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Women in their 30s, 40s, and beyond fall into toxic relationship cycles shaped by people-pleasing, anxious attachment, generational trauma, and self-sacrifice. They shrink themselves, mute their needs, and sacrifice their worth in an attempt to maintain peace or avoid rejection—only to end up with resentment, eroded self-esteem, and unfulfilling partnerships.Dr. Sarah explains why traditional sacrifice is not the answer—and introduces a powerful reframe: sacrifice is not about losing yourself, but about letting go of comfort to step into long-term alignment with your authentic self.Key takeaways from this episode:The difference between unhealthy self-sacrifice that destroys attraction, respect, and self-worth vs. healthy sacrifice that fuels growth and alignmentWhy you must sacrifice the fear of rejection to be fully authentic and attract love built on honestyHow to sacrifice instant gratification (toxic relationship patterns, trauma bonds, and dopamine-driven attention-seeking) in order to protect your long-term self-respect and emotional healthThe importance of sacrificing old core beliefs and subconscious programs that keep you trapped in cycles of self-doubt, self-criticism, and unhealthy relationshipsHow strategies like somatic therapy, hypnosis, breathwork, and nervous system reprogramming can help shift deep patterns and unlock true relational freedomThe paradox of love? The less you sacrifice your authentic self, the more love thrives. By making the right type of sacrifice, you preserve your self-worth, raise your standards, and naturally attract the right partner—someone who loves the real, unedited you.Toxic relationship cycles, self-worth in relationships, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, people-pleasing in relationships, fear of rejection, instant gratification in relationships, trauma bonds, generational trauma, subconscious reprogramming, somatic therapy, breathwork healing, hypnosis for relationships, building secure attachment, finding the right partner, healthy sacrifice in relationships, self-sabotage in dating.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy https://www.healtraumabonding.com https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com
SPOILER WARNING: This episode contains major spoilers for the Netflix documentary "Unknown Number: The High School Catfish" Whitney analyzes the Netflix documentary by exploring the psychology behind extreme parental abuse and manipulation. She examines the case through the lens of child psychology, trauma bonding, and the devastating impact when a parent orchestrates elaborate schemes to control and isolate their child while positioning themselves as the sole source of comfort and support. Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles. Join the Family Cyclebreakers Club Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhit Follow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft Order Whitney's book, Toxic Positivity This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. 00:00 Introduction to the Unknown Number Case 08:11 The Shocking Revelation: When the Abuser Becomes the Comforter 15:27 Understanding Abusive Parents Who Don't See Themselves as Abusive 21:07 The Predatory Behavior and Hidden Motivations 23:26 Trauma Bonding and Why Children Protect Their Abusers 27:43 The Difficulty of Admitting Your Parent Harmed You Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is your therapist your phone? With the rise of Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and other platforms, millions are turning to social media for relationship advice, trauma healing tips, and attachment style education. But while self-help content can feel empowering, it often creates the illusion of healing without delivering real transformation.If this episode resonates with you, book in a call: https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callDr. Sarah explores why scrolling through relationship reels, attachment style posts, and narcissism content is not the same as therapy. She explains how algorithms push extreme and simplified messages—leading to self-diagnosis, confirmation bias, and avoidance of real healing work. Social media might increase awareness, but without embodiment and professional guidance, most people remain stuck in toxic cycles, anxious attachment, or trauma bonds.Key insights from this episode:Why social media advice on attachment styles, narcissism, trauma, and boundaries can be misleadingHow scrolling triggers dopamine hits that mimic progress but keep you stuckThe difference between education vs. true healingWhy oversimplified “therapy language” online fuels anxiety and self-diagnosisThe importance of somatic therapy, breathwork, and nervous system healing for breaking trauma patternsHow reprogramming your subconscious mind and building secure attachment leads to lasting relationship successIf you've been relying on social media as your “therapist” but still feel anxious, avoidant, or stuck in harmful relationship patterns, this episode will help you understand why—and show you the path to real, embodied healing.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy https://www.healtraumabonding.com https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com
We dive into the rising trend of egg freezing, IVF, and egg donation, why more women are postponing motherhood, and the hidden emotional and psychological costs behind these choices. Dr. Sarah breaks down the impact of attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, or secure—on dating, long-term relationships, and parenting.You'll hear why simply focusing on “red flags” or over-negotiating in relationships keeps many women stuck in harmful cycles, leading to emotional burnout, hyper-independence, and even single parenthood. More importantly, Dr. Sarah shares how to shift from anxiety or avoidance into secure attachment, rebuild self-worth, and attract the right partner for a healthy marriage and family life.Whether you're a high-achieving professional, entrepreneur, or CEO trying to “do it all,” this conversation offers clarity on navigating love, fertility decisions, and building a secure, lasting partnership.egg freezing, IVF, egg donation, self-worth, attachment styles, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, secure relationships, harmful relationship cycles, marriage problems, women in their 30s and 40s, high-achieving women, dating red flags, building healthy relationships, relationship psychologist, single parenthood, fertility and relationships.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy https://www.healtraumabonding.com https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com
Send us a textIn this episode of the Relaxing To Love podcast, Teal Riege explores the reasons why emotionally healthy men may initially feel boring compared to the excitement of emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the impact of nervous system imprinting on attraction, the difference between trauma bonding and real connection, and how to retrain oneself to embrace healthy love. Teal emphasizes the importance of recognizing emotional safety and building a secure foundation for relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their attachment styles and patterns in love.Takeaways:Emotionally healthy men can feel boring due to past trauma.Nervous system imprinting affects our attraction to partners.Stability in relationships may feel less exciting than chaos.Recognizing emotional safety is crucial for healthy connections.Trauma bonding creates a cycle of craving chaos and drama.True connection is calm and emotionally nourishing.Craving excitement can indicate an unhealthy attachment style.Retraining your nervous system can help embrace healthy love.Building attraction takes time and emotional safety.You are not broken; healing is a process.Schedule Your 30-Minute Relationship Audit Today: https://calendly.com/tealeriege/auditFollow Teal on Insta Here:https://www.instagram.com/tealelisabeth_/Download Teal's Relax into Love Guided Meditations here: https://www.tealelisabeth.com/meditationsJump into the Love Life Accelerator Here:https://www.tealelisabeth.com/accelerator Learn more about her Soul Rebirth Course here: https://www.tealelisabeth.com/soul-rebirthLearn more about her Sacred Union Course here:https://www.tealelisabeth.com/sacred-unionEmail Teal anytime here: teal@relax-into-love.comSupport the show
https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call On the outside, success looks effortless—but behind closed doors, many high achievers secretly battle fears of rejection, failure, and never being “enough.” In this episode, Dr. Sarah uncovers the hidden link between ambition, trauma, and relationships—and how survival mode quietly runs the show. Dealing with issues:trauma and ambitionhidden relationship struggleswhy high achievers feel unfulfilledbreaking free from survival modetrauma bondingtrauma cyclesemotional regulationnervous system healingSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy https://www.healtraumabonding.com https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com
You've built a life that looks "perfect on paper".And yet… why does it still feel like something's missing?Many women who have succeeded in life, getting the job, promotion, and status may appear confident in certain parts in life, though behind the scenes they feel broken, shattered, and unsure of themselves. They struggle to hold boundaries, relationships feel difficult, they constantly feel attacked or criticised and they're frightened of not doing or being enough. The fear of rejection is real. There is a fear of failure, and the constant fear of not being “enough.” These fears don't just affect business success; they shape the way you show up in your relationships, too.In this episode, I discuss the surprising link and difference between self-confidence and self-worth when it comes to ambition, trauma, love, and and survival anxiety show up in personal and professional life. https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callhttps://healtraumabonding.comSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy https://www.healtraumabonding.com https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com
Why High Achievers Secretly Struggle Behind Closed Doors Many ambitious, successful professionals seem to “have it all” — yet behind closed doors, they quietly battle low self-worth, relationship struggles, and the constant fear of not being enough. In this episode, Dr. Sarah reveals why high achievers often hustle for validation, how hidden trauma cycles sabotage love and self-confidence, and the key to breaking free from survival mode. If you've ever felt like success on paper doesn't match how you feel inside, this is the conversation you need to hear.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
On paper, you're thriving—career success, financial stability, the lifestyle you've worked so hard for. But behind closed doors, the fear of rejection, failure, and “not being enough” quietly sabotages your love life and self-worth. In this episode, Dr. Sarah unpacks the hidden trauma cycles that keep high achievers stuck in survival mode—hustling for validation at work and in relationships. Discover how to break free from fear-driven patterns, rewire your nervous system, and finally create love and success that feels aligned and sustainable. Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
In episode 294 of Fitness & Sushi, we pull back the curtain on one of diet culture's most damaging exports: The Biggest Loser. What looked like “just TV” was actually cultural programming that rewired a generation of women to believe their worth was tied to shrinking their bodies. Contestants were pushed past the point of safety, trainers used shame and abuse as “motivation,” and viewers absorbed it all as truth. The fallout? Broken metabolisms, broken trust in our bodies, and decades of food and body obsession. In this episode — Fit for TV: How The Biggest Loser Broke Us — and How We Heal — you'll learn…
Betrayal doesn't just break trust with others—it shatters your trust in yourself. In this episode, Dr. Sarah explores the hidden cycle of self-doubt, blame, and reassurance-seeking that keeps high achievers stuck in toxic relationships. Discover why rebuilding self-trust is the key to healing from infidelity, lies, or emotional betrayal—and how a simple “self-trust audit” can rewire your confidence, emotional safety, and relationship choices. Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
You know the relationship isn't healthy. Your friends see it. You feel it. So why can't you let go? Maybe you've said something like:"They're not perfect, but we have a deep connection.""When it's good, it's really good.""I know I should leave, but I just can't." Today we're diving deep into the neuroscience of trauma bonding: why your brain gets hooked on the highs and lows, what it's trying to protect you from, and how to break free from cycles that feel like love but aren't.____________________________ Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-you-stay-the-brain-science-of-trauma-bonding-and-how-to-break-free Try this Self-Assessment Quiz and Reflection Guide: Is It Love or a Trauma Bond? https://abbymedcalf.com/trauma-bonding-assessmentGet Therapy-to-Go bundle! Join Abby's One Love Collective: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack or purchase it here. Learn how to create and hold healthy, loving boundaries with my book Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries or The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbook Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book____________________________ Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you'll find past episodes. Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you've got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop Say hello on social:Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthrivingLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthrivingYouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Often people work so hard to “get others to be convinced of why the boundary is important to them”.That's where you fall.Boundaries are not about convincing other people to change and to comply.It's about what you want and need, and you going ahead and executing the consequence.People often don't want to do this because they're too frightened of becoming an inconvenience to others.I'm talking to you people pleasers and type A high achievers.Boundaries are meant to be bridges to relationships:You WILL lose people by executing boundaries. But that's ok - they weren't your people anyway.You WILL keep those people who are designed for you. Boundaries are a litmus test to your relationships.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Trauma Bonding—a term that's often misunderstood and sometimes avoided because naming it means facing the abuse beneath it. In this episode, I break down what a trauma bond is (and isn't), why it's more than “shared trauma,” and how it functions as an emotional and physical addiction. Then, we talk about something that might feel uncomfortable: the places where you do have control once you've recognized you're trauma bonded.I cover:The truth about intermittent reinforcement and why it keeps you hookedWhy naming a trauma bond matters for healingHow to treat it like an addiction without shaming yourselfSmall, doable ways to create space and reclaim your powerHow to stop looping on them and start focusing on youResources & Links:Join the Patreon: Exclusive bonus content, Q&A, unreleased material — https://patreon.com/YouarenotcrazyTrauma Bonding Playlist: Every episode I've recorded on this topic — https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6iOynoEO7SelaOTe2yzne0?si=CvyvQYn9QWutSgYAJmG-8w&pi=o4AQRKjrQ_mh5 Coaching & Support: emotionalabusecoach.comSupport the showJoin the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
Send us a textToday we discuss narcissism and trauma-bonding.Check us out atgraceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!Donate to support a church/school multipurpose building and a motorcycle for the missionary to the Maassia tribe. https://www.purecharity.com/fundraisers/sc-africa-talley (We only need to raise about $4800 for this mission.)Support the show
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Send us a text(Audio from Instagram Live – sound quality may vary)Why do so many strong, soulful women stay in relationships that slowly destroy them?In this raw and unfiltered Instagram Live conversation, Dimple Bindra and guest Annisa dive into the heartbreaking truth: Women aren't staying because they're weak, they're staying because they were taught that self-abandonment is love.This episode may feel uncomfortable. That's the point. It's a call to wake up, speak up, and rise.
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Send us a textToday we discuss: Overt and Covert Narcissism - Trauma-bonding Part 2Check us out atgraceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!Donate to support a church/school multipurpose building and a motorcycle for the missionary to the Maassia tribe. https://www.purecharity.com/fundraisers/sc-africa-talley (We only need to raise about $4800 for this mission.)Support the show
Not seeking approval, not chasing validation, not working endlessly to be admired, loved, or appreciated—who are you then?For many of us, especially those raised in emotionally unstable or high-pressure environments, our identity has been shaped by what others needed from us. We've learned to do in order to be seen. Academic success, over-giving, people-pleasing—these became our masks. And over time, our sense of self became entangled in applause, performance, and conditional love.This is especially true in codependent dynamics: “I need you to need me.” These relationships are built on mutual performance, not authenticity. We rescue to feel worthy. We stay needed to feel needed. But underneath it all, there's fear—who am I if I'm not saving, fixing, doing?The truth? That identity you're clinging to may not be yours at all. It's often a collection of inherited traumas, distorted beliefs, and someone else's wounds bleeding into your story.Healing starts by clearing those internalised stories. Even the subtle, sneaky “little t” traumas—chronic criticism, emotional absence, feeling never enough—shape our nervous system and relationship blueprint. And the work is to disentangle, to reclaim who you truly are without needing to earn your right to exist.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
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We hope you got massive value from this episode in supporting your self-worth growth and relationship repair. If you do want more support, please click here for a free consultation https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callIn this deeply personal episode, Dr. Sarah explores the hidden wounds that shape our sense of self-worth, especially in the context of healing from trauma bonds and unhealthy relationship patterns. Sharing her own story of frustration over a messy home while parenting, she uncovers how perfectionism and people-pleasing are often rooted in unresolved feelings of not being good enough and feeling unseen or unappreciated.What seems like a step backward—letting go of control—was actually a powerful level-up in emotional healing. Through conscious inner child work, Dr. Sarah reconnects with play, spontaneity, and acceptance, showing how embracing “mess” created joy, presence, and deeper connection with her daughter.She discusses how self-healing transforms not only your romantic relationships but also family and social dynamics. If you're struggling with people-pleasing, emotional burnout, or feeling invalidated, this episode will resonate. True healing doesn't come from “doing more” but from redefining worth, releasing control, and embodying your innate value.Tune in to learn how to level up emotionally, even if it initially looks like a step down—and discover the real meaning of a quantum leap in personal growth.Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
In this episode, Ross Rosenberg breaks down the complex and often misunderstood concept of trauma bonding — the deep emotional ties that form between codependents (or those with Self-Love Deficit Disorder™) and pathological narcissists. Drawing from his Human Magnet Syndrome framework, Ross explains how early attachment trauma shapes our adult relationship patterns, why we stay in harmful relationships, and how trauma creates a powerful but toxic bond that feels like love. If you're stuck in painful patterns and don't know why, this video may hold the answers.Support the showABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com. Facebook.com/TheCodependencyCure) Instagram (@rossrosenberg_slri) Twitter (@RossRosenberg1) and now…TikTok! (@RossRosenberg1)
Text a Message to the ShowToday we're talking to Dan Nash from the Human Trafficking Training Center and he's going to talk about the difficult encounters officers have with prostitutes who are controlled by traffickers and how they can be helped. In fact, right off the bat Dan is going to lay out the paradox that many trafficking victims find themselves in: they didn't willingly get into this life of prostitution… but they may not willingly leave it either. How does a cop navigate that? Dan Nash has answers and you're going to want to learn more.Resources:HumanTraffickingTrainingCenter.comMusic is by Wes HutchinsonHey Chaplain Podcast Episode 118Tags:Police, Abuse, Cartels, Coercion, Drugs, Education, Human Trafficking, Illicit Massage Businesses, Narcotics, Organized Crime, Prostitution, PTSD, Sex Workers, State Trooper, Stockholm Syndrome, Training, Trauma Bonding, Vice, Ozarks, Missouri, UtahSupport the showThanks for Listening! And, as always, pray for peace in our city.Subscribe/Follow here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-chaplain/id1570155168 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CGK9A3BmbFEUEnx3fYZOY Email us at: heychaplain44@gmail.comYou can help keep the show ad-free by buying me a virtual coffee!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/heychaplain
Do You Feel Single in Your Relationship?Ever feel completely alone—even while in a relationship or marriage? You're not alone. Many high-achieving individuals silently struggle with emotional disconnection, poor communication, and feeling unloved or misunderstood by their partner.In this episode, I dive into the painful experience of being emotionally single while physically coupled. We explore why two people can live under the same roof but feel worlds apart—how mismatched emotional states, different “truths,” and unspoken resentment create growing distance. I'll show you how most couples fall into the trap of blaming each other rather than externalizing the real issues.You'll learn powerful strategies to rebuild connection, improve communication, and invite empathy—without conflict. We talk about the importance of acting in love, not just feeling it, and how small mindset shifts can open the door to meaningful connection, mutual respect, and genuine intimacy again.If you're feeling stuck, isolated, or unheard in your relationship, this episode is for you. Listen in—and share it with someone who needs to hear it.We hope you got massive value from this episode in supporting your self-worth growth and relationship repair. If you do want more support, please click here for a free consultation https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
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We uncover the biggest hidden barrier to healing from trauma bonds, toxic relationships, insecure attachment styles, and codependency—your unconscious choice to suppress your self-worth.Dr. Sarah breaks down why so many high-achievers and emotionally intelligent individuals unknowingly compromise their self-worth in order to maintain harmful or emotionally unavailable relationships. Whether you have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, this episode helps you understand the emotional disconnect between your head and your heart when it comes to self-worth and healing.Key topics include:Why we choose to reduce our self-worth to maintain relationshipsThe emotional cost of people-pleasing, shrinking, and self-betrayalThe hidden "benefits" that keep you stuck in toxic relationship patternsFive major psychological shifts that happen during trauma bond recoveryHow attachment wounds affect your dating and relationship choicesWhy self-worth is a felt experience, not just a logical beliefHow to start rebuilding and embodying secure self-worth—whether you're single or in a relationshipThis episode is essential for anyone recovering from narcissistic abuse, emotional neglect, or toxic love, and who is ready to stop reliving the same relationship dynamics.
Why do intelligent, high-achieving women end up in toxic relationships with narcissists and emotionally unavailable men? In this episode, Dr. Sarah exposes the hidden emotional wounds driving successful women into trauma bonds—despite knowing better.You'll discover why relying on logic instead of emotions can keep you stuck in painful relationship patterns. Learn how anxious attachment, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and childhood trauma make you vulnerable to emotionally unavailable partners. If you're constantly trying to “fix” a relationship, striving to be “enough,” or ignoring red flags—this episode is for you.Dr. Sarah explains how emotional disconnection, not lack of intelligence, keeps you attracting the wrong partners. And most importantly—how to heal.Why high achievers attract narcissists, trauma bond, emotionally unavailable men, anxious attachment, toxic relationships, people-pleasing, relationship trauma healing, emotionally intelligent women, perfectionism in relationships, stop overgiving in love.We hope you got massive value from this episode in supporting your self-worth growth and relationship repair. If you do want more support, please click here for a free consultation https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Amy and Kat are feeling tired and in need of a reset. Enter: Sky Journaling! It’s a creative exercise that blends mindfulness with doodling and ends in some very honest cloud-inspired poems. They also break down the difference between pop psychology vs actual psychology, unpacking commonly used (especially on social media) terms like trauma bonding, gaslighting, and being triggered. And finally, inspired by a school activity Amy’s son is doing, they invite you to “find a win” (big or small) because sometimes, showing up at all is the victory. If you do the Sky Journaling homework assignment and you don’t mind if it gets shared on an upcoming episode then email it in: HeyThere@FeelingThingsPodcast.com Call and leave a voicemail: 877-207-2077 HOSTS: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy Kat Van Buren // @KatVanburenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Discover why high achievers often attract toxic relationships and form trauma bonds. Dr Sarah explores the hidden wounds of "not being enough," the fixer mindset, and the subconscious drive to seek validation through emotionally unavailable or critical partners. Learn how unresolved self-worth issues fuel attachment to harmful relationship dynamics, and why healing your inner narrative is key to breaking the trauma bond cycle. Ideal for professionals seeking healthier love, emotional stability, and deep relationship transformation. We hope you got massive value from this episode in supporting your self-worth growth and relationship repair. If you do want more support, please click here for a free consultation https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a one-sided relationship—where you're the fixer, the rescuer, the peacekeeper—this episode is your wake-up call. In this powerful episode, best-selling author and codependency recovery expert Lisa A. Romano uncovers the invisible thread between childhood emotional neglect and codependent behaviors in adulthood. If you: Feel overly responsible for other people's emotions Stay in toxic relationships hoping things will change Obsess over your partner's moods Feel like you've lost your sense of self ...you're not broken. You're running survival patterns wired into your nervous system long ago—when love meant self-abandonment, and your feelings didn't matter. This isn't your fault. But now that you know, it becomes your power. Lisa explains how codependency is a subconscious trauma response rooted in unmet emotional needs and a lack of safety in childhood. We mistakenly learn that love must be earned through fixing others—especially the ones who hurt us. But this only perpetuates the pain and draws us toward emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partners. In this episode, you'll discover: How early childhood trauma wires your brain for codependency Why rescuing others is a subconscious survival strategy Why narcissists and toxic partners are drawn to codependents How to spot the thinking traps of codependency Actionable steps to reconnect with your authentic self Whether you're healing from a codependent marriage or waking up to your past for the first time, this episode will help you break free from emotional enmeshment and start living from a place of empowerment and emotional clarity.
Click on this link to discover more on healing: https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-callWhy do high-achieving women attract narcissists and emotionally unavailable partners? In this episode, Dr. Sarah uncovers how successful women—driven, disciplined, and emotionally intelligent—often fall into trauma bonds and toxic relationship cycles. She explains how childhood wounds, people-pleasing, anxious attachment, and the need for validation make high performers more vulnerable to narcissistic abuse.If you're constantly overgiving, fixing, or attracting emotionally distant men, this episode is for you. Learn why your success doesn't protect you from relationship pain—and how to stop repeating the same patterns.Dr. Sarah shares 5 essential tips to break free from toxic relationships, rebuild self-worth, and attract emotionally secure, healthy love.High achievers attract narcissists, trauma bonding, emotionally unavailable men, anxious attachment, people-pleasing, toxic relationships, healing relationship trauma, secure relationshipsSupport the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
Support the showWelcome to Trauma Bonding to Relationship Success with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here ttps://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) DaviesInstagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy
"Just because it feels intense does not mean it's love. Sometimes it's simply your wounds shaking hands." What if the intense connection you keep chasing… isn't actually love? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep into the difference between true, soul-aligned love — and trauma bonding disguised as passion. So many of us have been conditioned to equate emotional chaos with chemistry. But real love? It doesn't spike your anxiety. It soothes it. I break down how early wounds shape our patterns in relationships, why we confuse familiarity with fate, and how the nervous system plays a hidden role in who we're drawn to. I'll also share personal stories, raw truth, and grounded spiritual insights to help you recognize when you're stuck in a trauma loop — and how to finally break free. If you've ever asked: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of relationship?” “Why does love feel so exhausting?” …this episode will give you clarity — and a path to healing. You'll learn how to rewire your nervous system, reconnect with your inner child, and feel the difference between drama and devotion. This isn't about blame. It's about liberation. Tune in now and discover what real, healthy, soul-nourishing love actually feels like — and how to stop calling chaos your soulmate. Timestamps: (00:03:36) - Why Intensity Isn't Always Love. (00:06:32) - Nervous System Conditioning: Why We Choose Familiar Pain. (00:09:01) - What a Trauma Bond Really Feels Like. (00:12:07) - The Truth: Trauma Bond ≠ Love. (00:14:10) - Real-Life Story: Kute's Experience Meeting His Wife. (00:16:44) - How to Recognize Real Love. And What it's not. (00:20:11) - Reparenting: Healing the Inner Child. (00:21:18) - Breaking the Cortisol Loop and Restoring Safety. (00:25:39) - When Ordinary Moments Feel Sacred. Some questions I ask: Is the love you feel calming or chaotic? Are you truly in love or addicted to feeling wanted? How can you tell if you're stuck in a trauma loop disguised as passion? Why does love have to be hard? Is your “type” truly your preference or just your nervous system's conditioning? In this episode, you will learn about: How to recognize the difference between real love and trauma bonding to stop confusing emotional chaos for a soul connection. Why intense chemistry isn't always true love and how your nervous system may be drawn to familiar pain. The key signs that you're trapped in a trauma loop and how to break free from toxic relationship patterns. What secure, grounded love feels like, so you can attract healthy, lasting relationships. How to reparent your inner child to heal emotional wounds and stop choosing emotionally unavailable partners. Powerful tools to calm your nervous system and create the safety needed to experience real intimacy. Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com
On today's show, I discuss trauma bonding, what it is, how it forms, and why it feels so powerful. We take a clinical and grounded look at the psychological mechanisms behind trauma bonding, from intermittent reinforcement to early survival adaptations shaped by attachment wounds. I break down how these patterns show up in both vanilla relationships and kink dynamics, where power exchange can sometimes blur the line between healthy vulnerability and trauma reenactment. We cover the red flags to watch for, why smart and self-aware people can get pulled into these cycles, and what it takes to begin breaking them. If you have ever wondered why unstable relationships can feel so compelling, this episode will give you a deeper understanding.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Trauma #Bonding
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Francey gives us a solo talk today, as the Diddy trial continues. This time, Francey discusses trauma bonding and its role in Diddy's long reign of terror.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Episode #155: Navigating the world of podcasting can be daunting, and trust me, I know firsthand. Back in 2020, my own podcasting hurdles planted the seed for what would become Iconic Nation Media Studios, a sanctuary for budding creators seeking guidance and a space to bring their visions to life. Joined by the insightful Yvette, we share our journey from audio-only beginnings to embracing the essential role of video content, all while persevering through a whirlwind of challenges. Our aim? To offer turnkey solutions that lift the veil of complexity, allowing talents to focus on what truly matters: sharing their voices with the world. Creating a dedicated podcast studio wasn't just a business move; it was a labor of love. From the search for the perfect location to drawing inspiration from a friend's Pilates studio, every step was about crafting a haven where content creators could thrive. We reminisce about the collaborative efforts and the unwavering support from family and friends that breathed life into our vision. Our studio promises more than just a place to record—it's a private, white-glove environment designed to elevate the content creation process, tailored uniquely to each client's needs. Passion and purpose aren't just buzzwords—they're the driving forces behind our work. I recount the story of hiring someone whose enthusiasm was simply infectious, proving how aligning work with personal passion can make all the difference. We explore the significance of finding happiness in professional endeavors, especially after facing personal loss, and how these shared experiences can forge stronger, more authentic workplace connections. Amidst the humor, chaos, and heartfelt stories, there's a profound appreciation for the incredible team and network that has supported us through this emotional and rewarding journey. Chapters: (00:00) In Studio With Kimberly Lovi (07:38) Building a Podcast Studio (20:14) Finding Passion and Purpose in Work (26:26) Building a Successful Podcast Studio (35:50) Candid Chat About Podcasting Success Follow Kimberly on Instagram and TikTok @kimberlylovi or @iconicnationmedia WATCH us on YouTube and view our brand new studio!
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Staying During Abuse!In Episode 278 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we confront the painful truth about staying during abuse. Why do people stay? What role does trauma, fear, or love play? This episode offers real talk, compassionate insight, and a path toward safety and healing.
This week on The Traumedy Show, we're serving personal drama and pop culture chaos. Rachel drops brand new receipts on The Weatherman, confirming once and for all that yes—he was cheating, and no—we do not forgive him. We also introduce Trending Trauma, a new segment where we discuss all things pop culture. This week: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 2, Battle Camp and our applications to reality TV shows. Then we read a Trauma Bonding submission that takes workplace romance to hell and back, featuring a two-timing narcissist who juggled two women for eight months. This episode also marks the Season 2 finale of The Traumedy Show! We're taking a short break for a bunch of upcoming travel—but don't worry, Season 3 is coming in hot very soon.
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Send us a textSo many women whisper to themselves… “It wasn't that bad.” I know, because I used to be one of them.In this episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, I'm sharing a personal story and breaking down what covert abuse really looks like, the kind that doesn't leave bruises, but leaves you questioning your worth. I talk about trauma bonding, why women minimize emotional pain, and how the patriarchy teaches us to stay quiet and stay small.If you've ever felt like something was “off” in your relationship but couldn't explain it, this episode is for you.I'll guide you through:Naming the abuse no one talks aboutUnderstanding trauma bondingHow to take your power back, even if no one says sorrySimple ways to come back to yourself through breath, movement, and self-compassionYou're not broken.. you're awakening. And you don't have to heal alone.✨ Start with my free Healing Archetype Quiz
"I had no sexual energy. I couldn't feel anything. That's when I knew—we were siphoned."In this final and explosive interview of the Bewitched series, Baljit Rayat steps forward with a harrowing story that spans nearly two decades. As the first student to ever learn the Akashic Records from Betty, Baljit didn't just witness the rise of a spiritual leader—she lived through the full descent into chaos, control, and cult-like manipulation.What began in 2006 as a path of spiritual awakening and mentorship slowly evolved into a twisted entanglement of gaslighting, psychosis, and psychic entrapment. Baljit recounts the signs she missed, the energy shifts she ignored, and the moments when her body began showing symptoms—weight gain, lost libido, mental fog—of being psychically infiltrated. But nothing prepared her for the Santa Fe retreat, where psychodrama erupted, euphoria blurred into confusion, and something darker came through under the guise of sacred ritual.From being telepathically pressured to rejoin programs, Baljit unveils how Betty's tactics became coercive, paranoid, and surreal. She opens up about the soul-crushing aftermath, the moment she finally blocked Betty, and the freedom that followed.This episode is about reclaiming your energy, breaking the spell, and waking up to the truth.TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS(00:00) Intro(00:52) In Today's Episode...Baljit Rayat and the Final Chapter(02:11) Upcoming Episode: 11 Patterns of Manipulation and Personality Profiling(03:32) The Metamorphosis(05:02) Welcoming Baljit's Unique Perspective(07:10) Baljit's First Steps with Betty and Initial Red Flags(12:28) The Shift and The Pandemic Impact(17:51) Spiritual Psychosis and The Santa Fe Retreat(24:10) The Blue Lotus Tea and Mind Games(31:14) The Santa Fe Aftermath - Bye Betty, You're Hijacked(36:59) Croatia and The Male Entity(46:49) Cult-Like Behavior(52:57) Unveiling Hidden Transformations, Psychic Attacks, and Targeting(55:26) The Shift in Energy - Who's Above Betty?(58:06) Trauma Bonding, Infiltration, and Revelations(01:05:21) Psychological and Energetic Insights(01:07:47) The San Diego Trauma Reveal(01:16:28) Galactic Interference - The Portal is Open(01:23:49) Who Made You, Betty?(01:27:30) Betty's Training System Exposed(01:39:11) Where Do We Go From Here?**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD** When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world. The Metamorphosis starts its next round in just a few days. This is my groundbreaking, flagship program, and the path to discover your deeper purpose. Start making money doing what you love. Join today to get $500 OFF. And if you've done it before, you can take it again with an alumni special discount. CONTACT BALJITVisit her linktree to access all of her offerings and workCONTACT ROBYN drrobynmckay.com InstagramListen to She{ology}CONTACT ALYSEFinancial Freedom for Spiritual Entrepreneurs@alyse_breathesalysebreathes.com
Sara Lynne George is an accomplished freelance writer and published author renowned for her insightful books on trauma and toxic relationships, notably "Don't You Dare Text Him Back: Toxic Relationship Recovery," "I've Never Been to France, She/Her," and "I Ma OHW: The Bipolar Poet." Her writings have deeply resonated with many, especially in categories dealing with trauma and relationships. Sarah's unique perspective is drawn from extensive personal experiences, including overcoming trauma bonding and confronting the challenges of bipolar disorder. Episode Summary:Host Myrna Young engages with Sara Lynne George in a deep-dive discussion on the elusive concept of trauma bonding. Sara, who has herself overcome significant personal traumas, shares her experiences about addiction, navigating the challenging waters of high-end escorting, and surviving toxic relationships. Together, they dissect the signs of trauma bonding, distinguish it from genuine love, and explore the psychological underpinnings that make such bonds so hard to break.Sara elaborates on how past traumas, like sexual abuse, can shape adult relationships, leading many into cycles of toxic, addictive love. Sara provides a strategic guide to breaking free from such unhealthy attachments. This episode delves into her journey of addressing bipolar disorder, coping mechanisms gone awry, and reclaiming self-identity. Key Takeaways:Trauma bonding is an addictive attachment where individuals, despite abuse, feel reliant on their partner for emotional understoodness.Distinguishing love from codependency is crucial; needing someone differs vastly from desiring someone in a healthy relationship.Childhood trauma, especially sexual abuse, can persistently influence adult life, manifesting in self-deprecating choices and toxic relationship dynamics.Overcoming trauma bonds involves cutting off contact and redefining self-worth outside of the toxic relationship context.Mental health support and therapy can play pivotal roles in addressing underlying issues like bipolar disorder, leading to more stable, fulfilling lives.NordVPNGet your Exclusive NordVPN deal here → go to https://nordvpn.com/transform Podcast: Zuzu: All Grown Up To advertise on our podcast, visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/TransformyourMindor email kriti@youngandprofiting.com See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/
What if the party life you glamorized was actually a prison? What if the fast money came with chains you couldn't see? From Sin City to salvation, this episode highlights a survivor's journey. I'm pleased to introduce: Annie Lobert, a woman who has lived through it all—Vegas high-roller suites, millionaire clients, dangerous pimps, and near-death experiences—all before she found her true purpose. Once a high-end call girl navigating the dark world of s*x tr@fficking, Annie now dedicates her life to rescuing women from the very trap she barely escaped, we take a deep dive into the power of faith and redemption in rewriting your story. This is an episode that will open your eyes, shift your perspective, and challenge the way you see the world.