Seventeen Butterflies

We are getting to that point in the year where everyone is making there new years resolution. In this podcast I highlight what it means to have a goal, it's more than just a dream version of your self/life on a sheet of paper.

I got the job I worked weeks to get after 6 months of applying to positions; but getting the job has lead to a new stressor. What am I suppose to do with all this money? How do I ground myself? Why is succeeding stressing me out? I've met the goal so what's next? https://linktr.ee/minaeatlife

I was terrified when I seen my little brother's instagram. A gang! I couldn't stand it. Having just read Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi I realized my fear was fear that he would become a memory. That society would destroy his body.

This has been an amazing week for me but I just can't help but think the worst in the best of things.

I am taking a Gap Year and I feel I have nothing to show for it.

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Thinking about what we will leave behind.

In this podcast, we go ahead and we get onto the topic of friends in college and how we are always experiencing new people and new friends. We get into a story of Highway friend when ahead and got ghosted by one of her other friends. https://linktr.ee/itsminae --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

In this podcast, I go ahead and talk about the craziness that happens on Thanksgiving after we've all gone ahead and our meals and filled ourselves. This podcast sheds light on many of the craziest stories that have happened on Black Friday we go ahead, and we talk about the many deaths and injuries that have alleviated because of it. https://linktr.ee/itsminae?fbclid=PAAaam1mOVBm5dx6S64MNVQAoFhJGB32ErglUVyj0GpEvrqyCA-fpcNlX6b8Y --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Some of us dream more than others and those dreams can be good or bad depending on how big are interpreted but dreams go ahead and tell us what we really don't wanna hear what we've been avoiding. https://linktr.ee/itsminae --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We all go through heartbreak and it shouldn't be something that we go ahead and hold onto https://linktr.ee/itsminae --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We should go ahead and look up to our regrets regrets are something that we often take for granted but we should go ahead and grow from them and learn from them and stop assessing over the things that we feel like we've missed out on in life we had to appreciate where we are. https://linktr.ee/itsminae --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Lately I've been on this path of wanting to not try with people because it wasn't working. Multi people have come in and out of my life and I would just like someone to stay. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Even after all this time we are still on each other's mind. How can we look each other in the eye and we hurt another so badly. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We often ahead and put ourselves to the side when there's so much stress of the world but let's go ahead and take a look at ourselves and assess what's really going on --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

It's easy to go ahead and create the person that you want for you when you're talking to someone new and I wanna go ahead and talk about how we shape the actions of people into action that we expect from our perfect person --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

I feel like when it comes to emotions we kind of put them on the sideline because we're too busy to do anything else but we all need to set a time that we go ahead and sit with ourselves and think about how we are doing mentally --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

It's hard to live your life when there is not a routine. High school vs college we all know things are different. Yet, what sets them apart is routine and scheduling. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We live in a world where it's looks down on being wrong. We learn when we fail. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Being rich is a mindset and it takes many skills to reach that level of thinking that is going to put you where you want to be financially. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

I find it hard to be in a city where everyone you know is gone. You are forced to decide if you want to be alone or do you want to push yourself to be out there. Yet, we have to deal with the repercussion of connecting with someone deeply only once and never getting a chance to have that connection again.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

It takes time to be the person you want to be. You cannot change who you are in one day. It is a process to change the habits you have adapted so well to.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Knowledge is not hard to come by. There are thousands of books that have information that you are searching for you just have to look. We always find a book for one reason but in reading, we end up learning things we never knew we needed to know. Obtaining knowledge is an adventure. You look for one thing and you end up learning more than you bargained for. There is power in knowledge. Everyone wants to know how the richest man became the richest man. People fail to realize that most rich men did not start out rich. Before the rich man was rich he knew nothing of being rich. In order for the rich man to become rich, he had to obtain the knowledge of a rich man. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Be mindful of who you spend your time with. B O O K https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/seventeen-years-of-thoughts-and-feelings-minae-mccoy/1138700290 I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/minaemccoy/ S N A P C H A T https://www.snapchat.com/add/mjlittle72 T W I T T E R https://www.twitter/minaemccoy P I N T R E S T https://www.pinterest.com/minaemccoy/_created/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Think about the kind of person you want to be and what are the things that kind of person does. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

You can't be happy unless you have problems in your life. B O O K https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/seventeen-years-of-thoughts-and-feelings-minae-mccoy/1138700290 I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/minaemccoy/ S N A P C H A T https://www.snapchat.com/add/mjlittle72 T W I T T E R https://www.twitter/minaemccoy P I N T R E S T https://www.pinterest.com/minaemccoy/_created/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

You want to be mindful of your friendships. Especially new friendships. B O O K https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/seventeen-years-of-thoughts-and-feelings-minae-mccoy/1138700290 I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/minaemccoy/ S N A P C H A T https://www.snapchat.com/add/mjlittle72 T W I T T E R https://www.twitter/minaemccoy P I N T R E S T https://www.pinterest.com/minaemccoy/_created/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

I never understood why birthdays were so important. I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/minaemccoy/ S N A P C H A T https://www.snapchat.com/add/mjlittle72 T W I T T E R https://www.twitter/minaemccoy P I N T R E S T https://www.pinterest.com/minaemccoy/_created/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

It is important that we focus on our dreams. Dreams don't lie. You won't lie to yourself. The first step in connecting with yourself is connecting with your dreams I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/minaemccoy/ S N A P C H A T https://www.snapchat.com/add/mjlittle72 T W I T T E R https://www.twitter/minaemccoy P I N T R E S T https://www.pinterest.com/minaemccoy/_created/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Before you start your journey, it is important to know what the goal is. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Join me on a spiritual journey. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

There are many times when people are afraid to ask for help. Why? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

What even is body image. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

You are going to get hurt sometime. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We are always so tied up in life we never think about our own. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

You ever had someone said they miss the old you not knowing what old you were going through. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

We always see failure through the eyes of what society defines failure as. What do you define failure as? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Are you really making money? Do you even know what making money means? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

You ever meet someone and never see them again. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

It is important to take a moment and consider how you are. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Everyone always discusses the aftermath of a breakup while avoiding the before. I talk about what you can do to avoid a breakup and what you should do when that time comes. . . https://www.amazon.com/Seventeen-Years-Thoughts-Feelings-Minae/dp/103427161X --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

If you never went through what you did you would not be the person you are today and that is important. https://www.amazon.com/Seventeen-Years-Thoughts-Feelings-Minae/dp/103427161X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&qid=1615823751&refinements=p_27%3AMinae+McCoy&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Minae+McCoy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support

Is it just me or do you do it too? https://www.amazon.com/Seventeen-Years-Thoughts-Feelings-Minae/dp/103427161X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&qid=1615823751&refinements=p_27%3AMinae+McCoy&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Minae+McCoy --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/minaemccoy/support