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    Ep 180. Swingers Wanna Know Q&A Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 54:40


    Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community members. Some of the topics include:  1. Single Men 2. Bi-Sexuality  3. Swinging Internationally 4. Penile Implants ...... and so much more! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.    

    Ep 172. Swingers Wanna Know Q&A Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 48:07


    Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community members. Some of the topics include: Penis Size, Expectations and other kink related questions. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com  Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.    

    Ep 171. Meet 2Fresh_Pineapples From Canada

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 55:10


    Meet Alex, known as 2fresh_Pineapples on Instagram. She is a 27 year old young swinger who is passionate about spreading the good word of swinging and individuality. Her ideas and thoughts are strong! We discuss her journey, age differences, travel, being 420 friendly and so much more. You're going to want to keep your eye on this one!  Follow the link below: https://www.instagram.com/2fresh_pineapples?igsh=a3ZjaHB0Y294YTZt

    Ep 170. Communicating Wants, Needs & Desires

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 58:45


    Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle partner? Tune in for tips and thought starters on how to effectively follow your journey to living your most authentic self.    For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty, and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female who isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life, from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast, putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive are all about creating an environment that is all-inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like-minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop-up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 168. You Asked, I answered: Basic Swinger Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 30:52


    The community thoughts and questions have been thriving lately. Today's listen includes pointers on the following three submitted thoughts: 1. I'm a married man who wants to swing, but my wife wants no part of it. What do I do? 2. What do you do if you see a co-worker at an event? 3. What kind of information would you share with someone attending an event for the first time. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty, and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female who isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life, from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast, putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive are all about creating an environment that is all-inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like-minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop-up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 167. My Partner and I Have Different Play Styles

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 47:11


    Do you and your partner have different play styles and aren't sure how to navigate it? Tune in as a behind the scenes listener to my LIVE session on SDC back in December of 2023. You'll pickup on pointers and though starters to navigate this conversation with your partner.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep 166. Little Miss Nasty

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 37:26


    In this episode, Gina, the beautiful mind behind Little Miss Nasty shares the journey into building this global, iconic brand. A snip it from their website:  Little Miss Nasty delivers an overwhelmingly powerful experience that inspires and defies genre because Little Miss Nasty IS the genre. You have permission to be your Nasty, authentic self! To attend a New York Show, use coupon code LMNMIZZY for 20% off tickes.  https://www.littlemissnastyofficial.com For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 165. It's a Hot Tub Morning

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 29:06


    Spencer and I spend the morning in the hot tub recapping the activities for July. We share our thoughts on hosting our first swingers party 4th of July weekend on Long Island. We talk about my birthday bash in Rhode Island and some other fun adventures and parties.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 164. Unacceptable Behavior

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 18:51


    Ep 163. Things To Consider When Becoming A Swinger

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 30:30


    Are you looking into the swingers lifestyle but not sure the kinds of conversations to have? Listen to this podcast episode. It will help guide you. It will provide topics and ideas on how to navigate the beginning stages of an exiting journey of self discovery. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 162. Are You Into Group Play?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 64:08


    In this episode, Jim and I talk through so much when it comes to group play in the swingers world. There are so many possibilities and the things to be aware of. I think this conversation is a good starter for those interested in exploring this play style. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep 161. Wanderlust Swingers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 44:23


    We're going international with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. I really enjoyed learning about Cate's background that lead to opening her events company. It keeps her busy by traveling and hosting all over the world. She shares the difficulties of launching right as the COVID-19 pandemic hit and all of her successes following.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep. 160. It's My Birthday!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 32:55


    Another sassy hot tub conversation between myself and Spencer after returning from an amazing New Hampshire trip that took an unexpected turn. Tune for all the laughter then head over to my blog to see some of the photos and additional thoughts. RSVP to Mizzy's Birthday Bash : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep 159. Shootin' the Swinger Ish - Epsiode 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 48:27


    Jim and I really have no boundaries. In this episode we talk morning routines, travel discrepancies, work and overall life since seeing each other at Naughty in Neon in June. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:   Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    161 Ep. Sister Wives & Reality TV Part 2 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 32:34


    We begin this episode learning about how Sara navigating the bold question of becoming exclusive and pregnant. Sara explains her point of view about the show entirely and the potential after math that it could impact her day to day life.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    160 Ep. Sister Wives & Reality TV Part 1 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 46:23


    In part one Sara shares her journey around her sexuality which ultimately lead her to exploring the swingers lifestyle. An opportunity presented itself to be part of the reality tv show Seeking Sister Wives on TLC. Let's dive into the fascinating journey of the lifestyle on reality tv! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    158 Ep. Morning Hot Tub Conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 29:49


    Spencer and I start the morning bantering in the hot tub. We share all the shenanigans that have been going on throughout the month of June. I dive into wanting to explore hot wife scenarios and more.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep. 157 Have Breakfast with Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 30:45


    In this fly on the wall type of recording, join us for breakfast as we have normal, casual conversation. This was recorded during one of our amazing summer weekends as we hang under the gazebo as the sun shines and the birds chirp. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep. 156 SDC Behind the Scenes Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 48:09


    I hosted a LIVE Q&A on SDC.com, the largest international swingers community. Listen in as I answer questions and thoughts of the participants. No question is off limits.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep. 155 Summer Shenanigans: Sexy in the Sun

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 37:52


    I love summer shenanigans which happen to be naked shenanigans in the sun! What an incredible weekend full of laughs, sexiness, good friends and a whole lot of memories. I share my thoughts around our two single men, the communication between them both and the sexy play time we had.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep. 154 Shootin' the Swinger Ish - Part 2 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 45:25


    Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:   Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep. 153 Shootin' the Swinger Ish Part 1 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 60:09


    Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Ep. 152 Getting Noticed in the Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 27:39


    Are you having trouble getting noticed in the swingers lifestyle? Are you looking for some tips on how to stand out? Listen to this episode that was built by community discussion. Most of it sounds like a no brainer, but sometimes we need the basic how to guide to get us to where we want to be. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Ep. 151 Swingers Travel Gone Wacky - Part 2 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 27:53


    Part 2 of our travel disaster with extra bonus footage of Spencer's phone calls while in the tow truck trying to figure out how to get us home. It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Swingers Travel Gone Wacky - Part 1 of 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 54:19


    It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 61:14


    Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2024 47:21


    The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Single to Married - Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2024 44:53


    Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. MizzyBender@outlook.com   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Single to Married : Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 49:37


    Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show.  You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the person to do it.  I wanted to start by sharing his journey so you can relate and understand his thoughts going forward. Make sure you tune in next week as we finalize his introduction.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    We're All Human and Sometimes it's Messy!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2024 30:54


    Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Navigating the First Date in an Adult Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2024 36:37


    Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners.  There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

    Strictly Anonymous with Kathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 78:53


    Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times.  She is such a captivating woman who is so open minded. When she speaks, you can't help but to listen.    To learn more: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Two Wolves in the Woods

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2024 52:58


    Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry.  They take us on their journey, sharing who introduced the conversation and where they are today.  To Learn More follow their social accounts: https://discord.gg/U82MvyZE https://www.instagram.com/twowolvesinthewoods?utm_source=qr   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Winterland Recap with Spencer

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2024 43:53


    Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Farewell Paradise Club

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 48:32


    Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of thoughts on what lead to end of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at the end, so be gentle with your thoughts.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Jealousy - The What's and Why's

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 46:30


    Jealousy is a topic we discuss a lot through the swingers / alternative lifestyle. Its a real emotion with deeper rooted issues. Listen in as Mizzy Bender presents a LIVE educational session on SDC in regards to the ins and outs of navigating jealousy. Along the way, the community engages with questions and comments.    Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Introducing a New Play Partner

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 43:30


    Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Body Insecurities - Should I share them?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 49:39


    Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Happy Holiday Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2023 2:44


    Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    How Do I Get My Wife to Join this Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2023 45:15


    Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question:   "My wife and I are very new to LS. We've been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doing what I asked her to do? Also how did you know you were ready to try swing club? I want to attend even if it's just to check out environment but wife has reserves. How can I help reassure her that she doesn't have to play while there and be ok with going?"   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Event Thoughts - Specifically Single Gentlemen

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2023 46:30


    Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard.  Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Approaching Couples and More!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 19:47


    Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league."  We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Communicating Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 44:45


    Mizzy Bender shares her personal experience in regards to boundaries and really understanding the right time to communicate them.  Through this Facebook live show, Mizzy spills all the details!   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2023 2:39


    Happy Thanksgiving thoughts from Mizzy Bender.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Communicating Relationship Dynamics

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 30:54


    Mizzy Bender goes live on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question:   "I am interested in finding out how one navigates themselves in the lifestyle, when the dynamic of their relationships changes but they still want to be in the lifestyle. I am a  "single bi cis gender female." When going to LS parties/events, there are times when I am accompanied by a straight, cis gender male, and there are times when I am solo. He accompanies me and is familiar with the lifestyle. He has the same interests and passions as I do. So my question is, What should I do when I am meeting others in the LS?  Do people have concerns or are they uncomfortable about individuals like myself that have a male partner who isn't always with me? Do you see there being an issue for people to enjoy me solo, and maybe sometimes having my partner join us?    Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    A Journey of Swinging, Plant Based Medicine and More!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2023 63:42


    Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades.  Listen in as Mizzy Bender gains insight to their journey of swinging, plant based medicine and so much more!   To learn more about Kandance and Gregory Website: www.evolutionarysex.org Insta: evolutionarysex  (note no ‘e') Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evolutionarysex

    A Swingers Journey -Episode 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2023 37:01


    Welcome to Octobers recap with Mr. Mindbender. Its always a fun episode full of giggles when talking with him! I love hearing his thoughts on life and our adventures overall. This episode is all of that and more. Listen in as we travel back from Boo, A Mindbender Production, recording in the car.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Talking Adult Profiles and More with Ash

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2023 69:59


    Mizzy Bender interviews Ash, an amazing female entrepreneur in the swingers world. The first part of this episode is learning all about Ash and her journey. The second half is discussing what kind of information you should include within your swingers profiles. Its a fun and sassy listen!    To learn more about Ash: Instagram: Ash_lovespineapples TIKTOK: @sharedpineapple and @bannedandcancelled   VIPineappleCO IG: @vipineapple_co   Onlyfans: www.Onlyfans.com/cuntsuela   Follow More Mizzy: Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    Things to Keep in Mind While Swinging

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2023 52:19


    Today's episode was recorded live in The Paradise Club's Facebook group. You'll hear Mizzy Bender discussing the things you should know and be aware of when entering the swingers/alternative lifestyle.  These are general rules that may seem obvious, but unfortunately they are not. The discussion is based off community submitted entries, so that means this list was created by other swingers/alternative humans.  Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    I'm a Poly but My Husband is Not

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2023 42:25


    On this weeks episode, Mizzy Bender interviews Melissa who is married and poly. The big discussion point is that Melissa's husband is not a participant in her alternative lifestyle. Listen in to understand the composition of the relationship and how Melissa and her husband navigate their lifestyle. We discuss the challenges and mindsets of potential playmates and so much more.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

    A Swingers Journey - Episode 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2023 47:26


    Listen in with Mizzy Bender as her swingers journey continues. In this solo episode Mizzy shares the latest and greatest in her swinging world. There's been the ups and downs of traveling, weekend adventures, a new playmate and so much more.  Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.  

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