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Somewhat anxious. Always authentic. Hosted by author and speaker Shelby Abbott, Real Life Loading… is a mashup of biblical truth, personal authenticity, cultural awareness, and straight-up humor.

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    • Sep 27, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 30m AVG DURATION
    • 143 EPISODES

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    The Real Life Loading ... podcast, hosted by Shelby, is an incredible addition to the podcasting world. With his amazing gift of clear and concise communication, Shelby brings a fun and engaging approach to tackling the issues faced by college students and young adults. The first episode featuring Heather Holleman was a great start to what promises to be a thought-provoking and entertaining series.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is Shelby's ability to communicate in a way that resonates with his target audience. He has a talent for delivering important messages in a fun and relatable manner, making it easy for listeners to connect with the topics discussed. In particular, the three nuggets segment where he drops valuable pieces of advice that can potentially change lives is both insightful and entertaining. Additionally, Shelby's humor adds an enjoyable element to the podcast, making it engaging from start to finish.

    While The Real Life Loading ... podcast offers many strengths, there are some areas that could be improved upon. One aspect that may not appeal to everyone is Shelby's strong focus on his faith in Jesus Christ. While this may be relatable for some listeners, others may prefer a more secular approach or may feel excluded by the heavy religious content. It would benefit the podcast to strike a balance between discussing faith-based topics and addressing other relevant issues facing young adults.

    In conclusion, The Real Life Loading ... podcast has the potential to make a significant impact by providing solid content for college students and young adults. Shelby's passion for Jesus and his heart for the next generation shine through in every episode, making him an authentic and relatable host. With his energetic personality, insightful discussions on current cultural topics, and mix of humor and life hacks, The Real Life Loading ... is definitely worth tuning into.



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    Embracing Spiritual Neediness: Gabe Mahalik

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 69:05


    In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Embracing Spiritual Neediness: Gabe Mahalik

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 69:11


    In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Real Life Loading: Navigating 20s Relationships with Katie Highfield

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 64:57


    Join Shelby Abbott and Katie Highfield on Real Life Loading for honest advice on navigating relationships in your 20s. As Katie, a senior at Christopher Newport University and youth group leader, shares her experiences with dating, ghosting, and self-discovery, Shelby provides practical insights into building healthy connections. Whether you're in college, working, or exploring faith, this podcast offers real help and relatable stories to guide your relationship journey. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Real Life Loading: Navigating 20s Relationships with Katie Highfield

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 65:03


    Join Shelby Abbott and Katie Highfield on Real Life Loading for honest advice on navigating relationships in your 20s. As Katie, a senior at Christopher Newport University and youth group leader, shares her experiences with dating, ghosting, and self-discovery, Shelby provides practical insights into building healthy connections. Whether you're in college, working, or exploring faith, this podcast offers real help and relatable stories to guide your relationship journey. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    From Toxic to Transformed: Josie Burdin’s Journey from Abuse to Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 25:14


    Josie Burdin shares her transformative journey from a toxic relationship to finding peace and growth in a Christ-centered relationship with Josiah. Emphasizing the importance of genuine communication and support, Josie reflects on her past struggles, how faith has brought her peace, and her current aspirations in physical therapy and faith-driven service. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    From Toxic to Transformed: Josie Burdin's Journey from Abuse to Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 25:14


    Josie Burdin shares her transformative journey from a toxic relationship to finding peace and growth in a Christ-centered relationship with Josiah. Emphasizing the importance of genuine communication and support, Josie reflects on her past struggles, how faith has brought her peace, and her current aspirations in physical therapy and faith-driven service. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Loving Your Community: Stephen Viars

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024


    God's working around people. So how can you convey, You gotta see this!? On FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson host author Tim Muehlhoff, who helps you talk about an unmissable God.

    Spiritual Renewal: Josie Burdin’s Transformative Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 30:41


    Josie Burdin shares her challenging journey from a toxic relationship during her junior year to embracing Christianity. She discusses how her abusive relationship, marked by infidelity and emotional turmoil, led her to seek solace in prayer and the Bible. Through faith, counseling, and support from the Crew community at Old Dominion University, Josie found healing and strength. Her story highlights a transformative shift from despair to spiritual renewal, emphasizing the importance of community and self-worth. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Spiritual Renewal: Josie Burdin's Transformative Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 30:41


    Josie Burdin shares her challenging journey from a toxic relationship during her junior year to embracing Christianity. She discusses how her abusive relationship, marked by infidelity and emotional turmoil, led her to seek solace in prayer and the Bible. Through faith, counseling, and support from the Crew community at Old Dominion University, Josie found healing and strength. Her story highlights a transformative shift from despair to spiritual renewal, emphasizing the importance of community and self-worth. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Virginity, Forgiveness, and Vulnerability: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 23:58


    Join Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger on Real Life Loading as they dive into the complexities of virginity, shame, and vulnerability in relationships. Discover how faith and forgiveness play a crucial role in overcoming guilt and embracing a transformative path to healing. Listen to their candid discussions on navigating these challenging topics with grace and understanding. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Virginity, Forgiveness, and Vulnerability: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 23:58


    Join Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger on Real Life Loading as they dive into the complexities of virginity, shame, and vulnerability in relationships. Discover how faith and forgiveness play a crucial role in overcoming guilt and embracing a transformative path to healing. Listen to their candid discussions on navigating these challenging topics with grace and understanding. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Don Everts: Why Community is Important

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2024


    Author Don Everts knows what it's like to feel disconnected in your own neighborhood. But he also knows why community is critically important.

    Beyond Purity Culture: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 23:12


    How do you filter the noise from secular culture and purity culture...to hear what Jesus actually asks of us? Listen as Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger join Shelby Abbott to discuss! Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Beyond Purity Culture: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 23:12


    How do you filter the noise from secular culture and purity culture...to hear what Jesus actually asks of us? Listen as Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger join Shelby Abbott to discuss! Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Authentic Relationships + Your Authentic Self: Kenny Lynch

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 38:15


    Your authentic self: Who is it? How do you get there? Join host Shelby Abott and Kenny Lynch for a discussion on social media, fame, authenticity, and true success. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Authentic Relationships + Your Authentic Self: Kenny Lynch

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 38:15


    Your authentic self: Who is it? How do you get there? Join host Shelby Abott and Kenny Lynch for a discussion on social media, fame, authenticity, and true success. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Positive Deviance: Got What it Takes?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024


    Positive deviance: Got what it takes to differ from social norms in the best ways possible? In this episode, Shelby Abbott gets real about what you need to swim against the tide for the dating relationships you crave. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.

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    Positive Deviance: Got What it Takes?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024 24:43


    Positive deviance: Got what it takes to differ from social norms in the best ways possible? In this episode, Shelby Abbott gets real about what you need to swim against the tide for the dating relationships you crave. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Dating and LDR: The Insider Tips, ft. Evan Byerley

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024


    What's your best long-distance relationship advice? Have you ever been in a ldr? Listen in as Shelby Abbott and rising WVU freshman, Evan Byerley, discuss Christian dating, relationships, and thinking about the future. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.

    Dating and LDR: The Insider Tips, ft. Evan Byerley

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 33:39


    What's your best long-distance relationship advice? Have you ever been in a ldr? Listen in as Shelby Abbott and rising WVU freshman, Evan Byerley, discuss Christian dating, relationships, and thinking about the future. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    My Story—And the Tea on Relationships, with Gloria Okyere

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 42:59


    Navigating your spiritual life? Your love life? Shelby Abbott's been there. Listen as Shelby's interviewed by Gloria Okyere in this special RLL. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    My Story—And the Tea on Relationships, with Gloria Okyere

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 43:03


    Navigating your spiritual life? Your love life? Shelby Abbott's been there. Listen as Shelby's interviewed by Gloria Okyere in this special RLL. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Swipe Right? On Christian Dating: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 26:39


    To swipe right or left? You know it's top of mind. Christian dating is complex! Listen in as Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger discuss. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Swipe Right? On Christian Dating: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 26:39


    To swipe right or left? You know it's top of mind. Christian dating is complex! Listen in as Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger discuss. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    That Fateful First Date: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 32:39


    Wanting to get that first date just right? Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger chat with Shelby about what makes an ideal first date and pitfalls to avoid. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    That Fateful First Date: Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 32:40


    Wanting to get that first date just right? Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger chat with Shelby about what makes an ideal first date and pitfalls to avoid. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Go Outside and Play: Andrew Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 18:39


    Feeling lost? Frustrated trying to have fun and find purpose? Andrew Peterson shares how he found God and blended creativity with Christianity. If you're seeking purpose and how to figure out what God wants for you and your life, Andrew says, "Just go outside and play." Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.

    Go Outside and Play: Andrew Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 18:39


    Feeling lost? Frustrated trying to have fun and find purpose? Andrew Peterson shares how he found God and blended creativity with Christianity. If you're seeking purpose and how to figure out what God wants for you and your life, Andrew says, "Just go outside and play." Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Too Young to Get Married? Andrew Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 28:36


    When author and musical artist Andrew Peterson dropped to one knee, he confronted more than just nerves—he faced the weight finding peace in trusting God's plan. If you're wondering what it was like to get married young, Andrew's got helpful thoughts. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Too Young to Get Married? Andrew Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 28:36


    When author and musical artist Andrew Peterson dropped to one knee, he confronted more than just nerves—he faced the weight finding peace in trusting God's plan. If you're wondering what it was like to get married young, Andrew's got helpful thoughts. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Don’t Be Original: Jesse Furey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 27:55


    Ever feel like you have to be super original all the time, especially on social media? Join Jesse Fury as he talks about whether it's better to be yourself or copy someone else. If you're tired of trying to constantly be original, this will help. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Don't Be Original: Jesse Furey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 27:58


    Ever feel like you have to be super original all the time, especially on social media? Join Jesse Fury as he talks about whether it's better to be yourself or copy someone else. If you're tired of trying to constantly be original, this will help. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    The Gospel Underground: Jesse Furey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 29:46


    Worried about sharing your faith? Pastor Jesse Furey, from the Gospel Underground podcast, reveals insights into Bonhoeffer Haus's mission, engaging neighbors and mentoring future church leaders. Drawing from his own journey through infertility, Jesse talks about silent suffering. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    The Gospel Underground: Jesse Furey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 29:49


    Worried about sharing your faith? Pastor Jesse Furey, from the Gospel Underground podcast, reveals insights into Bonhoeffer Haus's mission, engaging neighbors and mentoring future church leaders. Drawing from his own journey through infertility, Jesse talks about silent suffering. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    How to Know God’s Will

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 22:00


    Ever wonder about what God wants for your life—how to know God's will? Feeling lost or anxious about what's next? Shelby Abbott shares rock-solid wisdom to navigate uncertainties, find direction in work, school, and missions. Whether you're picking a career, sorting out relationships, choosing a major, eyeing mission work, or just facing big changes, Shelby offers guidance to help you discern God's will and steer through life to find real purpose. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    How to Know God's Will

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 22:02


    Ever wonder about what God wants for your life—how to know God's will? Feeling lost or anxious about what's next? Shelby Abbott shares rock-solid wisdom to navigate uncertainties, find direction in work, school, and missions. Whether you're picking a career, sorting out relationships, choosing a major, eyeing mission work, or just facing big changes, Shelby offers guidance to help you discern God's will and steer through life to find real purpose. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

    Embracing Your Limitations: Sara Hagerty

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 26:27


    How do I navigate knowing if God actually wants me to push past roadblocks or if I'm supposed to step back and submit to the limitations in front of me? Author Sara Hagerty talks about how to confront pain, embrace limitations, and carve a path through grief and messy emotions. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    When Life’s Way Too Much: Sara Hagerty

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2024 21:03


    Life ever feel just... too much? Assignments keep stacking, bills keep rolling in, and schedules are packed with tons of stuff to do. Well, author Sara Hagerty gets it. She's got encouragement for all those tense moments when we're wondering what's next. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.

    Can I Really Hear God’s Voice? Axel Uri

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 36:07


    Ever wonder if God's really listening? (Like, at all?) Can we actually hear His voice? The newly-married Axel Uri talks about how to hear God's voice, learning from screw-ups, and getting solid advice when making decisions. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Keeping it Together: Grace Osborne

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 31:28


    Feeling overwhelmed trying to juggle school, work, and simple sanity? Meet Grace Osborne as she opens up about her life as a college student, her student teaching experience, and her struggles with OCD. Could you also break free from the never-ending anxiety cycle? Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels.

    Struggling to find Happiness: Rechab Gray & Demetrius Hicks

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 30:49


    Feeling stressed out lately? Ever catch yourself scrolling and comparing your life to everyone else? Maybe you're sweating over grades or worrying about the future. Rechab Gray and Demetrius Hicks are flipping through the pages of Philippians to find some ways on how to live a life where joy takes center stage, even when things feel uncertain and overwhelming. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    Is it Time for a Mentor? Rechab Gray & Demetrius Hicks

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 41:45


    If you could talk to your older self, what would you ask? Well, what if you could...kinda? Do you really need a mentor or does googling advice do the trick? Rechab Gray and Demetrius Hicks discuss how having a mentor can be super impactful in your faith journey. Plus, they talk about NFL teams, players, and why Black History Month matters. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    When You’re Afraid of Blowing it: David Robbins

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 29:28


    Ever felt that heavy weight of expectations crushing down on you, just desperate to prove yourself to everyone? You're pouring out all your energy into one thing, but deep down, there's that nagging fear of failing. David Robbins has been right there in the trenches, battling that constant need to prove himself. Yet, he found a way to finally ease up on all that pressure and noise around him. He weighs in on where to find relief from the pressure. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

    So…who Am I? Will Clock

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 31:53


    Ever been in that headspace where you're like, "Who am I?" You're lost and lonely, not knowing where to begin to find yourself. Will Clock sensed this as he was struggling dealing with health issues like multiple broken bones and concussions, with identity issues on the side. Tune in for how he kept his faith through the mess—and found out who he was in the middle of it. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

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