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For all of us who lie to ourselves about what we want, Just Sex maps the global story of our desire through every day people telling on themselves -- from Beijing to Capetown, from Dallas to Denver to DC. Just Sex contributors expose that perilous gap between our waking “identities” and who and what…

Dr. Jaime Grant


    • Jun 19, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 25m AVG DURATION
    • 27 EPISODES


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    Is Sex Spirit? Is Spirituality Sexuality?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023


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    Breaking the Romance Myth: Rethinking Relationships and Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023


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    Are Our Movements Cults? with Shannon Perez-Darby

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023


    Ask Jaime a question at justsexpod@gmail.com

    Using Fan Culture to Map Desire: A Conversation with Dr. Jaime Grant and Jack Harrison-Quintana, founder of Grindr4Equality

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2023


    Welcome to Just Sex, the podcast that Maps our Desire, in all its amazing forms. In today's episode, we dive into the world of fandom and how it intersects with desire, pleasure and the creation of our sexy selves and our communities. Our guest is Jack Harrison-Quintana, a writer, artist, and activist who has been involved in multiple fandoms over many years.How are queers recreating sex, gender, consent, desire and pop culture through our fandoms? How are we dreaming up sexy worlds that don't yet exist by fanning on characters, books, TV shows, actors, and musicians? What can we put in motion in our real lives by entering dreamy, sexy territories as fans and making them our own?Join us for an enlivening discussion on desire and fandom, with our guest Jack Harrison-Quintana, on this episode of Just Sex.

    Emergency Podcast #7:  Cumming Out of Lockdown - Season Wrap

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2020


    July 4th Resistance Message: Value Our Lives and Each Other.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play and Spotify.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Emergency Podcast #6: Julian and Bishop Clip for the Revolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2020


    Black queer femmes Julian and Bishop break out of racialized and gendered restrictions on their sex, while claiming the power of their ho-tationsListen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Emergency Podcast #5: I’m on a magical pussy journey. And I’m going to keep talking about it!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020


    Don’t Breathe on Me! Polyamorous, kinky Elizabeth is locked down at home — what’s the flow?Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play or Spotify.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    “Anything that has saved our life can be shared” with Alexis Pauline Gumbs and Sangodare

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2020


    Alexis Pauline Gumbs and Sangodare share radical tools and new forms toward a sexier, more generous & just world.Learn about Mobile Homecoming, Black feminist film school and Loveships.What breaks isolation? What would I do if I weren’t afraid of being rejected? Alexis and Sangodare remind us that we are all in this together.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play or Spotify.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Emergency Podcast #3:  Jack Harrison-Quintana at Grindr 4 Equality has ideas for us

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020


    Whether wild fantasies or simple truths - Grindr 4 Equality’s human rights program values the stories we tell each other, across the globe.Mia Mingus’ Blog: leavingevidence.wordpress.comMia Mingus’ work on Pods:batjc.wordpress.com/pods-and-pod-mapping-worksheet/Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Emergency Podcast #2: Debanuj reflects on surviving the AIDS pandemic, addiction and COVID-19

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020


    Queer feminist geographer Debanuj Dasgupta reflects on connections between the AIDS pandemic, addiction recovery and surviving COVID-19.Footnotes from Debanuj:June Jordan’s workGloria AnzalduaOther Countries: Black Gay VoicesSojourner: Black Gay Voices in the Age of AIDS, Other Countries Volume II

    Emergency Podcast #1: Desire in the Time of the Coronavirus

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020


    A sit down with Dr. Jaime Grant to talk strategy and meaning in this time of crisis.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    The DYI episode: make your own sex party, community & liberation

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020


    The DYI episode: make your own sex party, community & liberation

    Alexis Pauline Gumbs and Sangodare: A Ceremony Can Always Be Found

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2020


    Alexis Pauline Gumbs and Sangodare share memories and strategies from their decade+ loveship.Footnotes for ceremony:-https://www.dukeupress.edu/dub-https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Starhawk-https://www.akpress.org/beyond-survival.html-https://slowholler.bigcartel.com/product/pre-order-slow-holler-tarot-deckListen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    “That time when...” Mapping Desire Across the Globe with Ignacio Rivera

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020


    Veteran sex educator Ignacio Rivera talks about the power of community in their life as a solo poly sex activist, survivor, and mother.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Charbel and Candy: Leading ILGA-Asia; finding our true identities and desires

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020


    What happens when our friends see us for who we really are? Sometimes we find the courage to finally see ourselves.

    Ever Evolving Drian Juarez says: Float and Chill. It's About Queer Love.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2020 27:31


    Hippy Drian comes upon new, virginal territory in her sexuality in her 40s. She gets by with a little help from her friends!Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to the Freeman Foundation, Elizabeth Scott, the Wild Geese Foundation and Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    The Episode Where We Define “Blouse”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020


    Black queer femmes Julian and Bishop break out of racialized and gendered restrictions on their sex, while claiming the power of their ho-tationsListen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Season Finale with Jack and Azza

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019


    G4E leadership speaks on the importance of holistic security, sexy fan fiction and loving the porn you love. This is a final inspiring chat before we break until the new yearListen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Discovering My Inner Top with Tingting

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019


    Chinese feminist advocate Tingting explores dominating a submissive man; then she comes upon desire during detainment.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    Our Dangerous Desire with Amelie

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019


    In this “juicy” episode, Desire Mapping founder and women’s and queer health activist, Amelie, considers her mapping journey as she builds sex, desire and community in her 50s.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Thank you to Grindr for Equality for their sponsorship!Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    My Twin Flame with Azza Sultan

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019


    Grindr for Equality Associate Director, Azza, experiences a surprising attraction to a stranger in a bar, discovering a deep spiritual connection that has a big impact on her desire and sexual practices.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    I Saw the Bag Out of the Corner of My Eye with Jack Harrison-Quintana

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019


    After taking on increasing responsibility as the Vice President of Social Impact at Grindr, Jack Harrison-Quintana finds sexy, restrictive relief through an impulsive purchase.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.Twitter: @jchq59 // Instagram: @jchq_Production by E.T. Townsend.Show art by Allie VanHeest

    I Adore You with Zahn Chiam

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2019


    After fumbling an initial disclosure of attraction, Singaporean trans advocate Zahn takes a chance on expressing his desire.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.

    Kissing, Cuddling and Being in Good Relation with Romeo Jackson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 28:08


    Black queer femme Romeo defies racialized and gendered expectations of sexual “performance” as they uncover and Map their true desires.Listen and rate the show on Apple podcasts or Stitcher or Google Play.

    He Walked In Carrying a Motorcycle Helmet with Emmett Patterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2019 34:46


    Trans HIV educator and Global Health Projects Manager at Grindr for Equality, Emmett shares his process of claiming and expressing his grief over losing a cherished lover via an unexpectedly intimate hook-up.Production work by E.T. Townsend with FREQ Flag Media

    Hell Yessss! with Shannon Perez-Darby

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2019 33:28


    A freewheeling talk with a leading Transformative Justice thinker and activist about pole dancing, polyamory, and zeroing in on the people who are wildly attracted to us.Produced work by E.T. Townsend at Freq Flag MediaNotes:Fat, Bratty, Femmehttps://www.akpress.org/revolutionstartsathome.html

    Why call it 'Just Sex'? ... a podcast beginning

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2016 5:36


    For all of us who lie to ourselves about what we want, Just Sex maps the global story of our desire through every day people telling on themselves -- from Beijing to Capetown, from Dallas to Denver to DC. Just Sex contributors expose that perilous gap between our waking “identities” and who and what we want to do in the dark. They reveal our complex and sometimes contradictory attractions as we stumble into ourselves and find our way.On a world-wide journey of discovery via her workshop, Desire Mapping, Sexpert Dr. Jaime Grant uncovers astonishing moments of desire, connection, vulnerability and joy among college students and elders; government workers and activists; monogamous Dads and polyamorous Solos; artists and health providers; spiritual sensualists and gender outlaws. Listen in, and find your own story with us.Production by E.T. Townsend

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