Himeros LIVE

It's the very last episode of Himeros Backstage! Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss what they've loved, what's been the most challenging, and what they'll take away from the podcast. Plus: a special guest appearance by their boyfriends Ryan and Zac! "You are loved, you belong, your stories matter, your pleasure and your joy matters." (Mossy)

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells for the last time! They discuss the appeal of being used like a plaything, why hot guys don't always equal good sex, and how sluttiness can be sexy. They also reminisce about their favorite Himeros moments together: the worst episode ever (recorded while stoned), Duane's behind-the-scenes interviews with models during a Himeros shoot, and their #OutOnTheRoad Youtube travel series.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by Kyle and Mike from Gayish. They discuss their new book You're Probably Gayish: The Truth (and Lies) Behind 17 Gay Stereotypes, Kyle's cum shot preferences, how to navigate threesomes, and whether our community is actually evolving sexually.

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone and sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur to discuss Matthew's queer reimagining of popular fairy tales, getting more creative with our dirty talk, and how to dip our toes into more risky roleplaying. 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about consent: how to ask for permission or say no without killing the mood, how the expression of consent has changed over time, and why gay men might be more permissive when it comes to having their boundaries crossed. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the conclusion of The Manchineel King and some of the issues that stood out for them: straight guys with queer energy, the multiple forms of toxic behavior, and what it takes for people to truly change.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to break down the themes in the next part of The Manchineel King, David's gay erotic White Lotus remake: how we justify self-destructive habits, how incest can be an example of how we eroticize an emotional need, and more!

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer to discuss the different manifestations of homosexuality and masculinity in The Manchineel King, "the gay erotic version of White Lotus that we didn't know we needed".

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about hot crossfit guys, how the Himeros team almost burned down their rented château, our need for external validation, and how our racial sexual preferences can be unlearned. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about what keeps some of us in the closet, sounding, the freedom that comes with surrender, and how the mainstream straight world is starting to embrace kink and anal play. 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer in a conversation about bathhouses (and what to do if you run into David at one), why everyone needs a 22-year-old in their life, and what it means to find your erotic voice. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about David's near-death experiences on the set of The Manchineel King, how to communicate boundaries without killing the mood, and why compliments can be a turn-off. 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur to discuss Davey's accidental virtual threesome, what it means to be "dirty" in bed, and how we might balance our contradictory needs for both nasty and loving sex. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone to talk about daddy/boy relationships. After Mossy gives David some much-needed vocal coaching, they define what a daddy is, give ratings to famous daddies, and imagine what it might mean to be "daddied outside the box". 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by social worker and psychotherapist Rahim Thawer to discuss how we can take care of ourselves and our community after the US election, exhibitionism vs public nudity, and how judging our own bodies so harshly holds us back. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the wonderful world of Olive Garden, why we need to stop misgendering trans people, and how they each struggle with their shadow selves.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone. From the Easton Mountain Retreat Center, they discuss the Himeros Experience, how hard it is to accept love and touch, and using sexual energy to manifest your desires.

It's Finn's last day on the podcast! Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about finding your audience without compromising your vision, feeling out of control in a relationship, and their favorite Finn Deerhart moments. 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about their body image journeys and their struggles with body dysmorphia and eating disorders. Plus check out Penises Are Beautiful for some classic vintage Davey!

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Missouri's SIRenity Farms Campground, sneaky sex and the connections between shame and kink. Plus: Mossy reads lyrics written for his old Christian rock band!

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about poop shame, the dos and don'ts of queer hygiene, and what to do when shitty accidents inevitably happen in the bedroom.

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Speedo bulges, what they'd be willing to do to have sex with a hot Olympic gymnast, and what it means to be an authentic gay politician. 

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Mossy's magical low-budget wedding, their fears about Project 2025, and whether attention-seeking can be healthy. Support Planned Parenthood by bidding on items of clothing worn in Himeros.tv films: https://www.ebay.com/usr/himerostv

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and queer confidence coach Alex Ray to discuss the presidential debate, what fairytales tell us about ourselves, and the evolution of consent. Find Alex on OnlyFans: alexxx.gay

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone and queer confidence coach Alex Ray in a conversation about dopplebangers, why so many couples look alike, and how we might look beyond our usual "types". 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Pride in LA, Himeros's fairytale-inspired video series, and whether it's possible to have sex with other men without being gay.  Support incarcerated LGBTQIA2S+ people and people living with HIV/AIDS by becoming a PenPal at https://blackandpinkpenpals.org/

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss nipple size, jerk-off parties, the power of taking a pause to recenter yourself during sex, and whether it's time for Davey to retire his YouTube persona. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by coach Alex Ray in a conversation about the significance of shooting gay porn during a solar eclipse, why gay men often feel like they're not enough, and how they've both started living more authentically and letting their own light shine. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about sugar-free drink mixes and their unintended digestive consequences, how Davey might make his stance on monogamy more flexible, and their high school and prom experiences.  

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about how crucial lighting becomes as you get older, what makes porn authentic, and how formulaic porn has impacted their sex life. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss why inviting your parents to a gay porn set is a bad idea, what we should do about the rise in STDs, and how sex can be healing. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by filmmaker, producer, and intimacy coordinator Clara Ritger in a conversation about the bitter Connecticut cold, Clara's work as an on-set intimacy coordinator, and how labels can both empower and limit us.