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Albertans will head to the polls in just over a month, on Oct. 19, to vote in a referendum. There are 10 questions, but the one that's garnering the most attention is the question about separation: do they want to remain in Canada, or hold another referendum on whether to separate? Polling suggests 70 to 75 per cent of Albertans want to stay in Canada, but the federalists are having trouble raising enough money to get the message out.We're talking to Marieke Walsh, a senior political reporter for The Globe, and Matthew Scace, a Globe reporter based in Calgary. They'll break down why the ‘Remain' side, which has an overwhelming amount of public support, is struggling to translate that into campaign contributions, and what a disorganized campaign could mean for the outcome of the referendum.Questions? Comments? Ideas? Email us at thedecibel@globeandmail.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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I'm always trying to get more organized. But even if I were to succeed, would it help me in triathlon?TRANSCRIPTThere's something I've been thinking about lately, and it has to do with organization.And I know, organization isn't exactly the most exciting topic in the world.But I've been thinking about it in a slightly different way.Because I've realized that I tend to think of organization as something that happens when my life gets too messy.I've got a desk covered in papers.I've got things on my calendar that I haven't dealt with.I've got little projects that I've started but haven't finished.I've got receipts that need to be submitted, notes that I wrote down because I didn't want to forget them, things that I need to file away, things that I need to follow up on.And my first reaction is usually:"God, I really need to get organized."And I think that's true.But a few days ago, I was looking at all of this stuff and I had a slightly different thought.Maybe all of this stuff is also evidence of a life that's being lived.Because those papers didn't just magically appear on my desk.They're there because I'm doing things.I'm interested in things.I'm starting things.I'm trying things.I'm thinking about things.And that doesn't mean that I should leave my desk looking like a disaster forever.But maybe I don't have to look at the mess and immediately see evidence that I'm failing at being organized.Maybe I can look at it and see evidence of a life with some interest in it.And that got me thinking about triathlon.Because if there's one hobby that can generate an absolutely ridiculous amount of stuff, it's triathlon.Three sports.Three sets of equipment.Training plans.Nutrition.Clothing.Shoes.Bikes.Goggles.Fins.Paddles.Snorkels.Heart-rate monitors.Power meters.Bike computers.Lights.Radar.Bottles.Gels.Electrolytes.And then you've got all the little things that have to happen before you actually do the workout.And sometimes I think that's one of the reasons training can feel overwhelming.You don't just have to do the workout.You have to prepare to do the workout.Take swimming, for example.I might have a swim scheduled.And in my head, that sounds pretty simple."Okay, I'm going swimming."But then I actually think about what that involves.I've got to get my swim bag.I've got to make sure I've got my goggles.I've got my cap.I've got my towel.I've got my snorkel.Maybe I've got paddles.Maybe I've got a pull buoy.I've got to know what the workout is.Maybe I've printed it out.And if I'm putting the workout beside the pool, I might even put the damn thing in a Ziploc bag so it doesn't get soaked.And suddenly, "I'm going swimming" has become this little logistical operation.And you can look at that and think:"Jesus. This is a lot of work just to go swimming."And that's where I think organization becomes really important.Because one of the great things about being organized is that it removes friction.If I put my running shoes by the door the night before, that's one less decision I have to make in the morning.If I've already prepared my bike bottles, that's one less thing I have to think about.If my watch is charged, I don't have to discover at the last minute that it's sitting at 14 percent.If my swim bag is already packed, I don't have to go hunting around the house looking for my snorkel.And these things sound incredibly trivial.But they're not.Because motivation is a funny thing.Sometimes you have plenty of motivation.You actually want to go for the run.You actually want to ride your bike.You actually want to get in the pool.And then you encounter five little obstacles.Where are my shoes?My watch is dead.I haven't made my drink.Where's my towel?What am I supposed to do for this workout?And suddenly that little bit of motivation has been chipped away.So I think one of the great purposes of organization is not necessarily to make you more motivated.It's to protect the motivation that you already have.And I really like that idea.But I think there's another layer to this.And that's where the idea of ritual comes in.Because there's a difference between doing something because you have to do it and doing something as part of a ritual.Think about making your coffee in the morning.You could describe it as a series of chores.Fill the machine.Grind the beans.Put the coffee in.Turn it on.Clean it up.Or you could think of it as a little morning ritual.And somehow, that changes the experience.And I think the same thing can happen with training.Take preparing a bottle of carb drink.You can think:"God, I have to make this stupid drink again."Or you can think:"Okay. I'm getting ready for my ride."And you get the bottle.You put the water in.You measure out the carbs.You add the electrolytes.You shake it up.You put it in the fridge.And that's not just a chore anymore.It's part of the ride.It's the beginning of the ride.The same thing with charging your watch.The same thing with laying out your clothes.The same thing with getting your shoes ready.The same thing with packing your swim bag.The same thing with putting that workout into the Ziploc bag.You can look at every one of those things and say:"This is stuff I have to do before I can train."Or you can say:"This is how I prepare to train."And those two sentences sound almost identical.But emotionally, they're completely different.One is a burden.The other is a ritual.And I think there's something really powerful in that distinction.Because we spend so much of our time trying to get to the thing we actually want to do.We rush through the preparation.We rush through getting ready.We think the preparation is just an annoying obstacle between us and the good part.But maybe the preparation is part of the good part.Maybe there's actually some pleasure in getting ready.There's something satisfying about seeing the bike bottles lined up.There's something satisfying about getting your kit laid out.There's something satisfying about knowing that everything is ready to go.And I think that's particularly true in triathlon because there are so many little rituals.You put on the cycling shoes.You get the bottles into the cages.You turn on the trainer.You pull up the workout.You put your headphones on.You get on the bike.And there's a transition that happens.You're no longer sitting around thinking about everything else in your life.You're becoming the person who's about to train.And maybe that's part of the value of ritual.It tells your brain:"Okay. We're doing this now."And I think this also changes the way we think about all of the equipment.Because if you're not careful, all of the stuff that comes with triathlon can feel overwhelming.You start thinking:Why do I have all this stuff?Why do I have five different kinds of nutrition?Why do I have all these swim toys?Why do I need this bike computer?Why do I have a radar?Why do I have this light?Why do I have these shoes?And you can certainly take it too far.Triathlon is an excellent hobby if you want to become an obsessive consumer of tiny improvements.There's always another piece of equipment.There's always another gadget.There's always another thing that might make you three percent faster.And I'm certainly not immune to that.But I've also started thinking that some of that stuff is part of what makes the sport interesting.Take swimming.Maybe you've got a snorkel.You can use it to work on your body position.You've got paddles.You can feel what your catch is doing.You've got fins.You've got a pull buoy.And suddenly swimming isn't just:"Get in the pool and swim back and forth."There's this whole little world of things to explore.And the bike is the same.You can get interested in power.You can get interested in aerodynamics.You can get interested in tires.You can get interested in nutrition.You can get interested in bike fit.You can get interested in training.And I think that's one of the things I love about triathlon.There's always something to be curious about.And that brings me back to my messy desk.Because maybe the desk and the triathlon gear aren't actually that different.The desk is covered with evidence of all the things I'm interested in.And the garage, or the swim bag, or the training calendar, is covered with evidence of all the things I'm interested in as well.And I don't think the answer is to eliminate all of that.I think the answer is to organize it.Not because those things are bad.But because I want to be able to enjoy them.And that's an important distinction.Organization shouldn't necessarily be about simplifying your life to the point where there's nothing left in it.Maybe it's about organizing your life well enough that you can enjoy its complexity.Because triathlon is complex.And that's part of the fun.But there's a danger here, too.Because you can take this idea of preparation and ritual too far.You can become so focused on preparing that you never actually do the workout.You can spend an hour researching the perfect nutrition strategy for a 45-minute run.You can spend all day organizing your training instead of training.You can convince yourself that you need one more piece of equipment before you can really get started.And that's not what I'm talking about.The ritual is supposed to lead you into the activity.It's not supposed to replace the activity.So I think there's a balance.Prepare enough that you remove the friction.Organize enough that you don't have to make a hundred little decisions.But then actually go and do the thing.And maybe that's the real purpose of organization.It's not about having a perfect desk.It's not about having a perfect calendar.It's not about having everything checked off.It's about making room for the things you care about.And that brings me back to something I've been thinking about a lot lately.Sometimes I look at my calendar and I see all of these unfinished things.And my immediate reaction is:"There's too much here."But maybe another way to look at it is:"Look at all the things I get to be interested in."And I think the same thing can happen with triathlon.You look at your training calendar and you think:"Oh my God. I've got all these workouts."You look at your swim bag and think:"Look at all this stuff I have to carry."You look at your bike and think:"Look at all these things I have to check."You look at your nutrition and think:"I have to prepare all of this again."Or you can take a moment and think:"How cool is this?"I get to swim.I get to ride my bike.I get to run.I get to learn about my body.I get to experiment with training.I get to figure out what works.I get to prepare for a race.And all of these little rituals are part of that experience.So maybe the goal isn't to get rid of the complexity.Maybe the goal is to make the complexity manageable.And maybe the goal isn't to eliminate all of the unfinished things on my desk.Maybe it's to give those things a place to live.Because there's a difference between being overwhelmed by your life and being surrounded by evidence that you're living an interesting life.And sometimes, honestly, I think I confuse the two.So the next time I'm standing in the kitchen making a bottle of carb drink before a ride, or charging my watch, or putting my shoes beside the door, or stuffing my swim workout into a Ziploc bag...Maybe I'll try not to think:"God, I have to do all this stuff before I can train."Maybe I'll think:"This is the beginning of my training."And maybe that's a small shift.But I think sometimes the small shifts are the ones that change the way we experience our lives.Because the training isn't just the hour on the bike.It's the preparation.It's the anticipation.It's the ritual.It's the workout.It's the recovery.It's thinking about what you're going to do next time.It's all of it.And maybe that's one of the reasons I love this ridiculous sport so much.There's just so much to it.And instead of seeing all of that as one more thing to organize...Maybe I can see it as one more thing to enjoy.

I'm always trying to get more organized. But even if I were to succeed, would it help me in triathlon?Come be more organized with me at www.patreon.com/thelonelytriathleteTRANSCRIPTThere's something I've been thinking about lately, and it has to do with organization.And I know, organization isn't exactly the most exciting topic in the world.But I've been thinking about it in a slightly different way.Because I've realized that I tend to think of organization as something that happens when my life gets too messy.I've got a desk covered in papers.I've got things on my calendar that I haven't dealt with.I've got little projects that I've started but haven't finished.I've got receipts that need to be submitted, notes that I wrote down because I didn't want to forget them, things that I need to file away, things that I need to follow up on.And my first reaction is usually:"God, I really need to get organized."And I think that's true.But a few days ago, I was looking at all of this stuff and I had a slightly different thought.Maybe all of this stuff is also evidence of a life that's being lived.Because those papers didn't just magically appear on my desk.They're there because I'm doing things.I'm interested in things.I'm starting things.I'm trying things.I'm thinking about things.And that doesn't mean that I should leave my desk looking like a disaster forever.But maybe I don't have to look at the mess and immediately see evidence that I'm failing at being organized.Maybe I can look at it and see evidence of a life with some interest in it.And that got me thinking about triathlon.Because if there's one hobby that can generate an absolutely ridiculous amount of stuff, it's triathlon.Three sports.Three sets of equipment.Training plans.Nutrition.Clothing.Shoes.Bikes.Goggles.Fins.Paddles.Snorkels.Heart-rate monitors.Power meters.Bike computers.Lights.Radar.Bottles.Gels.Electrolytes.And then you've got all the little things that have to happen before you actually do the workout.And sometimes I think that's one of the reasons training can feel overwhelming.You don't just have to do the workout.You have to prepare to do the workout.Take swimming, for example.I might have a swim scheduled.And in my head, that sounds pretty simple."Okay, I'm going swimming."But then I actually think about what that involves.I've got to get my swim bag.I've got to make sure I've got my goggles.I've got my cap.I've got my towel.I've got my snorkel.Maybe I've got paddles.Maybe I've got a pull buoy.I've got to know what the workout is.Maybe I've printed it out.And if I'm putting the workout beside the pool, I might even put the damn thing in a Ziploc bag so it doesn't get soaked.And suddenly, "I'm going swimming" has become this little logistical operation.And you can look at that and think:"Jesus. This is a lot of work just to go swimming."And that's where I think organization becomes really important.Because one of the great things about being organized is that it removes friction.If I put my running shoes by the door the night before, that's one less decision I have to make in the morning.If I've already prepared my bike bottles, that's one less thing I have to think about.If my watch is charged, I don't have to discover at the last minute that it's sitting at 14 percent.If my swim bag is already packed, I don't have to go hunting around the house looking for my snorkel.And these things sound incredibly trivial.But they're not.Because motivation is a funny thing.Sometimes you have plenty of motivation.You actually want to go for the run.You actually want to ride your bike.You actually want to get in the pool.And then you encounter five little obstacles.Where are my shoes?My watch is dead.I haven't made my drink.Where's my towel?What am I supposed to do for this workout?And suddenly that little bit of motivation has been chipped away.So I think one of the great purposes of organization is not necessarily to make you more motivated.It's to protect the motivation that you already have.And I really like that idea.But I think there's another layer to this.And that's where the idea of ritual comes in.Because there's a difference between doing something because you have to do it and doing something as part of a ritual.Think about making your coffee in the morning.You could describe it as a series of chores.Fill the machine.Grind the beans.Put the coffee in.Turn it on.Clean it up.Or you could think of it as a little morning ritual.And somehow, that changes the experience.And I think the same thing can happen with training.Take preparing a bottle of carb drink.You can think:"God, I have to make this stupid drink again."Or you can think:"Okay. I'm getting ready for my ride."And you get the bottle.You put the water in.You measure out the carbs.You add the electrolytes.You shake it up.You put it in the fridge.And that's not just a chore anymore.It's part of the ride.It's the beginning of the ride.The same thing with charging your watch.The same thing with laying out your clothes.The same thing with getting your shoes ready.The same thing with packing your swim bag.The same thing with putting that workout into the Ziploc bag.You can look at every one of those things and say:"This is stuff I have to do before I can train."Or you can say:"This is how I prepare to train."And those two sentences sound almost identical.But emotionally, they're completely different.One is a burden.The other is a ritual.And I think there's something really powerful in that distinction.Because we spend so much of our time trying to get to the thing we actually want to do.We rush through the preparation.We rush through getting ready.We think the preparation is just an annoying obstacle between us and the good part.But maybe the preparation is part of the good part.Maybe there's actually some pleasure in getting ready.There's something satisfying about seeing the bike bottles lined up.There's something satisfying about getting your kit laid out.There's something satisfying about knowing that everything is ready to go.And I think that's particularly true in triathlon because there are so many little rituals.You put on the cycling shoes.You get the bottles into the cages.You turn on the trainer.You pull up the workout.You put your headphones on.You get on the bike.And there's a transition that happens.You're no longer sitting around thinking about everything else in your life.You're becoming the person who's about to train.And maybe that's part of the value of ritual.It tells your brain:"Okay. We're doing this now."And I think this also changes the way we think about all of the equipment.Because if you're not careful, all of the stuff that comes with triathlon can feel overwhelming.You start thinking:Why do I have all this stuff?Why do I have five different kinds of nutrition?Why do I have all these swim toys?Why do I need this bike computer?Why do I have a radar?Why do I have this light?Why do I have these shoes?And you can certainly take it too far.Triathlon is an excellent hobby if you want to become an obsessive consumer of tiny improvements.There's always another piece of equipment.There's always another gadget.There's always another thing that might make you three percent faster.And I'm certainly not immune to that.But I've also started thinking that some of that stuff is part of what makes the sport interesting.Take swimming.Maybe you've got a snorkel.You can use it to work on your body position.You've got paddles.You can feel what your catch is doing.You've got fins.You've got a pull buoy.And suddenly swimming isn't just:"Get in the pool and swim back and forth."There's this whole little world of things to explore.And the bike is the same.You can get interested in power.You can get interested in aerodynamics.You can get interested in tires.You can get interested in nutrition.You can get interested in bike fit.You can get interested in training.And I think that's one of the things I love about triathlon.There's always something to be curious about.And that brings me back to my messy desk.Because maybe the desk and the triathlon gear aren't actually that different.The desk is covered with evidence of all the things I'm interested in.And the garage, or the swim bag, or the training calendar, is covered with evidence of all the things I'm interested in as well.And I don't think the answer is to eliminate all of that.I think the answer is to organize it.Not because those things are bad.But because I want to be able to enjoy them.And that's an important distinction.Organization shouldn't necessarily be about simplifying your life to the point where there's nothing left in it.Maybe it's about organizing your life well enough that you can enjoy its complexity.Because triathlon is complex.And that's part of the fun.But there's a danger here, too.Because you can take this idea of preparation and ritual too far.You can become so focused on preparing that you never actually do the workout.You can spend an hour researching the perfect nutrition strategy for a 45-minute run.You can spend all day organizing your training instead of training.You can convince yourself that you need one more piece of equipment before you can really get started.And that's not what I'm talking about.The ritual is supposed to lead you into the activity.It's not supposed to replace the activity.So I think there's a balance.Prepare enough that you remove the friction.Organize enough that you don't have to make a hundred little decisions.But then actually go and do the thing.And maybe that's the real purpose of organization.It's not about having a perfect desk.It's not about having a perfect calendar.It's not about having everything checked off.It's about making room for the things you care about.And that brings me back to something I've been thinking about a lot lately.Sometimes I look at my calendar and I see all of these unfinished things.And my immediate reaction is:"There's too much here."But maybe another way to look at it is:"Look at all the things I get to be interested in."And I think the same thing can happen with triathlon.You look at your training calendar and you think:"Oh my God. I've got all these workouts."You look at your swim bag and think:"Look at all this stuff I have to carry."You look at your bike and think:"Look at all these things I have to check."You look at your nutrition and think:"I have to prepare all of this again."Or you can take a moment and think:"How cool is this?"I get to swim.I get to ride my bike.I get to run.I get to learn about my body.I get to experiment with training.I get to figure out what works.I get to prepare for a race.And all of these little rituals are part of that experience.So maybe the goal isn't to get rid of the complexity.Maybe the goal is to make the complexity manageable.And maybe the goal isn't to eliminate all of the unfinished things on my desk.Maybe it's to give those things a place to live.Because there's a difference between being overwhelmed by your life and being surrounded by evidence that you're living an interesting life.And sometimes, honestly, I think I confuse the two.So the next time I'm standing in the kitchen making a bottle of carb drink before a ride, or charging my watch, or putting my shoes beside the door, or stuffing my swim workout into a Ziploc bag...Maybe I'll try not to think:"God, I have to do all this stuff before I can train."Maybe I'll think:"This is the beginning of my training."And maybe that's a small shift.But I think sometimes the small shifts are the ones that change the way we experience our lives.Because the training isn't just the hour on the bike.It's the preparation.It's the anticipation.It's the ritual.It's the workout.It's the recovery.It's thinking about what you're going to do next time.It's all of it.And maybe that's one of the reasons I love this ridiculous sport so much.There's just so much to it.And instead of seeing all of that as one more thing to organize...Maybe I can see it as one more thing to enjoy.

This week, we're joined by “Rainbow Valentine” and her father, “Walter Lemur,” of the wildly popular podcast Disorganized Crime: Smuggler's Daughter. Over the span of 10 episodes, Rainbow's podcast tells the story of growing up in the drug-smuggling hippie counterculture of 1970s and '80s Marin County. Walter was a particularly successful smuggler, and like many of his counterparts, he needed ways to launder all those ill-gotten gains. Some people bought vintage cars, art and antique jewelry, or made cash deals that skirted tax and banking laws. Walter did some of that, but early in his smuggling career he discovered a much more enjoyable way to invest his cash: fine wine. Shockingly, Sam grew up with Rainbow, only he knew her as Thesaly… Once he connected all the dots, we invited Thesaly and her dad to come on the show and tell some of his stories of wine “collecting.” We get into how “Walter” got into the business in the first place, some of the many dangers and complications along the way, and plenty of other meandering rambles. Most importantly, we dig into the wines he was investing in and what the world of fine wine was like in that heady era. “Rainbow” and “Walter” also brought a surprising treat: the last of six magnums Walter bought of 1952 Krug Champagne, supposedly from Rémi Krug's personal cellar. The wine, like the stories, defied all logic and took us on a journey we could not possibly have predicted. Buckle up, open one up, roll one up and get ready for one of the wildest episodes of The Wine Makers Podcast yet! [Ep 427] Listen to Disorganized Crime and other great Rainbow Valentine podcasts here -> https://rainbowvalentine.com/ (we highly recommend Psychadelic Women) Listen to the specific episode about wine buying and other cash cleaning tactics here -> https://bit.ly/4crw8HU Follow Rainbow/Thesaly on Instagram- @rainbowvalentinelemur @theukulady

Send us Fan MailADHD doesn't disappear at 18 — it just gets relabeled. Disorganized. Anxious. "Can't get it together." In this episode, we talk about adult ADHD: what it actually looks like beyond the hyperactive-boy stereotype, why it's so often missed or mistaken for anxiety and depression, and why so many adults are only now connecting the dots. We break down the exhaustion of decades of compensating, what a real evaluation involves, and the range of supports — beyond just medication — that actually help.Support the showDisclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy or professional mental health care.Want more? Subscribe now and take a seat In Session! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1679131/supportFollow us on Instagram: @insessionthepodcast Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/insessionthepodcast/

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Happy Virgo season! This week many of our kids are back to school. It's a time of the year to return to routine and organization. On the show, we are going to reflect on where we feel disorganized, both in our inner world and in the space around us. And then we are going to take the time to clean up! You'll start today by taking an inventory of your life. Tune in to begin.

Bill Roggio reflects on the five-year anniversary of the 2021 Afghanistan withdrawal, highlighting the accuracy of the maps he built that predicted the Taliban's takeover. He describes the withdrawal as disorganized, noting there was zero plan for the Afghan government or military equipment. Roggio specifically criticizes the abandonment of Bagram Air Base, which he believes was the superior evacuation site. He also addresses current Middle East policy, dismissing proposed land blockades against Iran as "fanciful" and impractical. He warns that current strategic failures mirror the indifference seen in Afghanistan. (1)

In this episode of Late and Disorganized, we break down the mental weight and intuitive gift of carrying a 3rd House Stellium (especially with Sagittarius/Jupiter influence). We explore the constant mental chatter, the frustration of laying out obvious patterns to people who can't see them, and navigating the immediate environment without getting consumed by daily static. Most importantly, we talk about how to channel an overactive mind into a structured channel for speech, writing, and real-world clarity.

Girl, we've made it to part four of The Disorganized Diaries, and this is the episode I've been waiting to give you. We've talked about what disorganized attachment is, where it comes from, and how ADHD and neurodivergence can pour gasoline on the fire. Today we're finally talking about the way out. And I need you to hear this: knowing something logically does not turn off the internal alarm system your nervous system built to protect you. Only embodied safety does that. So let's talk about how you actually get there.Inside the episode:The four-part framework for building secure attachment, starting with gaining awareness of your past relational trauma and creating a crystal-clear, empowering vision for who you're becoming (not the "safe" vision you think you're supposed to want).Why you can't outbehave a belief, we go deep into rewiring your subconscious belief system and doing the repetition compulsion work most people avoid (and the work that changes everything when you finally do it all the way).The secure relationship skills that actually get tested in real life, pacing, emotional investment, navigating conflict, and learning to self-soothe so you can pause between being activated and taking action, instead of blowing up or shutting down.If any part of this felt like your story, you don't have to figure it out alone. Whether you're ready to go all in or just want to start today, I've got two ways to support you.

You're not "too much" and you're not broken — your nervous system just learned to survive in chaos, and now it's time to teach it something new.Y'all, this one is personal. Disorganized attachment (aka fearful avoidant) is the attachment style I lived in for a huge chunk of my life before I did the work to become securely attached and it's also the one that gets talked about the least. In this episode of the Disorganized Diaries, I'm breaking down why this attachment style has such a high overlap with ADHD, anxiety, and depression, why it so often gets misdiagnosed, and exactly what it takes to move from that pull-you-in-push-you-away pattern into real, embodied security. If you've ever felt like your emotions are a tsunami one minute and you're completely shut down the next, this episode is for you.Inside the Episode:Why disorganized attachment develops from inconsistent or unpredictable caregiving, and how it shows up as "clingy one moment, cold the next" in your adult relationshipsThe surprising overlap between disorganized attachment, ADHD, and anxiety, and why so many women get misdiagnosed before they ever hear the word "attachment"The real growth areas that move you toward secure attachment: emotional regulation, releasing fear of abandonment, and building trust in yourself firstIf you're ready to start healing this pattern at the root, my Identity Reset mini-course is the perfect first step, it's where we start rewiring those old beliefs that keep you stuck in survival mode.

If the person you were supposed to run to for safety was also the person who scared you, your nervous system learned a lesson that's still running your relationships today.Girl, this one goes deep. In part two of the Disorganized Diaries series, I'm taking you back to the origin, where disorganized attachment actually comes from, and why it's the attachment style I lived in for almost three decades. We're talking about the caregivers who were sometimes safe and sometimes not, the difference between blatant abuse and the quieter, sneakier wound of emotional neglect, and why so many of you have spent years thinking you don't have "real trauma" because nothing dramatic ever happened. I'm also sharing my client Maya's story, the pull-close-then-sabotage pattern so many of you know intimately, and how she healed it. If you've ever asked "why can't I just let someone love me," this episode is your answer.Inside the Episode:Why disorganized attachment forms when your safe person is also your scary person, and how that wires the core belief that closeness equals dangerThe difference between emotional abuse and emotional neglect, and why neglect is so much harder to name (spoiler: it still counts)Maya's story - the "intense then numb" relationship pattern, where it came from, and what changed when she finally healed itTake the free Attachment Style Quiz to find out your exact breakdown →https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizReady to start rewiring your identity? Grab Identity Reset, my audio + video course for building your securely attached identity

You're not broken, and you're not "too much." You're just fluent in two survival strategies that never got the chance to work.Girl, this episode kicks off a brand new series I'm calling The Disorganized Diaries, and I am so excited (and honestly a little nervous) to go here with y'all. If you've ever felt like you crave closeness one minute and feel suffocated by it the next... if you've ever loved someone and been terrified of them at the same time... this one's for you. Disorganized attachment doesn't get talked about nearly enough, and I know that firsthand, I lived in this exact experience for a huge chunk of my life before I did the work to heal it. So today we're not doing the clinical breakdown. We're going deep into what it actually feels like to live in this body, with these thoughts, these feelings, these beliefs.Inside the episode:Why disorganized attachment isn't a personality flaw, it's what happens when you become fluent in both the anxious and the avoidant survival strategies because neither one worked on its ownThe exact thoughts and beliefs running underneath this attachment style (like "if I need you, you'll hurt me, but if I don't need you, I'll lose you") and why they make you feel like you can't trust yourselfThe truth about why disorganized attachment gets misdiagnosed as borderline personality disorder, and the important distinction between the twoIf you saw yourself in this episode, I want you to hear me: you are not too much, you are not broken, and this can absolutely be healed.Ready to start shifting your patterns? Grab my Identity Reset mini-course and start doing the work today: drmorgan.lpages.co/identity-reset/Ready to go deeper, 1:1? I've got a couple of private coaching spots open right now, apply here: drmorgancoaching.co/esl-relationship-program-apply

Jenn talks about the chaos that is Facebook. 

Gregory Copley. Russian Bluster and NATO's Disorganized Response. Copley dismisses Russian threats against Poland and Finland as "agit prop" designed to save face during the NATO summit. He argues Russia is incapable of a major war with NATO and that Putin remains secure despite domestic pressures, petrol rationing, and the West's disorganized attempts to unify. (10)v

Grace doesn't just save; it sets church life in order. In Titus 1:5–9, Paul tells Titus to appoint elders in every town—plural leaders, not solo—so God's family can move together through places like Crete. Elders must be above reproach, self-controlled, hospitable, and faithful to sound doctrine, using the trustworthy word to encourage and protect the flock. This message invites all of us to let grace order our homes, habits, and sexual integrity, so the gospel becomes believable.

Disorganized attachment forms when the same caregiver is both the source of comfort and the source of fear, creating an adult nervous system that approaches and avoids in the same instant. This is the both-at-once wound.This video walks through what disorganized attachment actually is, why anxious and avoidant advice has never reached you, and how the pull-push dance in your love life was learned at the exact age you needed a parent to feel one way. If you keep reaching and bracing at the same time, this names the wound.Kenny Weiss is the creator of the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™. This teaching maps disorganized attachment to the Adapted Wounded Child survival persona, the both-at-once parental setup, and the titrated re-patterning that ends the choreography.Disorganized attachment is not a personality flaw and not a dating problem. It forms when the same caregiver is both the source of comfort and the source of fear, leaving the child no organized place to land. The adult body then learns to approach and avoid in the same gesture.The adult with disorganized attachment does not behave like a textbook anxious attacher or a textbook avoidant runner. They behave like both, often in the same hour. They pursue until the partner gets close, then cannot stand the air in the room. They crave intimacy and panic the second somebody offers it.Generic attachment advice cannot reach disorganized attachment because most of it is built for clean anxious or clean avoidant. It tells the anxious person to self-soothe and the avoidant person to let people in. Both of those moves fire the alarm at the same time for the disorganized adult.The Emotional Authenticity Method™ addresses disorganized attachment at the nervous-system level. Its six steps trace the both-at-once feeling from somatic down-regulation through earliest memory to Feelization, where the body builds a new emotional addiction to safe closeness instead of the dance.Kenny Weiss is a relationship, communication, and childhood trauma recovery specialist and the creator of the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™. He is the author of Your Journey To Success and Your Journey To Being Yourself.TOPICS COVERED: disorganized attachment, disorganized attachment style, fearful avoidant, both-at-once wound, push pull dynamic, anxious avoidant cycle, attachment trauma, attachment theory, Worst Day Cycle, Authentic Self Cycle, Emotional Authenticity Method, Kenny Weiss, survival persona, Adapted Wounded Child0:00 — Reaching With One Hand While Pushing With the Other1:30 — The Client Whose Source of Safety Was the Source of Threat3:00 — Why Your Nervous System Organized Around the Both-At-Once6:00 — The Adapted Wounded Child as the Disorganized Survival Persona8:30 — The Worst Day Cycle Inside the Pull-Push Dance10:30 — Why Anxious or Avoidant Advice Will Not Reach You12:00 — The Authentic Self Cycle Inside the Choreography14:30 — The Emotional Authenticity Method as the Re-Patterning17:00 — Identity Close

The Ship Report, Wednesday, June 24, 2026Today I'll answer a listener question about why anchored ships can look so disorganized. It happens when the tide is changing on the river.It's a good question that involves water flow, natural systems, and reflects the complex and amazing place we live in.

I see a lot of smart leaders assume their team will operate the same way they do. But intelligence, hard work, and good intentions do not automatically create order. I've learned that organization comes from enforced behavior, not from strategy, talent, or motivation alone. When standards are not consistently reinforced, even strong teams can become disorganized and chaotic. That's why leadership is not just about setting expectations. It's about making sure those expectations are followed every day. Show Notes: [02:33]#1 Intelligence replaces enforcement with explanation. [09:29]#2 Tolerance for deviation becomes the real standard. [19:04]#3 Systems without discipline create structured chaos. [20:51] Recap Next Steps: --- Execution is not a talent.   It is a standard. If your results don't match your ability, something in your approach is out of alignment. Most people do not have a motivation problem.   They have a consistency problem. Power Presence is the system for operating with greater discipline, clarity, structure, and execution under pressure. Learn more: → http://www.PowerPresenceProtocol.com  — This show is the public record of standards. All episodes and the complete archive: → http://WorkOnYourGamePodcast.com 

In the final deep dive of our series on the Emotional Operating System (EOS), we look at the most complex style of all: the Fearful-Avoidant (or Disorganized) style. If your breakup has felt like a chaotic cycle of "come here" and "go away," or if you find yourself swinging between intense longing and sudden repulsion, this episode is for you. We deconstruct the "Push-Pull" code where the desire for connection is in a constant war with the need for safety. Learn how to perform a Conflict Thought Download and use the "Safety Check-In" to stop the emotional pendulum and move toward a state of secure, internal grounding. Ready to Fast-Track Your Breakup Recovery? Stop waiting for "time" to heal you and start your journey back to happy with a personalized roadmap. I am now accepting a limited number of 1:1 coaching clients. Let's turn your heartbreak into a catalyst for your greatest transformation. Claim your Free 30-Minute Strategy Call here: https://www.angieday.com/join/ Discover your Unique Breakup Style This is a crucial first step to taking back your power. Your emotional reactions right now are not random; they are driven by a subconscious operating system (your attachment style). By identifying your unique style, you gain a clear blueprint for your behavior. Take the quiz here: https://www.angieday.com/free-quiz/ Connect with Angie If you or someone you love is struggling after a breakup or divorce and you'd like professional support to navigate the aftermath, I'm here to help. Email me at: angie@contactangieday.com Leave a Voicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheBacktoHappyPodcast

Olá, bem-vindo à Tribo TDAH, o podcast com hiperfoco na sua vida!Hoje nós vamos terminar de falar sobre TDAH, desorganização e bagunça, então venha entender as consequências emocionais, influências de comorbidades e dicas práticas para ajudar!Descubra como nosso Transtorno de Déficit de Atenção e Hiperatividade tem grande impacto das disfunções executivas em diferentes áreas e aspectos das nossas vidas.#TDAH #TDAHpodcasters #PcDPodcasters #LGBTPodcasters #MulheresPodcasters---**ENTRE NO MELHOR GRUPO DE APOIO TDAH E AUTISTA**- Tribo TDAH no Apoia.se ---**RECEBA A NEWSLETTER**- Tribo News ---**Links de referência**- Predicting emotional consequences of disorganization among adults with neurodevelopmental disorders: a structural equation model- Working memory and organizational skills problems in ADHD- Organizational-skills interventions in the treatment of ADHD- Exploring the relationship between ADHD, its common comorbidities, and their relationship to organizational skills- The Role of Working Memory and Organizational Skills in Academic Functioning for Children with ADHD- Effective Organisation Management for Adults with ADHD- Can ADHD Cause You to Be Messy and Disorganized?- 33 ADHD-Friendly Ways to Get Organized- 33 Ways to Get Things Done—Consistently- Managing Disorganization in ADHD- How ADHD fuels disorganization- Why are people with ADHD so unorganized?- The FlyLady Has the Cure for Your Messy House Syndrome---**Episódios relacionados**- Tribo TDAH #160 - TDAH, desorganização e bagunça (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #154 - TDAH, desorganização e bagunça (Roda de Conversa) - Tribo TDAH #50 - TDAH e Transtorno da Acumulação (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #51 - TDAH e Transtorno da Acumulação (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #116 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #117 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #118 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Roda de conversa - Parte 3)- Tribo TDAH #119 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Roda de conversa - Parte 4)- Tribo TDAH #58 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #59 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #60 - TDAH e memória (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #61 - TDAH e memória (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #147 - TDAH, atenção seletiva e desatenção (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #148 - TDAH, atenção seletiva e desatenção (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #28 - TDAH e hipersensibilidade (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #29 - TDAH e hipersensibilidade (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #04 - TDAH e desequilíbrio emocional- Tribo TDAH - Body Double no TDAH (dublê de corpo) (VÍDEO)- Tribo TDAH - Você conhece a Taxa TDAH? (VÍDEO)- Tribo TDAH - TDAH não é déficit de atenção???

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Olá, bem-vindo à Tribo TDAH, o podcast com hiperfoco na sua vida!Hoje nós vamos falar sobre TDAH, desorganização e bagunça, então venha entender como nosso cérebro afeta planejamento, finanças e até a organização de pensamentos e falas!Descubra como nosso Transtorno de Déficit de Atenção e Hiperatividade tem grande impacto das disfunções executivas em diferentes áreas e aspectos das nossas vidas.#TDAH #TDAHpodcasters #PcDPodcasters #LGBTPodcasters #MulheresPodcasters---**ENTRE NO MELHOR GRUPO DE APOIO TDAH E AUTISTA**- Tribo TDAH no Apoia.se ---**RECEBA A NEWSLETTER**- Tribo News ---**Links de referência**- Predicting emotional consequences of disorganization among adults with neurodevelopmental disorders: a structural equation model- Working memory and organizational skills problems in ADHD- Organizational-skills interventions in the treatment of ADHD- Exploring the relationship between ADHD, its common comorbidities, and their relationship to organizational skills- The Role of Working Memory and Organizational Skills in Academic Functioning for Children with ADHD- Effective Organisation Management for Adults with ADHD- Can ADHD Cause You to Be Messy and Disorganized?- 33 ADHD-Friendly Ways to Get Organized- 33 Ways to Get Things Done—Consistently- Managing Disorganization in ADHD- How ADHD fuels disorganization- Why are people with ADHD so unorganized?- The FlyLady Has the Cure for Your Messy House Syndrome---**Episódios relacionados**- Tribo TDAH #154 - TDAH, desorganização e bagunça (Roda de Conversa) - Tribo TDAH #50 - TDAH e Transtorno da Acumulação (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #51 - TDAH e Transtorno da Acumulação (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #116 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #117 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #118 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Roda de conversa - Parte 3)- Tribo TDAH #119 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Roda de conversa - Parte 4)- Tribo TDAH #58 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #59 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #60 - TDAH e memória (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #61 - TDAH e memória (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #147 - TDAH, atenção seletiva e desatenção (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #148 - TDAH, atenção seletiva e desatenção (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #28 - TDAH e hipersensibilidade (Parte 1)- Tribo TDAH #29 - TDAH e hipersensibilidade (Parte 2)- Tribo TDAH #04 - TDAH e desequilíbrio emocional- Tribo TDAH - Body Double no TDAH (dublê de corpo) (VÍDEO)- Tribo TDAH - Você conhece a Taxa TDAH? (VÍDEO)- Tribo TDAH - TDAH não é déficit de atenção???

It's the 25th anniversary of Hudson Hawk! Everyone is talking about it! It's all over the news! This week the fellas talk some caper heist movies Disorganized Crime (1989) and Hudson Hawk (1991), packed full of stars like Bruce Willis, Lou Diamond Phillips, Ed O'Neil, Andie Macdowell, Richard E. Grant, and so much more!

All links and resources mentioned in the post can be found here: https://simplysquaredaway.com/167 Book a call with me here: https://simplysquaredaway.com/appointments What if the reason you feel disorganized… has nothing to do with your systems? If you keep telling yourself “I don't have enough time,” or "I should have finished this before," I want you to hear this: that thought might be the very thing keeping you stuck. In this episode, I'm doing something a little different. I'm taking you inside a real, unpolished coaching conversation where we break down what's actually happening when you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to follow through. Because here's what I see all the time… You go to organize something simple like a drawer, your calendar, or your task list… and suddenly it feels like too much. You second-guess your decisions. You run away. And by the end of the day, you've “proven” to yourself that you didn't have enough time. But that result didn't come from your circumstances. It came from your thinking. This episode will help you see, in real time, how your self-talk is shaping your actions and results, and what to do instead. And I'll be honest… this isn't perfectly polished coaching. It's real, in-the-moment thinking. But that's exactly why I wanted you to hear it. Because once you recognize these patterns in yourself, everything about how you approach organization can change. What You'll Learn: Why “I don't have enough time” is a thought, not a fact How your self-talk creates overwhelm, procrastination, and disorganization The difference between an overwhelmed person and a decisive, organized one What more productive self-talk looks like The simple mindset shift that helps you follow through and finish what you start

Was Gareth Williams a victim of his own private life, or a targeted hit by a foreign intelligence agency? This episode navigates the two warring theories that define this cold case. On one side, the official police conclusion of a "solitary accident" involving claustrophilia; on the other, the coroner's verdict of "unlawful killing" potentially linked to Williams's work on Russian money laundering. We re-examine the timeline of his final days, the £25,000 of unworn designer women's clothing in his closet, and the suspicious "redirection" of the investigation that some say points to an MI6 cover-up.

    Law firm leaders don't burn out from the workload—they burn out from the workload that never gets finished. In this episode, Molly reveals why exhaustion and lack of trust have nothing to do with having a heavy workload or being "too busy" with workload demands. The real problem is open loops within your workload—unfinished tasks, unclear ownership, and missed follow-ups that drain energy and stall growth. Real leadership isn't about taking on more workload. It's about closing loops within your workload, creating clarity, and building systems that ensure the workload actually gets done.   Key Takeaways:  Burnout in law firms is driven by unfinished tasks, poor follow-up systems, and lack of clear workflows, not workload. Disorganized offices and clutter signal broken law firm processes, weak operations, and lack of structure. Inconsistent communication and missed follow-ups lead to low trust between attorneys and staff. Being "busy" often reflects poor time management, lack of systems, and reactive leadership. Closing open loops with clear ownership, task management systems, and defined processes increases productivity and growth.   Quote for the Show: "You're not exhausted because of your workload. You're exhausted because of your open loops." - Molly Mcgrath Links: Website: https://hiringandempowering.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hiringandempowering Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hiringandempowering LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hiring&empoweringsolutions/ The Law Firm Admin Bootcamp + Academy™ : https://www.lawfirmadminbootcamp.com/ Get Fix My Boss Book: https://amzn.to/3PCeEhk   Ways to Tune In: Amazon Music - https://www.amazon.com/Hiring-and-Empowering-Solutions/dp/B08JJSLJ7N Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hiring-and-empowering-solutions/id1460184599 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3oIfsDDnEDDkcumTCygHDH Stitcher - https://www.stitcher.com/show/hiring-and-empowering-solutions YouTube - https://youtu.be/v4oNji5u52k 

If you've ever found yourself desperately craving closeness with someone and then panicking the moment you actually get it, this episode is for you. We're in part three of our four-part series on attachment styles across relationship development, and today we're diving deep into disorganized attachment (also known as fearful avoidant), the style that doesn't get nearly enough attention. This is also my own attachment style, y'all, and if I can heal it, I truly believe you can too.Inside the Episode:Why your nervous system learned that love = dangerWhat disorganized attachment actually looks like across each stage of a relationship Why healing starts with you, not with finding the right person

Curious? Take The Free Money Stress Quiz!Ready? Buy Our Simplified Budget System Now!Budget besties, if your money feels messy, scattered, or impossible to keep up with, this episode is for you. We're answering real questions from our Facebook community about what makes money feel so disorganized and how to fix it in a way that actually works in real life.We talk about why one big savings account creates confusion, how separate savings buckets can bring instant clarity, why goals matter more than most people realize, and what to do when you feel overwhelmed, behind, or stuck in credit card chaos. We also dig into how to handle money conversations with your partner and why simplifying your banking setup can make budgeting feel so much easier.This conversation is practical, honest, and full of the kind of mindset shifts that help us stop avoiding our money and start giving it a job.Let's Take Our Relationship To The Next Level:1️⃣ Facebook Group ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook2️⃣ Be on the Podcast ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall3️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coachingThis podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not personal financial, legal, or tax advice.This description may contain affiliate links, meaning we may get a commission at no cost to you if you click & purchase.Click here to view our privacy policy.

Does your home runs on constant reminders, never-ending rescuing, and last-minute scrambling for missing shoes, backpacks, and sporting equipment? Then this episode is for you! Dr. Amy and Sandy sit down with Dr. Rochelle Matthews-Somerville, a special needs education consultant, homeschool advocate, and mom of six, to make organization feel practical again for real families raising neurodivergent kids with ADHD, autism, learning differences, and big emotions.We dig into why saying “they have no executive functioning skills” misses the point, and how supports like labels, visuals, family calendars, and simple routines help kids build planning skills and follow-through over time. Dr. Rochelle shares a powerful communication reset: stop asking for “clean” and get specific. Her zone method turns room cleanup into clear, doable steps and helps kids experience success instead of overwhelm. We also talk about why a parent's favorite system might not fit their neurodivergent child's brain, and how to keep testing strategies until you find the match.Then we zoom out to the middle school handoff when parents stop being the external brain and kids suddenly carry a full load of schoolwork, chores, and activities. We cover writing everything down to expose overload, using framed choices to reduce power struggles, and teaching consequences as cause-and-effect rather than punishment. Finally, we address emotional regulation at the learning table: when frustration melts the day down, it may be time to adjust goals and rebuild skills before pushing academics.Subscribe, share this with a homeschool parent who needs hope, and leave a review so more families can find these executive functioning and homeschool organization strategies. What's the one daily routine you want to make easier this week?ABOUT US:The Brainy Moms is a parenting podcast hosted by cognitive psychologist Dr. Amy Moore and Sandy Zamalis. Dr. Amy and Sandy have conversations with experts in parenting, child development, education, homeschooling, psychology, mental health, and neuroscience. Listeners leave with tips and advice for helping parents and kids thrive. If you love us, add us to your playlist and follow us on social media! CONNECT WITH US:Website: www.TheBrainyMoms.com Email: BrainyMoms@gmail.com Social Media: @TheBrainyMomsSubscribe to our free monthly newsletterVisit our sponsor's website: www.LearningRx.com

Executives from ServiceNow, TwelveLabs, and AWS share unfiltered lessons on organizational change, data strategy, and best practices for scaling AI products worldwide.Topics Include:Three panelists explore scaling and monetizing agentic AI products.ServiceNow built entirely new prompt engineering roles from scratch.Evaluations-first culture replaced traditional QA — a major mindset shift.TwelveLabs' "Tokens Never Sleep" initiative broke down team AI resistance.Unlimited token usage revealed how underused AI actually is.Rich: the competitive window for acting on AI is closing.ServiceNow's DART program governs customer data for evaluation only.Enterprise data governance is fundamentally different from consumer companies.Disorganized internal data breaks agentic systems — structure comes first.Your data, not your model, is your competitive advantage.Krish's surprise: enterprise governance made model training nearly impossible.Jae: powerful AI tools erode human opinions faster than expected.Rich: boardroom-to-shop-floor AI adoption is unlike any previous wave.Customers began favoring velocity after watching competitors win with it.ServiceNow shipped agents at 20% resolution — then iterated upward.Focus early agents on reversible, low-risk, two-way-door actions.AWS tracks internal AI adoption in a structured weekly mechanism.TwelveLabs' two models power sophisticated video RAG workflows at scale.A Hollywood studio cut full episodes to four minutes using them.Voice agent worked perfectly in demos — broke immediately in production.Customers now measure how fast a product is getting smarter.Future-proofing infrastructure is every product leader's top anxiety today.MCP and A2A enable message-passing — but deeper problems remain.Semantic mismatch, agent identity, and trace governance remain unsolved.Tiered autonomy, trust, and data foundations define who ultimately wins.Participants:Krish Ganapathy | VP, AI Science, Architecture and Tools, ServiceNowJae Lee | CEO & Co-Founder, TwelveLabsRich Geraffo | Vice President & Managing Director, North America, AWSModerator: Connie de Lange | Marketing Director, North America, AWSSee how Amazon Web Services gives you the freedom to migrate, innovate, and scale your software company at https://aws.amazon.com/isv/

You think you're delivering a great experience… but your customers might be quietly walking away. In this powerful episode of SoTellUs Time, Trevor Howard breaks down one of the most overlooked (and expensive) problems in business today: the Customer Experience Gap. Whether you run a home service business, childcare center, salon, med spa, or any service-based company, this episode will open your eyes to what your customers are actually experiencing—and why small moments are costing you bookings, enrollments, reviews, and long-term loyalty. If you've ever wondered why: Leads don't convert Tours don't turn into enrollments Estimates don't close Customers don't come back Reviews are inconsistent

"I love you… now go away." That's the kind of chaos disorganized attachment creates. It's not drama or manipulation. It's deep inner turmoil that makes love feel dangerous and safety hard to trust. In this episode, Dr. Greg explores how childhood wounds shape these push-pull patterns, why closeness can feel threatening even when love is real, and how disorganized attachment helps make sense of borderline personality patterns. Key Topics: Why someone can put you on a pedestal one day and tear you down the next How childhood wounds create push-pull patterns that feel impossible to escape Why closeness can feel like a threat, even when love is real How disorganized attachment helps explain borderline personality patterns Why these patterns are rooted in inner turmoil, not simple manipulation How healing begins by making sense of the chaos instead of being swallowed by it Learn More: Need help? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation Previous episode on attachment theory:  Ep. #63: Attachment Theory: What It Is, What It Isn't, and How It Affects Your Relationships Previous episode in this series on the Borderline Defense Patterns: Ep. #269: BORDERLINE: The Push-Pull Between a Fear of Abandonment and Annihilation Start of the Being Human series on the Dependent Defense Patterns: Ep. #265: Jerry Maguire, Gollum, and the Fear of Not Existing Start of the Being Human series on the Narcissistic Defense Patterns: Ep. #261: Narcissism and the Terror of Being Ordinary Stop Walking on Eggshells – A guide for navigating relationships affected by borderline personality patterns Want to help? Learn more about our Certification in Professional Accompaniment Follow Us on Socials:   Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn  

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How does it feel to work for a leader who shows up late, unprepared, and scatterbrained? Most people won't say anything. But they feel it. In this episode of Restauranttopia, we unpack a leadership trait that rarely gets applause but deeply impacts culture, morale, and performance: Organization. Anthony calls it “invisible leadership.” And when it's missing? It becomes a tax on your team. Showing up late becomes contagious. Meetings without clarity waste time. Vague expectations create frustration. Your team compensates for your lack of structure. If you don't bring clarity, they bring confusion. No one thanks you for being organized. But they feel it when you're not. Clarity is kindness. Clear agendas. Clear expectations. Clear follow-ups. When structure is present, teams feel safe and steady. Anthony drops a powerful concept: Disorganization is a tax on your team. When employees constantly chase unclear direction, they burn energy solving problems that shouldn't exist. And that leads to: Frustration Eye rolls Quiet disengagement Eventually… turnover If your original message is fuzzy, the final message will be chaos. Disorganized leadership distorts communication before it even starts. Strong organization: Reduces micromanagement Reduces rework Reduces emotional volatility Great leaders are the eye of the hurricane. Whether it's: A slammed dinner service A Michelin review day A labor crisis Organization creates calm under pressure. Chaos at the top creates chaos everywhere. You can't hold people accountable to unclear expectations. Practical example discussed: Post-meeting recap emails Assigned action items Clear ownership Built-in follow-up systems Anthony shares his “Follow-Up Folder” system — a simple but powerful way to ensure nothing falls through the cracks. Because leadership isn't about remembering everything. It's about building systems so you don't have to. Being late and unprepared sends a message. Consistency builds trust. Organization reduces micromanagement. Clarity prevents resentment. Systems make you a better leader than memory ever will. Your team judges you by your structure. And maybe most importantly: Your people won't tell you you're disorganized. They'll just feel it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If Part 1 helped you see yourself more clearly, this episode is where everything shifts.

We trace how childhood attachment styles shape sexual desire, arousal, and closeness in marriage, and why couples get stuck in the sex standoff. Mark Cameron shares practical steps to earn secure attachment and turn emotional safety into better intimacy.• Key gender differences in arousal and desire• The sex standoff and how it spirals• Quick primer on attachment theory and styles• Avoider patterns and nonrelational sex• Pleaser appeasing, boundaries, and anxiety• Vacillator intensity, protest, and withholding• Disorganized attachment, control, and adrenaline• What secure partners do differently• Comfort Circle for empathy and regulation• Neural pathways, practice, and earned security• Resources: book, quiz, workshops, radio showVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org Podcast.stongermarriage.org YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLife TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/ Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.com http://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/

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Fear of abandonment can quietly run your life, shaping how you think, how you react, and how safe you feel in your relationships. In today's episode, we're getting very real about what fear of abandonment actually looks like in adulthood and how it shows up differently depending on your attachment style. Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, this episode will help you understand the roots of these patterns, why they feel so intense, and how they may be sabotaging your ability to experience deep, secure connection.Inside the episode:How fear of abandonment develops and why it's so closely tied to insecure attachment stylesThe key ways anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment express fear of abandonment in adult relationshipsWhy this fear keeps you stuck in fight-or-flight—and what becomes possible when you begin healing itIf you're ready to go deeper and start your journey toward secure love, you can explore the Empowered. Secure. Loved. offers here:

Welcome to Day Two of your 2026 Growth Plan Series! This episode continues a four-part conversation for the woman who wants to grow her business in 2026 without sacrificing her family, her health, or her peace. In today's episode, we're naming something that quietly holds so many women back—disorganization—and how it silently steals time, energy, and momentum without you even realizing it. If you've ever felt busy but still behind, this conversation will help you see what's really getting in the way and why clarity, not more effort is the path forward. xoxo, Chelsi Jo . . . . . Sign up NOW for the LIVE Workflow Workshop January 22 at 9:30 AM MST chelsijo.co/workflowworkshop Learn the 4 steps to organize your business so you can grow in less time. This year is your year to stop spinning your wheels and start growing with clarity.

What if the tension in your relationships isn't actually about the other person — but about patterns you learned long before you realized it?In this powerful and deeply practical conversation, licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Mark Cameron joins us to unpack attachment styles — how they form in childhood, how they quietly drive conflict in adulthood, and how secure attachment can actually be earned later in life.From marriage and parenting to leadership, faith, and emotional regulation, this episode connects the dots between why we react the way we do and how to break unhelpful cycles for good.Mark is a co-host of New Life Live, the largest Christian counseling call-in radio show in the country, and the author of Understanding Your Attachment Style. Whether you're married, single, dating, leading a team, or raising kids, this episode will help you better understand yourself — and the people you love.✨ In this episode, we discuss:What attachment styles are and why everyone has oneThe 4 insecure attachment styles (Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Disorganized)What secure attachment actually looks likeWhy triggers are usually about the past — not the presentHow attachment styles show up in marriage, parenting, work, and leadershipWhy “just communicate better” doesn't workHow faith intersects with attachment and emotional healingHow to earn secure attachment as an adultWhat to look for when choosing a spouse (without over-analyzing everything)This episode is for anyone who wants healthier relationships, deeper connection, and real tools — not just theory.If this conversation resonates with you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who's navigating relationships right now.⏱️ Timestamps / Chapters00:00 – Meeting Mark Cameron & why this conversation matters01:48 – What is attachment theory (and why everyone has an attachment style)03:36 – The Avoider attachment style explained05:06 – The Pleaser (anxious) attachment style06:18 – Why siblings can develop different attachment styles07:02 – The Vacillator attachment style (push–pull dynamics)08:28 – Disorganized attachment: controllers & victims09:43 – Secure attachment & why it's the goal11:35 – Can secure and insecure attachment coexist in relationships?12:29 – Verbalize vs. dramatize: why language for feelings matters13:32 – Attachment styles at work & in leadership14:29 – How triggers reveal attachment wounds16:13 – Reactions vs. responses (and why it matters)17:38 – How to identify your attachment style19:44 – Most common attachment pairings in couples therapy21:13 – Why Mark keeps couples together in therapy22:39 – Questions that uncover attachment wounds24:57 – The “comfort circle” communication framework25:48 – How attachment affects communication under stress27:39 – Parenting for secure attachment28:54 – Common issues callers bring to New Life Live30:32 – Addiction, emotional numbing & attachment31:59 – Practical rhythms for staying connected in marriage34:52 – Faith, God & attachment styles37:08 – Jesus as the ultimate secure connector38:38 – Choosing a spouse: what really matters long-termConnect with Marc:

Welcome back to the Attachment Style SOS Series! In today's episode, I'm diving deep into disorganized attachment. The style that feels like craving closeness one moment and wanting to run for the hills the next. If relationships feel like emotional whiplash, if you've ever felt “too much,” “too complicated,” or like you become a different person when you're triggered… this episode will help you understand why. As someone who lived this pattern for over a decade, this one is incredibly close to my heart.Inside the episode, we cover:What disorganized attachment actually feels like, why it shows up as emotional chaos, and the science behind your attachment system and survival system firing at the same timeIdentity fragmentation and “shape-shifting”, why you lose yourself in relationships, and how to rebuild a cohesive, secure identity from the inside outCultural misunderstandings & the ADHD link, how society mislabels this style and why emotional regulation challenges feed into ADHD (and vice versa)If you're listening and thinking, “Wow… this is me,” or “This explains so much about someone I love,” please know this: you are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to chaos—and that means you can absolutely learn safety and become securely attached.And hey, if you're ready to actually do this healing work with guidance, structure, and support… Now is the moment.The Empowered.Secure.Loved Program is closing its application doors for the year, and this is truly your final chance to grab the Black Friday Offer before it expires. Once doors close, we do not know when (or if) enrollment will open again in 2026.If you've been feeling that nudge—Should I do this?—this is your sign.Apply now, get a spot while you still can, and start 2026 with real hope, real support, and real transformation.

Today's episode is such a special one. I'm sitting down with one of our incredible ESL graduates, Carlina, whose story of healing, sobriety, self-discovery, and stepping into secure, emotionally available love will move you to your core. If you've ever struggled with repeating relationship patterns, feeling “too much,” navigating disorganized attachment, or doubting whether secure love is possible for you… this conversation will give you so much hope. Carlina gets incredibly vulnerable about breaking cycles, building belief in herself, healing family relationships, and attracting a securely attached partner who meets her with patience, consistency, and kindness. You won't want to miss this one.Inside the episode, we cover:How disorganized attachment, numbing, and girl-bossing into avoidance kept Carlina stuck in the same cycles and the moment she decided she couldn't do it anymore.The exact beliefs she rewired inside the program (including “I'm too much” and “I'll always be left behind”) and how that opened the door to healthy, secure partnership.What it feels like to date someone emotionally available, patient, consistent—and how secure love allowed her to soften, receive, and be her authentic self.If Carlina's journey spoke to you and you're feeling that pull… this is your sign. The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program is closing applications THIS YEAR, and once doors close, they are closed. If you're ready to stop repeating patterns, heal at the root, and finally step into the love and life you deserve, now is the time to apply.

You absolutely can heal from disorganized attachment and I'm living proof of it. For over a decade, I was stuck in chaos, emotional highs and lows, and constant self-doubt. My relationships were a reflection of the deep wounds I hadn't yet faced. In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey with disorganized attachment, the rock-bottom moments, the painful patterns, and the neuroscience-backed healing process that helped me finally become secure and build the peaceful, healthy love I once thought was impossible.Inside the Episode:How disorganized attachment forms and the unpredictable caregiving patterns that create it.Why you keep attracting chaos in love (and how to stop recreating your childhood pain in adult relationships).The exact process I used to rewire my attachment style and finally experience secure, emotionally regulated love.Healing disorganized attachment is so possible but it starts with saying yes to yourself. Inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program, I walk you through my proven neuroscience-based framework that has helped over 1,000 women become securely attached and attract the kind of love they once thought didn't exist.✨ Applications are closing soon for this year. Don't wait! This is your moment to heal, to rewire, and to step into the peaceful love you deserve.

Attachment Theory Expert Adam Lane Smith joins Gabby Reese to dive deep into Anxious & Avoidant Attachment and the neuroscience of secure relationships. Learn how to heal your nervous system and unlock true monogamy through co-solving life's challenges. Adam Lane Smith reveals the hidden science that governs our bonds, explaining how our nervous systems are "fried" by modern life and how attachment science is the future of human connection. Discover the chemical keys to lasting partnership, including the vital role of vasopressin, the hormone released when couples overcome stress and solve problems as a team.Gabby and Adam discuss: How to understand and shift your personal attachment style (Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized) to secure. The difference between oxytocin and vasopressin and how to naturally increase your bonding hormones. Gabby's personal story of almost divorcing Laird Hamilton and the pivotal shift that transformed her marriage through honest, brave communication. The biological imperative of a "safe perimeter" and the dynamic of healthy masculinity and femininity. Why the greatest form of resilience for a child is a secure family they can always return to. How relationships can become your "medicine" and your greatest tool for a regulated nervous system and a resilient life. Connect with Adam Lane Smith:https://adamlanesmith.com/https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam For more on Gabby Instagram @GabbyReece: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok @GabbyReeceOfficial https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece  The Gabby Reece Show podcast is produced by Rainbow Creative (https://www.rainbowcreative.co/)  Thank You to Our Sponsors The Reecet - Join Gabby Reece for a transformative women's retreat designed to simplify and reframe what it means to be healthy. Learn more at https://amphora.la/thereecet Laird Superfood - High-quality ingredients paired with incredible taste. Use the code GABBY20 for 20% off your purchase at http://lairdsuperfood.com CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Fried Nervous Systems & Attachment 03:55 The Monogamy Hormone: Vasopressin 07:14 Gabby's Story: Almost Divorcing 14:19 Secure Parenting: Safe Perimeter 19:30 The 4 Layers of Male Safety 30:00 Re-Parenting & Going Secure 36:10 Masculine and Feminine Roles 45:10 Adam Lane Smith's Path 53:20 Effeminate Men vs. Feminine 59:15 The Cost of Non-Commitment 08:45 How to Heal Anxious Men 01:13:50 Conflict Builds Strong Bonds 01:21:10 Anxious Attachment Needs Solving 01:32:00 3 Steps to Secure Attachment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Bobby and Tricia Sexton decided to reconcile in early 1998, many thought it was the start of the family finding peace again. But according to the authorities, it was just a plot to set someone up to be murdered. This case is *solved*Thank you to Newspapers.com for supporting Crimelines once again. Use code CRIMELINES for an exclusive discount! Support the show!Get the exclusive show Beyond the Files plus Crimelines episodes ad free onSupercast: https://crimelines.supercast.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/crimelinesApple Subscriptions: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crimelines-true-crime/id1112004494 For one time support:https://www.basementfortproductions.com/supportLinks to all my socials and more:https://linktr.ee/crimelinesSources:2025 Crimelines Podcast Source List Transcript: https://app.podscribe.ai/series/3790If an exact transcript is needed, please request at crimelinespodcast@gmail.com Licensing and credits:Theme music by Scott Buckley https://www.scottbuckley.com.au/Cover Art by Lars Hacking from Rusty HingesCrimelines is a registered trademark of Crimelines LLC.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.