Podcasts about hard conversations

In this episode, Wes Cobb reflects on his career at JLJ, a leading critical infrastructure construction company, and his journey from field operations to project management, finance, and ultimately CEO in 2022. He discusses JLJ's specialized work renovating and upgrading mission-critical facilities, including data centers, hospitals, and telecommunications sites where uninterrupted power and cooling are essential. Cobb shares how the company's rapid growth exposed gaps in its leadership structure, prompting the creation of an executive leadership team, clearer organizational roles, regular leadership meetings, and a structured superintendent training program. He also offers candid insights into his own leadership evolution, emphasizing the importance of having difficult conversations, empowering others instead of micromanaging, and focusing on strategic direction. Looking ahead, Cobb outlines JLJ's commitment to strengthening its systems, expanding its capacity, and achieving sustainable growth while maintaining the quality and consistency that define the company. Episode Highlights & Time Stamps 2:09 Hypergrowth Reality Check 4:29 From Field to CFO 5:43 Critical Infrastructure Focus 9:19 The Wake-Up Call 13:43 No Leadership System 15:36 Growth Pressure Mounts 19:33 From Micromanager to Leader 21:36 Meetings Build Alignment 23:00 Training the Next Tier 27:30 Hard Conversations 29:49 Alignment Drives Results 31:22 Ready to Scale Again  In This Episode, We'll Discuss ✔️ Wes Cobb's journey from carpenter to CEO of JLJ. ✔️ How JLJ specializes in critical infrastructure renovations for data centers, hospitals, and telecommunications facilities. ✔️ Why rapid growth exposed weaknesses in the company's leadership structure. ✔️ Building an executive leadership team with clearly defined roles and accountability. ✔️ The importance of leadership operating systems during periods of hypergrowth. ✔️ Creating a superintendent training program to develop future leaders. ✔️ The shift from micromanaging to empowering leaders throughout the organization. ✔️ Why difficult conversations are essential for healthy leadership. ✔️ How alignment across the executive team improved consistency, culture, and execution. ✔️ JLJ's vision for continued growth while protecting quality and reputation. Key Takeaways ✔️ Leadership systems matter more than headcount. Sustainable growth requires clear roles, accountability, and structured leadership not simply hiring more people. ✔️ Growth exposes organizational weaknesses. Scaling from $70 million to $150 million forced JLJ to address issues that had previously gone unnoticed. ✔️ Alignment starts at the top. Regular executive leadership meetings created shared direction and improved decision-making across the company. ✔️ Leadership requires personal growth. Cobb learned to stop micromanaging, delegate effectively, and focus on setting strategic direction. ✔️ Training creates long-term capacity. Investing in superintendent development ensures the company can scale without sacrificing quality. ✔️ Difficult conversations build stronger teams. Honest, direct communication became a cornerstone of JLJ's leadership culture. ✔️ Reputation is the ultimate competitive advantage. Maintaining excellence while growing remains JLJ's highest priority. ✔️ Sometimes you have to get better before you get bigger. Building strong systems and capable leaders creates the foundation for sustainable expansion. ✔️ Wes Cobb, CEO of JLJ, shares how he led the company through a pivotal period of rapid growth by transforming both his leadership style and the organization's leadership structure. ✔️ After decades of working in field operations, project management, finance, and executive leadership, Cobb recognized that JLJ's success had outgrown its systems.  ✔️ He discusses the challenges of scaling a critical infrastructure construction company, building an executive leadership team, creating accountability through structured meetings, and investing in superintendent training.  ✔️ Cobb also reflects on his personal growth as a leader, learning to have difficult conversations, delegate instead of micromanage, and focus on strategic leadership while preparing the company for its next phase of sustainable growth.

The Singles Series continues with Devon from Florida, who has learned the value of leaning into the hard conversations instead of avoiding them. Devon is pastor, coach, and single dad who has intentionally embarked on his personal healing journey, increasing in his emotional awareness, his conflict and communication, and his desire for authenticity. His past relationship history showed him his tendency to hide from hard conversations, and with the help of God and good counseling, he's taking the opposite approach in this season of life, which is to embrace the hard conversations with the people he cares about. We talk about how conflict can lead to deeper intimacy, why it's important to master relationship skills in dating, and what he's looking for in a woman. Single ladies, if you love Jesus, dimples, and hoop earrings (you'll have to listen to get that joke), send Devon Daniel a message and start a conversation:   Instagram:Instagram.com/Devon_Daniel Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/devon.d.daniel/ Email: devon.daniel8282@gmail.com **A quick note: While we're excited to introduce you to the singles featured in this series, their appearance on the podcast should not be considered an endorsement or recommendation. We have not conducted background checks or extensive screening, so if you choose to connect with someone featured here, please do so thoughtfully and at your own discretion.

Luke and Gomer talk about the passing of Gomer's father, but the episode isn't all doom and gloom (just the appropriate amount). Also included this week: an attempted murder, gray-market drugs, and a review of The Odyssey. In This Episode: Luke and Gomer compare notes on sleep, snoring, and inheriting their dads' blood pressure meds The legend of Dave Van Vickel: grocery deliveries, a mid-street knife fight, and a jury summons A review of The Odyssey movie, mythology demythologized, and Elliot Page's casting Gomer reflects on his father's death, anticipatory grief, the Sirach 38 reading, and the funeral Don Gormley's Shell/Texaco career stories, plus Luke's deep dive into nasal breathing, buzz breathing, nitric oxide, and gray-market Redatrutide Chapters: 00:00: Intro — Sleep Problems and a New YouTube Rabbit Hole 06:09: Blood Pressure Meds, Family History, and Following in Dad's Footsteps 08:21: The Legend of Dave Van Vickel (Knife Fights and Groceries) 16:53: Sponsor — Faith Mosier, Dallas Healing House 18:37: The Odyssey Movie Review 24:41: Back to Dad — Carrying His Ashes and the Sirach 38 Reading 32:11: Anticipatory Grief, Hard Conversations, and the Funeral 1:00:47: Don Gormley's Career — From Skelly Oil to the Shell Tanker Standoff 1:10:04: Sponsor — Cloister Ignatian Prayer App 1:14:16: Welcome to the Dead Dads Club 1:16:34: Nasal Breathing, Buzz Breathing, and Nitric Oxide 1:32:02: Redatrutide, GLP-1s, and Wrapping Up Resources Mentioned: Dallas Healing House Cloister Ignatian Prayer ParishSOFT Catching Foxes Substack Produced by Saint Kolbe Studios

You know the conversation. It's been sitting in the back of your mind for weeks, maybe months, maybe a whole freaking year. You know exactly what needs to be said and to who, and you keep telling yourself it'll sort itself out on its own.It won't. It's not staying still while you wait, it's growing, and it's quietly eating into your culture, your team, and your revenue until you finally deal with it.That is what this episode is about.In this episode:Why avoiding a hard conversation isn't kindness, even though it feels like it. It's the opposite, and your team can always tell when you're doing itThe real reason salon owners avoid these conversations: not because they don't care, but because they care too muchHow to walk into a hard conversation clear instead of emotional, and why getting specific early keeps things from blowing up laterWhy your team doesn't need you to be their friend, they need you to be their leaderThe truth about timing: the version of this conversation that happens six months from now is always harder than the one you could have todayThe Monday Club: Business education, community, and tools to build a salon that runs like a real business, with leadership development, a full marketing ecosystem, and Fully Booked all under one roof. Learn more: https://www.lexilomax.com/monday-club

What can one of the world's best interviewers teach you about communication? In this conversation, I sit down with Bobby Bones to break down the habits that have helped him interview thousands of people, build lasting relationships, and lead a team that's worked together for more than 20 years. We talk about asking better questions, building trust, handling difficult conversations, and the simple shifts that make every conversation stronger. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsletter Thank you to our Sponsors: Square. Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://square.com/go/JEFFERSON Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. https://cozyearth.com/pages/jefferson BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don't forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membership Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjefferson?lang=en Follow me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffersonfisher/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when frustration quietly turns into contempt—and what does that mean for the future of your relationship? In this conversation, we sit down with relationship therapist and author Zach Brittle to unpack one of the most destructive dynamics couples experience and why it's often misunderstood.Together, we explore where contempt comes from, how unrealistic expectations and unspoken needs fuel disconnection, and what it really takes to rebuild trust and intimacy. If you've ever wondered whether your relationship is stuck in a painful cycle—or how to shift it—this episode is full of practical insights that will challenge the way you think about connection.Episode Highlights[0:03] – Welcoming Zach Brittle and introducing why contempt is one of the biggest threats to healthy relationships.[1:20] – The Gottman Method, the Four Horsemen, and why contempt stands apart from the rest.[5:25] – How contempt develops over time and why it's far more than simply feeling annoyed with your partner.[7:50] – Expectations, comparison, and the hidden ways resentment begins to grow.[10:37] – Solvable versus perpetual relationship problems—and why acceptance matters.[13:19] – Losing positive sentiment and how couples begin viewing everything through a negative lens.[15:50] – Recognizing the warning signs before contempt becomes the default dynamic.[18:40] – The importance of asking clearly for what you need instead of expecting your partner to read your mind.[20:41] – When your needs aren't being met: accepting reality, setting boundaries, and making difficult relationship decisions.[22:08] – Why trying to "win" or change your partner often creates even more distance and frustration.[24:27] – A memorable analogy using sexual communication to explain why direct feedback strengthens connection.[26:13] – What being a responsive partner really looks like and why assumptions get couples into trouble.[28:36] – The "pasta and mailbox" examples: how neutral everyday actions can be interpreted through either appreciation or resentment.[30:02] – Negative sentiment override, confirmation bias, and why we often assume the worst of the people we love.[32:00] – Challenging the stories we tell ourselves and taking responsibility for how we show up in conflict.[35:28] – Practical ways to intentionally cultivate appreciation and prevent resentment from becoming contempt.[36:52] – Zach shares his latest book, his Substack, final relationship wisdom, and where listeners can connect with him.Links & ResourcesMarriage Therapy Radio Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-therapy-radio/id1295458667Zach Brittle's Books: https://zachbrittle.com/writing/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagetherapyradio/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriagetherapyradio/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagetherapyradioIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Communication and planning often take a back seat to production on the farm, until a crisis forces them to the forefront. For Alberta farmers Mike and Monika Benoit, a series of unexpected challenges reinforced that business resilience depends on more than growing a good crop. It requires strong planning, open conversations, and the ability to... Read More

Family grief, hurtful comments from partners, mismatched ambition, intimacy expectations, and confusing post‑stress body responses, this segment approaches relationship challenges with clarity and compassion.We also talk about timing for baby #2, early dating reciprocity, and connecting with kids on road trips without screens.

On today's episode, Dr. Mark Costes is joined by Ashlee Hirschfeld for another Back to Basics conversation, this time focused on leadership and difficult conversations. Mark and Ashlee discuss why leadership requires self-awareness, emotional intelligence, clear expectations, and the willingness to address issues before they damage the entire team. They also explore how to approach corrective conversations with less drama, why avoiding conflict can create bigger problems, and how strong leaders take ownership before asking others to do the same. This episode is a reminder that great culture starts at the top, and the way you communicate, respond, and hold people accountable will shape the health of your entire practice. Be sure to check out the full episode from the Dentalpreneur Podcast! EPISODE RESOURCES https://www.truedentalsuccess.com Dental Success Network Subscribe to The Dentalpreneur Podcast

Emotional intelligence isn't something you're born with—it's a skill you can strengthen, and it has the power to transform your relationships, your confidence, and your overall well-being. In this episode, we're unpacking what high EQ really looks like (hint: it's probably different than you think) and sharing the key markers of emotional maturity that help people thrive at work, at home, and within themselves.Join us as we explore practical ways to become more self-aware, regulate emotions, communicate with greater clarity, and navigate relationships with more compassion and confidence. Whether you're looking to grow personally or strengthen your connections with others, this conversation will leave you with plenty to reflect on—without giving away all the insights before you hit play.Episode Highlights[0:00] – Why emotional intelligence matters more than ever in midlife.[1:25] – What EQ really is—and the common misconceptions people have about it.[5:44] – The difference between sensing something is wrong and assuming you know why.[8:58] – Learning to recognize, name, and express emotions in healthy ways.[13:54] – Self-compassion, emotional regulation, and why feeling your emotions matters.[17:00] – Understanding your needs and learning to ask for them.[20:10] – Conflict, repair, and why emotionally healthy relationships can handle hard conversations.[24:52] – Receiving feedback without shame or defensiveness.[28:54] – Why your words, body language, and emotions need to align.[30:38] – Emotional intelligence is built through intentional practice—not just age.If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

#228: You ever walk away from a conversation thinking, “I explained it so clearly, how are we still here?” We've been told that if we heal enough, regulate enough, and choose the perfect words, we can fix the disconnect. But there's a hard limit to how far great communication can go when the other person isn't willing to listen, reflect, or question their own story about you. We dig into how past experiences create a “filter” that shapes what people hear, then we flip the coin to the part we don't talk about enough: discernment. Trauma and triggers can explain behavior, but they don't excuse ongoing harm, boundary crossing, or emotional invalidation. We get specific about confirmation bias in relationships, what happens when someone has already decided who you are, and why you can't out-communicate a narrative they're committed to protecting. We also break down a practical distinction that can save you years of confusion: misunderstanding versus manipulation. One creates connection and repair. The other turns the conversation into a debate over whether you're “allowed” to feel what you feel. If you've been doing the work, this is your reminder that growth doesn't mean carrying someone else into emotional maturity. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs stronger boundaries, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What part hit closest to home for you?You can now send us a text to ask a question or review the show. We would love to hear from you! Support the showFollow me on social: https://www.instagram.com/babbles_nonsense/

Trigger Warning: this episode discusses loss of a child due to substance use. Please decide if this is the right time to listen. A few weeks before this episode was recorded, one of the moms in our community lost her son. He had been through treatment, through sober living and had the most supportive family. His parents had done everything possible, with grace and with love, and he still lost his battle with addiction. Cathy and I went back and forth about whether to talk about it - because we never want to add to the fear that already lives in your chest every single day.But we're asking you to do hard things, and that means we have to do the same. This is the reality of what our kids are facing. High-potency THC is not the weed of twenty years ago, and we are talking to parents every week whose kids are in crisis from it, not from fentanyl, not from meth, but from what many still consider the ‘safe one'. We also talk about something we haven't directly addressed on this show: vicarious trauma in our kids. The bullying on their phones where we can't see it. The friend who overdosed in front of them. The violence at school they never mention. These are often the invisible fire under the behaviors that make no sense to you.One thing stayed with me after we finished recording: the idea of speaking to your child as if every word might be the last they ever hear from you. Not in a morbid way, but as a filter. As a way back to what matters most.If you have been putting something off because it feels too hard, or not quite urgent enough yet, this one is for you.YOU'LL LEARN:Why Cathy and I almost did not share what happened, and what changed our mindsWhat high-potency THC is doing to adolescent brains and why parents shouldn't dismiss it as ‘safer' than other substancesThe invisible traumas your kid may be carrying that explain the behaviors you can't make sense ofHow to not pick up the rope when every instinct tells you toWhat one parent said about speaking to your child that might change your next interaction with themEPISODE RESOURCES:Stages of Addiction: Hopestream podcast episode 322This podcast is part of a nonprofit called Hopestream CommunityLearn about The Stream, our private online community for momsFind us on Instagram hereWatch the podcast on YouTube hereDownload a free e-book, Worried Sick: A Compassionate Guide For Parents When Your Teen or Young Adult Child Misuses Drugs and AlcoholHopestream Community is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization and an Amazon Associate. We may make a small commission if you purchase from our links.

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they explore jealousy, reassurance, boundaries, and why most couples sabotage openness by rushing past their nervous system's capacity. If you've ever wondered whether love can survive radically different relationship needs, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know.CHAPTERS00:00 - Wait... A Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Works?11:32 - Building the Foundation Before the Poly Freedom13:00 - The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When Opening Up and How to Avoid it.20:19 - Check-Ins, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations to Build Trust28:29 - Patience. Why waiting often gets you what you want faster than pushing36:00 - Predictability Creates Safety41:00 - What's In It for the Monogamous Partner? The Overlooked Truth 48:37 - Jealousy Isn't the Enemy54:45 - Dating Monogamous People When You're PolyOther Podcast Episode MentionsVee on Polycurious Ep. 77 Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone DeepPolycurious Ep. 12 She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth________GUEST INFOGuest: Fernanda FabianWebsite: PolycuriousInstagram: @polycuriouspodcastPodcast: Polycurious PodcastEmail: polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com________

Do you rush to "kiss and make up" after a fight just to keep the peace, only to find the same argument exploding a week later? If you hate the emotional heaviness of conflict and prefer to brush past the pain to get back to the good vibes, you might be dealing with the unique wiring of a Sanguine temperament.Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin! In Episode 303, we are continuing our sub-series on how different temperaments navigate healthy, holy conflict resolution. Today, we are pointing the spotlight at the joyful, popular, and peace-loving Sanguine.Using our 4-step conflict resolution framework, PACE (Pause, Assume Goodwill, Clarify, Engage), Matt and Erin break down exactly where Sanguines naturally shine—and where they hit major relational roadblocks.In this episode, you'll discover:• The Sanguine Trap: How the fast but short-lived intensity of Sanguine anger can trick you into thinking you're "over it" when resentment is actually building underneath.• The Vices of Inconstancy & Mollis: Why avoiding the "arduous" work of deep conversations leads to shallow reconciliation.• The "FACE" Method in the Pause: How external accountability and targeted journaling can slow down your thinking and keep you focused.• Scripting for Clarity: Powerful phrases (like "I might be wrong about this, but...") to inject your natural warmth into tough, fact-based dialogues.• St. Philip Neri's Secret: How the ultimate Sanguine saint modeled heroic forgiveness and holy joy without avoiding reality.Whether you are a Sanguine looking to move from superficial harmony to true relational depth, married to one, or coaching someone with a high-spirited personality, this episode offers practical, repeatable mindset strategies to move toward real unity.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...

What if happiness isn't something you find—but something you create? In this episode, we sit down with author, speaker, coach, and three-time cancer survivor Claudia Noriega-Bernstein for a powerful conversation about choosing authentic happiness from the inside out. We explore why so many of us unknowingly hand our happiness over to other people and circumstances—and what it really takes to reclaim it.Together, we unpack the power of personal responsibility, gratitude, healthy relationships, purpose, and becoming the highest version of yourself. Whether you're navigating midlife, healing from life's challenges, or simply wondering what's next, this conversation is full of practical wisdom and inspiring perspective that will leave you thinking differently about what it means to truly thrive.Episode Highlights[0:03] - Welcoming Claudia Noriega-Bernstein and introducing the journey to authentic happiness[2:11] - Why no one else is responsible for your happiness but you[3:01] - How surviving cancer three times changed Claudia's perspective on living with purpose[5:06] - Why waiting for the "right time" keeps us from living fully today[7:58] - The difference between temporary pleasure and authentic happiness[9:37] - Daily habits that help you intentionally create more joy[13:45] - Teaching children gratitude and emotional resilience from an early age[14:50] - Why your partner isn't responsible for making you happy[18:43] - Becoming the person you're hoping to attract in your relationships[20:55] - Building inner abundance instead of seeking external validation[23:41] - Creating an avatar of your highest self to guide everyday decisions[26:46] - Growing individually while building stronger relationships[28:18] - Claudia's nonprofit mission to support and empower single mothers[33:15] - Finding your purpose by reconnecting with your "why"[35:27] - Choosing radical responsibility as the path to lasting happiness[36:22] - Where to connect with Claudia and support her Author of the Year nominationLinks & ResourcesClaudiaNoriegaBernstein.comInstagram: @Claudia_Noriega_BernsteinFacebook: @ClaudiaNoriegaBernsteinLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudia-noriega-bernstein/Vote for Claudia for the International Impact Book Awards – Author of the Year:https://apply.internationalimpactbookawards.com/public-voting-formIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!  Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Army veteran Cory Brown watched 17 people from his cavalry troop die by suicide after returning from Iraq. The loss of his closest battle buddy became a turning point. His response was "Eat Your Feelings," a YouTube cooking and storytelling show that uses food to lower the walls around grief, identity, and veteran mental health — without ever calling it therapy. Cory joins co-host Sam Nathews, a  civilian and friend who brings his own experience with loss to every episode. Together they join Tango Alpha Lima hosts Adam Marr and Joe Worley to talk about why connection beats intervention, what it really takes to get veterans to open up, and how a shared meal can do what a counselor's office sometimes can't.Also in this episode: the landmark executive order accelerating psychedelic therapy research for veterans, and new science on blast injuries and cumulative TBI that is changing how the military thinks about invisible wounds.National Commander praises executive order that expedites psychedelic treatments for mental healthLearn more about Executive Order 14401

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Are you exhausted no matter how much you sleep? Feeling detached from things you used to enjoy? In this episode of Insights from the Couch, we're diving into a topic that so many midlife women experience but often misunderstand: burnout.We unpack the clinical signs of burnout, how it differs from everyday stress, and why so many high-achieving, people-pleasing women are especially vulnerable. We also explore the surprising role that hopelessness plays in burnout and share practical ways to recharge when life feels heavy, overwhelming, and out of your control. If you've been running on empty, this conversation may help you recognize the warning signs—and start finding your way back to yourself.Episode Highlights[0:40] - What burnout really is—and why it's different from being stressed or busy[1:38] - The World Health Organization's three key markers of burnout[6:34] - Why hopelessness often becomes the hidden driver of burnout[8:50] - Reduced effectiveness, brain fog, and losing the ability to focus[10:54] - The difference between a difficult day and a true season of burnout[12:35] - Fantasizing about escape and other warning signs to watch for[13:21] - The personality traits that make some people more susceptible to burnout[15:35] - How self-improvement culture can accidentally fuel burnout[18:17] - A powerful story illustrating what happens when hopelessness takes over[23:49] - Why midlife women are especially vulnerable to burnout[25:06] - Finding purpose and meaning when life feels overwhelming[26:34] - The first step to recovery: subtraction, not addition[27:22] - The healing power of connection, laughter, and community[30:15] - Returning to the basics: sleep, nature, movement, and self-care[32:20] - The “knitting needles” metaphor and why letting go is so difficult[34:45] - Questions to ask yourself if you think burnout may be creeping in[36:03] - Why the mindset that created burnout won't necessarily get you out of itIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more! Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

I'll be honest with you — this conversation gave me chills more than once. JoJo Simmons grew up with one of the most recognizable names in music history, the son of Joseph "Run" Simmons, co-founder of Run-D.M.C. and a pioneer of hip hop culture. But what I've always respected about JoJo is that he's never coasted on that name. He's spent years carving out his own path in music, entertainment, and now podcasting, while quietly doing the harder work of becoming a present father and a committed husband. We went everywhere in this conversation. We talked about what it was like growing up under a microscope, making the kinds of mistakes every teenager makes except having them show up on TMZ. We talked about his parents, how they kept love intact through divorce, how his mother made one of the hardest decisions a parent can make to protect her son, and how his dad evolved from tough love to open communication in a way that shaped the father JoJo is today. This episode is filled with wisdom I didn't expect and moments that made me stop and think about my own home. JoJo has been married to his wife Denise for nearly seven years, together for 17. They're raising a ten-year-old daughter named Mia and a four-year-old son, Joseph, who is nonverbal and receiving occupational therapy. Watching JoJo talk about both of his kids, the way he's learning to hold space for his daughter as she grows into her own person, and the way he's modeling confidence and calm for his son, you can see a man who is fully in it. Not perfect. Fully in it. He's also building something. His podcast and media community, For Good, launched just a year ago and it's already growing fast. The name says everything: it represents forever, and it represents putting good into the world. JoJo's vision for it goes beyond episodes and downloads. He wants festivals. He wants a movement. He wants people from every walk of life sitting in a room together feeling heard and seen. After spending an hour with him, I believe he'll build it.   Timeline Summary [1:02] Growing up as the son of Run from Run-D.M.C. — the good and the hard of a very public childhood [3:47] How JoJo's parents stayed committed to their kids' wellbeing despite divorce, and why he never felt an absence of love [5:07] The arrest that showed up in the New York Times and TMZ, and the moment JoJo knew he had gone too far [10:24] What his dad did specifically that shaped the father JoJo wants to be, including the shift from discipline to conversation [14:28] Dad Edge June offer — signed copy of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood, the Patience course, and more at thedadedge.com/join [17:28] JoJo's mom: a single mother with a doctorate who ground every day, never spoke ill of his father, and made the hard call to send JoJo to live with his dad at 13 [22:23] How JoJo met Denise at McDonald's — two vegetarians, one bold move, and a phone call to her mother [28:38] Ten years of dating, a breakup, a promise ring, and why the time apart made the relationship real [32:21] How communication and being willing to ask "are we really this bad?" has kept their marriage intact through seven years [36:56] Raising a ten-year-old daughter — learning to listen instead of lead, and why how you treat her now shapes who she'll accept later [40:44] JoJo's morning routine: up at 5:30 a.m., candle lit, meditation music, 20–30 minutes of emotional regulation before the household wakes up [44:54] Raising his four-year-old son Joseph — teaching both kids that they are the value in every room they walk into [46:30] How JoJo thinks about raising kids in the public eye, protecting them from attaching their worth to fame [49:39] How the For Good podcast started, what the name means, and the community and movement JoJo is building [57:38] A ten-year dinner table visualization — what JoJo wants his wife and kids to say when they look back   Five Key Takeaways Growing up in the spotlight teaches you fast that public mistakes carry a different weight — JoJo's arrest at a pivotal teenage moment became front-page news, and he now uses that experience to stay honest with his own kids about consequence and accountability without shame. The way your parents handle their relationship with each other after a split shapes your children more than you realize — JoJo's parents never let him see the turmoil between them, and that protection of the family unit became one of the greatest gifts they gave him. Marriage takes courage from both people — brushing arguments under the rug feels like peace in the short term but builds into the bigger blowups, and JoJo has learned to address issues in the moment rather than let them accumulate. As a father of a daughter, your emotional regulation sets the template for what she will tolerate and accept in her own relationships — staying calm, listening deeply, and being the safe place she can come to at 2 a.m. at age 20 is the whole job. You are the thermostat in your home, not the thermometer — JoJo wakes up at 5:30 every morning before the household starts because he knows the energy he brings into the day is the energy the whole family will operate in.   Links & Resources Join the Dad Edge Alliance (June offer — signed book, Patience course, marriage course, and more) — https://www.thedadedge.com/join Kid Questions resource — https://www.thedadedge.com/kidquestions Full show notes for this episode — https://www.thedadedge.com/1493 For Good Podcast website — https://www.forgooduniverse.com JoJo Simmons on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/jojo_simmons For Good Podcast on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/forgoodpodcast For Good Podcast on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@ForGoodPodcast   Closing JoJo came into this conversation humble, honest, and more self-aware than I expected from someone who's been in the public eye since he was a teenager. That moment where he talked about looking back ten years from now at the dinner table — not asking for perfection, just asking that every person around that table felt seen, heard, and not forced into anything — that hit me. That's the goal. That's the whole thing. If this episode spoke to something you're working through in your own home, share it with another dad who needs to hear it. And if you haven't already, please follow The Dad Edge, leave a rating, and drop a review. Go out and live legendary.

What if one simple nutrition strategy could support healthy aging, improve metabolic health, boost energy, and even help your skin look better? In this episode of Insights from the Couch, Laura sits down with Renee Fitton, VP of Growth at Prolon and a leading voice in nutrition and longevity science, to unpack the research behind fasting and the fasting mimicking diet.We explore the growing confusion around nutrition in midlife, from protein overload to supplement fatigue, and discuss a more balanced approach to health, longevity, and wellness. Renee shares how fasting mimicking works, why autophagy matters, and what the science says about supporting your body through midlife and beyond. If you've been curious about fasting but overwhelmed by conflicting advice, this conversation is a great place to start.Episode Highlights[0:03] - Laura introduces Renee Fitton and the science-backed world of fasting and longevity[2:13] - Why so many midlife women feel overwhelmed by health and nutrition advice[2:52] - What Prolon is and how a fasting mimicking diet works[6:30] - The current protein craze: what's helpful, what's excessive, and what longevity research suggests[13:36] - Understanding autophagy and the body's natural repair and rejuvenation process[15:44] - The surprising health benefits linked to fasting mimicking, from metabolic markers to skin health[17:28] - How long the benefits last and why fasting may improve your relationship with food[19:30] - Renee shares her personal experience completing multiple fasting mimicking cycles[22:19] - What you actually eat during a Prolon fast and how manageable it feels day-to-day[24:02] - The real-world changes Renee notices in energy, sleep, skin, and mental clarity[27:01] - Who should avoid fasting mimicking and important safety considerations[28:24] - Fasting, cancer recovery research, and resources for survivors[30:18] - Why a gentle 12-hour circadian fast may be more effective than extreme intermittent fasting[32:35] - The hidden impact of skipping breakfast and relying on coffee[34:03] - Why fasting mimicking can be especially beneficial for women in midlife[37:43] - Where to learn more about Prolon and how to get startedLinks & ResourcesProlon Life: https://prolonlife.comRenee Fitton on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fittonnutritionRenee Fitton on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reneefitton/If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Send us Fan MailMost people do not stay stuck because the storm is too strong. They stay stuck because they keep running from what they need to face.In this episode of The Mindset Café, we break down the buffalo vs. cow mindset: the difference between avoiding hard things and running directly toward them. Whether it is your fitness, business, money, relationships, or mindset, avoidance does not remove the problem. It usually makes the problem more expensive.You'll learn why avoidance feels good in the moment, why it destroys confidence over time, and how to build a simple “storm protocol” for facing hard things faster. The goal is not to be fearless. The goal is to be honest fast, move with intention, and stop letting discomfort control your life.Run toward the storm.Support the showThanks for listening & being part of the Mindset Cafe Community.----------------------------------------------Follow On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/devan.gonzalez/Let me know what topics or questions you want covered so we can help you achieve your goals faster.----------------------------------------------Are you taking the right supplements to maximize your mind and body in fitness & health. Take a FREE Quiz to see if you are.> FREE QUIZ

In this episode, Charles discusses why leaders shy away from hard conversations and how addressing issues early builds trust, accountability, and stronger teams.Our goal is to connect you to leaders and leadership principles from all sectors. We want your feedback! Give us a 5-star review if you like what you hear, and leave a comment. We also want to know what you want to hear about when it comes to leadership! Email us at charles@bluelionleadership.comLeaderLink Podcast is an ad-free product of Blue Lion Leadership, hosted by Charles Heasley.

On this episode of the Real Life Theology Podcast, Shodankeh Johnson, about having hard conversations in prayer with God and how faith grows through suffering. He shares personal stories—including the loss of his son—reflecting on missionary legacy, intercession, and the need for a conquering faith that seeks to please God, believes He exists, and trusts He will reward those who diligently seek Him. Johnson also encourages revival in the church in America and calls listeners to step aside for God to move, trusting in God's faithfulness amid pain. Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew-app-page.bolt.host/ Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Step into Episode 216 of On The Delo as Delo sits down with Roland Wood III — a Phoenix-born, west-side-raised finance veteran who went from staff accountant to CFO across some of Arizona's most recognized restaurant concepts, including Grimaldi's and Square One. Roland pulls back the curtain on what a CFO actually does, why the best ones never win a popularity contest, and how "if the math doesn't math" sometimes the answer just has to be no.From navigating 50 Grimaldi's locations during a financial restructuring and securing $6–7M in COVID relief programs for Square One, to breaking down food cost management, inventory tech, marketing ROI, and the real value of fractional CFO services for growing hospitality groups — this conversation is packed with honest, practical perspective that operators, owners, and industry professionals rarely get to hear. Roland also unpacks why cutting quality to save margin is a long-game trap, how to use fixed pricing agreements to avoid supply volatility, and why "you will never save your way to prosperity."Chapter Guide (Timestamps):(0:00 - 1:50) Delo's New Book: Risky Business & Intro to Roland Wood III(1:51 - 5:06) Roland's Background, West Side Phoenix & the Restaurant Scene(5:07 - 9:28) School, ASU, Early Career & How Roland Landed in Restaurants(9:29 - 13:54) What a CFO Actually Does: Banking, Cash Flow & Hard Conversations(13:55 - 17:22) Grimaldi's: 50 Locations, Capital Structure & Food Cost Differences(17:23 - 21:38) Inventory Tech, ERP Systems, Cogswell, Craftable & Portion Decisions(21:39 - 25:09) Food Pricing Strategy, Fixed Agreements & Hedging Against Volatility(25:10 - 27:52) Marketing ROI: How Finance Holds Marketing Accountable for Traffic(27:53 - 32:28) Square One: COVID-Era Entry, Multi-Concept Finance & Barrett's Portfolio(32:29 - 34:47) Fractional CFO Services: Who It's For, Ideal Client & the Value Proposition(34:48 - 42:21) Rapid Fire + Roland's Finance Philosophy: Invest, Don't Just Cut(42:22 - 42:43) Delo's Close, Book Promo & Podcast Sponsor Mention

Jim Putman shares his journey from rejecting the church to embracing discipleship, arguing that hard conversations require deep relationships. He emphasizes the need to hold both sound doctrine and Jesus' methods together, what he calls "two-fisted" faith, so the church can effectively make disciples and withstand cultural pressures. He warns against prioritizing relationship at the expense of Scripture, urging leaders to equip believers to live out and pass on the faith instead of producing passive spectators.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew-app-page.bolt.host/ Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Have you ever found yourself wondering whether a friendship has run its course—or if a difficult conversation could actually save it? In this episode, we're diving into one of the hardest relationship challenges women face in midlife: friendship breakups. We explore what happens when a friendship feels one-sided, when trust has been broken, or when life changes reveal who's truly in your corner.We also share our own experiences with friendship loss, hurt feelings, resentment, and the courage it takes to have honest conversations. If you've been struggling with a friendship that no longer feels good, this episode will help you think through what's really happening beneath the surface and whether repair, distance, or closure is the next right step.Episode Highlights[0:40] - Why friendship breakups are so difficult—and why they matter in midlife[1:14] - The powerful role female friendships play in creating a meaningful life[3:28] - What healthy friendships look like: support, reciprocity, honesty, and emotional safety[5:06] - How major life events reveal who your true friends are[8:18] - Outgrowing friendships, one-sided relationships, and evaluating where your energy goes[10:21] - A candid look at reciprocity and what keeps friendships strong over time[14:53] - Signs that something may be wrong in a friendship[16:02] - Laura shares the heartbreak of losing a friendship without closure[18:33] - Colette opens up about having a difficult conversation after feeling deeply hurt by a friend[20:57] - Can friendships recover after honest confrontation?[24:31] - Why speaking up may be the only chance a wounded friendship has to heal[26:02] - Practical steps to take before deciding to end a friendship[27:19] - Don't mistake a difficult season for the end of a relationship[28:38] - The importance of reciprocity, honesty, and emotional investment[31:09] - Why midlife may be a season of pruning relationships[31:32] - How to confront a friendship issue with clarity, kindness, and vulnerability[33:33] - The mistake many adults make when pulling away from friendships[34:43] - Why difficult conversations are usually easier than we imagine[36:09] - How repair can deepen and strengthen meaningful friendshipsIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Can Christians disagree without destroying relationships?In a culture fueled by outrage, Jesus modeled a better way.This episode explores how Jesus approached hard conversations—with grace, truth, curiosity, humility, and love. From political disagreements to church conflict to conversations about identity and sexuality, we discuss practical ways to engage people without losing sight of the gospel.If you've ever felt hurt by the church, frustrated by Christian culture, or uncertain how faith fits into today's conversations, this episode is for you.The goal isn't winning arguments.The goal is becoming more like Jesus.Listen now and discover how healthy conversations can become opportunities for healing, understanding, and spiritual growth.

JP Nerbun's 10-year-old daughter said something on the walk to the bus that stopped him cold: "She's climbing the mountain of achievement without any purpose." That one line is the heart of this entire conversation.This special episode drops on the launch day of JP's new book The Culture Captain — a field guide for athletes learning to lead from the inside out. JP sits down with longtime friend John O'Sullivan, founder of the Changing the Game Project and co-author of Captain: The Athlete's Guide to Being an Exceptional Team Leader (with Jerry Lynch). Two books. Same subject. Written simultaneously, on opposite sides of the Atlantic. They go deep on self-awareness as the foundation of leadership, why modeling behaviors beats locker room speeches, how to have a difficult conversation before you feel ready, and what it means to lead from the bench when things aren't going your way.Whether you coach athletes, lead a team, or are still figuring out who you are as a leader — this one is for you.Chapters(00:00) Intro — JP's Daughter & Book Launch(02:30) Why John Wrote Captain(05:52) Why JP Wrote The Culture Captain(15:54) The Fable Format — Why JP Chose Lily(19:00) The Four Levels of Leadership(25:13) Surprises from Writing(31:15) The Hardest Lesson to Put Into Words(34:05) Hard Conversations as Life Skills(39:15) From Sports to the Workplace(43:48) What Had to Be Left Out(47:08) Approaching a Difficult Teammate(53:05) Coaching the Reluctant Leader(59:43) Tom Brady on Playing Where You Love People(1:01:26) Success vs. Fulfillment(1:04:00) Lead From the Bench(1:09:02) How Will You Know the Book Succeeded?(1:12:43) Why This Book Mattered MostTOC 3-2-13 Quotes | 2 Questions | 1 ResourceYour fast-track to the episode's most actionable ideas."She's climbing the mountain of achievement without any purpose."— JP Nerbun's daughter, age 10"Success is the goal, but it's not the purpose. Fulfillment should be the purpose. This is what coaches need to provide."— John O'Sullivan"You pick up the cones and balls, you serve others. You do that and people go, man, if that's the captain doing it, I better do it too."— John O'Sullivan2 Questions for Your TeamQ1: Think of an athlete who is putting in the work but seems to have lost their joy. What would it look like to help them reconnect with purpose rather than achievement?Q2: What is it currently costing your team — in trust, momentum, or culture — to avoid a hard conversation that needs to happen?1 Resource to Go DeeperThe Culture Captain by JP NerbunA field guide for athletes learning to lead with purpose, values, and selflessness — told through a fable and backed by real stories from Tim Duncan, Tom Brady, Abby Wambach, and more.Get The Culture Captain at culturecaptain.netCaptain: The Athlete's Guide to Being an Exceptional Team Leader by John O'Sullivan & Jerry LynchQualities, responsibilities, and challenges for every team captain — grounded in research and real stories from high school to the pros.Visit changingthegameproject.comKey TakeawaysKnow Yourself Before You Lead AnyoneSelflessness Is the Hallmark of Great CaptainsModeling Behaviors Beats Locker Room SpeechesReluctant Leaders Are Still LeadersFulfillment, Not Success, Is the Real PurposeThe Difficult Conversation IS the LeadershipGet the notes and tools:tocculture.comJoin TOC Coach — community, courses, and live coaching:tocculture.comBetter Coaches. Better Leaders. Better Culture.

Tina Wilson explores how ministry often requires difficult conversations and why feelings alone can derail truth. She points to Jesus' walk to Emmaus as a model for prioritizing the authority of Scripture over emotions.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew-app-page.bolt.host/ Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Self-regulation is the skill underneath every hard conversation — but most of us confuse calming down with being ready to really communicate. They're not the same, and the gap is why the same argument keeps circling back, round after round, with both people feeling unheard.Georgianna and Steph separate self-regulation from real readiness: the conscious relationship skill of staying steady when the other person sighs, pushes back, or goes quiet. The most-skipped part of readiness is holding some curiosity and care for the other person while you're still hurt. Georgianna walks through a hindsight practice — done on your own, or with someone you trust — for moving trapped fight-or-flight energy, naming what you actually feel and need, and getting curious about what the other person might be carrying. This is emotional integration work that's important to practice before the stakes are high.What you'll learn:Why feeling calmer after a fight isn't the same as being ready to talkThe eye-roll test for whether you're actually readyWhat self-regulation really involves in the moment, beyond "I'm fine"The piece most people skip: curiosity for the other person, not just yourselfA practice for moving stuck fight-or-flight energy before you talkThe "detective" move that builds curiosity when you're still shut downWhy readiness is something you track all the way through, not a one-time arrivalReadiness isn't something you summon in the heat of the moment, you build it beforehand. This means slowing-down — which is exactly what the show turns to next: Our first season, Slow Dating, launches July 8, with conversations that reach far beyond dating and apply in every area of choice-making in your life.Resources Mentioned:Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practiceConscious Relationship Training — 10-week live cohort, twice yearly; fall cohort doors open soonThe Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — self-paced practice library

Welcome to the Real Life Theology Podcast episode with Kimberly Beam Holmes. She shares the true story of Jordan and Priscilla, exploring how church leaders mishandled their marriage crisis, the damage of poor counsel, and the hope Marriage Helper offers for saving marriages even after affairs and divorce. Kimberly urges church leaders to courageously, compassionately engage struggling couples, believe every marriage can be saved, and provide enduring support that prioritizes reconciliation and the wellbeing of children.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew-app-page.bolt.host/ Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Have you ever experienced a betrayal that completely shook your sense of self? In this powerful conversation, we sit down with betrayal recovery expert Dr. Debi Silber to unpack why betrayal cuts so deeply, how it impacts our mental, emotional, and physical health, and what it really takes to heal. If you've ever felt stuck replaying the past, struggling to trust again, or wondering why certain wounds seem impossible to move beyond, this episode is for you.Together, we explore Dr. Debi's groundbreaking research on post-betrayal transformation, the surprising symptoms of post-betrayal syndrome, and the five predictable stages of healing. Most importantly, we talk about what's possible on the other side of heartbreak, loss, and disappointment—and why your greatest growth may still be ahead of you. Episode Highlights[0:03] - We introduce Dr. Debi Silber and the life-changing topic of post-betrayal transformation.[2:44] - Dr. Debi shares her personal story of family and marital betrayal that led her to study betrayal recovery.[4:07] - The first major discovery from her research: why betrayal is different from other forms of trauma.[6:01] - How betrayal destroys trust in others—and in ourselves—and why trust must be rebuilt, not repaired.[10:45] - Signs of unhealed betrayal, including repeated relationship patterns, poor boundaries, and emotional self-protection.[16:38] - The surprising symptoms of post-betrayal syndrome and how betrayal impacts physical, mental, and emotional health.[19:28] - Dr. Debi reveals the five stages of healing from betrayal and why so many people get stuck in survival mode.[24:31] - We discuss numbing, emotional eating, overworking, and other coping strategies that keep people trapped in stage three.[29:03] - Four powerful questions to help identify where you're stuck and begin moving toward healing.[32:24] - Why awareness, honesty, and self-reflection are essential for creating lasting transformation.[35:40] - “Hard now, easy later. Easy now, hard later.” Dr. Debi shares a simple mantra for healing and growth.[37:27] - The three groups of people who did not heal in Dr. Debi's research—and the lessons we can learn from them.[39:40] - What life looks like in stage five: healing, confidence, self-trust, and post-betrayal transformation.[40:57] - How to connect with Dr. Debi and learn more about her work.Links & ResourcesThe Post Betrayal Transformation Institute: https://thepostbetrayalinstitute.com/If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Send Katie a Text Message!! In this special joint episode of Success by Design and Design for the Creative Mind, Michelle Lynne and I kick off a new series called The Art of Being the Principal. We dive into what it really takes to lead a successful interior design firm, move beyond being the operator of your business, and step fully into the role of CEO.If you're balancing design work, team management, marketing, finances, and client demands while wondering why growth still feels so hard, this conversation is for you.IN THIS EPISODE:• The difference between being a business owner and a business operator• Why most designers struggle to step into the CEO role• How systems and processes create more freedom and creativity• What to delegate first as your firm grows• Why protecting your time is critical to scaling sustainably• The importance of hiring the right people and creating accountability• How to stop working harder and start leading smarter• Why successful principals make time for strategy, not just executionMost interior designers don't need to become better designers—they need to become stronger leaders. In this conversation, Michelle and I share honest insights about delegation, leadership, decision-making, and building a firm that supports your life instead of consuming it.If you're ready to move from constantly doing the work to confidently leading the business, this episode will challenge the way you think about growth.Your business should be working for you—not you working for it. This conversation is all about how to make that happen.• Connect with Michelle Lynne: https://www.michellelynne.comConnect with KatieLinkedInBusiness Strategy Sessions for Interior Designers Free Resources for scaling your interior design firmWebsite

Matt Wilson speaks at a Renew gathering about how the church has sidelined masculinity, the cultural forces that softened men, and why the church must actively disciple and equip men to be courageous, loving defenders of truth. He explores scriptural foundations, the role of intention in gendered behavior, and practical steps churches can take to raise up strong, godly men without compromising compassion.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew.org/renew-app/    Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

When something feels off with someone we care about, most of us don't blow up. We go quiet. We change the subject. We say "it's fine." We tell ourselves we're being kind, being mature, keeping the peace. But silence is rarely neutral. When we go quiet, we think we're closing the subject — and instead we're leaving it wide open, handing the other person a blank space to fill with their own story. Usually a worse one than the truth. In this episode, Robin Keehn looks at the engine underneath resentment: going quiet. The many polite costumes it wears, the reasons we reach for it, and the real cost — trust that erodes in the unsaid, distance that grows one quiet day at a time. She offers an honest test for telling wise restraint apart from avoidance, and a small place to start: one sentence, beginning with "Here's what I've noticed." This episode builds on Episode 1 (How Resentment Quietly Builds) and pairs with Robin's piece The Apology No One Thinks to Give. In this episode: Why we go quiet instead of saying the hard thing The polite costumes silence wears — "it's fine," the dropped subject, the slow pull-back How to tell wise restraint apart from avoidance What silence actually does: the story the other person invents, the erosion of trust, the growing distance Why "keeping the peace" often means keeping the loop open How to start with one honest sentence — and what to do when the other person is already gone  Ready to Close Your Loops? Join the 5 Day Detox Your To-Do List Challenge June 29-July 3rd.  Register here. https://pplskillz.com/challenge If this episode resonated with you, you might enjoy our free People Skillz community — a structured space to practice steadier, more intentional communication. We also created a short Communication Patterns Quiz to help you identify how you respond under pressure. You'll find both here.

Orpheus Heyward joins the Real Life Theology Podcast to discuss how Christians should engage and resist culture. Drawing on Romans 12, he explains being a transformed, non‑conformist driven by God's mercy, the ‘‘New Testament sacrificial system,'' and living differently so others see Christ in us.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew.org/renew-app/    Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Beginning again in midlife can feel equal parts terrifying and exhilarating. Whether life forced a reset through divorce, loss, burnout, empty nesting, or you simply feel a quiet ache for something more, this conversation explores what it really means to start over — and why so many women find themselves standing at this crossroads. We unpack the fear of change, the comfort traps that keep us stuck, and the surprising beauty that can come from allowing yourself to become someone new. We also get honest about reinvention, post-traumatic growth, intuition, grief, and learning to trust yourself again. From sitting in uncertainty to reconnecting with the parts of yourself that got buried under responsibility, this is a conversation about choosing yourself without apology and creating a life that finally feels aligned. Episode Highlights[0:03] Why beginning again is such a common midlife experience for women[4:23] How comfort and familiarity quietly keep us stuck longer than we realize[6:57] Colette shares the painful aftermath of divorce and the growth that came from it[10:17] Why transformation sounds inspiring but often feels brutal while you're living it[12:34] The difference between wanting change and fully committing to it[15:47] Letting life move through you instead of trying to force every outcome[18:49] Powerful questions to ask yourself when you feel disconnected or stuck[20:25] Learning to disappoint others in order to stop abandoning yourself[23:57] Understanding “the void” and why uncertainty can actually be part of growth[26:46] Small ways to reconnect with intuition, creativity, and inner wisdom[31:13] Why reinvention is often about remembering who you were before the world shaped you[35:22] Gentle ways to begin again without blowing up your entire life[37:13] Measuring yourself by your growth instead of how far you still have to go[38:29] The powerful life regret that changes how we think about purpose and fulfillmentIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

David Young recounts a sudden, life-changing cancer diagnosis and the physical, emotional, and spiritual battles that followed. He reflects on doubt, renewed faith, the power of gratitude, the kindness that carried him, and why focusing on disciple making and church planting gave his life new purpose.   Download the free RENEW.org App - https://renew.org/renew-app/    Visit RENEW: https://renew.org/   Check out the following from RENEW.org: Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/ Videos: https://renew.org/media/videos/ Podcasts: https://renew.org/media/podcasts/ Articles: https://renew.org/articles/ Free eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/ Books: https://renew.org/resources/books/ Audiobooks: https://renew.org/resources/audiobooks/ Sermon Tools: https://renew.org/resources/sermon-tools/ Job Board: https://jobs.renew.org/ Renew University: https://renewuniversity.org/ Real Life Theology Conversations: https://renew.org/rltc/ Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/

Fi is back for the first time in nearly a year, and this episode feels like the best kind of best-friend catch-up — nothing off limits. Fi gets fully honest about going off her GLP-1 medication, thinking she'd cracked the code, only to have the food noise come back full force and gain everything back in two months flat. She breaks down what she did wrong the first time, what Oprah's book Enough shifted for her, and how she's approaching round two differently. Mari opens up about an emotional spiral she had the day before recording — staring at Cai and being blindsided by grief and anger about her own childhood — and the two get into one of the most raw conversations the show has had about parenthood, the past, and what it means to protect your kid the way you wished someone had protected you. They also finally tell the real story of their friendship — the codependency, the hard conversation, the awkward in-between — plus Fi's booming real estate career, her baseball player boyfriend who actually shows up, CO2 laser updates, internet mom-shamers, and one nap they catastrophically destroyed together. _____ Leave Me a Message -⁠ click here!⁠ For Mari's Instagram⁠ click here!⁠ For Pursuit of Wellness Podcast's Instagram⁠ click here!⁠ For Mari's Newsletter⁠ click here!⁠ For Mari's TikTok⁠ click here! To work with Fi click here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Resentment Quietly Builds In this episode of The Liberated Life Podcast, Robin Keehn opens a new conversation about what happens underneath our relationships — especially when something needed to be said, but wasn't. Resentment does not usually arrive all at once. It accumulates. A tone. A look. A changed plan. A moment of being overlooked. A “yes” that should have been a “no.” None of these may seem dramatic on its own, but together they begin to form a story. Robin shares how resentment often grows in the space between what happened and what was never spoken. She introduces the idea of an Open Loop — something unfinished, incomplete, or outdated that continues draining your time, energy, and peace — and an Unspoken Broken, a relational loop that stays open because it was never named. You'll hear why resentment is not always proof that the other person is bad. Sometimes it is a signal that something remains unfinished. In this episode, Robin talks about:  How resentment quietly accumulates over time Why small moments can carry a surprising amount of weight The difference between truly releasing something and simply not bringing it up How “always” and “never” stories begin to form in relationships Why unspoken moments become Open Loops What an Unspoken Broken is and why it matters How to begin with “Here's what I've noticed” instead of an accusation The two questions to ask before having a hard conversation: Why am I sharing this?What do I actually want here? Why closing one loop can begin to restore your time, energy, and peace “Resentment is interest on a debt nobody named.” Where have you gone quiet — and what has that silence been costing you? Want a place to start? Download Robin's free tool, Close One Loop, and walk through one open loop from start to finish in just a few minutes. Go to: closetheloopsnow.com/tool You'll also be the first to hear about Robin's upcoming five-day challenge at the end of June. If this episode resonated with you, you might enjoy our free People Skillz community — a structured space to practice steadier, more intentional communication. We also created a short Communication Patterns Quiz to help you identify how you respond under pressure. You'll find both here.

Communication is one of the biggest things that can either build connection or slowly break it down in relationships. In this episode, Shiv and Dave have an honest conversation about what actually makes communication healthy, why so many of us struggle to express what we feel, and how understanding yourself is a huge part of being able to communicate well with someone else. They dive into emotional awareness and the difference between reacting versus truly communicating. This episode is a reminder that good communication is not about saying the perfect thing, it's about learning how to understand yourself enough to show up honestly, clearly, and with connection. *For our Spotify listeners who enjoy watching the podcast, I totally forgot to turn my camera off after the episode and lost the footage, whoops! So sorry, but the episode was too good to not launch without the video! -Shiv   Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us or find Dave's course here: Dave: https://stan.store/davemartinell Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min   ⟡ Instagram:   / https://www.instagram.com/allofyoupodcast/ ⟡ TikTok:   / https://www.tiktok.com/@allofyoupodcast ⟡ Email: Hello@allofyoupodcast.com

You walk onto a job that's already sold, the deposit is in the bank, and your crew hits an unpredicted roadblock. Something was missed in the initial walkthrough. Do you eat the cost and call it "the price of doing business," or do you face the discomfort and write a change order?In this episode, Tim and Derek break down the internal friction contractors face when asking for more money. They talk about how avoiding a 10-minute awkward conversation can lead to a thousand tiny financial cuts by the end of the project. You'll learn how to implement ongoing job costing, how daily team communication protects your margins, and how to spot honest project enhancements that give clients a better result while saving your bottom line.Stop leaving your profit on the table because you'd rather deal with the discomfort of losing money than the discomfort of speaking up.============================================================Level up your operation and stop running your business on fear. Join THE COMMAND™ today to get the tools, brotherhood, and strategy you need to dominate your market. https://thecontractorfight.com/command============================================================== Rate the Podcast ==Help your fellow contractors find the podcast! Please leave a rating/review.Apple PodcastsSpotify

The world is more divided now than ever. Hard conversations are even harder to get into these days, and it is quite easy to get hostile to people who are not on your side. Corinna Bellizzi explores what it takes to heal these huge divides in society with Corey Nathan, host and producer of Talkin' Politics & Religion Without Killin' Each Other. Together, they discuss how to get centered with our values, ethics, and unique humanness to bridge the chasms in our political and religious spaces. Corey explains what it means to harden yourself in this age when fear-mongering and lying have become so commonplace, how to remain open and curious, and how to fix the brokenness of the world one degree at a time. COMPLETE BLOG & TRANSCRIPT: https://caremorebebetter.com/finding-common-ground-in-hard-conversations-with-corey-nathan/ About Guest: Corey Nathan is the host and producer of "Talkin' Politics & Religion Without Killin' Each Other," a podcast dedicated to bridging deep divides through honest, good-humored conversation. His path to this work is personal: raised in an observant Jewish household, he became a born-again Christian in his late 20s, navigating some of the hardest conversations imaginable with family and community. That experience became a calling. An entrepreneur with businesses ranging from executive search to the service sector to podcast production, Corey now focuses primarily on helping people across religious, political, and social divides actually listen to one another. His podcast is part of The Democracy Group, a network of shows working to repair civic culture. Guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreysnathan/ Guest Website: https://www.politicsandreligion.us Guest Social:  https://www.instagram.com/coreysnathan/ https://www.facebook.com/coreysnathan https://www.youtube.com/@politicsandreligion https://substack.com/@coreysnathan Show Notes: 02:30 - The Costs Of Not Having Hard Conversations 16:26 - Bridging The Gap Of Religious Divides 21:22 - Preserving What Makes Us Uniquely Human 35:07 - Finding A Common Ground Despite Disagreements 42:56 - The Immense Power Of “Tell Me More” 54:05 - Approach Hard Topics One Degree At A Time 55:05 - Discussion Wrap-up And Closing Words BUILD A GREENER FUTURE with CARE MORE BE BETTER Together, we planted 36,044 trees in 2025 through our partnership with ForestPlanet. We screamed past our goal of planting 20,000 trees thanks to subscribers like you! CAUSE PARTNER: If you value open dialogue, sustainability, and social equity, I invite you to support our new cause partner — Prescott College. To learn more about this effort and to support the show, visit: https://caremorebebetter.com/support/ Follow us on social media: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/caremorebebetter TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@caremorebebetter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caremorebebetter Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CareMoreBeBetter LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/care-more-be-better Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We can hardly believe we're celebrating 100 episodes of Insights from the Couch — and this conversation became such a meaningful reflection on everything we've learned alongside all of you. In this episode, we revisit some of our favorite guests, biggest mindset shifts, and the ideas that have most deeply impacted us as therapists, women, mothers, and humans navigating midlife in real time.From Katherine Woodward Thomas's powerful work on “source fracture stories” to conversations around menopause, reinvention, purpose, parenting adult children, and stepping into your next chapter, this episode is about what it really means to stay engaged with your life. We talk honestly about grief, growth, fear, ambition, creativity, and why midlife may actually be the richest, most transformative season yet. If you've been feeling stuck, restless, uncertain, or quietly craving more, this conversation is for you.Episode Highlights[0:00] - Celebrating 100 episodes and reflecting on the journey that brought us here[1:20] - Remembering Katherine Woodward Thomas and the impact of her work on transformation[3:25] - “Source fracture stories” and how self-limiting beliefs quietly shape our lives[5:40] - How we unknowingly recreate the very fears and narratives we carry[8:40] - Colette opens up about social anxiety, public speaking, and setting “impossible” goals[10:20] - Incremental growth vs. radical expansion: how women hold themselves back from bigger possibilities[11:45] - Favorite guests and conversations that shifted our perspectives on relationships, narcissism, menopause, and midlife health[14:00] - Why simpler living, less clutter, and more intentionality feel increasingly important[16:35] - Estate sales, accumulation, and the emotional weight of “stuff”[19:05] - Reinvention, beginning again, and why midlife can become a creative renaissance[20:30] - Why these years can either become fertile ground for growth or a season of feeling emotionally stuck[22:15] - Processing the grief and identity shifts that come with children growing up and leaving home[24:20] - Why women deserve fully vibrant emotional, creative, and purposeful lives[26:35] - Parenting adult children and learning from the freedom and courage of their 20s[28:00] - How source fracture stories and self-limiting beliefs quietly block purpose and fulfillment[29:10] - Why becoming an “activated adult” is one of the greatest gifts we can give our children[30:20] - What it means to stay actively engaged with your life in midlife and beyondLinks & ResourcesIf today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Giving feedback can feel uncomfortable, especially when we worry about how it will be received. We explore how to approach constructive feedback in a way that builds trust instead of triggering defensiveness. By focusing on observable behavior rather than the individual, we can shift conversations away from blame and toward growth. We also highlight how emotions, past experiences, and even small forms of trauma can influence how feedback is interpreted.We discuss practical strategies like choosing the right time and setting, using collaborative language, and asking thoughtful questions instead of giving directives. Small adjustments in tone, body language, and pacing can make a meaningful difference in how feedback lands. We also emphasize the importance of keeping feedback manageable and creating space for dialogue so others feel heard and supported.When feedback is delivered with empathy and clarity, it strengthens relationships with staff and caregivers while improving outcomes for learners. Creating a culture where feedback feels safe and constructive allows everyone to grow together and stay aligned on shared goals.What's Inside: How to give feedback without triggering defensivenessPractical strategies for staff and caregiver conversationsCommon mistakes to avoid when delivering feedbackMentioned in This Episode:Episode 217: Hard Conversations, Soft Skills: Navigating Difficult Parent & Staff InteractionsHowToABA.com/joinHow to ABA on YouTubeFind us on FacebookFollow us on Instagram

Her career started in Philadelphia public schools in the 90s, full of idealism and a master's in counseling psychology. A decade later, she was coaching executives in global corporations. Now Sage Hobbs coaches school principals and superintendents on the skill that drives everything else — the ability to have conversations that actually matter. She is the author of Naked Communication: Courageously Create the Relationships You Really Want and the host of the Principal Pep Talks podcast. School leadership research points to strategy, curriculum, data, and policy as the levers that move outcomes. Sage Hobbs will tell you those are all downstream of something simpler: the conversations principals are avoiding. If you've ever softened a message that needed to land hard, or left a difficult conversation for "another time" that never came, this episode is the diagnosis.

Dental practice owners will wait 8 months to have an 11-minute conversation.Here's what Dr. Dave learned the hard way: the conversation isn't the hard part. Avoiding it is what's costing you: your team, your sleep, and the version of you your family gets at 6pm.In this episode, you'll learn the 7 rules that make hard conversations easier, the one distinction that turns confrontation into clarity, and the reframe that ends the cycle of postponing the same conversation forever.Listen now and find out which conversation you're going to stop avoiding this week.

The Daily Agent Reset is a short daily audio message from Tim and Julie Harris designed to help real estate agents start the day focused, motivated, and ready to take action. Today's message: You are paid for conversations that other people avoid. For more coaching and training, listen to Tim and Julie Harris Real Estate Coaching and Training. For best scripts, strategies, and daily training: https://HarrisRealEstateDaily.com

If you struggle with boundaries, you can end up “nice”… and quietly miserable. Because when conflict shows up, you default to appeasing, avoiding, or people-pleasing. And then the same communication problems keep replaying until your emotional intimacy erodes. In this conversation, I'm joined by Kelvin Davis to talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and what it looks like to stop performing “niceness” and start showing up with honesty, courage, and self-respect. Kelvin shares how therapy helped him recognize his own people pleasing patterns, his fear of conflict, and the ways that conflict avoidance shaped his marriage, his identity, and his growth. If you've been trying to understand how to stop being a people pleaser, or why people pleasing keeps costing you closeness, clarity, and respect, this episode is for you. We're also talking about how to set boundaries without becoming cold, defensive, or rigid. Kelvin opens up about emotional avoidance, approval-seeking, and the painful moment of realizing that being liked is not the same thing as being respected. Together, we explore the hidden cost of conflict avoidance, the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man, and why emotional intimacy begins to erode when hard conversations never really happen. This is a thoughtful conversation about people pleasing, relationships, self-respect, and what it takes to choose growth over comfort. Kelvin Davis is the founder and creator of Notoriously Dapper, a body positive menswear blog showcasing outfits to inspire men of all sizes to find confidence in their appearance. Notoriously Dapper was created to inspire all men to embrace who they are. In this episode, he brings that same message of authenticity to emotional growth too: how to stop shrinking, how to set boundaries, and how to become someone who can stay kind without abandoning themselves. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Nice Guy Syndrome and People-Pleasing 02:50 From Nice Guy to Good Man 08:49 Emotional Cheating and Emotional Intimacy 12:07 How to Set Boundaries 24:07 Choose Hard Now, Easy Later 34:20 Be Buffalo, Not Cows 39:06 Hard Conversations and Conflict Avoidance 53:56 Boundaries, Balance, and Respect If this conversation hit something tender in you, I'd love to offer you a way to take the next step. When you've spent a long time being the one who keeps the peace, avoids conflict, or bends yourself into whatever other people need, it can be hard to know how to begin doing something different. You deserve support with that. You can answer three quick questions so we can help you schedule a free consultation with the right expert on my team. It's private, secure, and only takes a couple of minutes. If you're ready to work on people pleasing, how to set boundaries, or the relationship patterns that keep replaying in your life, this is a warm, thoughtful place to begin. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Upwork — and it's a sponsorship I said yes to because I actually use it. When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals across 125+ categories, from marketing to web development to operations support. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.OSEA - Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order