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Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
What Role Do Relationships Play In Healing Attachment Wounds?

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 39:20


Many wonder if they're "stuck" in a pattern or if healing and growth are possible.Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Your Last Meal with Rachel Belle
Sharon Van Etten: Mashed Potatoes on Toast

Your Last Meal with Rachel Belle

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 32:04


Sharon Van Etten is on the road now touring her seventh album, Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory. But as much as she loves writing and performing music, she has considered a couple different career paths: therapist and sommelier! Sharon’s love of wine started in high school, when she was an exchange student living with a family in Spain. So host Rachel Belle interviews the founders of Open That Bottle Night, a couple of former Wall Street Journal wine writers who created an annual holiday to encourage people to open the special bottles of wine that no occasion seemed to be special enough for. Sharon says she doesn’t like to cook when she’s in a bad mood because the food always ends up tasting bad. Rachel calls up cognitive neurologist Dr Rachel Herz, author of Why You Eat What You Eat, who says food actually does taste different when you’re sad, angry, depressed or happy. Watch Rachel’s Cascade PBS TV show The Nosh with Rachel Belle! Season 2 out now! Sign up for Rachel's new (free!) Cascade PBS newsletter for more food musings! Follow along on Instagram! Order Rachel’s cookbook Open Sesame.Support the show: http://rachelbelle.substack.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
112 Courage to Commit: Why Embracing Religion Still Matters (with Ross Douthat)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 44:47 Transcription Available


Host Geoff Holsclaw engages with New York Times columnist and author Ross Douthat. They discuss the enduring relevance and shifting perceptions of religion in a scientific and secular age, driven by Douthat's book Believe: Why Everyone Should Be Religious. The conversation navigates the historical impact of new atheism, the existential malaise in youth culture, and a generational gap in religious knowledge. Douthat elaborates on his rationale for advocating religion not just for its therapeutic or social benefits but also for its intellectual robustness. Topics covered include the persistence of supernatural experiences, the case for commitment to established religions, and the importance of community and institutional structure in religious life. Douthat also shares his personal journey through various Christian traditions, culminating in his commitment to Catholicism. The episode concludes with insights into how suffering and chronic illness have deepened Douthat's faith and understanding of God's providence.Stay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
111 Healing Power of Story: Making Sense of Your Life (with Adam Young)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 31:25 Transcription Available


Sometimes, when you feel stuck, and overwhelmed, you don't need more and better information. Sometimes you need to engage your story, to better understand how the past influences the present. That's what we talk about with Adam Young. Adam Young is a therapist who focuses on trauma and abuse, and the host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast. He currently serves as a Fellow and Instructor at The Allender Center.  Adam is the author of Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Story with Kindness Changes Everything.Also, check out his mini-conference hosted each month. Adam explains the concept of story work as a therapeutic and spiritual practice that helps individuals understand how their past experiences shape their present. He emphasizes the importance of approaching one's story with kindness and the role of attachment, neuroscience, and spirituality in the healing process. They also delve into the significance of exploring familial, cultural, and spiritual narratives to achieve wholeness and integration, or 'Shalom.' Additionally, Adam provides insights into addressing common resistance to story work and the importance of leaders engaging in this process to foster supportive community environments. He concludes by sharing information about his ongoing mini-conference series aimed at helping individuals delve deeper into their stories.Stay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

extra-Ordinary Leaders with Dolly Waddell
S3 10: Legacy and Craft: Walpole's Helen Brocklebank on the Mindset of extra-Ordinary Leadership

extra-Ordinary Leaders with Dolly Waddell

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 40:38


In this episode of The extra-Ordinary Leader, I had the enormous pleasure of speaking with Helen Brocklebank, CEO of Walpole—the official body for British luxury. Helen works closely with over 250 of the UK's most iconic high-end brands, and in our conversation, she shares the leadership behaviours, values, and mindset that make these businesses so resilient and remarkable.We explored what we can all borrow from the luxury sector—whether we're running heritage businesses or leading fast-paced teams with no historical playbook. Helen spoke beautifully about creativity, long-term thinking, emotional intelligence, and the importance of knowing your own strengths. She also reminded me why storytelling, craftsmanship, and deep human connection remain at the heart of excellent leadership.You'll hear us reflect on everything from scented candles and bespoke tailoring to the power of fiction and the role of culture in the workplace. Whether you lead a team of two or two thousand, this episode is full of insights to help you lead with clarity, creativity and care.Inside This Episode:What working with 250 luxury CEOs has taught Helen about extra-Ordinary leadershipWhy understanding your own strengths is the foundation of influenceThe long-term mindset behind British luxury's £81 billion impactWhy fiction (yes, even Jilly Cooper!) can sharpen your leadership instinctsHow resilience, creativity, and curiosity define high-performance leadershipWhat leaders in fast fashion and retail can borrow from heritage brandsThe value of “dual thinking”: acting in the now while planning for the nextHow memory-making and sensory detail create unforgettable customer experiencesWhy culture-building and empowerment matter more than everMentions & Links:Walpole – https://www.thewalpole.co.ukLearn more about Attachment Theory – https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-attachment-theory-2795337Black Box Thinking by Matthew Syed – https://www.amazon.co.uk/Black-Box-Thinking-Surprising-Success/dp/1473613779

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
110 Armoring Up, Anxiety, and Finding the Right-Sized God (with Lisa Cuss)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 45:53 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Attaching to God podcast, hosted by Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw of Embodied Faith, licensed therapist Lisa Cuss joins the conversation.Lisa shares her journey from teaching to becoming a therapist, her focus on trauma and attachment-informed modalities, and her work with  Capable Life alongside her husband, Steve Cuss. The discussion delves into the complexities of anxiety, personal and collective grief, and the transformative process of attachment both to oneself and to God. Lisa highlights the importance of being seen and comforted by God, the role of trauma in shaping behavior, and the significant shift when individuals recognize God's presence in their deepest pain. This episode offers insights into how mental health and spiritual growth can be fostered within church communities.Lisa is a licensed therapist (MA, LPC), speaker, and trainer who is passionate about the intersection of Psychology and Faith. In her private practice, Lisa uses trauma and attachment informed modalities to help people journey through deep pain and stuck places to find more healthy connection within themselves, with others, and with God. Lisa also works alongside her husband, Steve Cuss, within Capable Life, an organization that helps people find relief from chronic anxiety and deepens connection with God in the workplace and the home place.Stay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Recognizing Potential
Ep 102: 20 Unhinged Ways to Better Your Marriage

Recognizing Potential

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 66:08


In this fun, research-backed episode, we dive deep into 20 unhinged, creative, and scientifically proven ways to strengthen your marriage. From recording your arguments to scheduling sex with hilarious calendar invites, these ideas break the traditional "date night" mold and focus on building deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy with your spouse.If you're tired of surface-level marriage advice and want practical strategies that actually work (and make you laugh), this episode is for you!

The Mental Health Toolbox Podcast
The Four Relationship Attachment Styles: What Every Therapist Needs to Know - Mary Sarkis LMFT

The Mental Health Toolbox Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 34:35


Ep. 126 ⬇️ DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE ATTACHMENT STYLES THERAPY HANDOUT: https://mht.thrivecart.com/attachment-styles-quick-guide/   ▶️ WATCH THE INTERVIEW: 

Ordinary Unhappiness
98: From Boundaries to Attachment: The Uses and Abuses of Pop Psychology feat. Lily Scherlis

Ordinary Unhappiness

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2025 107:38


Abby and Patrick are joined by writer and artist Lily Scherlis for a provocative reflection on the ideological subtexts, historical contexts, and real-world value of some of our moment's most bandied-about concepts and terms. Beginning with her 2023 essay for Parapraxis, “Boundary Issues: How Boundaries became the Rule for Mental Health – and Everything Else,” the interview spotlights Scherlis's nuanced yet relentless interrogation of how the vocabularies of research psychology have proliferated across popular culture and have become ubiquitous in the workplace, in bestsellers, on social media, and in our most intimate interactions. What exactly are “boundaries,” when did having (or not having) them become such an issue, and how does their invocation function? Touching on themes and topics across Scherlis's body of work, from CBT and DBT to the legacy of Dale Carnegie and beyond, the conversation builds to a consideration of the case of attachment theory. Unpacking the history, key concepts, and findings of this interdisciplinary field of study, Abby, Patrick, and Lily explore how its terms and categories have become so central to a cottage industry of online quizzes and therapeutic interventions. How do ideas of self-improvement and self-help relate to economic shifts in modes of production, material realities of employment precarity, and our felt sense of being together – and being alienated? What work do these terms do in the abstract, and what work are we as subjects expected to do in learning and using them? And how can we square our skepticism vis-à-vis such models and vocabularies with the traction they can give us when it comes to understanding ourselves, tolerating distress, navigating a difficult world, potentially changing our circumstances, and connecting with one another?Selected texts cited:Lily Scherlis, “Boundary Issues: How Boundaries became the Rule for Mental Health – and Everything Else”Lily Scherlis, “Skill Issues: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Its Discontents”Lily Scherlis, “Going Soft: Future Proofing the American Worker”Danielle Carr, “Don't Be So Attached to Attachment Theory”Robert Karen, Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Ability to LoveHeidi Keller. The Myth of Attachment Theory A Critical Understanding for Multicultural SocietiesRuth O'Shaughnessy, Rudi Dallos, Katherine Berry, and Karen Bateson. Attachment Theory: The BasicsA podcast about psychoanalysis, politics, pop culture, and the ways we suffer now. New episodes on Saturdays. Follow us on social media:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/OrdinaryUnhappiness Twitter: @UnhappinessPod Instagram: @OrdinaryUnhappiness Patreon: patreon.com/OrdinaryUnhappiness Theme song: Formal Chicken - Gnossienne No. 1 Provided by Fruits Music

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
The Anxious Avoidant TRAP

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 49:37


Ever wonder why YOU are SO addicted to people who pull away? Today, you'll finally find out.If the harder you chase, the faster they run — you might be trapped in the anxious-avoidant cycle: where one partner craves closeness, and the other panics when things get too real. In this BBC episode, Violet breaks down why this dynamic feels like home but leaves you emotionally starved.Inspired by the book Attached, we dive into real stories, psych-backed insights, and how to finally break free.Bonus: Don't miss the quiz at the end—It'll help you decode your partner's attachment style fast. Jump to minute 37:00 if you're done guessing and ready to know who you're really dealing with.Wanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free subscription at - https://almostadulting.supercast.comToday's episode is brought to you by:NULLY CLOTHING RENTAL - Just go to Nuuly.com and use my code ADULTING to get $28 off your first month.PRETTY LITTER - Get 20% off on your FIRST order + get a FREE cat toy + FREE shipping when you go to prettylitter.com/adulting SHOPIFY - Sign up for your ONE DOLLAR per-month trial period at Shopify.com/adultingPAIRED APP - Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at HERERULA HEALTH - Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/adultingSIMPLY POP - Spill the Pop tour with Remi & Alisha from Pretty basic is coming to a city near you!! For tour information and FREE tickets, visit cokeurl.com/simplyPOPtour , but hurry! Availability is limited.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
How does Attachment Style Change Over Time?

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 47:00


Many wonder if they're "stuck" in a pattern or if healing and growth are possible.Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
109 The Sermon on the Mount and Human Flourishing (with Jonathan Pennington)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 44:35 Transcription Available


What is Jesus' Sermon on the Mount really about?  Is it an out-of-reach spirituality for the really devoted? Is it a practical guide for political action? A reworking of the Old Testament Law? Or an existential treatise on the intentions that guide our actions?What if it outlines the way toward human flourishing?Dr.  Jonathan Pennington is a Professor of New Testament Interpretation at Southern Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.  And a teaching pastor his local church. Dr. Pennington is the author of many books, including Reading the Gospels Wisely, The Sermon on the Mount and Human Flourishing, and Jesus, the Great Philosopher: Rediscovering the Wisdom Need for the Good Life. Find out more about Dr. Pennington here: https://www.jonathanpennington.com/Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting April 29 (2025), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 4pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Passion Love Pursuit podcast
Masterclass On Attachment: How To Shift From Anxious and Avoidant Attachment To Secure Attachment In Dating With Adam Lane Smith

Passion Love Pursuit podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 60:49


Consider this a masterclass on attachment theory and how by learning what my guest shares today, you will be able to enter into a relationship or dating with a new way of relating. Today's conversation will help you understand the importance of attachment theory and how this influences the outcome in our relationships. Within this conversation you will learn what these attachment styles are and how each one uniquely influences how we react in a relationship. My guest provides practical advice for individuals looking to navigate the dating scene successfully, highlighting the need for self-awareness and clear intentions. Then how can we learn a new way of attaching and moving into secure attachment.  He is an author, speaker and media personality, Adam Lane Smith is a recognized global expert in Attachment Theory. Formerly a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Adam has left his practice to help the world learn the power of secure attachment.  He is on a mission to turn 1 billion people's attachment secure. To that end, Adam runs a digital coaching practice, leads a growing team of certified specialists, offers hundreds of hours of free online education. With a 99.8% success rate transforming thousands of relationships worldwide, Adam is proving that secure love isn't about luck – it's about understanding patterns most never see. In this episode we talk about: Understanding attachment theory Breakdowns in Modern Relationships Effective Use of Dating Apps How to shift into secure attachment Learning to self regulate Holding healthy boundaries Common breakdowns in relationships Greatest tool to strengthen a relationship For full show notes and episode resources head to: https://ericalippy.com/adam-lane-smith/ Find our guest at: Adam Lane Smith | Website , Instagram , Facebook Watch Adam Lane Smith in YouTube Attchment Bootcamp Follow me on Social Media: Your Host: @ericalippy Podcast: @passionlovepursuit YouTube PASSION LOVE PURSUIT PODCASTS: https://ericalippy.com/the-podcast/

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
108 Expressing the Inexpressible: "Hesed" and God's Lovingkindness (with Michael Card)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 38:36 Transcription Available


God's true nature is beyond human comprehension. It can never be fully expressed in human words. But Scriptures uses one particular word to describe the distinctiveness of God's character; this is the Hebrew word hesed. Michael Card is an award-winning musician and performing artist. His many books include Scribbling in the Sand, A Fragile Stone, and Inexpressible: Hesed and the Mystery of God's LovingkindnessJoin Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting April 29 (2025), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 4pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
How to Remap Your Native Attachment Conditioning (and Why It's More Important Now than Ever to Prevent Or Move Beyond Freeze Mode)

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 44:04


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Dr. John Vervaeke
Lectern Q&As: The Virtue of Love | Featuring John Vervaeke, Ethan, and Ellie

Dr. John Vervaeke

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 63:03


Welcome to a special installment of the Lectern Q&A! This month's theme is Love as a Virtue and Existential Stance. This session dives into the nature of love—not just as a feeling, but as a participatory, person-making virtue that binds us to reality and each other. Joining John and Ethan is Ellie, who brings both a deeply reflective presence and insightful contributions to this exploration. Lectern Q&As are a monthly gathering where John and Ethan take questions from The Lectern's members, threading through important themes that are most pertinent and perplexing to the collective. Pre-submitted questions form the bulk of the discussion with a Live Q&A segment toward the end. These conversations are particularly important for generating knowledge that is relevant both to John and The Lectern's broader audience. To participate in these discussions live, submit questions ahead of time and gain access to previous Q&As by signing up at the Alpha Tier (and above) on The Lectern: https://lectern.teachable.com/p/lectern-lounge If you would like to donate purely out of goodwill to support John's work, please consider joining our Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/johnvervaeke The Vervaeke Foundation is committed to advancing the scientific pursuit of wisdom and creating a significant impact on the world. https://vervaekefoundation.org/ If you would like to learn and engage regularly in practices that are informed, developed, and endorsed by John and his work, visit Awaken to Meaning's calendar to explore practices that enhance your virtues and foster deeper connections with reality and relationships. https://awakentomeaning.com/join-practice/ Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Welcome and Opening Reflections on Love 02:45 Love as an Existential Stance 05:00 Love, Participatory Knowing, and Binding Identity 08:45 Eros, Philia, and Agape: The Three Movements of Love 13:00 The Person-Making Nature of Love 17:00 Love as a Doorway to the Sacred 20:30 The Transformation of Self Through Love 23:45 Somatic and Embodied Knowing of Love 28:00 Trauma, Attachment, and the Challenge of Loving Well 32:10 Secure Attachment and Love as Practice 37:40 Circling, Dialectic, and Learning to Love Wisely 40:15 The Role of Worldview in Love and Meaning 46:50 A GI, the Sacred, and What We Truly Love About Humanity 54:20 The Ecology of Religions and Participatory Pluralism 59:30 Final Reflections from John, Ethan, and Ellie Biographical Sentences John Vervaeke is a cognitive scientist, philosopher, and the creator of the YouTube series Awakening from the Meaning Crisis. His work focuses on wisdom cultivation, consciousness, and the scientific pursuit of meaning. Ethan is a co-host and facilitator of the Lectern Q&A sessions. He curates conversations that illuminate existential, psychological, and philosophical insights emerging from the community and John's teachings. Ellie is a scholar and practitioner deeply engaged in environmental science, interpersonal growth, and attachment theory. She brings a reflective, embodied perspective to the conversation on love. Ideas, People, and Works Mentioned in this Episode Søren Kierkegaard John Bowlby, Attachment Theory Sue Johnson, Hold Me Tight, Attachment Theory in Practice Eric Fromm, The Art of Loving Thomas Kuhn, Paradigms and Worldview Albert Camus, The Stranger Martin Buber, I and Thou Taoism and the concept of the Dao as Mother Mahayana Buddhism, Bodhisattva path Sufism and Divine Love Socratic Knowledge and Dialogos Circling & Dialectic into Dialogos Lauren Barrett, Emotionally Focused Therapy Halcyon Guild Pluralism in religion and spiritual practice Connect with John Vervaeke Website: https://johnvervaeke.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vervaeke_john YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@johnvervaeke Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/johnvervaeke Thank you for Listening!

From Mrs. to Ms.
Ep | 87: Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong One (And How to Stop) with Dr Morgan Anderson

From Mrs. to Ms.

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 53:00


Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
107 The Way of Sorrows as a New Evangelism (for Easter Week) (with Andrew Root)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 40:03 Transcription Available


This Holy Week, as Jesus, "the man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief" (Is. 53:3), walks toward the cross, we ask what it might be to proclaim this as good news. An older evangelism might ask, Where will you go when you die? But in our age of anxiety and despair, maybe we need to shift to: What do you do with your sorrow as you live?  That Jesus walks with us in our sorrows is really good news. That's what we are talking about today with Dr. Andrew Root. He is the Carrie Olson Baalson professor of youth and family ministry at Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minnesota. He writes and researches in areas of theology, ministry, culture and younger generations.  And most recently has written about Evangelism in an Age of Despair: Hope Beyond the Failed Promise of Happiness.Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting April 29 (2025), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 4pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
106 Digital Overwhelm in the Workplace (with Craig Mattson)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 37:47 Transcription Available


Does doing your job need to feel like losing your life? Can your vocation be part of your spiritual formation? Can we survive digital overwhelm?Dr. Craig Mattson is a researcher, teacher, and writer at Calvin University. He's the editor of The Mode/Switch newsletter and podcast on Substack, both of which decode workplace culture and the strange etiquettes of digital spaces. Craig's three books address spiritual formation by attending to the kinds of humans we yearn to be in the digitally saturated spaces of life and work. His most recent book is Digital Overwhelm: A Mid-Career Guide to Coping at Work.Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting April 29 (2025), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 4pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

The Susan Winter Show
Blindsided Breakups: The Avoidant's Exit Strategy with Ken Reid

The Susan Winter Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 37:43


The dating and relationship world is rife with blindsided breakups. Is this the hallmark of an Avoidant? Counsellor Ken Reid is here to discuss Fearful and Dismissive Avoidants and explain why this heartbreaking scenario is so often the upshot of their relationship trajectory. Counsellor Ken Reid is the go-to source for all things ATTACHMENT THEORY. His work includes relationship challenges, breakups, grief, and communication skills. He also serves the LGBTQIA+ community. Defining fearful and dismissive avoidants Hallmarks and “Tells” of an Avoidant The Blindsided Breakup Strategy Website: https://www.kenreidcounselling.com.au Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kenreads Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The Weekend University
Attachment and Compassion in Psychotherapy — Paul Gilbert and Jeremy Holmes

The Weekend University

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 66:59


In this episode, I'm joined by Professor Paul Gilbert and Professor Jeremy Holmes. Paul is the developer of Compassion Focused Therapy and one of the world's leading clinical psychologists studying the scientific application of compassion in therapeutic practice. Jeremy is an award winning attachment expert, clinician, and author, whose books include: In Search of the Secure Base, Attachment & Psychotherapy, and most recently The Spirit of Psychotherapy. In this wide ranging discussion, we explore: — The difference between “safety” and “safeness” and why this is vital to understand in therapeutic practice — How early attachment dynamics shape our developmental trajectory and relationships throughout life — How attachment theory helped to form the theoretical foundations of Compassion Focused Therapy. And more. You can find Jeremy's books at http://bit.ly/jh-books and learn more about Paul's work at http://compassionatemind.co.uk --- Professor Paul Gilbert, FBPsS, PhD, OBE is a British clinical psychologist, the founder of compassion focused therapy (CFT), compassionate mind training (CMT) and author of books such as The Compassionate Mind: A New Approach to Life's Challenges, Overcoming Depression. He has researched evolutionary approaches to psychopathology for over 40 years with a special focus on the roles of mood, shame and self-criticism in various mental health difficulties for which Compassion Focused Therapy was developed. Professor Gilbert has written/edited 21 books and over 200 papers. In 2006 he established the Compassionate Mind Foundation as an international charity with the mission statement: “To promote wellbeing through the scientific understanding and application of compassion”. Professor Jeremy Holmes is a clinician, author, leading Attachment expert, and three-time speaker at The Weekend University. For 35 years, he was Consultant Psychiatrist/Medical Psychotherapist at University College London (UCL) and then in North Devon, UK, and Chair of the Psychotherapy Faculty of the Royal College of Psychiatrists 1998-2002. He is visiting Professor at the University of Exeter, and lectures nationally and internationally. In addition to 200+ peer-reviewed papers and chapters in the field of psychoanalysis and attachment theory, his books include John Bowlby and Attachment Theory, Exploring In Security, Attachment in Therapeutic Practice, and most recently: “The Brain has a Mind of Its Own”. He was the recipient of the Bowlby-Ainsworth Founders Award 2009. --- Interview Links: — Jeremy's books - http://bit.ly/jh-books — Paul's work - http://compassionatemind.co.uk

The School of Healing
Ep 83: Intuition in Love and Leadership: Trusting Your Gut in Relationships and Business with Dana Nygaard

The School of Healing

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 45:39


SummaryIn this episode of the School of Healing podcast, host Dominiece Clifton engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dana Nygaard, exploring themes of personal growth, healing, and the importance of understanding attachment styles. Dana shares her journey of self-discovery, the significance of grounding techniques, and her transformative 90-day healing process. The discussion emphasizes the power of gratitude, the role of humor in healing, and the necessity of recognizing one's gifts and strengths in the pursuit of true love and healthy relationships. In this conversation, Dana Nygaard discusses the concepts of neuroplasticity and forgiveness, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and healing in attracting healthy relationships. She shares her personal experiences with intuition in dating, identifying red flags, and the 'good guy fallacy' that many women face. Dana also talks about her transition from therapy to coaching, aiming to empower women to attract healthy partners and offers advice for aspiring entrepreneurs.Key TakeawaysGrounding techniques are essential for emotional stability.Understanding attachment styles can transform relationships.Humor is a powerful tool for connection and healing.Recognizing one's gifts can enhance personal and professional life.Neuroplasticity allows us to rewire our brains and habits.The 'good guy fallacy' can blind women to unhealthy behaviors.Healthy relationships require mutual respect and understanding.Trusting your intuition is key in both personal and professional life.Connect with Dana NygaardEmail: dana@christiancomfortcounseling.comWebsite: https://www.dananygaard.com/ Website: https://www.christiancomfortcounseling.com/IG click hereLI click hereDana's Bio:Are you a single Catholic woman struggling to find clarity in your dating life? Dana Nygaard is a Licensed Professional Counselor and relationship expert who specializes in guiding women just like you toward blessed and joyful relationships. With years of experience combining Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment Theory, and authentic Catholic spirituality, Dana empowers women to break free from unfulfilling dating patterns and attract the perfect Catholic man. Support the showIMPORTANT LINKS AND RESOURCES: Discover Where You Are Getting Stuck In Your Business, By Taking My Free 3-minute quiz: https://confusionloop.com/ Women Entrepreneurs, schedule your free Clarity Call here Learn more about Move And Still's service offerings: https://movexstill.com/ CONNECT WITH DOM: Learn about Transformation YOUniversity, my 12-week biz coaching program for women entrepreneurs at https://domrclifton.com/coaching-for-women/ IG - @DominieceRClifton LI- Dominiece R. Clifton Email me: hello@movexstill.com A GIFT FOR YOU! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the show on Apple Podcasts to be entered into a drawing to receive my new book FREE! I will be picking one winner monthly. Just send me the screenshot at hello@movestill.com to enter.

Trash South Street
Episode 141 - Special Guest

Trash South Street

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025


Episode 141 Notes: Where on the internet can you find a podcast that compares Sharon Van Etten to “Beyond the Black Rainbow”? One at the most We talk about Monte, Ty, Sharon Van Etten & the Attachment Theory. Kendrick Lamar, Klaus Nomi, and Julia and the Squeezettes. All this and a special guest drops by to plug current and future projects Songs Featured in Episode 141 “Devil Tattoo” – Ty “I Can't Imagine (Why You Feel This Way)” - Sharon Van Etten & the Attachment Theory Sorry to everyone about the spotty schedule this year. Hoping to get these out quicker and more frequently soon Find us at: www.trashsouthstreet.com trashsouthstreet@gmail.com Facebook.com/TSS Apple Music Amazon Podcasts

Real Life Momz
Unlocking Your Relationship Blueprint: Understanding Attachment Theory with Bev Mitelman

Real Life Momz

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 43:22


Feeling stuck in relationship patterns? Ever wonder why you connect (or disconnect) with others the way you do? This week, Lisa sits down with attachment practitioner, Bev Mitelman to unpack the fascinating world of attachment theory. Learn how your early childhood experiences shaped your emotional bonds and discover your primary attachment style. Bev breaks down the different styles - secure vs. insecure - and reveals how they impact your personality, communication, boundaries, and even your coping mechanisms. Get ready for an "aha!" moment as you uncover the hidden rules governing your relationships and gain valuable insights into creating healthier connections. Tune in to learn more!About Bev Mitelman:Website: https://securelyloved.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SecurelyLovedInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/securely_loved/About the Host:Real Life Momz on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/reallifemomz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Real Life Momz on Facebook:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/reallifemomzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@reallifemomzpodcast4048?si=jj5bQ_Afhyl0ZNi7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podmatch:Discover Podmatch, the ultimate platform connecting hosts and guests seamlessly. Learn more here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/reallifemomz

The Liz Moody Podcast
Life Lessons from Sex And The City: Attachment Theory, Beauty Standards, & More

The Liz Moody Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 33:48


We all love Sex and the City, from its four memorable main characters to its environments and hilariously bad dates. But Sex and the City isn't just a laugh-out-loud comedy – it also offers real life lessons in self-love, friendships, and relationships. So today, I'm discussing my favorite Sex and the City-inspired life tips with guest Kate Van Horn.  Above all, Sex and the City is a show about friendship. The bonds between Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha drive the show's appeal – and can teach us a lot about how to be a good friend.  For detailed show notes, navigate using the time stamps below:  1:40 Appreciating Your Environment 4:10 Relationship Advice From SATC 6:59 Redirecting Your Focus 10:47 Finding Your Real Friends 12:30 Why You Should Make Messy Choices 16:00 Accepting Inconvenience  24:21 Discovering Original Style  For more from Kate, you can find her on Instagram @kate.van.horn or her website www.katevanhorn.com. You can find her book The Inner Tarot: A Modern Approach to Self-Compassion and Empowered Healing Using the Tarot wherever books are sold. Listen to her previous episode, Advice Ep! Anxiety, Morning Routines, Knowing When To Break Up & More with Kate Van Horn. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz's book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!  To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.  This episode is sponsored by: Puori: go to puori.com/LIZMOODY and use promo code LIZMOODY for 20% sitewide. Great Lakes Wellness: use code LIZMOODY for 25% off your first purchase at greatlakeswellness.com. Wildgrain: go to Wildgrain.com/LIZMOODY for $30 off the first box - PLUS a free item in every box. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.  This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 318. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
105 Psychedelics and Jesus: What Makes Everything OK? (with Ashley Lande)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 46:03 Transcription Available


Many spiritual seekers are becoming psychonauts, experimenting with psychedelics. But will that trip lead where we think it will? I had the pleasure of sitting down with Ashley Lande about how her long and winding journey in and their the world of psychedelic experimentation eventually led her to Jesus, the only one who really makes all things OK. Ashley Lande is a writer and artist living in rural Kansas with her husband and four children. She is the author of the memoir The Thing That Would Make Everything Okay Forever: Transcendence, Psychedelics and Jesus Christ.Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting Nov. 12 (2024), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 2:30pm-3:30pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
An Attachment Perspective: How to Navigate Rejection Sensitivity

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 52:00


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
104 Can We Master Our Emotions? Should We? (with Dr. Kevin Chapman)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 31:46 Transcription Available


Can we master our emotions? Is that healthy? Are emotions a gift from God, or part of our sinful reality? That's what we are talking about today. Dr. Kevin Chapman is a licensed clinical psychologist with a specialty in cognitive behavioral therapy. He is the founder and director of the Kentucky Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders. He leads Sound Mind Ministries and hosts The Sound Mind Show (YouTube). And he just release Mastering Our Emotions: Biblical Principles for Emotional Health.  Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.Starting Nov. 12 (2024), with the live calls on Tuesdays, 2:30pm-3:30pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Stompcast
Pt 3: How to Use Attachment Theory to Improve Your Relationships | Laura Mucha

Stompcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 19:12


In part 3, Laura Mucha gives some helpful advice on how to use attachment theory to improve our relationships, reveals how attachment theory impacts all relationship types (not just romantic!) and explains why we shouldn't run away from security, even if it's something we're not used to experiencing…Plus, Laura and Dr Alex George discuss why we shouldn't demonise insecure attachment, it does serve a purpose in keeping us safe - otherwise it wouldn't exist!Follow @lauramucha and get her book ‘Please Find Attached: How Attachment Theory Explains Our Relationships'Follow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastGet the new, pocket guide version of The Mind Manual nowDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Securely Attached
294. Parenting styles across cultures: The universal and unique factors the influence secure attachment bonds with Dr. Miguelina German

Securely Attached

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 50:20


The way we parent isn't just shaped by psychology—it's deeply influenced by culture, shaping how our children experience love, discipline, and security in ways we may not even realize. Joining me to unpack this is clinical psychologist Dr. Miguelina German.   In this episode we explore:   - Two overarching parenting frameworks, Attachment Theory and Baumrind Parenting Practices, and how understanding the nuances of each can help us in our parenting approach.    - The importance of “warmth” in parenting and what the research reveals of the positive correlation between our child's perception of high warmth with positive outcomes.   - How generational trauma, values, and cultural norms can inform differences in parenting strategies and styles.    - The impact of being separated from a caregiver as a young child and the attachment rupture that can occur during critical developmental times.   - How to repair a relationship that has undergone an attachment rupture.   Parenting is not one-size-fits-all. By understanding the interplay between attachment, cultural influences, and parenting styles, we can create stronger, more secure connections with our children.       LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. MIGUELINA: https://www.drmiguelinagerman.com/   ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES: Ghosts in the Nursery: A Psychoanalytic Approach to the Problems of Impaired Infant-Mother Relationships Angels in the nursery: The intergenerational transmission of benevolent parental influences Dr. Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson - The 4 S's   CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

Stompcast
Pt 1: What is Attachment Theory and How Can it Explain Our Relationships? | Laura Mucha

Stompcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 25:32


Laura Mucha is an award-winning poet and Author-in-Residence in the Department of Public Health & Primary Care at the University of Cambridge. She has authored numerous books for adults and children, and earlier this year released her latest book ‘Please Find Attached: How Attachment Theory Explains Our Relationships'.In part 1, Laura joins Dr Alex George to discuss what attachment theory actually is, the different attachment styles and how they first appear in childhood.Plus, Laura explains the different memory systems involved in attachment theory and reveals how being hit by a car changed her perspective on life and pushed her to finish writing her first book about relationships…Follow @lauramucha and get her book ‘Please Find Attached: How Attachment Theory Explains Our Relationships'Follow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastGet the new, pocket guide version of The Mind Manual nowDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
An Attachment Perspective: How to End Perfectionism + Validation-Seeking Behavior

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 44:51


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
(Bonus) 10 Reasons Baseball is Spiritual Formation (with J.R. Briggs)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 40:14 Transcription Available


Baseball is back. Spring is sprung (depending on where you live). And so we are bringing you the 10 reasons baseball is a mirror for our spiritual formation. And along the way, Geoff and J.R. Briggs share some favorite baseball memories, especially about their first time hanging out in the bleachers at Wigley Field.Here are the reasons, in no particular order:Going HomeAll about FailuresIt's BoringIt starts in the spring (of NEW LIFE)TeamworkRoutinesTraditionThe Cathedrals of BaseballThe Hall of Fameand I forgot the last one...Stay Connected: NEED spiritual direction or coaching that aligns with this podcast? Connect with Cyd Holsclaw here. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith
103 Take What You Need: Soft Words for Hard Days (with Aundi Kolber)

Embodied Faith: on Relational Neuroscience, Spiritual Formation, and Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 37:07 Transcription Available


For when the day is long. When you are afraid. When you don't know what to say to someone you love. When you feel alone. When you're questioning everything. When you wonder if God is with you.We are talking with the author ofTry Softer, Aundi Kolber, about her new book, Take What You Need: Soft Words for Hard Days. Aundi Kolber is a licensed professional counselor (MA, LPC) and best-selling author of the critically acclaimed "Try Softer" as well as her new book "Strong like Water." She specializes in trauma- and body-centered therapies and is passionate about the integration of faith and psychology.Stay Connected: NEED spiritual direction or coaching that aligns with this podcast? Connect with Cyd Holsclaw here. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

The Out of Your Mind Podcast
Episode 106: How Early Relationships Shape Our Nervous System

The Out of Your Mind Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2025 20:09 Transcription Available


What if your biggest parenting struggles aren't just about your child—but about your own nervous system?Those moments when you snap, shut down, or feel completely overwhelmed? They're not just random. They're your body's stress responses, shaped by the attachment patterns you learned long before you became a mom. If you grew up feeling unseen, unheard, or like your emotions were too much, your nervous system may still be running on survival mode—affecting how you react to your child today.In this episode, we're diving into the science of attachment and nervous system regulation—why certain parenting moments feel so triggering, how our early experiences wired our stress responses, and, most importantly, how we can start rewriting these patterns to parent from a place of calm, not past pain.You'll Learn:

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
How to Foster Secure Attachment in Children (Even If You Weren't Raised Securely)

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 44:06


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

The Best of Coast to Coast AM
Attachment Theory - Best of Coast to Coast AM - 3/17/25

The Best of Coast to Coast AM

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 18:39 Transcription Available


George Noory and counselor Thais Gibson explore attachment theory, how conditioning in childhood affects romantic relationships and friendships as adults, the four types of healthy and unhealthy attachment styles, and if the subconscious mind can be reconditioned to overcome childhood trauma.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love Each Other Better
26: Understanding Attachment Theory to Create Secure Relationships with Maya Diamond

Love Each Other Better

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2025 50:33


In this insightful episode of the Love Each Other Better Podcast, I'm honored to have a very special guest, relationship expert Maya Diamond. Maya guides us in a deep-dive into the fascinating world of attachment theory. She unravels the complexities of the four primary attachment styles—secure, avoidant, anxious, and fearful avoidant—and explores how our childhood experiences shape the way we connect in adult relationships. Maya shares practical, actionable advice for healing insecure attachment styles, offering listeners valuable tools to foster more secure and fulfilling connections.  Whether you're seeking to understand your own attachment style or improve your relationships, this episode is packed with insights and strategies to build deeper, more meaningful connections. Tune in to learn how to heal childhood wounds, cultivate secure attachments, and communicate effectively for a stronger, healthier partnership! ABOUT MY GUEST Maya Diamond is an expert Dating and Relationship Coach who is known for helping people finally find their beloved after years of trying, so that they can have happy, satisfying, and fulfilling relationships. She specializes in helping people heal their insecure attachment and find healthy secure love. Maya is a trained psychotherapist and holds a Master's Degree in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. In 2018, Maya was named one of the best life coaches in San Francisco by Expertise.com. In 2014, she was named one of the Best Relationship Experts in California by DatingAdvice.com. Maya's dating advice has been featured on mindbodygreen.com and elephant journal.com. She shared her message on the TedX stage, with her talk, “The Surprising Key to Building a Healthy Relationship that Lasts.” CONNECT WITH MAYA DIAMOND Go to empowerlove.us/apply to book your free love breakthrough call with Maya Website: empowerlove.us Instagram: mayadiamond.empowerlove Fbook group: https://m.facebook.com/groups/maptolastinglove/?ref=share&mibextid=wwXIfr Podcast: Rewire Your Attachment Style https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rewire-your-attachment-style-with-maya-diamond/id1499735786 ~ CONNECT WITH ALI MILLER Apply to join us for the Love Each Other Better: 6-Month Group Coaching Program for Couples at https://www.alimillercoaching.com/groupprogram Book a free consultation call with Ali: https://www.calendly.com/alimillercoaching/45 Get my free feelings and needs lists: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds Connect with me on social media: IG: https://www.instagram.com/alimillercoaching Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/nvcforcouples Email me: Ali@AliMillerCoaching.com Website: https://www.alimillercoaching.com

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 43:19


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Debts No Honest Man Can Pay
Beware the Ides of March

Debts No Honest Man Can Pay

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 108:00


On this week's show, we spend quality time with superlative new records from Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Horsegirl, Patterson Hood & Caroline Rose, and pour one out for the late, great David Johansen. All this and much, much less! Debts No Honest Man Can Pay is over 2 rock-solid hours of musical eclectica & other noodle stories. The show started in 2003 at WHFR-FM (Dearborn, MI), moved to WGWG-FM (Boiling Springs, NC) in 2006 & Plaza Midwood Community Radio (Charlotte, NC) in 2012, with a brief pit-stop at WLFM-FM (Appleton, WI) in 2004.

Securely Attached
288. Parenting after complex trauma: A mother's journey toward healing in parenthood with Stephanie Foo

Securely Attached

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 59:46


When journalist and author Stephanie Foo was diagnosed with Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), she left her job and devoted herself to healing—a journey she chronicled in her bestselling memoir, What My Bones Know. Now, as a mother, she's navigating what it means to parent with complex trauma, balancing the high-alert nervous system that comes with C-PTSD while trying to stay present for her child.   In this powerful conversation, Stephanie shares:   - The difference between PTSD and C-PTSD—and why relational healing is essential for many forms of trauma.   - How motherhood reshapes the brain and why it can trigger fight-or-flight responses.   - The unique challenges of rupture and repair with a child versus an adult.   - Why parents with complex trauma may struggle with isolation and finding a supportive community can be so helpful.   - The strategies that have helped Stephanie most, all of which are useful for any parent, with or without trauma.   If you've ever felt like parenting is unearthing deep, unresolved parts of yourself, this episode offers both insight and hope.     LEARN MORE ABOUT STEPHANIE: https://www.stephaniefoo.me/   READ STEPHANIE'S BOOK:

Talkhouse Podcast
Sharon Van Etten with Nadia Reid

Talkhouse Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 34:28


On this week's Talkhouse Podcast we've got a pair of songwriters with plenty in common, but who came up on opposite sides of the world: Sharon Van Etten and Nadia Reid. Sharon Van Etten will be very familiar to Talkhouse listeners; we've been huge fans of her music from the very beginning, and have followed her—as many of you have—through her early days of more spare guitar songs to the fully fleshed-out music she's been making in the past few years. Her latest album was Van Etten's first to be written and recorded with a band, and that band has a name that it shares with her latest album: Sharon Van Etten and the Attachment Theory. Working out songs with her band has resulted in a looser, somewhat more experimental Sharon Van Etten, but it's still unmistakably her voice and vision, which is to say it's fantastic. Check out "Idiot Box" from Sharon and the Attachment Theory's new record. Today's other guest, as you'll hear, is a friend of Sharon's from New Zealand, Nadia Reid. Reid has been making music for about a decade, and her latest album, called Enter Now Brightness, came out about a month ago—on the same date as Van Etten's new record, as a matter of fact. Though Reid is from New Zealand, you might hear bits of what could be described as Americana on her records, which are overarchingly gentle, subdued, and deep. Enter Now Brightness was recorded while Reid was pregnant with her second child, and these two talk a fair bit about motherhood in today's episode. Check out Nadia Reid's “Changed/Unchained” from Enter Now Brightness right here. In this chat, Van Etten and Reid talk about parenthood, including bringing your kids on tour—and Van Etten's son makes a brief appearance as well. They also get into how your band is truly like family and who's given them great advice over the years. Enjoy. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 1:59 – Start of the chat 4:07 – "I feel like the cards are stacked against [musicians]" 5:40 – On bonding with your touring band 8:37 – The making of Nadia Reid's 'Enter Now Brightness' 11:00 – Sharon Van Etten on good and bad days in the studio 12:47 – On writing "Seventeen" 14:49 – On parenthood 19:05 – Balancing kids and careers 22:25 – Bringing your kids on tour 25:09 – A special guest 26:28 – Who did you look up to (bands who brought their kids on tour)? 29:10 – "You're one of my heroes" Thanks for listening to the Talkhouse Podcast, and thanks to Sharon Van Etten and Nadia Reid for chatting. If you liked what you heard, check out all the great stuff at Talkhouse.com and in the Talkhouse Podcast Network. This episode was produced by Myron Kaplan, and the Talkhouse theme is composed and performed by the Range. See you next time! Find more illuminating podcasts on the Talkhouse Podcast Network. Visit talkhouse.com to read essays, reviews, and more. Follow @talkhouse on Instagram, Bluesky, Twitter (X), Threads, and Facebook.

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas
Attachment Healing Practices: Meditative Tools to Feel Safe in Relationships

Meditation x Attachment with George Haas

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 60:21


Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called

Wellness Force Radio
Rick William | EQ Mastery: The Hidden Cost of Not Feeling Your Emotions (The Neurochemistry of Suffering)

Wellness Force Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 133:45


Wellness + Wisdom | Episode 720 Could ignoring your emotions be the hidden barrier keeping you stuck and disconnected from your true potential? Rick William, Emotional Intelligence Coach, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 720, to unpack why most of us were never taught how to process our feelings and how this unconscious avoidance can fuel anger and shape our relationships, and how intentionally facing your vulnerabilities, setting up internal boundaries, and curating simple daily practices can open the door to your most authentic self. "If we don't have the capacity to feel a sense of love and connection to ourselves and to one another, that's the neurochemistry of suffering. And that neurochemistry of suffering is what leads us to reach and grab for whatever it might be to. Whether it's too much food or too much sex." - Rick William

'But Jesus Drank Wine' & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
Ep. 118 Jo Hargreaves | Attachment Theory, Faith, and Rewiring the Brain for Emotional Healing

'But Jesus Drank Wine' & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 38:08


The Lent Fast Starts This Wednesday!!!! Get more information and join us here  Today we welcome Jo Hargreaves, a pastor, psychotherapist, writer, and speaker, to explore the intersection of faith, therapy, and mental health.  As the voice behind The Faith-Filled Therapist, Jo is passionate about integrating theology and therapy, scripture and neuroscience, and ensuring that God remains at the center of conversations about mental and emotional well-being. Jo shares powerful insights into attachment theory, nervous system regulation, and emotional resilience, explaining how our earliest experiences shape the way we connect with God and others.  She breaks down the science behind emotional regulation and how rewiring our brains through intentional practices can lead to lasting healing. Key takeaways from this episode include: Attachment theory helps explain our emotional responses and relational patterns. Nervous system regulation is essential for mental and emotional well-being. Compassion—both for ourselves and others—can transform our relationships. Faith and neuroscience are not in conflict; they beautifully complement each other. Self-reflection and a deeper understanding of our emotional patterns can lead to spiritual and psychological healing. Jesus offers a loving presence that creates safety, healing, and wholeness. Jo also speaks on compassion fatigue, especially for women who are constantly pouring into others. She emphasizes the importance of creating space for restoration and self-care, so we can continue to show up fully in our relationships. If you've ever wondered how mental health and faith intersect or how neuroscience and scripture can work together for personal transformation, this conversation is for you. Jo's wisdom, warmth, and faith-filled perspective offer a fresh take on healing—one that blends science, therapy, and the unshakable truth of God's love. Connect with Jo Hargreaves: Jo Hargreaves Therapy: https://johargreavestherapy.com/ Instagram: @TheFaithFilledTherapist Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

Sound Opinions
Drinking Songs & Opinions on Sharon Van Etten

Sound Opinions

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 50:33


Throughout music history and across genres, artists have made drinking songs. From buoyant and rowdy to reflective and moody, hosts Jim DeRogatis and Greg Kot share some of their favorites. They also review the new album from Sharon Van Etten.Join our Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/3sivr9TBecome a member on Patreon: https://bit.ly/3slWZvcSign up for our newsletter: https://bit.ly/3eEvRnGMake a donation via PayPal: https://bit.ly/3dmt9lUSend us a Voice Memo: Desktop: bit.ly/2RyD5Ah Mobile: sayhi.chat/soundops Featured Songs:Fear, "More Beer," More Beer, Restless, 1985The Beatles, "With A Little Help From My Friends," Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band, Parlophone, 1967Sharon Van Etten, "Live Forever," Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Jagjaguwar, 2025Sharon Van Etten, "Trouble," Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Jagjaguwar, 2025Sharon Van Etten, "Indio," Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Jagjaguwar, 2025Sharon Van Etten, "I Want You Here," Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Jagjaguwar, 2025Sharon Van Etten, "Somethin' Ain't Right," Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, Jagjaguwar, 2025Three 6 Mafia, "Sippin on Some Syrup," Three 6 Mafia - Poppin' My Collar - Single, Loud, 2006Nina Simone, "Lilac Wine," Wild is the Wind, The Verve Music Group, 1966The Rolling Stones, "Salt of the Earth," Beggars Banquet, Decca, 1968Beastie Boys, "Brass Monkey," Licensed to Ill, Def Jam, 1986Midland, "Drinkin' Problem," On the Rocks, Big Machine, 2017Kendrick Lamar, "Swimming Pools (Drank)," good kid, m.A.A.d city, Top Dawg Entertainment, 2012Snoop Dogg, "Gin and Juice," Doggystyle, Death Row, Interscope and Atlantic, 1994The Replacements, "Here Comes a Regular," Tim, Sire, 1985The Champs, "Tequila," Go, Champs, Go!, Challenge, 1958Jamie Foxx, "Blame It (feat. T-Pain)," Intuition, J, 2008Against Me!, "T.S.R.," As The Eternal Cowboy, Fat Wreck Chords, 2003Chumbawamba, "Tubthumping," Tubthumper, Republic, 1997Louis Prima and Keely Smith, "One Mint Julep," Breaking It Up!, Columbia, 1958The Kinks, "Alcohol," Muswell Hillbillies, RCA Victor, 1971Thin Lizzy, "Whiskey in the Jar," Single, Decca, 1972Kris Kristofferson, "Sunday Mornin' Coming Down," Kristofferson, Monument, 1970Lou Reed, "Underneath the Bottle," The Blue Mask, RCA Victor, 1982Darkside, "Graucha Max," Nothing, Matador, 2025See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Song of the Day
Sharon Van Etten - Trouble

Song of the Day

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 5:00


Today's Song of the Day is “Trouble” from Sharon Van Etten's album Sharon Van Etten & The Attachment Theory, out now.Sharon Van Etten will be performing at Palace Theatre on Saturday, May 10.

The Trauma Therapist | Podcast with Guy Macpherson, PhD | Inspiring interviews with thought-leaders in the field of trauma.
Guest Host: Dafna Lender interviewing Karen Buckwalter: Clinical Use of the Adult Attachment Interview

The Trauma Therapist | Podcast with Guy Macpherson, PhD | Inspiring interviews with thought-leaders in the field of trauma.

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 24:14


Dafna is an international trainer and supervisor for practitioners who work with children and families. She is a certified trainer and supervisor/consultant in both Theraplay and Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP). Dafna's expertise is drawn from 25 years of working with families with attachment in many settings: at-risk after school programs, therapeutic foster care, in-home crisis stabilization, residential care and private practice.Karen Doyle Buckwalter has worked in many roles in child-serving agencies including outpatient therapy settings, foster care, adoption, residential treatment, and program development in all of these areas. She has co-authored two books, written for magazines, and contributed to scholarly journals. She pioneered the Attachment Theory in Action podcast which has had over 1 million downloads.In This EpisodeDafna's websiteKaren's websiteKaren's upcoming workshops---If you'd like to support The Trauma Therapist Podcast and the work I do you can do that here with a monthly donation of $5, $7, or $10: Donate to The Trauma Therapist Podcast.Click here to join my email list and receive podcast updates and other news.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-trauma-therapist--5739761/support.

MIRROR TALK
Unlocking the Secrets of Attachment Theory in Dating & Relationships with Bev Mitelman

MIRROR TALK

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 48:28


Hello, beautiful souls! In this episode ofMirror Talk: Soulful Conversations, I'm joined byBev Mitelman, aCertified Attachment Practitioner,author, andfounder of Securely Loved. We exploreattachment styles and how they shape our relationships.Episode Chapters:⏳00:00 Introduction to Attachment Theory⏳05:41 Bev's Personal Journey and Early Influences⏳11:28 Understanding Attachment Styles⏳18:13 The Spectrum of Attachment Styles⏳26:33 Changing Attachment Styles⏳32:05 The Role of Awareness in Relationships⏳39:03 Attracting Healthy RelationshipsKey Topics:✔️ What are the four attachment styles? ✔️ How childhood influences attachment patterns ✔️ Can attachment styles change? ✔️ How attachment impacts romantic relationships ✔️ Steps to develop asecure attachment and healthier connectionsListen & Connect: