Podcasts about Masculinity

In this powerful episode, Melissa sits down with Tim Wright — former Lutheran pastor of 41 years, author, and passionate advocate for helping boys grow into strong, compassionate men of character. Melissa begins the conversation with a question many parents of boys are quietly asking: What does it even mean to be a man in today's world? With cultural messages constantly shifting — and often equating masculinity with toxicity — Tim offers a refreshing, grounded perspective. He shares why boys need intentional guidance, not stereotypes. Why strength and compassion are not opposites. And why raising good men starts with developing character — not just behavior. Tim explains how throughout history, many cultures practiced rites of passage to help boys transition into manhood. Today, we often lack those intentional moments. Without guidance, boys will still seek definition — but they may look in the wrong places. Tim shares how simple, intentional experiences can help boys build identity rooted in love, responsibility, empathy, and conviction. He also shares a deeply moving story about the rite of passage ceremony he created for his son when he became a father — gathering strong male figures, reading letters of affirmation, and symbolizing the moment through intentional marking. It's a beautiful picture of what mentorship and generational blessing can look like. The conversation then turns to Tim's middle-grade fantasy series, The Adventures of Toby Baxter. Through adventure, humor, and imagination, Tim weaves character lessons about courage, wisdom, love, grit, and truth into engaging stories designed especially to help boys grow. Melissa and Tim discuss: Why boys need strong male role models beyond just dad The power of language and affirmation ("I love you. I'm proud of you.") How parents can be intentional even if a father is absent Why character must come before labels And how to take back influence in an age of screens and algorithms Tim closes with a simple but powerful reminder: Look your child in the eyes every day and say, "I love you, and I'm proud of you." Because when a child knows they are deeply loved, it becomes a protective force against so much of what culture throws at them.   LINKS: All Links Family Brand!  stan.store/familybrand familybrand.com/quiz familybrand.com/retreats.  Links For This Episode: : Tim Wright Books -- The Adventures of Toby Baxter Episode Minute By Minute: 01:00 – Tim's background: pastor, author, and grandfather 03:30 – What does it mean to be a man today? 05:00 – Masculinity vs. "toxic masculinity" 06:30 – Why boys need intentional training 08:00 – The loss of rites of passage in modern culture 10:00 – Character as the foundation of manhood 12:30 – What rites of passage can look like today 14:30 – The ceremony Tim created for his son 16:30 – Why boys need multiple male role models 18:00 – Supporting boys when a father isn't present 20:00 – The Adventures of Toby Baxter series 22:00 – Using story to teach courage, wisdom, and grit 24:00 – Why boys need to rediscover reading 26:00 – Navigating technology and modern parenting 28:00 – Tim's final parenting advice: affirmation and love 30:00 – Where to find Tim's books and resources    

Masculinity is under attack from every direction, leaving many men confused, ashamed, or pulled toward extremes. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar confront the cultural assault that labels masculinity as toxic on one side while promoting a hyper-masculine version on the other, arguing that both miss the biblical model shaped by Christ. The guys emphasize that masculinity is rooted in Christlikeness, beginning with laying down one's life. Scripture brings clarity where culture brings confusion, reminding listeners that God looks at the heart, and that strength and tenderness are not opposites. Jesus wept, David cried, and Jeremiah lamented, yet none were weak. The mixed messaging men receive today leaves many unsure how to lead, yet biblical leadership is grounded in humility, courage, and obedience to God.The guys explain that leadership is a hallmark of biblical manhood, yet many men feel shamed for stepping into that role. Culture rejects masculine leadership while promoting blurred distinctions between men and women. The gospel is the solution because it transforms men from the inside out. Many young men are searching for fathers and mentors, often seeking structure through the military or other systems. The guys challenge men in the church to disciple their own children and open their homes, modeling what faithful leadership, marriage, and responsibility look like, lived out daily.True masculinity is marked by honoring women and walking in obedience to God. David's charge to Solomon to be strong was rooted in keeping the Lord's commands. Oscar outlines four dimensions of biblical masculinity: spiritual devotion, physical stewardship, emotional maturity, and social responsibility. Men are called to grow in each area, recognizing that emotional health and spiritual depth are essential, not optional. Older men are urged to disciple younger men even when it feels uncomfortable, because growth often requires friction. The model for manhood is found in Scripture, refined through godly examples, and sustained through community in the local church.Faithfulness, the guys argue, is the most significant mark of masculinity. When men fail, the call is not despair but repentance. Men are called to be faithful in repentance, letting humility define their strength. Masculinity is bending the knee to Christ, serving others, and walking day by day in obedience. Leadership without servanthood is empty, but servanthood grounded in Christ reflects true power. The foundation of manhood is knowing Jesus, becoming like Him, and living faithfully within the body of believers.Send a textThanks for listening! If you've been helped by this podcast, we'd be grateful if you'd consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

In this deeply grounded conversation, Rip sits down with Jan Liband — a former college athlete, longtime plant-based advocate, and expert in food and environmental sustainability. What began for Jan as a single pamphlet exposing the environmental toll of animal agriculture became a lifelong commitment to plant-based living nearly 40 years ago.Jan shares his journey from a meat-centered, “healthy by 1980s standards” diet to discovering how plant-based eating dramatically improved his energy, recovery, and athletic performance. Along the way, Rip and Jan tackle some of the biggest barriers to change — especially for men — including cultural conditioning, fear of change, and the never-ending obsession with protein.The conversation goes beyond personal health and zooms out to the bigger picture: how our global food system drives roughly one-third of greenhouse gas emissions, accelerates deforestation, drains freshwater resources, and threatens biodiversity. Jan explains why dietary change is one of the fastest, most impactful climate actions individuals can take — far faster than waiting on energy or infrastructure shifts.From practical food swaps and transition strategies, to a powerful discussion of the Eat-Lancet report and planetary boundaries, this episode is both a reality check and a hopeful roadmap. The message is clear: small, consistent changes on our plates can ripple outward — improving our health, strengthening our communities, and protecting the planet for generations to come.Key TakeawaysOne piece of information — a pamphlet on animal agriculture — can spark lifelong change.Plant-based eating can improve digestion, recovery, energy, and athletic performance within weeks.Men often struggle with plant-based eating due to early-formed habits, social pressure, and protein myths.Americans are not protein-deficient — they are protein-toxic — while severely lacking fiber.Gradual change increases long-term success; the best diet is the one you'll stick with.Animal agriculture drives the majority of food-related greenhouse gas emissions, land use, and water waste.The Eat-Lancet report supports plant-rich diets as essential for both human and planetary health.Food choices are the single most powerful daily action individuals can take to protect the environment.Watch the Episode on YouTubeEpisode Webpage

Donovan Owens has 4 kids, 5 grandkids, 1 Queen, and the single obsession of reviving the Mastery of Masculinity. Retired at 47, after owning a fitness business for 20 years, Donovan spent a year travelling the world until he discovered his new calling: Building a Peaceful Rebellion against society's secret system of traps that seduces men into becoming weak, fat, lost, and distracted.   REPS stands for Repetitive Excellence Produces Success... and is for us freedom-driven men who choose to grow stronger, connect deeper, and create a life of success on our own terms.   0.00:    Intro 5.00:    Becoming a systems thinker 10.00:  Advice to people trying to help friends not commit suicide 15.00:  How fatherhood at 19 changed Donovan 19.00:  Strong self-Fitness 26.00:  Importance of Radical Responsibility 30.00:  What is Freedom? 37.00: Keeping Creativity and Adventure 46.00:  Transitions and Balance 49.00:  Training advice for 40+ year olds 54.00:  The Peaceful Rebellion Website: https://LifeIsREPS.com Newsletter: https://LifeIsREPS.com/newsletter Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/@lifeisreps Podcast Website: https://enterthelionheart.com/ Check out the latest episode here: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enter-the-lionheart/id1554904704   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4tD7VvMUvnOgChoNYShbcI   #entrepreneur #health #business #happiness #lifestyle #success #leadership

John Krotec is a U.S. Army veteran, visionary entrepreneur and founder of NeoMasculinity Solutions—a movement that helps men and women reclaim purpose, live through truth and lead with clarity. After surviving a traumatic brain injury and confronting long‑buried trauma, he transformed adversity into a mission by founding The Brainary and writing The Sentinel Handbook, a practical tool for self‑leadership. He delivers riveting keynotes and workshops on leadership, critical thinking, emotional resilience and self‑agency. With over 40 years in business, his journey spans high‑altitude expeditions in the Andes, building a pre‑internet multi‑million‑dollar retail company, and hosting conversations with leaders like General Flynn and Ron DeSantis. Today he leads a global push to reignite human intuition and critical thinking, empowering families to discern truth from fiction and resist the relentless onslaught of misinformation. John Krotec is here to blow up toxic masculinity, trash lazy thinking and maybe tell you about the time he smoked DMT and met aliens. This Army vet turned entrepreneur isn't your typical motivational guru; he's a warrior‑poet who built a multimillion‑dollar company before the internet existed, survived a traumatic brain injury, and came back swinging with NeoMasculinity Solutions, a movement hell‑bent on rescuing men and women from the dumpster fire of modern misinformation. You'll hear him talk about protecting your family from six types of unreliable information, why vintage gender roles still matter, and how plant medicine saved his marriage. Co‑hosts Law Smith and Eric Readinger pepper him with lightning‑round questions—"Is a hot dog a sandwich?" "Have you ever seen a UFO?"—before diving into heavy stuff like leadership, human vibrational states, and why so many men are stuck in perpetual adolescence. Expect profanity, real talk and gut‑punch honesty. Smash that subscribe button, share with a friend, and get ready to laugh, cringe and maybe rethink your whole damn life and NeoMasculinity, John Krotec, toxic masculinity, vintage gender roles, leadership podcast, critical thinking skills, human intuition, plant medicine, DMT experience, traumatic brain injury, self‑leadership, family protection, misinformation, disinformation, emotional resilience, entrepreneur journey, spirit molecule, Andes expeditions, truth‑based media, and veteran entrepreneur.  Timestamps & chapters: 03:35 – Advice to your 13‑year‑old self: slow down, it's not your fault. 04:17 – Who the hell is John Krotec? Army vet, entrepreneur and crusader. 06:43 – DMT & demons: plant medicine, insomnia and saving a marriage. 09:55 – Inside the spirit molecule: aliens, metal bangs and dimension travel. 12:57 – Backpacking in Guatemala: CIA spooks, effigies and travel truths. 23:19 – Neo‑masculinity explained: vintage gender roles and fighting misinformation. 27:16 – Working moms & family balance: unrealistic expectations and social pressure. 30:35 – Calling out the modern man‑child: courage, therapy and intellectual laziness. #AI #entrepreneurship #ecommercebusiness #productbasedbusiness #brandbuilding #businesspodcast #startupstories #scalingbusiness #directtoconsumer #manufacturingbusiness #corporategifting #smallbusinessgrowth #founderjourney #roi #NeoMasculinity #ToxicMasculinity #JohnKrotec #Leadership #CriticalThinking #HumanIntuition #PlantMedicine #DMT #BrainInjuryRecovery #SelfImprovement #Podcast #FamilyProtection #TruthMedia #GenderRoles #VeteranEntrepreneur #MensHealth #Mindset #Education #AlienEncount Episode sponsored...

In a culture confused about manhood, strength, and leadership, this episode of Man Up, Already! calls men back to a biblical vision of masculinity—one rooted not in domination or passivity, but in responsibility, sacrifice, courage, and love.Host John C. Puritz explores why the absence of strong, grounded, God-centered men has left families fractured, communities weakened, and society searching for direction. This conversation challenges cultural extremes and reframes masculinity through Scripture, character, and purpose.Biblical masculinity isn't about control—it's about stewardship. It's not about silence—it's about presence. And it's not about ego—it's about obedience to God.

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer powerful questions from the Iron Council on leadership, fatherhood, faith, discipline, and personal responsibility. They explore how to eliminate noise and live an integrated life, coach teenage boys through cultural conflict, raise resilient children, and avoid bureaucratic leadership traps. The conversation also confronts modern church culture, challenges the pursuit of comfort over growth, and defines what it truly means to be present as a father - even when work demands time away. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 03:50 - Signal vs Noise and Life Integration 14:27 - Coaching Teens Through Cultural Conflict 22:52 - Leadership Systems vs Human Judgment 34:41 - Faith, Masculinity, and the Modern Church 47:29 - Helping Kids Find Their Passion 52:31 - Defining Presence as a Working Father 56:19 - Men's Forge Event Announcement Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Michael Malice (“YOUR WELCOME”) invites author and anthropologist, Charles Cornish-Dale (better known as "Raw Egg Nationalist") onto the show to discuss why testosterone decline may reshape American politics, how fitness lies from well-known influencers and celebrities are creating extremely dangerous trends, and an increasing problem in the Eastern world that is slowly making its way west. Grab a copy of, The Last Men: Liberalism and the Death of Masculinity, out now!https://x.com/Babygravy9https://raweggnationalist.com/https://www.amazon.com/Last-Men-Liberalism-Death-Masculinity/dp/1510786783Order NOT SICK OF WINNING: http://notsickofwinning.comOrder THE WHITE PILL: http://whitepillbook.com/Order THE ANARCHIST HANDBOOK: https://www.amzn.com/B095DVF8FJOrder THE NEW RIGHT: https://amzn.to/2IFFCCuOrder DEAR READER: https://t.co/vZfTVkK6qf?amp=1https://twitter.com/michaelmalicehttps://instagram.com/michaelmalicehttps://malice.locals.comhttps://youtube.com/michaelmaliceofficialIntro song: "Out of Reach" by Legendary House Cats https://thelegendaryhousecats.bandcamp.com/The newest episode of "YOUR WELCOME" releases on iTunes and YouTube every Wednesday! Please subscribe and leave a review.This week's sponsors: Huel – Food to Fuel Your Health Goals: Limited Time Offer – Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code WELCOME at https://www.huel.com/WELCOME. New Customers Only. Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show!PlutoTV – Streaming TV: https://www.Pluto.tv (Free) The Pendragon Cycle - Rise of the Merlin: https://www.pendragonseries.com (Streaming now only on DailyWire+)ZBiotics – Pre-Alcohol, Probiotic Drink: Go to https://zbiotics.com/MALICE and use MALICE at checkout for 15% off any first time orders of ZBiotics probiotics.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The church system in America is cracking.Scandals. Abuse. Corruption. Cover-ups. And here's the uncomfortable truth: it's not just bad leaders. It's bad thinking.In this episode, I'm challenging the status quo Christian mindset that has kept men passive, weak, and blaming God for things He never authored.If you believe: – “Everything happens for a reason.” – “God must want my marriage struggling.” – “Sickness is just part of His plan.”Then you've inherited a belief system that might be choking your victory.David didn't think like the rest of the army. Jesus didn't think like the Pharisees. And you cannot think like the crowd if you want breakthrough.⚔️ Get the book that reboots your identity: DNA of a Man → https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025

LightSpeed VT: https://www.lightspeedvt.com/ Dropping Bombs Podcast: https://www.droppingbombs.com/ In today's riveting Dropping Bombs episode, Baywatch icon Jeremy Jackson exposes the energy leaks destroying men, the "nice guy" mask that kills your power, and breathwork breakthroughs stronger than plant medicine. From facing 35 years in prison to building The Balanced Man retreat, Jeremy reveals how rock bottom became his launchpad for helping men reclaim their lives.   Jeremy breaks down radical acceptance, fighting fear through jiu-jitsu and boxing, and how to finally break free from mediocrity. This is Jeremy unfiltered on spiritual warfare, true masculinity, and reclaiming the power you've been giving away. This isn't just another episode—it's required listening for every man.  

Masculinity is being pulled apart by cultural extremes that leave many men confused about who they are and how they are meant to live. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar point back to Scripture to show that true masculinity is not rooted in dominance or passivity, but in Christlikeness marked by humility, courage, and obedience to God. They explore how culture shames healthy male leadership while simultaneously promoting distorted versions of strength that lack compassion and accountability. Biblical manhood, they explain, begins with laying down one's life, honoring women, leading with integrity, and faithfully serving within the home, the church, and the world. Through repentance, discipleship, and a commitment to walk with Christ daily, men are called to reclaim a form of masculinity that reflects the heart of Jesus, strengthens families, and brings life to those around them.Send a textThanks for listening! If you've been helped by this podcast, we'd be grateful if you'd consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

What does body image look like when you're queer, partnered, confident… and still unlearning everything you were taught?In this episode, Alex & Kayla get deeply honest about body image, desire, and self-perception inside queer relationships. They talk about comparing yourself to your past body, feeling pressure to look “gay enough,” navigating femme and masc expectations, and how confidence, strength, and self-expression shape attraction far more than size or shape.From almond moms and Gen Z style anxiety to masculinity, femininity, fitness, sex, and learning how to dress—and live—for yourself, this conversation explores what it really means to feel at home in your body when the rules you grew up with no longer apply.This is a candid, funny, and thoughtful episode about queer identity, lesbian relationships, body neutrality, confidence, and the slow, imperfect work of decentering the gaze and choosing yourself.00:00 – Intro: Married, Codependent, and Back in the Jungle01:00 – Queer Camp Update + Life in Nicaragua05:30 – Today's Topic: Body Image in Queer Relationships06:40 – “My Body Had to Be ___ to Deserve Affection”09:00 – Comparing Your Body to Your Past Self11:00 – Unlearning Food, Rest, and Exercise Guilt13:35 – Body Image in the Queer World vs the Straight World17:00 – Confidence, Self-Expression, and Attraction19:00 – Dating Women: Feeling Bigger, Stronger, or More Visible24:30 – When Body Image Wasn't the Problem at All26:00 – Weight Gain, Health, and Changing Body Shapes28:00 – Masculinity, Femininity, and Wanting a Different Body31:00 – Being Femme, Being “Hot,” and Decentering Men34:00 – Getting Dressed for Yourself (Not the Gaze)37:15 – Listener Hot Takes on Body Image39:30 – Masc vs Femme Bodies & Internalized Misogyny42:00 – Aesthetic Attraction vs Romantic Attraction44:00 – Power, Confidence, and “The Hotter Partner”46:20 – Are Queer People Expected to Be More Body-Evolved?49:45 – Gender Identity vs Learned Body Shame52:40 – Who's the Problem: Men, Women, or the Patriarchy?58:30 – The One Thing We All Fixate On01:00:00 – Why We Do This to Ourselves

What if the discomfort you're in right now isn't a sign you're doing something wrong, but proof you're stepping into your next level?Samantha sits down with Logan Lepper for a raw, unscripted conversation on building something meaningful through business growth, intentional physical space, creative evolution, spiritual initiation, inner child healing, money beliefs, and discomfort—choosing process over outcome while staying deeply connected to humanity, truth, and embodiment.If you've ever felt the tension between ambition and presence, structure and surrender, providing and becoming, this episode meets you right there.Key Topics Discussed & Takeaways1. Entrepreneurship as an art form, not a performance or metric chase2. Letting go of outcome attachment and focusing on process3. Fear as a constant companion in growth, not a stop sign4. Spiritual awakening and identity evolution through discomfort5. Masculinity, provision, and emotional responsibility6. Inner child wounds as the blueprint for creative purpose7. Redefining success beyond money and external validation8. Building spaces and businesses that reflect who you truly areConnect with Sam / Voice and VisibilityWebsite: www.voiceandvisibility.comNewsletter: https://voiceandvisibility.myflodesk.com/optinFollow Samantha on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thesamanthawarrenFollow Samantha on Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/voiceandvisibilityConnect with Logan LepperInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/loganpaullepper/ & https://www.instagram.com/authenticexposurestudio/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lpil112 Authentic Exposure Studio: https://theaestudio.co/about/ Get on My Insider List: https://voiceandvisibility.myflodesk.com/optin

SummaryIn this conversation, I discuss the current state of masculinity and 5 key factors that undermine it. I outline the five silent killers of masculinity: pornography, escapist entertainment, gambling, neglecting physical strength, and doom scrolling. TakeawaysMasculinity has been under attack for decades.Men are meant to lead, protect, and provide.Pornography is a significant threat to masculinity.Escapist entertainment can distract from real-life responsibilities.Gambling can ruin families and lead to financial instability.Physical strength is essential for overall well-being.Doom scrolling can increase anxiety and depression.Men should strive for personal growth and excellence.Accountability is crucial in overcoming personal struggles.Engagement with family is vital for a fulfilling life.Subscribe for conversations on family life, marriage, leadership, faith, and personal excellence.Join the SE Community on Locals here https://seekingexcellence.locals.com/And access the content I referred to in the video!

Ever feel like you're fighting a war on two fronts—one in your own head and one out in the world? You're not wrong. Every driven Christian man is in a spiritual conflict, but God has not left you without a strategy for victory.In this episode, we break down the ultimate goal God has for your life: the complete and total victory that comes when "Christ is all, and in all." Using the powerful transition from Moses to Joshua, we reveal the divine one-two punch for making God's promises a reality in your life.Stop being on the defensive and learn how to take ground for the Kingdom.In this episode, you will learn:God's Two-Part Strategy for Victory: How to combine the blueprint of God's Word (Moses) with the power of the Holy Spirit (Joshua) to achieve real-world results.Uncover the Enemy's Playbook: Learn to identify and defeat the three primary tactics the enemy uses to stop you: hidden compromises, deceptive alliances, and direct assaults.Define Your Mission: Understand God's true purpose for your life—moving from a place of weakness and barrenness into strength, dominion, and fullness.Practical Application: How to apply these spiritual principles to your daily life, your work, your family, and your internal battles.If you're ready to understand the war you're in and step into your calling as a victorious man of God, this episode is your battle plan.JOIN THE FREE EMAIL CHALLENGEUnlock The Power Of Your Full Potential with THE UNFAIR ADVANTAGE CHALLENGE: This is a FREE 11-day email training that will equip you with the tools, mindset, and strategy to BE THE MAN God created YOU to BE. Learn to Access His Presence, Purpose, Power and Promotion.https://www.standard59.com/unfairadvantageOwn THE STANDARD Today, Get the breakout Bestseller THE STANDARD, Discovering Jesus as The Standard for Masculinity on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Standard-Discovering-Jesus-Masculinity/dp/1734549300/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 Listen to THE STANDARD on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B095J62CW2/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-259076&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_259076_rh_usFollow Josh on Social Mediahttps://www.instagram.com/kingdomathlete/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kingdom_athletehttps://www.facebook.com/kingdomathlete https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7YKo7liiUJ1jW6eCLVkJlQ

You were chosen for this moment in time.Will you rise to meet and understand it, or shrink back to let it overtake you?In this episode, JT and Anthony call men to understand their moment, lead courageously, and become the antidote to chaos, not contributors to it. They help frame freedom as responsibility, strength without abuse, and leadership that first cares for the soul and then guides others. A wise old wizard once said, “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us”—How will you wield the time you've been given?LEARN MORE:Website: https://greatman.tv/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greatman.tv/Support GreatMan: https://greatman.tv/greatman-global/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Most fears are formed through life experiences—but they are not you; they are attachments, enemies working like hidden time bombs against your destiny. Learn how to identify your core fears, separate from them, declare war on them, and attack them through prayer, wise counsel, and slow, controlled exposure—because GreatMen don't make peace with fear, they confront it.LEARN MORE:Website: https://greatman.tv/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greatman.tv/Support GreatMan: https://greatman.tv/greatman-global/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The most dangerous part of divorce isn't the courtroom—it's the quiet hours between filings where patterns form, and evidence takes shape. We unpack why support alone won't protect your parenting time and show how a command center mindset helps you close the “decision gap” that turns great dads into weekend visitors. Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show

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Explore the Magician archetype and how perception, meaning, and disciplined awareness refine power, sharpen action, and support integrated strength in men. Table of Contents Toggle IntroductionThe Core Function of the Magician ArchetypeWhy the Magician Must Serve the KingThe Magician as a Corrective to Warrior RigidityThe Healthy Magician ArchetypeThe Shadow Magician ArchetypeHealthy Magician vs Shadow MagicianPerception as the True Source of PowerIntegrating the Magician ArchetypeClosing ReflectionFrequently Asked Questions About the Magician Archetype Introduction The Magician archetype operates before action, before emotion, and before effort. It governs how reality is perceived, how meaning is assigned, and how inner experience is interpreted long before the Warrior moves or the King decides. When this archetype is integrated, life feels cleaner and more navigable. When it is distorted or absent, effort increases while effectiveness declines. Modern men often misunderstand the Magician. Some reduce it to intellect, others to spirituality, and others dismiss it as impractical reflection. In truth, the Magician is not abstract and it is not passive. It is the archetype responsible for orientation. It determines what is noticed, what is ignored, and what is assumed to be true. Those assumptions quietly shape every decision that follows. The Magician does not replace strength. It refines it. Without the Magician, power becomes blunt and repetitive. With it, power becomes precise, economical, and aligned. The Core Function of the Magician Archetype At its core, the Magician archetype governs perception and meaning-making. It shapes how events are interpreted internally rather than merely experienced externally. Two men can face the same circumstance, yet their internal experience and resulting behavior can be radically different. The difference is not discipline or intelligence. It is perceptual orientation. The Magician is responsible for pattern recognition, psychological insight, and awareness of inner states without becoming consumed by them. It allows a man to observe his reactions rather than be driven by them. This does not remove emotion or instinct. It places them into context so they can be acted upon intelligently rather than impulsively. Because the Magician operates upstream of behavior, its influence is often invisible. By the time action occurs, perception has already done its work. This is why perception, not effort, is often the true bottleneck in growth and effectiveness. Why the Magician Must Serve the King The Magician archetype is powerful, but it is not sovereign. Insight without authority drifts. Awareness without structure becomes circular. This is why the Magician must serve the King. The King provides order, values, and direction, while the Magician refines understanding in service of those priorities. When the Magician serves the King, perception becomes disciplined. Insight is filtered through standards rather than indulged endlessly. Complexity is distilled into clarity, and understanding supports decision rather than undermining it. Authority remains intact while becoming more informed. Without the King, the Magician can become ungrounded. Reflection replaces commitment. Insight replaces responsibility. Over time, perception becomes a refuge rather than a tool. The relationship between King and Magician is therefore functional rather than hierarchical. One governs direction, the other sharpens vision. The Magician as a Corrective to Warrior Rigidity The Warrior archetype excels at execution, discipline, and movement toward challenge. Over time, however, action without recalibration can harden. Intensity becomes habitual, and effort replaces precision. This is where the Magician becomes essential as a corrective force. The Magician interrupts momentum when momentum is no longer intelligent. It questions assumptions that drive unnecessary struggle. It reveals when effort is being applied out of habit rather than necessity. This is not hesitation or avoidance. It is refinement. When integrated, the Magician preserves the Warrior's effectiveness by preventing wasted energy and self-inflicted friction. The Warrior still acts decisively, but with fewer unnecessary battles. Strength remains, while strain decreases. The Healthy Magician Archetype A healthy Magician archetype is grounded, embodied, and oriented toward clarity. It observes without dissociating and reflects without withdrawing. Awareness remains connected to action and responsibility. Men with an integrated Magician often notice subtle but profound changes. Reactivity decreases, not because life becomes easier, but because perception becomes cleaner. Decisions feel simpler because fewer assumptions are distorting the field. Emotional charge dissipates more quickly because it is understood rather than resisted. This form of awareness is not detached or superior. It is practical. It conserves energy by reducing unnecessary interpretation and internal conflict. The Shadow Magician Archetype The shadow Magician does not lack insight. It lacks alignment. When perception becomes disconnected from authority, awareness turns inward without containment. Insight becomes identity. Understanding replaces accountability. This often appears as intellectualizing emotion instead of regulating it, or using insight to delay action rather than refine it. In other cases, perception becomes a tool for subtle manipulation, shaping narratives to maintain control rather than clarity. Spiritual or psychological bypassing can also emerge, where discomfort is reframed away instead of integrated. The shadow Magician often appears composed and articulate. Internally, however, there is drift. Action slows, authority erodes, and life becomes overinterpreted rather than lived. The issue is not intelligence or awareness. It is the refusal to submit insight to structure. Healthy Magician vs Shadow Magician Healthy Magician Shadow Magician Perception serves clarity Perception replaces responsibility Insight refines action Insight delays action Awareness is embodied Awareness is detached Understanding stabilizes Understanding destabilizes Meaning leads to order Meaning becomes escape The distinction is not subtle. One sharpens strength. The other quietly dissolves it. Perception as the True Source of Power Modern culture often equates power with force, output, or intensity. These are downstream expressions. Perception is upstream. What a man notices determines what he reacts to. What he assumes determines how he moves. What he believes shapes how much effort is required to sustain direction. The Magician archetype governs this entire chain. When perception is accurate, effort decreases. When perception is distorted, effort multiplies. This is why insight, when properly integrated, often produces relief rather than strain. The Magician does not remove challenge. It removes unnecessary struggle. Integrating the Magician Archetype Integrating the Magician archetype is not about acquiring more information. It is about disciplining attention. Awareness must be trained to serve clarity rather than indulgence. This integration requires submitting insight to authority, allowing decisions to be made rather than endlessly analyzed. It requires embodied awareness that remains present under pressure. It also requires releasing the identity of being the one who understands, in favor of being the one who sees accurately and acts accordingly. When integrated, the Magician becomes almost invisible. Life feels less dramatic, not because it lacks depth, but because perception is no longer inflating tension. Strength sharpens as waste disappears. Closing Reflection The Magician archetype is not about withdrawing from reality or escaping responsibility. It is about seeing reality clearly enough to engage it wisely. When the Magician serves the King and refines the Warrior, strength becomes intelligent and effort becomes efficient. This is not a reduction of power. It is a refinement of it. Perception becomes aligned with authority, and action follows without unnecessary strain. For men ready to deepen their orientation and integrate perception with disciplined action, the invitation is quiet but exact. The Conscious Warrior Code exists to support this level of integration, where seeing clearly becomes a source of strength rather than hesitation. Frequently Asked Questions About the Magician Archetype What is the Magician archetype in men? The Magician archetype governs perception, awareness, and meaning-making. It shapes how a man interprets reality and understands his inner experience. When healthy, it refines authority and action. When distorted, it leads to detachment, manipulation, or avoidance. How is the Magician different from intelligence or intellect? Intellect processes information, while the Magician orients perception. A man can be highly intelligent yet reactive or misaligned. The Magician determines how understanding is embodied and applied in real situations rather than remaining theoretical. Why do insightful men still feel stuck? Insight alone does not produce movement. Without authority and structure, awareness becomes circular. Many men feel stuck not because they lack understanding, but because perception is not submitted to decision and disciplined action. Why is coaching important for integrating the Magician archetype? Coaching provides containment for insight. It helps translate awareness into alignment by clarifying authority, challenging avoidance, and refining perception under pressure. This prevents insight from becoming self-referential and ensures it supports action rather than stagnation. Can the Magician archetype be developed later in life? Yes. The Magician archetype develops through disciplined attention and embodied awareness. 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Send us a textIn this powerful episode of the Concrete Genius Podcast, Sauce Mackenzie breaks down culture, credit, and respect—and why Black Americans must stop outsourcing their identity, voice, and leadership.From celebrity politics and cultural imitation to hip-hop, reparations, immigration, and the protection of Black women and children, this conversation challenges emotional thinking and calls for strategic unity. Sauce speaks honestly about lived Black American experience, why not all struggles are interchangeable, and why respect for our history, contributions, and trauma matters.The episode also dives into:• Who benefits from Black culture—and who gets erased• Why entertainers protect their interests, not the community• The loss of militancy in hip-hop and political voice• Reparations, voting power, and economic unity• Domestic violence, emotional manipulation, and protecting our youth• Masculinity, boundaries, and accountability in public spacesThis is not anti-immigrant. This is pro-Black American, pro-self-respect, and pro-future.

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————There's a movement happening right now that's destroying young men from the inside out.They call it "looksmaxxing" - and while there's nothing wrong with wanting to look better, what's happening goes way deeper than hitting the gym.Young men are literally smashing their faces with hammers. Injecting peptides. Abusing hormones as teenagers. All because they believe becoming "pretty" will finally give them what they want.But here's what nobody's telling you: the obsession with looking perfect isn't making you more masculine. It's doing the exact opposite. If you're a young man who feels lost, powerless, or like you need to be perfect to be worthy of love and respect - this message is for you.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

“Either you stand for something or you fall for anything.”This Earth Xperience features Skyler, also known as @iamsoworthy42, whose recent appearance on Pop The Balloon (Find Love) with Arlette Amuli sparked wide conversation about dating, belief systems, masculinity, and what people are actually building their lives on.Rather than focusing on the show itself, this episode moves beneath the surface. Skyler reflects on how public dating conversations often reduce people to sound bites, preferences, or viral moments, while real life is shaped by values, accountability, faith, and lived experience. He shares how his beliefs were formed through family dynamics, marriage, divorce, fatherhood, and intentional spiritual searching rather than trends or online discourse.The conversation explores what it means to be a man who chooses structure in a culture that celebrates flexibility. Skyler speaks openly about faith beyond labels, love as action rather than feeling, and responsibility as something practiced daily, not performed publicly. Masculinity is discussed through protection, provision, emotional presence, and discipline, not dominance or image.Dating and relationships are examined through a values based lens. Skyler explains why attraction without alignment leads to confusion, and why shared beliefs matter more than chemistry. The episode also touches on how modern dating shows reflect cultural hunger for clarity while often skipping the deeper questions about identity, purpose, and accountability.Throughout the conversation, Skyler emphasizes that belief systems are not abstract ideas but foundations that shape decisions, relationships, and legacy. Whether discussing faith, love, or leadership, he returns to the idea that choosing what you stand on determines where your life goes.Each Earth Xperience has its own fingerprint. The X represents the lived experience being explored. In this episode, the X is the experience of a man navigating public curiosity after a dating show appearance while grounding his life in faith, responsibility, and intentional living.Questions to exploreWhat are people really looking for when they watch dating shows?How do belief systems shape dating choices?What does masculinity look like beyond social media narratives?Is love built on chemistry or shared values?What does it mean to stand for something in modern culture?How to connect with the guestSkylerInstagram and TikTok @iamsoworthy42

Mental health isn't separate from success — it quietly determines it.In this episode of the Close It Now Podcast, Sam Wakefield sits down with William Fruin, host of Normalizing Men's Mental Health, for an honest conversation about masculinity, boundaries, trauma, and the unseen cost of carrying pressure in silence.This episode explores how childhood modeling, unspoken expectations, and avoidance patterns shape adult behavior — and why so many men find success at work while feeling disconnected at home.This is not therapy talk.It's real conversation for men navigating leadership, responsibility, identity, and family — often without support.In This Episode, You'll Hear:Why many men remain stuck in a “comfortable hell” instead of choosing growthHow early experiences shape decision-making and emotional patternsThe mental health challenges facing men in trades, construction, and home servicesWhy mental health is healthcare, even when progress isn't immediateHow boundaries protect relationships instead of limiting successWhy constant availability leads to burnout, not effectivenessHow personal healing changes the way you show up as a leader, partner, and fatherResources & Mentions

Send us a textThis week on Movies Worth Seeing, we go back to the jungle for one of the most rewatchable action films of all time: Predator.What starts as a macho '80s commando fantasy slowly mutates into a razor-sharp sci-fi survival horror — and that's exactly why Predator still slaps nearly 40 years later. We break down how the film cleverly subverts the invincible action-hero trope, why the ensemble cast is stacked with pure testosterone, and how the Predator itself became one of cinema's most iconic monsters.We also dig into:Why the first half feels like a different movie (on purpose)Arnold Schwarzenegger's quiet evolution from gun-blazing leader to hunted survivorThe brilliance of the creature design, sound design, and jungle settingIconic lines, scenes, and memes that refuse to dieAnd whether Predator is secretly smarter than it ever gets credit forIf you love practical effects, quotable dialogue, and films that reward repeat viewings, this one absolutely earns its place on the list.

Send us a textWhat if the life many men are chasing—success, intimacy, freedom—actually sits on the other side of healing? In this episode of At the Podium, Patrick Huey sits down with Zarak Fatah, a transformational coach and former serial entrepreneur, for a candid conversation about masculinity, trauma, faith, and the work of healing. Zarak reflects on growing up as the son of Pakistani immigrants in Canada, the impact of bullying and shame on his identity, and how those early wounds fueled both ambition and avoidance—ultimately leading him to open one of Toronto's most iconic restaurants, Blowfish. Together, Patrick and Zarak explore why so many men and boys are struggling today with who they are in the world, the role of fatherhood and male role models, the cost of numbing behaviors (alcohol, drugs, pornography), and what real manhood looks like beyond performance and achievement. This is a conversation about responsibility, integrity, and choosing healing over avoidance.

This is not a response video. This is not a takedown. And this is not coming from a place of cynicism.Over the last several months, detailed evidence, testimony, and documentation have come out exposing patterns of abuse, fraud, and long-term silence within parts of the charismatic church world — brought to light most clearly through the work of Mike Winger and others who chose truth over platform safety.What's becoming impossible to ignore isn't just who fell — it's who knew… and said nothing.This livestream is an off-the-cuff, pastoral, and Kingdom-centered response to what we're seeing:The cost of elevating anointing over characterHow spiritual language has been used to silence victimsWhy “staying neutral” is no longer a moral optionAnd what biblical discernment actually looks like when it's not driven by fear or celebrity loyaltyLet me be clear: This is not an attack on the Holy Spirit. This is not a denial of spiritual gifts. And this is not a call to burn everything down.It is a call to truth, light, repentance, and courage — because the Church belongs to Jesus, not to platforms, movements, or personalities.If you're confused, grieving, angry, or just tired of pretending this isn't happening… you're not alone.Let's talk honestly. Let's stay biblical. And let's refuse to protect systems at the expense of people.

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If there's one truth we can count on, it's that there has never been a time like this.Throughout history, men were challenged to rise to the occasion.Be it through enduring hardship, leading their families, elevating morale, or pioneering adventure, men have changed the course of history by meeting the demands of their times.We are living in an age of great transformation and restructuring, and the question is simple: will you be the kind of man prepared to meet it—industrious, strategic, future-thinking, and equipped for what's coming? You were chosen to live in these times, and Stephen challenges you to become the man worthy of them.LEARN MORE:Website: https://greatman.tv/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greatman.tv/ Support GreatMan: https://greatman.tv/greatman-global/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lauren Salaun joins Something For Everybody this week. Lauren is a multi-passionate entrepreneur.  In this conversation Lauren shares her journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and the complexities of navigating relationships in today's world. She discusses the impact of the boss babe culture on women's empowerment, the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energies, and how faith plays a crucial role in her life. The conversation also delves into the significance of emotional safety in relationships, the power of individual passions, and the dynamics of modern dating.  -

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Sent us text! We would love to hear from you!Your future is tied to your beliefs. Those with confidence and discipline will always outperform others who are unsure of themselves and make no preparations. Using this principal the industrialist Henry Ford, introduced the first mass produced cars in the U.S. over a century ago and founded the automotive company known as Ford, that still bears his name today.Masculinity has been narrowly defined by culture and popular media. The reality is that men can be fully functional while expressing a wide range of emotions that run the gambit from laughing to crying. In the end, emotions are part of the human experience; the caution is not to let unbridled emotions take control of you.If you are getting older and your eye doctor recommends cataract surgery, fear not. Commander Drew recounts his recent experience with this life-changing procedure.Artificial intelligence can live up to its name in a negative way by being artificially true. Deep fakes in the form of voices, images and videos can be so convincing that one cannot tell truth from creative fiction. Fortunately there are a new set of emerging online tools that make it easier to tell the difference between reality and manipulated fantasy.Meet a young wingman who went above and beyond what was expected by coming to the aid of an elderly widow that he took as his personal call-of-duty.

Modern masculinity isn't about dominance, passivity, or burnout hustle—it's about self-command, emotional mastery, and disciplined strength aligned with purpose. Table of Contents Toggle Strength Without Extremes: Reclaiming Modern MasculinityWhat Modern Masculinity Actually RequiresThe Dominance Trap: Power Without StabilityThe Nice Guy Illusion: Avoidance Disguised as VirtueHustle Masculinity: Performance Without PresenceSelf-Command: The Core of Modern MasculinityWhy Modern Masculinity Requires StructureThe Cost of Getting Masculinity WrongThe Point of the PathFrequently Asked Questions About Modern Masculinity Strength Without Extremes: Reclaiming Modern Masculinity Modern masculinity is often described as “lost,” “toxic,” or “under attack.” Those explanations are convenient, dramatic, and mostly wrong. Masculinity isn't disappearing; it's fragmenting. Men are not confused because strength is obsolete, but because the definitions they were handed no longer work in real life. What once promised certainty now produces inner conflict, emotional volatility, or quiet resignation. Modern masculinity is not failing because men are weak—it's failing because the models they're offered are incoherent. If the old versions of masculinity feel too rigid, too hollow, or too extreme in opposite directions, this is where a corrective framework becomes necessary. Not a motivational fix. Not a cultural argument. A recalibration. What I call the Alpha Blueprint is simply a name for this shift: modern masculinity rebuilt from the inside out. Identity before behavior. Self-command before performance. Emotional regulation before dominance. It is not something to buy into or perform. It is something men recognize when they see that modern masculinity must be internally governed before it can ever be externally expressed. What Modern Masculinity Actually Requires At its core, modern masculinity is not a political stance, a personality type, or a social trend. It is a functional orientation to pressure. It answers one essential question: can a man remain grounded, decisive, and emotionally steady when things do not go his way? Any definition of masculinity that collapses under stress is not strength—it is costume. Modern masculinity demands integration. Strength without rigidity. Sensitivity without collapse. Discipline without self-erasure. When masculinity is fragmented, men swing between extremes, overcorrecting instead of stabilizing. The result is not growth but oscillation—power followed by burnout, confidence followed by self-doubt, certainty followed by withdrawal. The current cultural conversation does not suffer from a lack of opinions about masculinity. It suffers from a lack of usable models. Most frameworks train behavior while ignoring the internal operating system that drives it. Modern masculinity requires the opposite approach: internal mastery first, expression second. The Dominance Trap: Power Without Stability One of the loudest distortions of modern masculinity is dominance masculinity—the belief that strength is proven through control. Control of outcomes. Control of others. Control of narrative. This model often masquerades as confidence, but beneath it is an anxious relationship with power. When authority is challenged or outcomes cannot be forced, anger fills the gap. Emotional suppression is praised as discipline. Aggression is mislabeled as strength. Dominance produces men who appear powerful until they encounter resistance they cannot overpower: emotional intimacy, moral ambiguity, or internal doubt. When control fails, collapse follows. Rage, withdrawal, or compulsive proving replace clarity. This is not strength; it is dependency on external leverage. Modern masculinity cannot be built on domination because domination requires an enemy. It demands constant opposition to feel legitimate. Self-command does not. A man grounded in modern masculinity does not need to overpower others to feel anchored in himself. The Nice Guy Illusion: Avoidance Disguised as Virtue At the opposite extreme sits passive masculinity, often framed as being evolved, enlightened, or emotionally intelligent. In reality, it is fear dressed up as virtue. Conflict is avoided. Needs are suppressed. Boundaries dissolve. Approval replaces authority. These men pride themselves on being harmless, yet quietly accumulate resentment and self-doubt. Passivity is not emotional mastery. It is emotional avoidance. Over time, the cost becomes internal erosion: diminished self-respect, muted desire, and anger that leaks out sideways through sarcasm, withdrawal, or self-sabotage. Modern masculinity requires the capacity to say no, to disappoint, and to hold ground without cruelty or collapse. A man who cannot tolerate tension cannot lead himself. Modern masculinity demands the ability to stay present in discomfort rather than retreat into politeness or invisibility. Hustle Masculinity: Performance Without Presence Another distortion of modern masculinity is hustle-only identity—the belief that worth is earned exclusively through output. Grind harder. Sleep less. Produce more. In this model, masculinity becomes a scoreboard, and a man is only as valuable as his most recent win. This approach often looks disciplined on the surface, but it is driven by avoidance of stillness. Identity is outsourced to achievement. When momentum slows or the body breaks down, meaning evaporates. Burnout is reframed as weakness instead of information. Modern masculinity collapses here because performance alone cannot provide orientation or purpose. Without internal alignment, hustle becomes compulsion. Discipline becomes self-punishment. Modern masculinity requires presence, not just productivity. Self-Command: The Core of Modern Masculinity What replaces dominance, passivity, and burnout is self-command. The ability to govern one's inner world before attempting to shape the outer one. Emotional regulation replaces suppression. Discipline replaces compulsion. Strength becomes the capacity to remain steady under pressure rather than reactive under stress. Modern masculinity is not about being emotionless. It is about being emotionally literate without being emotionally ruled. A man with self-command can feel anger without becoming it, fear without obeying it, and desire without being consumed by it. This distinction matters because most failures attributed to masculinity are not failures of intent, but failures of regulation. When emotion runs unchecked, decision-making collapses. Self-command shows up most clearly under emotional load. When a man is criticized, challenged, or disappointed, does he react or respond? Reaction is automatic and externally driven. Response is deliberate and internally governed. Modern masculinity is defined by the space between stimulus and action, where choice replaces impulse. Restraint is often misunderstood as repression. They are not the same. Repression denies emotion and stores it for later explosion. Restraint acknowledges emotion and channels it without letting it dictate behavior. This is a trained capacity, not a personality trait. Men are not born with self-command; they develop it through practice, reflection, and corrective feedback. Discipline, in modern masculinity, is no longer about force or punishment. It is about consistency aligned with values. A disciplined man does not grind himself into exhaustion to prove worth. He applies effort where it matters and withdraws effort where it does not. This creates clarity instead of chaos, sustainability instead of burnout. A man grounded in modern masculinity does not outsource authority to trends, ideologies, or validation. He develops internal standards and lives by them consistently. This is not rigidity; it is coherence. Why Modern Masculinity Requires Structure Insight alone rarely changes behavior. Most men already sense that something is off. What they lack is structure: a way to observe patterns, interrupt defaults, and practice new responses under real-world pressure. Modern masculinity is forged through deliberate training, not passive understanding. This is why structured guidance matters. Not because men need to be told what to think, but because they need environments that expose blind spots and reinforce self-command. Without structure, insight stays theoretical. With structure, identity shifts. The Cost of Getting Masculinity Wrong When masculinity is misdirected, the cost is rarely immediate. It accumulates quietly, then surfaces as anxiety, resentment, or exhaustion. Men operating from dominance live in constant vigilance, always scanning for threats to status or control. Men operating from passivity live in chronic self-betrayal, silencing needs to preserve approval. Men trapped in hustle live disconnected from meaning, confusing motion with direction. The psychological cost is instability. Mood swings, suppressed anger, decision fatigue, and identity confusion become normal. The relational cost is distance. Intimacy requires presence and emotional steadiness, both of which erode when a man is reactive, avoidant, or chronically depleted. Over time, relationships suffer not from lack of effort, but from lack of internal alignment. The existential cost is drift. Without a coherent definition of modern masculinity, men default to external metrics to measure worth. Productivity replaces purpose. Validation replaces values. Eventually, even success feels hollow because it is not anchored to identity. This is why many men report feeling empty at the very moment they are supposed to feel accomplished. Modern masculinity corrects this by restoring internal orientation. When self-command is established, pressure no longer destabilizes identity. Challenges are met without collapse. Responsibility is carried without resentment. This is not self-improvement. It is self-governance. The Point of the Path Modern masculinity is not about returning to the past or surrendering to the present. It is about integration. Strength without brutality. Sensitivity without collapse. Discipline without self-erasure. A man anchored in self-command does not need to dominate, disappear, or exhaust himself to feel worthy. The future of modern masculinity belongs to men who can hold tension without fracturing, power without abuse, and responsibility without resentment. Not louder men. Not harder men. More integrated ones. Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Masculinity What is modern masculinity? Modern masculinity is the capacity for self-command under pressure, integrating strength, emotional regulation, and discipline without relying on dominance, passivity, or constant performance. It matters because men today face complex psychological and social demands that outdated models cannot handle. For example, dominance collapses under intimacy, while passivity erodes self-respect. Modern masculinity provides a stable internal framework rather than a behavioral mask. Is modern masculinity anti-strength? No. Modern masculinity redefines strength as internal stability rather than external control. Physical capability, discipline, and assertiveness still matter, but they are governed by self-awareness and restraint. Without regulation, strength becomes volatility. With regulation, strength becomes reliable and precise. How does modern masculinity differ from traditional masculinity? Traditional masculinity emphasized toughness and provision but often ignored emotional literacy and internal alignment. Modern masculinity retains discipline and responsibility while adding self-regulation and psychological coherence. It evolves the model instead of rejecting it, making strength sustainable rather than brittle. Why do many men struggle with modern masculinity? Many men struggle because they were taught to perform masculinity rather than embody it. They learned behaviors without learning how to regulate emotions, set boundaries, or maintain identity under stress. This creates confusion when old scripts fail. Modern masculinity requires retraining the internal operating system, not adopting another persona. Why is coaching important for developing modern masculinity? Coaching matters because modern masculinity is built through feedback and practice, not insight alone. 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On this episode of Crosspolitic One-on-One, Gabe welcomes Jeff Casey (co-founder of Land Run Distillery) on to talk about the contentious issue of Christians owning distilleries and engaging with alcohol and why reclaiming God's "sharp things" matters for faithful cultural engagement and demonstrating biblical stewardship in business. ABOUT CROSSPOLITIC CrossPolitic exists to put Jesus over Politics and reclaim the public square through bold, joyful, biblically grounded media. We confront the chaos discipling America and build the next generation of Christian media infrastructure. Our mission is simple: all of Christ for all of media for all of America. Mainstream media is collapsing. Eighty-seven percent of journalists identify as progressive, and even many conservative outlets prioritize profit over principle. Meanwhile, billions of hours of digital content are discipling the world every day. CrossPolitic stands in that gap, producing courageous, entertaining, truth-filled media for households, churches, and leaders across the nation. Become a CrossPolitic Club Member Support the mission and unlock exclusive content, behind-the-scenes shows, and theology series. https://pubtv.flfnetwork.com/menu/checkout Subscribe & Share! Every like, comment, and share helps push Christian media back into the algorithm where it belongs. Join Us at Our Next National Conference Sign up for Fight Laugh Feast 2026: Holy Wars and lock in Early Bird pricing. https://tickets.flfnetwork.com/holy-wars-conference Follow CrossPolitic YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CROSSPOLITIC X: https://x.com/CrossPolitic Facebook: https://facebook.com/crosspolitic Instagram: https://instagram.com/crosspolitic Join our Email List: https://crosspolitic.com/ Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, NRBTV, DirecTV, Dish, and everywhere podcasts are found.

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On this episode of Crosspolitic One-on-One, Gabe welcomes Jeff Casey (co-founder of Land Run Distillery) on to talk about the contentious issue of Christians owning distilleries and engaging with alcohol and why reclaiming God's "sharp things" matters for faithful cultural engagement and demonstrating biblical stewardship in business. ABOUT CROSSPOLITIC CrossPolitic exists to put Jesus over Politics and reclaim the public square through bold, joyful, biblically grounded media. We confront the chaos discipling America and build the next generation of Christian media infrastructure. Our mission is simple: all of Christ for all of media for all of America. Mainstream media is collapsing. Eighty-seven percent of journalists identify as progressive, and even many conservative outlets prioritize profit over principle. Meanwhile, billions of hours of digital content are discipling the world every day. CrossPolitic stands in that gap, producing courageous, entertaining, truth-filled media for households, churches, and leaders across the nation. Become a CrossPolitic Club Member Support the mission and unlock exclusive content, behind-the-scenes shows, and theology series. https://pubtv.flfnetwork.com/menu/checkout Subscribe & Share! Every like, comment, and share helps push Christian media back into the algorithm where it belongs. Join Us at Our Next National Conference Sign up for Fight Laugh Feast 2026: Holy Wars and lock in Early Bird pricing. https://tickets.flfnetwork.com/holy-wars-conference Follow CrossPolitic YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CROSSPOLITIC X: https://x.com/CrossPolitic Facebook: https://facebook.com/crosspolitic Instagram: https://instagram.com/crosspolitic Join our Email List: https://crosspolitic.com/ Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, NRBTV, DirecTV, Dish, and everywhere podcasts are found.

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In this episode of Sociologist Talking, James welcomes Mike Messner to discuss Mike's new book, 'The High School,' which examines the sociological significance of high school yearbooks from Salinas High School in California, spanning from 1903 to 2024. Mike discusses his inspiration for the book, drawn from his personal connections to the school and his inherited collection of yearbooks. The book analyzes how high school sports, cheerleading, and student activities shape citizenship, identity, and social dynamics, particularly with respect to gender, race, and class. They also delve into the evolution of cheerleading, the suppression and resurgence of girls' sports, and the racial and class dynamics reflected in yearbooks. Additionally, the conversation addresses societal shifts in masculinity, the importance of cultivating revolutionary empathy, and the potential for high schools to foster greater equality and democracy.

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The gut-punch of high-conflict divorce isn't just the paperwork or the silence after a slammed door—it's realizing the system you've entered runs on efficiency, not fairness. We sit down with strategist and author Alex R. Dane, whose High Conflict Playbook was forged in the fire of restricted access, weaponized narratives, and court calendars that move slower than a parent's panic. Together, we unpack how he went from shock to strategy and earned 50-50 by becoming the calmest, most consistent person in the room.Buy Alex's book: https://shorturl.at/RSiZ0Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.comDon't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/Other Resources:The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.comThe Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBpThe Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/ Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show

Are Black women really “hyper-independent”… or are we responding to the world we live in?In Episode 1 of She Knows the Game, I sit down with Smart for an honest, layered conversation about hyper-independence, submission, masculinity, nightlife culture, and how modern dating has shaped Black women's survival instincts.We talk about:    •    Where hyper-independence really comes from    •    Whether submission is misunderstood or misused    •    Masculinity, femininity, and power dynamics    •    How nightlife and hustle culture affect relationships    •    Why Black women are often judged instead of understoodThis isn't a surface-level debate — it's real perspective, real experiences, and real truth.If you've ever been called “too independent,” felt pressure to shrink yourself, or questioned how dating dynamics are shifting — this episode is for you.

Since some of you liked my essay on building men through Scouting, here is maybe TMI about me. I like telling these climbing stories better than ratting out medical corruption.Support the show

X star and author Raw Egg Nationalist joins the ThoughtCrime crew to discuss the week's most indispensible topics, including: -Is masculinity dying, and if so, why? -Why is Barack Obama linking events in Minneapolis to raising pit bulls? -Why is the Trump White House posting memes about penguins with a death wish? Watch every episode ad-free on members.charliekirk.com! Get new merch at charliekirkstore.com!Support the show: http://www.charliekirk.com/supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ThoughtCrime crew discusses the week's most indispensible topics, including:-Why is Barack Obama linking events in Minneapolis to raising pit bulls?-Was Dilbert creator Scott Adams right about what he got canceled for?-Why is the Trump White House posting memes about penguins with a death wish?Support the show

Gary and Shannon dig into America’s fixation on testosterone after a piece from The Atlantic and a documentary tied to Tucker Carlson spark a debate over masculinity, motive, and who gets to define what’s “wrong” with the country. The conversation drifts into RFK Jr., common sense vs credibility, and ends with a very real realization—aging means night driving is suddenly a problem.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode I discuss the seeds of patriarchy and how they hinder our development as men. I expound on the quote, "Patriarchy turns boys to sons. Masculinity turns boys to men."

Why do so many men quit—not suddenly, but quietly?In this episode, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface break down why quitting usually isn't about willpower. It's about focus. When focus drifts, doubt multiplies. And once doubt takes over, quitting starts to feel logical—even justified.Using the story of David at Ziklag (1 Samuel 30), Garrett and Nick unpack what happens when everything falls apart at once. David returns home to find his city burned, his family taken, and his own men talking about killing him. In one of the most intense moments of Scripture, David doesn't spiral—he strengthens himself in the Lord, asks God what to do next, and moves forward with clarity and conviction.The episode breaks down:The force multipliers of doubt (unknowns, obstacles, past failures, emotions)Why focus is a muscle you must consciously directHow belief multiplies when you shift focus back to who God isWhy small, daily focus resets are more powerful than waiting for motivationHow zooming out—and then taking the next right step—changes everythingThis isn't about hype or self-help. It's about learning how to catch your focus before it runs wild, anchor it in God's character, and move forward—even when everything feels stacked against you.If you've been discouraged, distracted, or tempted to quit, this episode will help you reset your focus and reclaim momentum—starting today.Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here.Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life

By the time I turned 50, I realized something: every hard lesson, every failure, every victory—it all added up to something worth passing down.So I started tracking them. 50 principles. 50 pieces of wisdom forged through real experience—not theory, not motivational fluff, but battle-tested truth from two decades in Entrepreneurship, Fortune 100 leadership, from building a marriage that lasts, and from raising kids who will carry the standard after I'm gone.I originally wrote these for my children. Practical wisdom I wanted them to have whether I was in the room or not. But the more I documented, the more I realized: every man needs this.This is The Standard—50 Kingdom principles every man must know.In this series, I'm unpacking the exact life lessons that built my leadership, developed my fatherhood, and strengthened my faith. These aren't abstract ideas. They're operational doctrine for how I live, lead, and fight every single day.This is for you if you want:Deeper connection with GodDominion in your home and marketplaceFulfillment of your potentialFavor and promotion in businessClarity on your calling and purposeThis is for you if you're tired of:The chaos withinInner conflict and strife at homeStress and disconnection at workShame at behaviors that don't align with who you really areFeeling like you're drifting instead of dominatingI'm releasing 5 principles at a time throughout this year. Each episode gives you my story, the biblical foundation, and one action step you can implement immediately. No fluff. No filler. Just the standard.If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading—this series is your blueprint.Subscribe. Raise the standard. Lead. Fight. Win.JOIN THE FREE EMAIL CHALLENGEUnlock The Power Of Your Full Potential with THE UNFAIR ADVANTAGE CHALLENGE: This is a FREE 11-day email training that will equip you with the tools, mindset, and strategy to BE THE MAN God created YOU to BE. Learn to Access His Presence, Purpose, Power and Promotion.https://www.standard59.com/unfairadvantageOwn THE STANDARD Today, Get the breakout Bestseller THE STANDARD, Discovering Jesus as The Standard for Masculinity on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Standard-Discovering-Jesus-Masculinity/dp/1734549300/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 Listen to THE STANDARD on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B095J62CW2/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-259076&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_259076_rh_usFollow Josh on Social Media

Recorded live at Expert Networking Night, Jimmy sits down with Dr. Nick Howland to discuss his new memoir, The Atheist's Prayer: A Memoir of Gratitude. Nick shares his story of growing up in the LDS faith, serving a mission, being excommunicated twice, losing his identity, and ultimately walking away from belief altogether.What followed was years of anger, depression, shame, and a deep search for meaning that eventually led him back to something unexpected: self-love.This conversation isn't about attacking religion or defending atheism. It's about what happens when the systems you relied on to define your worth fall apart, and you're forced to rebuild from the ground up.Nick talks openly about divorce, suicidal thoughts, depression, therapy, men's work, brotherhood, and the daily practices that helped him learn how to keep promises to himself.They discuss why self-love can't be outsourced to religion, relationships, or self-help, how integrity is built one decision at a time, and why healing requires honesty, support, and personal responsibility. This is a raw, vulnerable conversation about shame, growth, and becoming someone you respect.