Podcasts about sexual shame

**Shame doesn't just make you feel bad, it fundamentally shapes how you experience your own body and desires.** Returning guest Dr. Alison Ash breaks down exactly why shame is so destructive to sexual wellness. Unlike guilt (which says you did something wrong), shame tells you that *you yourself* are wrong, creating a deep fear of rejection that literally dysregulates your nervous system. This isn't something we're born with. It develops through early experiences where we internalize negative reactions, eventually becoming that harsh inner critic voice. The contradictory messages are especially confusing: women should look desirable but not actually desire, while men should always be sexually available yet their desire is somehow dangerous. These cultural and religious influences create confusion that conscious rejection alone can't fix. Here's where it gets interesting: empathy is shame's antidote. When someone truly accepts you without judgment, healing becomes possible. (This is why finding sex-positive communities matters so much.) Dr. Aly explains how even BDSM can be healing for trauma survivors through consensual power exchange—reclaiming control over experiences where they previously had none. What if the fantasies or interests that make you feel broken are actually completely normal? Ready to understand the difference between your own feelings and society's expectations? This conversation offers practical strategies for recognizing shame's sources and reclaiming your agency. Estimated Timeline: 00:00:00 - Moving Through Shame and Sexual Wellness 00:02:09 - Guilt vs Shame: Understanding the Inner Critic 00:04:47 - Inner Shame and Sexuality's Cultural Conditioning 00:08:56 - Shame's Impact on Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment 00:10:48 - Shame, Empathy, and Healing Through Connection 00:14:33 - Power Exchange as Healing and Shame Reframing 00:17:43 - Reading Fiction as Healing and Normalization 00:19:14 - Shame Prevents Us From Enjoying Pleasure 00:21:33 - Building Trust Through Gradual Vulnerability 00:26:02 - Understanding Sexual Non-Concordance and Shame 00:28:45 - Unpacking Body Shame Through Conversation 00:32:56 - Lubrication Myths and Sexual Shame 00:35:17 - Being Selective About Who You Share With 00:37:09 - Sex Toys as Tools, Not Shame 00:41:12 - Internet's Role in Community and Identity 00:44:00 - Building Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love  Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Tues, Jan 27th-Mar 17th We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off! Coaching:   Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for individual, couples, and ENM coaching support!    All links: www.TurnON.love  Sustainable Intimacy Retreat: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Sustainable Intimacy On Demand Rental: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy SEIS course: https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills Coaching: https://www.turnon.love/sex-and-intimacy-coaching

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I'm reading lots of things on social media that suggest people who are emotionally volatile are better in bed. Is there any truth in this?2) Everyone talks about how having kids ruins your sex life. But no one talks about your wife never wanting sex ever again afterwards. It's been six years since our last child was born, and we now have sex around three times a year. She has zero interest, and tells me I'm not being supportive for wanting sex with her when she's so busy.3) I am a man in his mid-50s and have carried this for years: When I was 12 years old, my mother walked into my bedroom while I was masturbating and humiliated me for it. This has left me with intense shame ever since. How do you get over something like this? I feel uncomfortable even when a sex scene comes on when watching TV with my wife.To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey's book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So many of us carry hidden shame around sex and our bodies, often without realizing where it comes from. It's not always the big, obvious traumas that hold us back. Sometimes it's the small moments, a comment from a partner, or years of messages that made us feel something about us was “wrong.” In this episode, we explore how those experiences shape the way we connect, desire, and open up during intimacy. You'll learn how to start releasing shame, feeling safe in your body again, and rebuilding a deeper connection to your pleasure. From understanding the mind-body link to using gentle practices like mirror work and affirmations, this conversation will help you reclaim your confidence, heal your relationship with sex, and step into your full sensual power.

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In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Chris Rich of The Mixed-Faith Relationship Podcast to unpack where sexual shame comes from and how it shows up in adulthood. She explains how shame turns toxic when it convinces us that our flaws make us unworthy, and she offers a clearer, kinder way forward—one that helps us accept our embodied nature, integrate our sexuality, and relate to ourselves with more honesty and compassion.

I'm unpacking all the confusion around female pleasure—squirting, orgasm, and what it really means to feel satisfied in your sex life. I dive into how your pelvic floor, breath, and nervous system all play a role in your pleasure and explain why so many of us have been disconnected from our own bodies because of shame, culture, or religion. This episode is an honest, empowering conversation about reclaiming pleasure and understanding how your body is designed for it.Save your spot in the I CUM LOUD Pleasure Masterclass on November 23 and learn how to create more ease, pleasure, and confidence in your body.  Sign up TODAY!Say goodbye to vaginismus, sexual pain and sexual fear in as little as 8 weeks! Your first step to getting started is a free consultation! Book here: https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com Get our 1:1 remote coaching to claim pain free sex in as little as 8 weeks. Start today with a FREE consultation: https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/book-with-us/ Follow me on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor Leave a 5 star review if you are learning from and loving this podcast! Email us with any questions about working with us: support@vaginarehabdoctor.com Produced by Light On Creative Productions

Purity culture didn't begin with religion, it began with control. In this episode, Teresa and Bill explore how ancient systems of ownership and inheritance evolved into moral laws that still shape our relationship to the body, desire, and worth today. Even after leaving high-control faiths, the conditioning remains embodied, showing up as shame, numbness, fear… Read More »Purity Culture & Sexual Shame The post Purity Culture & Sexual Shame appeared first on Mormon Discussions Podcasts - Full Lineup.

In pickup artist culture, men see women's natural defenses as tests and shields. Pass these “shit tests” and break through her “bitch shields,” and you win her love and affection.  But women aren't sitting around scheming elaborate tests or plotting shields. They're responding to lived experiences, not imagined battle plans. That's why these pickup artist tricks, while they can work in the short-term, never result in lasting love and connection.  They're based on lies, drenched in sexual shame, and actively work against your goals of lasting connection.  The solution is much harder - it means reframing her defenses as your projections. It means taking ownership of how shame makes you react. And it's about seeing her defenses as invitations for patience, curiosity, and compassion. This path is much harder. But it's the only path towards real connection.  In today's show, you'll discover why pickup artist culture is consumed with shame, how to reframe her defenses as invitations, and how to choose a different, more effective response that's not based in your neediness.  Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How labeling a woman's action as “tests” or “shields” exposes your insecurity and fear (and how to conquer these feelings that deprive you of connection) (3:50) Why following pickup artist advice, while it might get you dates, will never forge a strong and healthy long-term relationship (5:31)  The "Psychoanalytic Lens” secret that allows you to strip away your neediness when she pulls back or acts distant (12:42)  How to build your emotional muscles and prevent her defensive parts from triggering you (13:15)  Why “seeing the shame on both sides” allows men and women to connect with and understand each other on a deeper level (19:14)  The “Battle Within” mindset shift you must make if you want a long and fulfilling relationship (20:33)  For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/  Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz  

Have you or your partner ever experienced shame around sëx? Odds are that at least one of you has. Sëxual shame is common in society, and it can lead to sëxual repression and sëxual dysfunction. Many people are not even aware that, below the surface, sëxual shame is wreaking havoc. In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony breaks down what sëxual shame is, where it comes from, how it manifests, how to get rid of it, and how removing it can help you reclaim your sëxual power. Check out BEDucated and use code "lovelab" to get 50% off the yearly pass! https://beducate.me/pd2538-lovelab

Most people, thanks to religious, cultural, or family baggage, carry around the unnecessary burden of toxic sexual shame. Sometimes this isn't even your own shame, it's been passed down through generations under the guise of virtue.  Here's the problem:  Unchecked sexual shame seeps into your relationships, your leadership, and threatens your very fulfillment of life. Even if it was never yours to carry.  That's why it's imperative to lift your burden of sexual shame. Not only will it keep your relationships shallow, but it will also shatter your sense of self-trust and corrode your confidence. Worst part? Sexual shame often manifests in the worst possible ways: in compulsions, addictions, secrecy, and self-sabotage.  That's the bad news.  The good news? You don't have to allow your shame to be your teacher any longer after you listen to this episode.  In today's show, you'll discover how religious, cultural, and family baggage fill you with borrowed shame, how reframing sexual morality can lift your burden of sexual shame, and the consequences of continuing to repress your sexual shadow - and how to integrate it instead.  Listen now.  Show Highlights Include: How sexual morality crushes you under the weight of sexual shame and holds you back from trust, intimacy, and fulfillment (1:11)  Why do people carry sexual guilt for decades longer than even theft guilt or murder guilt? (5:41)  How toxic shame “oozes” out of you in the form of compulsions, betrayals, and even living a double life (6:38)  The corrupted history of sexual morality and how it continues to fill couples with unexplainable shame to this day (9:11) Here's the cold hard truth about why you act one way in public and another in private (11:54)  This question helps you reframe sexual morality in a positive way instead of one that fills you with toxic shame (13:37)  How your sexual shadow seeps out in addictions, secrecy, and self-sabotage (and how to address it before it shatters your marriage) (19:01)  4 ways to practice sexual morality in a way that eliminates the burden of sexual shame instead of contributing to it (27:35)  For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/  Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz  

Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We'll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Sex Therapy Podcast on Sexual Shame, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Gay Men, and Relaembodiment In this episode of Talk Sex With Dick, Board Certified Sex Therapist Dr. Richard Mills‑Malangone and John Mills‑Malangone invite you into a warm, queer‑affirming hour on how shame shows up in sex—and why it's often protection, not a personal failure. From the first snap of the jingle, you're welcomed into a space that is playful, trauma‑informed, and utterly non‑shaming. You'll hear a quick nod to queer history in Today in the Gay, a reminder that our bodies learned caution for real reasons. Then Richard breaks down Internal Family Systems (IFS) in plain language—the “parts” that perform, pull away, or numb out when intimacy gets close—while John brings the learner's lens and lived experience. No part is the enemy here; every part is trying to keep you safe. The episode's heart is a Situations Matrix that feels uncannily familiar: eye‑contact panic, “we only want sex when we drink,” freezing when a partner initiates. These scenarios often highlight differences in arousal and desire discrepancy between partners, which can create challenges and lead to feelings of frustration or distress. Distress can arise in moments of sexual shame or intimacy, especially when partners experience unmet needs or misunderstandings, and the Matrix helps address these feelings by offering practical ways to navigate them together. For each situation, Richard and John offer kinder alternatives you can try tonight—second glances with a touch anchor, a sober no‑goal touch night, or a pre‑agreed slow‑down phrase—plus short sample lines you can actually say. They also discuss strategies for co regulation and emotional regulation, supporting partners as they move through distress and work toward greater connection. A brief embodied practice helps you notice one body sensation, name the protective impulse (perform, rush, numb, joke), ask it what it's afraid you'll feel, and offer a small swap (slower breath, a hand on your chest, permission to pause). This practice encourages noticing feelings and physical sensations, which are key to emotional regulation and co regulation with partners. In Therapist's Couch, they turn toward their own patterns with tenderness: what used to happen, what they notice sooner now, and what helped. Therapists use support and specific strategies to help clients navigate frustration, differences in sexual desire, and the emotional challenges that arise in intimate relationships. The Listener Q&A closes the loop with real stories: sustained eye contact that sparks panic, sex that only happens with a buzz, and a partner who reads lack of initiation as rejection. Feelings of frustration and distress are common in these situations, and the episode addresses strategies for regulation and co regulation between partners, offering reassurance that you're not broken—you're protected. You'll leave with language, options, and the reminder that you're not broken—you're protected. Introduction to Sex and Shame Sex and shame are deeply connected experiences that shape the way we approach our own desires, our relationships, and our sense of intimacy. For many people, shame can quietly influence how we feel about sex, sometimes making it harder to express what we want or to connect openly with a partner. This isn't just a personal struggle—it's a dynamic process that can affect the quality of our relationships and our ability to experience true connection. Understanding the role shame plays in our sexual lives is a powerful step toward building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. When we become aware of how shame can limit our desire or create distance, we open the door to greater intimacy and a deeper sense of connection with ourselves and others. By exploring these dynamics with curiosity and compassion, we can begin to transform shame into understanding, and create space for more authentic sexual expression and pleasure.

Your sexual shame is stealing your power and you don't even know it's happening If you are a man struggling with sexual confidence you will learn shame healing, how to reclaim authentic sexual expression. Learn why shame blocks arousal and how childhood interpretations create limiting beliefs that follow you into the bedroom. Whether you are single and dating or in a committed relationship this episode has insight for you. Stop performing and start experiencing the sexual freedom you deserve.    

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This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues. We discuss: What is purity culture How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame Why talking about sex is important What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS! Visit https://jaspr.co/DRG and use code DRG for $300 OFF for a limited time Sign up for our newsletter! https://drchristiangonzalez.com/newsletter/ Most adults have limited knowledge about intimacy and haven't fully explored their potential for pleasure. What if there were aspects of intimacy you hadn't yet discovered? In this episode, intimacy expert Susan Bratton explains that the capacity for pleasure is learned rather than innate, with many different types accessible to all bodies. She addresses common misconceptions and presents intimacy as a mindful, embodied practice between partners rather than a performance, explaining how emotional barriers from past experiences can limit people's ability to experience fulfillment. We explore how aging can impact genital health in both men and women, along with supportive therapies like hormone treatments, red light therapy, vacuum devices, and supplements. Susan, who has guided over 20,000 men in improving penile volume through VED use, also teaches mindful practices to deepen emotional intimacy. At the core of her work is open bedroom communication, asking, “What feels good today?” to honor each body's changing needs.  This conversation invites a shame-free, present-moment approach to intimacy that strengthens connection and mutual understanding. Hosted by Doctor Christian Gonzalez N.D. Follow Doctor G on Instagram @doctor.gonzalezhttps://www.instagram.com/doctor.gonzalez/ Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction 04:30 – Why We're Disconnected 10:30 – Orgasmic Potential & Types 17:00 – Mindful Sex & Communication 23:00 – Sex Education for Kids 30:30 – Orgasm Challenges in Women 36:00 – The Heart-Tongue Technique 42:00 – Sexual Biohacking Tools 47:00 – Penis Pumps & Growth 52:00 – Prostate Health & P-Spot

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this special crossover episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, sex educators and hosts of the Shameless Sex podcast, for a deep dive into shame-free pleasure, boundaries, kink, and creating more satisfying intimate relationships; whether you're single, coupled, monogamous, or open. We explore what "shameless sex" really means and how shame disconnects us from pleasure and authenticity. Amy and April share tools like self-inquiry, somatic practices, and sexual experimentation for healing and self-acceptance, emphasizing that communication is the gateway to better sex. They stress the importance of "owning your desires" using non-judgmental language and practicing "seductive honesty" before clothes come off. The conversation covers kink, BDSM, and open relationships, including consent, negotiation, aftercare, and how to safely explore. Amy shares insights from her open relationship about navigating jealousy and building emotional resilience. April, with years in the sex toy industry, busts common myths like "vibrators desensitize you" and "sex toys replace partners," while discussing quality materials, inclusivity, and why most toys are still designed for cis men. This episode is packed with top tips for more shameless sex: normalizing solo exploration, not judging your fantasies, exploring full-body arousal beyond genital touch, and being curious rather than performative. Whether you're questioning your desires, confidence, or worthiness in bed, this conversation offers validation and practical tools for embracing your authentic sexual self. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 6:02 - Breaking Down Sexual Shame 8:21 - Personal Stories 15:25 - How to Identify Your Sexual Needs and Desires 21:59 - Real Communication Example 28:16 - Listener Q&A 36:03 - Helping an Anxious Partner Become More Present During Sex 40:55 - Open Relationships 49:52 - Five Quickie Questions 51:00 - Where to Find Shameless Sex Podcast and Book Details

In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame. Whether it's shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what's “normal,” this shame often goes unspoken — but it's sabotaging your confidence, your connection with women, and your ability to feel powerful in your own skin.Dr. Shermer breaks down where this shame comes from, how to reframe it, and what to do right now to stop letting it control your dating life. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt like your anxiety in dating or sex is coming from something deeper… because chances are, it is.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In a culture overflowing with sexual messages, many of us are quietly carrying questions, confusion, or even shame around the topic of sex. It's no secret this conversation still feels a little taboo, even among Christians. But Scripture isn't silent on sex—and we shouldn't be either.   Here's the truth: shame keeps us from the good things God has for us.   In this episode, Heather and Jamie explore the roots of sexual shame and how we can move from hiding to healing—stepping into the light to be fully known and restored.   Show Notes:  Book Recommendations: Embodied by Gregg Allison The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire How and When to Tell Your Kids about Sex by Stan and Brenna Jones The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van Der Kolk M.D.   Want to connect with a pastor? Fill out our connect form so that we can connect with the right team and resources:  Care | COTM | My Account my.churchonthemove.com/connect   Take Our Survey!  Let's Talk About Sex cotmforms.wufoo.com/forms/x1a2abnw1v4fote

Are you carrying the heavy burden of sexual shame? Do you long for freedom and healing in your sexuality? In this crucial episode of FamilyLife Today, hosts Dave and Ann Wilson welcome Dr. Julie Slattery, clinical psychologist and author of Surrendered Sexuality, to address the pain of sexual brokenness and offer a path to liberation.Dr. Slattery compassionately unpacks why so many Christians struggle with shame surrounding their sexuality. She reveals how our sexual issues often stem from deeper spiritual struggles, like doubts about God's goodness or believing identity lies. You'll learn about the four common "identity traps" that keep us bound – self-discovery, shame, performance, and deriving value from relationships – and how to escape them. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

What if everything you believed about love, sex, and marriage was built on shame—and it nearly destroyed you? In this raw, rebellious, and soul-awakening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Carolee and Britton—former devout Mormons turned sexual freedom seekers—for an unfiltered conversation about unlearning religious programming, healing from infidelity, and discovering the power of sex magic. They dive into how growing up Mormon created deep repression, guilt, and silence around sexuality—and how it all came to a head in their marriage through betrayal, disconnection, and years of internalized shame. But instead of falling apart, Carolee and Britton chose the path of radical self-responsibility, spiritual awakening, and shadow work (with a few smashed picture frames and moonlit rituals along the way). From smashing purity culture to manifesting their dream home mid-orgasm, this episode is a masterclass in rewriting the rules—and reclaiming your body, your voice, and your pleasure.

Many Catholics struggle with sexual shame—not because they lack faith, but because they carry deep confusion and fear about desire. In this episode, Catholic therapist Adam Cross explores how scrupulosity distorts our understanding of sexuality, pleasure, and morality, often turning natural human experience into a source of guilt and anxiety. Drawing from both clinical experience and Catholic spirituality, Adam breaks down the inner conflict between faith and desire and shares compassionate, practical tools for navigating scrupulosity without losing your peace—or your humanity. Discover practical insights into: • Why scrupulosity creates fear around sexual desire • The difference between lust and attraction • How anxiety and shame disrupt spiritual clarity • What integrated healing looks like—body, mind, and soul Tune in for a thoughtful and empowering conversation that blends faith and mental health, offering hope to those who feel caught in cycles of guilt and confusion. For more information or questions, visit adamcrossmft.com Adam Cross LMFT #116623

In this episode, Pleasure & Orgasm coach Jenn Wodtke takes us on a journey to reconnect with our own pleasure through touchless orgasms, healing sexual shame and discovering the DIVINE feminine within.We chat:- solo s.x in partnered relationships- why losing the 'goal' of orgasm is the key to a more fulfilling sex life- how the disconnection with the Goddess keeps women from living their most vibrant & empowered liveConnect with Jenn:WebsiteInstagramYouTubeBook a FREE CallReady to reclaim your body, your power, and your peace? Start here: 1.

Colleen Johnston joins Natasha on this episode of The Natasha Helfer Podcast. Colleen Johnston is a mother of nine whose life journey spans the extremes of Mormon orthodoxy and radical self-liberation. Raised in both conservative Utah and rural Maine, Colleen was shaped by the rigid expectations of purity culture and the deep shame often instilled by religious teachings around sexuality. After surviving public shaming, sexual trauma, addiction, homelessness, and incarceration, she returned to the Church and immersed herself in its teachings—only to later confront disturbing truths about its history and leave it behind for good. For nearly two decades, she facilitated addiction recovery meetings and lived with unrelenting devotion to Church doctrine. Today, Colleen has left the Mormon church and is an advocate for body autonomy, open sexual education, and parenting without shame. Her story is one of painful transformation, reclamation of self, and fierce love for her queer, gender-fluid, and unapologetically authentic children.   To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com.  The information shared on this program is informational and should not be considered therapy. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services. There are also several upcoming workshops. Visit natashahelfer.com or symcounseling.com to find out more.

Dr. Laurie discusses "Sexual Shame" with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, author of "Shameless Parenting".   You'll also hear answers to listener submitted questions, and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News". Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/passion-with-dr-laurie-betito--4888701/support.

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ How to look at masturbation in a way that works for your sex life, instead of against it.Work with me to overcome sexual performance issues:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9

Join me and Lucy Rowett in our frank and honest conversation about how faith backgrounds and conservatism might be rubbing our libido up the wrong way.Lucy Rowett is a certified sexologist and sex coach and the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast that focuses on sexual wellness. And in this conversation, we talk about:

Trigger warning: coercive control, sexual coercion, religious abuse. 

Is it possible that shame—not desire—is what's really blocking your pleasure?   In this episode, we talk about sex as a somatic healing practice—how it can regulate the nervous system, release stored emotion, and support a deeper sense of safety. This isn't about quick fixes—it's about learning to listen to your body, understand your needs, and create space for real connection.   We look at what keeps many of us disconnected from our bodies, and how tuning into self-awareness and embodiment can shift our relationship with pleasure. You'll also hear how communication, curiosity, and timing can change the way we connect—with ourselves and others.   To help unpack all of this, I'm joined by Dr. Emily Morse, host of Sex with Emily and a leading voice in sexual wellness. She shares her 5 Pillars of Sexual Intelligence and practical tools to reframe shame, rebuild intimacy, and bring more presence into your sex life.   Whether you're just starting to explore your relationship with sex or have been on this path for a while, this conversation offers real tools you can use today.   ===   Want one of the most Powerful Tools to Support you in Awakening & Manifesting Your Dream Life from the Inside Out (for Free)?   Learn how to live to your full potential without letting fear get in the way of your dreams.    ✨ Here's How to Get Your Gift: ✨ Step 1: Just head over to Apple Podcast or Spotify + leave a review now Step 2: Take a screenshot before hitting submit Step 3: Then go to alyssanobriga.com/podcast to upload it!   ===   EPISODE TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 Intro 00:30 Exploring Sexual Shame and Cultural Conditioning 00:57 Navigating Sexual Attraction and Compatibility 01:16 Episode Overview and Guest Introduction 02:01 Understanding Female Pleasure and Breaking Taboos 04:17 The Five Pillars of Sexual Intelligence 12:01 Sex as a Healing Practice 16:29 Reigniting Chemistry in Long-Term Relationships 27:56 The Role of Foreplay and Building Sexual Connection 30:53 Reigniting the Spark in Long-Term Relationships 32:03 Exploring New Sexual Experiences Together 33:25 The Importance of Healthy Conversations About Sex 36:02 Navigating Sexual Desires in Dating 38:41 Practical Tips for Deeper Sexual Conversations 41:44 The Role of Therapy in Maintaining Intimacy 45:55 Debunking Common Misconceptions About Sex 52:08 Embracing Your Own Pleasure and Sexual Power 57:44 Staying Connected and Continuing the Journey   ===   GUEST LINKS IG, X, TikTok, Facebook: @sexwithemily https://www.youtube.com/user/SexWithEmily Website: http://www.sexwithemily.com   ===   Have you watched our previous episode titled Exploring Sexual Wellness, Tantra, & Erotic Empowerment - with Layla Martin   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sGOw2wo-e9Y?si=vDR774dTUcF7tAon   ====   Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - Disclaimer This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or any other qualified professional. We shall in no event be held liable to any party for any reason arising directly or indirectly for the use or interpretation of the information presented in this video. Copyright 2023, Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - All rights reserved.   ===   Want 3 Life-Changing Tools you can use on yourself (or your clients) from inside our Accredited Coaching Certification? Click here to get them for Free: https://www.alyssanobriga.com/tools

It's essential to understand that experiences of sexual shame vary greatly, depending on the person and circumstances. Addressing the range of feelings openly is vital for a healthy relationship. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by April Lampert and Amy Baldwin of "Shameless Sex" to discuss the intricacies of sexual shame, its impact on relationships, and how individuals and couples can navigate towards a more shameless and fulfilling sex life. Together they highlight common misconceptions about sexual shame, and offer practical advice for maintaining passion and intimacy in long-term relationships. They also explore the pervasive nature of shame, from societal pressures to personal traumas, and emphasize the healing power of communication and vulnerability.    Tips in this episode: Many people carry unrecognized sexual shame from past experiences and societal norms; addressing these feelings leads to greater pleasure and connection. Open, compassionate dialogue with partners about sexual dissatisfaction and/or shame significantly enhances intimacy and relationship satisfaction. Sharing vulnerabilities and desires without judgment is vital for overcoming shame and achieving a fulfilling sexual relationship. Sexual shame often flourishes in long-term relationships, due to mismatched desires and societal expectations–addressing it is essential to maintain marital passion.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this special April Fools edition we have questions on managing sexual shame imported from religious/traditional family values, exploring our authentic selves in friendships, and managing a feeling of self-cringe when we do or say embarassing things. If you are an Apple user please rate us!If you are a Spotify user, please rate us!Submit a question to the show!Help us reach #1 on Goodpods!Listen ad-free, get the show a day early and enjoy the pre-show hang out on the same app you're using RIGHT NOW at www.Patreon.com/Therapy where you can also access our vast library of deep dives, interviews, skill shares, reviews and rants as well as our live discord chat!Interested in Nick's mental health approach to fitness? Check out www.MentalFitPersonalTraining.comCheck out Dr. Jim's book "Dadvice: 50 Fatherly Life Lessons" at www.DadviceBook.comGrab some swag at our store, www.PodTherapyBaitShop.comPlay Jim's Neurotic Bingo at home while you listen to the show, or don't, I'm not your supervisor.Submit questions to:www.PodTherapy.netPodTherapyGuys@gmail.comFollow us on Social Media:FacebookInstagramTwitterResources:Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255.Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255.Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline - (1-800-662-HELP (4357)OK2Talk Helpline Teen Helpline - 1 (800) 273-TALKU.S. Mental Health Resources Hotline - 211

Sex can be a beautiful experience full of love and fulfilled desires. It's this amazing expression of love and intimacy that you can share with your partner and with yourself! But to be able to reach the sexual freedom we all hope for, we have to do some soul searching.    Jocelyn Silva is a Life and Intimacy Coach with over 13 years of experience helping people break free from limiting beliefs and fully embrace their sexual power. Once a Catholic schoolgirl who dreamed of being a nun (true story!), she now teaches clients how to embody confidence, connection, and pleasure—without guilt or shame. With a Master's in Social Work and a background in sex education, Jocelyn's approach blends psychology, embodiment, and radical self-love. She's the creator of Pleasure Playground, a transformative group coaching program, and a passionate digital nomad who believes sexual empowerment makes life easier (and way more fun).    In this week's episode, we're talking to Jocelyn about healing sexual shame, embracing pleasure, and cultivating self-acceptance. If you're feeling sexually repressed, undesirable, or you feel like there's something broken inside of you, it might be time to go on a journey of sexual self-discovery. The more you grow to love yourself and accept every part of yourself, the more pleasure you'll feel in the bedroom. It's all connected!  Follow Jocelyn on: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva  Website: www.jocelynsilva.com LinkedIn: Jocelyn Silva   Follow Erika on: Instagram @‌theerikacruzTikTok @‌theerikacruzLinkedIn Website: http://www.theerikacruz.com How to work with Erika: Join the waitlist for the Courage Driven Latina program here. Join the waitlist for the Magnetic Mastermind here.   Podcast production for this episode was provided by CCST.

Breaking the Cycle: Finding Freedom from Sexual Shame Shame thrives in silence, especially when it's tied to sexual experiences and behaviors. In this episode of the Exploring More Podcast, Michael Thompson and SJ Jennings uncover how guilt and shame often drive self-destructive cycles, particularly in the context of pornography and unwanted sexual behavior. Drawing from personal stories, cultural insights, and spiritual truths, they address how societal pressures, media influence, and even well-intentioned messages about love and performance can fuel shame's grip. The conversation highlights the importance of confronting these root causes, seeking wise counsel, and embracing God's love as the ultimate path to freedom and healing. If you've wrestled with feelings of shame tied to your past or present struggles, this episode offers hope, understanding, and practical steps toward restoration. We invite you to listen, reflect, and take that first courageous step toward breaking free. Your story matters, and healing is possible. We hope you enjoy this episode and invite you to connect with us!

If you are a woman who feels frustrated with a low libido or sex drive, feel shut off from intimacy in your relationships or feel like you just want to give up on your relationship altogether - this episode is for you. Whether you are single or partnered - Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, is revolutionizing women's relationship to intimacy and their ability to receive pleasure. She is a leading somatic sex therapist who helps couples (and single women) deepen their intimacy so they can create lasting, fulfilling connections.This conversation is packed full of practices and tools to help you completely heal any intimacy barriers you have from past traumas and painful experiences. Listen to learn why indirect pleasure experiences are hurting your love life- and how practicing direct pleasure is deeply healing and transformative. Free Gift- The Pleasure Keys: https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/pleasure-keys.htmlThe Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat- April 1-4th, 2025 https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/pleasure-keys-retreat-for-couples.htmlAbout the Guest: Susan Morgan Taylor, MA is a renowned somatic sex therapist who has helped hundreds of couples deepen the intimate connection and create mutually satisfying sex and intimacy for the long term. She is the creator of the transformational Pleasure Keys Retreats and the host of the popular Sex Talk Café Podcast.After leaving a sexless marriage and determined not to repeat the pattern, Susan embarked on a study of her own sexuality where she soon discovered that love, pleasure and orgasm are natural states that already exist within us and are easily experienced when the obstacles are removed. This personal awakening was the turning point that inspired her to become a sex therapist. After more than a decade in private practice as a couple's sex therapist and over 25 years of experience in somatic/body-based approaches to healing, Susan developed The Pleasure Keys Process™, a three-part approach to empower couples to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy while leaving the frustration, confusion and chronic self-sacrifice in the dust.Susan believes we can change the world by how we have sex and make love and that our intimate relationships are the most direct opportunity for personal growth and healing. When she is not busy leading couples retreats, you might catch her hiking or singing Karaoke in the stunning mountains of Western North Carolina where she lives.Susan's Podcast: Sex Talk Cafe NOTABLE GUEST INTERVIEWS: Marriage Therapy Radio: The Pleasure Keys with Susan Morgan Taylor The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast: Sacred Sexuality & Spirituality with Susan Morgan Taylor Sexology: Sex Connection: Passion and PresenceAbout the Host:Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth...

Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, is a somatic sex therapist with over 25 years of experience helping couples create deep, lasting intimacy. Susan is the creator of the trademarked Pleasure Keys Process and the host of the Sex Talk Café Podcast. Today, we dive into the real truths about sexual desire, intimacy, and how we can transform our relationships—and ourselves—through sex. It's an excellent episode!Key Topics:The Truth About Mismatched LibidoCommon myths about sexual desire discrepancy in couplesReal causes of mismatched libido and practical solutionsThe Impact of Sexual Shame and TraumaHow unresolved trauma can block pleasureWays to heal and open up to deeper intimacyLow Sex Drive in Women—Myth or Reality?Why the concept of "low sex drive" in women is often misunderstoodHow to rewrite the narrative on women's sexuality for greater fulfillmentSomatic Sex Therapy vs. Traditional TherapyWhat somatic sex therapy is and how it worksThe benefits of an experiential approach to sexual wellnessHow to Reconnect with Your PartnerSimple practices to enhance connection and intimacyThe most effective way for couples to resolve differences in sex driveRethinking Orgasm and PleasureWhy focusing solely on climax can detract from true orgasmic potentialThe #1 obstacle to pleasure and how to overcome itWhat's Next: This is just the beginning! Tune in next time for Part 2, where we'll dive deeper into vaginal gymnastics, called “pompoir”.Follow Susan for more:Website: pathwaytopleasure.comInstagram: @susanmorgantaylorFree eBook: pleasurekeys.comNext Retreat: March 31–April 4 in Tennessee_____________Please remember to rate, review, and follow the show – and share with a friend!Find Amy's affiliates and discount codes: https://amyedwards.info/affiliatepageAll links: ⁠⁠⁠amyedwards.info⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@realamyedwards⁠⁠⁠Fight For Her: ⁠⁠⁠fightforher.net⁠⁠⁠TikTok:⁠⁠⁠ @themagicbabe⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠YouTube Channel⁠⁠⁠Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠The Amy Edwards Show Podcast⁠⁠⁠Free Course:⁠⁠⁠ The Ageless Mindset⁠⁠⁠Full Course: ⁠⁠⁠The Youthfulness Hack⁠⁠⁠Work with Amy:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a Call⁠⁠⁠ Let's get you to your HAPPIEST and most RADIANT! Book a call to apply to work together one-on-one: ⁠https://amyedwards.as.me/15mincall⁠Amy's hair by ⁠https://www.thecollectiveatx.com⁠Get my FREE course "The Ageless Mindset: The Ultimate Guide to Look Younger and Feel Happier!" HERE: ⁠https://best-you-life.teachable.com/p/the-ageless-mindset-the-ultimate-guide-to-look-younger-feel-happier⁠Get the full course “The Youthfulness Hack: The Secret System to Reverse Aging Fast and Create a New, Radiant You!” Out now! ⁠https://best-you-life.teachable.com/p/the-youthfulness-hack⁠

Ever wondered why you don't crave sex the way you used to? Or why your partner always seems to want it more (or less) than you? You're not broken—but the way we've been taught to think about desire is. In this episode, I sit down with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to uncover the real reasons behind low sex drive, desire discrepancies, and why women are often blamed for “not wanting it enough.” If you've ever felt disconnected, pressured, or “not in the mood” more than you'd like, this episode will change everything you thought you knew about desire. Get the FREE Pleasure Keys eBook → www.pleasurekeys.comThe Connection Code Monthly Masterclass (Link coming soon!)

I'm sharing a topic that's near and dear to my heart, one I've mentioned in previous episodes, Sacred Sexuality. What the heck is it, why is it important, and how can you get started. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review on Apple podcasts or Spotify so more women can see this!Get started with my breast massage course, Heart Magick: https://selfexpressedbabe.com/breast-massage-course-for-women/Your free 7-day sensuality journal: https://selfexpressedbabe.myflodesk.com/dq3aecwy1txoxo,Cilia

What if openly discussing sexuality was an act of courage, a way to transform shame into strength? In this episode of the Harvest Series podcast, host Rose Claverie engages in a candid conversation with entrepreneur and intimacy expert Chloé MacIntosh. As the founder of Kama, a platform revolutionizing our approach to sexuality and self-pleasure, Chloé shares deeply personal aspects of her journey for the first time. She discusses, with honesty and vulnerability, how embracing her own sexual experiences has empowered her and aligns with the guidance she offers to others. Together, they explore the intersections of sexuality, courage, and the transformative power of confronting and overcoming shame.Tune in to discover how embracing our true selves can lead to profound personal growth and fulfillment.Chloe has kindly shared a discount code for her app Kama. To get it, click on this link : https://kama.co/doitShow Notes – Conversation with Chloé:2:51 – Opening the conversation: Chloé shares why she feels at ease discussing sexuality today and reflects on the journey that led her there.9:00 – Breaking the taboo: How Chloé works to normalize sexual language and encourages people to embrace their desires with confidence.14:12 – Deepening intimacy: Practical advice on how to have open and vulnerable conversations with your partner about sex.19:13 – Bringing fantasies to life: How to integrate personal fantasies into your sex life in a way that strengthens connection and trust.23:13 – Healing from trauma: In a deeply emotional moment, Chloé opens up about transforming past sexual trauma..31:13 – Raising boys in a modern world: Her best advice on educating sons about sexuality, respect, and emotional intelligence.38:05 – Desire vs. routine: How do we balance the need for long-term intimacy with the fear of boredom, especially when a woman becomes a mother?46:33 – Overcoming body shame: Chloé's guidance on embracing physical insecurities and cultivating self-acceptance.52:50 – Practical tools for pleasure: Chloé introduces Kama, the app she created, offering guided exercises and resources to enhance intimacy and self-discovery.You can follow us on Instagram at @HarvestSeries or @rose.claverie for updates.Watch our podcast episodes and speaker sessions on YouTube: Harvest Series.Credits:Sound editing by: @lesbellesfrequencesTechnician in Kaplankaya: Joel MoriasiMusic by: ChambordArtwork by: Davide d'AntonioHarvest Series is produced in partnership with Athena Advisers and Capital PartnersHarvest Series Founders: Burak Öymen and Roman Carel

A few weeks ago, we talked about prolonged arousal and I touched on sexual shame in men. I promised then that I'd do an entire episode about it because it isn't talked about much and needs to be talked about more. This is that episode. Sexual shame is one of the most powerful emotions we can experience, and when it's tied to something as personal and intimate as sexuality, the impact can be profound. In this episode, we're going to delve into this much needed topic and talk about what it is, how it manifests differently from women, the factors that contribute to it, and the steps men can take to heal. By talking about sexual shame in men, I hope to bring more light to it so those who are suffering can finally start to heal!

In this episode, I sit down with renowned LDS sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to explore the complex topic of sexual shame. Together, we discuss its origins, how it impacts relationships—especially in a mixed faith context—and practical ways to foster healing, understanding, and deeper connection. Whether you're navigating personal struggles or seeking to strengthen your partnership, this conversation is filled with compassionate insights and actionable tools to help you move forward. Find more information at her website: www.finlayson-fife.com Could you do me a favor?  Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform. It helps more people find the podcast.   I would also love to hear any insights or questions you have. You can also find me at:  ⁠www.chrisrichcoaching.com⁠ chrisrichcoaching@gmail.com ⁠@chrisrichcoaching⁠ Instagram ⁠Subscribe to my Mixed Faith Friday Emails⁠

In this episode of Mormon Stories, Erika Nordfelt shares her powerful journey from a devout Mormon upbringing to finding healing and self-discovery. Erika recounts her experiences growing up in a close-knit Mormon family, navigating high school in Colorado, and attending BYU-Idaho, where she faced struggles with religious expectations and marital dynamics shaped by the Church. She candidly discusses topics like sexual shame, pornography in marriage, and the role of Twelve-Step programs, highlighting the challenges of reconciling faith, identity, and personal growth. Erika opens up about her turning points, leaving the Church with her husband, and her work as a therapist, witnessing firsthand the impact of shame within Mormon culture. Show Notes YouTube Mormon Stories Thanks Our Generous Donors! Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today: One-time or recurring donation through Donorbox Support us on Patreon PayPal Venmo Our Platforms: YouTube Patreon Spotify Apple Podcasts Contact us:MormonStories@gmail.comPO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117 Social Media: Insta: @mormstories TikTok: @mormonstoriespodcast Join the Discord

Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Ever wondered why the "spark" fades in long-term relationships? In this episode, sex and relationship coach Lyuba Venable reveals how understanding your core sexual desires can transform intimacy from routine to extraordinary. Whether you're in a sexless relationship or simply wanting to deepen your connection, Lyuba shares practical wisdom about bridging different desires and creating lasting sexual chemistry beyond the honeymoon phase. As Lyuba perfectly describes, "Communication is lubrication" when openly discussing desires that are bond to ignite physical intimacy.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:The fascinating concept of "core desires" and how they shape our turn-onsWhy some couples stop having sex and the step-by-step path back to intimacyHow to share vulnerable desires without shamePractical ways to bridge different sexual desires between partnersThe power of deep listening in building sexual connectionEPISODE LINKS Lyuba's WebsiteBook | Erotic Mind by Jack Morin Lyuba | Schedule a free discovery call KING & QUEEN OF HEARTS. Leah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Buy Now. 10% off Coupon: KINGANDQUEEN10. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. THE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female Gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST 20 LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. Support the showSxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website

In today's we tackle a topic many of us face but rarely discuss openly: sexual shame and sexual confidence. What holds us back from having amazing sex? What emotional wounds stop us from asking for what we want? Why do we zone out when we're with someone we love? Why do we feel shame about having too much, or not enough sex? These are the questions we are going to ask today. We are jouned by renowned sex therapist Dr. Emily Jamea, to break down where sexual shame comes from—whether it’s past trauma, religious messaging, or societal pressures—and how it impacts our ability to experience pleasure. Dr. Emily shares powerful advice on unlearning shame, building sexual confidence, and embracing your desires without fear or embarrassment. We also explore the psychology behind libido, its fluctuations in our 20s, and the role mental health, stress, and body image play in our relationships and sexual lives. Buy The Anatomy of Desire here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Anatomy-Desire-Secrets-Connection-Cultivate-ebook/dp/B0CPWSJFML Follow Dr Emily here: @dremilyjamea PREORDER MY BOOK: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/755841/person-in-progress-by-jemma-sbeg/ Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Support this podcast by joining The Fam (tax-deductible): https://3szn.short.gy/jointhefam___________________________________________How many of you are struggling with sexual shame? Sexual shame can harm our relationships and make people feel alone and stuck. It can come from past choices, struggles with pornography, or pressure from culture. This issue affects more people than we may think. In this episode, Addison and Juli open up about their own experiences with sexual shame, the wrong ideas they've believed, and their path to healing. This honest and hope-filled conversation gives helpful advice and reminds us that God's grace can heal every part of our story!

166: Tantra & Sexual Sovereignty: Awaken Your Pleasure Power with LeolaIn this juicy episode, Tia Lynn sits down with the inspiring Leola, a Pleasure Priestess and best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed, inspires others to integrate sexuality and spirituality. She guides individuals and couples in harnessing life-force energy for a pleasure-filled life, transforming intimate relationships, livelihoods, and worldviews.Leola shares how discovering tantra and shamanic sexuality in her early 20s helped her heal from sexual assault, reconnect with her body, and create a life she loves. Together, they explore how we can all cultivate a more empowered relationship with ourselves and others. ✨ Highlights include:Prioritizing self-pleasure: Why it's essential—even if you're in a relationship—and how it can reveal hidden traumas or barriers. Mirror masturbation: A profound practice for deepening self-connection and authenticity. Sexual sovereignty: Understanding your boundaries and stepping into your power. Healing and transformation through pleasure: How sexual energy is life force energy and a pathway to deeper connection. Shame and judgment in sexualit: Tia reflects on past judgments and the lessons learned about sexual liberation. This conversation also delves into the societal dynamics of sexual energy and how shame and trauma can impact our ability to fully embrace our pleasure. Leola's wisdom and vulnerability inspire listeners to explore their own path to pleasure and healing. Tune in to uncover how embracing your sensuality can transform your life, relationships, and confidence.

In this episode, we are going to address a topic that so many struggle with but often don't talk about: sexual shame. Many carry the burden of sexual shame and it can impact our view of ourselves and our connection with our spouse. If you've ever found yourself feeling like something is wrong with you for having sexual thoughts, or if you've hidden aspects of your sexuality out of fear or guilt, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Chatting With Candice, Candice Horbacz and sexologist Kaamna explore a wide range of topics surrounding sexuality, shame, and the future of intimacy. From overcoming sexual shame, navigating gender differences, and understanding toxic masculinity, to the societal pressures on men and women, this talk tackles the deeply ingrained challenges of modern sexuality. Kaamna also delves into how technology, including VR, AI, and sex robots, is shaping human relationships and intimacy. She sheds light on the ethical considerations of this emerging technology and its potential impact on birth rates, loneliness, and companionship. With discussions on spiritual sexuality, parenting, and breaking free from conservative worldviews, this talk is a must-watch for anyone curious about the evolving landscape of sexuality and relationships. Stay tuned for upcoming projects, including Carmen's podcast and book release. Check out Candice's socials and Website Follow Candice Horbacz on socials: link.me/candicehorbacz Support The Podcast on Patreon: http://patreon.com/candicehorbacz Checkout Kaamna's Socials: https://linktr.ee/kaamnalive The intimacy you've always dreamed of. Get deeper intimacy and transformative results: Use the code CANDICE10 to get 10% off https://www.livingadamo.com/the-adamo-method?ref=jfepxjwb (https://www.livingadamo.com/the-adamo-method?ref=jfepxjwb) BEGIN YOUR WELLNESS JOURNEY Full Body Massage Set with Big Bag for easy storage. This Massage Set has everything you need for a complete massage experience, from head to toe. Use code: Candice https://pranamat.com/af/lnkbeovx?coupon=candice

Sex education rests in the hands of the media and serves the objectives of capitalism - sounds healthy and pleasurable, right? So not sexy. To undo this, let's go back to school on the subject of childhood development. Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is chatting with the podcast hosts once again, revisiting and diving deeper into the implications of abstinence only sex education and purity culture, and how we can make the future happier and healthier for the next generation by liberating ourselves from sexual shame. Dr. Tina gives a breakdown of the capacity for understanding verbal and non verbal cues about sexuality throughout the developmental stages of childhood, and the impact those cues have to our brains, bodies, and relationships. The hosts have questions about the significance of the language we use to name body parts, the link between purity culture and violence against women, and like, wtf is the madonna/whore complex? Finally, Dr. Tina shares her latest work with psychedelic assisted therapy and some inspiration for what that therapeutic approach can offer to those of us wanting to liberate ourselves perhaps a little more efficiently!This is a great follow up to the podcast's first conversation with Dr. Tina back in December 2022. Listen to that episode for some great information about the origins of abstinence only sex-ed and how it has physical and psychological outcomes on a person akin to the experience of childhood sexual trauma.Learn More:InannaRising.orgtinaschermersellers.comInstagram: @DrTinaShameless@inanna_rising_pat Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Introducing “Her Freedom Journey”, Juli and Joy's brand new book! In this very special podcast episode, Joy and Juli talk about the lack of discussion around female sexuality in the Church, and particularly around issues like pornography and masturbation. Joy shares some of her personal story, and together she and Juli talk about the heart behind the new book.     Guest: Dr. Joy Skarka     Website: joyskarka.com Instagram: @joyskarka   Listen to the episode where Joy tells her full story.   Get your free copy of “Her Freedom Journey! Email podcast@authenticintimacy.com with your name, address, and why you love listening to  Java with Juli. First 10 senders will get a free copy.*   Pre-order “Her Freedom Journey” here!   Be Broken Ministries SheRecovery   *Open to those in the US only.   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.