The Perfect Mess w/Ray Molina

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A man who lost it all, divorced, broken and nearly gave up. Instead, I grew from it…used my pain as motivation to become a better man and better father than I ever dreamed. My life is simple now, but it wasn’t always. A former graffiti artist, turned grap

Ray Molina


    • May 4, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Ep. #219 - Help Somebody

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 0:56


    If we took time out of our day to help people every now and then I think it would make a little bit of a difference. Maybe I'm wrong but it's worth a shot.

    Ep. #218 • Perspective - Get Back on the Horse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 0:53


    You only fail if you stop getting back on the horse. Stay in the game and when you stumble, pick yourself up and get back on the horse.

    Ep. #217 - I'm the King of…

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 11:32


    You ever feel like one of your gifts and your curses is doing stuff for people at Lil to no cost and those same people just not doing the same for you? You ever feel like things are just not happening fast enough in your life? Let's talk about it because that's where I am right now.

    Ep. #216 - Gotta Find It

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 24:26


    It's somewhere in there. What is it? That dog. That fight. That grit. Too many are passive today and we've got to fix it.

    Ep. #215 - Let's Catch Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 28:14


    Let's catch up real quick. It's been a minute. I forgot to talk to you about Arizona and my trip out there with my youngest son. And let's talk about Life as a high school baseball coach in the JV division. I hope you guys have a wonderful day and thank you for following and sharing.

    Ep. #214 • Perspective - Be Aware of Your Surroundings

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 0:57


    I can't stress to you how important it is for you to be aware of your surroundings at all times nowadays… Let's talk about it

    Ep. #213 - Run With It

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2025 24:37


    Sometimes your plan takes a turn that's unexpected and you just have to run with it because it just makes sense. Let's talk about it.

    Ep. #212 • Perspective - Be Thankful

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 0:58


    Be thankful for even the littlest things…

    Ep. #211 • Perspective - Shoot Straight

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 0:59


    Ep. #211 - Shoot Straight #raymolina #theperfectmesspod #podcast

    Ep. #210 • Perspective - Fallback

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 0:47


    Fall back… #raymolina #theperfectmesspod #podcast #fallback

    Ep. #209 - This Last Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 38:37


    What an absolute whirlwind of a month it was been. Baseball kicked off and it's been fun and already wild ride. But then here comes…you guessed it: TIKTOK…(wait what?) yea, let's talk about what is going on with my TikTok and my Lives. Wow…so much to talk about.

    Ep. #208 • Perspective - Excuses

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 0:47


    We all have them and if we go searching we will find one to get us through doing something we know we should be doing.

    Ep. #204 • Perspective - Everyone Plays a Role

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 0:57


    Everyone in our life has a role to play. You have to love them for that. Let me explain.

    Ep. #207 • Perspective - Envy

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 0:48


    Sometimes we envy the wrong things

    Ep. #206 - Since You Asked.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 25:55


    Since you asked. Here's my thoughts on the protesting going on. Let's talk about it…

    Ep. #205 • Perspective - Personal Time Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 0:46


    Sometimes you need to remind yourself to take a break and to give yourself a personal time out from all the BS going on in the world.

    Ep. #203 • Perspective - Use it or Lose it

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 0:57


    There is no in between, either we are getting better or we're not.

    Ep. #202 • Perspective - You're not the ONLY prize

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 0:56


    This is for all the strong men pay attention…

    Ep. #201 • Perspective - If She Asks

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 1:00


    The right woman is going to ask the right questions even if they're tough pay attention.

    Ep. #200 • Perspective - “How Long?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 0:56


    You know the grudges we hold against people after a while only affect us because those people don't even realize we still have those grudges. So how long are you gonna hold onto yours?

    Ep. #199 • Perspective: Focus on You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 0:58


    Take time to focus on you. We lose sight of that all the time. Dont forget about you and your peace.

    Ep. #198 • Perspective: “I Don't Ever

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 1:00


    I've been there. Never wanting to love the way you did because the pain you felt when it ended. But there is only one way to love…please share it if you feel it.

    Ep. #197 - You're in that Spot

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2025 14:10


    Ever been told “I don't understand you or relate to you anymore?” Good, so have I. That means you've changed, done the work and your past has no idea how to connect with this version of YOU.

    Ep. #196 - What Does It All Mean

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 17:09


    What does it mean when things start to go your way? well, in short, it means you're blessed but let's talk about it a bit more and I'll share mine.

    Ep. #195 - Perspective: How Do Men Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 0:47


    Ladies, the balls in your court…there are no wrong answers

    Ep. #194 - Earn it Everyday

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 9:57


    Let's talk about the feeling of imposter syndrome. And once you realize that you are where you are for a reason and that's because of all the hard work you've put in. Let's talk about how you need to earn it every day so that doesn't affect your forward progress.

    Ep. #193 - Perspective: Falling In Love is Easy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2025 0:46


    Falling in love is easy…Perspective

    Ep. #192 - Perspective: Done Chasing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 0:55


    When the chasing is over we can get real…

    Ep. #191 - Perspective: A Broken Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 0:52


    Ep. 191 - Even harder repairing a broken man…

    Ep. #190 - Perspective: Always GOD

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 0:56


    The answer is always GOD…

    Ep. #189 - Perspective: Father Daughter Bond

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 0:51


    Perspective - When she has that unbeatable bond with her Father…

    Ep. #188 - Perspective: Love You Remember

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 0:42


    Let me give you some perspective…

    Ep. #187 - It's Deeper

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2024 44:24


    Hopefully, you guys had a great Christmas. I'd like to share a little bit about my holiday experience after seven years. Things have improved so much that I couldn't be more happier with where God has put me and my family. He has healed our broken family and show us that there is a path to be successful at coparenting and I'm very thankful. I also share with you the deeper meaning of what it means for me when I get messages from parents with regards to mentoring and training their kids. It is so much more than the game itself. Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #186 - We Did That!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 30:11


    When God has a plan, there is nothing that could stand in its way. When I tell you, I am thankful… Words could never explain. I'm going to do my best on this episode to tell you how thankful and blessed I really am. This chapter of my life is called. We did that.. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #185 - Somebody Call an Angel?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 21:18


    Man, when I tell you, God is good and that he is listening. I tell you no lies. When I tell you that my relationship with my grandfather was strong, I can't even begin to tell you that it is still strong to this day and he's been gone for nearly 3 years. Please listen to this story that happened last night. I hope this hits home for somebody and if it does, please share it thank you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #184 - John Mayer

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 22:40


    Let's talk about John Mayer and how he played a role in me, bouncing back in my life and finding peace. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #183 - The Right Place

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 26:13


    Recently, I've asked a question, am I at the right place obviously, I'm talking to God. But every move that I make as I get older, I try to be as calculated as possible because I know that every move that I make as a father affects my children, so let's talk about that on this short episode. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #182 - Fine Line

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 18:44


    Yep, it flies by what am I talking about? Raising your boys. It is a very fine line to give in to their independence, but to also keep them connected to you as a Father. Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #181 - Fully Humbled

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 11:51


    Man, I had this very moment. I am fully humbled and to be honest a bit emotional. Let me share the story with you. And if you're broken as a man and have been like I have… Maybe you'll understand. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Message to My Ballers

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 1:02


    Being the one to win the game is amazing right? But being the one to lose the game is more important to experience for growth. Let's talk about it briefly. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #180 - Give Me the Words

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 30:21


    Sometimes things happen and you know a tough talk is in store and almost immediately you look up close your eyes and say, “God give me the words…” because you know this talk will be with them forever.Let's talk about it… --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #179 - The Cool Kid

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 20:35


    Ever wonder if you're raising the cool kid? A few things have happened recently that made me start to question that very thing. It's fun watching your kids grow up and have their own lives aside from you. Let's talk about this in detail. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #178 - What's the Hardest Thing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2024 12:40


    Let's talk about the hardest thing I do daily with my podcast. It's not so hard anymore but there was a time when it was very very difficult for me. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    What's the Excuse?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2024 0:59


    We all have them. So what was your excuse today for not doing what you were supposed to do? Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Beast or Famine 01 - Lead by Example

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 0:59


    I will attempt to do these every Friday just a quick one minute long inspiration on either fitness, mental, toughness, spiritual fitness you name it but anything to make you a beast and fight through the famine of the bullshit in this world today. Welcome to Beast or Famine Friday. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #177 - Let Them Lead

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 20:46


    Sometimes as a coach, you need to step aside when you see something great about to happen. This weekend I saw one of my veteran older players step in to have a meeting with the team when they were struggling. I looked at my other Coach and I had them back off, so the kid could speak. And it was beautiful to watch. Let's talk about letting kids be leaders. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #176 - Life Comes Full Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 29:48


    I promise if you stay in the fight long enough your life will come full circle and will get better. But that is contingent on you doing what you're supposed to be doing and getting better daily. Let's talk about it… --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #175 - Revert

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 23:02


    Sometimes it's OK to revert back to an older version of yourself. Let's talk about that. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #174 - Get Comfortable in Your Own Skin

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 20:28


    So many people are afraid to be alone because they're afraid to be lonely. But there is a big difference between being alone and lonely. It comes with learning to be comfortable in your own skin and being OK with learning who you are before you jump into another relationship or anything for that matter. Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #173 - How to get Results…

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 23:14


    If you're a coach and you're looking for the easiest way to get results, this may help you. Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

    Ep. #172 - Don't Burn Bridges

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 17:43


    It's a small world out there, don't go around burning bridges left, and right because honestly you never know when you're going to have to cross over one that has somebody on the other side who was affected by another bridge you burned. Let's talk about it … --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperfectmesspod/support

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