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Safe to Love Again Divorce is expensive and life altering. It's important we spend time and effort making sure our relationships with our spouse are growing and improving. What do you do each weak to improve your relationships? Listen in as Dr. Salyer shares his expertise in how to create lasting love. Take away: Our beliefs are created in childhood and we may need to go back and reprogram them. Action step: Ways I can notice I am worthy of love. Money Learnings: There was a time in Gary's childhood when they were homeless. His mom offered him money to take out the trash, but she never paid him. That taught him that money was never going to show up. Bio: After Dr. Gary Salyer’s first divorce, he vowed that his next marriage would be different. So when his second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons he was devastated. He felt like an utter, complete failure. But rather than give in, he was determined to find another way. He committed to not being that guy who bounced from marriage to marriage, never really learning anything. So he dedicated himself to doing the deep research about all things love. He read, researched, furthered his education in the field, talked to experts and to people he loved. Most of all he did the deep transformation work that unlocked his heart and released his soul to love as he had always imagined. Love — and how to make it lasting – became his life’s highest calling—not just for himself, but others. In so doing, he has developed a powerful and effective methodology to make it “Safe to Love Again” for those who may have even given up hope. Because of his innovative new approach that rewires brains for secure love, singles and couples experience deep, lasting shifts that happen in easy, natural ways. Therapists are even saying his new approach will ‘change the way therapists do therapy.’ The author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve, Dr. Salyer also offers experiential, interactive programs through his Safe to Love Again™ Workshop, and Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio and Coast to Coast AM. Highlights from this episode: Link to the episode page How money helps Gary get his soul's message out. The test that predicted his divorce. Our childhood security beliefs cause issues in adult life. How to upgrade our thought patterns. Attachment theory. The book - Safe to Love Again The story of Paul and why he got divorced. Creating a secure base in our children. Daniel's story of being cut off. Stephanie's story of how her love life and business life were tied together. How do we learn to love and to be loved? The questions to ask your significant other every week. How do we transform ourselves? garysalyer.com Face Book : https://www.facebook.com/GaryDSalyer (Book Page)https://www.facebook.com/SafetoLoveAgain Twitter : https://twitter.com/GaryDSalyer LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/gary-d-salyer-ph-d/8/93a/8a5 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.gary.salyer/ Richer Soul Life Beyond Money. You got rich, now what? Let's talk about your journey to more a purposeful, intentional, amazing life. Where are you going to go and how are you going to get there? Let's figure that out together. At the core is the financial well being to be able to do what you want, when you want, how you want. It's about personal freedom! Thanks for listening! If you like the show please leave a review on iTunes: http://bit.do/richersoul https://www.facebook.com/richersoul http://richersoul.com/ rocky@richersoul.com Any financial advice is for educational purposes only and you should consult with an expert for your specific needs.
Dr. Gary Salyer is the author of the new book Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. For the last decade, Dr. Salyer has been in private practice offering clients heart-centered transformation so they can re-write the rules for love in their brains and step into the most loving version of themselves. He is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ Retreat. Dr. Salyer offers a unique blend of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), the "Family Systems" approach and Attachment Theory, the science of intimate relationships. More information about the guest can be found at http://garysalyer.com
After two failed marriages, Dr. Gary Salyer dedicated himself to research and transformational work to unlock the heart and release his soul to love again. On today’s show, Dr. Salyer will share his views on lasting love, and how it is possible even for those who may have given up hope. The author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve, Dr. Gary Salyer also offers experiential, interactive programs through his Safe to Love Again™ Workshop, and Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio and Coast to Coast AM. Find out more at garysalyer.com.
After two failed marriages, Dr. Gary Salyer dedicated himself to research and transformational work to unlock the heart and release his soul to love again. On today's show, Dr. Salyer will share his views on lasting love, and how it is possible even for those who may have given up hope. The author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve, Dr. Gary Salyer also offers experiential, interactive programs through his Safe to Love Again™ Workshop, and Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio and Coast to Coast AM. Find out more at garysalyer.com.
Dr. Gary Salyer is an expert in attachment theory and through that expertise, he helps people understand how their brains are causing their life experiences. He has developed a theory of how people create loving relationships. He’s studied under some of the most brilliant minds in the relationship field, including Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Daniel Siegel and Terry Real. He is the author of ‘Safe To Love Again’ and is the creator of the Safe to Love Again Workshop as well as the Extraordinary Couples and Extraordinary Singles Retreats. Listen & Subscribe on: iTunes / Stitcher / Podbean / Overcast / Spotify Contact Info Website: www.GarySalyer.com Book: www.SafeToLoveAgain.com Most Influential Person Dan Siegel www.DrDanSiegel.com Effect on Emotions Mindfulness has calmed me down and I can be a type A, so that's a good thing. Thoughts on Breathing Breathing is how I reset my system. It tells me I can be safe with something. It helps me get into my body and that's the one thing I wasn't allowed as a child. Breathing is a wonderful reminder that my body is my partner. Suggested Resources Book: Safe To Love Again by Gary Salyer Book: Rewire Your Brain For Love by Marsha Lucas App: Oprah and Deepak App https://chopracentermeditation.com/mobileapp Free Gift Become more calm, focused and happy by reading the top 12 books recommended on the Mindfulness Mode Podcast. This free 14-page ebook entitled '12 Must-Read Mindfulness Books' outlines each of the top books recommended by guests on the show. Get your digital copy now at MindfulnessMode.com/top12books
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SPEAKER BIO:Dr. Gary D. Salyer is a master transformational relationship coach who helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. This allows amazing shifts to happen in a very short period of time so that people can have the extraordinary relationship they deserve. Dr. Salyer speaks to a national audience as a featured expert and various celebrity TV and radio shows such as Hay House Radio. His life purpose is to change ‘a generation’s fate with love.’Dr. Gary is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ Retreat. He is the author of the forthcoming book, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. Dr. Gary offers a unique blend of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Bert Hellinger's "Family Systems" approach and Attachment Theory, the science of relationships. For more information, go to www.garysalyer.com.Visit www.LuciaGabriela.com to access your complementary Awakening Discovery Call to explore what is going on in your life, relationship and/or intimacy that is holding you back from living the life you desire. After gaining clarity and insights, if you are interested to learn more about how I can help you, I will be glad to answer any questions regarding any of my one on one sessions, programs, immersions and retreats that may be a fit for you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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SPEAKER BIO:Dr. Gary D. Salyer is a master transformational relationship coach who helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. This allows amazing shifts to happen in a very short period of time so that people can have the extraordinary relationship they deserve. Dr. Salyer speaks to a national audience as a featured expert and various celebrity TV and radio shows such as Hay House Radio. His life purpose is to change ‘a generation’s fate with love.’Dr. Gary is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ Retreat. He is the author of the forthcoming book, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. Dr. Gary offers a unique blend of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Bert Hellinger's "Family Systems" approach and Attachment Theory, the science of relationships. For more information, go to www.garysalyer.com.Visit www.LuciaGabriela.com to access your complementary Awakening Discovery Call to explore what is going on in your life, relationship and/or intimacy that is holding you back from living the life you desire. After gaining clarity and insights, if you are interested to learn more about how I can help you, I will be glad to answer any questions regarding any of my one on one sessions, programs, immersions and retreats that may be a fit for you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorTRAUMA-BONDING: Why You Create Toxic Bonds and How To Release ItA conversation between me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, and Dr. Gary Salyer, author of the upcoming book, Safe to Love Again. Are you so attached to someone that you are "hooked on hope" that one day they will treat you better? That's really common, and a bit difficult to step away from, I know. That "hooked on hope" can erode into trauma-bonding.What is trauma-bonding? "the misuse of fear, excitement, sexual feelings, and sexual physiology to entangle another person."*1"a strong emotional attachment between an abused person and his or her abuser, formed as a result of the cycle of violence."*2Now that you see those, do you relate that to what has happened to you with a partner, parent, or ex?Trauma-bonding is a real thing! And you can do something about it. That's what Dr. Gary Salyer and I discuss today. You need to know this, for yourself, your children, and your friends, too.Guest, Dr. Gary Salyer, talks about the six rights you have in life, and how having or not having them will make all the difference in creating healthy relationships. Dr. Salyer is the author of Safe to Love Again, an upcoming book that can uplift you if you've ever been deeply hurt by a relationship.More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a master transformational relationship coach, Dr. Gary helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains.Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.Smart, savvy, professional women in their thirties, forties and fifties who are tired of the heartache in their love lives are resonating with the message of ‘safe to love again.’ Gary’s biggest passion is to help both singles and couples discover how they can have a loving sweetheart lying beside them at night, rather than a lonely pillow or a frustrated, distant partner.Today's episode will give you insights into:why you might have been been susceptible to trauma-bondingwhat is secure attachmentwhat is insecure attachmenthow you can see more clearly and step away from your abuserwhy it is important to realize that this is emotional abuse Find Dr. Salyer at GarySalyer.com, Facebook You can pre-order his new book, Safe To Love Again, on his website. I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.Let's talk soon. I can help. Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE for only $97.I hope this empowers you to make positive changes NOW.Talk soon.RhobertaRhoberta Shaler, PhD,The Relationship Help DoctorForRelationshipHelp.comP.S. Subscribe to my newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.FINDING MY CONTENT USEFUL? BE A PATREON SUPPORTER AND GET FURTHER GREAT BENEFITS...like access to a Secret Facebook Group, my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy program, and monthly "Ask Me Anything" calls.Patreon.com/RhobertaShalerCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comPodcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctorYou can also listen to the last 32 episodes of Save Your Sanity on Mental Health News Radio Network. That's a great place to get in-depth insights for shoring up mental and emotional health of all kinds.#Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #stopenabling #difficultpeople #enablingabuse #scaredtoleavemyabuser #DrGarySalyer*1 Samsel, Michael (2008). "Trauma Bonding". www.abuseandrelationships.org. Michael Samsel LMHC. Archived from the original on May 10, 2018*2Wendy Austin; Mary Ann Boyd. Psychiatric and Mental Health Nursing for Canadian Practice. Lippincott Williams & Wilkins; 1 January 2010. ISBN 978-0-7817-9593-7. p. 67. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#17 The "We" in Wellness Interview with Dr. Gary Salyer What do health and love have to do with each other? What is the “We in Wellness?” Learn from Love Expert, Dr. Gary Salyer (www.GarySalyer.com) as he shares enlightening information about how to nurture a loving relationship. (See below for Dr. Gary’s credentials.) Here is what you will discover in this episode of Health Matters Podcast: How taking care of you provides nourishment for your love relationship. What is the third entity in a love relationship and how do you take care of this entity? What are the risks of letting yourself get depleted, and how does this impact your love relationship? What health risks are associated with conflict and contempt in your primary relationship? What practical steps you can take to help your primary relationship flourish with health and vitality. What is your GPS of feeling secure and loved? When we feel… welcomed with joy worthy of our needs and nourished cherished and protected empowered with choice Get Rosie's free download for this podcast “Practical Steps to Put the We Into Wellness”. At Gary's Website you can download Love Notes. Links mentioned in this episode www.GarySalyer.com Podcast details Click here to subscribe via RSS (non-iTunes feed) Note - there is no transcript for this interview podcast. Bio for Gary D. Salyer, Ph.D. Dr. Gary D. Salyer is a master transformational relationship coach who helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. This allows amazing shifts to happen in a very short period of time so that people can have the extraordinary relationship they deserve. Dr. Salyer speaks to a national audience as a featured expert and various celebrity TV and radio shows such as Hay House Radio. His life purpose is to change ‘a generation’s fate with love.’ Dr. Gary is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ Retreat. He is the author of the forthcoming book, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. Dr. Gary offers a unique blend of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Bert Hellinger's "Family Systems" approach and Attachment Theory, the science of relationships. For more information, go to www.garysalyer.com.
‘The biggest treasure in the world is to have a woman who is your divine complement, who loves you, who has your back … and you make each other your highest priorities—there’s magic in that.’ Dr. Gary Salyer is a master transformational relationship coach. His signature programs include the Safe to Love Again Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples Retreat, and he is the author of the forthcoming book Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Attract Your Soul Mate. Dr. Gary is a well-known speaker and expert panelist on The Great Love Debate, and he is on a mission to help people rewrite the rules for love in their brains and attract the relationship they deserve! Today, Dr. Gary joins Emerald to explain how his own experience with divorce called him to his current work and his all-in commitment to understanding how to prepare the brain for love. He shares the necessity of both clearing out negativity AND inviting in warmth to attract the love you deserve. Dr. Gary discusses how to wire your brain for love, the way your partner image is influenced by past pain, and how to recognize when love is counterfeit. Listen in for Dr. Gary’s profound insight around finding your divine complement and embracing your feelings to show up as a better man for the people you love. What You Will Learn How Dr. Gary’s own divorce experience led to his current work Dr. Gary’s all-in commitment to preparing the brain for love The importance of releasing past pain AND creating the love you deserve The three keys to wiring your brain for love Empathy Calm Positive partner image How your partner image is influenced by past pain The four feelings or rights of genuine love Welcomed with joy Worthy, nourished Appreciated, protected Empowered with choice How to identify when love is counterfeit The connection between the right brain and the body Why embracing your feelings makes you a better man Dr. Gary’s insight on finding your divine complement Connect with Dr. Gary Salyer Dr. Gary’s Website Dr. Gary on Facebook Dr. Gary on Twitter Suggest a Guest If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen Connect with Emerald GreenForest Emerald’s Website Emerald on LinkedIn Emerald on Twitter Email: listeners@menonpurposepodcast.com This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.
Dr. Gary D. Salyer is a master transformational relationship coach who helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. This allows amazing shifts to happen in a very short period of time so that people can have the extraordinary relationship they deserve. Dr. Salyer speaks to a national audience as a featured expert and various celebrity TV and radio shows such as Hay House Radio. His life purpose is to change ‘a generation's fate with love.' Dr. Gary is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ Retreat. He is the author of the forthcoming book, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. Dr. Gary offers a unique blend of NLP, Bert Hellinger's "Family Systems" approach and Attachment Theory, the science of relationships. For more information, go to www.garysalyer.com.
EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorATTACHMENT: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES SIDEWAYS AND WHY THAT MATTERSGuest: Gary Salyer, PhD, author of Safe To Love Again More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a master transformational relationship coach, Dr. Gary helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains.Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.CONNECT WITH DR. GARY SALYER at GarySalyer.comCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorATTACHMENT: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES SIDEWAYS AND WHY THAT MATTERSGuest: Gary Salyer, PhD, author of Safe To Love Again More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a master transformational relationship coach, Dr. Gary helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains.Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.CONNECT WITH DR. GARY SALYER at GarySalyer.comCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Are you so attached to someone that you are "hooked on hope" that one day they will treat you better? Today, we talk about trauma-bonding and why you need to know about it.Guest, Dr. Gary Salyer, talks about the six rights you have in life, and how having or not having them will make all the difference in creating healthy relationships. Dr. Salyer is the author of Safe to Love Again, a book you absolutely need if you've ever been deeply hurt by a relationship.More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a master transformational relationship coach, Dr. Gary helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains.Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.Smart, savvy, professional women in their thirties, forties and fifties who are tired of the heartache in their love lives are resonating with the message of ‘safe to love again.’ Gary’s biggest passion is to help both singles and couples discover how they can have a loving sweetheart lying beside them at night, rather than a lonely pillow or a frustrated, distant partner. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Are you so attached to someone that you are "hooked on hope" that one day they will treat you better? Today, we talk about trauma-bonding and why you need to know about it.Guest, Dr. Gary Salyer, talks about the six rights you have in life, and how having or not having them will make all the difference in creating healthy relationships. Dr. Salyer is the author of Safe to Love Again, a book you absolutely need if you've ever been deeply hurt by a relationship.More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a master transformational relationship coach, Dr. Gary helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains.Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again™ Workshop and the Extraordinary Couples™ and Extraordinary Singles™ Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.Smart, savvy, professional women in their thirties, forties and fifties who are tired of the heartache in their love lives are resonating with the message of ‘safe to love again.’ Gary’s biggest passion is to help both singles and couples discover how they can have a loving sweetheart lying beside them at night, rather than a lonely pillow or a frustrated, distant partner. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.