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Identical, Mexican-wrestling twin sisters - one married, one twice divorced - compare their takes on books about love and relationships, with surprising results!

Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

Hollywood, California


    • Apr 10, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 25m AVG DURATION
    • 104 EPISODES

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    The Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy podcast is a delightful and entertaining show that explores the complexities of relationships, love, and dating. Hosted by identical twins Barbara Ann and Vera Duffy, this podcast offers a unique perspective on these topics due to their shared upbringing and diverse experiences.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the genuine and relatable nature of the hosts. Barbara Ann and Vera are not only smart and witty, but also open about their own experiences in love and relationships. They provide honest insights and anecdotes that make the listener feel understood and connected. Their natural banter adds a touch of humor to each episode, making it an enjoyable listen. Additionally, their ability to bring on guests who share their own perspectives further enriches the discussions.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is its thoughtful approach to analyzing various self-help books on romance. The hosts delve into different books throughout each episode, discussing their impact on their own lives as well as examining them from different angles. This provides a fresh perspective on these books while also offering practical advice for listeners.

    Unfortunately, there are no major downsides to this podcast. Some listeners may prefer a more structured format or wish for more episodes released regularly, but these are minor qualms compared to the overall quality of the show.

    In conclusion, The Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy podcast is a must-listen for anyone interested in exploring love, relationships, and self-awareness. With their insightful discussions, witty banter, and relatable stories, Barbara Ann and Vera create an engaging atmosphere that keeps listeners coming back for more. Whether you're going through a divorce or simply looking for some laughs and wisdom, this podcast is sure to delight.



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    Latest episodes from Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

    DL084 – Twinergy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 22:29


    Bibi figures out how to feel, while Fifi relives her childhood labour. Plus our recap of hosting the 2025 Hollywood Burlesque Festival at NeueHouse Hollywood, and also #KittyHats at Etsy.com/shop/VeraDuffyOfLosFeliz !

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    DL083 – TwinterRude

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 22:05


    Madness, rudeness, and Weirdness for this week’s Twinterlude! Links! Lucha VaVOOM DLLCHIRLAMind the Music (forthcoming)

    DL082 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 32:45


    The exciting conclusion to Bibi’s chat with burlesque legend Kitten DeVille! Plus! Peep these lovely ladies from Vanessa Burgundy’s Shadowbox Cabaret!

    DL081 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 23:09


    Part 3 of our follow up interview with burlesque legend Kitten DeVille!

    DL080 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 19:59


    Part two of guest Kitten DeVille’s follow up interview!

    DL079 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 24:12


    Barbara follows up with Kitten DeVille, our guest reviewer from The Narcissist in Your Life episodes.

    DL078 – Tong Ring

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 15:50


    Vera gets tong-tied while Barbara rings in a whole new her!

    DL077 – Hallotweens

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 6:35


    Twinterlude time!

    DL076 – Printerview – part 3 “Finale”

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 10:23


    The finale of our Printerview – our interview with poly-expert Prix de Beaute – about first satisfying sexyful encounters.

    DL075 – Printerview – part 2 “Narcissex”

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 29:46


    We continue interviewing Prix De Beaute, opening strong with soaking, shrimping and golden showers!

    DL074 – Printerview – part 1 “Skill Set”

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 26:44


    Poly-expert Prix de Beaute returns to chat about first sexual experiences that were actually good!

    DL073 – Poor Devil

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2024 26:29


    Everything you wanted to know about Martin Luther’s sex life/bowel movements, and more!

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    DL072 – Coffee Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 11:57


    A twinsightful twinterlude covering heaven, hell, and coffee breaks.

    DL071 – The Narcissist In Your Life – part 5 “Finale”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 45:59


    The fifth and final episode covering the narcissist in YOUR life with guest reviewer Kitten DeVille.

    DL070 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 4 “P.T.S.D(ad)”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024


    Kitten reveals a surefire way of knowing if your partner is really into you. Upcoming shows with us twins!5/29 Lucha VaVOOM6/1 Ron Lynch’s Tomorrow!6/23 Stars in the Backyard w/Jack Black

    DL069 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 3 “Carousel of Love”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 32:16


    Part 3 of our review, featuring guest reviewer Kitten DeVille – plus, our time hosting the World Famous Burlesque Showcase at Viva Las Vegas 27! Also – Bibi has a news flash (tattoo) about her last relationship.

    DL068 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 2 “Playing the Market”

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 22:02


    Part 2 of our review, featuring our guest the legendary neo-burlesque queen Kitten DeVille!

    DL067 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 1 “Just Kitten”

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2024 27:40


    Neo-Burlesque legend KITTEN DEVILLE joins us in reviewing THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE: RECOGNIZING PATTERNS AND LEARNING TO BREAK FREE. After suddenly losing Shawn, her beloved husband of 36 years, Kitten found herself back in the dating world with unexpected results. (Spolier: this book comes in handy.) She gave us

    DL066 – The Five Love Languages – part 4 “Big Happy”

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 17:33


    The fourth and final part of our review of THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES, featuring guest reviewer Jaime Sena!

    DL065 – Bar-Bara

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024


    Lucha Va VOOM De La Liz, Moldy Ball of Death, and a very special Valentine’s Day in this week’s Twinterlude!

    DL064 – The Five Love Languages part 3 – “Sh*t on Noodles”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 23:05


    Us twins and guest Jaime Sena continue our review, featuring smooth stick, filthy baby, and Joe Manganiello

    DL063 – The Five Love Languages – part 2 “Seminal Works”

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 26:15


    We continue on, with guest Jaime Sena!

    DL062 – The Five Love Languages – part 1 “Christian Gravy”

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 25:28


    We are extremely excited to welcome long-time friend and listener Jaime Sena to help us review 1952’s 1992’s classic relationship tome by Gary Chapman!

    DL061 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 6 “Sh*tshow of Love”

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2023 40:48


    Behold our TRIUMPHANT RETURN with the BIG FINISH to Florence William’s HEARTBREAK book! Plus! BIBI updates us on her relationship, and YOU buy tickets to our benefit featuring Paul Feig screening his GHOSTBUSTERS movie — right here! Also ICYMI – Mike Lindell’s LUMPY PILLOW FREAKOUT:

    DL060 – Martini Shot

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2023 15:42


    We talk about the Good Deed Corps screening of PRETTY IN PINK, featuring stars Jon Cryer and Annie Potts! Plus, a disconcerting concert.

    DL059 – Girl Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 16:01


    Dinner parties, cyber goths, and a sun-protecting Vickie.

    DL058 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 5 “Flush Tattoo”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2023 21:03


    We continue with Florence Williams’ Heartbreak book, plus twinsights on naked photos and racist skulls.

    DL057 – Heels Over Head

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 13:48


    We have upcoming shows! Plus, Bibi meets an interesting fellow lady1 Tickets for the LOS SUPER SEVEN / Good Deed Corps benefit here! AND! Tickets to TIKI-VIEW here!

    DL056 – It’s A Tap

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 13:53


    We talk sharing relationship responsibilities, a revelashe ’bout patriarchy, and the fact that Barbara IS ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE SHE MET IRL!!!!@!! Plus! Did you say you were in the market for some ancient filthy stripper shoes (or 3)?? Make Bibi an offer, before it’s too late!

    DL055 – Afraidy Ladies

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 10:09


    We work an event with Weird Al benefitting voting registrations org The Good Deed Corps, get caught in a police stand-off between the LAPD and a minivan, and drive Barbara’s date around town in Vera’s trunk. In Tip Jar news, thank you to FANG YANG! Stay tuned for a proper

    DL054 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 4 “Misery Into Death”

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 43:05


    Loneliness is bad – just ask your body. But all is not lost: there are Ministries of Loneliness, Men’s Sheds, EMDRs, and of course kayaking! And guess what, after this episode we are HALF WAY through the book! Plus, the meditative RAT : www.remote-associates-test.com

    DL053 – Lit Gas

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 16:37


    The twins talk gaslighting, edging, allergies, and their upcoming show THIS FRIDAY MARCH 3RD! Tickets here! (Also: Is it fetish? Well is it???) (Yes.)

    DL052 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 3 “Don’t Be Heartbroken”

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 43:29


    A twinsight about Vera’s cat allergies preludes the next three chapters of HEARTBREAK, covering pair-bonding prairie voles, more head-harem bullshit, and complicated grief. Speaking of, Bibi tells a sad story.

    DL051 – Breast Deduction

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2023 14:40


    Emergency Twinterlude! It’s nudes to Vera that one of us has gone under the knife, while Barbara breaks down the fax of May/December relationships.

    DL050 – Misses Romantics

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 21:35


    Our upcoming live performance of The Slap Booth, Vera's hospital husb, and a Reilly great show that un-Hinges Barbara: And yes, that’s right – we are performing this Saturday, February 4th, as part of Blonde Brunette Productions’s PEEK-A-VIEW. 9pm at Hello Stranger, 320 E. 2nd Street, Los Angeles. Get tickets

    DL049 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 2 “Guita-red Flag”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 35:43


    Bibi tells a diverting story, Vera accepts a helping knee, and Florence Williams loses her Ennis match in the next installment of HEARTBREAK.

    DL048 – Rinkchronicity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 20:23


    Mon-knee for nothing, Bibi’s Rink Report, and a hard candy shell on this week’s Twinterlude episode!

    DL047 Twinterlude – 2022 Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2022 6:11


    Missed out on an episode this year? We got you covered! Please enjoy this recap of the last twelve, glorious months. Plus, we rebrand!! Thank you, dear Frands, for your continued love, support, and listenage. 2023 promises much more book!

    DL046 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2022 34:34


    We did it! We reviewed an actual DATING-TYPE BOOK!!! Please enjoy our take on chapters 1-3 of Florence Williams’s kayaklicious-tome. And also: Krampii! Read more about the “rickety bridge experiment” (aka “misattribution of arousal”) here.

    DL045 – Good Will

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022


    Rollerskating, red flags, and THIS: Which was brought to you by THIS. And THIS:

    DL044 – Growments

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2022 16:32


    Listener Jeremy writes in, twinspiring a convo; twins are thankful; and Bibi weighs a possible Hinge suitor.

    DL043 – Skatey Ladies

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2022 15:06


    Remember when Barbara was hurting over Hinge, and Vera said let’s go roller skating instead? A lot has happened since. Listen in on the update! Plus, we attempt to talk about the Five Love Languages, a book we have not read – yet (?)

    DL042 Twinterlude – Shards

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 13:37


    Barbara has a new dating strategy, but Vera rolls with other plans. Also: ‘member this hottie? Class dismissed!

    DL041 Twinterlude – Otta Know Best

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 20:07


    The twins are back from the Ottawa International Animation Festival with tales to tell! Check out Fran Krause’s Deep Dark Fears!

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    DL040 Twinterlude – Otta Know Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 20:15


    The twins are headed back to the Ottawa International Animation festival, pumpkin carving contest and all – but first, Bibi elaborates on last episode’s tale of unfulfilling sexy time.

    DL039 Twinterlude – Key Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022


    The twins plan a swingin’ gathering for their 47th birthday!

    DL038 Twinterlude – DIY

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 22:19


    The twins talk jerking ON, plus Bibi shares a relationship goals revelashe and Vera gets TWO new Instagram followers! Check out Bad Bitch Big Sis here!

    DL037 Twinterlude – Mission Twinn

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 17:54


    Join us at the historic Mission Inn and Spa in beautiful downtown Riverside, California, where we talk about app dating, Surrealist balls, and why our hotel room door is barricaded with a chair!

    DL036 – The Snow Ball

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 9:24


    This podcast about books and dating makes it’s long-awaited return to books and dating! Vera shares her insight into Brigid Brophy’s 1964 masterpiece of fiction about Mozart, sex, and death. It’s got everything: a lavish 18th century-themed New Years Eve gala, a mysterious masked man make-out, a kick in the

    DL035 Twinterlude – Twincels

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 14:31


    Incels, autoerotic asphyxiation, and thriving in chaos, plus Bibi examines some recent dates!

    DL034 Twinterlude – Snow Ballin’

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 27:12


    An episode that ranges from Victorian morality to “snowballs.” Yeah, you’ve been warned.

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