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Alexis Proctor was a sheltered church kid growing up. Like most teenagers, she wanted to explore and date but didn't get to do so until her early 20's. Because Alexis grew up so naive to the world, she had to learn the way men operate on her own as well a

Alexis Proctor


    • Mar 25, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 54 EPISODES


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    WHY MEN LACK EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 48:15


    In this episode I sit down with my friend Seve and he does a deep dive on how men think and why most of them lack originality and emotional intelligence when pursuing women. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappen

    DO IT FOR THE PLOT

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 55:45


    We're back baby! In this episode I explore my sexuality with two of my gay best friends. They share some of their sexual experiences and shed some light on the LGBTQ community. From shooting your shot to getting bent over at a frat house, this is an episode you don't want to miss out on. Welcome Back. @thesethingshappenpodcast @alexisnicholeproctor

    WHAT I DID AFTER A BREAKUP w Tye

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 54:48


    This week I interviewed my friend Tye, we talked about how he learned how to be himself again after being in a relationship for almost a decade. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor @tyecurlytopfade

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    THE STALLION COMPLEX & PENIS PREFERENCES [VIDEO]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2024 34:02


    In this week's episode I sit and talk with my two friends Paige and Biby and discus what it's like dating and hooking up as a taller women. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor

    NEW YEAR, NEW THINGS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 25:48


    In this week's episode Nile and I talk about some resolutions and reflect on how much I've grown since last year. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @nilestyle

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    ARE YOU HORNY?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 39:30


    This week is very interesting, I let a dear friend interview me and we dive deep. The topics ranged from how horny I've been to men today and their insecurities. Things really got interesting and I learned some things about myself. I hope you enjoy it. These Things Happen. @thesethingshappen @alexisnicholeproctor

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    SHARING MORE OF MY FIRSTS [VIDEO]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 37:49


    In this week's episode I share more "firsts" I have experienced besides having sex. The topics range from going through a dry spell to other outrageous theories that I discus with Nile. These Things Happen

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    MY DEEPEST FEAR

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 18:52


    Now that I boink, a few concerns have came across my mind recently... in this weeks episode Nile talks me off the ledge. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @nilestyle

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    THE DEATH OF ONLINE DATING

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 37:40


    This week enjoy an episode the boys and I recorded back in August, we discuss how online dating has died and what's its like being the "ugly friend". @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle @thesethingshappenpodcast

    The Harsh Truths of Hookup Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 29:18


    In this week's episode Adrian and I grab drinks and discuss the realities of having options, being an option, and more during a hoe phase. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian

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    THE END OF AN ERA (my sexsode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 13:12


    The episode you've all been waiting for. I finally had sex, in this week's episode I dive into my Big Bang and where the podcast is going from here. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

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    Lex, In Real Life & Dirty Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 26:18


    Season 4 is hot off the press. Dive in as I exploit my dating and sex life. A new era is here, These Things Happen... @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @thesethingshappenpodcast

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    Ep. 41 Applying Pressure

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 39:30


    This week the boys and I discuss some casual dating topics as “applying pressure”.

    Ep. 40 Dating With Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 33:55


    This week the boys and I sit down and discuss some recent Hinge flings and people dating with children. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

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    Ep. 39 The Consequences of a High Sex Drive

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 29:21


    This week the boys and I discuss the result of having a high sex drive along with having sex with the same people. Nile and I also recap our girls day. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

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    Ep. 38 First Impressions and Trauma Dumping [VIDEO]

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 37:34


    This week I asked the boys what they first thought of me, we then discuss a number of topics that led to trauma dumping. These Things Happen.

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    Ep. 37 I Showed the Boys my Dating Notes [VIDEO]

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2023 35:44


    In light of my dates I went on towards the end of the year, I decided to take some notes on things I want to try to remember for the nest go around. I review my thoughts with Adrian and Nile and they shed some light on what they think. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

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    Ep. 36 Define Baecation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2023 38:48


    This week Nile finally decided to join us and share some insight on what a baecation is and gave us a full breakdown on what happens from start to finish. I guess we won't dock his pay at all. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrain @nilestyle

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    Ep. 35 Let's Build That Roster

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 40:00


    We're back!!! In this week's episode Adrian and I recap what we've been up to the past few weeks. Also Adrian talks breaks down how to build a roster.

    Ep. 34 Are Men Living up to their Full Potential

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 28:45


    This week I sit with just Adrian and we discuss the topic of men living up to their full potential when dating. I do some more reflecting and begin to recap the sabbatical.

    Ep. 33 Let's Play A Game w/ Alessa

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 40:53


    This week you get to listen to the last episode I recorded in 2022 with the boys and Alessa. We start the episode off by playing a game which then leads into some topics to wrap up the year. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

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    Ep. 32 The Show Must Go On

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2023 37:07


    New Year, New Content! This week Adrian is finally back and we catch up and discuss the coming off of my sabbatical, dating, and I even rap for you guys. A great episode to kick off the new year! @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

    Ep. 31 Slutting out 101 w/ Steph & Star

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 44:06


    She's baaaaackkk! This week, after another sad period I have come out of the trenches to bring you all more content. I am finally over past situations and I'm ready to get back out with the advice that was given to me in this episode.

    Ep. 30 Being on a Sabbatical and Building Up Your Roster

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 33:48


    This week I am honestly still pretty sad about my short but very telling dating life. Nile and Arielle shed some light on how I can feel better.

    Ep. 29 My Vagina Sucks (a hoetation update)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 31:45


    This week, I give you an update on the guys I've recently hung out with and what resulted in my decisions. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

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    Ep. 28 Are Women Being Honest With their Friends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2022 39:06


    This week Alessa is back and we dive into the topic of women being honest with their friends vs. the way men are honest with their friends. I also set goals for my hoetation. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @nilestyle @alessalea

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    Ep. 27 My Hoetation, continued... [VIDEO]

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 22:23


    Hi guys this week I am back with a solo episode. I give you an update on what has happened with me these past two weeks and how I am learning not to be as naive as I used to be. I ran into BMW daddy, went on a date, made out with a 40 year old and squirted for the first time all in one week. These Things Happen. @Alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

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    Ep. 26 It is What it is w/ Alessa Lea

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2022 41:41


    This week the boys are back and we have a special guest, my friend Alessa. I give you all an update on how my life has been and you hear an update on my "hoetation" that was short lived. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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    Ep. 25 As a Black Woman w/ Arielle

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 50:24


    Your favorite is back! Arielle! This week Arielle came back to give us an update on her current dating life and Adrian has some questions for her that hit deep. Check it out only on @TheseThingsHappen

    Ep. 24 Lex has a Hoetation! Updates!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2022 17:11


    This week I'm back giving you all a solo update on what's been going on with me. I kinda have a dating life at the moment which is nice and I had to share with everyone on my own before we bring in reinforcements to analyze.

    Ep. 23 Adrian Humbles My Friend Group

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2022 36:08


    I catch back up with Adrian and Nile, and we also make a few announcements. @alexisnicholeproctor @podcastadrian @nilestyle

    Ep. 22 Your Moon Matters w/ Tiara Alicea

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 51:20


    Why are Gemini's crazy? Are Leo's really that self centered? Are all Aquarius men trash? Questions I always had, but could never understand the answers to them. This week I got to interview an old friend Tiara. Tiara is a superstar at understanding zodiacs, birth charts, and everything beyond. This week, she was able to give us insight on how zodiac signs affect our daily lives and relationships. An episode you don't want to miss. Be sure to check out her podcast, The Wonderverse with Tiara Alicea now on Spotify podcasts. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 21 Stone Cold Returns w/ The Boys & Britt

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 44:51


    In this week's episode Lex interviews her friend Britt and gives everyone an update on her dating life. Britt shares her perspective on Lex's current dating situation. The boys are also here to shed some light on the conversation. These Things Happen. @thesethingshappen @alexisnicholeproctor

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    Ep. 20 A Breakthrough was Made w/ The Boys

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 73:04


    This episode took a very interesting turn with Adrian and Nile. We dive into why I don't seem to have any second dates. Live on the air we contact a guy who I most recently went out with and ask him what happened and why he didn't follow up. You also hear about what happened to the regular I went on a date with; and how yet again, These, Things, continue to Happen to me.

    Ep. 19 Reports w/ Adrian & Nile

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 48:17


    Adrian and Nile are back to shed light on my tragic dating life. Make sure your notification buttons are on. @thesethingshappenpodcast

    Ep. 18 Are You Dickmatized?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 28:20


    Arielle is back!!! This week Arielle shares that her hoe life has slowed down, she elaborates on sober sex versus drunk sex; and also discusses what's sex like when it's with someone you like. Tune in only on These Thing Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappenpodcast

    Ep. 17 I Got Caught Up, Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 33:55


    Adrian and Nile dig deeper into what was talked about in part 1. Follow us on IG: @thesethingshappenpodcast @liesthatsoundgood

    Ep. 16 I Got Caught Up, Pt. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 30:44


    Season 2 is live baby! This past month alone, I've gone though some job changes and have been settling into my new schedule. Trying to keep to myself and focus on me was always the goal but men find their way back in my life someway or another, listen in as I talk to everyone's favorites, Adrian and Nile as we kick off season 2.

    Ep. 15 A Born Again Virgin and Eating Ass w/ Gabby & The Boys

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 52:52


    This week I talked to my new friend Gabby. Gabby is a born again virgin and has a very interesting outlook on life and how she plans on waiting for before she decides to take the next step with someone. Adrian and Nile are also back and we share some absurd stories somehow leading into the time I got my ass eaten out.

    Ep. 14 How Will I Know? w/ Tori and Jay

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 37:09


    This week I got to interview my fitness trainer Tori and her boyfriend Jay. Tori is only 20 an Jay is 22, they met in college and have developed a serious relationship. Although they are so young, they are pretty mature for their age and how they feel for each other. But before they were able to get to this point in their relationship lots of games were played and feelings were hurt. Listen in as I get to interview these two love birds on how they were able to develop such a beautiful relationship. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 13 He Slapped His Dick on My Pu**y w/ Adrian and Nile

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 67:23


    Adrian and Nile are back by popular demand. Tune in and listen as I get to share their premier episode of their podcast. Be on the look out for, "Lies That Sound Good". Another collab you won't want to miss. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 12 My Nudes are Fire B*tch!! w/ Anastaza

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 53:09


    I got to interview an old friend from high school, Anastaza. A few weeks ago Anastaza reached out to me expressing her love for the show and I had to get her on an episode as fast as I could. This week we're talking nudes baby; positions, funny stories, and body positivity! Stazz is literally a "nude expert", she previously had her own lingerie collection and she was able to shed light on body positivity and everything else you could think of! This is an episode you don't want to miss. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 11 IGHT, IMMA HEAD OUT w/ my Sister

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 42:52


    We are currently living in a time where our job force is not set up for our generation to succeed. People are living paycheck to paycheck and the "American Dream" does not look like what it used to; because of this reason, our generation will walk out on a job to care for their quality of life more. This week I got to interview my sister, Brittany! After multiple career changes, Brittany was able to find her passion and now runs a successful travel agency and real estate team. Listen in as I share my short experience in working in corporate to a strip club, and how Britt was able to give us some insight on finding your passion and creating a good work ethic. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 10 The Rebuttal w Adrian and Nile

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 61:25


    Two weeks ago, you heard Blake, my first guy on the show! Blake did such a good job, that he inspired more men to come on my podcast and share their truth and give us some more insight on the way men operate. Adrian and Nile have a podcast of their own, be sure to check out, "Coach, He's Trash". --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep 9. If He Wanted To, He Would w/ Blake The Brain

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 52:50


    This week I got the chance to interview my first guy on the show, Blake! Blake is an entrepreneur, he runs a successful video and photography business; along with being an event host, having a podcast of his own; and a number of other projects he works on for himself and the community. A hard pill I am finally swallowing is figuring out how to read guys so my time isn't wasted and my feelings aren't hurt. Blake helps me navigate and understand some things from a male perspective. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    He Came in my Mouth, Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 54:22


    Ghosting, a cruel concept I'm still trying to wrap my head around. When I first started dating, I thought ghosting was when people would casually text and then one would just stop talking to the other. I had no idea people could exchange body fluids and never speak to someone again. Listen in on as I share my first and most recent ghosting experiences and how my Wonder Woman of a friend De'Shjuan helps me though the process. These Things Happen. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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    He's Married?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2022 34:09


    The most bizarre thing happened to me, I had to share on how I made this a positive outcome. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep 6. It's My Orgasm, and I Want It Now!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2022 43:11


    Still exploring my sexuality and orgasms, I thought it would be a great idea to get another opinion from a woman. This week I brought on my fitness trainer, Tori! Tori, is only 20 and has so much going for herself; she's a full time student, trainer, and she holds herself to a high standard. I asked Tori on her thoughts and experiences on orgasms, and learned why I wasn't able to do it on my own. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep 5. Never Have I Ever... Orgasmed

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 42:03


    You'd know if you had one... Is what I'm constantly told when I ask my female friends about orgasms. Listen in this week as I interview everyones favorite, Arielle!! Arielle came back by popular demand, and shared some insight on how she became comfortable with her sexuality and made sure she was going to get "hers" when doing the deed. She also shares lots of tips for the guys on they can get their lady to that point as well. This is an episode you don't want to miss. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep 4. Define Pussy Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2021 46:11


    After surviving the flu and getting though the holiday season, your girl is back and better than eva. Being sick the past few weeks really messed up my schedule, but now I'm feeling good ready to post bi-weekly regularly for you all. This week listen in as I talk to a bar regular turned friend, Mibi. She's bilingual, has multiple businesses, and knows her worth in the world. Still being an insecure mess, Mibi talks me through what I can do and change about myself to become more confident like her. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 3 Understanding the Assignment

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 62:41


    I had to go ghost for spooky season! I've realized that I'm in my own personal scary movie... "Hooking Up". Something I'm trying to grasp, but still have a hard time doing. I've been trying to Understand the Assignment, if you will. Listen in as I interview, my dear friend Arielle, who gives me insight on how someone like me could hook up casually. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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