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This episode may get your heads scratching if you're tuning in from a society that has very specific relationship dynamics and arrangements in place. My curiosity to how other's live their lives and what they deem as healthy for their relationships has never been higher, as I am in the process of becoming the best partner and friend myself.In this episode, I speak to Akil Apollo Davis, a full-time Performing Artist & Theatre Professor of Mask and Art Aesthetic. He has been a unique and influential presence in New York City's performance, educational and cultural avant-garde for 2 decades. We discuss the ins and outs of this thing called Sex Positivity. And to give you a brief idea, sex positivity is a social and cultural movement that promotes an affirmative and open attitude towards all aspects of sexuality. It encourages individuals to embrace and explore their own sexual desires, preferences, and identities without judgment or shame. Sex positivity emphasizes the importance of consent, communication, and respect in sexual relationships. He has trained with Monks in Thailand, Brahmans in Bali, Witches in New York, and has worked with Psychologists to bridge the gaps between esoteric knowledge and classical paradigms. Akil's Karmic mantra: there must be more light. Episode Highlights Meet the one and only Akil How he went from celibacy to monogamy to discovering consensual non-monogamy Akil's understanding of attachment and fear in relationships The establishment of monogamy Accessing your healthy sexual energy The tiers of being non-monogamous, and the importance of communication on your wants and needs Emotional maturity Real life examples on how non-monogamy works The ins and outs of play parties The downsides of sex positivity/monogamy Compersion - a new word to remember Resources, courtesy of Akil:Sex-Positivity for Curious Minds 1.“The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy2.“Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life” by Emily Nagoski3.“Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships” by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá4.“Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships” by Tristan Taormino5.“What Makes a Baby” by Cory Silverberg (for all kinds of families)6.“Queer: A Graphic History” by Meg-John Barker and Julia Scheele7.“The New Topping Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy8.“The New Bottoming Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy9.“Girl Sex 101” by Allison Moon and KD Diamond10.“Pussy: A Reclamation” by Regena Thomashauer11.“Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century” by Barbara Carrellas12.“Sex God Method” by Daniel Rose13.“The Art of Sexual Magic: Cultivating Sexual Energy to Transform Your Life” by Margo Anand Psychological and Emotional Work for Curious Minds1.“The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma” by Bessel van der Kolk2.“The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse” by Wendy Maltz3.“Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma” by Staci Haines4.“Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha” by Tara Brach5.“The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship” by Don Miguel Ruiz6.“Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love” by Dr. Sue Johnson7.“More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert8.“Love's Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy” by Irvin D. Yalom9.“Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex—and How to Get It” by Marty Klein Improving Your Sex Life1.“She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman” by Ian Kerner2.“The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know” by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams3.“The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge” by Tristan Taormino4.“The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Dramatically Enhance Her Health and Happiness” by Mantak Chia and Rachel Carlton Abrams5.“The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: How Couples Can Dramatically Enhance Their Pleasure, Intimacy, and Health” by Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams6.“The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover” by David Deida7.“Guide to Getting It On: Unzipped” by Paul Joannides, Psy.D.8.“Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man” by Ian Kerner  Get in touch with Stephanie: www.listeningwellpodcast.com | @listeningwellpodcast Thank you for Listening Well!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time… the BDSM episode is finally here! You know we can't get through a season of the Electric Rodeo without dedicating at least 1 episode to kink, BDSM, whips, leather & latex. It's all of our favourite things! We chat to Luna Matatas. She's a Sex & Pleasure Educator who teaches workshops about BDSM, anal play, threesomes, sexual confidence and so much more… fun right?! We talk about communication, safety & consent as well as tools for beginners that are keen to dip their toes in. It's a hell of an episode so get strapped in (with bondage tape perhaps…) and let's do it!   Use code RODEO10 to get 10% off your order at Adulttoymegastore. What to expect from the episode? An overview of BDSM & kink. Tips & tools for exploring play for beginners. Safety & consent. How to identify & communicate your interests. A whole lot of fun!   Additional Resources Luna's Website: Luna Matatas Check out Luna's courses: Sexy Skills Courses Luna's Instagram: @lunamatatas Shop BDSM: Adulttoymegastore   Guest ProfileLuna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. She teaches 30+ sexy skills topics, including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise.   Follow us to stay up to date with how they get on with their bucket lists!  Don't forgive to give us a 5 star rating if you loved this episode

Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story! About our guest: Tristan Taormino is a writer, speaker, sex educator, and host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. A former syndicated columnist for The Village Voice, she is the author of numerous books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and her recent memoir A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten. She is the founding editor of the annual Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies, editor of The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, and coeditor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure. Taormino has won four Lambda Literary Awards and eight Feminist Porn Awards, among other awards. She lives in Los Angeles. To learn more go to tristantaormino.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

EPISODE 228: Interview with Sander T. Jones.  Sander T. Jones is a licensed psychotherapist with well over a decade of experience living polyamory, and working with clients in non-monogamous relationships. As a relationship therapist, they have taught hundreds of people the steps and principles for collaborative communication, conflict resolution, respecting the rights and autonomy of themselves and their partners, repairing and deepening relationship bonds while being solidly affirming of LGBTQ+, Kink/BDSM, BIPOC people. And now they are the author of a book that teaches this information: “Cultivating Connection: A practical guide for personal and relationship growth in ethical non-monogamy.” If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Join us in this thrilling episode where we're delving deep into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of Kink, BDSM, and Fetishes. Join us as we embark on a journey to explore the complexities and intricacies of human sexuality.In Episode 114, we will be peeling back the layers of Dominance and Submission, commonly known as D/s, and Masochism. Andrea Atherton, host, weleomes Andrea Caggiano, an expert in the field, to share her personal experiences, insights, and valuable knowledge. We'll explore the psychology behind these desires, debunk common misconceptions, and discuss the importance of consent, communication, and safety within the BDSM community. Whether you're a curious novice or an experienced enthusiast, this episode promises to be an enlightening and thought-provoking conversation about the many shades of human desire.So, join us for an episode that's sure to challenge preconceptions, spark conversations, and shed light on the world of Kink, BDSM, and Fetishes. You won't want to miss this candid and informative discussion as we navigate the intriguing realms of Dominance, Submission, and Masochism. Tune in now and let's explore the depths of human sexuality here on the Relationship Rebellion.Andrea Caggianohttps://www.junipercounselingsolutions.com/ Mindful Love Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/Love Anarchy Websitehttps://loveanarchypodcast.buzzsprout.comLove Anarchy Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/loveanarchypodcast/Andrea Atherton Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/andreaatherton-17/

In dieser Folge unterhalten sich Finn, Max, Jens und Ash über Kink, BDSM und Fetisch. Es geht darum, was Kink eigentlich ist, was es nicht ist und um Sicherheitsmechanismen. Sie erklären einige Begriffe, sprechen aber auch über die eigenen Kinks und was der Reiz von BDSM für sie ausmacht. Außerdem geht darum, wo man als kinky Person Community sowie Ressourcen finden kann und natürlich über die Intersektionalität zwischen Kink und eigenen A*spec-Identitäten. Moderation: Finn Gastpersonen: Ash, Max, Jens Redaktion: Finn, Gez, Noir, Suri Schnitt: Suri Folgenbild: DasTenna Qualitätssicherung: Delphin, Luna, Oly #Asexualität #Aromantik #queer #Kink #BDSM

This episode I’m chatting with Lucia Gabriela who is bringing three workshops to Long Island this July. Links for tickets below Our conversation starts by learning a little bit about Lucia and her journey including how healing from cancer as a teenager eventually brought her to leading these workshops and creating the Sarasota Dark Temple.We talk about the importance of energetics and how resentments affect relationships. Lucia discussed how important intentions are as well as giving consideration to all aspects of sensations involved in a scene. She tells us a little bit about her system of bringing Tantra and Kink together called Tantrikink. Over the course of the chat we glean lots of tidbits that we can begin putting to use right away in our intimate lives. Lucia Gabriela helps individuals and couples to master their life, relationships, and intimacy with themselves and others. As a Trauma-Informed Relationship and Intimacy Coach, Lucia Gabriela creates a sacred and safe space for individuals and couples to heal, transform, and uplevel their relationships. As a result, clients learn how to develop conscious and meaningful intimacy. As a Trauma-Informed Somatic Therapist and Tantra Facilitator, Lucia Gabriela specializes in and works with individuals whose journey is to liberate themselves from emotional and sexual traumas. She helps them reclaim their creative power, body, voice, sensuality, and sexuality and welcomes pleasure into their lives, creations, and relationships. Lucia Gabriela offers her coaching and somatic services at Nuna Holistic Retreat Center. As a Trauma-Informed Therapeutic Kink Practitioner and TantriKink® Creator, Lucia Gabriela fuses the power of Tantra and Kink/BDSM to help clients connect with their body wisdom, discover their erotic archetypes, and master their erotic energy. As a Trauma-Informed Event Producer, Lucia Gabriela founded Sacred Love Temple (Tantric Shamanic Community & Events), Sarasota Dark Temple (Conscious Kink/BDSM Community & Events), and Sol y Luna Tantric Shamanic Retreat-Festival and Intimacy and Desire 2.0 Conference. Lucia Gabriela is also the co-producer of Turn On Miami™ and eXplore Tantra Festival™. As a Trauma-Informed Intimacy Expert, Lucia Gabriela is the Tantric Shamanic Somatic Healing, TSSH™ Certification Trainings co-teacher. If you are near New York in July, consider going to her events: Kink ßDSM Workshop: Dark Eros Initiation (Long Island, NY) - https://rb.gy/ws871 Sensual Embodiment: A Tantric Journey for Women (Long Island, NY) - https://rb.gy/rzbn4 The Art of Ecstatic Intimacy - A Tantric Date for Couples (Long Island, NY) https://rb.gy/hto7y And if you are near Sarasota Florida anytime look into the offerings she hosts athttps://sacredlovetemple.com/ and https://floridakinkbdsm.com/ Over in the Patreon there is bonus content where we go into some of the myths involved in kink and Tantra. You can find that at:www.patreon.com/whatexcitesus And please visit whatexcitesus.com for links to great lube, past episodes and more

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Episode 106. This week I discuss Kink/BDSM and religion and spirituality.

Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister continues the conversation with Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika.Ms Olivia leads off with how sex work revealed the value of her time. Ms Erika adds that moving from salaried worker to Distance Domination showed her how every single moment of her time is valuable whether doing sex work or anything other activity.This leads to a conversation about skills learned during sex work that apply to other areas of life and work. Dr. Kate brings up boundaries (or lack thereof) in academia. This inspires a conversation about skill training in phone sex, running a business, and negotiating the gray area of paid intimacy. Other topics in this episode include:Sex toys in days of yore including what might be a stone dildo that is 6,000 years old!Figging and using root vegetables for anal playA question from a listener about spanking leads to talk about corporal punishment in the 18th century.BDSM in the 18th and early 19th centuries.Crossdressing, feminization and sissification Male chastityErotica through the years including the value of 50 Shades of GreyDr. Kate has a podcast called Betwixt The Sheets which is the history of sex, scandal and society. You need to listen to this podcast! You will love it as much as we do!Dr. Kate ends our podcast episode with an assignment that makes us all laugh!

Episode #035Conversations with Laura Zam about Sexuality and the Taboo Today's episode is part of our Conversations series. I am just one voice in this relationship diversity movement.  And it's important to bring more unique perspectives into the conversation.  Today will be talking with my good friend, Laura Zam, a Sexuality Educator about sexuality and the taboo. There is so much wounding around our sexuality which contributes to us repressing this primal, innate part of ourselves. We go deep into taboo topics and she gives us 3 misconceptions about sex that compound our shame. Stay curious for this one…. **Trigger warning-Listener discretion advised  A little about Laura:An award-winning writer and TEDx speaker, she's the author of the bestselling book The Pleasure Plan: One Woman's Search for Sexual Healing. She's also a Sexuality Educator, Relationship Coach, and Certified Trauma Professional. Other writing appears in The New York Times, Salon, Sheknows, and numerous publications. In 2013, Laura's autobiographical one-person play about healing from child sexual abuse was presented Off-Broadway. Media outlets that have covered Laura's work include NPR, The Washington Post, PBS, NBC-TV, and many others. Laura loves helping people claim and reclaim sexual health. She does this through private coaching, online courses, public speaking, and university workshops that also focus on preventing assault. Connect with Laura:www.mysensualpotential.comwww.laurazam.comLaura on InstagramThe Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Freedoms in Sex & LoveUltimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comConnect with me:InstagramTikTokWebsitePodcast Music by Zachariah Hickman Ad Music by Playsound from PixabySupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

This episode is all about swinging! This weeks topic was so good we decided to make this whole episode about swinging and the gut checks we all need to do in order to get the most out of the lifestyle. We talk about what it can feel like when you don't fit in, or if you feel like you don't have anything to offer others in the lifestyle. Pedro carries much of this episode with Tink weighing in. Just a word of caution, if you get offended easily or take things personally you may have a bad time listening to this one. There will be another episode being released later in the week to cover the Polyam, and Kink/BDSM segments as well as a new fun segment so be sure to subscribe so you don't miss it!   Join our Facebook group to stay up to date and to join in on discussions and event news. https://www.facebook.com/groups/594044119157813/

In this weeks dumpster fire, I mean episode. We give our take on two listener submitted topics. The first in the swing segment we discuss if social media had helped or hurt the swing Lifestyle. We'd love to hear what you think about this topic so hit us up and let us know what you think. In the second segment we discuss the listeners question regarding whether or not we think people should meet their partners potential polyamorous partners. The pro's and con's and why it may or may not be needed. In the Kink/BDSM segment Pedro and Tink talk about the Obedience App, and how they use it in their M/s dynamic. Should you use it? Take a listen and see if it's right for your dynamic. Lastly Tink gets her a$$ spanked 24 times for infractions she obtained through the obedience app. If you like hearing her in pain this is a must listen to segment.   If you want to see all the sexy fun make sure to go to the podcasts OnlyFans page and subscribe to see all the video episodes and the behind the scenes pictures and sexy videos!    www.onlyfans.com/ksenmandkinkpodcast www.onlyfans.com/pixieindixie69   Join our Facebook group to stay up to date and to join in on discussions and event news.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/594044119157813/

Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with kink educator Evie Lupine about kink, BDSM, and the intersection of her kinky and asexual identities.Follow Evie: @evielupine / https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHExB-d5s0zBcbsaHEUy91Q     Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comSupport the show

Imagine you are a sex therapist and one of your patients discloses a sexual interest that either makes you personally uncomfortable or is something you are totally unfamiliar with. This often happens when kinky people seek out sex therapy, and it sometimes results in clients not getting the help they really need. So let's talk about navigating sex therapy with kinky clients. We're going to discuss what therapists need to know, as well as how patients can identify kink-affirming providers. I am joined once again by Stefani Goerlich, award-winning author of The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients and its sequel, titled Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from The Leather Chair. Some of the topics we discuss include: How much training do sex therapists usually get in the area of kink and BDSM anyway? How do you deal with a problem like sexual shame? How do you navigate power dynamics in the therapy office with kinky clients? What should you do when a client expresses a sexual interest that makes you uncomfortable? What should you do when a client's sexual interests pose a very high risk of harm to the self or others? How do you encourage safety without shaming them? Where's the best place to find a kink-affirming therapist? Find kink-aware professionals through the NCSF directory or the AASECT directory. Thank you to our sponsors! Level-up your intimate life with Beducated, the Netflix of better sex! They have a whole library of online courses to teach you what you need to know. Enjoy a free trial today and get 40% off their yearly pass by using my last name - LEHMILLER - as the coupon code. Sign up now at: http://beducate.me/pd2242-lehmiller The Scarlet Society is here to help you explore what it is that brings you pleasure and cultivate the relationships you deserve. It's your new home for trusted resources aimed at helping women navigate sex and love after age 40. Visit scarletsociety.com to learn more and liberate your sexuality. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Marc is a 31 year old heterosexual male who's a beginner in the Kink/BDSM community and identifies as sex positive. He joins us to share his journey of having been diagnosed with HSV-1 orally and genitally after a one night stand that consisted of receiving oral sex in another country. We discuss the road to sex-positivity through various support groups, trial and error disclosure scenarios, and learning the non-sexual components of sexual communication that we unfortunately learn out here in these sheets when we should've learned them before we were in these streets. Link to resource discussed in Episode: https://youtu.be/y18AwEnYdP0

Preston is a 22 year old queer boy from Alaska residing in Oregon for the last year. After living openly gay in Wasilla, AK, he's done queer activism ever since going to his first pride event at 16 years old. Two days after his 18th birthday, he was invited into The Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles(ACAL) and worked for his loved ones and the community as hard as he could for two years, involving Alaska's largest BDSM/Kink/Leather and sex positivity convention produced by an international Leather title holder. He has had the opportunity to meet multiple current and past title holders from all over America, and learn from multiple workshops, roundtables, and classes involving BDSM and kink, alongside Diversity, equity, and inclusion. He then began to work with youth assisting in their education towards positivity in living authentically, boundaries, and life skills involving safety every which way. Preston educates on substance abuse awareness and safe sexuality for appropriate age groups in appropriate settings. Living in Wine Country, Oregon, Preston is working to create community of BDSM/Kink/Leather lovers and hopes to eventually hold munches and space for safer play and beautiful connection.

Kink and BDSM are forms of sexual exploration that, unfortunately, often come seeped in shame. This shame can stop us from trying new things and it can also rob us of our pleasure. In this week's episode, Olivia Merwood (professional dominatrix, emotional alchemist and pleasure priestess) and I sit down with the intention of normalizing these topics. Because there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to get kinky! We chat about what it means to be a dominatrix, how you can communicate your boundaries clearly and sexily, and some tips for newbies who are wanting to try their hand at BDSM, among other things. Quite simply, this episode is hot as hell. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sofie-louise/message

I've done thousands of interviews in my time, and I can honestly say, I cannot recall the last time I was this excited for an interview. Something about this feels so important and I am thrilled to be able to share it with you. For more than 10 years, Rina has traveled the world in pursuit of a deep understanding and practice of Eastern spirituality, immersing herself in tantric, erotic and spiritual expressions. Beginning with her 20 year long experience as an extreme athlete, skydiver base jumper, shark diver, and free diver. She's now a full time dominatrix, death doula, and sexological body worker, & vulnerability guide helping hundreds of men and women get in touch with their deeper selves through deep practices of surrender and vulnerability. Stay tuned for how Rina went from being a data analyst with a master's degree, working in an office to a dominatrix, working in the darkest Dungeons of New York City. You also won't want to miss her discussion on the ancient art of Shibari—what is Shibari? And why is it her current favorite part of what she offers? Top 5 Things You'll Learn from This Episode: how erotic humiliation can be healthy  what power exchange explorations are  how we can get to the subconscious roots of our fantasies and release shame from them details of what Yoni massages are and how she does them  some of the many tales and benefits (and potential dark side)  of Shibari, Kink, BDSM and more!  Please note that we immerse in today's topic with total reverence, but this can obviously be sensitive territory for some—so listener discretion is advised.  Make sure to join us in our closing Ceremony Circle practice: a potent meditation focused on vulnerability and surrender. Here we go—a course in sacred sexual practices! Find more from me on IG at @IAMALYSONCHARLES or alysoncharles.com Reach out to Rina on instagram @Rina_Trevi or at https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com (https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com) or https://underline.world (https://underline.world) for her courses! This episode was made possible by my best-selling book, Animal Power—available now! You can find out more at my website, http://alysoncharles.com/animalpower (alysoncharles.com/animalpower)

Kink & BDSM stigma is alive and well in the mainstream, in our own communities, and even in professional/academic spheres. In episode 191 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron busts some of the most common kink myths + provides clinical & academic resources for therapists, academics, and skeptical naysayers. She deconstructs the following kink & BDSM myths:    Kink is always sexual and platonic kink does not exist Kink is considered abnormal by psychologists & the scientific community There's a dramatic difference between academic/clinical understanding of kink (that's always more accurate) and BDSM community education  Dark age play aka sexual littles' play is abusive and reenacting pedophilia Kink practitioners engage in unhealthy self-harm by proxy and/or glorify abuse Kinks are caused by unresolved trauma … and more! Sunny Megatron Bio Sunny Megatron is an award-winning BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, Certified Relationship Coach, and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Sunny was also named XBIZ Sexpert of the Year 2021 and is Editor-in-Chief of Zipper Magazine.    Known for her one-of-a-kind build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping others overcome shame and find power through play and pleasure. Currently, she's working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” Episode 191 Links Sunny Megatron website https://sunnymegatron.com/ Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron? Sunny Megatron Twitter https://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ ZipperMagazine.com https://zippermagazine.com/ Science of BDSM Research Team https://www.scienceofbdsm.com/ Tell Me What You Want Dr. Justin Lehmiller https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B0776PYDNM&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_WFW3MV22QFGNPEMR6T4F Sex and Psychology Podcast https://www.sexandpsychology.com/podcasts/ Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS) https://www.sexscience.org/ TASHRA -THE ALTERNATIVE SEXUALITIES HEALTH RESEARCH ALLIANCE https://www.tashra.org/ CARAS - The Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities https://www.carasresearch.org/ AASECT - The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists https://www.aasect.org/ Sexual Health Alliance Kink Informed Certification Program for Therapists & Care Professionals https://sexualhealthalliance.com/kink-informed-certification-program Why Good Sex Matters Book by Nan Wise, PhD https://www.amazon.com/dp/1328451305/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_x_tPnCFb0FAF4R5 Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose, Leigh Cowart https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B08RYPSNVB&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_CG15B6Z43TYVFCDDPA3V Play: How it Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul, by Stewart Brown, M.D. & Christopher Vaughan https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B001SCK720&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_VCMYS78KPC9ENVJTX9K7 The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment, Jack Morin Ph.D. https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B009YJYEKK&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_FMT1SPK6QAABA7EYYKGX Woodhull Sexual Freedom Foundation 2018 Research, Littles: Affects and Aesthetics in Sexual Age-Play (“Download” unlocks the free PDF) https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-018-09580-5 Why You Need BDSM's "Prime Directive" By Mollena Williams-Haas https://zippermagazine.com/why-you-need-bdsms-prime-directive/ Romancing the Shadow: Challenging Limiting Beliefs Through Kink- Midori https://zippermagazine.com/challenginglimiting-beliefs-through-kink/   Prior Related Episodes Therapeutic Kink With Andrea Glik – Ep 189 https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Therapeutic-Kink Attachment Styles With Aida Manduley – Ep 130 https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Attachement-Styles-Aida-Manduley/ The Science Of Sexual Fantasy With Dr. Justin Lehmiller – Ep 74 https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Justin-Lehmiller-Sexual-Fantasy-Podcast/ Kink Informed Therapists & Care Professionals W/ Midori – Ep 165 https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Kink-Certification-Midori/ Geek Therapy With Nicki Line – Ep 155 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Geek-Therapy/ Sex, Kink & Trauma W/ Jamila M. Dawson August Mclaughlin - Ep 173 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Sex-Bdsm-Trauma/ Decriminalizing BDSM W/NCSF, National Coalition For Sexual Freedom – Ep 185 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Explicit-Prior-Permission-Ncsf-Podcast/ Rethinking Kink With Kate Loree & Sunny Megatron – Ep 184 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Rethink-Kink-Podcast/ BDSM Community Real Talk w/ Sunny Megatron & Kate Loree – Ep 188 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Bdsm-Community-Influence/ Kink Education Freestyle w/ Sunny Megatron – Ep 172 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Bdsm-Education-Sunny-Megatron-Podcast/ Kink Education Freestyle Part 2 w/Sunny Megatron – Ep 180 Https://Sunnymegatron.Com/Kink-Education-Sunny-Megatron-Podcast/   Additional Links Zipper Magazine Instagram https://www.instagram.com/zippermagdotcom/ Zipper Magazine Twitter https://twitter.com/ZipperMagDotcom Zipper Magazine Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Zipper-Magazine-113123824749292 Zipper Magazine Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxFDRtDhukxyQ_9t-Xfo2-w Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron Ken's charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb   Episode 191 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny 15% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunnyOR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link https://signup.libsyn.com/?promo_code=SUNNY or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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The School District of Philadelphia encouraged teachers to attend a conference on “kink,” “BDSM,” “trans sex,” and “masturbation sleeves.” because kids need to know this stuff! Plus, from “Genderbread" creators comes the “SexualiTREE."

The School District of Philadelphia encouraged teachers to attend a conference on “kink,” “BDSM,” “trans sex,” and “masturbation sleeves.” because kids need to know this stuff! Plus, from “Genderbread" creators comes the “SexualiTREE."

This is Episode 12. In this episode of Finding the Thing, Emily and Shannon host their final episode of the Dr. Drey series. Andreya Jonesis one of Camp Hill and Harrisburg's only AASECT-Certified Sex Therapists who has her own private practice, Andreya Jones Counseling and Sex Therapy. In this episode, listeners learn as Dreya provides education on kink and alternate relationships by defining them. Shannon and Emily gain a deeper understanding of how Dreya may encourage someone to explore kink and alt relationships as individuals and in relationship. They learn it is possible to have sexual needs fulfilled while in relationship and how to open the relationship in a mutually beneficial way while respecting boundaries. Listeners learn that it is possible to honor themselves and their partner with clear communication. Please listen, subscribe, and share your feedback!

As the creator of TantriKink ~ a conscious and playful fusion of these two worlds, Tantra and Kink/BDSM, where the awakening of your senses and the mastery of your dominant and submissive energies takes place. Tantra and Kink's common denominator is ENERGY MASTERY. Experience a tantalizing life and relationship when you learn to fuse these two powerful dynamics. In Tantra, as a couple, you will explore energy in all realms including how to activate and cultivate your sexual energy. In Kink, as a couple, you will explore the power dynamics of dominant and submissive. Be ready to learn which parts of you crave to surrender to your partner and which parts of you naturally enjoy being the master. Lucia Gabriela is a trained Therapeutic Kink Therapist and Sensual Dominatrix who leads and teaches events across the USA. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/431---luciagabriela---tantr.html

Bienvenidos a otro episodio de su podcast Masculinidad Consciente con su conductor Gonzalo Salinas. El día de hoy estoy entrevistando a una mujer que es una verdadera fuerza de la naturaleza. En este episodio entrevisto a Lucía Gabriela. Pero antes de presentar a nuestra invitada, quiero compartir con ustedes el curso para mujeres que estoy haciendo al lado de mi amigo Andrés Vernazza titulado Almas conectadas, un curso para toda mujer que desee conectar con un hombre a un nivel profundo. El curso esta orientado a conocer al hombre emocional y sexualmente, y en el, las mujeres recibirán herramientas conocer las emociones del hombre, comunicarse con el, entender como funciona la sexualidad del hombre, y todo ello para poder crear una hermosa relación. Toda la información para este curso esta disponible en cursoalmasconectadas.comY ahora si presento a mi invitada, y cuando dije que es una fuerza de la naturaleza, no exagero, ya que ella es la creadora del Festival de Tantra de Miami (El Festival Sol y luna), además es maestra de tantra y una de las principales promotoras del Kink BDSM en el estado de la Florida. Esta charla estuvo centrada precisamente en el BDSM (obviamente le pregunta sobre ello), y también hablamos sobre el Festival y de lo que una persona puede vivir allí. La charla estuvo buenísima.Así que sin mas preámbulo, los dejo aquí con mi entrevista a la maestra de Tantra y BDSM, Lucía Gabriela.

Episode 4: Merf & I chit-chat about ENTHUSIASTIC  consent, BDSM, Kink, and all kinds of other fun. We also discuss Renee Zelwegget wearing a fat suit in her lastest fatphobic role.  I despise anyone wearing a fat suit. There are plenty of fat actors to hire. It's gross and should NEVERs be done - EVER. It's never ok. Thanks to a listener question, we had a fantastic discussion about fetishizing bodies; How to decide if your partner or date is fetishizing you are really into ALL of you?  We also chatted a bit about how sometimes people PREY on fat babes and choose to PREY on us because they think we are "easy" and will settle for any kind of attention. I get a little bit heated about this topic.  Never SETTLE! Fat Fetish? Is it ever ok?At the beginning of the episode, we discuss Ady Bryant's 10  year anniversary on SNL and her new voice role on the new show Human Resources. Merf also told us about the new show LIZZO is the creator of. It's a reality show where Lizzo and her team are interviewing other "Big Grrrl" dancers to be back up dancers on her tour. It is on Amazon Prime Video and there are 8 episodes. Excited to check it out as well as the new season of Bridgerton. Support the show

Holy f*cking sh*t, y'all…Lemme just start by saying that you're gonna wanna listen to this episode the whole way through!  I'm sitting here writing the show notes, post recording with Alexa Bowditch & Bryn Daylor (Owner & CMO/Head Coach, respectively) at Sex & Love Co….and my heart has just been blasted wide open.  Sex & Love Co. is a company whose mission is to help people explore how they show up in sex, love & relationships + help Sex & Love coaches build a sustainable business doing their heart's work.  No stone was left unturned in this episode. Lex and Bryn tell us about their individual journeys in navigating their sex, love & dating lives + the many challenges & triumphs along the way, as well as, what led them to the work they do now in helping others vulnerably and masterfully explore who they are as sexual beings.  Our conversation was raw, real, and sexy AF!  Tune in to hear about: How heartbreak & relational challenges were some of Lex & Bryn's biggest teachers How dating, sex & relationships informed who they are today and the work they do The healing aspects of kink & BDSM The key to owning your pleasure & orgasm  Delicious stories from their personal lives  To connect with Lex & Bryn, follow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatsexchick www.instagram.com/bryndaylor To learn more about Lee Noto & her work: Website: https://leenoto.com/ (https://leenoto.com) Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/leenoto_/ ( https://www.instagram.com/leenoto_/) Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/LeeNotoCoach/ ( https://www.facebook.com/LeeNotoCoach/) YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvc (https://bit.ly/3bPGFvc) LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-884959a/ ( https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-884959a/) Apply for a High Priestess Breakthrough Call with Lee: https://form.jotform.com/211303272715041 (https://form.jotform.com/211303272715041) If you're a high-powered single woman & you're ready to call in your dream partner and build a Power Couple Partnership, click below: https://my.captivate.fm/www.BecomeTheHP.com (www.BecomeTheHP.com)

Subspace, Domspace, Topspace, Bottomspace... What are each of these spaces? How does one reach it? Is it a good thing? What if you don't reach it? How does it feel? Is it different for different people? Learn more about the headspaces of kink. Recommended listening: Rocketman by Taron Egerton

Bijouz is a self suspending rope-bondage enthusiast and model. Bijouz tells me about the hard work and life style of an online sex worker. We dive into her introduction into the kink community, and she tells us how one would get into the lifestyle ethically and safely. Bijouz can be found at:Instagram @_bijoubaeTwitter @bijoubaebeehttps://onlyfans.com/bijoubeeAstros Studios Festival Promo code: MANSIONwww.patreon.com/hubcityhustlevanpod51@gmail.comall music created and owned by van nicholson

In this episode, we discuss the differences and similarities between fetishes, kinks, bdsm, and power exchange. Join Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr as they chat about their own experiences and what they've learned and researched about these topics. A Big Thank You to our Patron: vpandemonium https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

On this episode we sit down with Meredith, having a supportive partner as you explore who you are and talk about Kink/BDSM in terms of the community it provides and being a black sheep in a “upstanding” neighborhood. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Would you consider yourself kinky or maybe more vanilla? Have you ever wanted to explore the world of BDSM, but felt a bit lost and intimidated?In this episode, we explore the softer side of kink. By deconstructing some of the many misunderstandings surrounding kink and BDSM, we begin to see kink in a whole new light. Along with Professional Dominatrix and Gestalt Therapist Emma Steel, and author Janet Hardy, we traverse the nuances of power dynamics, communication, and safety.Sex educator and disability advocate, Caz Killjoy, shows us the enormously vast ways kink can be experienced, sharing their experience of using kink to manage chronic pain and unpack harmful conditioning. We also discuss some of the conundrums that arise when the activities of underground communities become more mainstream, and the importance of education in preventing injuries and reducing harm. Resources:Caz Killjoy has a bounty of writings on her website: https://connectwithcaz.com/Caz co-founded The Disability and Sexuality Access Network: https://www.dasanetwork.org/Emma Steel's website: https://en.lady-emma-steel.com/The dungeon Emma co-owns - LUX: http://studioluxberlin.de/en/studio-lux.htmlRead this interview with Janet Hardy and find her books here: https://www.bookdepository.com/author/Janet-W-HardyConnect with us: @becumingmehttps://www.becuming.me/Becuming takes the frustration out of finding the perfect sex toy by sending you personalised recommendations. Check it out at www.becuming.meCredits:Producer & host: Caroline Moreau-HammondProducer, editor & original music: Zoltan Fecso Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we discuss the basic terms you'll hear when discussing kink/BDSM. We define and give a little bit of a better idea as to what these things mean not only in definition, but in practice. Promised https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

Tune in to hear the musings of a marketing wizard + kinky love coach! In this episode I interview Marion Chloé Theis and we jam on self love, kink + BDSM, self-honoring business, and how she met her partner [it's a great story, you gotta listen 

In this episode we explain what the kink community is and why it's so important. Join us as we discuss everything from what newbies should know to the facets of a healthy community. A Big Thank You to: Cujo_the_puppy LaudanumLullaby cutiepututtie vpandemonium MistressAimeeKS Promised linktr.ee If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it in a DM to TheKinkyTavern on FetLife or whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thekinkytavern/support

There are a lot of things people get wrong about kink, including the idea it's inherently rooted in trauma and mental illness, that it's abusive, and that kinky people can't develop healthy relationships. That's why this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast is all about the science of kink, BDSM, and fetishes! I interviewed Dr. Richard Sprott, who studies identity development, health, and well-being in alternative sexualities and non-traditional relationships. He currently teaches at California State University, East Bay and he is co-author of the book Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: -What's the difference between kink, BDSM, and fetishes anyway? -How common are kinky sexual interests? -What is the link between kink and mental health? -What's the truth about how kink and sexual trauma are connected? -In what ways can kink be healthy, or even therapeutic? -Where do kinky sexual interests come from? Do they run in families? -Do kinky sexual interests change with age? -How should we think about kink—is it a sexual orientation or a leisure activity? To learn more about Richard and his work, visit tashra.org Follow Dr. Lehmiller on Twitter @JustinLehmiller or Instagram @JustinJLehmiller. To stay up-to-date on the latest sex research and tips, check out https://sexandpsychology.com

There are a lot of things people get wrong about kink, including the idea it's inherently rooted in trauma and mental illness, that it's abusive, and that kinky people can't develop healthy relationships. That's why this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast is all about the science of kink, BDSM, and fetishes! I interviewed Dr. Richard Sprott, who studies identity development, health, and well-being in alternative sexualities and non-traditional relationships. He currently teaches at California State University, East Bay and he is co-author of the book Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: What's the difference between kink, BDSM, and fetishes anyway? How common are kinky sexual interests? What is the link between kink and mental health? What's the truth about how kink and sexual trauma are connected? In what ways can kink be healthy, or even therapeutic? Where do kinky sexual interests come from? Do they run in families? Do kinky sexual interests change with age? How should we think about kink—is it a sexual orientation or a leisure activity? To learn more about Richard and his work, visit tashra.org *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Having challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today's episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other's process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure - together.  We get deep into: Carli Jo and Jose's story - from the first kiss to the challenges and turning point in their sex! The end of the honeymoon phase and the challenges they were starting to see in the bedroom Finding out that they had two TOTALLY different definitions of sex (and what this meant for their intimacy) How trying to conceive changed their sex life!  A BIG turning point for Jose at a kink retreat How to ask for adjustments in a turned-on way (so your partner can receive them!) And so much more! Connect with Carli Jo + Jose Cabrera: Carli Jo's website: www.carlijo.com Carli Jo's Instagram: www.instagram.com/cannabissensualitycoach Jose's Instagram: www.instagram.com/areofilm Learn more about Kink/BDSM teacher Orpheus Black: https://orpheusblack.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

WARNING - This episode contains strong themes of an adult nature, including sexually explicit descriptions and language. Please be advised This week, Lyn is joined by relationship intimacy coach Lucia Gabriela, to discuss intimacy, love, relationships and TantriKink - a dance of sexual energy and power. KEY TAKEAWAYS Honesty and openness allow us to release any negative sexual energy built up by hiding away from the truth. This is the way to create true intimacy. Connection is built upon expressing the real and present self to another. This is why we should always aim to be as fully present and open as we can be. Our lives are all energetically interconnected, and all contribute to the grander vibration of life on earth. We are all responsible for our own individual energy state(s). TantriKink is a fusion of Tantra and Kink BDSM practices, and seeks to blend together the natural desire for adventure with the beautiful need for security in a dance of sexual energy and power. BEST MOMENTS 'it's about creating relationships that help me evolve and grow' 'It embraces observing yourself and what you are saying' 'Everything that we say is important and creates a story' 'I'm creating beautiful conscious communities' VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast Apple Podcasts (iTunes) Spotify Stitcher  ABOUT THE GUEST Lucia Gabriela helps individuals and couples to master their life, relationships and intimacy with themselves and others. Her passion is to create a safe and sacred space for women and men to deeply explore many aspects of themselves, purge emotional and/or sexual traumas that are holding them back from manifesting what they desire, heal their inner child, embrace their shadows, connect with their higher self, reconnect with their own body's wisdom, align with their true essence, live their higher potential, and master their sexual life in all realms. They can then create their life with awareness, maturity, self-responsibility, radical self-love, and full commitment to explore their sexual and spiritual evolution.   Lucia Gabriela specializes and works with individuals whose journey is to free themselves from emotional and sexual traumas, and helps them to reclaim their creative power, body, voice, sensuality and sexuality plus to welcome pleasure into their lives, creations and relationships. email: support@luciagabriela.com Website: http://luciagabriela.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciagabrielacoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LuciaGabrielaCoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nunaholisticretreatcenter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciagabrielacoach Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/luciagabrielahc ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres. CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Warning! This episode contains honest and open conversations about sex, kink and sexuality. If that's not your bag, maybe skip this one!* In this episode, Erik and Catie continue their conversation from Kink Part One (We recommend you listen to that episode first if you haven't yet). We talk more about neurodiversity in Kink/BDSM and expand on our previous conversation to talk more about our own personal journeys into kink and beyond. Also Erik decides to have a secret password. Important Info: We have a Patreon! Visit www.patreon.com/infinitequest for more information on how to become a sponsor! Media and Business Inquiries: infinitequestpodcast@gmail.com Find us on social media: @catieosaurus and @heygude --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/infinitequest/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/infinitequest/support

Hear XavierDom, educator at LWP, and I chat though the Violet Wand. One of his passion tools, and one of my favorites as well.  For additional questions, you may find him on FetLife.  Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

 Studies:Sexual Exploration American StudyContacts:Dr. Zelaika HepworthFB: Dr. Zelaika Hepworth ClarkeIG: @dr.zelWebsite: www.zelaika.comAshley NetanelWebsite:ashaboutsex.com (Coming Soon)@ashaboutsex (Coming Soon)BooksYes means Yes- Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica ValentiThe Ultimate Guide to Kink - Tristan Taormino - has chapters about different types of kinks written by popular kink educatorsThe New Topping Book & The New Bottoming Book - Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy - two books on power exchange, the dominant and submissive roles respectivelyPlaying Well with Others - Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams - LOVE this book - a great field guide to anyone looking to get involved in the Kink communityArticles “The Fantasy of Acceptable ‘Nonconsent’: Why the Female Sexual Submissive Scares Us (and Why She Shouldn’t)” by Stacey May Fowles

Majix Roxx is a human I respect very much who become my business mentor. He is poly and full of kink. If you want to learn more, you may reach out on Instagram or Fetlife. Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

#23 - We're kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while also covering sexual trauma, honesty, and more! To learn more about open relationships, the lifestyle, and consensual non-monogamy, go to: https://openlove101.com

Listen to Xavier, educator at LWP and Mizzy talk about proper dungeon engagement and other fun tangents.  Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

Final educational piece of 2020. Stay tuned to see whats in store for 2021! Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

Meet Xavier, Educator at LWP talk about the proper way to engage in impact play. Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

During a Wicked Mindbender Halloween, I tackled a bucket list item: Suspension Rope Work. Hear Mizzys thoughts. Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

My interview with Ms. Lady, owner of LWP Kink B&B. Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won't want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

Hello beautiful warriors, To close sex-vember, I coudn't think of a more Microcosmic, Orgasmic Orchid way of closing off than with fireworks!This episode is jammed pack with all topics all about sex! It's so jammed pack that it needed to be split into 2!I hope you enjoy the show!Dr. Cyndi Gilbert: https://cyndigilbert.ca/Forest Bathing Book: https://cyndigilbert.ca/books/Children's Book Recommendation: http://nakitapublishing.com/Theodore:https://www.sekhmet.ca/Private FB Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/351003269416709IG@TheodorecastasusPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/midnightmeditations

On this week's episode we talk to Zach & Intimacy about kink! Zach AND Intimacy have both been guests of ours before and so we were HYPE to have this conversation. You can find Zach on Instagram, Twitter, the ABM Podcast, Episode 01-28, Episode 02-08, FetLife name: Invictuz, ConsentWarrior.com Intimacy can be found on Instagram, Twitter, Episode 02-05, (They really are EVERYWHERE as PolyFreeLove), FetLife name: TexasLadyOfLove This week's episode is brought to you by Altplayground. Sign up today at Altplayground.net and click with us. We host this podcast using Anchor and post the 3 most recent episodes on Soundcloud. You can find us everywhere you get your pods so please look us up and Rate, Review & Subscribe/Follow to make us feel good. If you want to support this podcast in a big way, you should definitely go to our Patreon and get bonus content, throw some money at us via Anchor Support or by buying the amazing merch from the Merch Shop. Not able to spend any money? We totally understand. Tell a friend about us! RT/Share/Like --- all of that goes a long way. You should also be following us on Twitter and Instagram because we really try to engage with everyone there. Poly Dallas Millennium 2020 is happening November 6-8, 2020 and Jhen is hosting the Friday night opening ceremony along with Pages Matam aka Sir Wolfgang. Do you wanna be a part of this amazing 3 day event? Sign up TODAY using THIS LINK. You can also check out our friends at YuhTooBright and use code "Monogamish" for 10% off your order! Check them out today! See you next week when we tackle Kink/BDSM in movies/tv shows. Xoxo --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/monogamishpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/monogamishpod/support

In this episode, Nikki D sits down with Madamme Seduction aka Dame Sadie, and explores Madamme's thoughts on kink, healing, and healthy power dynamics. In this episode we touch on:Kink being a safe space to step outside the box and is a continuous practice of knowing yourself.The power of leaning into your yesThe transformative power of kinkEnthusiastic consentBlackness and kinkQueer folx in kink spaces Links: IG: @theqinkconversationFollow

In the latest podcast episode my guest, Leah Spasova and I discuss Kink, BDSM, Sexuality, Fantasies & Relationships. Leah is a social psychologist and educator, specialising in sex and relationships education for adults to learn more about Leah visit her website, https://www.lifesexperts.com/about-leah. If you would like to see the video version of this episode join my Facebook group, https://www.facebook.com/groups/buildingtheconfidencetoliveanabundantandlife/

BDSM ... what is it? Should you try it? Do you like bringing it into the bedroom? If you’re a kinkster, curious, or don’t know anything at all, this is a good overview. Special guest: Nate Beck (ig: becksbarandgrill) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Join me in this WONDERFUL conversation with sex therapist and educator, Katherine Friedman, aka @stumptownsextherapy What are kink and BDSM? What is attachment theory and what does it have to do with sex? How can a sense of PLAY transform your experience of your erotic edge? How do we talk to young people about sex? How do we talk to our partners in order to have the partnerships we truly crave? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stacey-ramsower/support

Whether you are interested in improving your sex in marriage, learning about kink or finding consciousness on the dance pole, this episode is for you. Rebekah teaches us how to get unstuck in our sexuality. She teaches us how to have fun with sex and have exciting sex. Rebekah sees all of life as sacred sex and she can teach you how to see all of life as sexual, too. Be sure to subscribe and grab my free gift: https://heal.helenhillix,.com/sacred-sexuality and follow me on Facebook and Instagram: https://instagram.com/helenhillix https://facebook.com/helenhillix https://bit.ly/MyHearttoYours https://YouTube/helenhillix https://helenhillix.com

Welcome to our inaugural episode! Here, we begin a much needed conversation in the Kink/BDSM community on Dom/me Drop. This is our 1st in a series of 4 on "Drop." We also discuss the FUN that's ahead for you on Kinkogy Podcast. Visit our episode sponsor www.spunklube.com For a 10% listener discount, use my special code: kye69

We answer emails on Lack of Lesbian Community & Trans women topping/bottoming. Want to share your thoughts? Email us at QueersNextDoor@gmail.com 27:00 begins Megan talking to Janet & Ted at Thunder In the Mountains, a Kink & BDSM conference. We talk about coming out as bisexual, raising bisexual children, polyamory, introducing polyamory to your children and family, and living your truth. See more on Episode 3 & our guests at QueersNextDoor.com  Follow us on IG & Twitter @QueersNextDoor  Patreon.com/QueersNextDoor More shows from PODCAST JUKEBOX:Off the Cuffs: a Kink and BDSM podcast Being There The Goth Librarian Podcast No Love LOST Will Sean Podcast? ProudToBeKinky Podcast & Drinks with God

Occultae Veritatis Podcast Case #055-B: BDSM and Kink BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Subscribe: https://linktr.ee/ovpodcast Music:  "Whipped" by Scomber http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/scomber/44447   Support the show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ovpod

Occultae Veritatis Podcast Case #055-A: BDSM and Kink BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Subscribe: https://linktr.ee/ovpodcast Music: Sexual Affairs by HEKTOR THILLET (coffeeeurope)http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/coffeeeurope/58692 Support the show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ovpod

Today I’m joined by Justice Schanfarber, a certified Hakomi Therapist and couples counsellor specialising in sex and relationships. He’s the author of two books, and several articles - some which have been published by The Huffington Post and The Good Men Project - and read by over ten million people in two hundred countries, and has been translated into six languages. In this interview we are discussing his book CONSCIOUS KINK FOR COUPLES: the beginners guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing. You’ll learn: What inspired Justice wrote this book What Justice means by “conscious kinky couples” The importance of examining our sex lives and relationships How to use kink for shadow integration 3 lessons we can all learn from conscious kinky couples Ritual sex vs spontaneous sex vs maintenance sex 3 important things to consider when exploring S&M or D&S dynamics What Erotic humiliation entails how to navigate the psychological challenges of stepping into a D&S relationship How to tolerate the tension of having multiple, and sometimes contradictory, self-identities, desires, callings and parts. Justice’s highly recommended Kink & BDSM resources The value of making distinctions between sex, intimacy and eroticism Enjoy!

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & produced in partnership with JASH. The 19th episode of season 2 features author & filmmaker Stephen Elliott (The Adderall Diaries, About Cherry, The Rumpus) on growing up in group homes, BDSM as an entire sexuality, sex work, negotiating consent in kink relationships, dating outside the BDSM community, his new web series Driven & "the jazz of kink." This episode is brought to you by the Fab Skin, Hot Bodies with Dr. Jeannette Graf podcast & Talkspace (go to talkspace.com/reality & enter promo code REALITY for $30 off your 1st month). Please rate & review to tell us what you love!

ABOUT OUR GUESTLiz Powell is a psychologist, (licensed in Arizona and California), who likes to take a caring yet upfront approach to therapy and coaching. Her passion lies with treating underserved populations and works, in particular, with the LGBTQ, Kink/BDSM, and Polyamory/Open Relationship/Swinger population. http://sexpositivepsych.com/ ABOUT THE SHOW We talk about sex, relationships, polyamory, communication skills, and a whole lot more. If you're uncomfortable with adult themes and language please don't listen to this episode (though, you might get the most out of it). MENTIONED IN THE SHOW More than Two The Guide to Getting It On Sex At Dawn What Do Women Want Mating in Captivity Visit A Life Well Designed

Arielle Loren is the founder of Corset Magazine, an erotic magazine dedicated to sexual empowerment. Her work has been featured and praised by The Huffington Post, NPR, ESSENCE, Jezebel, NBC News (The Grio), and more. Arielle has taken Corset Magazine on tour all over the U.S. and Canada, doing live events and connecting with the magazine's international readership. Corset Magazine is currently nine issues strong, covering topics such as Oral Pleasure, Sacred Sex, Orgasms, Kink & BDSM, and Sex Toys. It's tenth issue will discuss the beauty and power of of vulvas and vaginas through personal stories and feature a variety of empowering erotic perspectives. You can download the Vulvas & Vaginas issue when it's released and past issues of Corset Magazine at corsetmagazine.com

In celebration of Corset Magazine's upcoming tenth issue, Vulva's & Vaginas, Arielle Loren joins Devi Ward to honor the power and beauty of female genital anatomy. With documentaries like The Perfect Vagina suggesting many women hate their vulva's and vaginas, Arielle will share the inspiration behind Corset's new issue, her own personal journey to loving her beautiful parts, and tips for listeners to do the same.Arielle Loren is the founder of Corset Magazine, an erotic magazine dedicated to sexual empowerment. Her work has been featured and praised by The Huffington Post, NPR, ESSENCE, Jezebel, NBC News (The Grio), and more. Arielle has taken Corset Magazine on tour all over the U.S. and Canada, doing live events and connecting with the magazine's international readership. Corset Magazine is currently nine issues strong, covering topics such as Oral Pleasure, Sacred Sex, Orgasms, Kink & BDSM, and Sex Toys. It's tenth issue will discuss the beauty and power of of vulvas and vaginas through personal stories and feature a variety of empowering erotic perspectives. You can download the Vulvas & Vaginas issue when it's released and past issues of Corset Magazine at corsetmagazine.com