How We've Made It with Red & Blue

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Even Mormon couples get the "7-year itch", but what happens when (after 10 years) one of them decides to scratch that itch with a BDSM-style flogger? Hosts "Red" and "Blue" take you along for the ride as they continue their journey from being a straight-laced super-young, monogamous, Mormon married…

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  • Mar 26, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 48m AVG DURATION
  • 24 EPISODES


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HWMI 021 - Back in the Game

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 69:01


Red & Blue are back for Season 2! No they didn't initially plan on making the previous episode a season finale, but with everything that's happened since it seemed like a good chapter marker as they dive headfirst into the the world of Open Marriage and Polyamory

HWMI 020 - Flirting with Attraction

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 53:32


Red & Blue banter about flirty attraction, keeping sexual tension in the friend zone and the importance of feeling attractive. Red sings a bit, and Blue shares his epiphany toward submission. Blue shares his frustrations with his own "conventionally unattractive" physical traits, and kicks off his new self-evolutionary experiment/project by revealing his current goal: The manifestation of physical attraction through self-alignment and shifting of perspective. Red & Blue also discuss exclusivity, non-exclusivity, monogamy, non-monogamy, polyamory, and the tragedy of opportunities to connect that are left sitting on the table. Also, bad polygamy jokes vs acceptable polygamy jokes.

HWMI 019 - Dominance

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2019 58:40


Red & Blue return (after surviving another Spooky Szn) to pick up where they left off in their BDSM discussion: Dominance. You may need to forget everything you think you know about BDSM Dominance (definitely forget most of what Hollywood taught you about dominance). Between Red's experience-based BDSM information, and Blue's attempts at linking it back to his outdoor adventures in the Boy Scouts, you may learn something new...or at least gain a weird new perspective on BDSM dominance...or maybe you'll just walk away with a really good app idea.

HWMI 018 - Spooky Storiez

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 37:26


HWMI 017 - How We've Made Spooky Muzic

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2019 56:35


Red & Blue PLAY THEIR OWN RECORDS!! In the thick of Spooky Szn, time is limited, resources are waning, but things are gettin' creepy. During his hunt for Spooky media, Blue dove into the archives of his hard drives and came across a bunch of the music he (and sometimes Red) have recorded over the years and decided to set aside the Spooky tracks for Red & Blue to listen to and share with the world. It's a bit of a cop-out, but it's also a lot of fun to hear the weird, hauntingly eerie music that Red & Blue made during their very early years of marriage. Not much has changed...still weird, still Spooky.**NOTE: Red is allowed to touch whatever she wants in the house. The Theremin is a proximity-based instrument that is played without touching it......Blue isn't a control freak. Blue is an over-thinker.

HWMI 016 - Spooky Szn

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2019 6:12


Blue gives a heads up regarding how chaotic it's going to be for the next few weeks. Don't worry! We're still releasing episodes, but they'll likely be a bit off the normal schedule that we barely stick to in the first place. Stick around to the end of this episode for a little surprise to kick off SPOOKY SEASON!!!

HWMI 015 - Discipline

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2019 42:29


Red & Blue discuss discipline and how it relates to the BDSM lifestyle, religion, and life in general. Blue coughs a lot.

HWMI 014 - Bondage

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2019 36:39


Red & Blue bicker a bit over bondage and Bacon. Red guides us through a high-level view of Bondage 101 while Blue interrupts by being generally not so funny and in kind of a bad mood. Get tied up in one of their shortest episodes yet, no promises that it'll leave any marks.

HWMI 013 - Enneagram Test Results

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2019 42:18


Red & Blue return (after an unscheduled "mid-season break") to take the Enneagram Personality Type test and discuss the results. What type number are you? Do you have a wing?

HWMI 012 - How We've Made It Out Alive

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2019 96:18


Red & Blue candidly discuss their experiences with mental health. TRIGGER WARNING: topics discussed may be triggering for some sensitive listeners. They're discussed openly, freely, and in a way that is meant to emphasize and promote the normalcy of seeking out professional help - something that is probably more common among mentally healthy individuals than convention might let on. It's probably more common (and more necessary) than gym attendance...but that's just a wild guess. Again - there is very little left out of this episode when it comes to addressing and discussing the journey of getting around, over, through and past recurring dark thoughts and dark feelings that we all more commonly know as "anxiety and depression".

HWMI 011 - BDSM Quiz Results

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2019 54:34


Red & Blue take their BDSM Quizes 1 question at a time and discuss the questions and results. This is an intro episode to the BDSM series that will follow over the next few weeks

HWMI 010 - Father's Day (No I Dadn't)

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2019 62:05


Red & Blue discuss and honor their Fathers...mostly honor...

HWMI 009 - Pr3n (The Filthy Climax)

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2019 55:17


**TRIGGER ALERT!!** The content of this episode is more graphic than usual and could potentially trigger some listeners. If you've got a need for elite seed, email Blue at Howwevemadeit@gmail.com. Also, the swear words aren't edited out of this episode.

HWMI 008 - How We've Made It Fertile

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2019 49:50


Red & Blue discuss the first 7 years of their marriage as DINKs (dual income, no kids), and the feelings of anxiety, exclusion and alienation from the "army-of-children" mindset that dominates Mormon culture, and how those feelings put a damper on the perks and freedoms that also accompany childlessness...but don't be discouraged, Chico! Red & Blue also discuss the mysterious turning point when all of that went away and perfect, super-human babies entered their family. What changed? Was it the water supply or was it something more supernatural?? Listen and draw your own conclusions on how Red & Blue made it fertile!! (...and then stocked up on birth control!)

HWMI 007 - Mother's Day (Part II)

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2019 51:43


Red returns (after a Mother's Day break) to share her "Mom-speriences".

HWMI 006 - Mother's Day

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2019 30:14


While Red enjoys her Mother's Day, Blue flies solo in this episode and pays tribute to the Mom(s) in his life. Warning: it gets a little spooky...

HWMI 005 - Pr2n (A Decade of Deception)

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2019 45:33


Red & Blue discuss how and why they kept their secret porn use from each other for the first 10 years of their marriage.

HWMI 004.5 - Ceis de Mayo

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2019 3:37


Blue explains wtf happened to this week's episode.

HWMI 004 - How We've Made Pr0n (No not like that)

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 67:08


Red & Blue begin uncovering their first trans-episodic topic, and it's kind of a big one (TWSS): Pornography. Travel back in time to a world desperate for digital documentation as Red & Blue discuss how pornography impacted their formative years throughout the '80s and '90s. It may sound all too familiar to you...or it may sound completely messed up. Either way, it was what it was...and now they is...*Trigger Alert* It gets playfully candid and crude, and the subjects discussed could potentially be triggering to some listeners.

HWMI 003 - How We've Made It Cyber

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2019 59:00


Red & Blue get IRL about Cyber relationships (social media for all the people who don't remember the late '90s world-wide web lingo). It gets a little heated and a little frumpy, but hey...that's cyber-love. It's miraculous that only a few swear words were accidentally left in...listen up and it'll be like auditory Where's Waldo! Enjoi!

HWMI 002 - How We've Made Music

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2019 55:03


Red & Blue discuss the significant role music has played in their lives, including brushes with fame that came too close for comfort.

HWMI 001 - Boundaries (Caged vs Free-range)

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 58:08


Red & Blue discuss boundaries: the boundaries of the podcast, the boundaries they used to live within, and the current boundaries they've set for themselves...and why properly-fitting boundaries are so important.

HWMI 000 - Intro - Before We Made It (Fully Extended)

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 51:17


The full intro to Red & Blue - how they've made it this far, and how they've custom-made their marriage

HWMI 000 - Intro - Before We Made It (short)

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 12:59


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