Interview with Desiree of Hustle and Glow Makeup 20:40 Hot Tip #3 (hint: find the vendor for you!) More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ Desireé: https://www.hustleandglowmakeup.com/ https://www.instagram.com/hustleandglowmakeup/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Britt and Allie break down wedding party etiquette and expectations- both from the couple’s point of view and the party people. Who is involved, pre-wedding events, who pays for what, and how to avoid the drama. Highlights:02:30 Who do you choose to be in the wedding party? 06:20 Being in a wedding is expensive $$$ 08:40 Bridal showers: who is in charge? 10:50 Brit is clueless on gift registry etiquette 15:45 Picking someone to be in charge of planning all the festivities 19:30 Should the couple pay for wedding party attire? 21:56 Trend and tradition: Wedding party gifts More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Brittany & Allie know next to nothing about suiting! Eric Acuña has been working with Friar Tux for 19 years and co-hosts the episode covering All Things SUITS.  Highlights 05:00 Suit vs Tux 08:00 Top trending coat colors 09:45 Ladies in suits 13:00 Rent vs Buy 15:20 Anatomy of a suit/tuxedo 19:55 How your suit can do double duty in your every day fife 24:20 TEAM VEST Eric's personal instagram https://www.instagram.com/ea_sports2.0/ Eric's company Friar Tux https://www.friartux.com/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

Britt and Allie get day drunk and talk all things Wedding Bar. Bar options, what to serve, who to hire, and more.   Highlights:  05:02 Drunk wedding guest horror story (don't be this person!) 07:10 Self serve bar tips 10:05 Timeline tips 15:30 Ice ice baby 22:30 Booze budgets 29:00 What about beer and wine only? 30:46 Trends and traditions: craft cocktails  35:16 Interview with Iveth of LA Speakeasy   Download our Bar Tips & Recommendations PDF   Iveth's company: https://www.laspeakeasy.com/ and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/la.speakeasy/   More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com

The big “B” word. Whether your budget is $2,000 or $200,000, you still have one. We dive into strategies to stay within any budget. Caroline Snyder of Verdi Advising is our guest, dropping some financial knowledge and saving hacks. Highlights:2:00 We chat about wedding culture/budgets, and who’s paying for this sh*t.3:00 Be realistic about the strings attached to wedding money gifts.4:30 If you do nothing else, listen to this HERE5:30 Prioritizing - how to do it.  7:00 Book big-ticket items FIRST.9:30 Just a little FYI about what ends up in the trash after your wedding day is done.12:20 A whole tangent re: guestbooks. Allie and Brittany agree to disagree.17:30 Things get heated chatting about “cutesy shit”20:00 How to mold any element into your budget21:00 Trends and Traditions -- Registering for CA$H MONEY$23:00 Don’t expect wedding gifts *gasp*24:30 Britt’s really tacky25:00 Interview with Caroline Snyder of Verdi Advising27:30 What it looks like to pay off your wedding for 3, 5, 7 years35:00 How to ask for family money39:00 Real strategies to save for this large “purchase”42:30 A little couples therapy, here Caroline's website http://verdiadvising.com/  Caronline's instagram http://instagram.com/verdidaily/  More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/

This episode is long and *full* of information about wedding catering - whether you are still deciding on a caterer or already have one booked. Breaking down buffet vs plated meals, spotting red flags in your catering contract, and how to incorporate it all into your day. Renee Dalo of Moxie Bright Events chimes in with extensive knowledge of the industry.  Highlights:4:45- Why do people hate on buffets? They are great.8:30- Plated meals pros and cons11:45 -Brittany feels very strongly in favor of family style13:45 - Food trucks and drop-off catering22:00 - Surprise charges your caterer might pass on to you27:50- Interview with wedding planner Renee Dalo30:25 - Questions to ask when hiring a non-traditional caterer37:44- Do I need to do a tasting?50:52 - The scoop on vendor meals  Renee's site http://moxiebrightevents.com/ Renee's instagram https://www.instagram.com/moxiebrightevents/ https://apracticalwedding.com/how-to-hire-wedding-caterer/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/  

Michelle Edgement of Michelle Edgemont Event & Floral Design based in Brooklyn cohosts this episode and drops countless gems gleaned from years of experience. Whether you are hiring a designer or going the DIY route, you *need* to give this episode a listen. Highlights:1:30 Wth is an event designer? Kinda like an interior designer…4:30 we walk through the Wedding Design process8:45 Pinterest board LIMITS9:45 Fun color-palette chat11:10 Visual bang-for-your-buck *MUST LISTEN*13:45 Why are florals so expensive?18:30 To repurpose or not to repurpose ceremony florals for your reception (and how to do it, if you do)21:30 Lighting design (what is it, and why you should seriously consider it)24:45 Trends and Traditions: Michelle gives a little insight on why weddings trends take so long to cycle26:00 Greenery weddings aren’t the savings you might think26:50 Do what you like. Michelle’s free e-book: 101 Wedding Design SecretsMichelle’s website https://michelleedgemont.com Michelle’s instagram https://www.instagram.com/medgemontdesign/  More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/

Brit and Allie breakdown their favorite part of a wedding planning- TIMELINES! Warning: this shit is detailed and semi-boring but super important so grab a notebook and maybe a beer. Highlights:6:30 - when you should schedule your photographer to arrive11:35 - Why you should do a first look18:43 - Allie’s favorite tip to add into your timeline19:45 -Why you need a cocktail hour25:45 - Brit and Allie have strong opinions on dancing and your timeline31:25 - How long you should allot for dancing34:43- Brit describes her wedding day like a porno F*ck Weddings Sample Timelines More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/      

Allie tries to keep Brit from going off the rails talking about how to choose a wedding photographer. Who to hire, why it’s important and what to look for. Highlights:3:45- What to look for on a wedding photographer’s website6:45- Why you should always meet with a photographer before hiring them12:45 - Why there are no dumb questions15:00- Why to ask to see an entire wedding gallery18:00 - How long you need your photographer for, and timeline tips20:30- What is a second shooter and do you need one24:09- Should you do an engagement session26:55- To first look or not to first look30:25 - Why you have to consider lighting in your photo plan https://apracticalwedding.com/selecting-your-perfect-wedding-photographer/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/  

Brit and Allie breakdown wedding music and give all their opinions on djs, bands, emcees and even “ipod weddings”. Interview with wedding DJ extraordinaire Malcolm Alexander. Highlights:1:45- Why you need an emcee3:30 - Wedding bands7:00- When to play your indie music and when to stick with Top 408:20- Trends and traditions- “the ipod wedding”14:00 - Interview with DJ Malcolm 19:00 - Challenges of being culturally aware as a wedding DJ24:50 - Wedding day logistics for DJs30:42- MANTRA: Hire good people so you can truly enjoy your day DJ Malcolm Alexander http://www.malcolmalexndr.com/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/  

Brit and Allie dive into all things wedding dresses (shout out to all the non-dress choices as well!) with an interview with Miss Tashina, a dress designer and vintage gown expert. Highlights:3:30 - A few pieces of advice on dress shopping9:30 - Cheap wedding dress options11:20 - Bridesmaid dresses- the one night stand of apparel14:30 - Interview with gown surgeon Miss Tashina20:30 - Tashina talks about altering vintage gowns Tashina's website https://www.misstashina.com/ and instagram http://instagram.com/miss_tashina We mention:https://www.stillwhite.com/ - used wedding dress marketplacehttps://www.borrowingmagnolia.com -used wedding dress marketplacehttps://www.renttherunway.com/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/

Planning a queer wedding in a very very binary industry. Co-hosted by Emily of Heartthrob Weddings, who is a queer person and specializes in queer weddings. This episode dissects some of the challenges for queer couples, but is also a great resource for all wedding vendors who strive to be more inclusive. Highlights:4:30 - Why asking questions is so important7:02- Red Flags for queer couples when venue hunting14:00 - Finding the right vendor17:20 - It’s ok to be traditional23:00 - Attire and wedding outfits27:30- Designing your “wedding party” and why its important Emily's website https://www.heartthrobweddings.com and instagram https://www.instagram.com/heartthrobweddings/ Queer wedding vendor directories and blogs:https://equallywed.com/https://www.handhweddings.com/ https://www.handhweddings.com/ https://dancingwithher.com/ https://www.pridezillas.com/ Fashion resources:https://www.wildfang.com/http://www.bindleandkeep.com/ https://sharpesuiting.com/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/  

Britt and Allie discuss the decision that kicks off all the other decisions. Includes an interview with Claudia Casanova of One Darling Day. Highlights:02:36 The case for a destination wedding04:00 All-inclusive // Semi-inclusive (most) // DIY wedding venues10:45 Venue coordinator is not your wedding coordinator12:30 Trends and Traditions: Elopements / Adventure Elopements13:55 Allie and Britt don’t *always* agree, here’s proof!17:18 Interview with Claudia Casanova of One Darling Day22:25 Don’t judge a venue by its website25:30 Questions to ask your venue27:00 Does your venue have a kitchen? (Really, you need to check!)37:45 MANTRA: Are you willing to give up the control to have the experience Claudia's company https://www.onedarlingdayevents.com/ and instagram https://www.instagram.com/casanovadarling/ More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/  

Full Planning, Design, Partial Planning, Day-of Coordination - we explain it all. It's a short but useful episode on what exactly these wedding vendors can do for you, and how to decide between them.  Highlights: 1:30 Planners vs Designers vs Coordinators12:00 Day of Coordination versus Wedding Management versus Month-of Coordination More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/

Our wedding experts roll through the general vendor selection and booking process. The beginning stage of wedding planning is HARD. Lots of strategies and hugs coming your way. Any maybe vodka (definitely vodka). Highlights:02:20 How do you want your wedding to feel?9:30 Phases of planning11:20 Basic questions to ask your vendors16:41 Trends and Traditions - Food truck weddings! More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/

Your wedding planning experts have arrived! Brittany and Allie introduce themselves and try to convince you to *subscribe, now!* Combined, they've photographed and coordinated 100s of weddings, and their brains are full of practical wedding planning advice. More wedding planning resources can be found at http://fuckweddingspodcast.com/ This podcast is brought to you by: Allie at http://popthechampagneevents.com Brittany at http://bkm-photography.com Season 1 of the F*ck Weddings podcast is exclusively sponsored by https://guestboard.co/