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Serenity helps people manifest their dream visions by taking a courageous, adventurous, and yet a serene approach to life. Overall, achieving this through over 500+ coaching and peer support sessions as a company's “Top 10 Most Booked”, 50+ hosted events, presenting keynote speeches, her blog with over 500k+ metrics, authoring the book “It's Time To Manifest Your Vision” (soon to be on Amazon), and creating 100's of digital resources; she's here to inspire.Essentially; From Complex PTSD - to - Multipassionate Entrepreneur, Independent World Traveler, Content Creator, Certified Life Coach, Author, and Public Speaker!Visit Serenity Lesley's Links: manifestingserenity.com/press-and-media/ manifestingserenity.com/have-me-as-a-guest/
Many people believe recovery is simply about quitting alcohol or drugs. But true healing goes much deeper.In this powerful episode of Sharing Without Shame, Donna Marston sits down with therapist, life coach, recovery support worker, and motivational speaker Kimberly Deziree to discuss how childhood trauma, unresolved emotional wounds, and unhealthy relationship patterns shape our lives—and how doing the inner work can lead to lasting freedom.Kimberly shares her deeply personal recovery journey, from addiction and destructive relationships to becoming a therapist who now helps others reclaim their lives. Together, she and Donna explore why boundaries are essential, how childhood experiences influence adult behavior, and why healing yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can give both yourself and your family.In This Episode You'll Learn:
Pilar Herreros Founder of Mastering Serenity Creator of the 5-Minute Relax Method Pilar Herreros is the founder of Mastering Serenity and the creator of the 5-Minute Relax Method. She is a Certified Life Coach, Meditation and Reiki Master, one of Miami's early Pilates instructors, and an Amazon bestselling author in both English and Spanish. Through her work, Pilar empowers individuals, leaders, and organizations to reduce stress, anxiety, and headaches—anytime, anywhere—while cultivating lasting serenity from within. Her books became Amazon bestsellers on her 60th and 61st birthdays, a meaningful milestone she describes as a gift of gratitude—celebrating life and giving back for the many blessings she has received throughout her journey. For the past five years, Pilar has partnered with Armour Dance Theatre, a Miami nonprofit with more than 70 years of community impact. Through its after-school mindfulness and well-being programs, she has supported educators and staff while helping bring calming practices to more than 400 children each month across Miami-Dade County. Pilar welcomes collaborations with sponsors, businesses, and organizations that share her commitment to making well-being more accessible and helping people live healthier, calmer, and more fulfilling lives.
Watch & Subscribe on YouTube @marladiann You know that quiet inner knowing that nudges you toward something? Only to talk yourself out of it or second-guess yourself? (That's your beautiful brain trying to protect you—even when your intuition already knows the way.) In this thoughtful episode of Follow Your Joy, I'm joined by intuitive guide, author, and certified coach Dina Berrin for a conversation about one of my favorite subjects—intuition. Not as something mysterious or reserved for a select few. But as a natural part of being human that we've simply forgotten how to trust. Dina believes we don't lack intuition—we've just gotten out of the habit of listening to it. And when we begin paying attention to that quiet inner knowing, even in small ways, life begins to shift. Inside this conversation, we explore: • Why so many people second-guess themselves despite knowing what feels right • How intuition quietly guides our everyday decisions—in business, relationships, and life • The surprising connection between self-honesty and lasting change • Dina's personal journey from a demanding corporate career to intuitive coaching • Why COVID became the unexpected pause that changed everything for her • How tools like tarot, numerology, and astrology can become mirrors for self-discovery rather than sources of answers • Practical ways to begin trusting your own inner wisdom with greater confidence One of my favorite insights from Dina is this: The work isn't learning how to access your intuition. The work is learning to stop talking yourself out of what you already know. That simple shift has the power to change everything. Dina is generously sharing her free guide, The Tarot Coach Approach, introducing a thoughtful way to use tarot as a reflective tool for gaining clarity and strengthening your intuition. You'll find her gift inside the Portal of Joy, along with dozens of carefully curated resources from Follow Your Joy guests. https://marladiann.com/podcast/portal/ If you've been standing at a crossroads, overthinking a decision, or sensing that life is asking something new of you, this conversation is a beautiful reminder that the wisdom you're searching for may already be within you. Sometimes the greatest act of courage isn't finding the answer. It's trusting the one you already have. Resources + Links: www.dinaberrin.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dinaberrin YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dinaberrin5975 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/dina-perlmutter-berrin-cpcc-pcc-5b812022 Book: The Way Within: Igniting Your Intuition with Sacred Tools https://a.co/d/08Jr79AL -Marla's Amazon Lifestyle Influencer Store – shop for favorites. Marla Diann's Amazon Page Take a virtual seat in my NEW year-round community: The Elegant Way Forward Salon. A place where accomplished women gather twice each month for thoughtful conversation, meaningful mentoring, and practical guidance as they shape the next chapter of their lives together. Details: https://marladiann.com/ig/ Loved this episode? Don't stop here, unlock the tools, resources, and free downloads mentioned during the episode. Click here to access the portal of joy. https://marladiann.com/podcast/portal/
On this episode of Coaching Call, Sifu Rafael welcomes Sabine Patricia Poncelet for a thought provoking conversation about healing, transformation, and reconnecting with your authentic self.Sabine Patricia Poncelet is a Transpersonal Regression Therapist, Trance Channeler, Quantum Healer, Certified Life Coach, and NLP Coach who blends personal development with spiritual exploration to help individuals move beyond limiting beliefs and unresolved emotional patterns. Her work focuses on trauma liberation, psycho spiritual integration, and holistic healing, empowering people to reconnect with their inner strength and live with greater purpose and authenticity.Through her unique approach, Sabine guides clients toward deeper self awareness, helping them release emotional barriers, embrace personal growth, and create meaningful transformation. Whether discussing healing, mindset, or the connection between emotional well being and personal fulfillment, her mission is centered on helping others unlock their highest potential.Join us as we explore the journey of self discovery, overcoming limitations, developing resilience, and creating a life aligned with your values and purpose.Watch on YouTube and subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/@sifurafaeltv?sub_confirmation=1Sifu Rafael is a master instructor and the founder of Speaking Prowess, where he combines expertise in communication and leadership to help individuals unlock their full potential. As a professional speaker, solutions expert, and executive coach, Sifu Rafael leverages years of experience to guide clients toward their goals with clarity, purpose, and strategic insight. His mission is to make the art of effective communication accessible to all, empowering personal and professional growth. Sifu Rafael's unwavering dedication to improving communication skills has earned him a reputation as a trusted mentor and coach. His vision is clear: to enhance communication worldwide, one individual at a time.This episode is brought to you by Sifu's Mind Body Method, a lifestyle transformation that blends movement, mindset, nutrition, hydration, fasting, journaling, and faith. Learn more at sifumethod.comThat's where connecting with Sifu Rafael matters.Through Speaking Prowess and Sifu's Mind Body Method, Sifu Rafael helps leaders, entrepreneurs, and experts refine their message, command a room, and step onto more stages with clarity and confidence. From podcasts and live shows to keynote stages and curated experiences, Sifu Rafael helps people get seen, heard, and positioned as trusted voices in their industry while sharpening their speaking skills along the way.If you know you're meant to speak, lead, and impact at a higher level, this conversation is your invitation.Visit sifurafael.com to connect, explore speaking opportunities, and start positioning yourself for more stages, stronger presence, and real influence.#coachingcall #sifurafael #healing #personaldevelopment #leadership #mindset #communication #speakingprowess #transformation #growth
“Honor your mind, body, and soul.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Melissa Coloton about her journey from farm life to corporate sales. They talk about high-pressure anxiety and burnout, as well as insights on self-awareness, purpose, and holistic well-being. What to listen for: Honoring yourself means recognizing and responding to your emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental needs. Self-awareness helps us catch patterns and make better decisions over time. Understanding that our mind, body, and soul are connected helps us to see life holistically and from various perspectives External influences and pressures can sometimes become ingrained in who we believe ourselves to be. “Support systems are vital for growth.” Growth is not entirely a solo mission; having the right support system can make a huge difference. Surrounding ourselves with the right people and right environments for us to thrive can take time to separate from the past, but it is always well worth the effort. Support systems can provide new perspectives and help you navigate challenges without burning yourself out. “We really focused on reconnecting with myself. It wasn’t like “you must stop having anxiety”. It was like “when you have anxiety, this is the connection point you have to have with yourself.” Managing anxiety is not about eliminating it, but about learning to navigate it. Self-awareness and self-connection are crucial for managing anxiety and other challenges. By focusing on connection and self-awareness, you can develop coping strategies that work for you. Embracing your emotions and experiences can help you build a stronger sense of self and increase your emotional intelligence. About Melissa Coloton Melissa is a Certified Life Coach and Sales Expert who helps businesses, sales professionals, and entrepreneurs create what she calls aligned success, where purpose, profit, and a fulfilling life all work together. With nearly 20 years of sales leadership experience spanning quota-carrying sales roles, strategy, and executive leadership, she has driven over $1 billion in new business and led high-performing teams to record-breaking growth, particularly in the life sciences sector. After facing burnout and health challenges at the height of her career, Melissa transitioned to a more sustainable model of success and now serves as a trusted strategic partner to people navigating growth, leadership pressure, and pivotal decisions. She is the creator of The Honor You Method, a framework that blends mindset, emotional capacity, and execution strategy to support high-level performance without sacrificing well-being, and the host of The Honor You Podcast, where she explores building success that truly feels as good as it looks. https://melissacoloton.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-coloton-coach/ https://www.instagram.com/melissa_coloton/ Resources: Check out other episodes about anxiety and burnout: Balancing Law And Spirit: Boundaries, Burnout, And Personal Growth With Cindy Rendon How To Handle And Successfully Navigate Career Burnout Easily Reduce Anxiety By Going Calm, Present And Connected Are you looking for ways to better manage your daily mindset, live a happier, more fulfilled life, and pursue the depths of your soul on your path to self-mastery? Schedule a free clarity session with Nick to see if mentoring is a good fit for you.Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Check out Nick's website for more information: https://nickmcgowan.com/ Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already have? Check out Nick's website for more information: https://nickmcgowan.com/ Please subscribe on iTunes and give us a 5-Star review! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-and-self-mastery-show/id1604262089 Listen to other episodes here: https://themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com/ Watch Clips and highlights: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk1tCM7KTe3hrq_-UAa6GHA Guest Inquiries right here: podcasts@themindsetandselfmasteryshow.com Thank you for listening! Your Friends at “The Mindset & Self-Mastery Show” Click Here To View The Episode Transcript Nick McGowan (00:01.462)Hello and welcome to the Mindset and Self Mastery Show. I’m your host, Nick McGowan. Today on the show we have Melissa Coloton. Melissa, how you doing today? Melissa Coloton (00:11.678)I’m good, Nick. How are you? Nick McGowan (00:13.442)I’m good. I’m good. I’m glad you’re here. we were just shooting the breeze talking about things podcasting and life and all of that. So I want to kind of continue the conversation, but why don’t you get us started? Tell us what you do for a living and what’s one thing most people don’t know about you that’s maybe a little odd or bizarre. Melissa Coloton (00:15.767)Me too. Melissa Coloton (00:30.584)Sure. So what I do for a living is I’m a certified life coach and sales expert and I combine those two things by helping people find success that really means something to them by putting purpose and profit together because one without the other will always make you kinda want more out of life. So I try to not be Pollyanna about purpose without profit and I try not to be too focused on profit because, you know, then if we get too into the weeds about that, then that’s all that matters to us and we forget what our purpose is. So that’s what I do. And I spent about twenty years in corporate sales. So that’s my background and always wanted to be a life coach since my late twenties. So finally, finally, finally started doing the thing and combined those two very bizarre things and put them together. So actually they’re not bizarre things on their own, but putting them together is a little bit odd. Nick McGowan (01:18.776)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (01:23.96)And something that people would find odd about me, which I don’t know if it’s too odd, but I do think people are surprised when I say this, is I’m I’m in my blood, I’m a farm girl. So I grew up on a farm, my dad was a farmer, his dad was a farmer. So and I think people are surprised about that because, you know, I’ve spent a lot of time in corporate. So being very corporate y and wearing the jackets and all the things. And so when I say like I grew up basically in the middle of a field and ate dirt for for the most of my childhood, people are like, wow, surprising. So yep. I I I would say that I present this, you know, very polished person, but I really do enjoy, you know, a good old backwood bonfire and grew up partying in fields. So yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (02:16.556)Nice. I I I like how you slowly kind of got into that and you were like, Yeah, we party a lot in fields. Like that was how it is. Whole lot. Melissa Coloton (02:22.552)And we partied a lot. Like we had to party on state land because well there was nowhere really to go, right? Like we there was nowhere to go. So we just would all get together in State Land fields. That’s what we did. Yeah. Nick McGowan (02:31.715)Yeah. Nick McGowan (02:37.87)Yeah. That’s cool. I mean, we all have I think we all have situations growing up that some people were a little bit more partiers. I’m trying to be real mindful of how I put this. Some people like partied hard in their like high school years and others didn’t. And then they partied too hard in their early 20s when it was legal to go drink or whatever, and then they got out of it. Some like just never get out of it and like belly up to the bar at 65 years old and it’s the same bar they’ve been bellying up to. but I think there are there’s some like. Melissa Coloton (02:53.068)Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (03:10.606)Crazy moments that you can think back to, I’m sure. There definitely are for me that have to do with some of those parties that I can look back at now and go, holy shit. Like I saw how life could have changed drastically. And also I saw how I learned to kind of manage things in a sense. Like, how do you manage a whole group of 40 people around a bonfire out in the middle of nowhere? Or like the cops are coming. How do you let everybody know? Or whatever that looks like. Melissa Coloton (03:22.56)Mm. Melissa Coloton (03:39.754)Right. Yeah. Nick McGowan (03:41.4)But I I can appreciate coming from basically somewhere that’s not corporate at all, and then ending up in corporate. Cause I’ve seen that with people that I’ve worked with at times that were some of the best workers I’d ever worked with, and some of the almost like hard nosed people I’ve ever worked with. And I think that came from their background of being on their farm. Like you had chores that most city kids didn’t have and like tough things that you had to figure out and what do we do? So I’m sure that Melissa Coloton (04:03.776)Yeah. Nick McGowan (04:11.138)Did that help you, you think, when you got into not only corporate but sales? Melissa Coloton (04:15.306)Yeah. Yeah. I think it did a few things. Honestly, it definitely helped my work ethic. You know, I summers off were not a thing for me. I literally would hay it is what we called it, is basically get all the hay ready for the winter. And I remember me and my cousin, she was only a year older than me. We would fight about who would get the front of the wagon and who would get the back of the wagon. Because if you’re the back, you had to start throwing when eventually you’d had start throwing the bales of hay to the front for the person to put it on the elevator and go up and dump it into the hay mill. And we would fight about that like literally like one of us would try to like try to get to the back and or try to get to the front so they didn’t have to be the one throwing bales of hay. So I definitely feel like it helped my work ethic plus like seeing my dad work like that. You know, my dad he he had to do chores before he went to school when he was in high school. Nick McGowan (04:54.83)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (05:08.898)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (05:08.94)You know, he would have to do chores and then he’d have to go do sports or whatever he did and come home and do more chores. So my dad, it wasn’t like he got that like childhood most people think of when they think of childhood. My my dad was worked with his dad. That’s what he did. And they found a way to make it fun. So I think that also helped me was like you can’t take yourself too seriously in an environment like that because shit hits the fan a lot. And if you lose your mind every time the shit hits the fan on a farm, like Nick McGowan (05:31.96)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (05:37.584)you’ll just go nuts. So I have a lot of stories from my my my dad and his aunt about how they grew up and and my grandfather and how crazy that all was. And they just have a lot of laughs about it because I really do think like you would go nuts. So I think that really helped my my work ethic in a really big way. I also feel like it it removed a lot of entitlement. And I’m not I’m not saying I don’t have any entitlement ’cause I think we all do to some degree. But I think it removed a lot of entitlement because Nick McGowan (06:00.814)Mm. Melissa Coloton (06:07.146)I didn’t really come into this world with all this money or like I wasn’t handed anything in my life. Like everything I did, I had to work really hard for. And so when you’re in sales, that serves you very well because you can then make things out of nothing. You know, I even in my sales career, I would get these territories and I’d be like, What the fuck? Like and and I’m like, and at first I was pissed about it, right? Like, why can’t I just get a main account or something like that? But I’m glad I didn’t. Because I learned the art of making something out of nothing, making money where there was no money ig in existence yet. Like I always say, like in sales, especially like the sales the sales professionals that are like, I want an ac I want an active account or I want to tear the territory that’s already bloomed. I’m like, you should actually not want that for especially your first couple go go rounds, because you will learn a skill set that nobody will ever take from you and nobody will ever actually teach you. You will not. You will not learn that in a book, you will not learn that in a podcast. You you have to just do it. And so, yeah, I see I think growing up on a farm helped me with those two things in a in a really big way. Nick McGowan (07:06.689)Yeah. Nick McGowan (07:15.896)My God, I could imagine that you were in a much better spot to be able to handle really tough situations or like calculations of moves, but also probably you experienced different things that other people didn’t, like trying to think from like the opposite perspective. Like I mainly grew up in a city or like right outside of a city. and I’ve always been around a lot of people. So being in a corporate environment, like all the chaos, all the people talking, like you know, those meetings where it’s like. Melissa Coloton (07:21.368)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (07:39.608)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (07:45.77)One person should really be running it, but they’ve lost it. It’s off the rails at this point. Like everybody’s just jabbering about whatever the fucking thing is. And how do you pull that back? How do you not? Like, what’s your level of it? When does it not matter what your level is? And go, yo, you know, that sort of thing or whatever. but I I think that there’s stuff that we as people can really try to find the easiest way through. Like we’re seeing a lot of it with AI now. Everybody’s trying to write books and they’re trying to do all these things. Melissa Coloton (08:09.24)Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (08:13.25)Because they just need to create and they need to do all this. When in all reality, what they’re really doing is saying, well, I have to make money. And I’m told that I have to do more. So I have to do more to make the money, but I don’t have enough time to do it. And I don’t really know what the fuck’s going on. And in sales without AI, we’ve experienced that stuff where you’re like, there’s a lot going on. There’s a lot of moving parts and pieces. And I don’t have enough in my pipeline. And but that’s just a small piece from a salesperson. And we all experience stuff like that. But you ended up getting to the point where you’ve done a lot, you work through, and yeah, you can look back now and go, I was really appreciative of having that. You weren’t then, because you typically aren’t, where you’re like, Are you fucking kidding me? Nobody’s here. This is nonsense. But when you learn and you work through it, you can see the silver lining of it. But that’s not always the case with getting burned out. So talk to us about not only the journey of like looking back at that and going, I can see where I’m starting to burn and where I was starting to smolder. Melissa Coloton (08:54.22)Yeah. Right. Melissa Coloton (09:03.734)Right. Melissa Coloton (09:11.032)Mm. Nick McGowan (09:12.642)But then also what that journey looked like. You shared a bit of that even before we started, of like taking it kind of category by category of our I’m gonna work through this, like the mind, body, soul, et cetera. So what did that look like for you? Melissa Coloton (09:23.649)Yeah. Yeah, you know, hindsight is wildly twenty twenty, right? so honestly, when it when when I would say my burn burning out or burnt outness started showing its ugly head, I I truly blamed it on life situations, how hard I had worked, like that kind of stuff. Cause at the time I also had a a friend that was dying of cancer. So it was life combined with work. And even up until I would say, even just recently, honestly, like I would say like literally probably within the last six to twelve months, this has come to me a little bit clearer. And that is it wasn’t necessarily how much I was working. Right. It it wasn’t necessarily even the work I was doing. It was the lens in which I was seeing it all. And that was being very performative, n really afraid to fail. Like really, really afraid to fail. And I say this with a huge grain of salt because I love my parents, but they my parents were very young when they had me. Sh my mom was 18 when she had me. She was 16 when she had my brother. And so they were like kids raising kids. And so I think my mom put on this suit of like My children are not gonna have the life that I had. They are gonna have a different life in me, which served me very, very, very well. Also, it created a monster in me that was like, you have to succeed, period. Like no matter what, you have to succeed and you cannot fail. And I and I often had these experiences with my mom where I’d like, I remember this one time I got a C in French. Like, French, like who fucking cares? Nick McGowan (11:19.835)Melissa Coloton (11:21.184)I’m not gonna move to Paris. Like, we’re okay. And she like just lost her shit on me. Like, just like, what the fuck are you? Like, she didn’t swear, but basically she was like, What the fuck are you doing? Like, if you can’t get better grades than this, you’re not gonna go to she always held sports over my head because I loved playing sports. So that was always one where she could really get me and to do whatever she wanted me to do. Cause I’d be like, my god, I need to go to sports. and so as I got older and I started working in these really Nick McGowan (11:27.405)Mm. Nick McGowan (11:35.864)Yeah. Nick McGowan (11:41.102)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (11:50.251)immense pressure cookers. I mean, Nick, there were my biggest opportunity I ever had was over a hundred million dollars. And that was just in service fees. So together it was actually probably more like a $200 million deal. So I would get in these pressure situations and instead of being like, I got this, I’d be like, this has to come together. Like, and and it was more of like a lens I saw my work through than it was the actual work I was doing. Nick McGowan (12:01.41)Yeah. Nick McGowan (12:12.622)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (12:19.946)So I started getting these weird bursts of anxiety at very odd times, which is why I kind of shoved it aside. Cause it wasn’t like I would be in the middle of a meeting and be like, my God, I’m about to have a panic attack. It would be more like weirder times, like specifically when I was driving. Like when I would drive, I would get really anxious. And I was just like, that’s weird. And I just kept putting it off, kept putting it off, kept putting it off, kept putting it off. And then one day I couldn’t. Yeah. It was just I was driving on the way to work and Nick McGowan (12:31.874)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (12:43.758)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (12:47.661)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (12:49.954)complete meltdown. Like pulled off the highway, tried to get back on, pulled off the highway, tried to get back on. I couldn’t do it. Thank God at the time I was working for my boss was my friend. So I was able to call her and say, I don’t know the fuck’s wrong with me, but I cannot come to work today. And I was supposed to like, my team was coming into town. I was supposed to be leading meetings and all this stuff. She’s like, don’t worry about it. Go home. Get some rest. And I thought it would be a blip on the radar. I was like, I’d be fine tomorrow. Right. And I figured I could probably Nick McGowan (13:07.214)You can Nick McGowan (13:11.51)Mm. Nick McGowan (13:17.624)Yeah. Tomorrow, yeah. Melissa Coloton (13:19.768)Keep keep pushing it aside. I woke up the next day and had just anxiety, like just major chronic anxiety. Couldn’t drive, I couldn’t even drive a quarter. I don’t exaggerate this. And when it’s funny when people when I’ve told people this story afterwards, like people who know me really well, they’re like, they literally think I’m lying. And I’m like, no, I don’t think you understand. Like I could not get in my car and drive a quarter mile down the road without being like, I gotta, I gotta go home. I gotta go back home. So Nick McGowan (13:39.768)Mm. Melissa Coloton (13:48.077)That led to work with a a practitioner near where I live and he’s a life coach and an acupuncturist. And so I’ve I’ve been seeing him ever since that day, which has been, I think the summer will be eight years now. And yeah, and and we really focused on reconnection to myself. And when I did get it’s like he didn’t he wasn’t like you must stop having anxiety. It wasn’t it wasn’t like that. It was like when you have anxiety, this is Nick McGowan (14:02.478)Nice. Nick McGowan (14:12.76)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (14:17.356)the connecting point you have to have with yourself because I didn’t, right? It was like, it was very much like a keep it moving. And anything I felt in my body or anything that I anything that I felt anywhere, it was like, no, I ain’t got time for this shit. And I even remember going into his office being like, the fuck, like this I I just don’t have time for this. Like I I leg legitimately remember thinking that. Like and then I remember sitting in his office for the first time, him telling me that I don’t have a relationship with myself. Nick McGowan (14:24.685)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (14:37.375)Mm. Melissa Coloton (14:46.678)And I’m like, excuse me. Like I I just thought I was one of the most authentic people and all this stuff. So it took some took some work to even understand what was really going on with myself. And so that led to a lot of connection with self, a lot of soul work, what’s really in my heart. When I do have anxiety, what does that mean? What do I need to console? How do I need to function in that experience? And actually welcoming anxiety, because I believe that like when you have these feelings. It’s your soul being like, Hey, I need some attention here. Like, what about me? And so I was just playing the game of like, I don’t care about you. I’m gonna keep it moving. So that was a lot of our work in the beginning. And then when that got really, really solid, I was like, but actually there’s mind, body, and soul here. And so now I’m really in a big era of f fo focusing. a lot on my mind because I can really see now because I meditate a lot more now and I can really see the thoughts that I I come up with on a fairly regular basis. And I can see the through line and I can see the thread. And then I can take that and command my mind to think a different thought. And then it becomes a belief and then I’m just at a better place, generally speaking. So yeah, and then the body is just kind of more the obvious one I would say, you know, I’m very keen on taking care of my body and Nick McGowan (16:01.069)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (16:09.514)not drinking like god awful amount of caffeine just to get through the day and stay focused and like you know like because that’s what I was doing for a while there. so I hope that kind of paints a picture of what I experienced. It was not pretty and there was a lot to it and there were very dark days. I remember I never thought this before and I only actually told one person this when it was happening. And not even my husband, I told my best friend I was like if in if I Nick McGowan (16:13.43)Ha ha ha. Melissa Coloton (16:40.17)If I’m gonna feel like this for the rest of my life, like I actually don’t think I wanna live like this. And and it wasn’t necessarily a a true like thought of you know what, but it was the start of one for sure. Cause I was like, I don’t wanna live like this. Like, this isn’t living. That’s how terrible I felt on a regular basis. So, you know, I definitely went on anti-anxiety medication. I was told I had major depressive disorder. When they said that to me, I was like, Nick McGowan (16:43.928)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (17:07.296)What did you just say to me? Like it was still like, what the fuck are you talking? What what are any of you people talking about? So it really took me a while to not be in denial. And then when I wasn’t and it was finally like a okay, I will okay, yeah, I get this. Like this is where I’m at and this is what I’m gonna have as I have to deal with this. So yeah, I’m really thankful for my practitioner and all my friends and all my family and everybody I worked with was amazing at the time, thank God. Nick McGowan (17:08.632)Mm. Melissa Coloton (17:37.541)my my boss didn’t tell anybody, you know, like people didn’t really know that I was that I was in that state of being when I was at work and I still was able to to get through, but it took a while and then I finally came off anti anxiety medicine and went back on them one time and that was at the height of my executive and and again I I kinda got to that place of I hope nobody figures out I’m an idiot or you know, I have to be perfect or Nick McGowan (17:37.901)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (18:06.038)You know, what if I don’t meet my target? Like there’s just a again, it was in that pressure cooker moment. And I was just like, I’m gonna like move all these things aside and pretend they’re not there. So I kind of did a solid two rounds of that. The second round wasn’t nearly as bad as the first because I had the tools, but there was definitely elements of that s that same initial experience again. It just wasn’t as bad as the first time because I think I had tools, but it eventually got me to the place where I was like. Okay, something for real needs to give. Like this is not sustainable for me. This is not what I’m supposed to be doing. I think the second round I was a little bit more in that thought process of like, I’ve tried to make this work in corporate. I’m just forcing it at this point. So Nick McGowan (18:39.638)Mm. Nick McGowan (18:52.984)I think that’s critical. Like we, as people, can look at things that we’re told to do. Like you need to go to college, you need to go to school, you need to get married, you need to have kids, you need this, you need that, blah, blah, blah. And those things change with every generation. Like even our parents that were like, You’re gonna have a better life than I did. So I’m gonna do things. And it’s like everything you’re gonna do, you’re still gonna fuck up your kid somehow, because you’re gonna say something weird or something’s gonna happen, they’re gonna interpret it weird or whatever. They’re just different human. Melissa Coloton (19:05.005)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (19:16.512)Yeah. Yeah. Nick McGowan (19:20.312)But we take all these things and we think we have to be a certain way, especially from a from a corporate perspective, not even corporate, from somebody who works in larger organizations with a team of people and a lot of people counting on you from different departments, not just from sales, but production needs things from you. They need you to bring in sales, like all the different stuff that goes along with it, where we can get so stuck thinking it’s all on me, it’s all this, it’s all whatever it is. And that’s Melissa Coloton (19:34.221)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (19:39.948)Yeah. Nick McGowan (19:48.568)typically never ever the actual problem. I find that there’s a lot of times where it’s a misalignment problem where we’re not aligned with what we’re doing, but we don’t want to fucking have that conversation with ourselves to be able to do that. Biggest thing that you pointed out was you did work and then you did more work and then you did more work after that. And now you’re still doing a lot of work. So big moral of the story is keep doing the work because those things will start to clear up. Like the spot you’re in Melissa Coloton (20:01.4)Correct. Right. Melissa Coloton (20:10.68)Hundred percent. Yeah. Nick McGowan (20:17.666)With whatever you’re at, just like the people that are listening that are like, well, I’m in a spot right now with either my company or the company I work for. And really in the back of their minds, they’re like, what the fuck? How do I change? What, what do I even where where do I start? What what happens? Like, what’s the first thing I look at? It I think about it like you know, those junk drawers or even a junky closet that everybody has. Like if you really want to clean that thing out, you have to take everything out. And then you have to audit it. Melissa Coloton (20:44.202)Mm-hmm. Yep. Nick McGowan (20:46.018)And that’s such a fucking project. And no one wants to do it with their junctur, let alone themselves. But they get to the point where they’re like, I can’t not. I have to because I can’t anymore. I don’t want to be here. Wait, if I don’t want to be here, what else does that look like? And then things start to crumble a bit. I think the big thing that you’re saying with doing the work is that there’s consistent work that needs to happen, but then there’s also clarity that comes with that that opens up other doors. Melissa Coloton (20:48.332)Yeah. No. Right. Right. Nick McGowan (21:13.442)Like I see things at times where it’s like I open one door and there’s forty more. And I open another door and there’s four thousand more. And I’m like, fuck, should I turn around? Cause there were less doors this way. Like, what what’s going on here? It’s because of that self awareness. yeah. Yeah. And you’re like, where do I pull that thing from? Melissa Coloton (21:22.408)Yeah. It’s like Jenga, right? Call this one out. What’s about to happen? Nick McGowan (21:31.534)And that that’s a really good point. I think a lot of people live in a Django-like state and they don’t really know it. And anything could crack them. I think it’s on us to be able to be self-aware enough to see like, hey, there’s something there. But it can still like it even gets the best of all of us, no matter how much work we’ve done. It’s how quickly you can kind of snap back in a sense and go, you know, I see what I did there for future next problem. Let’s do something a little different. So looking back at that stuff, because here we are in a podcast where this is easy to talk about. But this is also, I think about it as like a lab sort of situation where we go, cool. If we do the work now, by the time you get in that situation, even if you think back and go, those two fucking people were talking about this thing, I remember this. Here’s what they said. Like that’s the point of like, how do we do work now? So that when we’re in that spot, we go, you know what, I’ve been here before. Let me do something a little differently, or at least catch where we’re off. And what I mean by that is like mindset wise. Melissa Coloton (22:14.496)Yeah. Right. Melissa Coloton (22:26.848)Mm. Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (22:29.772)I’ve been in situations where my mindset was, I’m going to not fuck this up. I’m going to do the best situation I can. I’m going to do whatever I can, like I’ve learned some things, and I think too hard about it. I’m too mindset with it because I’m so dead set on just like seeing the thing through instead of understanding context and the situation. And I had something years ago where I literally reacted to my partner at the time. She said something and I reacted and like felt my Melissa Coloton (22:42.22)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (22:58.786)being split where I was like, yo, dude, don’t you say another fucking word. And I could literally hear myself go, shut up and get the fuck out of the house. And I was like, and one more thing. And it was like, motherfucker. Because like it’s already out there and you can’t do anything. But even that level of self-awareness to go, shit. All right, I did that. So what do I do differently this time? The work has to keep adding up. So now that you’re able to look back at that stuff and say, look, I’ve done a lot of this work. I keep doing work for somebody who’s in Melissa Coloton (23:00.288)Mm. Mm. Melissa Coloton (23:08.93)Yeah. no. Nick McGowan (23:28.128)a a spot either in their own business or something that where they’re managing like you did where you’re like there’s this and there’s that. I don’t want people to find out that I don’t really know what the fuck’s going on. Like what what sort of things did you figure out that worked for you because your energy that would align with them and might be in a similar spot where, hey, I need to do this sort of thing from a mechanism standpoint of like breathing or standing out of my energy or whatever to then get to the point where I can actually do something about my mind. So like what did that look like for you? Melissa Coloton (23:49.676)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (23:56.417)Yeah. Yeah. Well, not to be too prescriptive, but the way I describe my, I guess, set of tools, if you will, is is honoring yourself. And that’s a really big perspective I have now in POV of looking at situations and life as a whole. And that just means, you know, recognizing, respecting, and responding to your emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental needs the best you can. Right. And just Nick McGowan (24:09.324)Mm. Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (24:24.888)external circumstances or societal norms or, you know, anything that might pull you away from really truly hearing all those things about yourself and knowing what it is you really want. And too many people, especially now, because we’re getting super influenced by mega externals. Like before it was probably just our parents and maybe our school and maybe our friends. And now it’s The whole world is influencing you in a really big way. And may and maybe T V. Like we had what, a couple of channels, right? And commercials, sure, whatever. But like I know, I think I kinda am though. I kinda am. You know, I’m I’m definitely of the age where you had to sprint to the bathroom or get some new snacks before the the commercial was over. My brother would be like, It’s pretty Nick McGowan (24:51.181)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (24:55.916)We’re not that old. Calm down. We had to get up and actually hit the switch and like the rabbit ears. Nick McGowan (25:10.434)yeah. Same, I get that. Well before TiVo. Yeah. Melissa Coloton (25:18.22)But but yeah, I think there’s just, you know, there’s a lot of influence. And so how do you understand what you truly want, what you truly need? How do you recognize that? How do you respect it? And I say respect because, you know, a lot of people do the mindset work where they’re like, Shut up, mind. Well, that’s not respectful to your mind, right? Like, why are you treating a major part of who you are disrespectfully? Not saying I never do it, but that’s not the way to go. Like, that’s not going to leverage. your mind, your body, and your soul to get what you want out of life and perform at a really high level if that’s what you want and whatever you’re doing. Cause when I say perform at a high level, I don’t mean like you’re some CEO or something. I mean this can be parenting. This can be being a friend. This can be, you know, picking up a new hobby and just enjoying it. And so that’s my POV on it all. And I really I’ve really thought a lot about this ’cause I wanted to try to containerize what I experienced so other people might use it as a tool. And there’s a lot more layers to that. When I say honor yourself, there’s a lot of layers to that because there’s a lot of layers to your mind and your body and your soul and your emotions and how to deal with all of that. but that’s a that’s effectively the way I look at it. And, you know, a lot of people spend their time focusing on, you know, what’s my purpose? What’s my purpose? And within the honor you thought process, my my definition of that is fulfilling your soul’s desires. And that can mean You want to start baking cakes because that’s fun to you. And that can mean also that maybe you ha wanna have start a family. That can also mean you wanna be in marketing, right? So so many people are focused on purpose with regard to thinking one thing and one thing only in life. And it’s like no wonder we’re driving ourselves bonkers with this, right? So I think if I were to offer anything to your listeners, I would say that. start thinking about what does honoring yourself mean to you specifically and know that purpose is not just one thing. It’s fulfilling your soul’s desire. So your job in life is to figure out what does your soul actually want at any given point and having like giving yourself the permission to make make changes around that if that if that is appropriate for you at the time. And knowing that when you are having anxiety or stress symptoms is what I like to call them too is when there’s when you’re experiencing things. Melissa Coloton (27:40.065)It’s not to be ignored. It’s actu it’s actually to be recognized, respected, and responded to in an appropriate way so that you don’t find yourself waking up one day and be like, How did I get here? And you know, I call it the ants marching syndrome or like, you know, going down the river syndrome, right? You just jump on a raft and you get told what to do to your point earlier. You get told go to college, get married, have children, stay for retirement, retire and die. Like gross. Yeah. Like what are we even doing? Nick McGowan (28:06.316)No thanks. Melissa Coloton (28:09.344)And a lot of people are going check, check, check, check, check. And then they get to a point where they’re like, What am I actually doing right now? Like I’m not very happy. So then, of course, what ends up happening is everybody starts reaching externally and trying to figure out where the happiness is for them. And that looks better on some people than others. You know, it’s like some people get really fucked up trying to do that because they’ll reach for drugs or alcohol or a whole like plethora of things that don’t serve them. So Nick McGowan (28:37.25)Hmm. Yeah. Melissa Coloton (28:38.508)Yeah, it’s a really long-winded way, but that’s that’s my POV now because I didn’t do any of those things before. I just I I was on the river of life and it was working really well for me because I was making good money. I had you know, just kept going up in the in the ladder, right? That’s what I’m supposed to do. And then before you know it, I was not happy. I had tons of stress symptoms, and I did that twice. The first time being a lot worse than the second time because the first time I didn’t have any of these tools. At least the second time it was like, shoot, here I am again, completely dishonoring myself, doing things that are not what I desire. And I’m just doing it for the money effectively, or to kind of show I could do it or prove a point or not fuck up. Like it wasn’t it wasn’t out of pure joy, I’ll tell you that. So Nick McGowan (29:25.464)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (29:30.956)Yeah. Most things that we do aren’t out of pure joy because we feel we have to do certain things, etc. I think you brought up a really good point. I’m glad you bring this up. In fact, I appreciate when anybody brings up the word purpose because we can all look at purpose differently. It’s wild to me when people think that there’s one purpose. Like this is the one thing you’re here to do. And I’ve I’ve learned that that’s not the case, that it’s more so contextual based on the time, where we’re at, like. Melissa Coloton (29:34.837)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (29:51.808)Worst. Nick McGowan (29:59.458)You and I have podcasts 40 years ago. If we were born in the 50s or 60s, we wouldn’t have had a podcast because it didn’t, it wasn’t a thing at that point, but it would have shown up differently. So us being able to take how we show up in the world, what our flavor is, and what we bring to just being authentically us is the most important component of that. But it’s hard for us to get through those layers at times. Melissa Coloton (30:08.585)Right. Right. Melissa Coloton (30:22.519)Mm. Nick McGowan (30:25.996)Like everything that you’re saying, it’s like there’s a deeper foundational layer to it. Even of like, well, I’m doing this because I want to look better, or I’m doing this because I want to do that. Like there’s a level of self awareness to that. And also, what the fuck? Why? Why, why are you doing in that sort of way? And what are you trying to get out of it? I I’ve I get really worried for some people at times when they get stuck in those loops, because you’ve seen stuff like when you’re a Melissa Coloton (30:39.423)Ha ha ha. Melissa Coloton (30:44.802)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (30:53.142)And I don’t wanna say ahead or above or anything. You’re just at a different level of your own journey where you can look and go, man, I see you’re gonna drive directly into a wall. I wanna help you. But if you don’t want any help, then fucking at least put your buckle on, like, just see, please, like, please don’t die. but I do think it’s important for us to understand what our purpose looks like through the work that we do. So think about what you’ve done in sales. You’ve learned a lot from sales. Melissa Coloton (31:03.231)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (31:07.479)Right. Melissa Coloton (31:10.838)Right. Mm. Melissa Coloton (31:16.29)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (31:22.798)You learned a lot from the farms, learned a lot from what your parents did, what they didn’t do, all these things. And that all ties into work that you do now. But you needed to go through and experience all those things so you can go, hold on, time out. I need to look at this differently. What do I do? How do I get past this, et cetera? And how do I actually do this work? If you were just to tell somebody, hey, you need to do these 400 things that I did, your list was probably 40 times that. But like that, even that list, they’d be like, no, hell no. I don’t want any parts of that. Do you think I can just throw it into Claude and Claude will fix it for me? Or you think I can have AI do a thing for me or whatever? Because there’s a deeper foundational layer to that of us all trying to do more instead of understanding there’s systems at play that are telling us we’re not enough instead of going, well, what am I here for? What do I actually need to do on this planet? So for the people that are on their own path towards self-mastery, what advice do you give them to show up and be them on this planet? Melissa Coloton (32:10.53)Right. Right. Melissa Coloton (32:19.498)Yeah. I I would say don’t outsource. I know you really triggered me when you just said that. Cause so many Yeah, really like it really is like people and but you know, and I would say that anyway, probably because we we even if right before AI, even before AI, we’re outsourcing to the external. We’re really outsourcing to what are people gonna think and Nick McGowan (32:26.798)I didn’t mean to set you up for that one. Melissa Coloton (32:47.998)what if I do this or what if I don’t do that? And some of some people external, you know, look for the external to fix their emotions instead of just feeling them, right? Or trying to cover them up. So there’s it’s the you know, it’s the tale of of time, right? It’s just like something we’ve always done and we probably will always continue to do. And it’s just getting in a different context now. So I would say like, you know, don’t don’t outsource your Nick McGowan (32:55.501)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (33:15.818)life and don’t outsource help having something external help you figure out what it is that you love and what it is that you enjoy. And I always say emotions, your excuse me, your soul speaks in emotions. And if we can really not just intellectualize that, but truly understand that, then we’ll start paying attention a lot more. Like, boy, that made me feel real shitty when that person talked to me that way. Okay, what’s that about? Nick McGowan (33:40.034)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (33:43.051)Is it really cause the person that talked to me that shitty or is it because like I’m grew up with my mom talking to like that and it just triggers the fuck out of me because it might trigger me, but not you, right? Or like there’s been times where I’ve come home and told my husband, like, Can you believe blah blah blah? And he’s like, not really seeing and like Nick McGowan (34:00.82)Yeah, I can’t no. Yeah. Melissa Coloton (34:02.942)You better agree with me. So I I really think that an ability to not outsource things in your life that are so important, which are the things that matter, which are your purpose essentially. Like not to be cliche or too esoteric about it, but pay attention to where you’re at, you know, pay attention to your thoughts. I mean meditate. I like Nick McGowan (34:18.284)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (34:30.752)On my podcast not long ago, I like literally yelled at people. I was just like, If if you’re too busy to meditate, like the fuck are you even talking about? Like if you sit in a line to pick your kids up for twenty, thirty minutes, like close your eyes for a second and just like focus and see what see what you’re like, watch your thoughts, see what happens. You know, like people are just so busy. There’s like, I can’t have I can’t find time for that. No, you actually can’t sit with yourself for more than 10 minutes without picking up your phone or like watching a TV. Like Nick McGowan (34:56.034)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (34:58.232)Pay attention to that. Like that means something. So yeah, I mean I I just think we’re widely outsourcing and w it’s getting probably worse before it’s getting better, unfortunately. but I just think it’s a different version of it now than it probably was however many hundreds of years ago. So, yeah, I would say don’t outsource and you know, on the tail end of that I would say like don’t sit in your shit and then complain about it being stinky either. Right? There’s a time and a place to to to mourn things or to be upset about things or to f really feel things and and experience them one hundred percent from an emotional standpoint. But it’s gotta go through the cycle. We can’t get stuck in part of the cycle, right? I always I always talk about like things are very cyclical as as it relates to nature. And if you get stuck in winter, you get stuck in spring. You like you just can’t do that. You have to keep it moving and let it go through this whole cycle. And yeah, don’t complain if You’re sitting in your shit constantly and and you’re c you’re like saying, why does it stink all the time? It’s like, Well, because you just sit there and you’re shit Nick McGowan (36:01.198)Look at it. Yeah. I think it’s a good point too to point out that it you shouldn’t outsource everything. We actually need to do more of our own work on our own to figure out what parts of it and all. And also that doesn’t take away from reaching out to other people or specifically having practitioners or different modalities that you go through to be able to help you with those things because we can’t just mindset our way through it. Melissa Coloton (36:12.917)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (36:25.217)Yeah. Nick McGowan (36:27.65)We can’t just think about those things and we can’t say like it’s going to be okay. There are different times you have to do work. As you know, you do that work. But being able to take from that to say that those things that we keep coming up against that keep rubbing us a weird way or making us feel some sort of way, that’s the crux moment where I think it can be easiest to just go, well, that sucks. I don’t like the thing. And then the run away instead of being like, this keeps coming back. So what do I do with it? Melissa Coloton (36:28.064)Right. Melissa Coloton (36:35.362)Mm-hmm. Yeah. Melissa Coloton (36:47.436)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (36:51.778)Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Right. Nick McGowan (36:55.96)Because then that’s really the start. Like you may have to talk to somebody. You may just have to sit by yourself for a few minutes to go, well, what the fuck? What is the thing? But you’re still going to need to go through that process to do it. and it helps us uncover what our purpose is through that to go, I don’t want to do this. I want to do more of that. And really when I wake up, I really want to do these things. But I’m in this spot now. So how the fuck do I get there? Melissa Coloton (37:02.636)Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Nick McGowan (37:18.744)Great, that’s the next part of your journey instead of being like, well, that shit sucks and stinks. And everybody, welcome. I’m Linus. You know, like it doesn’t make sense. Melissa Coloton (37:27.158)Yeah. And I mean, I’m certified life coach, so one hundred percent I I think people need to get the support. And I would say even in that scenario, right, you can’t get addicted to getting everything you need. You know, if that if you are talking to someone and they’re not giving you tools to slowly but surely like, you know, when I first started seeing my life coach and acupunctures, it was every week. Nick McGowan (37:41.88)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (37:53.933)Then it went down to every two weeks and then it went down to every month. And now it’s mostly monthly, but I ca you know, I can definitely skip months now. Whereas before it was like, God, right? So one hundred percent and that’s kind of what I mean by like sitting in your own shit too. Like if if you’re stuck somewhere and you just can’t find your way out of that, I mean, there was literally no way I was gonna get out of my situation with anxiety by myself. I mean, right, like I even I Nick McGowan (38:20.216)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (38:22.38)Went to a doctor, had medication, tried to see a counselor. She was awful, no offense, but she was. So I finally landed where I landed with my life coach and acupuncturist. I wouldn’t have been able to do that solely by myself. And he didn’t tell me what to do every second of every day. He taught me how to live with myself and connect with myself. And I took that very seriously. And for a while I intellectualized it because I think we all do that, right? I’m a very like, I get it. I get it. Nick McGowan (38:49.698)You have to. Melissa Coloton (38:52.332)But then there’s gotta be, there’s gotta be a component of embodying it and actually really truly doing that that work and not just being like, I get it. Cause what ends up happening is like you’ll be okay, I get it, I get it. And then the slightest little change in the breeze will knock you over. And now you’re just right back to where you were, right? So that’s where I was for a good while. I’m like, I get it, I get it, I got this. Like I can do this, ’cause that’s how I’ve been my whole life, right? Like, tell me I’ll do something, I’ll fucking do it. You only gotta tell me once. Nick McGowan (38:56.962)Mm. Nick McGowan (39:11.544)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (39:22.096)And and and but then when with that situation I did that and then like the slightest little thing would happen and I’d be kind of right back to square one, you know, it’s like monopolies like or whatever one of those board games where you have to go all the way back to the beginning all the time. So so after a while it was like, wait, this is what I’ve been doing my whole life is intellectualizing it and not actually truly connecting with my soul. So one hundred percent agree with you. There Nick McGowan (39:37.208)Yeah. Melissa Coloton (39:49.931)that’s why people exist is to help each other in my mind, you know, in some way, shape or form. And so find that good practitioner that you can trust and won’t just let you, you know, wallow in your own shit and just have you keep coming back every week with no changes. You know, if that’s the case, then there’s probably a different practitioner for you. Nick McGowan (40:10.529)That’s yeah, that’s a friend at that point. Like you should stop paying them and just hang out with them if that’s what you want to do. but you’re you’re right, it’s it’s all on us. and being open to those resources, I think is really the driver of what I think about. Like going, all right, well, I’m aware of this thing. What the fuck’s near me, what’s around me? And then actually going through the layers of how do I talk to that person or what do I do? Blah, blah, blah. But being able to ask those from the initial question of what’s going on inside is going to help you. so I appreciate you getting into that, especially getting into purpose work. That’s Melissa Coloton (40:13.432)Right. Melissa Coloton (40:22.555)yeah. Melissa Coloton (40:36.76)Mm-hmm. Nick McGowan (40:40.172)Always important on the show. So thank you so much for being with us today. Before I let you go, where can people find you and where can they connect? Melissa Coloton (40:41.496)Mm-hmm. Melissa Coloton (40:48.128)Yeah, the best the best place is my website, which is just melissacoloton.com. I also host a podcast myself called the Honor You Podcast. I love it when people go check that out, of course. Those are probably two the two of the best places, and that’ll direct you to all the socials and all that fun stuff. Yeah. Awesome. Nick McGowan (41:05.23)Cool. And I’ll have all that stuff in the show notes. Again, thank you so much for being on the call today. Melissa Coloton (41:10.018)Thanks for having me, Nick. It was a great conversation. https://youtu.be/gp_zfh3dOHQ
Want to Become a Certified Life Coach? If you're passionate about helping others, creating a meaningful impact, and building an online coaching business, we invite you to apply to the Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute. APPLY INSTITUTE: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Our 12-week certification program teaches you how to become a certified life coach, master communication and coaching skills, heal and transform your own life, build your personal brand, attract clients online, and create a coaching business that changes lives. Episode Description In today's episode, I dive into one of the most important lessons I've learned through coaching thousands of people around the world: You attract what you are, not what you want. Many people find themselves repeating the same relationship patterns, attracting similar challenges, and experiencing the same frustrations over and over again. Often, we blame circumstances, other people, or bad luck. However, the truth is that our beliefs, self worth, standards, identity, and level of self love play a significant role in what we allow into our lives. In this episode, I discuss: • Why toxic relationships often reveal deeper internal patterns. • How self worth influences the people you attract. • The connection between healing and creating healthier relationships. • Why taking responsibility is one of the most empowering things you can do. • How your beliefs shape your reality. • The importance of personal growth and self awareness. • Why helping others can become one of the most meaningful purposes in life. • How becoming a life coach can allow you to turn your pain into purpose and your experiences into impact. Whether you're seeking healthier relationships, greater confidence, more purpose, or a career that allows you to help others transform their lives, this episode will challenge you to look inward and begin creating change from the inside out. Connect with Luke Mind Power ️ Podcast: https://linktr.ee/lukemindpower Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukemindpower Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lukemindpower Music: https://linktr.ee/lukemindpowermusic Website: https://lukemindpower.com Become a Certified Life Coach Ready to start your journey and create a meaningful impact in the world? APPLY INSTITUTE: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Disclaimer The Luke Mind Power Podcast is intended for educational and inspirational purposes only. The information shared in this episode is based on personal experiences, opinions, coaching insights, and personal development principles. It is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice. Individual results will vary, and no guarantees are made regarding personal, professional, or financial outcomes. Please seek qualified professional guidance for your specific circumstances. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Menopause, Marriage & Me is a candid and insightful podcast exploring the realities of menopause and its impact on women, marriages, and family life. In this episode, we are joined by Rose Misati, a Public Health Specialist, Behaviour Change Expert, Pharmacist, Certified Life Coach, and Family Trauma Professional. Together, we unpack the physical, emotional, relational, and practical aspects of menopause, offering evidence-based guidance, hope, and tools to help women and their loved ones navigate this important season of life with understanding and confidence.
Monique McDonald is a Grammy-Nominated, award-winning Opera Singer, International Speaker, and Certified Life Coach. Known as The Magnetic Voice Mentor, she empowers speakers, entrepreneurs, and business leaders to master their voice, unleash their stage presence, and transform their visibility into impact and income. With over 20 years of experience on some of the world's greatest stages, Monique brings a unique blend of performance expertise, transformational coaching, and vocal mastery to help clients discover their natural magnetism and confidently share their message with the world. Monique is on a mission to empower 100,000 voices. She believes that strong, authentic voices are needed now more than ever and that when a voice is tuned to its message and power, it can vibrate the world. ---- SOCIALS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themagneticvoice_/ Website: https://www.themagneticvoice.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/moniquefmcdonald/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monique.mcdonald.180
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What leads someone to step away from a lifetime of belief? In this powerful episode of The Emancipation of a Molly Mormon, Teri shares her personal journey through faith, doubt, and ultimately, transformation.This video is part of a series designed to help individuals and families navigate faith transitions in an emotionally and psychologically healthy way—offering insight, validation, and hope to those asking difficult questions.Since posting this video, Teri has become a Certified Life Coach specializing in helping people work through religious trauma and life after high-demand religions.
Want to Become a Certified Life Coach? We are now accepting applicants for the next intake of the Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute. Limited spots available. Apply here: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute In this episode, we dive deep into one powerful question: Am I really free? So many people are living trapped by fear, anxiety, overthinking, people pleasing, past trauma, self doubt, and the constant pressure to be someone they are not. Real freedom is not just about money, success, or having more time. True freedom begins when you stop hiding who you are, stop seeking validation from the world, and finally start living in alignment with your authentic self. We talk about breaking free from limiting beliefs, emotional pain, toxic patterns, and the mental prison that keeps so many people stuck living a life they do not truly love. This episode will challenge you to reflect on whether you are genuinely living freely or simply surviving through routine, fear, and conditioning. If you have been feeling disconnected from yourself, emotionally exhausted, or afraid to fully express who you are, this conversation will help awaken a deeper level of self awareness, courage, healing, and personal truth. Connect With Me: WhatsApp: https://wa.me/18777635971 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukemindpower X (Twitter): https://x.com/lukemindpower Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lukemindpower Email: support@lukemindpower.com Disclaimer: This content is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, or financial advice. Results from coaching and personal development will vary based on individual effort, consistency, and personal circumstances. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What happens when excellence becomes survival mode?In this powerful conversation, Lynnis Woods-Mullins sits down with Dr. Sharita E. Warfield, MD to unpack the hidden cost of chronic stress on high-achieving women—especially women over 40 and women of color who have spent years pushing through, performing, caregiving, and carrying more than anyone realizes.From the outside, success can look impressive. But behind the scenes, many women are battling exhaustion, brain fog, hormone disruption, sleep struggles, anxiety, inflammation, stubborn weight gain, and a nervous system that never truly gets a chance to recover.Together, we break down the biology of stress in a way that actually makes sense. Dr. Warfield explains what elevated cortisol does to the body over time, why chronic stress hits differently during perimenopause and menopause, and how “weathering,” microaggressions, over-responsibility, and constant pressure silently impact long-term health.We also talk honestly about the emotional side of burnout: the guilt around resting, the fear of disappointing people, and the unhealthy praise many women receive for self-neglect disguised as strength.But this episode is not just about awareness—it is about restoration.Dr. Warfield shares practical ways to begin stabilizing your body and nervous system through nutrition, hydration, sleep, boundaries, and what she calls “micro recoveries”—small moments of restoration that help your body feel safe again. She also introduces her THRIVE framework and reminds us that protecting your peace is not selfish—it is necessary.If you have been looking successful while quietly feeling depleted, this conversation will speak directly to you.Press play, share this episode with another woman who needs to hear it, and subscribe to the V.I.B.E. Living Podcast for more conversations on holistic wellness, stress recovery, hormones, emotional healing, and thriving after 40.Bio Dr. Sharita E. Warfield is a board-certified Emergency and Lifestyle Medicine Physician, a Certified Life Coach, and an Amazon Best-Selling Author. As a wife, a mother of 4, and a physician, she has spent over 30 years in emergency medicine, thriving in high-stakes environments where lives depended on her ability to perform under pressure. But behind the white coat, she was experiencing what many high achievers silently endure—chronic stress, depletion, illness, and the realization that success was coming at a cost.That turning point led her to expand her work into lifestyle medicine and coaching, where she now helps high-performing leaders—especially women in midlife—reclaim their energy, health, and sense of purpose. As the creator of the T.H.R.I.V.E. framework, Dr. Sharita teaches executives, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving women in their midlife season how to sustain success without sacrificing themselves in the process.Her work sits at the intersection of health, leadership, and transformation—helping people move from simply surviving their success to truly thriving in it.Website and Social Media www.drsharitamd.comFacebookInstagramLinked In Many thanks to our sponsor, SONU.If you've been dealing with a stuffy nose, nasal congestion, or ongoing allergies, this may be the solution you've been looking for.SONU offers a unique, safe, and drug-free approach to relief—designed to work with your body, not against it.Click here to learn more and discover how it can support your breathing and overall wellness.Thank you for listening to the V.I.B.E. Living Podcast. If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share it with a woman stepping into her next chapter.Stay connected with Lynnis and explore the V.I.B.E. Living world:
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Want to Become a Certified Life Coach? We are now accepting applicants for the next intake of the Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute. Limited spots available. Apply here: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute In this episode, we dive deep into the power of having a positive mindset and how your thoughts shape your reality. Your mindset influences your emotions, your confidence, your relationships, your success, and the way you respond to life's challenges. When you learn how to shift your focus, protect your energy, and reprogram negative thinking patterns, you begin creating a life filled with more peace, clarity, confidence, and purpose. We also talk about overcoming self doubt, breaking free from fear and overthinking, and learning how to train your mind to see opportunities instead of limitations. A positive mindset is not about pretending life is perfect, it is about developing the strength to keep moving forward even during difficult seasons. If you have been feeling mentally drained, stuck in negativity, or disconnected from your purpose, this episode will help remind you of the power you already have within you to change your life from the inside out. Connect With Me: WhatsApp: https://wa.me/18777635971 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukemindpower X (Twitter): https://x.com/lukemindpower Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lukemindpower Email: support@lukemindpower.com Disclaimer: This content is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, or financial advice. Results from coaching and personal development will vary based on individual effort, consistency, and personal circumstances. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of your mindset and how it shapes every area of your life, from your emotions to your decisions and ultimately your results. You'll learn how to recognize limiting beliefs, break free from overthinking, and begin shifting into a mindset rooted in confidence, clarity, and purpose. This is about taking responsibility for your thoughts, choosing a new perspective, and stepping into the version of yourself that creates the life you truly want. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next move, this episode will help you reconnect with your inner power and remind you that transformation starts within. The moment you change the way you think is the moment everything around you begins to change. Want to Become a Certified Life Coach? We are now accepting applicants for the next intake of the Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute. Limited spots available. Apply here:https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Connect With Me: WhatsApp Me:https://wa.me/18777635971 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lukemindpower X (Twitter):https://x.com/lukemindpower Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/lukemindpower Email:support@lukemindpower.com Disclaimer: This content is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, or financial advice. Results from coaching and personal development will vary based on individual effort, consistency, and personal circumstances. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Send us Fan MailLife has a way of getting lifely — and this episode was born right in the middle of mine. In Episode 208, I get personal about a season that brought me to stillness, to my car, to my breath — and ultimately, to a word that changed everything for me this year. If you have ever found yourself waiting for the perfect moment to start again, or wondering if the hard thing you are going through has any light in it at all, this episode is for you. Come as you are. Start where you are. That is always enough.From a beloved novel to a spontaneous act of love from my son, from peer-reviewed science to a 14th century poet — I weave together the stories, the research, and the reminders that the light within you has never gone out. It may be quiet. It may be flickering. But it is there, and it has been there your whole life. I hope this episode helps you see it.Quote of the week: "I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being." — Hafiz of ShirazFina's 2025 Reading ListThe 48 Laws of Power — Robert GreeneThe Prince — Niccolò MachiavelliThe Art of War — Sun TzuQuotations from the Works of Mao Tse-Tung — Mao ZedongRight Thing Right Now — Ryan HolidayAwaken the Giant Within — Tony RobbinsThe Big Leap — Gay HendricksEmotional Intelligence — Bradberry & GreavesA Return to Love — Marianne WilliamsonNo Mud No Lotus — Thich Nhat HanhTao Te Ching — Translated by Stephen MitchellMindful Investor — Maria GonzalezEducated — Tara WestoverSlaughterhouse-Five — Kurt Vonnegut1929 — Andrew Ross SorkinBooks ReferencedDoerr, Anthony. All the Light We Cannot See. Scribner, 2014.Frankl, Viktor E. Man's Search for Meaning. Beacon Press, 1959.Greene, Robert. The 48 Laws of Power. Viking Press, 1998.Holiday, Ryan. The Obstacle Is the Way. Portfolio/Penguin, 2014.Hanh, Thich Nhat. Mud and Lotus. Parallax Press.Westover, Tara. Educated. Random House, 2018.Peer-Reviewed ResearchCunha, L.F., et al. "Positive Psychology and Gratitude Interventions: A Randomized Clinical Trial." Frontiers in Psychology, Vol. 10, March 2019. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.00584Martínez-Martí, M.L., et al. "The Effects of Gratitude Interventions: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis." PubMed Central. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10393216/Lundman, B., et al. "Inner Strength — A Systematic Review of Qualitative Empirical Studies." PubMed Central,1990–2024. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12375945/Holmedal Byrne & Gustafsson. "Resilience Theory: Core Concepts and Research Insights." Cited in Positive Psychology, 2024. https://positivepsychology.com/resilience-theory/PoetryHafiz of Shiraz. "I Wish I Could Show You." 14th century. English translation widely attributed to Daniel Ladinsky, The Gift, Penguin Compass, 1999.MediaAll the Light We Cannot See. Netflix series, 2023. Directed Let's go, let's get it done.Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org
In this powerful Mind Power Live session, Luke Mind Power takes you on a deep journey into healing, self-awareness, and transformation. This is more than just a live training, it is a space where you begin to reconnect with yourself, understand your past, and step into a more empowered version of who you are becoming. Throughout this session, you will be guided to shift your mindset, take ownership of your life, and realise that everything you have been through has shaped you for a greater purpose. Luke shares real and honest insights on healing your inner child, letting go of blame, and stepping into personal responsibility so you can finally move forward with clarity and confidence. You will also explore the power of your environment, the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people, and how making your mind fertile ground for opportunity can completely change the direction of your life. This session is a reminder that you are not broken, you are becoming. And no matter where you are right now, you have the power to take your pen back and start writing a new chapter. Want to Become a Certified Life Coach? If you feel called to help others, share your story, and turn your transformation into purpose, we are now accepting applicants for the next intake of the Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute. Limited spots available. Apply here:https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Disclaimer: This content is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical, psychological, or financial advice. Results from coaching and personal development will vary based on individual effort, consistency, and personal circumstances. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What if the story you've believed about yourself isn't true and rewriting it could change everything? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Tricia Baxley on her new book The Stories We Tell Ourselves: The Soul Journey to Uncovering the Hidden Scripts That Define Us. Moments with Marianne Radio Show airs in the Southern California area on KMET1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio Affiliate! https://www.kmet1490am.comTricia Baxley is a Certified MBTI Practitioner and a Certified Life Coach, empowering others to overcome obstacles and embrace their full potential. She is a proud member of the International Coaching Alliance, dedicating her life to helping others heal and achieve lasting transformation. In addition to her professional pursuits, Tricia is passionate about mission work, intentional travel, and running, which fuel her drive to connect with others and explore the world with purpose.A devoted mother of two amazing boys, Tricia holds degrees in finance and psychology, which have shaped her unique approach to understanding human behavior. Through her work, she continues to inspire those around her to break free from their limitations and create a life of purpose and fulfillment. https://apath4healing.comTo learn more about interview opportunities contact us at: https://www.mariannepestana.com
In this episode, Dr. Robyn McKay sits down with psychotherapist and coach Lesley Martin to explore what happens when clinicians who are also spiritually gifted stop splitting themselves in two — and begin integrating their intuitive intelligence directly into their therapeutic practice.This episode explores:Why spiritually gifted therapists are trained to leave their gifts at the doorThe real cost of running separate therapy and coaching practicesHow burnout during the pandemic catalyzed a deeper professional evolutionHonoring clients' spiritual worldviews while suppressing your ownWhat the neuroscience of intuition reveals about clinical decision-makingHow to ethically and responsibly bring spiritual modalities into psychotherapyWhy people are inherently whole — and what it means to help them access thatFor those of us who are credentialed and spiritually awake, the question has never been whether these gifts belong in the room — it's how to bring them forward with integrity, competency, and care. This conversation is for every clinician, coach, and healer who has ever felt the cost of keeping themselves divided.Love what you're hearing? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts!Lesley Martín, MA, LMHC, NCC, CLC, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Certified Life Coach, and trauma-informed practitioner who helps high achievers move beyond fear, doubt, and insecurity to create more authentic, fulfilling lives. With over 15 years of experience in holistic psychotherapy, she specializes in trauma healing, EMDR, and integrative approaches that support lasting transformation. Through her coaching work, Lesley guides clients in building self-confidence, expanding their potential, and stepping into a more empowered version of themselves.LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesley-martin-lmhc-conscious-holistic-guide-and-therapist-3118a016/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lesleyamymartin/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Lesley-Martin-Coaching/100075420665293/#Robyn McKay, PhD, is an award-winning therapist and psychospiritual advisor who teaches and leads at the intersection of psychology × spirituality × energetics. With deep roots in clinical psychology and a lifetime of living at the crossroads of intuition and credentials, she is a rare bridge between science and soul, credentials and codes, strategy and spirit.Early in her career, Robyn served as a university psychologist before stepping into her broader calling as a guide for high performers, creatives, and seekers. She addresses a wide spectrum of human experience — healing trauma, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, and ADHD in women; accessing spiritual gifts; and navigating existential crossroads.Having sold $2.5M+ in retreats and private intensives, Robyn is now architecting an entirely new category of retreats: expert-led, trauma-informed, miracle-level. She helps credentialed, neurodivergent, and spiritually awake women leaders design transformational retreats that carry depth, meaning, and lasting impact.Connect with Dr. Robyn McKay:LinkedIn: Robyn McKay, PhDFacebook: Dr. Robyn McKayInstagram: @robynmckayphd Book a call with Dr. Robyn! https://drrobynmckay.com/call
Can't figure out what you want anymore? This one's for you.I'm Emily Liou, your Certified Life Coach, and in this episode I get real about something so many of us experience but rarely talk about — that nagging feeling of not knowing what you want, even when it comes to the smallest things.It started with tacos. Seriously. I found myself paralyzed at a Mexican restaurant, second-guessing every single option the server threw at me — and that's when it hit me: if we can't trust ourselves over a taco order, how heavy does that feel when the decision is about your career or your life?That's exactly what we're unpacking today. If you've been stuck in overthinking, spinning in indecision, or waiting for the "right" answer to appear before you make a move — this episode will help you understand why that's happening and what to do instead.Spoiler: the answer isn't more certainty. It's curiosity.Here's what we get into:0:00 — Welcome to Cultivate Your Joyful Life0:52 — The taco story that sparked everything (stay with me here)1:38 — Why indecision is slowly dimming your light2:28 — The real reason you can't trust your own preferences anymore3:24 — Why I'm trading certainty for curiosity — and why you should too4:25 — Clarity doesn't come before the decision — it comes after7:36 — The reframe that changes everything: stop asking "what should I do" and start asking this instead8:47 — Free training: 3 Steps to Finally Make Your Next Career Move → cultivitae.com/clear********RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Free Masterclass — 3 Steps to Getting Clear on Your Next Career Move: https://cultivitae.com/clearLearn more about Inner Magic (90-day program): https://cultivitae.comFollow Emily on social: @cultivitaeYOU MIGHT ALSO LOVE THESE EPISODES:Ep. 025. The 9 patterns keeping you stuck from your dream life and careerEp. 028. Why do I feel so stuck?!Ep. 039. When your job keeps feeling wrong
Hello and welcome to The Relatable Voice Podcast! Today, we're hitting the road and taking a drive to Ohio, where we'll be joined by a truly inspiring guest—Tricia Baxley. Tricia is an author, a Certified MBTI Practitioner, and a Certified Life Coach with a background in both finance and psychology. She's also a devoted mom of two boys, a runner, a seeker, and someone who helps others reconnect with their truth and rewrite the stories that shape their lives. Her latest book, The Stories We Tell Ourselves: The Soul Journey to Uncovering the Hidden Scripts That Define Us, is out now. Find out more at: apath4healing.com Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide and personal loss. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please consider reaching out to a trusted person or a mental health professional for support.
Hello and welcome to The Relatable Voice Podcast! Today, we're hitting the road and taking a drive to Ohio, where we'll be joined by a truly inspiring guest—Tricia Baxley. Tricia is an author, a Certified MBTI Practitioner, and a Certified Life Coach with a background in both finance and psychology. She's also a devoted mom of two boys, a runner, a seeker, and someone who helps others reconnect with their truth and rewrite the stories that shape their lives. Her latest book, The Stories We Tell Ourselves: The Soul Journey to Uncovering the Hidden Scripts That Define Us, is out now. Find out more at: apath4healing.com Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide and personal loss. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please consider reaching out to a trusted person or a mental health professional for support.
➡️ #SpiritualAwakening #LifeCoach #SelfHealingWelcome to Episode #246 of World Awakenings: The Fast Track to Enlightenment featuring returning guest Renee Marcou—certified life coach, Reiki Master, yoga instructor, meditation teacher, podcast host, and recording artist. Renee first appeared on Episode #15 over 7 years ago, which also marked the very first video version of this podcast after its original run as an audio-only show.Since then, Renee has remained deeply committed to her mission of spreading spiritual growth, self-healing, personal transformation, and conscious living. After stepping away from the traditional recording industry, she has fully embraced her purpose—guiding others through life coaching, energy healing, mindfulness, and holistic wellness practices. In this powerful 2026 update, we reconnect with Renee to explore her journey and her evolution—especially since becoming a mom—and how she continues to inspire others to follow their passion and live their highest truth.Make sure to grab your copy of Karl Gruber's best-selling book, "True Spirituality & the Law of Attraction: A Beautiful Symbiotic Relationship". Click the link to get your copy now!To find out more about Renee Marcou, just go to her website https://reneemarcou.com/⏱ Show Timeline (Episode #246 – Renee Marcou) 0:00 – Intro & Welcome to World Awakenings1:10 – Renee Marcou Returns (First Appearance on Episode #15)3:00 – Evolution of the Show: From Audio to Video Podcast 5:15 – Renee's Journey: From Recording Artist to Spiritual Path8:30 – Leaving the Music Industry to Follow Her Purpose 12:00 – Becoming a Certified Life Coach, Reiki Master & Teacher16:20 – The Role of Energy Healing, Yoga & Meditation in Her Life 20:45 – Spiritual Growth & Personal Transformation Over the Years25:30 – Following Your Passion & Living Your Truth 30:10 – Motherhood & Spiritual Evolution34:45 – How Becoming a Mom Changed Renee's Perspective 40:00 – Balancing Career, Purpose & Family Life45:20 – Advice for Those Seeking Their Life Purpose 50:10 – Final Thoughts, Inspiration & Closing Message53:00 – Outro & Where to Find Renee Marcou
Welcome to Mind Power Live. In this powerful session, Luke Mind Power breaks down what truly creates transformation, and why most people stay stuck despite consuming endless self development content. This is not just motivation. This is real talk about growth, healing, and stepping into your next level. Inside this episode, you will learn: Why growth requires discomfort and how to stop avoiding it The real reason you feel stuck, even when you are trying to change How your environment is shaping your results more than you think Why repetition and consistency matter more than information How to start healing your past instead of running from it The truth about self love, confidence, and finding your voice Why most people fail to transform and how to avoid it You will also hear real stories from people inside the community who have transformed their lives through doing the work. This episode is designed to shift your perspective and help you take action. Your Next Steps If you want to join us next month on this live free webinar join one of our free communities for access, here are your options: Join the Dream Chasers Facebook Community:https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18ZjrzAttz/ Join our private community (no Facebook required):https://lukemindpower.com/communities/groups/iwc/home?invite=69cd1edcb549d92943c380e9 Apply to become a Certified Life Coach:https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Learn more about the Superpower Mastermind: Schedule a free call with my teamhttps://go.oncehub.com/brnstormcall Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical, psychological, or professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional if you require support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
It's always a pleasure to sit down with a friend, and this episode is exactly that. I had the chance to talk with Lizzie Merritt, who co-directs the Todd Durkin IMPACT Life Coaching Certification with me. She recently released her second bestselling book, LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss, and we talk about the book along with the deeper work behind it. Lizzie is a weight loss coach who has spent years studying the psychology behind lasting change. In LIGHT, she offers a new way to approach weight loss by helping you rebuild self-trust and work with your brain instead of fighting it. With a mix of warmth, humor, and research-backed insight, Lizzie shares her L.I.G.H.T. Method, a practical framework to shift your mindset and move past the patterns that keep you stuck. In this episode, you'll learn how to: Let go of guilt and focus on what actually works Work through challenges like perfectionism, emotional eating, and self-sabotage Use simple experiments to build momentum Stop postponing happiness and start living your life now This is not a typical diet conversation, and Lizzie is not a typical coach. She brings a grounded, honest approach that helps you get back on your own side. ----------- Lizzie Merritt is a Certified Life Coach specializing in weight loss and helping people stop thinking that they are the problem. She believes that diets are just the worst, that the only way to lose weight is imperfectly, and that weight loss is much more about how you think than what's on your plate. Lizzie is the author of You Are a Miracle and LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss. Her books feel like chatting with a smart, funny friend over coffee. The kind of friend who finally helps you understand why weight loss has been so freaking hard…and what to do instead. She's also a military spouse, cries at cheesy commercials, and is a proud Marvel nerd. ----- You can purchase a copy of LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss here. And check out Lizzie's podcast (The Confident Body Podcast) here.
Join us LIVE on The Kim Jacobs Show this Tuesday, March 24th from 11 AM–12 PM EST! Our special guest, Mary Miner Author, Certified Life Coach, and Workshop Facilitator is sharing how God taught her to stop snapping, shouting, swearing, and shutting down during conflict… and how YOU can too! If you've ever struggled with: Reacting instead of responding Shutting down during disagreements Wanting healthier relationships Learning how to disagree with love This episode is for YOU. Mary will also share about her powerful book Step Up! Be the Better Person, Live the Golden Rule and her signature workshop: The 7 Golden Steps to Disagree with Love Instead of Snapping, Shouting, and Shutting Down During Conflict. Watch us LIVE and be part of the conversation! Subscribe on YouTube: YouTube.com/c/Kimjacobsshow (https://youtube.com/c/Kimjacobsshow) and turn on notifications so you don't miss a moment! Interested in starting your own virtual show -we start our next class on Wednesday, March 25th…mailto:Kimjacobsshow@gmail.com or call 704-944-3534 to grab your seat in the next training. We are seeking 5 new contributors today that have been blessed by The Kim Jacobs Show coming into the comfort of home weekdays! Let us know in the comment section during our live broadcast and we will acknowledge your financial support! PayPal: https://paypal.me/Kimjacobsinc�Venmo: @Thekimjacobsshow Zelle or Apple Cash: 704-962-7161 #Thekimjacobsshow #Thebalancedoctor #Conflictresolution #MaryminerBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-kim-jacobs-show--2878190/support.
From the outside, many high-achieving women appear to have it all together: the impressive career, the stability, the promotions, the respect.But behind the scenes?Exhaustion. Pressure. A quiet voice asking, “Is this really the life I want?”In this episode, I'm joined by Ashley, a Certified Life Coach, Human Design and Meditation Guide who helps ambitious women break free from corporate burnout and reconnect with a life that actually lights their soul on fire.Ashley once built the career many women dream about in the tech world. Yet despite the external success, she found herself feeling deeply disconnected from the life she had created.Together we dive into the “success trap” so many women fall into, where achievement, approval, and societal expectations start replacing authenticity and alignment.We talk about the hidden burnout high-achievers experience, the pressure women feel to perform success, and why following the “safe path” often leads to deep misalignment.Ashley also shares how Human Design can help women understand their natural energy, make aligned decisions, and build lives and careers that feel energizing instead of draining.If you've ever thought:• I've done everything right… so why am I still unhappy?• Why does success feel so heavy instead of fulfilling?• Is there another way to live and work that actually feels aligned?This conversation will open your eyes. The hidden reality behind “successful” careers Why so many high-achieving women feel secretly unfulfilled The difference between external success and internal alignment The pressure to chase approval instead of authenticity The biggest lie the corporate world sells women about success How Human Design helps you make decisions aligned with your energy Why safety can keep you stuck in a life that drains you What happens when a woman stops performing success and starts living her truth.If this conversation resonated with you and you want to explore your Human Design or learn how to start living in alignment:Follow Ashley on Instagram HEREConnect with Elyse on Social on IG OR on my website.
The CE experience for this Podcast is powered by CMEfy - click here to reflect and earn credits.In this inspiring episode, I'm joined by elite athlete and physician, Dr. Becky Caldwell, whose journey is a powerful example of what's possible when purpose meets action.Dr. Caldwell is an OB/GYN hospitalist from Grand Rapids, Michigan, Residency Wellness Director, Certified Life Coach, and founding member of the first U.S. Women's Medical Soccer Team. She shares her personal soccer journey and the vision, courage, and determination it took to help bring this historic team to life.This episode is a wonderful reminder that you don't have to wait for permission to build the life you want. When you get clear, create space, and take aligned action, extraordinary things can unfold both on the field and far beyond it.An empowering listen for anyone ready to step into possibility and make it happen!Information for Dr. Becky Caldwell:WebsiteInstagramInformation for Dr. Robyn Tiger & StressFreeMD:Check out StressFreeMDGet the book: Feeling Stressed Is OptionalGet your 4 FREE stress relieving videosPhysicians: join our free private physicians-only Facebook groupRetreatsREVIVE! Lifestyle Medicine Well-Being Group CoachingPrograms on Demand Private 1:1 CoachingSchedule your FREE 30-Minute Stress Relief Strategy CallFollow me on Social Media: InstagramLinkedInFacebookPodcast websitePlease rate & Review the Show!Contactinfo@stressfreemd.net
In this episode, we are joined by Certified Life Coach & Neurosomatic Expert Dr. Amber Curtis to explore why high-functioning women often struggle to relax and why traditional mindset hacks often fail to move the needle. She explains the science behind the constant state of alert many women live in and provides the tools to move from a state of survival to true renewal.Tune in to learn:Why you cannot simply think your way out of overwhelm and how to work with your nervous system instead of against it to end the cycle of burnout.The secrets to identifying your default protective adaptations, such as the fix-it mode, that keep you stuck in a high-functioning survival state.How to shift from fixing to feeling by practicing eyes-open awareness to create the internal safety required for a lasting identity shift.The critical connection between nervous system regulation and the presence required to lead your family and your business with calm authority.If you are tired of checking all the boxes while feeling like mom rage or exhaustion is just around the corner, this session offers the body-based approach you've been looking for. Free Gift: Why Moms' Happiness is Non-Negotiable TrainingThis 10-minute on-demand video underscores why it's imperative that moms take radical responsibility for their own happiness—not just for you, but for your kids!Amber's Giveaway Contribution: 1-on-1 Coaching Session60-minute 1:1 Coaching call (a $250 value)! During our hour together, we'll run through a general assessment of how you're doing and then break down what you're struggling with to help you: 1) Think about it differently so you can then FEEL better about it (and ultimately see more optimal results), and 2) Develop a concrete action plan to improve your situationConnect with Amber: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
This is The Energy to Heal, your resource for all things Splankna, the faith-based inner healing modality that will help you achieve emotional freedom. In this episode, Laura Milliken sits down with Leanne O'Neil, a former neurofeedback practitioner who made the bold decision to sell her practice and go all-in on Splankna after seeing deeper, faster, and more affordable results for emotional regulation and trauma support. Leanne shares her fascinating professional journey out of brain-based technology and into a Christ-centered, mind-body approach to emotional freedom. Together, Laura and Leanne explore why Splankna often reaches places that traditional brain training and neurofeedback cannot—especially when it comes to trauma, subconscious patterns, and forgiveness. This episode also takes a surprising turn into the growing scientific and academic interest in forgiveness and emotional regulation, highlighting how leading universities are now studying the role of forgiveness in mental health, stress reduction, and human flourishing. Leanne explains how forgiveness work fits naturally into Splankna sessions and why unresolved emotional pain can quietly keep people stuck—even when they are highly motivated to change. If you are curious about neurofeedback, trauma support, forgiveness research, or why someone would walk away from a successful clinical practice to follow Jesus into a completely different model of care—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and language to understand what Splankna actually offers. Want To Become a Practitioner? You don't need a background in any certain field to be trained!
As a Certified Life Coach and Certified Holistic Cancer Coach, I've observed that while many people are willing to invest time, money, and effort into improving their physical bodies, they often avoid tending to their mind and spirit. They offer excuses like lack of time, money, or the belief that they “don't need it, but my (add name here,) does!” That's why I am introducing something new in The Classroom: Free Life Coaching Sessions. A loving, judgment-free space where you can ask questions about anything causing pain, confusion, or uncertainty and gain clarity, perspective, and direction. Coaching isn't about being told what to do; it's about asking the right questions, reconnecting with your inner wisdom, and moving forward with intention. Each week, I will select requests to explore during The Classroom for the benefit of all who may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or ready for something more. If you're seeking encouragement, empowerment, or clarity, email your questions to me at Lilly@WhenYouNeedaFriend.com Now you can listen commercial free at your leisure…Click here and let's grow together: Lillian McDermott, Free Life Coaching Session If you love this podcast episode, share it with a friend. The Lillian McDermott Radio Show/Classroom ~ When You Need a Friend… PREMIERE: Telegram, Facebook, YouTube, WhenYouNeedaFriend.com SUBSCRIBE, LIKE, & FOLLOW: Facebook, Instagram, X, Website, Odysee, BitChute, YouTube! LISTEN: Amazon Podcast, Apple Podcasts, YouTube Music, Spotify, Pandora, TuneIn, iHeartRadio! CALL or TEXT: 407-373-5959 “You can take a pill, or You can take Responsibility!” ®
We spend so much time focusing on our relationships with other people that it's easy to forget we matter too. The relationship we have with ourselves is the foundation for every other relationship in our lives, and when that self-connection is strained or neglected, everything else feels harder.Today, I'm sharing a special rebroadcast from the Raising Boys, Building Men podcast, hosted by Master Coach Heidi Allsop. In this conversation with my fellow She Rises co-authors, Michelle Keil and Maria Hendershot, we discussed how the themes we each write about in the book—wholeness over hustle culture, creativity, nervous system regulation, and joy—directly support moms who want to care for themselves and their kids at the same time.One of the most important reminders in this conversation is that our kids are always watching. They're learning what adulthood looks like from how we live. When we show them that life isn't meant to be lived in a constant state of burnout or perfectionism, we give them a very different template for their own lives and relationships.Strengthening our relationship with ourselves doesn't take anything away from the people we love—it actually allows us to better foster those relationships. In this episode, we share practical, doable ways to step out of hustle culture and back into self-connection, without adding another thing to your to-do list. This conversation is about remembering who you are, why your wellbeing matters, and how small shifts can change everything.What you'll learn:How to start small with self-care when slowing down feels uncomfortableHow to work with your nervous system and when doing less feels dangerousWhy joy is a birthright, not a reward for finishing your to-do listHow simple creative practices can regulate your nervous system and quiet overthinkingWhy modeling rest and boundaries can teach your kids what adulthood looks likeYou can read the full show notes here.About Heidi AllsopHeidi Allsop is a Certified Life Coach, Social Worker, and proud Mom of five sons. Known as the Boy Mom Coach, Heidi specializes in empowering moms to strengthen their relationship with their sons, so they can truly enjoy him at every age. With nearly three decades of experience, Heidi understands the challenges of raising boys in today's world. Her Strong Moms, Strong Sons philosophy has transformed families, helping moms navigate the tumultuous years from middle school to manhood, fostering a lifelong bond with their boys.Website: https://www.heidiallsopcoaching.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heidiallsopcoaching/Facebook:
Hey everyone, and welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! On today's episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes fellow Canadian and self-love guru Nisha Goyal, a certified life coach with more than 25 years' experience in helping women build a stronger, more loving relationship with themselves.This episode kicks off with an honest look at those core beliefs so many of us wrestle with, feeling not good enough, unworthy, powerless, and why women tend to fall into the role of people pleaser. Nisha shares about her own story of burnout, how she realized she wasn't truly valuing herself, and what it actually takes to flip that script.Mardi and Nisha have a down-to-earth conversation about the difference between self-care (no, it's not just about spa days and chocolates!) and self-love, which goes way deeper. Nisha breaks down how to start treating yourself with the same kindness and nurture that you'd give to a partner, especially when you're feeling lost after a breakup or divorce.They also tackle some big topics, like why being child-free doesn't mean you have it any easier during divorce, and how societal pressures can make anyone feel like they're failing, whether or not they fit the usual “wife and mom” box. Mardi and Nisha share strategies for rewriting those old stories in your head, forgiving yourself, and making daily decisions that fill your own cup first.About the Guest:Nisha Goyal is a Self-Love expert and Certified Life Coach with 25 years of experience in the art of self-devotion. She has transformed her own experience of overcoming burnout into a passion for helping high-achieving women optimize their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. She specializes in teaching women how to date themselves and cultivate unapologetic AF self-love so they can create a life of abundance.For Nisha's amazing gift: https://drive.google.com/file/d/19QkwdsKNmXqZfOD6KyC10RyR-Rh1ec2K/view?usp=sharingTo connect with Nisha:Website: https://nishagoyal.ca/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theselflovemaven/ LinkedIn:www.linkedin.com/in/nishagoyal About the HostMardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please...
In this inspiring episode of Coaching In Session, Michael Rearden sits down with Maureen Scanlon, a Certified Life Coach, bestselling author, and relationship expert, to explore the transformative power of life coaching, self-worth, and personal development.Maureen shares how experiences shape our desires and why coaching is essential in today's fast-paced world. Michael and Maureen delve into practical tools for personal growth, the importance of setting intentions, and mindset shifts that lead to meaningful change. They also discuss accountability, vulnerability, and embracing your worth as key steps to creating the life you truly desire.Listeners will gain insights into overcoming limiting beliefs, aligning their desires with authentic fulfillment, and building lasting confidence and self-esteem. If you want to elevate your self-worth and make intentional, life-changing choices, this episode is for you.What you'll learn about this episode• How life coaching helps recognize and elevate self-worth• Desire often stems from societal pressure rather than personal fulfillment• Understanding the difference between joy and temporary happiness• Why people seek the suffering they know and resist change• Every meaningful change requires conscious sacrifice• Coaching is essential for ongoing personal maintenance and growth• Setting intentions can influence outcomes and mindset• How mindset shifts overcome negative thought patterns• Vulnerability as a tool for authentic personal growth• “Fake it till you make it” as a strategy for changeKey Takeaways✅ Life coaching elevates self-worth and personal empowerment✅ Desire must align with authentic fulfillment, not societal expectations✅ Joy is ongoing; happiness is temporary✅ Change requires facing discomfort and making sacrifices✅ Coaching is necessary for sustained personal growth✅ Setting intentions guides daily outcomes and mindset✅ Mindset shifts are critical to overcoming limiting beliefs✅ Vulnerability fosters growth and authenticity✅ “Fake it till you make it” can help create new habits✅ Accountability accelerates personal transformationResources & Guest links
In this episode preview, I'm joined by Miana Melendez to talk about the major astrological transits of 2026 and how they might shape our year in creative business. Miana is a Certified Astrologer, Certified Life Coach and Brand Strategist who helps ambitious leaders, divine disruptors and soul led entrepreneurs step into their next evolution of identity, leadership and vocal expression. Tune in to hear us chat about:Why presence is the word of the yearHow Neptune and Saturn in Aries might shape our visionThe powerful potential of Uranus in GeminiWhy Chiron in Taurus and Jupiter in Leo will give this year a lift& lots more! To hear the whole episode, join the Clubhouse at offthegrid.fun/clubhouse When you do, you'll get access to over 30 bonus episodes (and counting), curated tech + creative business newsletters, and more. Plus your own private podcast feed, comments threads, and behind-the-scenes updates on the show. Please join the Clubhouse to support the show! And find this specific episode here :) ✨ Sobremesa.Institute is where learning Spanish feels fluid, lived, and shared. Join our Language & Culture Retreat in Barcelona in May, and explore the full 2026 collection here.
https://capturingthecharmedlife.com/feed/podcast/ Welcome to the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, sits down with homeschool mom and coach Christina Slayback for an honest conversation about homeschool pressure—recognizing when it’s taken over and what to do instead. Through Christina’s personal journey from overwhelm and resentment to intentional, peaceful homeschooling, you’ll discover how to release homeschool pressure and start living from presence instead. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa and Christina explore the physical and emotional signs that homeschool pressure is controlling your days. From tension in the house to feeling resentful of the very thing you chose to do, you’ll recognize when pressure has taken over. If you’re struggling with comparison, curriculum overwhelm, or the gap between your expectations and reality, this episode is for you. You’ll discover how Christina moved from homeschool pressure to presence by asking one powerful question: “How can I let this be easy?” Releasing homeschool pressure doesn’t require a complete overhaul. It starts with meeting your kids exactly where they are and redefining what really matters. How Small Shifts Help You Release Homeschool Pressure Instead of striving for someone else’s version of homeschool success, Christina shows you how to identify your core desired feelings and use them as a compass for decisions. In this episode, you’ll explore: ➤ Understanding resistance from kids as a signal, not a failure➤ Finding yourself again after losing your identity in motherhood➤ Creating margins instead of falling into the “if I just had more time” trap➤ Setting boundaries with extracurriculars without mom guilt➤ Making incremental changes that lead to genuine confidence and peace Releasing homeschool pressure becomes possible when you stop trying to follow someone else’s formula and start creating one that aligns with how you actually want to feel. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release homeschool pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective to create a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence and freedom from homeschool pressure. Episode Outline [00:00] Christina’s accidental homeschooling journey[03:00] Spotting the physical signs of homeschool pressure[08:00] Understanding resistance from kids as a signal[13:00] Maintaining influence without control in the preteen years[15:00] Learning to regulate emotions alongside your children[21:00] Finding yourself again after losing your identity in motherhood[28:00] Why “if I just had more time” is a trap[31:00] Using core desired feelings as your decision-making compass[35:00] Giving yourself permission to adjust and experiment[40:00] Being spacious in the moment instead of rushing[45:00] Why there’s no perfect curriculum[50:00] Setting boundaries with extracurriculars without mom guilt[55:00] If you’re feeling guilty, you’re already doing more than you think Listen Now Ready to release homeschool pressure and start creating a homeschool life that aligns with your values? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and discover how small shifts can help you move from homeschool pressure to presence and transform your homeschool journey. Resources Mentioned in This Episode “Hold On to Your Kids” by Gordon NeufeldBrené Brown’s TEDx TalkClear and On Purpose Podcast with Christina SlaybackChristina’s Website: christinaslayback.comFollow Christina: @christinaslayback on Instagram & Facebook Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life Stop Asking These 6 Homeschool Questions (That Sabotage Your Life) 5 Simple Habit Stacking Ideas for Homeschool Moms to Reduce Stress and Gain Control A Homeschool Mom's Guide to Purposeful Living Less Pressure, More Presence About Me, Teresa Wiedrick Unlearning People-Pleasing as a Homeschool Mom How to Incorporate Ten Self-Care Tips for Homeschool Moms Customized Homeschool Help for Parents that Can Transform your Life Latest episodes you might also enjoy: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube I’m Need a Homeschool Reset! 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Welcome to the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, tackles one of the most common struggles homeschool moms face: finding your homeschool rhythm when consistency feels impossible. Through a powerful real-life coaching session with a mom named Audrey, Teresa reveals how our preconceived notions of what consistency “should” look like—and the weight of external pressures—can actually sabotage your efforts at finding your homeschool rhythm. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa walks you through Audrey’s authentic journey of feeling overwhelmed, stuck in comparison, and frustrated by the gap between her ideals and reality. If you’re struggling with finding your homeschool rhythm, you’ll discover how Audrey moved from self-judgment to self-trust by redefining consistency in a way that actually fits her unique family circumstances. This episode demonstrates that finding your homeschool rhythm doesn’t come from massive overhauls—it comes from small, personalized shifts that honour where you are right now. How Small Changes Help You Master Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm Instead of striving for picture-perfect routines that work for someone else, Teresa shows you how to identify what rhythm and consistency truly mean for your family. By exploring Audrey’s emotional and relational struggles—including the importance of boundaries and releasing unrealistic expectations—you’ll learn practical ways to make incremental changes that lead to genuine confidence and peace. Finding your homeschool rhythm becomes possible when you stop trying to follow someone else’s formula and start creating one that fits your life. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective to create a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence and finding your homeschool rhythm. Episode Timeline 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Consistency and Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 00:34 Understanding the Real Problem Behind Your Rhythm 00:49 Audrey’s Story: A Real-Life Example of Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 05:53 Exploring Common Homeschooling Challenges 08:50 Audrey’s Emotional and Relational Struggles 12:07 The Importance of Boundaries in Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 14:21 Shifting Perspectives: Small Steps to Your Perfect Rhythm 18:20 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Listen Now Ready to stop struggling and start finding your homeschool rhythm that actually works? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and discover how small shifts can help you create a sustainable rhythm and transform your homeschool journey. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Confident Homeschool Mom Collective Self-Leadership Toolkit for Homeschool Moms Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life 6 Challenges Every Struggling Homeschool Mom Faces — and How to Transform Them Homeschool Routine Isn't Working? 3 Hidden Mistakes (And the Fixes You Need) How to Homeschool Middle School with Confidence The Helpful Homeschool Mom's Guide To Intentional Living How to Be a Sane Working Homeschool Mom (Without Burning Out) How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU Can I Homeschool My Child? 9 Simple Steps to Confidently Start the Journey 9 Steps to Thrive: Confident Homeschool Mom in Year 1 Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube Latest episodes you might also enjoy: The Truth About Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm January 13, 2026 The Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast: Introducing the 1% Pivot January 6, 2026 Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026: How to Recalibrate the Year with Clarity December 23, 2025 1% Shift to a Calm Homeschool Life December 23, 2025 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms December 10, 2025 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge to Come Back to Yourself December 2, 2025 What is the Reimagine Your Homeschool Group Coaching? November 18, 2025 Not Just a Homeschool Mom — Why You’re Disappearing (And How to Come Back) November 11, 2025 Teaching World War to a Homeschooled Eight Year Old November 10, 2025 Reimagine Your Homeschool: Feel Free, Inspire Curiosity and Do What Works November 5, 2025 the role of imagination in a home education November 4, 2025 Helping Our Kids Live Their Lives on Purpose: A Practical Guide for Homeschool Moms October 28, 2025 Human Development for Homeschool Moms: Realistic High School Expectations October 20, 2025 How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU October 14, 2025 Why Deschooling? To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough October 7, 2025 The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms September 23, 2025 Ultimate Homeschool Overwhelm Quiz That Reveals Your Hidden Stress Triggers in 5 Minutes September 15, 2025 Start Homeschooling in British Columbia: How to Decide September 9, 2025 How to Create an Effective Homeschool Routine that Works for You September 2, 2025 Interest-Led Homeschool for Confident Moms: An Enneagram 8 Mom's Story of Growth August 28, 2025 How Do I Unschool My Child? 5 Simple Steps to Spark Natural Learning August 19, 2025 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) August 13, 2025 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 August 11, 2025 5 Challenges Working Homeschool Moms Face—And How to Overcome Them August 5, 2025 How to Manage Overstimulation as a Homeschool Mom July 30, 2025 Reclaim You: Rediscover Life Beyond the Homeschool Mom Role July 22, 2025 A Summer Reset for Homeschool Moms: The Secret to a More Peaceful Year Ahead July 15, 2025 How to Help Reluctant Writers: Julie Bogart on Homeschool Writing July 7, 2025 7 Ways Brené Rescued Me from One of those Homeschool Days June 30, 2025 Morning Affirmations for Homeschool Mama: A Simple Practice for You to Parent with Intention June 24, 2025 5 Overlooked Mistakes That Are Stressing You Out as a Homeschool Mom (& How to Fix Them) June 18, 2025 The Soul School Way: Books as Mirrors, Windows, and Voices for Homeschool Families June 3, 2025 Sibling Bickering in Homeschool Families: What's Normal & How to Handle It May 27, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundaries: 6 Truths That Will Set You Free May 20, 2025 How the Mother Wound Affects Homeschool Moms—and How to Break Free May 12, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundary Issues? You’re Not Doing This… May 6, 2025 How to Deschool as a Homeschool Mom and Rediscover Your Identity April 30, 2025 How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose April 22, 2025 How to Know if Deschooling is Right for You: 7 Signs you Need to Deschool April 13, 2025 Why Do You Want to Deschool? Understanding Why it Matters April 11, 2025 Is My Homeschooler Behind? The Truth About Learning at Their Own Pace April 1, 2025 A Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Purposeful Living March 25, 2025 10 Simple Steps to the Homeschool Life (& Live it on Purpose) March 17, 2025 The Three Lies Homeschool Moms Tell Themselves March 11, 2025 The Myth of the Perfect Homeschool: 3 Common Challenges March 5, 2025 Tired of Homeschool Sibling Fights? Try These 3 Simple Strategies! March 4, 2025 11 Powerful Affirmations Every Homeschool Mom Needs to Hear February 25, 2025 6 Homeschool Burnout Signs that Suggest You Need to Try Something New February 18, 2025 7 Red Flags That Say You Need Homeschool Wellness Coaching—Before Burnout Hits February 12, 2025 How to Motivate Your Homeschool Child toward Curiosity & Independence February 4, 2025 Subscribe to the Homeschool Mama Self-Care podcast YouTube Apple Audible Spotify (function(m,a,i,l,e,r){ m['MailerLiteObject']=e;function f(){ var c={ a:arguments,q:[]};var r=this.push(c);return "number"!=typeof r?r:f.bind(c.q);} f.q=f.q||[];m[e]=m[e]||f.bind(f.q);m[e].q=m[e].q||f.q;r=a.createElement(i); var _=a.getElementsByTagName(i)[0];r.async=1;r.src=l+'?v'+(~~(new Date().getTime()/1000000)); _.parentNode.insertBefore(r,_);})(window, document, 'script', 'https://static.mailerlite.com/js/universal.js', 'ml'); var ml_account = ml('accounts', '1815912', 'p9n9c0c7s5', 'load');
Welcome to the newly renamed Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this foundational episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, introduces a transformative concept that will guide the entire year ahead: the 1% pivot—a simple approach to building lasting confidence in your homeschool journey. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa opens up about her personal journey from overwhelm, perfectionism, and the weight of societal expectations to discovering peace and presence through small, intentional shifts. She explains how these “1% pivots”—tiny, doable changes—can help you build genuine confidence, release unnecessary pressure, and create a life that feels aligned and fulfilling. How Small Changes Create Big Results for Homeschool Moms This episode sets the stage for a year-long journey of monthly themes, each designed to help you make incremental changes that compound into significant transformation. Teresa invites you to reflect on your own challenges and commit to one small pivot each month, proving that sustainable change doesn’t require perfection—just consistency. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective and the book club newsletter, creating a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence. Episode Timeline 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Rebranding 00:38 The Journey to Confidence 02:33 Teresa’s Homeschooling Experience 03:29 The Power of 1% Pivots 05:47 Common Challenges for Homeschool Moms 09:40 Monthly Focus and Practical Shifts 18:22 Invitation to Join the Community 19:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Listen Now Ready to make your first 1% pivot? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and let’s begin this journey together. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Confident Homeschool Mom Collective Book Club Newsletter Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life How to Homeschool Middle School with Confidence The Helpful Homeschool Mom's Guide To Intentional Living Can I Homeschool My Child? 9 Simple Steps to Confidently Start the Journey 9 Steps to Thrive: Confident Homeschool Mom in Year 1 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube Latest episodes you might also enjoy: The Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast: Introducing the 1% Pivot January 6, 2026 Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026: How to Recalibrate the Year with Clarity December 23, 2025 1% Shift to a Calm Homeschool Life December 23, 2025 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms December 10, 2025 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge to Come Back to Yourself December 2, 2025 What is the Reimagine Your Homeschool Group Coaching? November 18, 2025 Not Just a Homeschool Mom — Why You’re Disappearing (And How to Come Back) November 11, 2025 Teaching World War to a Homeschooled Eight Year Old November 10, 2025 Reimagine Your Homeschool: Feel Free, Inspire Curiosity and Do What Works November 5, 2025 the role of imagination in a home education November 4, 2025 Helping Our Kids Live Their Lives on Purpose: A Practical Guide for Homeschool Moms October 28, 2025 Human Development for Homeschool Moms: Realistic High School Expectations October 20, 2025 How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU October 14, 2025 Why Deschooling? To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough October 7, 2025 The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms September 23, 2025 Ultimate Homeschool Overwhelm Quiz That Reveals Your Hidden Stress Triggers in 5 Minutes September 15, 2025 Start Homeschooling in British Columbia: How to Decide September 9, 2025 How to Create an Effective Homeschool Routine that Works for You September 2, 2025 Interest-Led Homeschool for Confident Moms: An Enneagram 8 Mom's Story of Growth August 28, 2025 How Do I Unschool My Child? 5 Simple Steps to Spark Natural Learning August 19, 2025 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) August 13, 2025 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 August 11, 2025 5 Challenges Working Homeschool Moms Face—And How to Overcome Them August 5, 2025 How to Manage Overstimulation as a Homeschool Mom July 30, 2025 Reclaim You: Rediscover Life Beyond the Homeschool Mom Role July 22, 2025 A Summer Reset for Homeschool Moms: The Secret to a More Peaceful Year Ahead July 15, 2025 How to Help Reluctant Writers: Julie Bogart on Homeschool Writing July 7, 2025 7 Ways Brené Rescued Me from One of those Homeschool Days June 30, 2025 Morning Affirmations for Homeschool Mama: A Simple Practice for You to Parent with Intention June 24, 2025 5 Overlooked Mistakes That Are Stressing You Out as a Homeschool Mom (& How to Fix Them) June 18, 2025 The Soul School Way: Books as Mirrors, Windows, and Voices for Homeschool Families June 3, 2025 Sibling Bickering in Homeschool Families: What's Normal & How to Handle It May 27, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundaries: 6 Truths That Will Set You Free May 20, 2025 How the Mother Wound Affects Homeschool Moms—and How to Break Free May 12, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundary Issues? You’re Not Doing This… May 6, 2025 How to Deschool as a Homeschool Mom and Rediscover Your Identity April 30, 2025 How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose April 22, 2025 How to Know if Deschooling is Right for You: 7 Signs you Need to Deschool April 13, 2025 Why Do You Want to Deschool? Understanding Why it Matters April 11, 2025 Is My Homeschooler Behind? The Truth About Learning at Their Own Pace April 1, 2025 A Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Purposeful Living March 25, 2025 10 Simple Steps to the Homeschool Life (& Live it on Purpose) March 17, 2025 The Three Lies Homeschool Moms Tell Themselves March 11, 2025 The Myth of the Perfect Homeschool: 3 Common Challenges March 5, 2025 Tired of Homeschool Sibling Fights? Try These 3 Simple Strategies! March 4, 2025 11 Powerful Affirmations Every Homeschool Mom Needs to Hear February 25, 2025 6 Homeschool Burnout Signs that Suggest You Need to Try Something New February 18, 2025 7 Red Flags That Say You Need Homeschool Wellness Coaching—Before Burnout Hits February 12, 2025 How to Motivate Your Homeschool Child toward Curiosity & Independence February 4, 2025 How I Learned to Build Healthy Relationships in My Homeschool Family (And How You Can Too) January 27, 2025 Subscribe to the Homeschool Mama Self-Care podcast YouTube Apple Audible Spotify (function(m,a,i,l,e,r){ m['MailerLiteObject']=e;function f(){ var c={ a:arguments,q:[]};var r=this.push(c);return "number"!=typeof r?r:f.bind(c.q);} f.q=f.q||[];m[e]=m[e]||f.bind(f.q);m[e].q=m[e].q||f.q;r=a.createElement(i); var _=a.getElementsByTagName(i)[0];r.async=1;r.src=l+'?v'+(~~(new Date().getTime()/1000000)); _.parentNode.insertBefore(r,_);})(window, document, 'script', 'https://static.mailerlite.com/js/universal.js', 'ml'); var ml_account = ml('accounts', '1815912', 'p9n9c0c7s5', 'load');
Natasha is joined by two of her colleagues on this episode of the Natasha Helfer Podcast. Amy Roy and Lindsay Ferguson, both interns at Symmetry Counseling, join to discuss supporting faith transitions. Resources referenced in this episode: "When Mormons Doubt" by Jon Ogden: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1535350377/?bestFormat=true&k=when%20mormons%20doubt&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-bk-ww_k0_1_16_de&crid=WMLVXOBVUVX2&sprefix=when%20mormons%20dou "Parenting Beyond Belief: On Raising Ethical, Caring Kids without Religion" by Dale McGowan: https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Beyond-Belief-Raising-Religion/dp/0814437419/ref=sr_1_2?crid=352KN87OF690Y&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Ua-_vxM_d-ndcFQVCIkpLRM2COHo1k1vUNsb7Vg8DTIj9zWaLhzegioWmYIX-kglontgVYgyIWW7h2b9swuOondzm9QzYrwoV0bPAWgHtFBOUN9q69ljskYzZZCu3JgPZoibeY4A-UoYIvJCsn9_7T9mEThlMhQ4O2pE06VTtdW53ssBV2AAlwuHlIOk4KDnNwCRaqfN6PPrj5uua1iymcZMZ_EPvPXwgyo9Geh90ws.fZfGgtXas2D1MMYcIHHKADhkgBYgnJyu5KEzjtlgTC0&dib_tag=se&keywords=parenting+beyond+belief&qid=1766593809&s=books&sprefix=parenting+beyond+belief%2Cstripbooks%2C167&sr=1-2 Mormon Mental Health Association: https://mormonmentalhealthassoc.org/ Parenting after a Mormon Faith Crisis: https://www.mormonfaithcrisis.com/parenting-after-a-mormon-faith-crisis-an-overview/ Uplift Kids: https://upliftkids.org/ More on Amy and Lindsay: Amy Roy believes in the power of helping people discover the strengths they already possess within themselves. Personal empowerment is a driving force in her work and she is deeply passionate about helping people create the lives they desire. Amy spent many years working in higher education and has loved helping young adults along their journey into adulthood. After completing the CES Seminary teaching program, she worked as an CES Institute teacher for Harvard and MIT students in Cambridge, MA. Amy's experience of leaving the LDS Church after two years of research, followed by her journey in alcohol recovery, inspired her to return to school for her second master's degree to become a therapist. Amy is passionate about helping people in recovery and those creating a new life for themselves after major life changes and/or trauma. She sought out a practice with a faith transition specialty and is thrilled to now be with Symmetry! She is also a board member of the Mormon Mental Health Association (MMHA) Along with being a Certified Life Coach, Amy holds a Bachelor of Science degree from Brigham Young University and a Master of Higher Education Leadership degree from Northcentral University, and is currently finishing her Master's in May as a Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Go here to find out more about Amy: https://symcounseling.com/amy-roy/ Lindsay Ferguson is a CSW intern therapist at Symmetry Counseling and an MSW graduate student at Louisiana State University, graduating in May 2026. She works with individuals of all ages and couples, supporting clients through life transitions, trauma, grief, relationship challenges, parenting concerns, LGBTQ+ experiences, religious transitions, and mental health challenges, with a focus on values-based, meaningful living. She's been married for 20 years, is a mom of four (two teens and 11-year-old twins), and enjoys reading, walks with her dogs, and time with her family. Go here to find out more on Lindsay: https://symcounseling.com/lindsay-ferguson/ To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. The information shared on this program is informational and should not be considered therapy. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services. There are also several upcoming workshops. Visit natashahelfer.com or symcounseling.com to find out more.
Send us a textWhat if the fastest way to grow as a coach is to realize you're transforming too? We open up about the mirror effect that happens in every session—how a client's breakthrough expands our own awareness, sharpens our presence, and upgrades how we lead, parent, and partner. Instead of treating coaching as something we do to others, we frame it as a practice that works through us, shaping identity and belief with every conversation.We get practical about honoring that growth, sharing a simple post-session ritual you can start today: reflect on what shifted in you, name one lesson you're taking forward, and translate it into a tiny action within 24 hours. That rhythm turns insight into traction and builds quiet confidence over time. We also dig into why staying curious matters more than being clever, and how to ask yourself the same brave questions you pose to clients. The result is a compounding flywheel—client wins fuel your evolution, your evolution lifts your coaching, and the cycle continues.We also talk candidly about certification. Yes, you'll learn frameworks, ethics, and methods—but the deeper value is the space to transform as a person. Many who enroll aren't chasing a business; they're seeking a reset for their life, relationships, and leadership. Experiencing coaching from the inside out shifts your self-concept, strengthens your belief, and makes your presence more grounded and effective. When you help someone rise, you rise a little too—by design, not by accident.If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with a coach who needs the reminder, and leave a review with one lesson you're taking into your next session. Your insight might spark someone else's breakthrough.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
Send us a textThe most powerful moment in a coaching journey isn't a new certification or a perfect framework—it's the instant you stop sounding like everyone else and finally sound like you. We walk through why that shift unlocks trust, sparks honesty, and turns scripted sessions into real transformation for clients who are ready to do the work.We start by naming the feeling of being coached by someone fully present: no checklist, no performance, just a live conversation tuned to where you are. From there, we dig into how authenticity invites truth and why clients can't change what they're still hiding. You'll hear a candid story about moving beyond a single style, blending life coaching with performance coaching to bridge the gap between insight and action. That hybrid approach helps clients break internal barriers, address external constraints, and leave each call with a clear plan they're excited to follow.Along the way, we tackle the real reasons coaches imitate others—comparison and insecurity—and offer a practical path forward. Think practice over perfection, feedback over approval, and scripts as temporary training wheels rather than permanent crutches. We share specific ways to lean into intuition, refine your questions, and listen for the moment when a session needs to pivot from reflection to commitment. You'll also learn why community matters so much: a small circle that gives honest notes will surface your strengths faster than coaching alone ever will.If you've felt the tug to find your own cadence, this conversation is your permission slip. Treat your voice as a tool, not a brand. Use it to model the courage you ask from clients, and watch the room change when you do. Subscribe for more practical coaching insights, share this episode with a coach who needs it today, and leave a review to help others discover the show.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
Send us a textPerfection looks safe on paper, but it can choke the life out of a coaching session. We crack open the myth that tighter control leads to better outcomes and show how the real breakthroughs happen when you loosen your grip. From the first minute, we explore why coaching works best as a living conversation rather than a tightly scripted performance, and how presence—not polish—creates the conditions for honest insight and sustainable change.You'll hear a revealing story of a client focused on business growth who couldn't gain traction until we uncovered a hidden belief: success at work meant failure at home. That single narrative quietly blocked every tactic. By pivoting from strategy to the root cause, then reframing success as both-and, momentum returned. We walk through practical ways to hold structure loosely: set a clear intent, anchor to three essential questions, and stay ready to follow the energy when the client's words or body language point somewhere deeper.We also talk about why coaches cling to plans—fear of failure, the comfort of certainty—and how that habit erodes presence. Instead, try guided spontaneity: a flexible map, permission to change course mid-session, and a closing debrief that captures insights. When clients feel safe to co-lead, authenticity increases and the real answers surface faster. If you've ever felt a session slide off your outline, consider that it may be sliding toward truth. Subscribe, share this with a coach who needs the nudge, and leave a review telling us the last time you chose presence over perfection.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
This special Black Friday solo episode of the Finding Harmony Podcast invites you to step out of the frenzy of sales and into a much quieter revolution: transforming your relationship with money from the inside out. Host Harmony Slater reframes money as energy, a living current that wants to circulate, not stagnate. Drawing on her own history of growing up in a household marked by financial fear and scarcity, she shares three key insights that can help you reset your money frequency as the holidays, year-end reflections, and new intentions all converge. You will explore how gratitude shifts your nervous system out of threat mode, why energy must come before strategy when it comes to money and business, and how true generosity springs from a sense of inner enoughness rather than obligation or pressure. Harmony closes by inviting you into her 21 Day Money Magic and Manifestation Challenge, a structured container to rewire your money beliefs, calm your nervous system, and expand your capacity to receive. This is a beautiful listen for anyone who feels anxious about holiday spending, income, or “where you should be by now” and is ready to create a more grounded, spiritual, and truly abundant relationship with wealth. In this episode, Harmony explores: Money as circulating energy Why she chooses to talk about circulating money rather than spending it over Black Friday weekend How seeing money as energy, currency, and flow changes the way you relate to it Insight 1: Gratitude as a nervous system reset How childhood scarcity imprints connect money with stress, fear, and conflict A simple gratitude practice you can use right now to move from “surviving” into a sense of thriving and sufficiency How gratitude shifts your brain chemistry toward safety and receptivity Insight 2: Energy before strategy Why budgeting, hustling, or “doing more” rarely work when the underlying energy is fear The difference between a “strategy problem” and an energetic mismatch A somatic check-in to ask: “Does my body feel safe to receive more?” How breath, mantra, visualization, and nervous system calibration prepare you to take aligned action Insight 3: Generosity as a gateway to overflow The difference between reckless spending and aligned generosity A real-life story of making a scary, values-aligned investment in her first coaching program Why investing energy in what is truly aligned with who you are becoming tends to multiply Practical micro-practices from the 21 Day Money Magic and Manifestation Challenge Daily prompts, breathwork, visualization, and nervous system practices Repatterning your subconscious beliefs about money, safety, and worthiness Learning to become a channel for abundance in all forms: finances, health, love, opportunities, and community About Your Host: Harmony Slater Harmony Slater is a Certified Life Coach, Certified Ashtanga Yoga Teacher, and long-time practitioner who has spent more than twenty years exploring how ancient spiritual technologies can support our modern lives. Through in-depth conversations, solo teachings, and practical tools, Harmony helps you bring yoga, meditation, and subtle body practices into everyday life so that you feel more resourced, clear, and connected. You can learn more about Harmony, her programs, and upcoming retreats at harmonyslater.com. Resources And Links Mentioned Somatic Selling: A Spinal Energetics Workshop to Release Sales Fear + Embody Overflow https://harmonyslater.kit.com/somatic-bf25 For coaches, healers, and yoga teachers ready to release sales resistance, expand their capacity to receive, and confidently share their gifts with the world. 21 Day Money Magic and Manifestation Challenge https://community-harmonyslater.com/landing/plans/1542444 Use PROMO CODE: MONEYMAGIC60 for an additional $60 Savings You can jump into this challenge for only $48 - available ONLY for a limited time! 21 days of daily audio messages, journal prompts, and micro-practices Designed to uncover subconscious money blocks, recalibrate your nervous system, and align your energy with abundance On Black Friday special for three days Use promo code: MoneyMagic60 at checkout Call To Action If this episode helped you feel more grounded and hopeful about money during the holiday season: Join the 21 Day Money Magic and Manifestation Challenge Use the code MoneyMagic60 for the limited Black Friday offer Share this episode with a friend who feels anxious about finances, holiday spending, or “not being far enough along” in life. Subscribe and leave a review for the Finding Harmony Podcast so more people can find these conversations about spirituality, yoga, and everyday life. Come say hello on Instagram at @harmonyslaterofficial and @findingharmonypodcast and let Harmony know your biggest takeaway from this Black Friday episode. Upcoming events: https://harmonyslater.com/events 21 Day Money Magic Manifestation Challenge: https://community-harmonyslater.com/landing/plans/1542444Use PROMO CODE for additional $20 Savings: MANIFESTATIONMAGIC FREE Manifestation Activation: https://harmonyslater.kit.com/manifestation-activation FIND Harmony: https://harmonyslater.com/ JOIN the Finding Harmony Community: https://community-harmonyslater.com/ Harmony on IG: https://www.instagram.com/harmonyslaterofficial/ Finding Harmony Podcast on IG: https://www.instagram.com/findingharmonypodcast/ FREE 2 min breathwork practice: https://harmonyslater.com/morning-breathwork-optin Find your Spiritual Entrepreneur Archetype! 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Send us a textIf you've ever felt your chest tighten when a client tears up, you're not alone—and you're closer to a breakthrough than you think. We take you inside the pivotal moments where emotion surfaces, why it matters, and how to respond without rescuing or retreating. Instead of treating tears as a problem to fix, we show you how to see them as signals of meaning that point to values, identity, and unmet needs.We unpack a simple, powerful reframe: emotions are data, not drama. From that stance, your role shifts from fixer to partner. You'll learn how to gain consent before going deeper, reflect what you notice without judgment, and stay steady when your own discomfort or fear kicks in. We share the two most common reasons coaches pull back, how to build emotional tolerance through repeated exposure and supervision, and why curiosity beats quick comfort every time. Presence becomes your method; trust becomes the outcome.You'll also hear a story of a father and business owner working through a eulogy exercise. When he reached what his son might say at the end of his life, the tears came—and that's where the change began. By leaning in, naming the importance, and asking grounded questions, we moved from raw feeling to a concrete plan he could act on immediately. That arc—signal, safety, sense-making, strategy—is repeatable when you stop chasing perfect sessions and start honoring real ones.If you're ready to coach through the hard moments with more confidence, clarity, and impact, press play. Subscribe for more practical frameworks, share this with a coach who needs it today, and leave a review telling us the powerful question you'll use to lean in.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
Send us a textWhat if the fastest way to move a client forward isn't agreeing with their limits, but holding a steadier belief in their potential than they can hold for themselves? We dive into the difference between compassion and confirmation and show how a coach's clean belief can lift a client out of a tight story and back into agency. Along the way, you'll hear a practical, step-by-step walkthrough of our Growth Model so you can transform the common “I'm overwhelmed” spiral into momentum you can actually feel.We start by naming the trap: when coaches buy into excuses around time, money, or capacity, they unintentionally anchor clients to the very constraints they want to escape. Then we pivot to the skill: see the person and their perspective as separate, ask “Even if this were true, how does focusing on it help?” and redirect attention toward small, testable actions that build proof. You'll learn how triggers like a packed calendar or an endless to-do list create a perception of overload, why that emotion predicts low-quality action or freeze, and how to interrupt the loop with a micro-commitment that restores control.Finally, we talk about real moments in the room: when belief creates enough safety for tears, breakdowns, and release. That's not a failure—it's a doorway. Hold possibility without minimizing pain, guide toward the next specific step, and let the client borrow your belief until they can stand in it themselves. If coaching is the art of building useful futures, this is the canvas: clear language, grounded compassion, actionable structure, and a higher mirror that invites people to rise.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a coach who needs it, and leave a quick review to help others find these tools. Your feedback shapes what we explore next.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
Send us a textWhen the calendar turns to late November, most people ease off the gas and promise themselves they'll restart in January. We take the opposite path. This conversation dives into why strategy isn't the real barrier to progress, how your belief system quietly protects comfort, and what it looks like to build momentum during the holidays without sacrificing family, peace, or recovery.We break down the idea of “zagging”—choosing to think differently when the world zigs. That doesn't mean longer hours or performative hustle. It means small, honest commitments that fit your real season: one meaningful outreach, a short workout, a single deliverable, a five-minute reflection. We share how year-end can actually be a competitive advantage for connection, clarity, and pipeline, and why identity-based habits created now make January feel like continuation, not a cold start.You'll hear practical ways to protect presence while making progress, from designing holiday-fit workflows to using gratitude-driven outreach that opens doors. We also talk about the power of community: a room that normalizes thoughtful action and coaches you through real constraints so you keep promises to yourself without burning out. If you're ready to let go of the “I'll start later” script and build a calmer, more consistent kind of success, this one's for you.Ready to zag while others zig? Join us for the first Elevate Monthly call on December 1. Learn more at modernleadership.us/elevate and test the community for seven days. If this helped, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so more people can build momentum now.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery
Send us a textMost conversations skate on the surface. We went deeper, exploring how coaches can hear beyond words and spot the subtle signals—tone shifts, posture changes, tiny pauses—that reveal what clients truly want but hesitate to say out loud. When you notice what's missing, you unlock the path from polite goals to real desire.We break down the craft of presence: slowing down, breathing before you respond, and widening your attention to the whole person. You'll hear how a client can light up describing a dream, then dim when they try to fit it into an old script—and how to name that contrast with care. We walk through practical prompts to reflect energy without assuming, and we show why those reflections build trust faster than any pep talk.From there, we connect insight to execution by pairing life and performance coaching. The life lens gets to the root—beliefs, fears, and loyalties that keep people circling the same outcomes. The performance lens turns truth into traction with clear steps, environmental design, and feedback loops that make progress easier to repeat. Along the way we share examples of catching unspoken cues during goal-setting, and how that single moment can change the entire session.If you're ready to coach what's real—listening to words and to what's unsaid—this conversation will sharpen your presence and your results. Subscribe for more practical coaching tools, share this with a coach who cares about craft, and leave a review to tell us the most powerful unspoken cue you've ever noticed.Interested in elevating your coaching skills and accelerating your clients' growth? Become a Certified Life Coach!Join the waitlist:https://www.modernleadership.us/mastery