Podcasts about neediness

One of the most powerful things you can do on your healing journey is get good at knowing and trusting what you need — not what you were told to need, not what you think you should need, but what your body and heart are truly craving. This episode answers a question from a Becoming Secure Community Member who asked: “How do I even know what my core needs are? And once I do… how can I meet them on my own?”Together, we explore:Neediness versus NeedsWhen to meet your own needs and when to ask for your needs to be met Discovering your deeper emotional or relational needsHow to reconnect to your needs through your bodyCore needs in the realms of intimacy, sex, safety, self-expression, and relationshipsThe connection between your needs and your valuesThis episode also includes a somatic practice to help you tune in and feel your needs rather than just think about them. You'll walk away with clarity, direction, and a deeper sense of connection to your inner world.Resources Mentioned: Quiz - Which Anxious Attachment Type Are You?Becoming Secure Community - Course + Community + Coaching

What does it mean to be needy? How should we respond to those in need? Join Micah, Christa, and our special guest Tyler Peterson as we explore this topic through different biblical lenses, from the Garden of Eden to the Gospels to our future home in heaven.

This one's personal. If you've ever lost yourself in someone else's drama, stayed too long out of guilt, or bent your boundaries to feel loved—this episode is for you. We're talking about outgrowing neediness, reclaiming your strength, and learning how to build a life that doesn't revolve around anyone else's validation. Spoiler: this season is about you. Not being liked. Not being owned. You're not a puppet. You're not a peacekeeper. You're a baddie—and baddie wins only. Plus: 5 tools to get out of that loop and back into your power.

In episode 136 Cath is joined by author, coach and podcast host Mara Glatzel.This is a rich conversation centered on needs and how we can make space for them, illustrated with stories from Mara's life. We also discuss ambition, grappling with achievement, choice and the decisions we need to make about how we actually spend our precious lives. Mara Glatzel (she/her) is a coach, podcast host, and the author of "Needy: How to Advocate for Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty." She teaches fellow needy humans to uncover the most vulnerable and true expressions of themselves, and learn how to deeply tend to their needs. Through her online programs, workshops, and retreats, Mara supports people to reclaim space for their own humanity and create ambitious lives filled with meaning, without abandoning themselves in the process. Find out more about Mara at maraglatzel.comIf you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. Follow Cath on social media here:Instagram: @cathcounihanSubstack: Nurture.Heal.GrowFacebook: Cath Counihan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Sarah Lemmerman Maginess and Lisa Jacobson in this special podcast episode about the difference between Projector needs and neediness.

Did you know the Feminine energy in us deeply desires to be seen, heard, noticed, valued, and loved? It's a NEED, just like breathing, sleeping, and food and shelter. How we express that need can be healthy or toxic. Many Feminine women are not getting their needs met because they haven't learned how to express themselves responsibly. I'll explain what that means and give you a very simple way to change your communication. Trust me, please, this works! DIVINE FEMININE EMERGY EXPERIENCEMichelle@GrowBy1.com

► Get Access To Our Courses & Community: https://understandable.net/join/ (Ad) ► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques: https://understandable.net/book/ (Ad) Do you fall in love often and then build a bright future fantasy with people you usually barely know, become super needy and clingy right in the beginning? Then chances are high, that this bright fantasy that you build also comforts and excites you. But did you know that what you're experiencing here is actually not love? Did you know that people with childhood trauma regularly use romantic obsession as a tool to self-regulate and cope with their pain from the past? Well then today, I have 6 eye-opening signs, that you may be using limerence and the fantasy with another person as a way to re-regulate yourself. How this can work and what you can do about it, we'll find out in today's video. ► Links and Resources: 10 Common Symptoms of Childhood Trauma Episode: https://youtu.be/5VwTxkjO5Ak?si=0IrKBw3gcDDryTSu Fear of Commitment Episode: https://youtu.be/Xf1iuvoO0lM?si=geY5sdZACPGmWVEZ Limerence Episode: https://youtu.be/gDz8U2zaF0A ► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform! YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠ Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6 Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905 Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠ ► Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:44 What Is Limerence? 04:32 Limerence & Neediness 07:39 Sign 1: You Feel Anxiety And Panic, That In Reality, The Other Person (Limerent Object) Is Different From Your Fantasy 12:40 Sign 2: Your Intensity Of Limerence Varies, Depending On Your Phase In Life 14:26 Sign 3: Your Sense Of Self Worth & Purpose Revolves Around The Limerent Object 17:17 Sign 4: You Feel Anxiety Or Panic, When The Limerent Object Is Out Of Reach 19:19 Sign 5: You Prefer Spending Time Thinking About The Limerent Person, Than Actually Spending Time With Them 20:44 Sign 6: Your Romantic Obsession On Another Person Is A Substitute For True Connection And Intimacy 21:40 Solutions 24:53 Final Thoughts ► Reach Out To Me :) E-Mail: info@understandable.net ► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about CPTSD & attachment theory for highly sensitive & neurodivergent people. My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :) ► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

Dealing with a partner who comes off as too needy can be tricky. On one hand, their constant attention and affection might feel reassuring at first, but over time, it can start to feel overwhelming or even suffocating. This raises important questions about compatibility. Is their need for closeness a sign of deeper insecurity, or are they simply more emotionally expressive than you? In this episode, we'll explore when neediness becomes a dealbreaker and when it's something you can work through together. Should you address it head-on and have that tough conversation, or is it better to step back and walk away? We'll talk about how to handle these situations, why they happen, and how to figure out what feels right for you moving forward. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're diving into the art of confident negotiation—because, let's be honest, knowing your worth and asking for it unapologetically is a game-changer. Whether you're struggling to set your fees, handle client objections, or just want to level up your money mindset, this episode is for YOU.

Let's talk about neediness, completion energy, and the REAL core source of the validation we seek -- and, the energetic implications of the need for external validation. I hope some major breakthroughs are sparked!  JOIN THE DREAMAWAY MEMBERSHIP

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You asked, we answered, let's go. We're diving into YOUR questions and sharing all the expert advice, resources, and personal experiences we've gleaned over the past four years. We're covering: "How do I try new things in the bedroom?" How to talk about trying something new Tips for initiation How (and why) to set a container "How can I start having shame free casual sex?" A pep talk + reframe of why casual sex is AWESOME Steps to combat feeling "guilty" "How can I be less needy in my new relationship? How to EMBRACE your needs and redefine what it means to be needy An action plan for if you really are "too" needy Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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”There was a dysregulation in my nervous system if something wasn't going the way I wanted to."So says Jason about what life was like when he was more needy.Are you needy? Is your partner? How do you navigate difference?Here, we explore the themes around sex, dating, relationships, needs, desires, and the nervous system.—Memorable quotes from this episode:“I need something outside of me to shift in order to be OK.”“Now it's about advocating clearly for what I need.”“How do we navigate difference?”“There's a place in relationships for healthy generosity.”“What would I need to be a ‘yes' to this?”“It this doesn't shift, I'm going to take a certain action for myself.”“Neediness stems from these old wounds, so it can be hard to bring this forward with a partner.”“It can feel like, ‘If it's not here, I'm doomed.'”

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Dr. Robert Glover is the author of the bestseller “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and is a seasoned therapist, coach, speaker, and educator with more than 40 years of expertise in relationships.    I wanted to have Robert on the show to discuss loneliness in entrepreneurship and how we can attack these problems through community instead of prolonging them.   It is more important now than ever to unite as entrepreneurs and help each other.   Head to https://capitalism.com/playbook to download the Free Playbook to start on your own road to $1M and beyond.   To get on the waitlist for the Capitalism Accelerator, head to https://capitalism.com/launch   Connect with me on Instagram at https://instagram.com/ryandanielmoran   Timestamps:   (00:00) - The Male Entrepreneur's Challenge   (02:00) - Changes in Masculinity Over 25 Years    (06:05) - Growing Up Without Male Initiation    (09:10) - The Power of Pursuing Challenge    (14:20) - Building Your Support Structure    (21:30) - Understanding Needs vs Neediness    (25:10) - Clear Communication in Relationships    (31:45) - Renegotiating Relationships    (38:40) - Managing Expectations    (41:20) - Masculine & Feminine Energy    (48:55) - The Clarity of Making Decisions    (53:10) - Integration of Masculine/Feminine    (59:30) - Finding Purpose Through Challenge    (1:10:50) - The Two-and-a-Half Things Rule    (1:15:40) - Checking Your Key Life Ingredients    (1:23:15) - Avoiding the Money-Only Trap    (1:29:45) - The Long Game: 25 Years of Hustle   (1:34:10) - Closing Thoughts: Building Long-Term Success-Term 

In this episode of Holikhrey's Podcast, Khrey dives deep into the transformative journey of self-love, revealing the true costs of neglecting ourselves. Explore how the absence of self-compassion can lead to codependency, chronic self-doubt, and a reliance on external validation that drains our energy and keeps us stuck in repetitive, unfulfilling cycles. Khrey shares personal insights and spiritual practices to guide you toward inner love and acceptance, along with practical questions to identify lingering patterns of people-pleasing and fear-based attachment. Join us to uncover the joy of being whole on your own terms and learn how to replace neediness with nurturing. (Remember to rate, subscribe, and let us know how this episode resonates with your own journey!) Tune in to learn: 0:09 - 0:26: Theme of the Episode: “What Happens When You Don't Love Yourself”0:26 - 0:42: Delaying Self-Love and Its Consequences3:14 - 4:18: Exploring Spiritual Guidance and Divine Connection Through Source and Spirit Guides5:16 - 6:13: The Cost of Not Loving Yourself: Seeking External Validation and Feeling Inadequate7:37 - 9:33: Consequences of Neediness and Its Impact on Receiving Love Authentically9:33 - 10:37: Misconceptions About Toxic Traits and Overperforming for Love or Validation10:37 - 11:19: Energy Leakage from Seeking External Love and Being Seen as “Too Much” by Others11:19 - 12:32: The Burden of Codependency and Fear of Judgment from Others14:12 - 14:47: The Emotional and Physical Toll of Repressing One's Truth and Avoiding Self-Love16:56 - 17:52: The Impact of Not Loving Yourself on Emotional Well-Being and Attraction of Toxic Patterns17:52 - 19:15: Reconnecting with Yourself Through Unconditional Love and Divine Oneness20:50 - 21:21: Encouragement to Be Intentional in Practicing Self-Love When you're ready to work with Khrey: https://beacons.ai/holikhrey Follow her on Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/holikhrey/ Subscribe on her email list to be guided every month ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.holikhrey.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download Free Self love Workbook Subscribe on her Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@holikhrey Join our Holistic Group on Facebook ⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/CRy79fwxfVFjuZRZ/ Or join our Soulfull Community https://www.facebook.com/share/g/rZLq83rwdg8KuwoU/ MAGIC MIND ELIXER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://magicmind.superfiliate.com/HKHREY20⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code HKRHEY20 for 20% off your first purchase, or HKRHEY20 for a whopping 56% off a subscription! FREE MEDITATION: https://youtu.be/OO_2yK1TI1w?si=eG_fvJqIgGbmDhUg

You want safe relationships right? Be is neediness getting in the way? We long for meaningful interactions and safe relationships. However, within our deep wounds, we can develop an intense and excessive neediness that will take over in our relationship interactions and become a driving force. We all have a need for loving connection and […]

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-10-06-24&el=podcast In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, co-hosts Thais Gibson and Mike dive deep into the complex world of avoidant attachment styles. They explore how dismissive avoidants often have unrealistic relationship expectations, such as needing their partner to be emotionally self-sufficient and not "needy," as well as avoiding deep emotional discussions. These expectations can lead to challenges in relationships, especially if they are unwilling to compromise or recognize the importance of emotional connection and open communication in building a healthy partnership. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation that aims to shed light on the intricacies of attachment and connection. Don't miss the opportunity to learn how these attachment styles can heal and transform to form more secure, fulfilling relationships. Plus, hear the hosts share their personal journeys from avoidance to secure attachment. Listen now on Spotify, iTunes, or watch the video version on YouTube. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:01:15 - Discussing the Ideal Relationship for Dismissive Avoidants 00:02:28 - Unhealthy Expectations in Dismissive Avoidant Relationships 00:03:23 - The Fear of Neediness in Relationships 00:06:11 - Financial Stability and Autonomy in Dismissive Avoidant Dynamics 00:07:02 - Discomfort with Discussing Future Plans 00:09:23 - The Importance of Boundaries and Dialog in Relationships 00:11:12 - Managing Drama and Emotional Regulation in Avoidant Attachment 00:13:12 - Accepting Flaws and Judgment in Dismissive Avoidant Relationships 00:16:01 - Communicating Needs Effectively to Avoidants 00:19:08 - Reinforcing Boundaries and Needs with Avoidants 00:21:02 - Balancing the Relationship Over Time 00:25:13 - The Need for Alone Time in Avoidant Relationships 00:34:18 - Summarizing Avoidant Expectations and Healthy Compromises 00:36:17 - Unhealthy Expectations vs. Healthy Relationship Needs 00:39:11 - Negotiating Time Together in Relationships 00:44:49 - Importance of Emotional Expression in Relationships 00:50:09 - Helping Avoidants Open Up Emotionally 00:52:34 - Using Thinking Language vs. Feeling Language with Avoidants Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Overview:In this episode, Ryan delves into the complexities of relationships, focusing on the polarities of neediness versus sovereignty. You'll learn the secrets to building a thriving relationship & how embracing both your own imperfections & those of your partner can lead to a more authentic bond. Learn the dynamics of masculine & feminine energies, understanding how these forces interact to create balance and harmony in partnerships. Whether you're looking to enhance your current relationship or gain insights for future connections, this episode provides valuable guidance on bringing presence, wholeness and continuous growth into your journey together.You will learn:Why it is important to acknowledge & express our needs in relationshipsThe secrets to a thriving relationshipWhy do people seek relationships & true their motivesHow to address common relationship mistakes & challenges that most people faceThe power of accepting your own imperfections & those of your partnerThe different attachment styles in relationshipsThe dynamics between masculine & feminine energiesShownotes:0:00 Introduction9:00 Why Do People Get Into Relationships & What Makes a Healthy Relationship?20:00 Masculine Vs Feminine Energies In a Partnership29:00 What Most Relationships Are Lacking…37:55 Start Accepting Your Imperfections (The Power of Acceptance in Relationships) 45:45 Keep Continuously Evolving in Your Relationship JourneyIf there are any ‘aha' moments that strike a chord for you throughout the interview, pay it forward. You can create such in someone else's life, just by pausing the episode, copying the link and messaging it through to someone you care about.Not only could you change someone's life, but you'll also earn some brownie points. We all love that friend who cares about us enough to message something thoughtful through.Don't forget to tag @theryanmagic when you're sharing this on social media.I'm so excited for you to get into this episode, so without further ado, let's dive into it!Shoot me an email at ryan@ryanmagic.com or check out the website & the socials to stay in touch! Follow us at:https://www.instagram.com/theryanmagic/ https://www.facebook.com/theryanmagic https://www.ryanmagic.com/References:6:40 ‘Attached': The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (Book by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller)Send us a textSupport the showInstagram | Facebook | Youtube | Website

In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy

In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.

A sweet story about a dog named Sparkle reveals many truths about the nature of love, sacrifice, independence, and marriage. Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Follow on social media: @GretchenRubin on YouTube @GretchenRubin on TikTok @GretchenRubin on Instagram @GretchenRubin on Threads Get the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes Get Gretchen Rubin's newest book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available - order here. Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we discuss the challenges of dealing with children's neediness. We explore the reasons behind why parents may find their children's neediness annoying, the childhood triggers linked to this, and how to overcome these feelings. This episode covers various ways children's neediness manifests, including clinginess, verbal demands, ungratefulness, and unhappiness, offering practical parenting tools and parenting advice to help parents process their emotions and create a more nurturing environment. – Resources mentioned: Lavinia's Making Peace with Your Past signature holistic healing programme: https://www.laviniabrown.com/making-peace-with-your-past  Andrew's 1-1 RESET Coaching Programme: https://www.andrewlynn.net/coaching  Book a Deep Dive Relationship Recovery Session: https://calendly.com/d/ck3y-gzt-kbc/3hr-deep-dive-relationship-recovery-session –

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches clients to be more secure in their interactions, leading them to much better relationships.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get Coach Jack's book on overcoming neediness and getting love.How to identify a needy, dependent, codependent, or secure spouseDiscover 12 ways neediness may be damaging your relationship.Work with Coach Jack to change your needy behaviors into secure ones.

Lorin Krenn is an internationally renowned teacher, coach, author, and hypnotherapist who has worked with high performers and CEOs on their deepest relationship challenges.Known for his deep and powerful, yet relatable and highly practical style of teaching and down-to-earth approach when it comes to relationships, he joins us today to talk about the Core Challenges Men Face When Relating With Women.Lauren shares his personal journey of finding his purpose and becoming a healthy masculine role model. He emphasizes the need for men to go through an initiation process and release emotional hooks from their parents. He also discusses the concept of masculine and feminine polarity and the importance of holding space for emotions in relationships. The conversation explores the importance of facing unresolved emotional challenges and doing the deep work to have fulfilling relationships and personal growth. It emphasizes the need for men to face themselves in stillness and be emotionally present for their partners. The conversation also touches on the challenges men face in relationships, such as neediness, taking the relationship for granted, and avoiding the real work. The vision for men going forward is to have a clear sense of service and purpose and to choose growth and transformation over comfort and avoidance. The conversation concludes with a discussion of the importance of knowing what you want and doing the work for yourself rather than seeking validation from others.Learn More About Lorin KrennInstagram: @LorinKrennYouTube: @LorinKrennOfficialWebsite: lorinkrenn.comBook: Understand Women BetterText Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Support the Show.Additional Resources:Magic Mind: Get 20% Off Your Subcription Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE

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From a young age, attractive women become masters at sniffing out neediness. Most men don't discover this fact about life until they've sabotaged their dating lives and relationships. But here's the good news: There's a proven system for overcoming your neediness. It won't happen overnight, but it will free you from the sadistic grip neediness has over you.  In this episode, you'll discover the 7 steps to obliterate your neediness for good.  Listen now.  Show Highlights Include: - How your fear about relationships dupes you into making relationship-ending mistakes (even if you don't realize it) (2:40)  - The counterintuitive reason becoming wealthy skyrockets your neediness (3:04)  - Why women can see through your inauthentic attempts to get to know their personality like Swiss cheese (4:41)  - The fundamental human needs that help you exterminate your neediness (9:03)  - Why having an agenda of picking up women when you go out subconsciously repels them from you (13:27)  - The 7 experiential steps to meet your own needs and obliterate your neediness (20:30)  Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 17 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

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Welcome to the Roadmap to Secure Love latest podcast episode, where we delve deep into the complex world of relationship dynamics. Today, Kim and Kyle explore the challenges couples face when one partner perceives the other as needy or weak, and the discomfort—often described as an "ick" feeling—that follows.In this enlightening discussion, you'll discover the importance of understanding both your own reactions and your partner's behaviors. Kim and Kyle discuss how these feelings can actually highlight deeper issues within ourselves, such as fear of inadequacy and the avoidance of vulnerability.Key Takeaways from This Episode:Understanding Disgust: Learn how your adverse reactions might be more about your own fears than your partner's behavior.Dual Perspective: See the value in assessing both how you view yourself and how you view your partner in the relationship.Communication is Key: Gain insights on how better communication can prevent misunderstandings and strengthen your connection.Slow Down: Find out why taking a moment to reflect can transform your relationship dynamics for the better.Embrace Vulnerability: Embrace the strength in vulnerability to build a more secure and intimate bond with your partner.This episode is not just a discussion; it's a roadmap to transforming your relationship into a more understanding and supportive partnership. Whether you're feeling stuck in a cycle of negativity, struggling with communication, or simply looking to deepen your connection, Kim and Kyle offer practical advice and heartfelt insights that can help.Don't forget to like, comment, and follow for more insights from the Roadmap to Secure Love. Share this episode with anyone who might find it helpful, and let us know how these strategies work for you. Together, we can turn challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.Enroll in the Secure Attachment Path to foster deep, secure connections within your relationships. Website Resources: Relationship Therapy Sex Therapy Relationship Articles Secure Sex Articles

It is so easy to get caught up in neediness when it comes to our ideas of love.  Love addiction and neediness is commonly found when we have repeating cycles of abuse and narcissism.  In this Episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah does a deep dive into our desperate need for love from an unavailable parent, family member, significant other, adult child, or ex-partner.  She talks about where the dynamic of neediness comes from and how we can overcome it so that we can migrate towards relationships where we can truly get our needs for love met in healthy, fulfilling ways. Please support Pandoras Box by becoming a Patreon Member For more information about Kaleah's work please visit: www.narcissismfree.com

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Discover the transformative power of the Red Pill in enhancing your sexual relationships and self-esteem. In this live stream, we dive deep into the common covert contracts and validation needs that undermine your self-worth and sexual satisfaction. Learn how to eliminate these toxic behaviors, cultivate authentic desire, and build a fulfilling, intimate connection with your partner. We'll cover essential topics like attraction validation, emotional labor, and overcoming Nice Guy tendencies to help you achieve the great sex and deep intimacy you desire. Join us for actionable advice and real-life insights that will revolutionize your approach to relationships. This episode will be based on this Red Pill archive post: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/validation-needs-that-can-poison-your-sex-life.197499 // BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER // Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com Basic Diet & Fitness (Mini-Course): http://fit.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/message

In this episode, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews dive deep into why neediness is such a turn-off in relationships. Joined by special guests, they explore the root causes of neediness and offer practical steps to regain confidence and self-worth. Learn how to stop seeking validation from others and start filling your own cup. Discover the importance of pursuing your passions, connecting with a supportive group of men, and reclaiming your identity outside of your relationship. Whether you're struggling with feeling unappreciated or just want to strengthen your sense of self, this episode provides valuable insights to help you take massive action and transform your life. Tune in and find out how to shift from being a "needy deer" to a "confident wolf" and why it's crucial to lead your life with authenticity and strength. Don't miss out on this empowering discussion that could change your perspective and your relationship for the better​. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Ever wondered what it takes to keep your favorite celebrity happy on tour? Spoiler alert: It's not just about the glitz and glamour! On this episode of the Powers Point Podcast, Scott Powers and Jim Banks dive headfirst into the outlandish and downright hilarious travel requests of the rich and famous. From comparing these extravagant demands to their own family's quirks, to sharing personal tales of summer vacation envy, we promise you'll be entertained and chuckling along the way. And as if that wasn't enough, we throw in a dash of sports talk, cheering on the Edmonton Oilers in the NHL finals and marveling at the historic distance between the competing cities.Get ready for a rollercoaster of bizarre celebrity tour riders that will make you question everything you thought you knew about fame. From Van Halen's notorious M&M demands to Britney Spears' odd McDonald's cheeseburger order and David Hasselhoff's life-size cutout of himself, we dissect each eccentric request with humor and curiosity. And let's not forget the cherry on top—Lady Gaga's mannequin with puffy pink pubic hair and Kanye West's booze-filled slushie machine! Whether it's Larry the Cable Guy's wing obsession or Cher's separate room for her wigs, these stories are guaranteed to give you a unique peek behind the curtain of celebrity life. So, tune in for laughs, surprising insights, and a fun-filled conversation you won't want to miss!Support the Show.Thank you for joining us on today's show, as always, we appreciate each and every one of you! Talk to you soon.X - @PodcastScottIG - Powers31911

Yeah, I've been very needy with you in a lot of different ways.Timestamps:00:00 Intro01:01 Why you might be needy11:34 How I (Andy) am needy with my audience (you guys!)13:13 I needed you to like me30:07 I needed you to think I'm smart/wise39:02 I needed people to think I'm a kind/good person43:37 I needed people to subscribe/engage with the channel44:22 I needed people to watch my videos45:25 I needed money from you51:40 I needed you to take action & change your life55:19 How to overcome neediness59:14 Taylor being a really chill dude▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

Neediness plagues every relationship, and achievers tend to be more needy than other people. Why?  Well, the achiever's desire to achieve often stems from neediness itself. Achievers think they have to earn every bit of love and approval in their lives. And then the success you achieve from this mindset tricks you into believing that this is a good trait.  However, look closely into a successful achiever's life, and you'll see that no matter how much they achieved, there's a deep void of loneliness in their lives. Look closely into their relationships, and they're riddled with neediness.  But you know what?  Listening to this week's episode is a good first step to help you take off the mask of achievement that leads to loneliness and neediness.  Listen now.  Show Highlights Include: The insidious “Do More” trap achievers fall into to eliminate their neediness that only makes it surge (0:42)  3 survival strategies you tried as a kid and how they still dominate your behaviors today (4:05)  How needing external validation poisons every relationship you have from the inside out (7:38)  Why success serves as a mask for your deepest insecurities (and how to take the mask off) (9:38)  A key questions achievers must ask themselves to stop feeding their neediness (14:33)  Downloading this app is the first step towards eliminating your neediness (23:22)  Will you lose your edge if you stop striving for success and achievements? (26:54)  Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 17 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

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If you want something?Ask for it.The universe, a person, a relationship, a business...if you want something, just ask.  Have the courage to put your self and your wants and desires out there. Especially spicy mustard with your Charcuterie board. :)Kim jumps into wants vs needs, and how the term NEED plays in people's personality, characteristics,  and state of mind.  We then jump into personal choices, mastery, emotional regulation, and making decisions in your life that bring you PEACE.  Only YOU can control your emotions and what we choose to involve ourselves in.Your highest self is depending on you.  Are you honouring your higher self? How can you honour that person? What decisions do you have to make to do that?We get deep. We hope you enjoy.K&JSIGN UP FOR WORKSHOPS, RETREATS, AND APPLY TO WORK WITH KIM & JAMIE: bit.ly/WorkWithKimFitzpatrickCONTACT INFO:Private Coaching:jamie@fitzlifeconsulting.comkim@fitzlifeconsulting.com Kim:www.jamieandkimfitzpatrick.comIG: @kim_m_fitzpatrickTikTok: @kimmfitzpatrickFB: https://www.facebook.com/kim.p.fitzpatrickE: kim@jamieandkimfitzpatrick.comJamie: www.jamieandkimfitzpatrick.com IG: @jamiefitzpatrickentrepreneur FB: https://www.facebook.com/CoachJamieFitzpatrick/ E: jamie@jamieandkimfitzpatrick.com

There's often a fine line between love and neediness, especially for men. Women have a sixth sense to sniff out neediness, which can leave you confused and unconvinced unconditional love even exists.  But when you look closely into the differences between love and neediness, you'll see how diametrically opposed these two states are.  Love comes from a place of abundance, neediness from lack. Love is based on internal validation, neediness on external validation.  But if you can't even tell the difference between the two, it's impossible to bridge the gap from neediness to love.  So, how can you bridge the gap and transform neediness into love?  In today's episode, you'll discover the difference between love and neediness, practical steps to cultivate self-love and suffocate neediness, and how to nurture unconditional love in relationships (even if neediness rears its ugly head). Listen now.  Show Highlights Include: How to spot the early signs of neediness before they wreck your chances of finding true love (1:43)  The subtle mindset shift that frees you from the toxic stranglehold of neediness and warps you into love (4:51)  Do you cringe when you find yourself becoming needy? Here's how to bridge the gap between neediness and love (6:08)  Why people pleasers struggle the most at finding unconditional love (and how to avoid common mistakes people pleasers make—even if you are one) (8:29)  How healthy boundaries prevent unconditional love from morphing into unconditional neediness (10:54)  The indestructible two-step antidote to neediness (12:30)  This book will not only stop your neediness in its tracks but also helps you build unconditional self-love (18:50)  Practical “self-reflection” steps that steer you away from neediness and open the door to true, unconditional love (25:18)  How to transform neediness into an opportunity to deepen communication in relationships (28:52)  Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

This is the 5th of 8 Meditations from Becca Williams. I had a great interview with Becca on Episode No. 228 Becca Williams is a seasoned emotions therapist and plant medicine facilitator, with expertise in emotional and trauma recovery. ======= Thanks to my Sponsors : If you or know some body you know is struggling with anxiety and want to know how to be 100% anxiety free, in 6 weeks, without therapy or drugs, fully guaranteed - then let me tell you about our sponsor Daniel Packard.   Watch this Free 45 min. Training    to learn an innovative technique that:   a) Quickly lowers your anxiety by up to 85%   b) Proves solving your anxiety can be simple.    https://www.danielpackard.com/ -------------------------- Do you have High Blood Pressure and/ or want to get off the Meds Doctors are amazed at what the Zona Plus can do $50 Discount with my Code ROY https://www.zona.com/discount/ROY   =============== Social Media / Coaching My Other Podcasts ⁠⁠https://bio.link/podcaster⁠⁠   ============== Bio of Becca Williams: Becca Williams is a seasoned emotions therapist and plant medicine facilitator, with expertise in emotional and trauma recovery. Her focus extends to psychedelic integration, psilocybin microdosing, and providing cannabis-assisted support to break negative emotional cycles. Through her Emotional Liberation workshops, immersive retreats, and masterclass courses, Becca seamlessly blends ancient healing modalities with Western neuroscience, promoting a holistic integration of inner and outer life experiences. As a Registered Dietitian/Nutritionist and a certified Emotions Facilitator, Becca brings a wealth of knowledge to her practice. With a passion for plant medicine advocacy and activism, she has served as a group facilitator, speaker, and mentor, contributing to personal and collective transformation for over two decades. ====================  Contact Becca Williams:    https://beccawilliams.org/   https://www.facebook.com/becca.williams.9655   https://www.instagram.com/no.more.difficult.emotions/   https://www.linkedin.com/in/becca-williams-b827ab7/   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCM190BrmgIT-CxmteOEWbyA ===============   My Podcasts / Social Media / Coaching /Donations ⁠⁠https://bio.link/podcaster⁠⁠

This week, I dive into a topic that you might relate to: NEEDINESS! I share my personal experience and insights on how to navigate this rather challenging aspect of parenting. My emphasis is on understanding and honoring your needs and how they are perceived by your child. Tune in to discover my unique approach and learn practical strategies for embracing and loving your needs.  

Episode #80: "Neediness" has come up in plenty of episodes, but this is the first one dedicated to that loaded word. The episode was inspired by a letter from a listener--author, Sally Vardaman, who found herself reacting to my mom's story in episode #72 about her decision to end a friendship over what she called, "neediness." Sally's letter was so reflective and insightful that I asked her to come on the show. We covered: feeling drained by a friend's needs.worrying you're overtaxing friends with your needs.eliminating the shame of having needs in the first place. We all have needs! They just rarely cannot be met by one particular friend.MEET SALLY VARDAMANSally Vardaman is a writer who believes in the power of stories to make us think, question our assumptions, and connect with each other despite our differences. She is the author of Shoot the Arrows, a new book of essays to her three teenage children on why honesty and self-reflection are the keys to a healthy and meaningful life. You can find more about her work at sallyvardaman.com. As well as on Facebook, Instagram, and Goodreads.The Books Sally has found helpful on the topic of neediness:Sally wrote, "There are no quick fixes and we need all the education we can get.  The great thing about books and learning is we always have the opportunity to understand ourselves better and change."Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, a great assessment on attachment issues with lots of practical suggestions for all attachment types.Platonic by Marisa Franco, a look at attachment specifically in friendships (pretty sure I heard about this one through Dear Nina :)How to Be Your Own Best Friend by Mildred Newman and Bernard Berkowitz (first published in 1971, thank you Nora Ephron!)Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melodie Beattie (first published in 1986)Lying by Sam Harris Let's connect over all things friendship! Here's my Substack newsletter about friendship & more Dear Nina website with show notes and a guide to pitching yourself as a guest Instagram & TikTok Twitter JOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Ask an anonymous question

David Cain of Raptitude reminds us that mindfulness is the opposite of neediness Episode 2984: Mindfulness is the Opposite of Neediness by David Cain of Raptitude on Releasing Our Attachment to Outcomes David Cain is a writer and entrepreneur living in Winnipeg, Canada. On a particular boring day at his office job in 2009, he started Raptitude. His interest has always been human society and the internal human experience, and Raptitude became his megaphone for his thoughts about those things. It found an audience rather quickly and it's been central to his life ever since. In 2013, he left his day job to write full time. The original post is located here: https://www.raptitude.com/2015/11/mindfulness-is-the-opposite-of-neediness/ Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalLivingDaily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Now this can get tricky because a lot of times the choices that people make now this can be tricky because there's a very fine line here, but I think it is so important to spend time on.  The whole reason that this podcast episode is absolutely essential is because we are making decisions all day long about the people we interact with and who we lead into our inner circle… and this is a very clear issue to me… But only very recently. Since we know that it is absolutely crucial for us to protect our happy headspace and really try to give our energy to things that drive us forward and are aligned with our main life priorities. So having people in our lives that make us feel shitty about ourselves, or are constantly running us down or being inconsiderate and hurting our feelings… is not part of the program. This is one of those things that I've only just fully seen super clearly within the last few weeks.  And I think it's so crazy important because if you really take the time to think of it this way when you're in different situation… you will absolutely make the best decisions when interacting with them and also how much interaction you should actually have with them.  So let's define our terms… What do we consider a jerk and what do we consider someone who hasn't hasn't worked through their own issues yet.  JERK To me, a jerk is someone who puts themselves first- so they are a good friend when it works for them… Often times the conversation is 90% about them and 10% about you… Now not all of these examples will of course apply to every jerk… I'm just giving you examples… Jerks sometimes say mean things just to be mean… They don't take accountability for their actions. Often times if you look at how they treat other people… Not just you… It's easier to actually see who they are. I think it's also very important to believe people when they show you who they are, I really am an eternal optimist, but that can be to a disadvantage because sometimes I'll keep thinking… This person will see this new change… When the reality is… If someone shows you who they are over and over again… Responsibility is on you now not them… They showing you who they are and now it's your job to recognize it and protect yourself appropriately.  Examples: Mind manipulates you - guilt trips etc.  Lack of compassion or empathy - often critical, always your fault, nit picks, causes fights  No accountability - blames you for all  Gaslighting - deny facts, rewrite history and even make you sought your own thoughts  Exportation - financial or emotional - use your resources for their own gain - without much in return  Control- often seen control of every part of the relationship  Friends are disposable - can abruptly end a friendship or relationship without any empathy. SOMEONE WITH ISSUES  For a person who has issues they haven't resolved yet… The behavior can be similar, but if you look closely, there's usually a very clear difference. Examples:  Projection - put their own negative emotions on you.  Their insecurities or unresolved issue.  Mood swings- they can be angry or irritable with you without clear reasons  Overacting- they can have a big reaction to a minor issue - because they have a heightened emotional sensitivity  Blame shifting - its all your fault  Inconsistency - change their mind often, not sure what version of them you are going to get Jealousy and envy- they feel inadequate so they can be competitive and not happy for your wins  Neediness- they might overly depend on you - which can be emotionally draining  Talk behind your back - because they feel insecure  HOW TO APPROACH BOTH- your blueprint  Jerk- distance- don't engage in the argument Often not worth the time to explain how they hurt you or disregarded your feelings.  Someone with issues- depends on how close you are to them.  Give them grace.  Or tell them- I know this is not the person that you are.  Give them time and space.  Be honest about how their actions affected you.  Offer support and a safe space  Keep boundaries - so their negative stuff doesn't impact you  Know when you have to walk away - at least for now  It's so important to know the difference and to proceed differently with both.  You will feel so much freedom and spend so much more time in your happy headspace!

The Doctor is ready to see you now. Wretched Radio | Air Date: June 20, 2023 https://media-wretched.org/Radio/Podcast/WR2023-0620.mp3 Segment 1 Dr. Greg Gifford is in the studio today. Question asking is vital to counseling. How can one bring down walls to get through to their teenagers? Segment 2 Neediness is driven by an over dependency on […] The post NEEDY PEOPLE appeared first on Wretched.