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Studies find that a majority of teenagers and young adults cite loneliness as one of their most painful problems. Longtime campus minister Shelby Abbott found this to be true among his students, so he wrote Why We're Feeling Lonely (And What We Can Do About It) (A Christian Guide for Gen Z on Relationships, Friendship, Community, Anxiety, Depression, and Healing Loneliness Through the Gospel) to address this issue head-on with the truth of the gospel. His conversation with Anna offers practical guidance to parents who are raising kids in a digitally connected/relationally disconnected world. You'll be encouraged by his wisdom and trust! Shelby Abbott is an author, campus minister, emcee, and conference speaker. He's also a husband and dad to two daughters. His passion for university students has led him to speak at college campuses all over the US and author several books for the next generation, including such topics as doubt, pressure, and cohabitation before marriage. Find him at shelbyabbott.com Pushing Back on the Loneliness Epidemic Among Young People by Shelby Abbott Fear Factor in Parenting: Will My Child Lose Their Faith in College? with Shelby Abbott Rooted Loneliness Resources Follow us on instagram @rootedministry! Subscribe to the Rooted Parent Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts, or watch the episode on YouTube! Why Teenagers Need to Know that God is For Us by Steve EatmonMom and Dad, Nothing Can Separate You from the Love of Christ by Dan Hallock Follow @therootedministry on Instagram for more updates Register for the Rooted 2026 Conference in Nashville
If only they knew. You've been burned by church — gossip, hypocrisy, wounds that make isolation feel way safer than community. Meanwhile, parenting teens feels impossible: anxiety, porn, loneliness, and digital overload threaten to derail their faith. Turns out self-sufficiency sounds empowering but crumbles under real pressure. If you're tempted to quit on people or give up on the long game, Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," calls you back. He explains why going it alone doesn't work ... and how messy relationships just might be worth it. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
If only they knew. You've been burned by church — gossip, hypocrisy, wounds that make isolation feel way safer than community. Meanwhile, parenting teens feels impossible: anxiety, porn, loneliness, and digital overload threaten to derail their faith. Turns out self-sufficiency sounds empowering but crumbles under real pressure. If you're tempted to quit on people or give up on the long game, Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," calls you back. He explains why going it alone doesn't work ... and how messy relationships just might be worth it. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
"If they really knew me, would they still love me?" That fear of vulnerability fuels loneliness, curated online masks, people-pleasing, and walls that block deep friendships, marital closeness, or authenticity in ministry. And suffering eventually deepens that fear instead of healing it. If you're weary of performing, tired of fake friendships, and craving courage for real connection, listen in. Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," exposes the roots of our universal dread — and points the way to freedom from approval-seeking and isolation. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
"If they really knew me, would they still love me?" That fear of vulnerability fuels loneliness, curated online masks, people-pleasing, and walls that block deep friendships, marital closeness, or authenticity in ministry. And suffering eventually deepens that fear instead of healing it. If you're weary of performing, tired of fake friendships, and craving courage for real connection, listen in. Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," exposes the roots of our universal dread — and points the way to freedom from approval-seeking and isolation. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Got packed days and full news feeds — but still that nagging emptiness? The loneliness we hide is real, fueled by tech that mimics friendship but starves the soul. It's not just you. Authenticity feels rare and intentional relationships hard to build. Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," cuts through the noise with lived experience and faith-rooted truth. If you've been wondering, "Why am I so lonely?", he'll help you stop living at surface-level — and start pursuing what truly satisfies. Your practical hope for deeper belonging starts here. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Got packed days and full news feeds — but still that nagging emptiness? The loneliness we hide is real, fueled by tech that mimics friendship but starves the soul. It's not just you. Authenticity feels rare and intentional relationships hard to build. Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," cuts through the noise with lived experience and faith-rooted truth. If you've been wondering, "Why am I so lonely?", he'll help you stop living at surface-level — and start pursuing what truly satisfies. Your practical hope for deeper belonging starts here. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
In today's episode, Paul and Shelby Abbott continue their conversation on The Blessings and Danger of Anger — Part Two. If you missed Part One, you can find it in Episode 50 of The Connecting Podcast.This will be the final episode of this version of The Connecting Podcast for a little while—but don't worry. We'll be back in a few months with a new format and more conversations to come. In the meantime, we encourage you to explore the archives and catch up on any of the previous 50 episodes you may have missed, featuring Paul with special guests or with Shelby discussing topics like grace, faith, and evangelism.Visit PaulTripp.com/Connecting to listen to all 50 episodes of The Connecting Podcast.
In today's episode, Paul and Shelby Abbott continue their conversation on The Blessings and Danger of Anger — Part Two. If you missed Part One, you can find it in Episode 50 of The Connecting Podcast.This will be the final episode of this version of The Connecting Podcast for a little while—but don't worry. We'll be back in a few months with a new format and more conversations to come. In the meantime, we encourage you to explore the archives and catch up on any of the previous 50 episodes you may have missed, featuring Paul with special guests or with Shelby discussing topics like grace, faith, and evangelism.Visit PaulTripp.com/Connecting to listen to all 50 episodes of The Connecting Podcast.
Are you a student stressing out over school, your future, or your identity? Most young people face unique stressors as they transition to college and life beyond graduation. Don't miss the help from Shelby Abbott as he offers gospel solutions to the everyday struggles of college-age Christians—things like purpose, relationships, and living with social media. Find wisdom for navigating the college years when you join us for Equipped with Chris Brooks. Featured resource:Pressure Points: A Guide to Navigating Student Stress by Shelby Abbott January thank you gift:Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become Like Him. Do as He Did. by John Mark Comer Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support. To donate now, click here.
When was the last time you got angry? Why did you get angry? Who were you angry with? What was the fruit of that anger?We experience anger every day, but not all anger is wrong—and not all anger should be resisted. In this Connecting Podcast, Paul and Shelby Abbott begin an extended conversation on the blessings and dangers of anger.Anger, while not listed as a fruit of the Spirit, can be a righteous, God-honoring response. Our God is filled with holy anger, and as his image-bearers, we are called to reflect his character.That means we have the capacity for godly anger, and there are real blessings that can come with it. But sin has corrupted our hearts, giving us an equally real capacity to twist something good into something destructive. What begins as righteous anger can quickly become selfish and harmful.The Bible is shockingly honest about anger, and Paul and Shelby are here to connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to our everyday lives as they explore both the blessings and the dangers of anger.
When was the last time you got angry? Why did you get angry? Who were you angry with? What was the fruit of that anger?We experience anger every day, but not all anger is wrong—and not all anger should be resisted. In this Connecting Podcast, Paul and Shelby Abbott begin an extended conversation on the blessings and dangers of anger.Anger, while not listed as a fruit of the Spirit, can be a righteous, God-honoring response. Our God is filled with holy anger, and as his image-bearers, we are called to reflect his character.That means we have the capacity for godly anger, and there are real blessings that can come with it. But sin has corrupted our hearts, giving us an equally real capacity to twist something good into something destructive. What begins as righteous anger can quickly become selfish and harmful.The Bible is shockingly honest about anger, and Paul and Shelby are here to connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to our everyday lives as they explore both the blessings and the dangers of anger.
Over the past few months, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been unpacking one of the most essential realities of the Christian life: faith. Not vague optimism. Not blind hope. But a God-given way of living that reshapes everything.In this fourth and final episode of What Even Is Faith?, Paul and Shelby bring the series to a close by exploring how real faith grows in the struggles and joys of everyday life.For more episodes of The Connecting Podcast visit PaulTripp.com/Connecting
Over the past few months, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been unpacking one of the most essential realities of the Christian life: faith. Not vague optimism. Not blind hope. But a God-given way of living that reshapes everything.In this fourth and final episode of What Even Is Faith?, Paul and Shelby bring the series to a close by exploring how real faith grows in the struggles and joys of everyday life.For more episodes of The Connecting Podcast visit PaulTripp.com/Connecting
It's a pretty sure bet that everyone of us has been lonely at some point in our lives. In today's world, loneliness has reached epidemic proportions, especially among our children, teens, and young adults. Shelby Abbott has written a great new book on loneliness... it's causes and cure... and that's what I'm talking about with Shelby, on this episode of Youth Culture Matters.
Faith isn't just a belief. It's a way of seeing, living, and trusting God in every circumstance. That's what Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring in their ongoing series on The Connecting Podcast: What Even Is Faith?In part three, they dig even deeper into what it looks like to live out authentic faith in everyday life.
Faith isn't just a belief. It's a way of seeing, living, and trusting God in every circumstance. That's what Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring in their ongoing series on The Connecting Podcast: What Even Is Faith?In part three, they dig even deeper into what it looks like to live out authentic faith in everyday life.
“The righteous shall live by faith.”This foundational verse from Habakkuk 2:4—echoed again in Romans, Galatians, and Hebrews—calls us to consider what true faith really means. That's why Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott are sitting down for a four-part series exploring the question: What even is faith?Today's episode is part two of that conversation on The Connecting Podcast.
“The righteous shall live by faith.”This foundational verse from Habakkuk 2:4—echoed again in Romans, Galatians, and Hebrews—calls us to consider what true faith really means. That's why Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott are sitting down for a four-part series exploring the question: What even is faith?Today's episode is part two of that conversation on The Connecting Podcast.
“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1).But what exactly is faith? And what does it look like to live by faith—not just in the big, dramatic moments of life, but in the ten thousand small, ordinary moments that fill every day?That's the focus of this episode of The Connecting Podcast, the first in a multi-part series where Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott dive deep on the subject of faith.
“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1).But what exactly is faith? And what does it look like to live by faith—not just in the big, dramatic moments of life, but in the ten thousand small, ordinary moments that fill every day?That's the focus of this episode of The Connecting Podcast, the first in a multi-part series where Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott dive deep on the subject of faith.
Over the past few episodes of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring what it means to live as everyday evangelists—ordinary people sharing an extraordinary gospel in everyday moments.In this fourth and final episode, they wrap up their conversation on evangelism by offering practical tools and biblical encouragement to help you boldly share your faith wherever God has placed you.Whether you're new to faith or a seasoned believer, we all need fresh courage and clarity in this vital calling.
Over the past few episodes of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring what it means to live as everyday evangelists—ordinary people sharing an extraordinary gospel in everyday moments.In this fourth and final episode, they wrap up their conversation on evangelism by offering practical tools and biblical encouragement to help you boldly share your faith wherever God has placed you.Whether you're new to faith or a seasoned believer, we all need fresh courage and clarity in this vital calling.
Over the past few episodes of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring what it looks like to live as an everyday evangelist, someone who naturally and intentionally shares the hope of the gospel in the rhythms of daily life.In this third installment, Paul and Shelby dive even deeper into the heart of evangelism, offering fresh encouragement and practical insight for reaching the people God has placed around you.Whether you've been sharing your faith for years or you're just beginning to step out in this area, our prayer is that this ongoing series equips you with gospel courage and compassion for everyday conversations.
Over the past few episodes of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott have been exploring what it looks like to live as an everyday evangelist, someone who naturally and intentionally shares the hope of the gospel in the rhythms of daily life.In this third installment, Paul and Shelby dive even deeper into the heart of evangelism, offering fresh encouragement and practical insight for reaching the people God has placed around you.Whether you've been sharing your faith for years or you're just beginning to step out in this area, our prayer is that this ongoing series equips you with gospel courage and compassion for everyday conversations.
On the last episode of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott began a conversation about what it means to be an Everyday Evangelist—a passionate follower of Jesus who shares the gospel in the ordinary moments of life with friends, family, coworkers, and neighbors.In today's episode, Paul and Shelby continue that conversation, offering practical encouragement to help you connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life, specifically for those who don't yet know Him.It's our prayer that this multi-part series will inspire and equip you to boldly share the Good News right where God has placed you.
On the last episode of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott began a conversation about what it means to be an Everyday Evangelist—a passionate follower of Jesus who shares the gospel in the ordinary moments of life with friends, family, coworkers, and neighbors.In today's episode, Paul and Shelby continue that conversation, offering practical encouragement to help you connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life, specifically for those who don't yet know Him.It's our prayer that this multi-part series will inspire and equip you to boldly share the Good News right where God has placed you.
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:14–16).What does it look like to live as light in your neighborhood, shining the bright truth of Jesus to those living in darkness? In this new episode of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott begin a conversation about evangelism and how we can share the Good News with our non-believing friends, neighbors, family, and coworkers.
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:14–16).What does it look like to live as light in your neighborhood, shining the bright truth of Jesus to those living in darkness? In this new episode of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott begin a conversation about evangelism and how we can share the Good News with our non-believing friends, neighbors, family, and coworkers.
In this episode, Dave and Laura sit down with Shelby Abbott to talk about his journey through pain and betrayal to God's transformation, moving from anger to seeing the Gospel in every moment of life, navigating doubt, and questions arising from our cultural moment. Shelby is an author, public speaker, and campus minister. His passion for ministry has led him to speak at churches and college campuses all over the United States. He has authored 5 books and countless blog posts. He has a wife and two daughters and lives in the Philadelphia area. https://shelbyabbott.com/Pre-order Dave's book here:On AmazonOn New Growth Press
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In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Shelby Abbott and Gabe Mahalik explore the transformative power of spiritual neediness. Gabe shares insights from his recent youth camp, emphasizing the need for humility and genuine community. Discover why recognizing our own vulnerabilities and relying on one another is crucial for authentic faith and growth. Through reflections on personal growth, the role of community, and the pitfalls of cultural norms, this episode highlights the importance of support and accountability in our spiritual journeys. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
How do you filter the noise from secular culture and purity culture...to hear what Jesus actually asks of us? Listen as Will Clock & Reagan Fillinger join Shelby Abbott to discuss! Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
How do you filter the noise from secular culture and purity culture...to hear what Jesus actually asks of us? Listen as Will Clock and Reagan Fillinger join Shelby Abbott to discuss! Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
Positive deviance: Got what it takes to differ from social norms in the best ways possible? In this episode, Shelby Abbott gets real about what you need to swim against the tide for the dating relationships you crave. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
Positive deviance: Got what it takes to differ from social norms in the best ways possible? In this episode, Shelby Abbott gets real about what you need to swim against the tide for the dating relationships you crave. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
What's your best long-distance relationship advice? Have you ever been in a ldr? Listen in as Shelby Abbott and rising WVU freshman, Evan Byerley, discuss Christian dating, relationships, and thinking about the future. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
What's your best long-distance relationship advice? Have you ever been in a ldr? Listen in as Shelby Abbott and rising WVU freshman, Evan Byerley, discuss Christian dating, relationships, and thinking about the future. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
Navigating your spiritual life? Your love life? Shelby Abbott's been there. Listen as Shelby's interviewed by Gloria Okyere in this special RLL. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
Navigating your spiritual life? Your love life? Shelby Abbott's been there. Listen as Shelby's interviewed by Gloria Okyere in this special RLL. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
Ever wonder about what God wants for your life—how to know God's will? Feeling lost or anxious about what's next? Shelby Abbott shares rock-solid wisdom to navigate uncertainties, find direction in work, school, and missions. Whether you're picking a career, sorting out relationships, choosing a major, eyeing mission work, or just facing big changes, Shelby offers guidance to help you discern God's will and steer through life to find real purpose. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife's Privacy Policy
Ever wonder about what God wants for your life—how to know God's will? Feeling lost or anxious about what's next? Shelby Abbott shares rock-solid wisdom to navigate uncertainties, find direction in work, school, and missions. Whether you're picking a career, sorting out relationships, choosing a major, eyeing mission work, or just facing big changes, Shelby offers guidance to help you discern God's will and steer through life to find real purpose. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels.
The word GRACE appears in the New Testament almost 125 times. That's why Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott decided to spend 8 hours discussing 15 different ways that GRACE transforms our lives over the course of 4 episodes of The Connecting Podcast!If you missed parts 1-3, check out The Connecting Podcast episodes 018, 019, and 030. What Even Is Grace? (Part 1):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/018-what-even-is-grace/id1588398155?i=1000607835183What Even Is Grace? (Part 2):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/019-what-even-is-grace-part-2/id1588398155?i=1000612143990What Even Is Grace? (Part 3):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/030-what-even-is-grace-part-3/id1588398155?i=1000652234948
The word GRACE appears in the New Testament almost 125 times. That's why Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott decided to spend 8 hours discussing 15 different ways that GRACE transforms our lives over the course of 4 episodes of The Connecting Podcast!If you missed parts 1-3, check out The Connecting Podcast episodes 018, 019, and 030. What Even Is Grace? (Part 1):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/018-what-even-is-grace/id1588398155?i=1000607835183What Even Is Grace? (Part 2):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/019-what-even-is-grace-part-2/id1588398155?i=1000612143990What Even Is Grace? (Part 3):https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/030-what-even-is-grace-part-3/id1588398155?i=1000652234948
As Christians, we talk about grace all the time. But what even is grace?In this month's episode of The Connecting Podcast, Paul Tripp and Shelby Abbott dive into part three of their conversation on the marvelous grace of our Lord. If you missed the first two episodes on grace check out The Connecting Podcast episodes 018 and 019. “For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.” -2 Corinthians 8:9
Got a date soon?.... Have you decided what you're going to wear, who's paying? So many things to consider. Shelby walks you through it with tips on communication, the single life, and sex! Don't forget to grab Shelby's book, "I Am A Tool: To Help with Your Dating Life," for some extra tips on asking them out!" Show Notes and Resources Listen to more on Real Life Loading... Connect with Shelby Abbott here! Every Donation Makes an Impact Find Out How You Can Help! Don't forget to grab Shelby's book, "I Am A Tool: To Help with Your Dating Life," for some extra tips on asking them out! Join the Robbins in exploring five crucial conversations on finances, sex, God, family, and the future in our brand-new Preparing for Marriage study! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network
Explore the power of "I see you" in relationships, with FamilyLife President David Robbins and his wife Meg, along with Real Life Loading... host Shelby Abbott. They explore groundbreaking insights from top 2023 guests like Ted Lowe, Dane Ortlund, Don Everts and Amberly Neese. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by David and Meg Robbins, listen here! Double your impact by Dec 31! Give families the gift of togetherness—donate, and it's matched dollar for dollar. Act now for lasting change. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network
Struggling to say no? Embracing your limitations can feel overwhelming. David and Meg Robbins, Shelby Abbott, Brant Hansen, Jeremiah Johnston, Lysa TerKeurst, and Heather Holleman all share insights on how life's challenges introduce the need for learning new boundaries. Join us to discover ways to accept your limitations amidst life's chaos.
Are you feeling trapped in a relationship? Join us as we take on a journey to unlock healthier relationships and rewrite your family story. With David and Meg and Shelby Abbott, we explore setting boundaries, shifting perspectives, and creating brighter family futures. It's not too late! Show Notes and Resources Receive 52 Weeks in The Word by giving a donation. and your donation will be matched Learn more about FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network