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Hosted by the life scholar and ethical savage Lt. Sunnie, The Sex Talk is an analytical research based podcast centering Big Body, Queer, Black, Fem folks - cultivating quality conversation to normalize communication about sex, sexuality, and sensuality.

The Sex Talk Podcast by Lt. Sunnie


    • Oct 9, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 54m AVG DURATION
    • 54 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Sex Talk Podcast

    Let's talk about Grieving A Relationship!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2022 59:37


    Raise your hand if you ever had to end a relationship with a family member, friend, romantic partner, or a “situationship”! *raises hand*…. You already know we have some thing's to talk about! Or maybe you know a friend who hasn't fully let go of their past? Might be because they haven't actively grieved the relationship. Join the conversation! We gone work through this! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Polyamory! (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2022 53:23


    Poly, Ethical Non-monogamy, Vee, Triad, Quad, and many more titles explain THIS love-style! Which one do you identify with? Let us know! We are going to talk more about this love-style and we look forward to having the conversation with you. Tune in! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Polyamory! (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2022 50:47


    Poly, Ethical Non-monogamy, Vee, Triad, Quad, and many more titles explain THIS love-style! Which one do you identify with? Let us know! We are going to talk more about this love-style and we look forward to having the conversation with you. Tune in! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Attachment Style Theory! (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 73:59


    Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, Secure. Which attachment style is yours? Have you ever took an attachment style assessment? Have you ever wondered how your attachment style impacts your sex life and relationships? We're going to talk all about it in this episode. So, tune in! We can't have a conversation without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Attachment Style Theory (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2022 47:39


    Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized,Secure. Which attachment style is yours? Have you ever took an attachment style assessment? Have you ever wondered how your attachment style impacts your sex life and relationships? We're going to talk all about it in this episode. So, tune in! We can't have a conversation without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Sex & Codependency!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2022 46:12


    Do you or anyone you know deal with codependency? Do you know that you can heal yourself from codependency? Have you ever thought about how dealing with codependency can impact your sex life? Well, we're going to talk ALL about it. Tune in to this episode for more information on sex and codependency! Can't wait to have this conversation with you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about “Little Surprise”!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2022 115:49


    In this conversation, Sunnie sits down with the leading ladies from her latest music video “Little Surprise“ and we talk about the experience of expressing our sexuality and sensuality on a public platform, representation of intersectionality, and different relationship dynamics! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Personal Power in sex and relationships ft. A'Bryana Ware!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2022 56:21


    In this conversation, Sunnie sits down with A'Bryana while they discuss personal power, initiating personal power in sex, ‘hood conservitism', emotional intelligence and more! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Motherhood & Sexuality ft. Raquel Marlanna

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2022 78:36


    In this conversation, Sunnie sits down with Raquel and they discuss Motherhood, Sexuality, Self-Care, Healing, and Relationships. Join the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Abuse/Harm!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2022 96:45


    In this conversation, Sunnie will be discussing abuse and harm. She will be sharing the different types of abuse, signs of abuse/harm, how to identify an abuser, and ways to flee and prevent abuse. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Non-Sexual Intimacy!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2022 78:50


    In this conversation, Sunnie will be talking about non-sexual intimacy, why intimacy can feel uncomfortable, ways to normalize intimacy in non-sexual relationships, and build intimacy with self. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Internalized Homophobia!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 63:04


    In this conversation, Sunnie will be discussing homophobia and how internalized homophobia impacts the queer community. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Purity Culture!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 58:03


    In this conversation, we will be discussing when purity culture originated, how religion plays a role, societal impact, mysogyny, and how to build a healthy relationship with sex. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Sex Education National Week of Action!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 35:42


    In this episode, Sunnie sits down with Professor Kristen Mark, PhD (sex and relationship scientist) to talk about Sex Education National Week of Action, The Abstinence Project, myths about sex, and more! Tune into this special episode and don't be shy to get involved with these amazing projects!

    Let's talk about Being A Black Woman ft. Averie Mitchell-Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 71:35


    In the conversation, we sit down with Averie Mitchell-Brown - a queer, black, woman who is sharing her experience, insight, and advice on what it's like living life in the Midwest as a black woman and ways you navigate, heal, rest, find joy and keep going! Join the conversation. We can't wait to hear from you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about The Male Gaze Ft. FairPlay Ent

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 80:31


    In this conversation, FairPlay's very own Tuvok The Word, Nur-D, and DJ Hayes sit down with Sunnie and talk about what it means to be a man, masculinity, ego, and sex! Join the conversation. We can't have it without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about BOUNDARIES!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2021 80:02


    WHATS SUNNIES FAVORITE WORD?! BOUNDARIES! Let's talk about it. We made it. We are here! The last episode of 2021 and TST is passing out the boundary game. What do you think about boundaries? Do you have rigid or porous boundaries? In the middle? Let's talk about it! We can't have the conversation without you!

    Let's talk about Interracial Relationships! (Part 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2021 99:35


    In this episode, Sunnie sits down with a previous partner from high school who is a white woman. Sunnie and Hannah share very intimate details about their experience together and how dating interracially impacted them. Join this juicy conversation!

    Let's talk about Group Sex!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2021 60:06


    In today's episode, our host Sunnie discusses group sex, culture, etiquette and approach. Have you ever engaged or thought about group sex? Pro's and con's? Boundaries and ethics? Tune in and let us know what you think about this conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Relationships P.2!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2021 57:25


    Today's conversation we are revisiting our first conversation on this podcast about relationships. Our host Sunnie has discovered a new terminology, new ideas, and new growth in regards to explaining and developing relationships. What do you think about this? If you've been a part of The Sex Talk for a while - how has your ideas of relationships transformed since then? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about pH Balance!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2021 54:46


    In today's conversation we will be discussing our pH balance! What are the basics, where pH comes from, what happens when its imbalanced and how to get it back balanced! We will also cover some interesting facts we might not have talked about in health class back in high school! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about the Down Low Community!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2021 108:16


    Today our host Sunnie will be sharing some details and updates about the changes that have been made for TST and all the juicy details and research we discovered in our talk about the DL community. What do you think about this? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    BONUS TALK: Parental Impact w/ 2 Parents!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 55:00


    So, Our host Sunnie decided to do a little more digging and asking more questions about this thing called parenthood. So in this episode she is joined by @Sasha_lashay and @Lspeakss - two parents who are sharing their insight on parenthood and how that impacts romantic relationships! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Parental Impact!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 46:02


    Today we discussed the way our relationship with our parents impact outside relationships. Attachment theory and ways to address insecure attachment. What do you think about this? Join the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Lil Nas X!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 54:12


    Good? Bad? Indifferent? Sex, Nudity, Queer Visibility? Do you hate him? Do you love him? Think Lil Nas X has taken it too far? Let's talk about it! Our friend Quincy is back to share thoughts with us. Join the conversation! What do you think about that? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about DEPRESSION!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2021 40:53


    We are back with season for and as we transition into a new season some folks can be experiencing seasonal depression. Let's talk about it and how it relates to sex! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Jealousy!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 43:56


    Today's episode we are talking about the layers of jealousy and adding verbiage to the layers of emotions that could build up to jealousy. Join the conversation. We can't have it without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Pornography!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2021 56:53


    In this episode we are talking about the sex industry and pornography. From performers, producers, resumes, and pay rates to categories, racism, centering and protecting fem folks, etc! Let's talk about it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Sex & Triggers!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 44:18


    Today's topic we are going to dive into sex and triggers from a practical to a mental/emotional sense! What do you think of when it comes to “triggers”? How does that relate to your sexual experience? Let's talk about it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE SEX TALK PODCAST!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 53:50


    It's The Sex Talk's Birthday! It's been a whole 365 days since Sunnie (podcast) baby has been born! So, let's party and celebrate The Sex Talk. Also, few TST friends stop by and talk about the impact that TST has had in THIER lives. Join us! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about The Gender Unicorn!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 41:44


    Our host Sunnie breaks down The Gender Unicorn chart from our friends at Trans Student Educational Resources. How do your define your gender identity or expression? Do you connect with the sex you were assigned at birth? What do you think about physical attraction versus emotional attraction? Join the conversation. We can have it without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Enthusiastic Consent!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2021 33:28


    Today Sunnie shares her insight on what she thinks about programming and how we can implement habits regarding consent from relationships in childhood to adulthood! What do you think about this? Tune in. We can't have a conversation without you!

    Let's talk about 1,000+ Days Of Sexual Discipline

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 53:01


    We are back with Season 3! Our host Sunnie shares updates, new ideas, and a warm WELCOME BACK. In this episode, Sunnie shares her experience of practicing Sexual Discipline for 1,003 days. Tune into the conversation! What do you think about this? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    SEASON REVIEW!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 32:22


    We made it! Today's episode is the last episode of season two. Sunnie has a bunch of updates to share with everyone! Tune in and listen to updates, TST history, and impacts TST has had on our very own host!

    Let's talk about Sex Work!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2021 37:36


    In the episode, our host Sunnie talks about the history of the oldest profession known to humxn kind... Sex Work! What do you think about this? Join the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about REJECTION!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 52:25


    In this episode we are talking about the thing a lot of us fear most... REJECTION! Have you ever been rejected or rejected someone? How did that make you feel? Join the conversation and let's talk about it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Oral Sex!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 48:28


    Today we are talking about Oral Sex! Our host Sunnie shared facts about the human body nervous system, history of the sexual act, different slang, and more. Join the conversation, we can't have it without you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about PROBLEMATIC SONG LYRICS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 55:10


    In this episode, our host Sunnie gives us a little history lesson about the evolution of R&B and how main stream media impacts our sexual expectations and desires. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Sexual Shame!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 40:41


    This conversation is a pretty heavy topic. So, we took our time and slowed it way down. Sexual shame really has impacted society. Where do we find safe space to work through our shame?Thank you for joining this conversation. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    BONUS: 90 Day Grace Period

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 39:52


    This is a bonus episode because we love all of our listeners so much! Today our host Sunnie is sharing her views on the “90 Day Grace Period”. Sharing some experiential knowledge about what she has learned while taking her time getting to know others and building relationship. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Sex and Ego!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 50:04


    Today we are talking about ego and how outside influences shape our ego. You KNOW we have to address how that impacts our sexual desires and choices! What do you think about this? Join the conversation. We can't have it without you!

    Let's talk about Men, Sex, and Hip Hop!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 59:28


    Today we had our friend A.K.A Kobi come through and drop gems on us. He shared his experience, talked about mental health, double standards, and manhood, and fatherhood! Join the conversation.

    Let's talk about Sex and Anxiety!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 51:36


    Today we are talking about how anxiety can manifest in sex and sexuality. Join the conversation, we would like to hear from you! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about why we talking about sex!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2021 38:37


    We are back for season two and Sunnie wanted to take a moment to slow down and discuss why we believe this space is important. Why are we talking about sex? What do you think about that? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Online Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 38:45


    In this episode we discuss the different elements of online dating from history and etiquette, to relationship versus hook up culture. What do you think about online dating? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Interracial Dating ft. Sarah Gwin

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 39:09


    In this episode, our special guest shares her experience with interracial dating while in relationship with a cis-gender black man. What have you learned about interracial dating? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Interracial Dating ft. Gab Anderson

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 31:15


    In this episode our special guest shares her experience with interracial dating while in relationship with a cis-gender black man. What do you think about interracial dating? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about WAP!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 30:52


    Today's episode we are talking about natural lubrication, the importance of sexual liberation, and a little hip-hop history lesson. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Self-stimulation!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 32:35


    Today we are talking about the different elements of self stimulation. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about Masculinity & Femininity Ft. Quincy Powe!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 60:36


    Join us while we have our friend Quincy Powe back again! We are talking about the differences between masculinity and femininity. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Let's talk about STD's & STI's!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 30:45


    In this episode we have a real open and honest conversation about STDs and STI ‘s. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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