Getting Into The Swing Of Things

After 6 years of swinging, and a lot of thinking since 2020, we are out of the LS as it no longer serves us. In this episode, we talk about what led to this decision, how we've been feeling, and what we're doing next. It's time to move on to the next adventure. You can find Mrs. Tequila as Deep House Domme on Insta, Twitter, SoundCloud, Etsy, and OnlyFans.

Mrs. Tequila goes to Hedo with 10 of her friends for a birthday party. Mr. Steak's dad passes the first day she's there. This episode shares our intimate conversation, the experience of a Hedo vacation, the dichotomy between lifestyle adventures and grief, and Hotwife fantasy to reality triggers.

Our year-long hiatus is over! We took a break from swinging because of the pandemic, and then just as we were vaccinated, Mr. Steak's dad was diagnosed with cancer. We talk (and cry) about isolation, mental health, death, and ending our hiatus with Mrs. Tequila's trip to Hedo.

COVID took us out for a 4-month hiatus, as all of our LS fun was put on hold. In this episode we talk about our adventures right before quarantine, what we did to entertain ourselves in lock down, how we made the decision to sort of come out of isolation, pissing people off with opinions on the protests, and navigating life in chaos.

The Lifestyle is a journey in personal growth. In this episode we talk about the evolution of our communication as a couple. We discuss having hard conversations with swinger friends and what happens with an unexpectedly crossed non-sexual boundary.

Kinky Christmas is a night of indulging in various kinks not typically experienced in swinging. After our marathon of sexy kinks, we’re joined that morning with our friends from Vegas, B and L, to recount our night together as special guests in the podcast.

Mrs. Tequila and FWB Unicorn go on a weekend date down in the city together. They have too much fun and end up staying in the room for the entire time having an incredibly hot party night. Mr. Steak comes in with double princess treatment and saves the Sunday rounding out an amazing experience together.

Mrs. Tequila wins a bet with Mr. Steak and has “princess week” where she gets to do all of the sexy things she wants. We detail our adventures that week, including ending it with an incredible MFM and getting kicked out of the hotel. Whoops!

In this episode we share our first unicorn experience with our super hot and fun FWB turned unicorn, and she joins us as a podcast guest! Also making her our first guest ever! It’s a sexy one, so be ready...

Our friends we made in Vegas from episode No. 23 make a special detour on their vacation to visit us. The first time someone has traveled to swing with us. We share a classic steak & tequila dinner and lingerie dance night with them. They share a DP and DVP experience with us!

We celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary in the city we met, married and lived our early years of debauchery - Vegas! We visit PlayhouseLV for swinger fun, resonate with “attracting the energy you want” - a philosophy a new fun couple shares with us, and have a wild sexy time that ends in another unexpected orgy.

Everyone always talks about the importance of consent in the lifestyle, but it doesn’t mean that it’s always practiced. We talk about our inappropriate touching experiences we’ve had, our struggles on how to deal with it, and sexual assault awareness training we’ve taken being in the music industry to make a difference for our fans. But can that be replicated in swinging? We’re not sure.

Mrs. Tequila models in a photoshoot that ends up in a MFFFFM orgy afterward. There was play that was too rough that needed navigation, and details on how to make a tricky situation work out in the end.

Running into someone from your professional life in a lifestyle environment is what swinger nightmares are made of. In this episode we talk about how it happened to us and how we were outed. We also talk about house party happenings and Mrs. Tequila’s feeling about being a party girl.

In this episode we go to our first summer foam party at the club. Mrs. Tequila discovers flogging in the lifestyle is fun. And then we leave our late night shenanigans to experience a swinger Sunday brunch, wrapping up our weekend of debauchery with a first time Feeldoe experience too.

In this episode we share the story of our first gang bang and the details of how we organized it. It was perfect!!

After 3 years in our lifestyle adventures, we finally meet our match with a FWB couple, have a series of first repeats, let go of boundaries on the fly, and get introspective about the key to Mrs. Tequila’s orgasm in swaps.

In this episode we share how we utilize dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld and share crazy stories of the people we’ve met so far, including finally finding that magical 4-way connection with a couple who can hang with our wild swinger ways!

We detail our experience of our first house party, Mrs. Tequila’s first time on a Sybian, and a straight up wild night with a super hot couple, that ended with a unicorn disappearing into the mist. We drunkenly thought holding the mics while recording this episode was a good idea. It was not. Sorry for the rando thumping going on in this one!

In this episode we discuss our business trip hall pass experiences from January, getting on Tinder to find dates, and share the heart-to-heart, tear-filled conversation about feelings of trying an open marriage and solo play for the first time. Mrs. Tequila also begins to realize her fear of intimacy around double-dates and that this is the reason why she enjoys the one night stand style. This is a mix of sexy stories and a therapy couch session.

Our first swinging adventure coming out of hiatus was on New Year's Eve at the club where we had one hell of a party night. Fun conversation with friends, anonymous sex with strangers, and 5 hours of all night sexcapades.

We were out of the swing of things for a year, but now we are back from our swinger hibernation! In this episode we tell you why, and where we go from here.

After four months of waiting for the stars to align to meet the right single guy, we finally met up with someone we clicked with. People talk about how finding a single guy in the lifestyle is easy. It is not! Unless you don't have standards.

After meeting new fun people at a meet and greet, we exchange numbers with some and end up having a super fun full swap a couple of days later. Best lesson from this experience, you don't have to be perfect as long as you're learning and having fucking fun.

With little sleep, we recorded this episode from the hotel bed to share our story of EDM dancing, exhibitionist sex, excessive squirting, giving single guys rando BJ's, dealing with non-consent in the club, and how Mrs. Tequila has more fun with the ladies.

In episode no. 7 we discussed how the lifestyle is making us realize there are different flavors of disappointment, and Mrs. Tequila has an epiphany about taking rejection personally, remembering lessons from the book The Four Agreements.

We share our story about our very first time going to the swings club for the erotic holiday party. It's a story full of lessons learned the hard way. We fucked up, instead of getting fucked.

The reality of getting ready to visit the swingers club for the first time starts to set in, and Mrs. Tequila experiences a pang of anxiety when Mr. Steak purchased the event tickets for the erotic holiday ball. So, what better time to work through nerves than on a podcast episode!

After our first swap-gone-wrong, we get back on the horse and start looking for a single guy for a MFM threesome party. We thought this would be easy to organize. Shockingly, it is not! We talk about online dating struggles and the inherent nature of The Lifestyle being full of flakes.

Things get deep and introspective in this episode as we process all of the feelings that Mrs. Tequila began to sort through after our first full swap. It got messy. We peel back the layers to understanding complicated feelings and how to get through the emotional roller coaster.

A hungover conversation about out first full swap that had happened the night before. Prepare for a NSFW converstaion

Mrs. Tequila walks in the door from her first Girls Uncorked event, and tells Mr. Steak all about the things they talked about and what she learned from chatting with other lifestyle ladies. Along with wine-induced rambling conversation.

Who are Steak and Tequila? How did we get into the swinging lifestyle? Get the dirt from our first episode.