Clarity Unleashed!

I can't wait for you to meet my friend Marie Griffith. We met through the Flying Free sisterhood and are deconstruction journeyers who find ourselves knee-deep in theology, ministry, and the "untangling" reality of deconstruction. Recently we co-lead an online study of my recently published journal, Deconstruction: Your Journey in Faith. I know that this is just the beginning of our ministry relationship.  Resources Marie mentions include: Find Marie on her website: livelikeitmatters.net   Marie is the newest board member of Tears of Eden, a support and resource  community for survivors of spiritual abuse. The website is https://www.tearsofeden.org/about   Also listen to their podcast called Uncertain: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncertain/id1515653599   The "3 Marys" teaching by Marie's brother-in-law can be found here:  https://fb.watch/7bEdS2VSLR/   Do you want to check out my study journal? Marie and I had the pleasure and privilege to lead several woman through the study together. Deconstruction: Your Journey in Faith is self-published through Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09328MJ6G/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4CMPFH4AWDZBN4B7RF7X 

Hi! It's Stacey. I have another study group starting in August. It's a 6-week Zoom study using Deconstruction: Your Journey in Faith. The study will be on Wednesdays from 7-8pm EST for 6 weeks, starting Wednesday, August 11th. Join my waitlist for more details by emailing me at stacey@clarityunleashed.com. It's a free group - you just need to purchase your book at: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09328MJ6G/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4CMPFH4AWDZBN4B7RF7X  Stacey Wynn ministers within the tension of deconstruction,  equipping others to find freedom in Christ, to confidently identify erroneous teaching and harmful theology, and to gain clarity of purpose. Learn more at www.ClarityUnleashed.com.

I am excited to announce that my study journal is now published! You can find it on Amazon as a paperback or Kindle, although I recommend the paperback for ease of writing. With the purchase of the book you gain access to audio teachings for each of the six modules. The podcast you are listening to is Module 1 of the book. I would love to have you join the online Clarity Cohort, starting May 13th. It's a small-group "feel" and all online. I will keep the numbers low so we have the ability to really get to know one another and dig in to the discussion. Find out more on my site. What Is Faith Deconstruction? Deconstruction  is  synonymous  with  the  discipleship process  known as  spiritual  formation. Christians   mature   in   faith   through   disciplines including prayer,  personal   study,   and   formal teaching within church and ministry contexts. Sometimes teachings and experiences can be unhealthy and even abusive. During deconstruction, Christians faithfully examine  how  our  relationship  with  God  has  been  influenced  by  traditions, theology, church leadership, and societal factors experienced in our modern context. Imagine sitting at a table in front of a pile of miscellaneous puzzle pieces. Deconstruction involves looking at each piece of the puzzle and finding where it fits, or making the determination that it does not belong at all. Deconstruction is unique for each believer but typically involves wrestling with Bible translations, teachings, traditions, and personal experiences. Those who embark on the journey meet pushback from church leaders, family members,  and  friends.  Misunderstanding,  they  believe  that  deconstruction means walking away from God when it typically leads to a much deeper faith. Your story will be unique. I hope that the exercises and Scriptural passages within this study provide a framework to better envision the puzzle you are piecing  together.  When  you  have  completed  this  study,  your  journey  won't be  over,  but  I  believe  you  will  be  empowered  and  equipped  to  continue.  

Part 2 with Angela includes some resources that have been helpful for her. If you would enjoy joining our deconstruction community, reach out to me about our weekly Sunday evening Zoom and private Facebook group. Just email me at stacey@clarityunleashed.com.     Resources List Rob Bell, author of Love Wins: https://robbell.com/ The Bible for Normal People podcast: https://peteenns.com/podcast/ Resources from Rachel Held Evans: https://rachelheldevans.com/ Sarah Bessey article: https://sarahbessey.com/penny-in-the-air-my-story-of-becoming-affirming/ BT Harman: https://www.bluebabiespink.com/ Jeff Chu, author of Does Jesus Really Love Me?: http://byjeffchu.com/about/ Matthew Vines, author of God and the Gay Christian: http://www.matthewvines.com/

I am honored to share the next two-part podcast with my friend Angela. We met in a support group for abuse survivors and she is an integral part of the Deconstruction Zone, a private Facebook community I facilitate. Personally, I value her perspective, because her journey has included an evangelical upbringing, ministry leadership, and overseas missions work. A destructive marriage led to many changes in her life, but ultimately brought her to the love of her life, Krissy. Angela has a beautiful unfolding story of healing, love, and ministry that I can't wait for you to hear.  Look for part 2 soon, along with some helpful resources mentioned over the course of our conversation.    

Jan is a licensed grief, life transition, and anxiety counselor in Alabama. She is a loss survivor and that led her to counseling just a few years ago. In our podcast Jan shares her journey, which includes time spent as a church leader and a faith seeker in a season of deconstruction.  In part 2 we discuss women's ministry, spiritual meaning of 3 words: wrestling, inclusion, and exclusion, recovering from the emotional toll of counseling, and how Jan built and launched her business right in the midst of a pandemic. If you are in the state of Alabama, you have the ability to work with Jan. Find her practice here: https://backporchcounseling.com/ Other places you'll find Jan are on Twitter: https://twitter.com/janjowen and her book, Fighting Forward, is on her site: https://www.janjowen.com/ and on Amazon (Click Here). And I welcome you to take a look at my website, https://www.clarityunleashed.com/, which recently got an amazing overhaul from Kristine Forster at Wix.

Jan is a licensed grief, life transition, and anxiety counselor in Alabama. She is a loss survivor and that led her to counseling just a few years ago. In our podcast Jan shares her journey, which includes time spent as a church leader and a faith seeker in a season of deconstruction.  If you are in the state of Alabama, you have the ability to work with Jan. Find her practice here: https://backporchcounseling.com/ Other places you'll find Jan are on Twitter: https://twitter.com/janjowen and her book, Fighting Forward, is on her site: https://www.janjowen.com/ and on Amazon (Click Here). And I welcome you to take a look at my website, https://www.clarityunleashed.com/, which recently got an amazing overhaul from Kristine Forster at Wix.

I am excited to introduce Patrice McClendon, a Jacksonville resident and President and Marketing Manager for Sista 2 Sista: Women Empowering Women. Patrice and her team have a women's event at UNF on March 14th.   Speakers are addressing holistic wellness (spiritual, physical, mental) in support of this year's theme, It Is Well. Vendors, including wellness vendors, will be on site with free resources and free diagnostics. Click HERE for the agenda and visit the main website to purchase your tickets while they last! Only 125 tickets are available for this luncheon: https://sista2sistaempowerment.com/ Sista 2 Sista: Women Empowering Women Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/sista2sistaempowerment/ I love Patrice's heart for Building Empowerment, Community Connections, and Partnerships. She has a bold vision for Sista 2 Sista that empowers individuals to change communities.  I am going to be there and hope to meet you! So if you're coming, let me know at stacey@clarityunleashed.com so we can arrange to meet each other in person.  

Today I hit on the huge topic of deconstruction -just dipping my toes in that water.  Also happy to announce a couple of upcoming guests: 1. Patrice McClendon will bring news about the upcoming women's conference in Jacksonville called Sista 2 Sista: Women Empowering Women (find on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/sista2sistaempowerment/). GET YOUR TICKETS here: http://sista2sistaempowerment.com/ 2. My friend Roni Saulsberry who lovingly refers to herself as "a Christian who cusses." Who knows what might come up, but I have a feeling we will unpack issues of diversity in the church, spiritual abuse, and more. Might need to be rated PG-13! I did something brave this week as a challenge from #noondayshine2020 the Noonday Collection conference I attended in Austin, TX. I'm dipping my toes into an experiment of sorts and will let you know how it's beginning. What will I be when I grow up? I have no idea still, but continue to be amazed by the strong and powerful women I meet in various walks of life. Enjoy, and stay tuned for more! Happy 2020 Come see me at the Common Ground Conference in Jacksonville, FL on May1-2, 2020. Find out more and GET YOUR TICKETS here: http://commongroundjacksonville.com/

What is it about the word Wrestling? It shows up EVERYWHERE. Let's talk about what it means to wrestle with our faith. And how do we react to others who have questions about their identities as Christians? What about people who struggle with the very act of going to church? How do we best help those who are in the midst of their own wrestling match. Genesis 32:24 Then Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. The Hebrew word for wrestle is אָבַק (ä·vak') and literally means to get dusty. Let's get dusty. I'd love to hear what you think about this topic. Email me at stacey@clarityunleashed.com     By the way, the book I referenced is: Reese, Randy D., and Robert Loane. Deep Mentoring: Guiding Others On Their Leadership Journey. Downers Grove, IL: IVP Books, 2012.  

This podcast is in response to two emails I received this week. Send your questions to stacey@clarityunleashed.com. Question 1 (paraphrased): Does God love women more? There are more women in church. Does God love men less? There are more men in jail. Although this is a tongue-in-cheek question it is something I ponder. Question 2 (paraphrased): What about leadership in the church and in the home? 1 Cor 11 is a passage some churches use to establish male leadership and hierarchy in the home and church. What about literal head coverings? Suggested books/references on these topics: Lucy Peppiatt, Unveiling Paul’s Women, and Rediscovering Scripture’s Vision for Women.  Lucy on Vimeo: Women and Worship at Corinth: https://vimeo.com/152502149 Should Women Wear Headcoverings? https://vimeo.com/152214479 Should Women Teach and have Authority? https://vimeo.com/152244928 Marg Mowzscko (https://margmowczko.com). Use the search bar to find information on “covering” and “submission” and “hierarchy.”

The process of growing in our faith can be an isolating one. Is it ok to have questions? Is it ok to ask them? Topics today: 1. Check out a podcast I was on recently with Natalie Hoffman, who is a coach and runs a support group for women who are in or recovering from destructive marriages. In this podcast I share some basic, intermediate, and advanced tips and tools for studying scripture: https://flyingfreenow.com/episode-29-learning-to-love-the-bible-again/ 2. Who are the sheep? Who are the goats? (Matthew 25:31-46 3. Are we safe in our churches? How do we know? 4. What is repentance? 5. What does it mean to be a brother or sister in Christ? Does our identity in Christ have anything to do with our social status, gender, race?  6. My friend Vickie's encouragement to "get out of the box!"  7. My very weird story about domain names (just thrown in for good measure). ___ I attended Beth Israel Messianic Synagogue on Saturday and it was so impactful for me. I have listened to them faithfully for about 3 years and finally attended in person. The week prior I found myself praying once again for clarity. Wouldn't you know that the service I attended in person was the Shabbat of Vision? God is so funny that way. Anyway, it is an excellent message about vision and clarity and I wanted to share it with you: https://www.podbean.com/eu/pb-ncr9x-bb15a6 ___ I'd love to hear from you about what is on your heart and mind. Is there a topic you want me to feature on a future podcast? Let me know. Email me at stacey@clarityunleashed.com Are you interested in scheduling a free coaching call? That's up to 1-hour with me and is a great way to decide if working with me will work for you. JUST CLICK HERE for info!

In this episode I discuss Hagar's story, and how I found a piece of my story within hers.    Notes on 2 sources: Nicole C. Mullen and Kathie Lee Gifford's Song "The God Who Sees" is found on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/2SgIUP5YtGrVBiGTLyrwSa?si=Q785chWuSNmtYUVFKTSxuQ More about their upcoming film is here: https://godwhosees.com/ Sandra Glahn's book can be purchased here: Vindicating the Vixens: Revisiting Sexualized, Vilified, and Marginalized Women of the Biblehttps://www.amazon.com/dp/0825444136/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_iKoPCbDW58M54  

Who makes disciples? How is the Great Commission demonstrated through Acts 16?   Passages discussed: Matthew 28:18-20 and Acts 16 Also, page 331 of the following book: Forrest, Benjamin, and Chet Roden, eds. Biblical Leadership: Theology for the Everyday Leader. Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel Academic, 2017.  

When we have the Spirit inside us, we identify the Spirit in others. This requires us to use our spiritual eyesight, and to look beyond physical characteristics to see God within each other.  There are so many stories of women in the Bible, yet their voices are largely unheard. As a woman, I can identify with the spiritual characteristics present in men, but I'd like to hear more about how God worked in and through women too.  In order to use more stories of women in our teaching and preaching, we need to experience them, study them, apply them. So that's one of my goals for 2019 - to uncover stories of women in scripture and raise the voices of the women God encountered in the Old and New Testament.  Today we start briefly with Lydia, a woman we meet in Acts 16: https://www.blueletterbible.org/csb/act/16/1/s_1034001 Another resource here: https://margmowczko.com/tag/lydia/  

Christina is a dynamic leader, coach and friend. She is the owner and founder of Sol Coaching, a Certified Health Coach, Certified Life Coach, and NASM Certified Personal Trainer. Christina is also a U.S. Navy Veteran, a Navy wife, and a mommy. In this podcast we talk about her coaching business, ministry, and the Common Ground Conference, where she will be speaking in May 2019. Find Christina online: www.solcoaching.net Facebook: @SolCoachingbyChris Instagram: @sol_coaching      

Visit our event webpage for more info: https://thecommonground.community/ Register at this link, and mark your calendar for May 3-4, 2019!   Bumper Music: Adelaide (Dinosaur Dance) (Bumper Edit) by UH © Copyright - Eneonycity / Eneonycity 

11-15-18 Tonight I am speaking at a local wellness event at Zivkovic Chiropractic. I haven't had my Health Coach "hat" on in a bit and am looking forward to it. My topic is hormone balance, sleep and pain. If you would like to receive my notes, text the word CLARITY to 345345. You will be asked to supply your email address, at which point you will receive links to notes, my Facebook page, and the appointment link on my website.  My podcast is not medical advice. I am not a physician. My statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This information is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. 

God gave me hindsight to see a connection between my life now, and a promise He made to me long ago. This purpose He revealed to me then has come to fruition, but in an unexpected way.  If I had bumper music for this episode, it would totally be the sound of helicopters. Other topics: ezer kenegdo Notes:https://goo.gl/ZkWTUS stacey@clarityunleashed.com  

Circumcision, Childbirth, Submission, Women in Leadership. In this podcast I look through these passages: Acts 15, 1 Tim 2, Acts 16.  Want another source to read? Here's a good place to start: https://margmowczko.com/category/equality-and-gender-issues/1-timothy-212/  

Welcome to my podcast! I invite you to check out my site, ClarityUnleashed.com. In this first episode I am honestly just getting used to podcasting! But you'll learn a little bit about me and what my current vision is for Clarity Unleashed. If you would like to share your story, and insight into God's calling on your life and ministry, I'd love to have you.  And if you're looking for a leadership assessment and coaching session, let's do it!