Harder Than We Thought

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Join best friends Angela and Sai as they share their unique perspectives on life, careers, and everything in between. Each week, they'll dive into a new topic and offer their unfiltered opinions, hilarious anecdotes, and witty banter. Whether you're a busy professional, a free spirit, or somewhere in between, you'll find something to relate to in the dynamic duo of these best friends.

Sai De Silva and Angela Rogers


    • Jan 29, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 30m AVG DURATION
    • 23 EPISODES

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    The Harder Than We Thought podcast is a refreshing and relatable show that covers a wide range of topics affecting women. Hosted by Sai De Silva and Angela Lanter, this podcast provides an authentic and down-to-earth perspective on various issues, making it highly engaging for listeners. Whether you're looking for inspiration, advice, or simply some light-hearted conversation, this podcast delivers it all.

    One of the best aspects of The Harder Than We Thought podcast is the genuine chemistry between Sai and Angela. As they share their personal stories and experiences, it feels like you're having a conversation with close friends. Their storytelling abilities are impressive, keeping you hooked from start to finish. Additionally, their intelligence and humor shine through every episode, making for an enjoyable listening experience.

    Another standout feature of this podcast is its ability to resonate with listeners on different levels. Sai and Angela touch on a wide range of topics that many women can relate to, such as body image, self-care, friendships, relationships, and career challenges. They tackle these subjects with honesty and vulnerability, providing insights that can be both eye-opening and comforting. The perspectives they offer often prompt listeners to consider things from a different point of view.

    However, one potential downside of the podcast is that occasionally certain guests or topics may not resonate with all listeners. While Sai and Angela have a great dynamic together, the inclusion of guests may vary in terms of how well they connect or contribute to the overall conversation. This could result in episodes that feel less engaging or relevant depending on personal interests.

    In conclusion, The Harder Than We Thought podcast is an outstanding addition to the podcasting world. Sai De Silva and Angela Lanter bring their unique perspectives to the table while discussing relatable topics with authenticity and humor. The strong bond between them creates an inviting atmosphere that keeps listeners hooked episode after episode. Overall, if you're looking for an entertaining and insightful podcast that explores various aspects of life as a woman, The Harder Than We Thought podcast is definitely worth a listen.



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    Latest episodes from Harder Than We Thought

    Jessel Taank's Secrets Revealed: How To Control Your Image Like a Reality TV Star!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 45:23


    In today's episode, we delve into the world of Jessel Taank, a prominent figure from the Real Housewives of New York City, and explore the art of shaping and managing one's public image and launching a business. Learn how you can apply these techniques to your own life. From crafting the perfect pitch to navigating the highs and lows of public scrutiny, we leave no stone unturned in this revealing exploration. Tune in as we dissect the drama, glamour, and real-life lessons from RHONY and discover how to wield the influence of your own image with finesse. 

    Dear Younger Me: Here's What We Would Tell Our 20-Year-Old Selves

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 19:34


    Join Sai De Silva and Angela Rogers as they reflect on personal and professional growth, sharing the invaluable wisdom and advice they wish they could impart to their younger selves. Through candid storytelling and heartfelt revelations, we offer guidance, encouragement, and a unique perspective on life's triumphs and tribulations. We're all a work in progress, and the journey is just as important as the destination.

    Resolutions vs. Setting Intentions: New Year, New Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2024 33:15


    In the spirit of starting the new year off with new energy, we dive into the changes we are looking to set, the personal accomplishments we are going to tackle and how this new year will be different from 2023. We decide how intentional we want to be with ourselves. 

    A Mindful Reflection: Rose & Thorne of 2023

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 25:15


    With social media, people can be selective in only sharing pieces of their lives. That's usually the wins and highlights. However, in this episode we get personal and share our ups and downs of 2023. This is a personal episode that we reflect on the past year and have a very open and honest conversation about what 2023 looked like for us.  

    Q&A Unfiltered: Bushy Vaginas, Situationships and City vs. Burbs

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 30:29


    Join us for a hilarious and candid exploration of life's hairy situations! From unruly bushes to confusing 'situationships' and the eternal debate of city vs. suburbs, we're here to tackle it all with laughter and insight. Tune in as we dish out advice, share outrageous stories, and prove that when it comes to life's challenges, a good sense of humor is the best trimmer!

    How Not to Ruin the Holidays: Terrible Gifts, Festive Funk and Awkward Family Encounters

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 32:20


    In our comical chaos of the holiday season we chat about navigating awkward family gatherings such as to bang or not to bang at your parent's home? As well as decoding the art of receiving terrible gifts with grace, and even tackling the holiday blues, we've got you covered. Tune in for laugh-out-loud anecdotes, to help you navigate the festive funk and make this holiday season one to remember for all the right reasons.   Harder Than We Thought on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanwethought/?hl=en Sai De Silva on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scoutthecity/?hl=en Angela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamr80/?hl=en

    How to Navigate Dating In Your 40s: Assholes, Baggage, and Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 42:00


    Have you found it more challenging to date as you got older? Listen in as we share our stories from dealing with assholes, managing the baggage from previous relationships, and how to end things without ghosting! Plus, do you think women should approach men??? Should you post your relationship on Social Media? We get into all of this and much more as we realize...Dating is harder than we thought!Harder Than We Thought on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanwethought/?hl=enSai De Silva on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scoutthecity/?hl=enAngela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamr80/?hl=en

    Manifest Magic: Harnessing the Power of Manifesting to Create your Dream Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 29:41


    Join us as we dive into the art of manifestation and uncover the secrets to harnessing the power of the mind to shape your reality. From setting intentions to practicing gratitude, we explore practical techniques and real-life stories to help you manifest the life of your dreams. Whether you're looking to attract abundance, love, or success, this podcast is your guide to unlocking the potential within and manifesting the life you truly desire.  

    Reality Check: Unmasking Cheating Rumors and the Truth Behind Reality TV

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 39:25


    This week we dive into a raw, unfiltered conversation debunking scandalous cheating rumors that have caused so much controversy for RHONY newbie, Sai De Silva. We'll unravel the layers of reality TV's most controversial moments so tune in as we reveal what truly happens behind the scenes.

    Navigating Graceful Aging and The World of Cosmetic Procedures

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 26:56


    Join us as we chat about aging, and embracing the tools and techniques available to enhance our natural radiance. We dive into procedures we have tried and discuss procedures such as botox, fillers, and non-invasive treatments.  We will uncover the secrets to aging gracefully, while shedding light on the various cosmetic procedures available to enhance and rejuvenate our natural beauty.

    Unpacking Body Image & Healing Our Childhood Scars

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 33:59


    In this week's episode, we are chatting about the complexities of body image and how our childhood experiences continue to shape our self-perception today. Join us on the journey of self-discovery as we unpack body dysmorphia, share personal stories, and discuss strategies for embracing a healthier body image. 

    Unfiltered Q&A: Catching Cheaters, Marrying in your 30's & Fashion Week Tea

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 29:08


    It's Sai and Angela's first Q&A! Listen in as Angela recalls the time she caught her boyfriend cheating, Sai spills secrets about Fashion Week and they both share how to nurture adult friendships. Nothing is off limits and everything is candid. 

    Women in the Workplace: Navigating Male-Dominated & Competitive Spaces

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 34:22


    It's no secret that women face a disproportionate amount of scrutiny and hurdles on a daily basis but in today's episode we're exploring the challenges in the workplace. From breaking barriers in male-dominated industries to navigating highly competitive (sometimes catty) environments, we delve into the intricacies of constantly having to prove oneself and having a seat at the table. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Balancing Act: Having It All, Just Not All At Once

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 32:34


    In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the complex world of women trying to "have it all." Is it a realistic goal, or is it an unattainable ideal? We explore the challenges and aspirations of balancing a successful career, a fulfilling family life, and personal well-being. Join us as we discuss the intricacies of this struggle and whether the perpetual cycle of striving for more is truly the path to contentment and fulfillment. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Are We Too Old To Meet New Friends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 31:30


    In this episode we explore the meaning behind ‘no new friends' and explain why many adults resist forming new friendship bonds outside of their known circles. Are we naturally inclined towards the familiar, or is it the daunting task of starting from scratch? Tune in as we discuss the challenges of sticking to our known circles as adults. No new friends will make you rethink what it means to make – or not make – new friends in adulthood. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Adrienne Bailon's Journey with Surrogacy, Spiritual Sex and advice from Kim Kardashian

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 48:48


    Join us in this candid conversation with Adrienne Bailon as she chats about her journey through Surrogacy and how it's impacted her life. Get ready to laugh, cry and be entertained through this beautiful conversation between friends discussing topics like Christian sex, Taylor swift, the entertainment industry, IVF and so much more. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Discovering Your Passion: The Blueprint for Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 28:13


    In this thought-provoking episode, we embark on a journey to uncover the profound connection between passions, purpose, and happiness. What is the key to happiness? What are your passions? Is your happiness fueled by your passions? Join us as we discover the blueprint for happiness. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Wellness Routines: Finding Your Daily Dose of Zen

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 28:18


    In today's hectic world, carving out time for yourself is not a luxury; it's a necessity. But the truth is, wellness isn't one-size-fits-all; it's as diverse as the people who seek it. Join our wellness/self-care journey and learn some tips to become a happier, healthier, and more balanced YOU. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Unveiled Secrets: Exploring Public Sex, Threesomes, and One night stands

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2023 32:28


    Welcome to this week's episode as we shed light on topics that are often whispered about but rarely explored openly. Join us as we embark on a thrilling journey of self-discovery, intimacy, and the exploration of unconventional sexual experiences. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    RHONY: Bitter, Hangry, and Shoeless

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 23:03


    In a new season filled with unexpected petty drama, Angela and Sai break down the scenes of Real Housewives of New York. Be prepared for a roller coaster of opinions as we chat about the glamorous women of RHONY who have been stripped of food, toilet paper and their beloved shoes.  Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Forty, Flirty and Fab: Dating in your 40's

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 36:35


     Join us as we dive into the experiences, and insights of navigating relationships and the quest for companionship in your 40's.   Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    From Stripper Party to Lifelong Friendship: Get to Know Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 19:27


    Sai and Angela are the dynamic duo of laughter and achievement. These two best friends have been inseparable since they met at a stripper party, where they bonded over twerking. Angela gave Sai a ride home that day and a car ride sparked an unbreakable bond. Get to know them better in their very first podcast episode.  Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Harder Than We Thought Trailer- Coming to Dear Media on August 28th!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 1:19


    Join best friends Angela and Sai as they share their unique perspectives on life, careers, and everything in between. Each week, they'll dive into a new topic and offer their unfiltered opinions, hilarious anecdotes, and witty banter. Whether you're a busy professional, a free spirit, or somewhere in between, you'll find something to relate to in the dynamic duo of these best friends. Harder Than We Thought is coming to Dear Media on Monday, August 28th! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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