A podcast from a dad who's still trying to figure it all out in time for his son being old enough to start asking the questions.
Getting back into the swing of things, a bit more motivated now that autumn approaches. Recorded on Wednesday 14th of September. Future episodes will be videos and will be available also at https://vimeo.com/user184807113 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
A returning episode, and concerning Death once again and hinting at difficult conversations to come much later. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Something about cooperation and how rules and norms become established, and also the difficulties that arise when things scale up. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In this is episode I talk about the physical and intangible baggage and how to determine what's worth hanging on to. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
This episode is basically an update since last time, and an effort to get things going again on a regular basis. It's the first episode in ages that I've worked on with my laptop and without using my phone app, so yaaay...new intro and outro music. A half hour ramble before getting ready for work. It's the start of a new season....so consider this season 6. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Surprise. I still ain't dead. It's been quite a while since last episode, and who knows when the next one will be. I don't want to have a podcast where covid keeps coming up, but sadly that's the lense through which the world is presently seen. I just need to get over that I suppose and stop letting that suck out the motivation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Just proof I exist --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
So I decided to wait until the dust settled before doing another episode. It's been a stressful couple of months. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Just a capture of some thoughts whilst out and about today. I'll likely come back to them in a more refined and detailed way at some time later. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I consider the implications of big tech's power over digital communication --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
A review of previous goals for 2020 and other ramblings. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
The last episode of the season. With some good and bad news and things in development. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
It's starting to feel like I'm getting somewhere, with selling up,but I am cautiously optimistic. Fraser is doing well at nursery, and is seen by the doctor --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
The first bus ride where we sat in chairs next to each other, rather than him in a buggy. And an update about sale of my flat and condition since taking covid vaccine. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
An update about receiving covid vaccine and about sale of flat etc. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
An update about the coming sale of the flat and also about impending Cobid vaccinations. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Weeks later than I wanted to release another episode. Chatting about covid tests, homelife and an update about a court case I was following earlier in the year. https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Bell-v-Tavistock-Judgment.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwirgdn0krTtAhUElFwKHe6dChsQFjAEegQIARAB&usg=AOvVaw3Efb1kwYyCpuIUR9Jp4msq --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
So where the hell have I been these past few weeks? What the hell has been going on. What am I dealing with right now? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Covid-19 intrudes upon our working life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
So in this I'm just chatting. I'm too damn tired to give a proper description...anyway I mentioned I sing some songs to Fraser each night. Here are links to my favourite versions of a couple of those https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76kHRG96ciE - Dark Island https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTvPa9cM_9s - Fir a bhata --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
It's late....but it's here. A chat about words, and ideas about space and items. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Carrying on from last week and moving on to investment banking, pet woes, indoctrination, no apologies and pandemic mirth. P.S Caroline wants me to state that she was completely misrepresented in this episode (She only bought the book to find out about Michael in time for Michelmass) :p --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
The joy of taking a kid to nursery for the first time under the auspices of a pandemic. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Reclaiming the space and returning to podcasting after a hiatus. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
A quick message heralding my return. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
Just a quickie to let my listeners know I aint dead. Been busy with work. I mention I started a tarot business online. Link for that is http://www.tarotbychristopher.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about conflict, workplace culture, and home life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
A return to scheduled releases. In this episode I give an update about how life has been for the past couple of weeks and my thoughts for the time ahead. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I consider Death in the context of COVID-19 affecting people at this time. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I continue my thoughts on the Shadow and talk a bit about what's going on with Covid19 where I live just now. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about The Shadow, how it has come up for me recently and the importance of working with what it shows you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
This is not going to be a feel good episode. This is a documented search for catharsis. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I touch base with anybody listening just to say I'm feeling unwell, and talk briefly about the coronavirus and other things that seem crazy to me. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In this episode I talk about Fraser taking his first steps and update about the visit from health visitor this week and also digress on to a rare piece of job satisfaction that I had today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about Fraser's current way of expressing himself though hitting himself and his parents, and how we aim to navigate this stage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In this episode I speak about....speaking. I also mentioned a monologue that I performed publicly several years ago, but couldn't remember the whole of it. https://inyouradversity.bandcamp.com/track/9th-of-june-1697 Above link has a re-recording of that monologue with lyric --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I chat about my experiences of camping out in different settings and dare I say also the fun that was had. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about the difference between enjoying a holiday as a kid versus a parent. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about school experience for me, and later get sidetracked into issues about free speech and the transgender debate and education and the Scottish government's consultation on Gender Reform. For more information on what the LGB Alliance stands for see Here --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about what it means to be a modern Heretic and what the implications are for a person. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
A short welcome back to the podcast and off the cuff talk covering to some extent new years resolutions, creating change, the terrible state of the world and brief home life update. I also for the fun of it give a 3 card Tarot reading for whomever is the first person to listen to this episode. Let me know if it resonates with you. Recipes mentioned in this episode can be found at Rampant Scotland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I share some of my thoughts on Death and how I might discuss with Fraser when he's ready. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about the pains of being your own landlord and the importance of saving. I also mention that I have deleted the notesfromdadtoson.bandcamp.com page as nobody listens there anyway. If anybody wants to support me then I encourage them to check out benotidle.bandcamp.com or inyouradversity.bandcamp.com Where you can check out and buy music I've made. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I chat about some of the Christmas themed events and activities that I've participated in recently, and then vent my disgust for what continues to devolve further into a commercial mess of a holiday. Ho Ho Ho...etc. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I chat about today's visit from the Health Visitor, Fraser's speech and how we're trying to support his development. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about the importance of self care and differing attitudes and perceptions of how to take time out for self care as a parent. Article referenced in this episode: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-50289609 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about the idea of Crossroads and the importance of keeping company only with those who serve your interests. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I take a moment to pause and reflect on what it means to exhale and why taking the time to do so is useful. I mention that I have also been working on my website. http://iamathanor.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about how sources for 'good' external to the self are unreliable and subject to change. I mentioned the legality of homosexuality as an example of something that is in a state of flux around the world. This can be monitored on the Equaldex website. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I revisit the weird experiences I have had from childhood up until fairly recently, looking at possible poltergeist activity, shadow people, lucid dreaming and visits from the deceased relatives. Contains mild swearing. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message
In which I talk about the developmental milestones my son had to accomplish before being allowed home from hospital and then a chat about how the milestone metaphor becomes less useful as time passes. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/notesfromdadtoson/message