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Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!

Davey Wavey


    • May 26, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 57m AVG DURATION
    • 329 EPISODES

    4.4 from 216 ratings Listeners of Himeros LIVE that love the show mention: gay sex, gay men, davey, finn, kink, sexy, xoxo, matt, tv, educational, lol, open, together, friends, topics, lot, funny, entertaining, guys, show.


    Ivy Insights

    The Himeros LIVE podcast is a must-listen for anyone interested in exploring intimate connections and expanding their understanding of sexuality. As a pansexual woman, I have learned so much from this podcast and truly appreciate the vulnerability that the hosts bring to each episode. The ice breaker questions are both thought-provoking and hilarious, setting the stage for engaging conversations. The panel discussion format allows for a diverse range of perspectives and experiences to be shared, making it relatable to listeners from all walks of life. The podcast covers a wide range of topics, from current events to sexual exploration, making it an informative and entertaining listen.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is how the hosts open up about their personal experiences in such a vulnerable way. It creates a sense of connection and authenticity that is refreshing to hear. The discussions on race and racism are particularly well done, showing that the podcast goes beyond just surface-level conversations. The topics covered are not only informative, but also promote self-growth and exploration.

    While there aren't many negative aspects to this podcast, some listeners might find certain topics uncomfortable or explicit. It's important to note that this is an adult-oriented podcast that delves into sexuality in an open and honest manner. However, if you're looking for informative discussions around sex and relationships, this podcast delivers.

    In conclusion, The Himeros LIVE podcast is an incredible resource for anyone interested in deepening their understanding of intimacy, connection, and sexuality. With its relatable panel discussions, thought-provoking ice breaker questions, and engaging conversations around current events, it offers a unique blend of education and entertainment. Whether you're new to exploring your own desires or simply looking for honest conversations about sexuality, this podcast has something valuable to offer.



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    Latest episodes from Himeros LIVE

    Episode 333: More to Come...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 26:13


    It's the very last episode of Himeros Backstage! Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss what they've loved, what's been the most challenging, and what they'll take away from the podcast. Plus: a special guest appearance by their boyfriends Ryan and Zac! "You are loved, you belong, your stories matter, your pleasure and your joy matters." (Mossy)

    Episode 332: Play Time

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 53:07


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells for the last time! They discuss the appeal of being used like a plaything, why hot guys don't always equal good sex, and how sluttiness can be sexy. They also reminisce about their favorite Himeros moments together: the worst episode ever (recorded while stoned), Duane's behind-the-scenes interviews with models during a Himeros shoot, and their #OutOnTheRoad Youtube travel series.

    Episode 331: Opening Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 48:48


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by Kyle and Mike from Gayish. They discuss their new book You're Probably Gayish: The Truth (and Lies) Behind 17 Gay Stereotypes, Kyle's cum shot preferences, how to navigate threesomes, and whether our community is actually evolving sexually.

    Episode 330: Little Red Riding Hood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 54:42


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone and sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur to discuss Matthew's queer reimagining of popular fairy tales, getting more creative with our dirty talk, and how to dip our toes into more risky roleplaying. 

    Episode 329: The Game of Consent

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2025 59:25


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about consent: how to ask for permission or say no without killing the mood, how the expression of consent has changed over time, and why gay men might be more permissive when it comes to having their boundaries crossed. 

    Episode 328: The Manchineel King - Episode 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 61:25


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the conclusion of The Manchineel King and some of the issues that stood out for them: straight guys with queer energy, the multiple forms of toxic behavior, and what it takes for people to truly change.

    Episode 327: The Manchineel King - Episodes 3 & 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 58:28


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to break down the themes in the next part of The Manchineel King, David's gay erotic White Lotus remake: how we justify self-destructive habits, how incest can be an example of how we eroticize an emotional need, and more!

    Episode 326: The Manchineel King - Episodes 1 & 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 57:59


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer to discuss the different manifestations of homosexuality and masculinity in The Manchineel King, "the gay erotic version of White Lotus that we didn't know we needed".

    Episode 325: Worthy Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 56:17


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about hot crossfit guys, how the Himeros team almost burned down their rented château, our need for external validation, and how our racial sexual preferences can be unlearned. 

    Episode 324: F**k My D**k Hole

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2025 55:05


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about what keeps some of us in the closet, sounding, the freedom that comes with surrender, and how the mainstream straight world is starting to embrace kink and anal play. 

    Episode 323: Pillow Princess

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 60:44


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer in a conversation about bathhouses (and what to do if you run into David at one), why everyone needs a 22-year-old in their life, and what it means to find your erotic voice. 

    Episode 322: The Taking Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2024 55:30


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about David's near-death experiences on the set of The Manchineel King, how to communicate boundaries without killing the mood, and why compliments can be a turn-off. 

    Episode 321: The Good Boy

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 63:01


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur to discuss Davey's accidental virtual threesome, what it means to be "dirty" in bed, and how we might balance our contradictory needs for both nasty and loving sex. 

    Episode 320: Daddy Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 55:31


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to talk about daddy/boy relationships. After Mossy gives David some much-needed vocal coaching, they define what a daddy is, give ratings to famous daddies, and imagine what it might mean to be "daddied outside the box". 

    Episode 319: Showtime

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 59:41


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer to discuss how we can take care of ourselves and our community after the US election, exhibitionism vs public nudity, and how judging our own bodies so harshly holds us back. 

    Episode 318: Beauty & The Beast

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 57:55


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the wonderful world of Olive Garden, why we need to stop misgendering trans people, and how they each struggle with their shadow selves.

    Episode 317: Primal Innocence + The Rabbit and The Wolf

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 39:02


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone. From the Easton Mountain Retreat Center, they discuss the Himeros Experience, how hard it is to accept love and touch, and using sexual energy to manifest your desires.

    Episode 316: Hephaestus + Scapegoat

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 57:54


    It's Finn's last day on the podcast! Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about finding your audience without compromising your vision, feeling out of control in a relationship, and their favorite Finn Deerhart moments. 

    Episode 315: Fit Enough + Private Tour

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 57:56


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about their body image journeys and their struggles with body dysmorphia and eating disorders. Plus check out Penises Are Beautiful for some classic vintage Davey!

    Episode 314: Hush + Red

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 51:04


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Missouri's SIRenity Farms Campground, sneaky sex and the connections between shame and kink. Plus: Mossy reads lyrics written for his old Christian rock band!

    Episode 313: Sex & The Shitty + In The Jungle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 51:08


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about poop shame, the dos and don'ts of queer hygiene, and what to do when shitty accidents inevitably happen in the bedroom.

    Episode 312: Boy Love + Hungry Bottom

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 60:32


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Speedo bulges, what they'd be willing to do to have sex with a hot Olympic gymnast, and what it means to be an authentic gay politician. 

    Episode 311: Peacocking + Gagged And Guilt Free

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 57:30


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Mossy's magical low-budget wedding, their fears about Project 2025, and whether attention-seeking can be healthy. Support Planned Parenthood by bidding on items of clothing worn in Himeros.tv films: https://www.ebay.com/usr/himerostv

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    Episode 310: Sleeping Beauty + 7 Minutes in Heaven

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 57:37


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and queer confidence coach Alex Ray to discuss the presidential debate, what fairytales tell us about ourselves, and the evolution of consent. Find Alex on OnlyFans: alexxx.gay

    Episode 309: Hairy Enough + Sniffies

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 60:55


    Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone and queer confidence coach Alex Ray in a conversation about dopplebangers, why so many couples look alike, and how we might look beyond our usual "types". 

    Episode 308: Persephone + C*ck Tease

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 63:33


    Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Pride in LA, Himeros's fairytale-inspired video series, and whether it's possible to have sex with other men without being gay.  Support incarcerated LGBTQIA2S+ people and people living with HIV/AIDS by becoming a PenPal at https://blackandpinkpenpals.org/

    Episode 307: We The People + Crew Take Five

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2024 60:58


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss nipple size, jerk-off parties, the power of taking a pause to recenter yourself during sex, and whether it's time for Davey to retire his YouTube persona. 

    Episode 306: Confirmation + Radiant Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 55:56


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by coach Alex Ray in a conversation about the significance of shooting gay porn during a solar eclipse, why gay men often feel like they're not enough, and how they've both started living more authentically and letting their own light shine. 

    Episode 305: Full Moon Ritual + Prom Night

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 61:27


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about sugar-free drink mixes and their unintended digestive consequences, how Davey might make his stance on monogamy more flexible, and their high school and prom experiences.  

    Episode 304: The Stripper + Phoenix

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 57:27


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!

    Episode 303: The Release + Close Shave

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 60:25


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.

    Episode 302: The Gift + Masked Man Tag Team

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 59:17


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.

    Episode 301: What's Wrong With My Dick

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 60:12


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!

    Episode 300: Ancestral Echoes + Aphrodite

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 55:36


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.

    Episode 299: Attention Whore

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 52:20


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.

    Episode 298: Bully Pulpit

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 57:15


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 

    Episode 297: Bonking Bonobos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 53:52


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.

    Episode 296: Thrall

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2024 58:40


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

    Episode 295: Digital Divide

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 53:33


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers. 

    Episode 294: Black and White

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 59:15


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023. 

    Episode 293: Sensation Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 58:53


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.

    Episode 292: Clownin' Around

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 59:12


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.

    Episode 291: Edge Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2023 59:52


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.

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    Episode 290: F*** Like Bunnies

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 60:50


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.

    Episode 289: Open Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2023 56:38


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.

    Episode 288: Stable Hand

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 58:24


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship. 

    Episode 287: Teaching The Tutor

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 60:02


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys. 

    Episode 286: The Breakdown

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 58:51


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing. 

    Episode 285: Aftercum

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2023 58:03


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about how crucial lighting becomes as you get older, what makes porn authentic, and how formulaic porn has impacted their sex life. 

    Episode 284: Anointing of the Sick

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 61:07


    Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss why inviting your parents to a gay porn set is a bad idea, what we should do about the rise in STDs, and how sex can be healing. 

    Episode 283: Meat Market

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2023 51:08


    Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by filmmaker, producer, and intimacy coordinator Clara Ritger in a conversation about the bitter Connecticut cold, Clara's work as an on-set intimacy coordinator, and how labels can both empower and limit us.

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