Podcast appearances and mentions of lexi sylver

Episode Summary:In this eye-opening and empowering episode of Please Me!, Eve welcomes back lifestyle educator, author, and coach Lexi Sylver for her third appearance on the show. Together, they break down the truth about the swinger lifestyle and why it should never be confused with the coercive, abusive behaviors making headlines—especially in light of recent allegations surrounding Diddy's so-called "lifestyle parties." You'll hear: The clear, non-negotiable difference between ethical non-monogamy and abuse Why consent, communication, and community are the backbone of the swinger lifestyle How safety measures like sobriety monitors, health checks, and mutual boundaries protect partygoers The real role of power dynamics in kink and play—and why consent still rules How the lifestyle empowers women to express their sexuality on their own terms A bonus roleplay scene to demonstrate what real consent conversations actually sound like Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator and Best Educator Website at the ASN Awards: If you're enjoying the show and feel it's been helpful, I'd be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator and Best Educator Website in this year's ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here:  ⁠2025 TOP 8 FINALIST | 2025 ASN Awards⁠ Latin Podcasting Fan Favorite Award is another award that I have been nominated for. Connect with Eve:   Website: ⁠PleaseMe.Online⁠   Support the Podcast: Become a ⁠Patreon⁠ member for ad-free episodes, exclusive content, and early access Connect with Lexi Sylver: LexiSylver.com Coaching, courses, and her Swinging 101 platform available now Nominee for ASN Awards: Best Educator, Best Erotic Writer, and Best Educational Website  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lexi called in to talk all about how to navigate the lifestyle as a newbie guy and gave great advice on using apps, swinger party and club etiquette and sooo much more. Tune in to hear all the details including why single men have such a bad rap in the lifestyle and how and why that makes couples wary, the major things you should NOT do when trying to hook up with a couple, why its beneficial to make friends with the husband first, how to get noticed as a newbie on a lifestyle app, why it's important to learn about the Lifestyle first and where to find the info on SDC.com, what you should include and what you shouldn't include in your online bio and why it's important, the bets types of pics to post besides pics of your dick, how to find gangbangs and swingers clubs and parties in your area and the kind of info that's available, what's the difference between meet and greets, meet and mingles and munches and what goes down at them, how to use an app to find people to hook up with while traveling, what to expect first time you go to a swingers club or sex party, how to say no and how to handle it when someone else says no, how to cope of when you “cant get it up” and how to still have fun plus a whole lot more. To find out more about Lexi, click here: https://lexisylver.com To get your FREEEEE SDC.COM Trial click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712  **To see hot pics of LEXI and my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors:  https://butterwellness.com/ For 20% off your Butter Wellness perineum massager use code STRICTLY https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea and get a 30-day FREE trial https://beducate.me/pd2504-anonymous Use code anonymous to get an additional 10% off the campaign's current discount - that's 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lexi Silver called in to discuss opening up your relationship, swinging, being upfront about your kinks and fetishes and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how to you bring up your secret desires with your partner, how and why you need to first release the shame about what you're secretly into, how and why role-playing is great way to bring your kinks up, the thing most people fear when thinking about being honest about what they're into, how over communication is key to being successful when it comes to opening things up, how and why going to a swingers club and not doing anything is a great first step, what goes down at a swingers club and what to expect, how you have to speak up for yourself and how important it is for your partner to receive it, the rules that should be in place when first swinging, how any kind of previous baggage can and will get in the way, the top questions about non-monogamy she gets and the answers to them plus a whole lot more. You can find more advice and work with her here: https://lexisylver.com **To see HOT pics of LEXI plus my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast use code: CF2F4 for 25% off your annual membership. Discount runs until 12/31 To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://viiahemp.com/ Have a great sleep AND great sex with VIIA Hemp Gummies used code: STRICTLYANON for 15% off https://bluechew.com/ Get 15% OFF Blewchew plus first month FREE use code STRICTLYANON https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea 30-day FREE TRIAL  https://butterwellness.com/ Get 20% off your The Perineum Massager by Butter Wellness. Go to butterwellness.com and use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20$ off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous40 Get BEDucated! For 40% off PLUS a FREE 24-hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you explore and celebrate your sexuality? Our hosts Cali, Fox, and Ruby interviewed Lexi Sylver, Media Director with Seek, Discover, Connect (SDC), an international platform for ethically non-monogamous singles, couples, throuples, and so on. Lexi talks about her sex positive journey as an international accredited coach, an award winning erotic storyteller, and all of the fun features of SDC!

Explore the idea of nudity in society and how this idea affects the way we perceive others and ourselves. Lexi and Eve dive deep into the idea of nudity as well as discuss the ethical non monogamous world and all the sensual possibilities.Support the showReach Eve at https:www.pleaseme.onlineCall Eve on the OWWLL app and use code EH576472 for $10 free to trial the appJoin the premiere "modern lifestyle" ENM website and get a free trial membership on Eve with this code: 37340 sign up here: https:www.SDC.comPlease consider supporting the show! Every dollar counts and I will thank you personally during my podcast! https://www.buzzsprout.com/2212127/support

Dr. Laurie discusses the dark side of swinging with expert Lexi Sylver. You'll also hear answers to listener submitted questions, and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News".

Girl talk with Lexi Sylver, the incredible Swinger Lifestyle Educator and award winning author talks about another alternative lifestyle that can be a catalyst to an exhilarating life! Lexi Sylver dishes on all things "Lifestyle" related!  Lexi and Eve both agree to love lube and both find safe sex to be VERY sexy.  They also delve into a discussion about sexual health and wellness in this provocative interview.Please consider supporting the show here on Buzzsprout! Eve will be sure to give you a warm shout-out in a future episode! Support the showReach Eve at https:www.pleaseme.onlineCall Eve on the OWWLL app and use code EH576472 for $10 free to trial the appJoin the premiere "modern lifestyle" ENM website and get a free trial membership on Eve with this code: 37340 sign up here: https:www.SDC.comPlease consider supporting the show! Every dollar counts and I will thank you personally during my podcast! https://www.buzzsprout.com/2212127/support

Last year I was so excited to be one of the four invited guest speakers to celebrate the one year anniversary of Mating Season written by Lexi Sylver. During the anniversary event I had the pleasure and honor to read part of "Trick Shot" one her erotic stories which was so sexy and an amazing experience. Although completely out of my comfort zone reading out loud in front of others, I was able to absorb and feel the energy of the other guests as well. Since then, I've formed such amazing relationships that I absolutely cherish.   After the book anniversary I invited Lexi Sylver to be a guest on The Mizzy Bender Show, my audible podcast. Time and hectic schedules put a bit of a delay on the broadcast of the episode... BUT its time to release the beast!   To learn more: www.LexiSylver.com   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Last year I was so excited to be one of the four invited guest speakers to celebrate the one year anniversary of Mating Season written by Lexi Sylver. During the anniversary event I had the pleasure and honor to read part of "Trick Shot" one her erotic stories which was so sexy and an amazing experience. Although completely out of my comfort zone reading out loud in front of others, I was able to absorb and feel the energy of the other guests as well. Since then, I've formed such amazing relationships that I absolutely cherish.   After the book anniversary I invited Lexi Sylver to be a guest on The Mizzy Bender Show, my audible podcast. Time and hectic schedules put a bit of a delay on the broadcast of the episode... BUT its time to release the beast!   To learn more: www.LexiSylver.com Interview launching Tuesday, 10/29/2022   Background: Who doesn't love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn't afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy's journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

In this episode of Talk, Naked; erotic author Lexi Sylver, talks about her roots in the swinging community, and how she became a "lifestyle coach", as well as her new book, "Mating Seasons", which is a collection of erotic short stories.

In this episode of Talk, Naked; erotic author Lexi Sylver, talks about her roots in the swinging community, and how she became a "lifestyle coach", as well as her new book, "Mating Seasons", which is a collection of erotic short stories.

Erotic Author Lexi Sylver discusses the rights and wrongs that men do when they want to get the attention of women.

Join Felicia and published erotica author and sexual educator, Lexi Sylver,  as they discuss the taboo topic of non-monogamous relationships. The ladies discuss the positive aspects of open relationships, the importance of it being ethical and consensual and the questions that need to be asked when transitioning from a monogamous relationship to an open one. Lexi talks how normal it is to experience jealousy in all types of relationships and the important part how we act out on it, the need self-love and communication in and how it’s fine if non-monogamy is not for you. Lexi shares her years of experience as a coach, making us realise that what we feel is valid - whatever type of relationship we’re in and imparts resources for learning more about the culture of non-monogamy.

In our final SDC podcast episode, our host and producer Lexi Sylver shares her journey from day 1 of hosting the show, some of her favorite experiences and guests, and what her plans are for the future. Thank you for listening!

In our final SDC podcast episode, our host and producer Lexi Sylver shares her journey from day 1 of hosting the show, some of her favorite experiences and guests, and what her plans are for the future. Thank you for listening!

Do you want to know what it’s like to be a porn star? Our host Lexi Sylver invites Spencer Michael Barrick, aka Damon Dice, to get personal about his experiences as a performer in the adult industry, and his journey from entrepreneur to porn star. Spencer talks about how he began in the porn industry and how his roles and experiences have evolved over time, leading to his current contract for Bellesa, the largest porn site for women. He tells Lexi how he manages to balance his busy life as a performer while undertaking two businesses, PS Condoms and Can Be Done CBD. Spencer discusses how he mentally and physically prepares for porn scenes, how he manages performance anxiety, and how his on-set porn sex compares to the real-life sex he enjoys in his private life. Spencer also offers tips on the positive influence that certain kinds of porn can have on people’s sexuality and desire to explore.

Do you want to know what it’s like to be a porn star? Our host Lexi Sylver invites Spencer Michael Barrick, aka Damon Dice, to get personal about his experiences as a performer in the adult industry, and his journey from entrepreneur to porn star. Spencer talks about how he began in the porn industry and how his roles and experiences have evolved over time, leading to his current contract for Bellesa, the largest porn site for women. He tells Lexi how he manages to balance his busy life as a performer while undertaking two businesses, PS Condoms and Can Be Done CBD. Spencer discusses how he mentally and physically prepares for porn scenes, how he manages performance anxiety, and how his on-set porn sex compares to the real-life sex he enjoys in his private life. Spencer also offers tips on the positive influence that certain kinds of porn can have on people’s sexuality and desire to explore.

What’s it like to be a couple who swings? Our host Lexi Sylver invited Mickey and Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast to talk about their personal experiences in the swinging lifestyle. They debunk myths about what it’s like to be in an open relationship, exposing common misconceptions that non-swinger folks have about the swinging lifestyle. Mickey and Mallory delve into some of the mistakes they’ve made in the past within their own relationship, providing advice and tips for others to navigate within the lifestyle. They also share some sexy stories from their visits to Hedonism II, the popular nudist resort in Jamaica.

What’s it like to be a couple who swings? Our host Lexi Sylver invited Mickey and Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast to talk about their personal experiences in the swinging lifestyle. They debunk myths about what it’s like to be in an open relationship, exposing common misconceptions that non-swinger folks have about the swinging lifestyle. Mickey and Mallory delve into some of the mistakes they’ve made in the past within their own relationship, providing advice and tips for others to navigate within the lifestyle. They also share some sexy stories from their visits to Hedonism II, the popular nudist resort in Jamaica.

Alternative sexuality: Lexi Sylver discusses Consensual Non-Monogamy by Dr. Laurie Betito

EPISODE 146: Interview with Lexi Sylver. Lexi Sylver is the erotica author of “Mating Season.” She leads an unconventional life and loves sharing stories of her sex-capades. As an entrepreneur, podcast host and producer, writer, educator, advocate, and public speaker, Lexi brings a sex-positive approach to sex and open relationships. She strives to empower others to shamelessly explore their Lexuality. Follow her work and adventures at her website LexiSylver.com and on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter @LexiSylver. You can also find her book on Amazon. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

What’s the difference between shame and guilt? Who and what can create those feelings? How can shame manifest in your life in different ways, and how can you handle it? In this episode, host Lexi Sylver and guest Rahim Thawer explore the ways in which we can learn to develop feelings of shame and guilt, and the ways in which those can impact different spheres of our personal lives. They talk about how feeling shy or embarrassed are just some of the smaller ways in which we can feel shame on a day to day basis. They provide advice to live your life authentically and feel confident with your sexuality, and how to learn to cope with feelings of shame to live a more fulfilled life. Rahim also talks about how shame isn’t always a bad thing and explains what we can learn from feeling different kinds of shame in our lives. Lexi and Rahim also answer real-life questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

Ashley is joined by erotic author Lexi Sylver, to discuss the art of creating erotic conversations, writing, and scenarios. Who knew AOL chat rooms could be so inspirational? Bio: Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. To find and work with Lexi, check out Her website: https://lexisylver.com Her book Mating Season: https://lexisylver.com/matingseason More Links on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lexisylver Lexi's social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexisylver Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexisylver OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/lexisylver Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/getlexual Learn more about Ashley's work on www.CannaSexual.com, Instagram www.instagram.com/cannasexual, and Twitter www.twitter.com/thecannasexual, and be sure to follow Elevated Intimacy on Instagram www.instagram.com/elevatedintimacy! Check out Ashley's online courses at Elevated Intimacy Academy www.elevatedintimacy.com Thanks as always to our sponsors, Foria www.foriawellness.com and Sybian www.sybian.com! Use coupon code CANNASEXUAL to save 10% on Foria's website. Please subscribe, rate, review, and share!

"Do you like that?"  "Smack my ass!"  "Call me a dirty girl..." How do YOU talk dirty in the bedroom?  Ever wondered how some people are just SO good at it?  Ever struggled with what to say in sexy situations?  Meet Lexi Sylver, an erotic author and Media Director for SDC, who joins us today to talk about her new book, "Mating Season," and helping you talk better smut in your own bedroom adventures!About Lexi SylverLexi Sylver is the producer and host of the adult sexual education podcast SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences, writes articles for SDC.com, ASN Lifestyle Magazine and Pornhub, and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced nearly 200 movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, currently underway. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. Find out more at https://lexisylver.com and follow Lexi on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Virtual Podcast-A-PaloozaCasual ToysDouble Date NationSDCRachals RascalsHedonism II 

How can reading and writing erotic stories help you seduce your partner? How can erotica be used to increase your sexual exploration? Erotica author Casey Carter joins host Lexi Sylver to share their advice for creating erotic literature and the benefits of getting creative as a way to communicate what you want sexually to your partner. They discuss how they write sexy characters and scenarios to entice, stimulate and inspire others to explore their sexuality, kinks and fetishes without shame. Casey and Lexi talk about their upcoming event, Cocktails and Erotic Tales, what it’s like to do live storytelling sessions for their fans. Finally, they provide tips and advice to creating and sharing erotica with your lovers.

Are you curious about kink and BDSM? Do you want to know why some kinky folks enjoy BDSM so much? If you want to discover more about the BDSM lifestyle, why it can be therapeutic, and how you can incorporate kinky play in your own life, you’re in the right place! Joining me, your host Lexi Sylver, for this episode is an amazing duo, Charlie and Arienne Williams of SexBecause. We go deep as Charlie and Arienne reveal their personal experiences with BDSM, and apply their clinical knowledge to our discussion about what a healthy dominant/submissive and/or master/slave relationship looks like, negotiating boundaries and establishing consent with your partner, and what after care can look like for different people in different scenarios. We also explore how and why BDSM can be considered therapeutic by some people, and how to kink it up a notch when the novelty of your BDSM play starts to wear off a bit. So tune in to join us as we shatter some crucial myths behind the kink.

To celebrate the new release of her erotic book, Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, our show’s producer and host Lexi Sylver flies solo to talk about erotica… and teases you with a sexy reading from one of her stories! She also talks about how erotic literature has become more popular in recent years, and how newer erotica is more diverse and representative when it comes to characters and settings. She discusses how gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation are explored in her book. Lexi explains the reasons why people may enjoy reading erotica and all the benefits of reading and writing erotic stories and sharing them with their lover(s). She examines how erotica is an underrated tool of seduction that can be incorporated into your partnered sex life to explore new fantasies. Lexi discusses the benefits of writing erotica, along with some tips on how you can write your own erotic story. She wraps up by answering questions from the audience in Letters to Lexi.

What is it really like to be a swinger? Mr. Mocha, the co-producer of the lifestyle podcast Ofacez, joins host Lexi Sylver to share some of his wisdom gained from over a decade of swinging. They debunk myths that newbies have when they first enter the open lifestyle and become swingers, and the importance of trust, honesty, and communication as being central to all types of healthy relationships. They explore intimacy versus sex, differences between cheating in monogamous relationships versus ethical non-monogamy, and the ways in which they enjoy certain freedoms within the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha also delves into some of his personal experiences of himself and Mrs. Mocha, who are an interracial couple, being on the receiving end of racism and discrimination both within and outside of the swinging lifestyle. He offers insight and perspective for those having trouble understanding the Black Lives Matter movement and systemic racism, giving actionable advice to create meaningful change.

Why is talking about our sexual health such a taboo topic? How can we overcome feelings of shame and negative stigma surrounding sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? Our host Lexi Sylver invites Courtney Brame, the founder of Something Positive for Positive People (SPFPP), for an open and personal discussion about sexual health. Courtney shares his personal experience receiving a positive herpes diagnosis and why he was inspired to start his podcast to discuss others’ stories about their positive diagnoses. He explains how having an STI or an STD doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. Courtney suggests the best ways to inform yourself and who to talk to about your physical and mental health, good ways to disclose your positive status to your current partner(s) and potential new partner(s) and what to do when you get diagnosed. Lexi and Courtney answer Letters to Lexi and offer advice on safe sex, navigating disclosure and more.

What’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

What’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship? Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join Lexi Sylver to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences. Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing. Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

It’s Mating Season! But don't go calling your partner just yet. At least not until you heard our conversation with Lexi Sylver. She just released a new book of erotic stories and adventures and it’s steaming hot! We had such a fun conversation and course, lots of laughs talking about her book. Trying to figure out which stories were fictional and which ones really happened was challenging, but they were all very hot. We were very pleased with the fact she did include a few hot sexy stories about bisexual men which do not read or hear about in erotic stories very often. Of course we did reminisce our past adventures with Lexi and how COVID-19 has change our world in regards to travel, conferences and social gatherings.

It’s Mating Season! But don't go calling your partner just yet. At least not until you heard our conversation with Lexi Sylver. She just released a new book of erotic stories and adventures and it’s steaming hot! We had such a fun conversation and course, lots of laughs talking about her book. Trying to figure out which stories were fictional and which ones really happened was challenging, but they were all very hot. We were very pleased with the fact she did include a few hot sexy stories about bisexual men which do not read or hear about in erotic stories very often. Of course we did reminisce our past adventures with Lexi and how COVID-19 has change our world in regards to travel, conferences and social gatherings.

To celebrate the new release of her erotic book, Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, our show’s producer and host Lexi Sylver flies solo to talk about erotica… and teases you with a sexy reading from one of her stories! She also talks about how erotic literature has become more popular in recent years, and how newer erotica is more diverse and representative when it comes to characters and settings. She discusses how gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation are explored in her book. Lexi explains the reasons why people may enjoy reading erotica and all the benefits of reading and writing erotic stories and sharing them with their lover(s). She examines how erotica is an underrated tool of seduction that can be incorporated into your partnered sex life to explore new fantasies. Lexi discusses the benefits of writing erotica, along with some tips on how you can write your own erotic story. She wraps up by answering questions from the audience in Letters to Lexi.

Why has female-focused erotic literature become so popular in recent years? How do erotica writers get inspiration for their stories? How can erotica help you explore your sexuality and help break down taboos? Join host Lexi Sylver with erotic author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel to discover more about the sexy world of erotica. In this episode, Rachel reveals what inspires her to write her erotic stories, and how she first came to start writing erotic literature. They discuss why women’s erotica continues to gain popularity and the current trends in the industry. They explore the diverse selection of new stories written with representative characters of different backgrounds, gender identities, relationship styles and sexuality. Finally, they discuss how female empowerment has contributed to the emergence of erotic stories that break down sexual shame and taboos and explore the pursuit of pleasure. Lexi and Rachel also answer some questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

How do you talk to your monogamous partner about consensual non-monogamy? In what ways do the swinging, polyamorous and LGBTQ+ communities intersect? How can media and fiction writing evolve to include a better representation of people of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship styles? In this interview with Lexi Sylver, Cooper shares how he and his partner began their foray into consensual non-monogamy, and the lessons they learned along their journey. He reveals the challenges he has encountered being a queer-identified swinger, and how swingers can be more inclusive of bisexual men in the lifestyle. Lexi and Cooper explore the double standard of male bisexuality in the lifestyle, and the roles that toxic masculinity, homophobia, and internalized shame play when it comes to the perception of bisexual men. Cooper also shares how he features representative characters in his books, and why it is important for other writers and media to do the same.

How can sex toys improve your sex life and increase your pleasure during masturbation and partnered play? Why is it still so taboo to talk about female pleasure and women’s health? How are women making an impact in the world of sex tech? In this episode, Lexi Sylver interviews Maureen Pollack, inventor of the Waterslyde and co-owner of Lovability Inc., to explore how masturbating can contribute to greater sexual wellness and discuss how we can eliminate the stigma behind masturbation. They talk about erasing the misconception that sex toys will replace your partner and emphasize the ways in which using sex toys can enhance your relationship. They provide tips on how to talk about and incorporate playing with sex toys with your partner and explore how to empower women to take charge of their sexual health. Lexi and Maureen also answer real-life questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi. How can sex toys improve your sex life and increase your pleasure during masturbation? Why is it taboo to talk about female pleasure and women’s health? Listen to explore how masturbating can add to your sexual wellness, how sex toys can enhance your relationship, and tips to help you incorporate playing with sex toys with your partner.

How can you last longer in bed and prolong the intimacy with your lover(s)? For this episode, host Lexi Sylver invited Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, a sexual wellness company that helps people enjoy longer-lasting sex and enhance the intimacy in their relationships. They talk about the reality of men and people with penises who experience premature ejaculation, and some of the possible underlying physiological and psychological reasons for PE. Uncovering some social stigmas and taboos about PE, they offer advice for the many ways to extend sex, prioritize their partner’s sexual pleasure, and physically and psychologically overcome premature ejaculation. Lexi and Jeff examine the orgasm gap, aka arousal gap, and the gender differences in terms of how much longer it may take women to achieve orgasm versus men. They explore the added pressures that men experience to perform well and last long in group sex scenarios within the swinger or open lifestyle.

Do you want to know how you can have the best sex of your life? Join host Lexi Sylver and her special guest, Dr. Jaime M. Grant, the author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire, for an uncensored talk about how to achieve the sex life you truly desire. Lexi and Jaime discuss what sex is all about, beyond a blur of body parts and the exchange of fluids and moans, and how any sex you have is meaningful. They explain how our past sexual experiences contributed to the development our current sexual selves, and what those adventures can help us learn about what we truly want in sex, relationships and life. Jaime explores the concept of Desire Mapping, and how people can use their individual Desire Map to uncover the fears and barriers that hold them back from living a truly fulfilling erotic life. Lexi and Jaime also talk about the power that lies in telling our sex stories, and how sharing our erotic tales help us discover more about our authentic sexuality and map our path to our best sex.

This episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

EPISODE 132: Interview with Lexi Sylver. Lexi is the producer and host of the podcast “SDC Presents Seek, Discover, Create”; erotic writer and sexual health blogger for LexiSylver.com and SDC; adult toy entrepreneur’ sexuality speaker and workshop presenter; and ambassador for shameless sexuality and healthy relationships. Follow her work and adventures on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram @LexiSylver, at her website LexiSylver.com and SDC.com, and listen to her podcast at “SDC Presents Seek, Discover, Create” everywhere podcasts are played. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Do you want to know what people fantasize about? Which sexual fantasies are the most popular and the most taboo? Our host Lexi Sylver interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller about the studies he has done with people who have revealed their deepest, darkest fantasies. Dr. Lehmiller reports these real life findings, some of which are quite surprising. Lexi Sylver and Dr. Lehmiller explore which sexual fantasies are the most common for people to have, and the differences in gender and sexual orientations in the type and frequency of their fantasies. They also discuss which sexual fantasies are considered taboo, such as cuckolding fantasies and forced sex fantasies, and reveal why people might fantasize about those kinds of scenarios, as well as why those are actually quite normal and common. They also explore how having sexual fantasies can potentially be beneficial to your mental health and to help you explore your sexuality, and what to do if you are having unwanted sexual fantasies.

This episode highlights some of the most popular episodes this year about spicing up your sex life, including butt stuff, using cannabis to enhance sex, getting kinky with BDSM, and how to have an orgy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg of American Sex Podcast, Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual), Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause, and Taara and James from Sex Uninterrupted. Sunny and Ken explain the differences between prostate and anal orgasms, what pegging is, and tips to make it comfortable, sexy and fun for everyone involved. Ashley Manta describes how cannabis products can be used to have even more pleasurable sex, and advice on how to get started trying cannabis. Charlie and Arienne get personal and describe their own kinky dominant / submissive dynamic and explore the foundations of a healthy BDSM relationship. Taara and James offer insight into how to have an orgy, from choosing your partners to establishing consent and ensuring mutual pleasure.

This episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

Lexi Sylver joins us LIVE from The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, with interviews from sex educators, exhibitors and attendees. She talks to Fatima Mechtab, Marketing Director and Co-Owner of Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto, about what it’s like at a sex club, events they offer and the demographics of their guests. In her interview with Luna Matatas, pleasure educator, they discuss the topics she covers in her seminars at the show, from how to have a threesome to talking about fantasies with your partner, and debunking myths about dominance. With Patrick, host of the podcast Intellectual Erection, they explore establishing consent and exploring openness within the sex-positive community, and normalizing and destigmatizing sexuality. In her interview with Matt Tabota, owner of Toronto’s The O Zone, they offer tips for people who go to a sex club for the first time. Join Lexi and her guests during this exciting live event.

Why has female-focused erotic literature become so popular in recent years? How do erotica writers get inspiration for their stories? How can erotica help you explore your sexuality and help break down taboos? Join host Lexi Sylver with erotic author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel to discover more about the sexy world of erotica. In this episode, Rachel reveals what inspires her to write her erotic stories, and how she first came to start writing erotic literature. They discuss why women’s erotica continues to gain popularity and the current trends in the industry. They explore the diverse selection of new stories written with representative characters of different backgrounds, gender identities, relationship styles and sexuality. Finally, they discuss how female empowerment has contributed to the emergence of erotic stories that break down sexual shame and taboos and explore the pursuit of pleasure. Lexi and Rachel also answer some questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

Join Lexi Sylver for the second part of this sexy miniseries! Lexi is LIVE during SDC's Takeover of Cap d'Agde, the world-renowned Naturist Village in the South of France. In this episode, she interviews two very naked and explorative couples about their sexy experiences in Cap d'Agde. They talk about what it's like to be naked all the time in a sex-positive, open-minded and sexually charged environment among other couples seeking to explore and discover new people. They also talk about their unique relationships and how they have navigated the swinging lifestyle together, and offer us their own personal tips on how to have a thrilling and fulfilling time with your partner as you play within the world of consensual non-monogamy. Finally, they offer advice for people who are thinking of visiting Cap d'Agde for the first time, including what to expect, the proper swinger etiquette, communication musts and much more.

What’s the difference between shame and guilt? Who and what can create those feelings? How can shame manifest in your life in different ways, and how can you handle it? In this episode, host Lexi Sylver and guest Rahim Thawer explore the ways in which we can learn to develop feelings of shame and guilt, and the ways in which those can impact different spheres of our personal lives. They talk about how feeling shy or embarrassed are just some of the smaller ways in which we can feel shame on a day to day basis. They provide advice to live your life authentically and feel confident with your sexuality, and how to learn to cope with feelings of shame to live a more fulfilled life. Rahim also talks about how shame isn’t always a bad thing and explains what we can learn from feeling different kinds of shame in our lives. Lexi and Rahim also answer real-life questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

How can sex toys improve your sex life and increase your pleasure during masturbation and partnered play? Why is it still so taboo to talk about female pleasure and women’s health? How are women making an impact in the world of sex tech? In this episode, Lexi Sylver interviews Maureen Pollack, inventor of the Waterslyde and co-owner of Lovability Inc., to explore how masturbating can contribute to greater sexual wellness and discuss how we can eliminate the stigma behind masturbation. They talk about erasing the misconception that sex toys will replace your partner and emphasize the ways in which using sex toys can enhance your relationship. They provide tips on how to talk about and incorporate playing with sex toys with your partner and explore how to empower women to take charge of their sexual health. Lexi and Maureen also answer real-life questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi. How can sex toys improve your sex life and increase your pleasure during masturbation? Why is it taboo to talk about female pleasure and women’s health? Listen to explore how masturbating can add to your sexual wellness, how sex toys can enhance your relationship, and tips to help you incorporate playing with sex toys with your partner.

How can you use tantra to experience more pleasure in your sex life and get to know your body better? How can you learn to delay ejaculation, stay hard and maintain an erection during sex, and still experience the pleasure of orgasm without ejaculation? And on the flip side, how can you start to achieve orgasms during sexual play when it's difficult for you to climax? Karen and Brion Craig answer all these questions with host Lexi Sylver, as they talk about the benefits for everyone who practices tantra. They cover how to last longer in bed by prolonging your sex sessions and increasing your and your partner’s pleasure, how to use healthy communication skills to enhance your relationship and your sex life, and how you can achieve multiple orgasms. They also explore the importance of knowing yourself and what makes your body feel good, starting with using tantric practices during masturbation. Lexi also answers listeners' questions in Letters to Lexi, with added advice from her guests.

What are some common obstacles to dating today, especially in the realm of apps and internet dating? What’s the best way to approach dating to find yourself a great match who is authentic and meets your needs? For those in a relationship, how can you keep the spark and New Relationship Energy (NRE) alive, even over the long term, as you and your partner(s) evolve over time? Lexi Sylver and Dr. Shamyra Howard share some tips for communicating with your potential or current partner in a healthy way, and how to explore new ways of having fun together and increasing intimacy in your relationship. Shamyra explains how to make time for your partner - and why scheduling date nights and sex can really work! They also address the importance of knowing who you are, what you want, and feeling self-confident and sexy in your own skin, whether you’re in a relationship or not. Lexi and Shamyra also answer a bunch of people’s real-life personal questions during the Letters to Lexi segment.

Join Lexi Sylver for the second part of this sexy miniseries! Lexi is LIVE during SDC's Takeover of Cap d'Agde, the world-renowned Naturist Village in the South of France. In this episode, she interviews two very naked and explorative couples about their sexy experiences in Cap d'Agde. They talk about what it's like to be naked all the time in a sex-positive, open-minded and sexually charged environment among other couples seeking to explore and discover new people. They also talk about their unique relationships and how they have navigated the swinging lifestyle together, and offer us their own personal tips on how to have a thrilling and fulfilling time with your partner as you play within the world of consensual non-monogamy. Finally, they offer advice for people who are thinking of visiting Cap d'Agde for the first time, including what to expect, the proper swinger etiquette, communication musts and much more.

This special episode is all about butt stuff! Sex superheroes, educators and co-hosts of American Sex Podcast Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg join Lexi Sylver for a deep discussion about pegging and prostate play. Sunny and Ken reveal their expert techniques at milking the prostate, how men can have anal orgasms, how to protect yourself during anal play (regardless of gender), and share some fantastic tips on how to make prostate play and pegging even more pleasurable and exciting for everyone involved. They also get to the root of why there is a double standard when it comes to men and anal stimulation, specifically, the stigma that men who enjoy pegging or anal play have a specific sexual orientation. Join Lexi, Sunny and Ken for this anal boot camp to learn all the important basics of what you need to know about anal stimulation, including how to broach the topic for the first time with your partner.

We all have our own dirty little secrets, do we not? Hotwife Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann share their own secrets with Lexi Sylver during a very revealing conversation about their tell all memoir, SeXXXperience, which offers an unfiltered look into the erotic worlds of swinging, escorting and adult films, and how their committed, successful and loving marriage thrives on and in these extremes. Taylor and Gabe talk about about their journey from torrid love affair to making porn, and a lot of other very sexy topics, including the details of what it is like within the swinging lifestyle, their relationship dynamic with Taylor being a hotwife, what their status as a provider couple means for their marriage, and their tips for what makes for a successful swinging relationship and a happy marriage. They also debunk some of the most common myths that some people have about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, and offer some advice to couples who want to open up their relationship.

Join Lexi Sylver LIVE during SDC's Takeover of Cap d'Agde, the world-renowned Naturist Village in the South of France. In this episode, Lexi interviews guests who are first-timers to Cap d'Agde - and who are naked during their interviews! They explore what it feels like being naked all the time and surrounded by other naked people, the differences of their expectations coming into Cap d'Agde versus the reality of what they've seen and done, the incredible people they met throughout their stay and some of their erotic experiences, the sexy parties and swingers clubs they've attended while staying in Cap d'Agde, and the way SDC Travel events compare to other travel events they've been to in the past. Each guest highlights the importance of honesty, consent, respect and boundaries within the lifestyle, and the presence of these elements during their SDC Takeover in Cap. They also offer key advice for other potential first-timers who want to visit Cap d'Agde.

Do you keep settling for less in your relationships, career and personal life? Is your life not bringing you as much pleasure as you deserve? Do you feel less than and want to t.make a change? Carlen Costa, aka The Everyday Goddess, joins Lexi Sylver to talk about how to stop settling for less than you deserve and to start living the life that you truly want. Carlen talks about how she empowers others to love themselves first and helps people fulfill their happiness potentials. Lexi and Carlen discuss self-love, body image, confidence, self-esteem issues and insecurity, and how they contribute to our feelings of being unworthy of happiness and pleasure. In the segment Letters to Lexi, Lexi and Carlen shamelessly answer questions from listeners about the challenges they're having in their lives and relationships, and offer advice about what they can do to try to overcome them. Carlen offers advice about how to empower yourself to start changing your life for the better.

How do you talk to your monogamous partner about consensual non-monogamy? In what ways do the swinging, polyamorous and LGBTQ+ communities intersect? How can media and fiction writing evolve to include a better representation of people of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship styles? In this interview with Lexi Sylver, Cooper shares how he and his partner began their foray into consensual non-monogamy, and the lessons they learned along their journey. He reveals the challenges he has encountered being a queer-identified swinger, and how swingers can be more inclusive of bisexual men in the lifestyle. Lexi and Cooper explore the double standard of male bisexuality in the lifestyle, and the roles that toxic masculinity, homophobia, and internalized shame play when it comes to the perception of bisexual men. Cooper also shares how he features representative characters in his books, and why it is important for other writers and media to do the same.

Do you want to know what people fantasize about? Which sexual fantasies are the most popular and the most taboo? Our host Lexi Sylver interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller about the studies he has done with people who have revealed their deepest, darkest fantasies. Dr. Lehmiller reports these real life findings, some of which are quite surprising. Lexi Sylver and Dr. Lehmiller explore which sexual fantasies are the most common for people to have, and the differences in gender and sexual orientations in the type and frequency of their fantasies. They also discuss which sexual fantasies are considered taboo, such as cuckolding fantasies and forced sex fantasies, and reveal why people might fantasize about those kinds of scenarios, as well as why those are actually quite normal and common. They also explore how having sexual fantasies can potentially be beneficial to your mental health and to help you explore your sexuality, and what to do if you are having unwanted sexual fantasies.

We all have our own dirty little secrets, do we not? Hotwife Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann share their own secrets with Lexi Sylver during a very revealing conversation about their tell all memoir, SeXXXperience, which offers an unfiltered look into the erotic worlds of swinging, escorting and adult films, and how their committed, successful and loving marriage thrives on and in these extremes. Taylor and Gabe talk about about their journey from torrid love affair to making porn, and a lot of other very sexy topics, including the details of what it is like within the swinging lifestyle, their relationship dynamic with Taylor being a hotwife, what their status as a provider couple means for their marriage, and their tips for what makes for a successful swinging relationship and a happy marriage. They also debunk some of the most common myths that some people have about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, and offer some advice to couples who want to open up their relationship.

What's it really like to be in the swinging and ethically non-monogamy lifestyle? How can people who are curious about the lifestyle find resources to navigate their personal lives and relationships? Michael and Sheri Ramos, co-founders of ASN Entertainment and ASN Lifestyle Magazine, join Lexi Sylver to explore how and why they founded what the only magazine in the world that is available for people in the lifestyle. They talk about the types of readers they have, the kinds of topics they are most interested in, and how they select the educators to help guide ASN’s readers through various phases of their journey into non-monogamy. Mike and Sheri also discuss current trends and events in the swinging and non-monogamous lifestyle, and the exciting new directions they’ll be taking ASN in the near future. They reveal their recent partnership with SDC Media (SDC.com) to broaden their readership and expand their international presence and bring sex ed to even more lifestylers.

What is it like to date and have sex in our digital age? What are some of the unique challenges that sex educators experience in todays world? This episode is the second installment in a two-part series as Lexi Sylver explores the reality of what its like to be a sexuality educator with her guests, Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez, co-hosts of Sex Probz on New York Magazine’s The Cut. In this part of the series, they also talk about how we can help people maintain a positive body image and self-confidence in a world where Photoshopping is the standard and Western societies concept of beauty is unnatural, unattainable and non-inclusive. We talk about how we can redefine the concept and definitions of what sex actually means and how to talk about sex and the concept of virginity in a way that encompasses all bodies, genders and sexual orientations. Finally, they examine sexual stigmas and how we can remove stigma and shame from the way we feel, talk about and express our sexuality.

What is it like to date and have sex in our digital age? What are some of the unique challenges that sex educators experience in today's world? This episode is the first in a two-part series as Lexi Sylver explores the reality of what it's like to be a sexuality educator with her guests, Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez, co-hosts of Sex Probz on New York Magazine’s The Cut. They discuss the biggest challenges that sex educators, sex workers and activists are facing in light of SESTA-FOSTA. In this series, they also talk about how we can help people maintain a positive body image in a world where Photoshopping is the standard and Western society’s concept of beauty is unnatural, unattainable and non-inclusive. Finally, they examine sexual stigmas and how we can remove stigma and shame from the way we feel, talk about and express our sexuality.

What are some of the biggest challenges to starting and maintaining healthy polyamorous relationships? Whether you're already immersed in polyamory or simply seeking guidance on how to start living a polyamorous lifestyle, this episode is for you. Nolan Lawless, a licensed professional counselor and educator in consensually non-monogamous relationships, joins our host Lexi Sylver to share some helpful strategies for poly folks coping with difficult break-ups, potential issues with metamours and other relationship conflicts, feelings of jealousy, and managing self-care. Nolan and Lexi also discuss some of the potential hurdles that people in poly relationships might face when seeking clinical help with professionals who are not trained in treating clients in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Nolan highlights the importance of thorough and healthy communication skills and their role in establishing and modifying boundaries within polyamorous relationships.

What's it really like to be in the swinging and ethically non-monogamy lifestyle? How can people who are curious about the lifestyle find resources to navigate their personal lives and relationships? Michael and Sheri Ramos, co-founders of ASN Entertainment and ASN Lifestyle Magazine, join Lexi Sylver to explore how and why they founded what the only magazine in the world that is available for people in the lifestyle. They talk about the types of readers they have, the kinds of topics they are most interested in, and how they select the educators to help guide ASN’s readers through various phases of their journey into non-monogamy. Mike and Sheri also discuss current trends and events in the swinging and non-monogamous lifestyle, and the exciting new directions they’ll be taking ASN in the near future. They reveal their recent partnership with SDC Media (SDC.com) to broaden their readership and expand their international presence and bring sex ed to even more lifestylers.

What can you expect when you attend a sex club? What types of events and theme parties go on at a sex club? Fatima Mechtab and Cecilia Morrell join Lexi Sylver to describe their personal experiences working at Oasis Aqualounge, a popular sex club in Toronto, Canada. Fatima and Cece go into detail about the types of parties they have produced at Oasis and which are most popular with their clients. They also explain the importance of sexual empowerment and inclusivity when it comes to organizing events within the LGBTQ+ community, and how they fight against double standards to normalize sexual openness, like when it comes to male bisexuality. Cecilia and Fatima also talk about how the staff at the club work to ensure the safety of their clients and enforce rules about consent, and the ways in which the staff facilitates guests’ experiences at the club, whether they’re first-timers at a sex club or are more experienced players.

Think Georgia is a little to conservative, well not when Sex Down South is in town. While at this Atlanta based conference chatted with Lexi Sylver about a sex toy delivery service, prostate play, the justified paranoia of Facebook and Amazon listening to us and why we have obvious warnings on products. Enjoy!

Think Georgia is a little to conservative, well not when Sex Down South is in town. While at this Atlanta based conference chatted with Lexi Sylver about a sex toy delivery service, prostate play, the justified paranoia of Facebook and Amazon listening to us and why we have obvious warnings on products. Enjoy!

Why is the word SLUT such a derogatory term? How can we start saying “slut” in a positive way and remove the shame and stigmas imposed by society when it comes to sexuality and sexual freedom? Taara Rose, The Spiritual Slut, joins Lexi Sylver to talk about society’s double standards when it comes to traditionally female versus male sexuality, and how you can connect – or reconnect – with your inner slut, whether you’re single or in any kind of relationship. Taara and Lexi also share some of their personal experiences dealing with slut shaming, and how that made them want to educate others about why being a slut and owning your sexuality is a positive thing. They also discuss how to get out of a sexual funk and battle feelings of insecurity, in order to free your mind and body to explore your sexual identity and slutty side with confidence and without judgment.

Do you ever feel that there is a lion within your soul that is ready to roar? Do you hear your inner voice whispering “there is so much more of me that I want to explore and express”? Are you ready to unleash your power and step into the Goddess/God world that is waiting for you? Today’s intimate conversation is about discovering the Divine Godliness in each of us. Join me and Lexi Sylver as we share how you can release your inner God / Goddess and don’t forget to tune in at 8 pm sharp as you don’t want to miss my “Wise Whispers from Down Under” with Dr Philip Morphew.

Are you curious about kink and BDSM? Do you want to know why some kinky folks enjoy BDSM so much? If you want to discover more about the BDSM lifestyle, why it can be therapeutic, and how you can incorporate kinky play in your own life, you’re in the right place! Joining me, your host Lexi Sylver, for this episode is an amazing duo, Charlie and Arienne Williams of SexBecause. We go deep as Charlie and Arienne reveal their personal experiences with BDSM, and apply their clinical knowledge to our discussion about what a healthy dominant/submissive and/or master/slave relationship looks like, negotiating boundaries and establishing consent with your partner, and what after care can look like for different people in different scenarios. We also explore how and why BDSM can be considered therapeutic by some people, and how to kink it up a notch when the novelty of your BDSM play starts to wear off a bit. So tune in to join us as we shatter some crucial myths behind the kink.

Do you experience stress in your life? Who doesn't?! In this cornerstone episode, we’re going to talk about something that affects virtually everyone: how to keep your sex drive alive while coping with daily stresses and dealing with that noisy brain. For some people who have issues with anxiety, depression and other chronic illnesses, feeling sexual and having a regular sex life is even more challenging. Rachael Rose joins Lexi Sylver to give us insight and tips into how to manage your relationships and sex life, even when you’re also handling stress and coping with a noisy brain and/or a disability. They cover how to feel sexy and confident when you're not feeling your best, how you can support someone with a chronic illness or disability, and how you can still enjoy pleasure and feel satisfied with your sexual life with your partner(s) when you're coping with a physical or psychological illness.

This special episode is all about butt stuff! Sex superheroes, educators and co-hosts of American Sex Podcast Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg join Lexi Sylver for a deep discussion about pegging and prostate play. Sunny and Ken reveal their expert techniques at milking the prostate, how men can have anal orgasms, how to protect yourself during anal play (regardless of gender), and share some fantastic tips on how to make prostate play and pegging even more pleasurable and exciting for everyone involved. They also get to the root of why there is a double standard when it comes to men and anal stimulation, specifically, the stigma that men who enjoy pegging or anal play have a specific sexual orientation. Join Lexi, Sunny and Ken for this anal boot camp to learn all the important basics of what you need to know about anal stimulation, including how to broach the topic for the first time with your partner.

Do you play alone in your non-monogamous relationship? Is it something you and/or your partner are interested in? Recently, Taara and James of Sex Uninterrupted invited Lexi Sylver onto their podcast to talk about what it's like playing alone in the lifestyle. In this episode, Lexi is interviewed about her personal experiences playing alone, including who she plays with and where, how she and her partner and communicate about boundaries, how she tackles safety issues, and much more advice for those who are starting out or who are already accustomed to playing separately from their partner.

Happy Hump Day! Or as we say, Happy Wet Wednesday! We talk about the fun KIK chatroom we're in, full of some cool people, theme of the week, and Dick Pics n Fuck Vids.  Using Adult Friend Finder, some of Celeste's past swinger stories, so many podcasts to choose from, and we answer a question put out by Lexi Sylver on her Instagram page: "If you could change one thing about the way people think about sex, what would it be?   "Keep It Juicy"  

This BDSM episode is a perfect primer for those dipping their toes into the kinky pool for the first time or for experienced kinksters looking for a little renewed inspiration. Ken & Sunny’s approach to kink is quite different than what’s typically depicted. Nearly every stereotype, archetype, and “rule” you thought applied to BDSM is about to be broken. In this episode Sunny talks with Lexi Sylver of the Seek, Discover, Create podcast about all things BDSM. They cover: the roles of a dominant and submissive, how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kinks are, tips for playing safely, the importance of consent and safe words, what “aftercare” is really all about and how it works, the potentially therapeutic benefits of BDSM play, and more. Get ready for a new spin on a popular subject! ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 80 Links Seek Discover Create Podcast with Lexi Sylver https://bit.ly/SDCRadioLexi Lexi Sylver Website https://lexisylver.com Lexi Sylver Facebook https://www.facebook.com/getlexual Lexi Sylver Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lexisylver/ Lexi Sylver Twitter https://twitter.com/lexisylver Lexi Sylver Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSylverScreen SDC.com Twitter https://twitter.com/sdcmedia SDC.com https://www.sdc.com/ Ken & Sunny on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/600#.XIKDmohKg2w Ken & Sunny on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/sex-out-loud/e/49169668?autoplay=true Ken & Sunny on The Sex with Emily podcast http://sexwithemily.com/kinky-fun-sex/ Ken & Sunny on A Touch Of Flavor https://atouchofflavor.com/how-to-execute-an-interrogation-scene-with-sunny-megatron-and-ken/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Clown Sex episode https://nerdist.com/2013/05/sex-nerd-sandra-92-clown-sex/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Golden Showers episode https://archive.nerdist.com/sex-nerd-sandra-146-golden-showers-with-ken-melvoin-berg-sunny-megatron-and-damon-holzum/ Yes/No/Maybe & ROUGH BS Scene Negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 80 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Are you curious about what it’s like to be part of an orgy? Are there rules to being in an orgy situation, or is group sex just a free-for-all? And with so many moving parts, how do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an amazing experience? The incredible Lexi Sylver asked us these questions (and more!) after inviting us onto her show, SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver on The Sexy Lifestyle Network. We get personal with you about our own orgy experiences, provide practical tips and advice for communicating with your partner and group, share how to break the ice and how to make sure everything is running smoothly. We also explore how to ensure you’re practicing safe sex so that everyone can have a consensually non-monogamous good time. © SU Lifestyle Media Inc. SHOW PAGE: www.sexuninterrupted.com/radioshow SUPPORT www.patreon.com/sexuninterrupted Website: www.sexuninterrupted.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex.uninterrupted/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgcQBhb89EGqjcEMR_pmo0w

Are you curious about what it’s like to be part of an orgy? Are there rules to being in an orgy situation, or is group sex just a free-for-all? And with so many moving parts, how do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an amazing experience? The incredible Lexi Sylver asked us these questions (and more!) after inviting us onto her show, SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver on The Sexy Lifestyle Network. We get personal with you about our own orgy experiences, provide practical tips and advice for communicating with your partner and group, share how to break the ice and how to make sure everything is running smoothly. We also explore how to ensure you’re practicing safe sex so that everyone can have a consensually non-monogamous good time. © SU Lifestyle Media Inc. SHOW PAGE: www.sexuninterrupted.com/radioshow SUPPORT www.patreon.com/sexuninterrupted Website: www.sexuninterrupted.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sxuninterrupted Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex.uninterrupted/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexuninterrupted/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgcQBhb89EGqjcEMR_pmo0w

Are you curious about what it’s like to be part of an orgy? Are there rules to being in an orgy situation, or is group sex just a free-for-all? And with so many moving parts, how do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an amazing experience? If you want to explore all of these in-depth questions about group sex, and turn your fantasy to reality on your own or with your partner, join host Lexi Sylver with Taara Rose and James, hosts of Sex Uninterrupted podcast on The Sexy Lifestyle Network. We’re going to get personal with you about our own orgy experiences, give you practical tips and advice for communicating with your partner and your sex group, how to break the ice, and how to make sure everything is running smoothly. We’ll also explore how to make sure you’re all practicing safe sex, so that everyone can have a consensually non-monogamous good time.

The era of shameless sex has arrived, and it's all about shattering social stigmas and exploring taboos. If you've been seeking a wealth of reliable information about sex, pleasure, relationships and health, our two major platforms SDC.com and The Sexy Lifestyle Network are becoming the new leaders to change the way adults think and learn about sex. Together, we're bringing you podcasts, videos and articles that cover every possible topic in the ever-changing sexual landscape, sprinkled with some exciting personal real-life experiences of our own. In this special episode celebrating the second anniversary of Carol and David's The Sexy Lifestyle podcast, Lexi Sylver and Jean from SDC.com join a round table discussion about how we have joined forces with sex, relationship and health experts around the world. We explore important subjects like threesomes, the erotic lifestyle, bisexuality, and more taboos in this one-of-a-kind episode to honor the diversity and importance of sexuality.

Are you looking for straightforward information about sex, sexuality, sexual pleasure and relationships? Perhaps you're curious about alternative lifestyles, squirting, threesomes and more? Well, you've come to the right place because that's what TheSexyLifestyle.com and SDC.com are all about. When it comes to our own sexuality, most of us don't know what we don't know! And… it's not easy to find out real answers because sex education for adults, is practically non-existent. All that's about to change as we launch two major platforms that offer diverse and entertaining information about everything we need to know about sex and more. Join us for a special second anniversary episode, in a round table discussion lead by Carol and Lexi, all about how we are creating a sexual evolution together - with our sexpert speakers, seasoned bloggers, health-care practitioners, award winning authors and other multimedia content... And whole lot of personal experiences.

Are you looking for straightforward information about sex, sexuality, sexual pleasure and relationships? Perhaps you’re curious about alternative lifestyles, squirting, threesomes and more? Well, you’ve come to the right place because that’s what TheSexyLifestyle.com and SDC.com are all about. When it comes to our own sexuality, most of us don’t know what we don’t know! And… it’s not easy to find out real answers because sex education for adults, is practically non-existent. All that’s about to change as we launch two major platforms that offer diverse and entertaining information about everything we need to know about sex and more. Join us for a special second anniversary episode, in a round table discussion lead by Carol and Lexi, all about how we are creating a sexual evolution together - with our sexpert speakers, seasoned bloggers, health-care practitioners, award winning authors and other multimedia content... And whole lot of personal experiences.

Do you sometimes wish you could fire up your sex life, light a torch and step into the flame of passion with your significant other? and having your significant other ignite the flame with you? Are you afraid to have open conversations with your partner for fear of spooking them with your true sexual desires? You don’t have to be scared any longer as we are going to let the ghosts out of the closet. Join me with guest Lexi Sylver and Dr. Michael Berry as we have an intimate conversation about Life, Love and Lust while exploring sexual appetites and being on the same page with your partner. As well as, a special segment with Dr. Philip Morphew ‘Wise Whispers’ from down under.

Are you uncomfortable talking about sex -- even to your partner? So many of us are afraid or worried about being judged when it comes to talking about sex, because of the lingering taboos surrounding sex. If you're curious about the most common sexual taboos and how to get over them, join us with Lexi Sylver, host of SDC's Seek, Discover, Create show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network as we discuss the importance of opening up dialogue about sex to help create stronger and more connected relationships with yourself and your partners.

Are you uncomfortable talking about sex -- even to your partner? So many of us are afraid or worried about being judged when it comes to talking about sex, because of the lingering taboos surrounding sex. If you’re curious about the most common sexual taboos and how to get over them, join us with Lexi Sylver, host of SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network as we discuss the importance of opening up dialogue about sex to help create stronger and more connected relationships with yourself and your partners.

Ever wonder what it's like to hang naked in the naked city, Cap D'Agde, in the south of France? We are here with the sexy-fun SDC group as we broadcast from Hotel Le Jardin d'Eden during a full hotel takeover by SDC members – all open-minded couples from various countries around the world. Sexy, sensual, liberating – that's how we describe our experience at Cap d'Agde with so many amazing couples. And we get to share with all of you! Join us as we talk with the SDC hosts, Georgy and Lexi Sylver.

Ever wonder what it’s like to hang naked in the naked city, Cap D’Agde, in the south of France? We are here with the sexy-fun SDC group as we broadcast from Hotel Le Jardin d’Eden during a full hotel takeover by SDC members – all open-minded couples from various countries around the world. Sexy, sensual, liberating – that’s how we describe our experience at Cap d’Agde with so many amazing couples. And we get to share with all of you! Join us as we talk with the SDC hosts, Georgy and Lexi Sylver.