Podcasts about Emotional intelligence

Capability to understand one's emotions and use it to guide thinking and behavior

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    Reinventing processes for meaningful adoption: With Jimit Arora

    Track Changes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 36:08


    This week on Catalyst, Tammy chats with Jimit Arora, the CEO of Everest Group. Jimit is a leader who deeply understands the challenges that organizations face and how they can move forward with confidence. Jimit and Tammy discuss the importance of a growth mindset and how companies can meaningfully adopt AI. According to Jimit the key to meaningful adoption is for companies to be aware of PTSD - process debt, tech debt, skills debt and data debt. Jimit also shares what he thinks will be the biggest trends to affect global services in the next year. Please note that the views expressed may not necessarily be those of NTT DATALinks: Jimit Arora LinkedInEverest Group Learn more about Launch by NTT DATASee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
    Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Missing Skill in Modern Fatherhood featuring Mick Hunt

    The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 40:37


    What does real leadership actually look like at home—not just at work? In this episode, I sit down with Mick Hunt, leadership and culture coach, to break down what emotional intelligence, boundaries, and masculine presence really mean for husbands and fathers.   Mick shares powerful insights on why being the "nice guy" often kills polarity and attraction in marriage, how emotional intelligence is a strength (not a soft skill), and why men need intentional transition rituals to show up fully present for their families. We talk about journaling as a daily leadership practice, setting boundaries without control, and how a father's emotional presence shapes the safety and confidence of his kids. This conversation is practical, grounded, and deeply relevant for men who want to lead with backbone and heart.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Introducing Mick Hunt and why leadership matters most at home [2:06] Morgan Freeman narrating Mick's videos and the unexpected connection [2:27] Why emotional intelligence is a critical leadership skill [3:01] How the "nice guy" approach kills polarity and attraction [3:29] Daily practices Mick uses to stay emotionally present with his kids [4:09] The importance of transition rituals between work and home [6:04] Mick's marriage story and reconnecting after decades of friendship [9:07] Emotional intelligence as awareness, regulation, and response [11:01] Why empathy doesn't mean losing authority as a husband or father [14:05] Self-awareness as the foundation of emotional leadership [15:18] Growing up with an emotionally unavailable father [17:13] Mick's simple daily journaling practice [19:17] Why writing trains the brain to separate fact from emotion [21:07] Boundaries as love—not control—in marriage and family [23:54] Defining boundaries through core values [24:16] Protecting "me time" to show up better for others [27:33] Why skipping transition time hurts marriages and families [28:38] A real story of ignoring boundaries and paying the emotional cost [31:27] Masculine presence and modeling healthy marriage for kids [33:11] Being the emotional anchor of the household [35:30] Teaching daughters confidence and sons how to care [38:44] Where to find Mick and his leadership resources     Five Key Takeaways: Emotional intelligence is a leadership advantage, not a weakness, for men at home and at work.  Being agreeable isn't the same as being emotionally present, and "nice guy" energy often kills attraction.  Transition rituals protect your family from your stress, allowing you to show up grounded and present.  Boundaries rooted in core values create safety, not distance, in marriage and parenting.  A father's emotional presence shapes confidence, safety, and leadership in his children.      Links & Resources Mick Hunt Official Website: https://mickhuntofficial.com Instagram: @mickunplugged LinkedIn: @mickhunt Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1428     Closing Remark If this episode challenged how you think about leadership, boundaries, or emotional presence at home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. The most important leadership role you'll ever have is the one your family experiences every day.

    Becoming Your Highest Self
    If You're Struggling With Your Circumstances..

    Becoming Your Highest Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 29:55


    Hey friends!Now that the podcast is available via Video on Youtube, we are "slingshotting" by pulling back and revisiting some of my beginning concepts in order to fly forward and learn new things! In this episode I am refreshing your memory on "the model" which is abbreviated as CTFAR!. If you want the visual, be sure to watch on Youtube!Support the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

    Optimal Relationships Daily
    2874: [Part 2] 3 Steps to Conquering "People Problems" by Seth Sinclair on Interpersonal Growth

    Optimal Relationships Daily

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 6:45


    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2874: Seth Sinclair offers a powerful framework for navigating high-stakes interpersonal challenges by helping you recognize emotional hijacks, stay grounded in tough conversations, and encourage constructive responses from others. Mastering these steps builds emotional intelligence, strengthens professional relationships, and helps you respond rather than react when the pressure is on. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://michaelmehlberg.com/blog/2016/3/2/3-steps-to-conquering-people-problems Quotes to ponder: "When a people problem sneaks up on us, we aren't in our best position to be successful." "Skillfully handling a problem or difficult conversation doesn't mean giving in or suppressing your emotions." "Ask yourself, is there potential for disagreement, are there important stakes, and are emotions involved?" Episode references: Emotional Intelligence: https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/dp/055338371X

    The Golden Rule Revolution with Lucas Mack
    #325 Business Isn't Scientific—It's Creative: Storytelling + Strategy with Jeremy Nulik

    The Golden Rule Revolution with Lucas Mack

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 52:16


    n this powerful episode, Lucas Mack sits down with Jeremy Nulick, founder of Boulder Futures, to explore what most leaders avoid talking about: emotion, identity, and the deeper human story behind business strategy.Jeremy shares his journey from journalism to strategic foresight, and challenges the modern assumption that business is purely analytical. Instead, he argues that business is a creative act—built on narrative, meaning, imagination, and the courage to make decisions that shape the future.Together, Lucas and Jeremy dive into:Why storytelling isn't just marketing — it's strategyThe hidden struggle many executives face: emotional suppressionWhat happens when your identity becomes your titleTrauma, recovery, and the way pain can distort visionHow hope is a discipline that leaders must reclaimWhy vulnerability and human connection are essential for building lasting organizationsThis conversation is for founders, executives, creatives, and anyone who feels the tension between success on paper and emptiness inside.Because the future won't be built by people who numb themselves.It will be built by people who are brave enough to be human.

    Strictly Anonymous
    1339 - Emotional Intelligence in the Bedroom w/Heather Shannon

    Strictly Anonymous

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2026 61:48


    Heather Shannon called in to talk all about emotional intelligence in the bedroom. Tune in to hear her explain all the details, including how emotional intelligence directly impacts desire, why you don't get emotional security without taking risks, how men and women experience emotions very differently. the common emotional patterns that can ruin things in the bedroom, the five emotional patterns that negatively affect libido, why holding space for someone else's emotions matters even if you don't agree with them, and how and why Heather decided to become a sex therapist, plus a whole lot more. You can find more about her here: https://heathershannon.co GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of CINNAMON plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Restorative Justice Meets Mindfulness: National Center for Restorative Justice

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2026 29:38 Transcription Available


    What if discipline wasn't something we do to students, but a skill we help them build? We sit down with Nicholas Bradford, founder of the National Center for Restorative Justice, to unpack how mindfulness and restorative practices turn everyday conflicts into opportunities for growth, dignity, and repair. Visit his website: National Center For Restorative JusticeFrom pre-K name calling to serious incidents that rock a school community, we break down a concrete sequence for accountability without shaming kids or abandoning boundaries.We begin by reframing conflict as the gap between expectation and reality—a lens that invites mindfulness into the heat of the moment. Nicholas explains why staying longer with “what happened?” helps students recognize impact, and how “what were you trying to accomplish?” reveals legitimate needs that can be validated without excusing harm. Then we move to “who was impacted and how?” to build empathy, status, and ownership. For significant harms, we explore active, meaningful repair—community work, mentoring, and contributions that let students rebuild trust and rewrite their self-story from problem to participant.Skeptical about restorative justice? Nicholas shows why experience beats data. He walks through reentry circles for suspended or expelled students—spaces where youth share what they did, how they're thinking differently, and what amends they're committed to. Parents, teachers, and peers often leave transformed, seeing justice as public love: truth, boundaries, and compassion working together. We also talk implementation: why adults go first, how leaders model circles with staff, and what training pathways—three-day intensives, facilitation add-ons, and graduate-credit courses—help teams build durable systems.If you care about school culture, educator wellbeing, youth agency, and practical tools that work under pressure, this conversation offers clear language and steps you can use tomorrow. Listen, share with a colleague, and tell us: where do expectations get in your way, and what repair would move your community forward? Subscribe, leave a review, and pass it on to someone who needs a more human way to handle conflict.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    Sexy Biz Babe
    Play Parties Aren't What You Think: Dating Lessons & Emotional Intelligence with Stefanie with Broke Girl Therapy

    Sexy Biz Babe

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2026 69:56


    Play Parties Aren't What You Think: Dating Lessons & Emotional Intelligence with Stefanie with Broke girl therapy In this raw, honest conversation with Stephanie from Broke Girl Therapy, we unpack dating myths we once believed, toxic relationships we stayed in far too long, and the uncomfortable truth behind why so many women keep ending up in situationships.We talk about her first play party experience, sexual exploration, emotional safety, and the difference between being “chill” and emotionally avoidant. Plus, the green flags that actually led her to her fiancé and the one thing women need to stop doing immediately if they want a real partner.This episode is for the woman who's tired of doing everything “right” and still not getting the love she wants.Follow me on Instagram Instagram.com/sexybizbabepodcast and tag and share your favorite clips or episodes! Wanna improve your confidence, sex life, break out of shame or learn how to be ENM or improve your relationship in monogamy, hit me up I take on the best clients that are ready to be challenged and looking to change! Hit me up on instagram.com/sexybizbabe

    Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques.
    256. Be Kind: The Most Overlooked Driver of Success

    Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 22:03 Transcription Available


    Why being kind is the best investment.Can kindness be a company's competitive advantage? Bonnie Hayden Cheng says yes — and she's got a business metric to prove it: return on kindness.Cheng is a professor of management at City University of Hong Kong who researches how workplace behaviors affect interpersonal dynamics and well-being. In her book, The Return on Kindness, she explores how organizations that foster a culture of kindness see a measurable ROK — one marked by a more committed, more productive, and less expensive workforce. “Organizations that have this kind of culture around acts of civic virtue, helping, or showing support for people, those end up having employees that want to stay, are less likely to call in sick, are more committed, their performance goes up,” she says. “There's also benefits for the company in terms of higher productivity and efficiency, and even lower costs.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Cheng and host Matt Abrahams explore how to build cultures of kindness — from Cheng's RISE framework for kind leadership to why candor and compassion go hand-in-hand. Whether you're leading a team or simply trying to show up better for your colleagues, Cheng offers a compelling case for measuring what really matters: the return on kindness.Episode Reference Links:Bonnie Hayden ChengBonnie's Book:  The Return on KindnessEp.93 All the Feels: The Personal and Professional Power of Emotional Awareness Ep.132 Lean Into Failure: How to Make Mistakes That WorkConnect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (00:50) - What Is Kind Leadership? (02:52) - The RISE Framework (05:27) - Everyone Can Be a Leader (06:46) - Kindness vs. Niceness (09:15) - Kindness and Candor (10:47) - Communicating Kindness (12:46) - The Power of Tone and Pause (15:03) - Building a Culture of Kindness (17:15) - Protecting Kindness in Organizations (18:33) - The Final Three Questions (21:14) - Conclusion

    Let's Talk About It with Lori Streator
    5 Soft Skills That Build Confidence, Emotional Intelligence, and Leadership Skills

    Let's Talk About It with Lori Streator

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 18:11


    Confidence isn't about having it all together - it's about practicing soft skills consistently. In this episode, I'm giving you five people skills that shape how confident, capable, and respected you feel in both your personal and professional life. These aren't technical skills, they're emotional intelligence habits that can help you stay calm, communicate clearly, and lead better. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, unsure of yourself, or anxious in conversations or leadership moments, this episode gives you practical tools you can start using immediately. In this episode, you'll learn: Why clear, direct communication builds confidence How to regulate your nervous system during stress instead of reacting emotionally Why calm is one of the most powerful leadership traits There are simple phrases, mindset shifts, and communication techniques that you can practice to feel more grounded, respected, and capable.   FOLLOW host: @loristreator my therapy practice: @solairetherapy   Support the podcast with these 2 things: Share it with one friend who needs to hear this Leave a 5-star review and tell me your biggest aha-moment from today Your support helps more women find their way here.

    Tangible: Theology Learned and Lived
    Emotional Intelligence

    Tangible: Theology Learned and Lived

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 35:54


    How does emotional intelligence interact with faith, intellect, and the ability to lead? Professors of practical theology, Dr. Mark Rockenbach and Dr. Rick Marrs, discuss the ways social awareness and relational skills impact the vocation of church workers. Join us in a conversation that explores stewardship of the God-given gift of emotions.

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Reclaiming Capability: Why Mindfulness Works When Life Feels Too Much

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 7:29 Transcription Available


    When life speeds up and practice slips, it's easy to believe mindfulness stopped working or was never yours to begin with. We challenge that story by centering a quieter truth: capability. Not a slogan, not toxic positivity—just the lived sense that you can meet what's here, one breath at a time, without needing to fix or flee. From the first moments of reflection to the closing invitation, we explore how a small reminder can create a big shift.We trace the arc from losing momentum to remembering benefits, then move into the territory people avoid: sensations that feel too intense, emotions that seem bottomless, even joy that feels unsafe. Instead of pushing through, we show how to widen experience with care and keep within a workable window. Along the way, we put courage beside capability and share why beginners and seasoned meditators alike need both. If you've ever said “my mind is a race car” or “I have too much baggage,” you'll hear practical ways to test those predictions with gentle, doable actions that rebuild trust.We also touch on the neuroscience of agency and why feeling able changes how the brain appraises threat and opens the door to compassion. When experience isn't an enemy, the heart can respond rather than defend. You'll leave with a simple cue—I can meet this—that works in daily life and formal practice, from traffic stress to tender grief. Try the reminder, notice the small wins, and let capability become a friend you can reach for anytime.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with someone who needs the reminder, and leave a quick review telling us what moment you're ready to meet next.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    Dharmapunx NYC
    The Smart Heart: Fascinating New Theoretical Insights Into Emotional Intelligence

    Dharmapunx NYC

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 58:22


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    Many Minds
    From the archive: How should we think about IQ?

    Many Minds

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 93:45


    Hello friends, and happy new year! We're gearing up for a new run of episodes starting later in January. In the meanwhile, enjoy this pick from our archives. ------ [originally aired October 16, 2024] IQ is, to say the least, a fraught concept. Psychologists have studied IQ—or g for "general cognitive ability"—maybe more than any other psychological construct. And they've learned some interesting things about it. That it's remarkably stable over the lifespan. That it really is general: people who ace one test of intellectual ability tend to ace others. And that IQs have risen markedly over the last century. At the same time, IQ seems to be met with increasing squeamishness, if not outright disdain, in many circles. It's often seen as crude, misguided, reductive—maybe a whole lot worse. There's no question, after all, that IQ has been misused—that it still gets misused—for all kinds of racist, classist, colonialist purposes. As if this wasn't all thorny enough, the study of IQ is also intimately bound up with the study of genetics. It's right there in the roiling center of debates about how genes and environment make us who we are. So, yeah, what to make of all this? How should we be thinking about IQ? My guest today is Dr. Eric Turkheimer. Eric is Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia. He has studied intelligence and many other complex human traits for decades, and he's a major figure in the field of "behavior genetics." Eric also has a new book out this fall—which I highly recommend—titled Understanding the Nature-Nurture Debate. In a field that has sometimes been accused of rampant optimism, Eric is—as you'll hear—a bit more measured. In this conversation, Eric and I focus on intelligence and its putatively genetic basis. We talk about why Eric doubts that we are anywhere close to an account of the biology of IQ. We discuss what makes intelligence such a formidable construct in psychology and why essentialist understandings of it are so intuitive. We talk about Francis Galton and the long shadow he's cast on the study of human behavior. We discuss the classic era of Twin Studies—an era in which researchers started to derive quantitative estimates of the heritability of complex traits. We talk about how the main takeaway from that era was that genes are quite important indeed, and about how more recent genetic techniques suggest that takeaway may have been a bit simplistic. Along the way, Eric and I touch on spelling ability, child prodigies, the chemical composition of money, the shared quirks of twins reared apart, the Flynn Effect, the Reverse Flynn Effect, birth order, the genetics of height, the problem of missing heritability, whether we should still be using IQ scores, and the role of behavior genetics in the broader social sciences.  Alright folks, lots in here—let's just get to it. On to my conversation with Dr. Eric Turkheimer. Enjoy!   A transcript of this episode is available here.   Notes and links 3:30 – The 1994 book The Bell Curve, by Richard Herrnstein a Charles Murray, dealt largely with the putative social implications of IQ research. It was extremely controversial and widely discussed. For an overview of the book and controversy, see the Wikipedia article here. 6:00 – For discussion of the "all parents are environmentalists…" quip, see here. 12:00 – The notion of "multiple intelligences" was popularized by the psychologist Howard Gardner—see here for an overview. See here for an attempt to test the claims of the "multiple intelligences" framework using some of the methods of traditional IQ research. For work on EQ (or Emotional Intelligence) see here. 19:00 – Dr. Turkheimer has also laid out his spelling test analogy in a Substack post. 22:30 – Dr. Turkheimer's 1998 paper, "Heritability and Biological Explanation." 24:30 – For an in-passing treatment of the processing efficiency idea, see p. 195 of Daniel Nettle's book Personality. See also Richard Haier's book, The Neuroscience of Intelligence. 26:00 – The original study on the relationship between pupil size and intelligence. A more recent study that fails to replicate those findings. 31:00 – For an argument that child prodigies constitute an argument for "nature," see here. For a memorable narrative account of one child prodigy, see here. 32:00 – A meta-analysis of the Flynn effect. We have previously discussed the Flynn Effect in an episode with Michael Muthukrishna. 37:00 – James Flynn's book, What is Intelligence? On the reversal of the Flynn Effect, see here. 40:00 – The phrase "nature-nurture" originally comes from Shakespeare and was picked up by Francis Galton. In The Tempest, Prospero describes Caliban as "a born devil on whose nature/ Nurture can never stick." 41:00 – For a biography of Galton, see here. For an article-length account of Galton's role in the birth of eugenics, see here. 50:00 – For an account of R.A. Fisher's 1918 paper and its continuing influence, see here. 55:00 – See Dr. Turkheimer's paper on the "nonshared environment"—E in the ACE model. 57:00 – A study coming out of the Minnesota Study of Twins reared apart. A New York Times article recounting some of the interesting anecdata in the Minnesota Study. 1:00:00 – See Dr. Turkheimer's 2000 paper on the "three laws of behavior genetics." Note that this is not, in fact, Dr. Turkheimer's most cited paper (though it is very well cited). 1:03:00 – For another view of the state of behavior genetics in the postgenomic era, see here. 1:11:00 – For Dr. Turkheimer's work on poverty, heritability, and IQ, see here. 1:13:00 – A recent large-scale analysis of birth order effects on personality. 1:16:00 – For Dr. Turkheimer's take on the missing heritability problem, see here and here.    1:19:00 – A recent study on the missing heritability problem in the case of height. 1:30:00 – On the dark side of IQ, see Chapter 9 of Dr. Turkheimer's book. See also Radiolab's series on g. 1:31:00 – See Dr. Turkheimer's Substack, The Gloomy Prospect.   Recommendations The Genetic Lottery, Kathryn Paige Harden Intelligence, Stuart Ritchie Intelligence and How to Get It, Richard Nisbett "Why our IQ levels are higher than our grandparents'' (Ted talk), James Flynn   Many Minds is a project of the Diverse Intelligences Summer Institute, which is made possible by a generous grant from the John Templeton Foundation to Indiana University. The show is hosted and produced by Kensy Cooperrider, with help from Assistant Producer Urte Laukaityte and with creative support from DISI Directors Erica Cartmill and Jacob Foster. Our artwork is by Ben Oldroyd. Our transcripts are created by Sarah Dopierala. Subscribe to Many Minds on Apple, Stitcher, Spotify, Pocket Casts, Google Play, or wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also now subscribe to the Many Minds newsletter here! We welcome your comments, questions, and suggestions. Feel free to email us at: manymindspodcast@gmail.com. For updates about the show, visit our website or follow us on Twitter (@ManyMindsPod) or Bluesky (@manymindspod.bsky.social).

    Acta Non Verba
    Denny Giamazzo on Wired For Action, Leadership Through Humility and Example, Trust, and Personal Growth

    Acta Non Verba

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 58:15


    In this episode of Acta Non Verba, host Marcus Aurelius Anderson sits down with Denny Giamazzo, leadership and resilience speaker, veteran, and author of the new bestselling book "Wired for Action." Denny shares his powerful journey from childhood trauma and foster care to becoming an infantry sergeant and successful software sales professional. This raw conversation explores authentic leadership principles forged in combat and tested in the corporate world, emphasizing the importance of taking action, building the right network, and leading with both strength and empathy. Episode Highlights: 1:08] - Overcoming Adversity Without Special Operations Background Denny discusses why he almost didn't write his book, feeling his story wasn't "special" enough without a Green Beret or SEAL background. His mentor John Doolittle convinced him that his relatability—surviving childhood abuse, foster care, and combat—makes his message even more powerful for everyday people facing their own battles. [10:05] - The Leadership Lesson That Changed Everything Fresh into a leadership role before deploying to Afghanistan, Denny shares his critical mistake of leading without empathy. He reveals the turning point when he learned that demanding respect doesn't work—you have to earn it by showing your team you genuinely care about them while maintaining high standards. [34:22] - Nearly Dying Before Deployment Denny recounts the harrowing story of almost dying twice during surgery from an infected wisdom tooth extraction at the end of basic training. This medical emergency kept him from deploying to Iraq but gave him time to earn his sergeant stripes ahead of peers who did deploy. [50:03] - The Power of Strategic Networking Denny explains why he turned down multiple introductions to Nick Lavery before finally meeting him in person at a speaking event. He emphasizes that networking isn't about kicking down doors or DMing everyone—it's about being strategic, adding value, and doing it the right way. Denny Giamazzo is a leadership, resilience, and business engagement speaker, bestselling author, and U.S. Army veteran (11 Bravo Infantry). Born two months premature and raised in foster care after experiencing childhood abuse and losing his mother to AIDS, Denny defied statistical odds to serve his country and build a successful career in software sales at companies like Oracle and Workday. He co-hosts the "Be the Standard" podcast and is a key member of Nick Lavery's Forge community. His new book "Wired for Action" is currently #1 in the military category on Amazon. Learn more about the gift of Adversity and my mission to help my fellow humans create a better world by heading to www.marcusaureliusanderson.com. There you can take action by joining my ANV inner circle to get exclusive content and information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Better Call Daddy
    466. You Don't Need One More Fan. Be a Fan of Yourself Accountability Coach William Garay Jr.

    Better Call Daddy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 44:26


    "Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity, and change." — Brené Brown In this raw and insightful episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts and her dad, Wayne Friedman, sit down with the candid William Gray Jr. William opens up about his personal journey, sharing struggles and triumphs that many can relate to. He gets real about the importance of accountability, the challenges of past relationships, and how his experiences have shaped his mission to inspire others. Embracing Vulnerability William dives deep into the concept of vulnerability, discussing how it has played a pivotal role in his life and relationships. He reflects on his past struggles with addiction and the journey to sobriety, emphasizing the significance of being open and honest about one's challenges. His story serves as a reminder that sharing our truths can empower not only ourselves but also those around us. Building Meaningful Connections Throughout the conversation, William shares how he formed meaningful connections, particularly with Raul, his business partner. Their relationship exemplifies the power of mentorship, support, and the importance of surrounding oneself with individuals who challenge and uplift you. William highlights the importance of community and the impact of having a strong support system. Lessons in Fatherhood As a father of three daughters, William reflects on the lessons he wants to impart to his children. He emphasizes the value of showing love through actions and the importance of modeling healthy relationships. His commitment to breaking generational cycles of trauma shines through as he discusses the steps he takes to ensure his children grow up with a strong sense of self-worth and respect for others. Key Themes - The power of vulnerability and authenticity - Overcoming addiction and the journey to sobriety - Building supportive and meaningful relationships - The importance of accountability in personal growth - Parenting with intention and breaking generational cycles Episode Highlights (00:00) Welcome to the Better Call Daddy Show (01:20) Meet William Garay Jr.: A Journey of Vulnerability (10:30) The Impact of Sobriety on Personal Relationships (20:00) Building Connections: The Power of Mentorship (30:15) Parenting Lessons: Modeling Healthy Relationships (40:45) Wisdom from Wayne: The Essence of Accountability Episode Keywords Better Call Daddy, Podcast, Vulnerability, Military Experience, Leadership Training, Charlie Mike, Personal Growth, Addiction Recovery, Fatherhood, Accountability, Emotional Intelligence, Community Impact, Sobriety, Mentorship, Overcoming Adversity, Relationship Dynamics, Generational Trauma, Self-Awareness, Personal Stories, Inspirational Journey Connect with William Garay Jr. William's Linkedin Connect with Reena Friedman Watts Website | LinkedIn | Instagram | YouTube Thank you for tuning in to Better Call Daddy—where vulnerability, community, and love converge!

    Consistent and Predictable Community Podcast
    The Choices You Make Today Decide the Life You Live Tomorrow

    Consistent and Predictable Community Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 4:24


    Key Takeaways from This ClipWhy good people can still experience tragic outcomesHow small choices compound into life-altering resultsThe difference between who you are and the choices you makeWhy habits—not intentions—shape your futureA powerful daily framework for living with purposeHow to lead yourself (and others) through example To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead

    Track Changes
    Using tech to develop shared outcomes: With UPS' Vandana Ramani

    Track Changes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 33:39


    Vandana Ramani on how UPS is leveraging AI to help SMEs This week on Catalyst Tammy sits down with Vandana Ramani, the Vice President of Global Strategy at UPS. Vandana loves to solve difficult, complex problems. From making sure a live iguana gets delivered to where it needs to be, to thinking about how UPS can leverage AI to improve their customer experience, Vandana is always working at the intersection of business strategy and technology. Tammy and Vandana discuss the integration of AI in small and medium sized businesses and how it can be transformative for data connectivity and developing shared outcomes. Vandana also shares networking tips she's developed from years spent rebuilding her networks from the ground up across the world. Please note that the views expressed may not necessarily be those of NTT DATALinks: Vandana Ramani LinkedInLearn more about Launch by NTT DATASee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
    PPP 491 | What a Children's Book Can Teach Leaders About Fear, with former news anchor Lynn Smith

    People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 45:25


    Summary In this episode, Andy talks with Lynn Smith, former NBC News, MSNBC, and CNN Headline News anchor, executive communication coach, and author of Just Keep Going. Lynn is best known for helping Fortune 500 leaders turn pressure into presence, but her newest book takes an unexpected form: a children's story about fear, resilience, and perseverance. That surprising choice is exactly what makes this conversation so relevant for leaders. Andy and Lynn explore why the same fears that stop CEOs are often the ones that show up in kids, how our inner critic or "Brain Bully" shapes behavior under pressure, and why the goal is not to eliminate fear but to metabolize it. Lynn shares deeply personal stories about rejection, family influence, and the lessons she learned growing up that shaped her approach to leadership and communication. You'll also hear practical techniques leaders can use to calm their nervous systems, give feedback that actually helps instead of harms, and model resilience for their teams and families. If you lead people or projects and want practical insights on emotional intelligence, confidence, and navigating fear, this episode is for you. Sound Bites "The one trait and the one skill that separates us from success is resilience. If you can acquire that skill, you will be successful. Hard stop." "Your greatest failure can be in service of somebody else." "We are biologically wired for fear. Trying to delete it is a fool's journey." "Bravery is doing something even if you are afraid." "How you show up within one tenth of a second is defining you for your audience." "Feedback leads to growth. Criticism feeds the brain bully." "When we calm our nervous system, we can make better decisions." "There's a mouse in all of us that needs the reminder to just keep going." "Ending what doesn't serve you is not quitting." "Fear often shows up as stress, pressure, or imposter syndrome, but it's the same circuitry." "Resilience is the greatest gift we can give our kids and our teams." Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:45 Start of Interview 01:55 Family Influence and Early Experiences 06:45 Recognizing the Brain Bully 12:28 Learning Resilience Over Time 14:08 Giving Feedback That Helps Instead of Hurts 15:50 Metabolizing Fear Instead of Eliminating It 20:05 Rejection and the Origin of the Book 23:00 Strategies from the Book for Big Feelings 26:15 The Business Equivalent of Jumping Up and Down 28:50 When Just Keep Going Does Not Apply 31:50 How Lynn and Her Team Help Leaders 34:10 End of Interview 34:47 Andy Comments After the Interview 37:30 Outtakes Learn More You can learn more about Lynn and her work at LynnSmith.com. For more learning on this topic, check out: Episode 462 with Margie Warrell, about going from playing it safe to speaking up. Episode 397 with Dr. Julia DiGangi, a discussion Andy continues to revisit for practical insights. Episode 394 with Joshua Freedman, one of the leading voices on emotional intelligence. Level Up Your AI Skills During the episode, Andy mentions the importance of preparing for an AI-infused future. Join other listeners from around the world who are taking our AI Made Simple course. Just go to ai.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com. Thanks! Pass the PMP Exam If you or someone you know is thinking about getting PMP certified, we've put together a helpful guide called The 5 Best Resources to Help You Pass the PMP Exam on Your First Try. We've helped thousands of people earn their certification, and we'd love to help you too. It's totally free and a great way to get a head start. Just go to 5BestResources.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com to grab your copy. Join Us for LEAD52 I know you want to be a more confident leader. That's why you listen to this podcast. LEAD52 is a global community of leaders committed to transforming their ability to lead and deliver. It's 52 weeks of leadership learning, delivered right to your inbox, taking less than five minutes a week, and it's all free. Learn more and sign up at GetLEAD52.com. Thank you for joining me for this episode of The People and Projects Podcast! Talent Triangle: Power Skills Topics: Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Resilience, Fear Management, Communication Skills, Executive Presence, Feedback, Confidence, Self Leadership, Team Culture, Project Leadership The following music was used for this episode: Music: Summer Awakening by Frank Schroeter License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Music: Tuesday by Sasha Ende License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

    Decide Your Legacy
    186. Why Leaders Hesitate to Try Coaching and How to Move Forward

    Decide Your Legacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 26:59


    Are you a leader or business owner considering team or personal coaching but held back by common objections like cost, time, or team buy-in? In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg dives deep into the nine most frequent objections he hears from leaders about business and leadership coaching.Adam unpacks powerful insights on:The difference between coaching and consulting and why industry knowledge isn't always the keyHow an outside, industry-agnostic perspective can break through company bottlenecksThe power of accountability, clarity, and consistent follow-up for lasting changeWhy investing in coaching is about long-term growth, profitability, and a healthier culture (not just cost)Real-life transformation stories from leaders who nearly said “no” but chose to invest in their teams and themselvesWhether you're skeptical about coaching or want to kick-start positive change in your organization, this episode will help you weigh not just the investment, but the real cost of staying stuck. Be inspired to face your leadership challenges, spark meaningful conversations, and design a legacy you're proud of. Want to learn more about the Decide Your Legacy approach or try a powerful confidence-building course? Don't miss Adam Gragg's practical steps and special offer in the episode!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leadsMake your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it.Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!#Leadership #BusinessCoaching #TeamDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DYLpodcast Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

    Dating Intelligence the Podcast
    Why Men Need Emotional Intelligence More Than Ever! feat. Natalie Stavola

    Dating Intelligence the Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 58:33


    Emotional intelligence isn't a "nice to have" in dating — it's the foundation of real connection. In this episode of Dating Intelligence, host Christopher Louis is joined by life and dating coach Natalie Stravola for a grounded, honest conversation about emotional safety, communication, and why so many relationships struggle to move past surface-level connection. Together, they explore the real differences between therapy and coaching, how past experiences quietly shape our dating patterns, and why learning to process emotions leads to stronger communication and healthier relationships. Natalie also shares her journey into coaching, how she balances multiple careers, and why self-care and joy are non-negotiables — not luxuries — when it comes to love and personal growth. This episode dives into: Why emotional safety is critical in relationships How processing emotions improves communication and intimacy The role of self-care, balance, and joy in dating Why men need permission — and tools — to embrace their emotional side How your relationship depth mirrors your self-awareness. If you're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns, feeling misunderstood, or wondering why dating feels harder than it should… this conversation brings clarity, perspective, and practical insight you can actually use. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mentality and Intentional Dating 01:07 Meet the Guest: Natalie Stavola 02:48 The Importance of Energy in Coaching 04:14 Therapy vs. Coaching: Understanding the Differences 08:32 The Journey of Becoming a Coach 11:40 Balancing Multiple Careers: Coaching and Filmmaking 15:14 The Role of Self-Care in Personal Growth 16:34 Finding Joy and Passion in Life 20:25 Understanding Emotional Intelligence in Men 30:48 The Importance of Emotional Awareness 37:06 Navigating Relationships: Lessons from the Past 42:10 Tips for Emotional Intelligence and Relationship Growth Sponsored by Men.tality Men.tality is a modern, referral-based matchmaking and relationship strategy platform helping men find the right connection for where they are right now.

    The Open Bedroom Podcast
    EP#209: Purity Culture Fucks Up Men

    The Open Bedroom Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 52:49


    In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I talk with show listener Mr. Pollyanna, who shares his journey from an evangelical Christian upbringing and purity culture to embracing emotional vulnerability and polyamory. We discuss the damaging effects of toxic masculinity, religious shame, and emotional abuse, and how these have shaped our relationships and intimacy. Mr. Pollyanna offers insights on breaking free from patriarchal norms, cultivating tenderness, and building healthier, more authentic connections. Our conversation provides practical advice for men seeking emotional growth, highlighting the importance of compassion, listening, and redefining masculinity beyond traditional religious expectations.Guest Introduction & Background (00:01:06)Jen and Mr. Pollyanna share how they met, his Christian upbringing, and his journey to deconstructing faith.Purity Culture and Its Impact (00:02:04)Announcement of the episode's main topic: how purity culture negatively affects men.Mr. Pollyanna's Upbringing & Marriage (00:02:14)He describes his liberal Christian background, marrying into a conservative family, and early relationship challenges.Toxic Family Dynamics & Church Involvement (00:04:37)Explains family abuse, church leadership, and the dysfunction in evangelical communities.Deconstruction & Anonymity (00:06:09)Discusses leaving the church, being anonymous on TikTok, and ongoing family abuse and shame.Purity Culture Guilt & Relationship Roles (00:07:33)Talks about guilt from past relationships, controlling partners, and the “happy dingbat” dynamic.Toxic Faith & Family Control (00:08:40)Describes toxic faith, family control over finances, education, and the struggle to break free.Leaving the Church & Ongoing Shame (00:10:07)Explores the lasting effects of purity culture, ongoing guilt, and the contradiction of forgiveness.Privilege & Abuse in Religious Marriages (00:11:11)Acknowledges male privilege, shares stories of women's abuse, and his involvement in healing communities.Divorce & Breaking Free (00:13:55)Describes the turning point leading to divorce and the relief of leaving guilt and shame behind.Host's Personal Experience with Purity Culture (00:14:40)Jen shares her Catholic upbringing, friends' experiences with virginity, and the shame surrounding sex.Dave Ramsey, Christian Marriages & Sexlessness (00:16:20)Jen discusses Christian influencers, sexless marriages, and questions why men stay in unfulfilling relationships.Why Men Stay in Unhappy Marriages (00:18:38)Mr. Pollyanna explains men's reasons for staying, lack of emotional skills, and societal changes.Generational Masculinity & Emotional Deficits (00:21:23)Explores how past generations shaped men's inability to be loving and emotionally available.Homosocial Behavior & Male Loneliness (00:23:52)Discusses men seeking approval from other men, lack of feminine influence, and self-inflicted loneliness.Religion, Family, and Toxic Masculinity (00:29:17)Examines how religion and toxic masculinity perpetuate control, emotional distance, and family conflict.Nurturing, Intimacy, and Ending Patriarchy (00:30:34)Advocates for nurturing, emotional intimacy, and how this could challenge patriarchy.Post-Divorce Relationships & Deconstruction (00:31:32)Describes dating after divorce, deconstructing faith, and the impact of “the one” narrative.Solo Polyamory & Relationship Dynamics (00:40:16)Discusses life as a solo poly man, benefits of independence, and maintaining multiple relationships.Emotional Intelligence & Being a Better Lover (00:43:19)Talks about emotional IQ, learning from books, and the importance of tenderness in relationships.Advice for Men: Listening & Presence (00:45:18)Offers practical advice for men: listen to women, provide comfort, and be emotionally present.Follow The Open Bedroom podcast:https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

    The Leadership Project
    305. Mastering the Tough Conversations: The Last 8% Rule with Bill Benjamin

    The Leadership Project

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 54:46 Transcription Available


    When tension spikes, leaders don't rise to the occasion; they fall to their default. Today we dig into those defaults with Bill Benjamin, co-author of The Last 8%, and unpack why smart, well-intentioned people either blow up or go quiet when it matters most—and how to do better without losing your edge.We start by naming the two patterns that quietly define culture under pressure: the messmaker who reacts with heat and the avoider who retreats to keep the peace. Bill explains the brain science behind both, from cortisol searing memories to the fear of social judgment that feels like physical pain. That lens changes everything: people remember you in the hard moments, not the easy ones. So we get practical. Bill shares SOS—Stop, Oxygenate, Seek information—as a simple, reliable way to step out of fight-or-flight, regain working memory, and turn certainty into curiosity. Small moves like a sip of water, open palms, or one deep breath can buy the six seconds you need to choose a better response.We then move into preparation for planned hard conversations. Clarify the exact last 8 percent you must say, set a positive intention that signals safety, and ask open questions so the other person talks first. You'll hear why many people self-diagnose if given space, how to draw out their last 8 percent, and how to model being coachable without giving up standards. We close with tactics to reset a reputation: share your growth edge with genuine vulnerability, invite real-time cues from your team, and follow up to measure progress. The result is a culture where people trade ego for empathy, certainty for curiosity, and silence for shared truth.If this sparked an insight, share it with one person who needs it. Subscribe on YouTube or your favorite podcast app, and leave a quick review to help more leaders find the show. Which are you under pressure—messmaker or avoider—and what last 8 percent will you tackle this week?

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Interpersonal Neurobiology: How Relationships Shape The Brain

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 16:59 Transcription Available


    What if your mind isn't confined to your skull but lives in the space between us? We dig into interpersonal neurobiology to show how mind, brain, and relationships form a single, living system—and why integration is the hidden thread behind resilience, clarity, and connection. Rather than a tug-of-war between nature and nurture, you'll hear how epigenetics turns experience into gene expression, and how neuroplasticity keeps your brain open to change across a lifetime.Dr. Dan Siegel's website: https://drdansiegel.com/We break down the mind as a regulatory process that patterns energy and information, then track how communication literally couples nervous systems. Emotion takes center stage as the primary integrator that assigns value and steers attention, while the middle prefrontal cortex acts as a convergence zone linking body states, social insight, and flexible action. When integration falters, systems lurch into chaos or rigidity—think fight-or-flight surges or shutdown—and the “window of tolerance” narrows. You'll learn why trauma often erases the narrative while preserving bodily alarms, and how implicit and explicit memory build (or blur) the story of who you are.Repair is possible. Attunement—feeling felt—powers co-regulation and lays the groundwork for self-regulation. Narrative coherence in adults predicts secure attachment in kids, demonstrating how relationships author identity. We offer a practical tool, the Wheel of Awareness, to differentiate and link sensation, interoception, thoughts and feelings, and connection with others, strengthening integrative circuits and expanding choice. By the end, the self looks less like a fixed noun and more like a plural verb: a dynamic process shaped by the people you choose and the attention you train.If this conversation sparks something, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with one insight you're taking into your week.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    Ready 4 Pushback
    Ep. 313 Aviation's Hidden Superpower: Emotional Intelligence Unveiled

    Ready 4 Pushback

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 59:17


    In this episode, Nik explores why emotional intelligence is a game-changer for pilots and aviation safety. Dr. James Roesler reveals research showing pilots often lag in E.I., despite its proven links to superior decision-making and teamwork. Real-world stories and the Colgan Air Flight 3407 accident illustrate how boosting E.I. could prevent disasters and reshape flight culture. Listeners get practical steps for building E.I. and making the skies safer for all. CONNECT WITH US Are you ready to take your preparation to the next level? Don't wait until it's too late. Use the promo code "R4P2025" and save 10% on all our services. Check us out at www.spitfireelite.com! If you want to recommend someone to guest on the show, email Nik at podcast@spitfireelite.com, and if you need a professional pilot resume, go to www.spitfireelite.com/podcast/ for FREE templates! SPONSOR Are you a pilot just coming out of the military and looking for the perfect second home for your family? Look no further! Reach out to Marty and his team by visiting www.tridenthomeloans.com to get the best VA loans available anywhere in the US. Be ready for takeoff anytime with 3D-stretch, stain-repellent, and wrinkle-free aviation uniforms by Flight Uniforms. Just go to www.flightuniform.com and type the code SPITFIREPOD20 to get a special 20% discount on your first order.  #Aviation #AviationCareers #aviationcrew #AviationJobs #AviationLeadership #AviationEducation #AviationOpportunities #AviationPodcast #AirlinePilot #AirlineJobs #AirlineInterviewPrep #flying #flyingtips #PilotDevelopment #PilotFinance #pilotcareer #pilottips #pilotcareertips #PilotExperience #pilotcaptain #PilotTraining #PilotSuccess #pilotpodcast #PilotPreparation #Pilotrecruitment #flightschool #aviationschool #pilotcareer #pilotlife #pilot

    The Marcia Miatke Show
    Unlock Your Dream Life Through The Power of Emotional Intelligence And The Law of Detachment: How I landed My Dream Keynote Speaking Opportunity | Ep 291

    The Marcia Miatke Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 25:00


    In this episode the host delves into the Law of Detachment, highlighting how the principle of releasing attachment to specific outcomes can help in achieving your wildest dreams. The episode emphasises the importance of clarity, identity work, and emotional intelligence in manifesting success and fulfillment. Real-life examples and actionable steps are provided to help listeners embody the identity of their desired future self and attract the outcomes they seek. A personal story of how Marcia landed her dream keynote speaking gig, illustrates how surrendering to the process can bring unexpected opportunities, demonstrating the power of trust, intention, and receptivity. 00:00 Introduction: Creating Your Dream Life 01:28 Understanding the Law of Detachment 03:09 Defining Your Desires and Identity 05:49 Embodying Your Desired Identity 07:18 The Power of Emotional Intelligence 08:02 A Personal Story of Manifestation: Keynote Speaking Opportunity  11:01 The Importance of Identity Work 19:41 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Embracing Your Potential 21:36 Conclusion: Trusting the Process IG: @marciacolosi | TikTok: @marciacolosi LI: @marciacolosi | FB: @marciamiatke  Ready to take your life and relationships to the next level? Follow The EQ Academy Official where you'll learn to optimise your emotions, leverage your feminine and masculine energies and show up your most confident and radiant self!

    Design Curious | Interior Design Podcast, Interior Design Career, Interior Design School, Coaching
    173 | Design Skills Series: The Soft Skills That Set Successful Interior Designers Apart

    Design Curious | Interior Design Podcast, Interior Design Career, Interior Design School, Coaching

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 27:55


    Many interior designers spend years honing hard skills like CAD drafting, space planning, and material selection—yet still feel stuck when it comes to client relationships, confidence, or stepping into leadership. I see this all the time, and it can be incredibly frustrating when you know you're talented, but something still feels like it's holding you back.The truth is, talent alone rarely sets designers apart anymore.What creates real career longevity and opportunity in interior design is how you show up as a professional—how you communicate, how you handle challenges, and how you lead both clients and projects. That's where soft skills come in.In this episode, I dive into the soft skills that make the biggest difference in real-world design work, including emotional intelligence, communication techniques, boundary setting, leadership skills, and professionalism. These are often the invisible skills that separate designers who are just getting by from those who are trusted, respected, and thriving in their careers.If you've ever felt technically capable but still struggled with difficult clients, miscommunication, burnout, or feeling overlooked in the workplace, this conversation is for you.What You'll Learn in This Episode✔️ Why soft skills matter just as much as technical design skills in interior design careers✔️ How emotional intelligence impacts client trust, presentations, and decision-making✔️ Communication techniques that improve client relationships and prevent costly mistakes✔️ How boundary setting protects your time, profitability, and mental well-being✔️ The role of leadership skills in managing projects, trades, and client expectations✔️ Why professionalism, enthusiasm, and teamwork set designers apart in the workplace✔️ How holding space for client transformation leads to deeper trust and better outcomesRead the Blog >>> Design Skills Series: Soft Skills for Interior DesignersNEXT STEPS:

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Breath As Home Base (with Sharon Salzberg)

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2026 10:15 Transcription Available


    You don't need a perfect mind to meditate; you need a simple place to return to. We guide a clear, down-to-earth practice for resting attention on a home base—often the breath, but just as easily a body sensation or the flow of sound—so you can meet experience without strain. Rather than chasing calm or fighting thoughts, we practice the art of beginning again: notice you've drifted, let go gently, and come back to one felt breath.Sharon Salzberg's website: SharonSalzberg.comWe start by tuning the senses toward direct experience—pressure, pulsing, warmth—so the body leads and the mind can soften. Then we explore how to find the clearest spot for the breath at the nostrils, chest, or abdomen, and how quiet mental notes like rising and falling can support awareness without taking over. If the breath feels tight or loaded, we normalize choosing a different anchor that requires no effort to produce. The key is receptivity over control: you're breathing anyway; all you need to do is feel it.As we work with distraction, we emphasize compassion and practicality. When thoughts surge or drowsiness pulls you under, the most important moment is the next one—returning without blame. Over time this builds steadiness, reduces performance anxiety, and turns meditation into a supportive habit you can carry on a walk, in a commute, or during a stressful day. There's nothing to manufacture and nothing to chase. Just this breath, felt fully.If this practice helps, share it with a friend who could use a quiet anchor today. Subscribe for future guided sessions and leave a review with one insight you're taking into your week.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto
    118: Triggers, Tantrums, and Techniques That Work

    Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2026 29:46


    You promise yourself you won't yell… and then suddenly, you have. Maybe your child's tantrum isn't even that big, but something in YOU snaps.If you've ever wondered why you react the way you do, even when you know better, this episode is for you.Today I'm not talking about how to “fix” your child, stop tantrums, or get quick compliance. I'm talking about the missing piece most parents were never taught: emotional intelligence, and how it completely changes the way you experience triggers, yelling, and discipline.I unpack why reacting is often automatic, not a failure… Why punishment and control don't create calm (even when they seem to work short-term)… And why self-awareness, not willpower, is the skill that gives you choice in hard moments.This conversation will help you see your triggers differently, understand what's really happening in your nervous system, and shift the focus from controlling behaviour to building connection and emotional safety.No scripts. No step-by-step formulas. Just powerful orienting principles to help you respond more intentionally, even on the haaard parenting days.If you're tired of feeling stuck in the same cycle, and you're ready to parent with more calm, clarity, and confidence… this is one you don't want to miss. Press play and let's start changing the way you show up at home.I mentioned my book From Chaos To Connection (How parenting with emotional intelligence raises kind, confident, resilient kids) - find it on Amazon here!If you prefer to watch the video, find this episode on YouTube here.

    Tamil Podcast for Children
    Paattaa? Parisaa? - Deepika Arun | பாட்டா? பரிசா? | Emotional Intelligence | Children Stories

    Tamil Podcast for Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2026 11:00


    ஒரு ராஜா, ஒரு இசை மேதை, ஒரு குரு — இந்த கதை நம்ம மனசுக்குள்ள ஒரு கேள்விய விதைக்குது.தான்சேனும், அவரோட குருவும் கத்துக்கொடுக்குற உண்மை என்ன?

    Self Reflection Podcast
    Who Are You Without the Labels?

    Self Reflection Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2026 46:48


    Send us a textAre you moving through life on autopilot, reacting to triggers based on old programming rather than responding with intention? In a world that constantly demands we define ourselves by our jobs, relationships, and past traumas, finding our true identity can feel impossible.In this transformative episode of the Self Reflection Podcast, host Lira Ndifon dives deep into the art and journey of Self-Awareness. Lira challenges listeners to ask the most difficult question of all: "Who am I at my core?" She explores the concept of stripping away societal labels to discover the divine being within, emphasizing that you are not your thoughts, your emotions, or your bank account. Lira shares her perspective not as a master, but as a fellow student of life, offering a vulnerable look at how self-awareness fosters empathy and self-compassion.The conversation shifts from theory to practice as Lira outlines the tangible benefits of becoming self-aware. She discusses how understanding your internal landscape helps you distinguish between reacting and responding, allowing for better emotional control. Lira also touches on the cultural nuances of setting boundaries—particularly within communal cultures—and how self-awareness is the prerequisite for building healthy relationships with others, and most importantly, with yourself.Finally, this episode provides actionable tools to begin your journey today. Lira breaks down three practical steps to cultivate awareness: implementing morning, midday, and evening check-ins; establishing a mindfulness practice; and the power of journaling to recognize patterns. Whether you are looking to heal from the past or raise your vibration for the future, this episode is a guide to taking your power back and creating a life that aligns with your soul.In this episode, you will learn:How to define self-awareness beyond the buzzwords.The importance of separating your core identity from your emotions and passing thoughts.Why self-awareness is the key to setting healthy boundaries and improving relationships.Practical techniques for daily emotional check-ins and mindfulness.How to shift from "unconscious creation" to becoming the conscious creator of your life.

    Mindset Mastery Moments
    #141 Delete the Emotional Brakes: Why Coping Is Keeping You Stuck

    Mindset Mastery Moments

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 66:12


    What if burnout, overthinking, and emotional exhaustion aren't mindset problems—but system failures?In this powerful episode of Mindset Mastery Moments, Dr. Alisa Whyte sits down with Micov Bogdan, a human system architect who challenges everything we've been taught about healing, performance, and personal growth. This conversation moves beyond motivation and mindset hacks and dives into identity-level transformation—where emotional baggage, internal friction, and subconscious sabotage are not managed, but deleted.You'll hear why coping has become a socially acceptable addiction, how high performers unknowingly use productivity as emotional armor, and why calm—not hustle—is the real power move. This episode exposes why traditional self-help often keeps people stuck in cycles of effort without freedom and what it truly takes to rebuild your internal system from the ground up.If you're high-functioning but exhausted… successful but restless… productive yet unfulfilled—this conversation will disrupt you in the best way.This isn't about doing more. It's about finally removing what no longer belongs.

    Everything is Personal
    He Finally Broke Free: The Story He Never Told

    Everything is Personal

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 66:03


    I was just trying to survive…This episode explores childhood trauma, survival mode, emotional resilience, and the hidden cost of high achievement. Matt Gerlach shares his healing journey, identity struggles, and the loneliness many high performers experience behind closed doors. If you've ever felt successful on the outside but empty on the inside, this conversation will help you understand self-worth, authenticity, and what it truly means to break free from approval seeking and live with purpose.Bullets: • Growing up in survival mode* The emotional cost of high achievement* Choosing authenticity over approvalListen now and discover what it really means to break free from survival mode. EndoDNA: Where Genetic Science Meets Actionable Patient CareEndoDNA bridges the gap between complex genomics and patient wellness. Our patented DNA analysis platforms and AI technology provide genetic insights that support and enhance your clinical expertise.Click here to check out to take control over your Personal Health & Wellness Connect with EndoDNA on SOCIAL: IG | X | YOUTUBE | FBConnect with host, Len May, on IG Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    Mindfulness Exercises
    From Monastery To Mindful Government

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 11:29 Transcription Available


    A couch, a non-alcoholic hazy IPA, and a confession: leaving the monastery wasn't just about tacos and rules—it was about hugging family again and answering a call to serve a world on edge. What followed is a surprising arc from Spirit Rock to healthcare to a teacher training program that's now helping seed mindfulness across the Environmental Protection Agency and beyond.We walk through the real reasons mindfulness belongs inside complex institutions: not as a perk, but as a skills-based response to stress, climate anxiety, and high-stakes decision-making. You'll hear how EPA leaders enrolled in our certification, why they're inviting more colleagues, and what a mindful federal initiative could look like across agencies like the Forest Service, Housing, and even the military. The science is clear—reduced stress and anxiety, better communication, stronger resilience—and the stories show how a short practice can change a meeting, a policy conversation, or a homecoming after work.This is a grounded look at scaling compassion without losing integrity. We talk about attention as a shared resource, how training trainers multiplies impact, and why adopting mindfulness at work naturally shifts habits at home: how we speak, what we buy and eat, and how we show up for people we love. If you care about mental health, leadership, and a more humane approach to public service, you'll find both practical tools and a dose of hope.If this resonates, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review with one way you'll plant a mindful seed this week. Your practice can be the spark that lights the next room.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    EdgeGodIn
    A New Year Launch into God

    EdgeGodIn

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 35:18


    Edge God In Podcast 306: A New Year Launch into God EdgeGodIn.com | Host: Lauren E Miller Championing Human Potential in Christ Download Bible Study Template Learning Objective: Identify EGO-driven patterns rooted in fear and positionality, discern God's invitation to trust and surrender in the New Year, and intentionally choose a different direction aligned with God's plan and purpose for their lives. Scriptures: Matthew 2:8 | Galatians 3:3 | Ephesians 2:10 | Colossians 3 | Jeremiah 29:11 | Proverbs 16:3 | Isaiah 40, 46 | Psalm 72 Prayer: Lord, thank you that you have plans for me. You have gifted me with another year of life. Renew my hope and confidence in you and your ability to use me for your great work in this world. Previous Edge God In Podcast: Advent Journey: Edge God Into the Position Hustle Support Resources: Award Winning Books: Hearing His Whisper, with Every Storm Jesus Comes Too  https://amzn.to/3nNxdya 99 Things You Want to Know Before Stressing Out!  Emotional Intelligence in Christ Project: Book, 6-Week Study Guide & Course Now Launched Stress Relief Video Techniques: Click Here https://laurenemiller.com/stress-relief-coaching-expert/

    Where We Live
    Yale's Marc Brackett on the life-changing skill of emotional regulation

    Where We Live

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2026 49:00


    Success isn’t just about talent or intelligence – it’s about how we handle our emotions. Marc Brackett, founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, says emotional regulation is a skill, one that can be taught and practiced like any other. This hour, he joins us to talk about why our feelings matter, what happens when we ignore them, and how adults can get better at managing them. We’ll also hear how schools across Connecticut are helping kids build emotional intelligence from a young age. Marc Brackett: Ph.D., founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, author of “Dealing with Feeling: Use Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want.” Where We Live is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, TuneIn, Listen Notes, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe and never miss an episode. This episode originally aired on December 1, 2025.Support the show: http://wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The 90th Percentile: An Unconventional Leadership Podcast
    Episode 179: Strategic Expertise vs. Emotional Intelligence—Which Drives Leadership Success?

    The 90th Percentile: An Unconventional Leadership Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 10:11


    Details Emotional intelligence has dominated leadership conversations for years—and for good reason. Leaders who listen, empathize, and build strong relationships create healthier, more engaged teams. But what if EQ isn't the primary capability driving leadership effectiveness? Drawing on a global dataset of 128,000 leaders and 360-degree feedback from over a million raters, they explore what … Continued The post Episode 179: Strategic Expertise vs. Emotional Intelligence—Which Drives Leadership Success? first appeared on ZENGER FOLKMAN.

    People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
    PPP 489 | Blindspots That Derail Project Managers and How To See Them, with author Marty Dubin

    People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 39:22


    Summary In this episode, Andy talks with Martin Dubin, psychologist, former CEO, executive coach, and author of Blindspotting: How to See What's Holding You Back as a Leader. Marty brings a rare combination of clinical insight and real-world leadership experience to a topic that affects every project manager and frontline leader: the blindspots that quietly shape our behavior, decisions, and impact. Together, the discussion explores how motives often drive our actions without us realizing it, why strengths can become liabilities when overused, and how emotion acts as one of the most powerful and least discussed forces in leadership. Marty explains his layered model of blindspots, including identity, motive, traits, emotion, and behavior, and shows how leaders can build awareness without trying to "fix" who they are. You will also hear practical guidance on creating a simple change plan that actually sticks, using small behavioral tweaks, prompts, and accountability rather than dramatic personal transformation. The conversation closes with thoughtful examples of how blindspotting can improve not only leadership at work, but relationships at home as well. If you want practical insight into leading with greater self-awareness, emotional range, and intentional growth, this episode is for you! Sound Bites "The hardest part of leadership is not managing others. It's managing ourselves." "Your strengths work for you most of the time, which is why it's so hard to see when they start working against you." "You know, whatever it is, it's usually invisible to us until someone or something forces it into view." "Now, if you put the modifier TOO in front of it, what happens when you're TOO confident? What happens when you're TOO organized? What happens when you're TOO creative?" "What do they tell you? You are too...." "Motives constrict under stress, and that's often when blindspots do the most damage." "Traits don't need to be changed. They need to be regulated." "Emotion is one of the most powerful tools leaders have, whether they use it intentionally or not." "Real change comes from small behavioral tweaks, not personality transformation." Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:42 Start of Interview 02:00 Marty's Background and Family Influence 05:38 What Drives Marty Crazy About Leadership Books 08:20 Identity Blindspots and Leadership Roles 11:00 Why Motive Is So Hard to See 13:00 Using Emotion to Reveal Motives 14:00 When Strengths Become Weaknesses 17:50 Practical Ways to Spot Trait Blindspots 19:00 Emotional Awareness and Leadership Influence 21:10 Regulating Emotion Versus Repressing It 22:50 Building a Change Plan That Works 26:20 A Client Story That Shows Blindspotting in Action 28:20 Applying Blindspotting to Parenting (and Grandparenting) 30:14 End of Interview 30:45 Andy Comments After the Interview 35:42 Outtakes Learn More You can learn more about Marty and his work at MartinDubin.com. For more learning on this topic, check out: Episode 473 with Jeffrey Hull and Margaret Moore, who share rigorously researched insights on what it takes to lead. Episode 450 with Mark Miller, an engaging and empowering discussion about why leaders fail and how they grow. Episode 32 with Brad Kolar and Madeleine Van Hecke, exploring how the way our brains are wired influences how we lead. Level Up Your AI Skills Join other listeners from around the world who are taking our AI Made Simple course to prepare for an AI-infused future. Just go to ai.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com. Thanks! Pass the PMP Exam This Year If you or someone you know is thinking about getting PMP certified, we've put together a helpful guide called The 5 Best Resources to Help You Pass the PMP Exam on Your First Try. We've helped thousands of people earn their certification, and we'd love to help you too. It's totally free, and it's a great way to get a head start. Just go to 5BestResources.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com to grab your copy. I'd love to help you get your PMP this year! Join Us for LEAD52 I know you want to be a more confident leader, that's why you listen to this podcast. LEAD52 is a global community of people like you who are committed to transforming their ability to lead and deliver. It's 52 weeks of leadership learning, delivered right to your inbox, taking less than 5 minutes a week. And it's all for free. Learn more and sign up at GetLEAD52.com. Thanks! Thank you for joining me for this episode of The People and Projects Podcast! Talent Triangle: Power Skills Topics: Leadership, Self-Awareness, Emotional Intelligence, Motivation, Personality Traits, Behavior Change, Executive Coaching, Identity, Influence, Team Leadership, Blind Spots The following music was used for this episode: Music: Imagefilm 034 by Sascha Ende License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Music: Fashion Corporate by Frank Schroeter License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

    Acta Non Verba
    Rhett Power on Headamentals, How Leaders Can Defeat Negative Self-Talk, The 3 C Maverick Method, and The Impact of Dr. Mark Goulston's Work

    Acta Non Verba

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 51:47


    In this episode of Acta Non Verba, host Marcus Aurelius Anderson sits down with Rhett Power, CEO and co-founder of Accountability, Inc., to discuss his groundbreaking new book "Head of Metals: How Leaders Silence Negative Self-Talk and Transform How They Lead." In this raw and powerful conversation, Rhett reveals why self-talk is the most ignored driver of leadership performance and shares practical strategies for managing the mental noise that kills focus, concentration, and culture. From the 3 C's of the Maverick Method to the "plutonium problem" of toxic narratives, this episode delivers actionable insights for leaders ready to reclaim control over their inner voice and build championship teams. Episode Highlights: [2:10] The Seven-Year Journey to Head of Metals - Rhett shares the intensive process of writing Head of Metals with co-authors Ryan Gottfredson and Dr. Susie Burkin, including seven rewrites over seven years. He reveals how the book unexpectedly helped a surgeon's teenage sons prepare for exams, proving that self-talk mastery transcends age and profession. [14:57] The Three C's: Catch, Challenge, Change - Rhett breaks down the simple but powerful framework for managing self-talk: Catch it (notice harmful narratives), Challenge it (question if it's true, useful, or even yours), and Change it (replace destructive narratives with grounded thinking). He provides a practical exercise: write down your negative narratives and track them with check marks to identify patterns. [16:38] The Plutonium Problem: When Leader Self-Talk Infects Teams - Discover why negative self-talk is like plutonium—toxic, powerful, and invisible. Rhett explains how leaders' mental narratives leak into their teams, creating radioactive thinking that destroys engagement, retention, and performance. He shares a powerful story of a CEO who discovered his assistant triggered unresolved childhood issues with his mother. [26:15] AI as a Leadership Mirror - Rhett discusses his involvement in developing an AI coaching platform that provides real-time data to help coaches and leaders identify blind spots. He compares it to film study in sports—giving leaders instant replay of their performance to make fewer unforced errors and exploit opportunities for growth. Rhett Power is the CEO and co-founder of Accountability, Inc., where he helps leaders break limits, make bold decisions, and drive growth. Recognized as a global guru of top management thinkers and a Marshall Goldsmith 100 Coach, Rhett is the bestselling author of "The Entrepreneur's Book of Actions" and the newly released "Head of Metals." He co-hosts "Bestseller Live" on Apple TV and is a regular contributor to Forbes, Inc., and CNBC. With decades of experience coaching executives and entrepreneurs worldwide, Rhett brings practical, science-backed strategies to help leaders silence negative self-talk and transform organizational culture. Learn more about the gift of Adversity and my mission to help my fellow humans create a better world by heading to www.marcusaureliusanderson.com. There you can take action by joining my ANV inner circle to get exclusive content and information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Body Scan Basics

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 17:59 Transcription Available


    When your mind won't slow down, the fastest way out is often through the body. We lead a steady, grounded body scan that starts at the feet and moves through contact points, face, breath, and belly—simple cues that unwind hidden effort and restore a sense of ease. No jargon, no pressure to relax; just clear guidance that helps you notice what's real in the moment and let the rest unclench.We begin by settling with a few deliberate breaths and feeling the feet meet the ground. That contact becomes an anchor as we explore the weight of the body, the chair and floor supporting us, and the subtle differences between pressure and lightness. From there, we map the face—eyebrows, forehead, cheeks, jaw—where stress often hides. Gentle prompts invite the eyes to rest and the jaw to loosen, while the tongue softens across the floor of the mouth. Attention then follows the breath along the nostrils, sensing cool air on the inhale and warmer air on the exhale, creating a natural rhythm that gathers focus without strain.As the practice deepens, we highlight the power of softening the belly. Allowing the abdomen to move with the breath frees the diaphragm, steadies the heart, and tells the nervous system it's safe to ease up. The result is a whole-body shift: less clench in the face, more space in the chest, and a quieter mind that can meet the day with clarity. If you're looking for a practical mindfulness practice, a guided meditation for stress relief, or a nervous system reset you can use anywhere, this session meets you where you are and gives you a reliable path back to calm.If this practice helped, follow the show, share it with a friend who could use a reset, and leave a quick review to help others find us.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.comAbout the Podcast Mindfulness Exercises with Sean Fargo is a practical, grounded mindfulness podcast for people who want meditation to actually help in real life. Hosted by Sean Fargo — a former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of MindfulnessExercises.com — this podcast explores how mindfulness can support mental health, emotional regulation, trauma sensitivity, chronic pain, leadership, creativity, and meaningful work. Each episode offers a mix of: Practical mindfulness and meditation teachings Conversations with respected teachers, clinicians, authors, and researchers Real-world insights for therapists, coaches, yoga teachers, educators, and caregivers Gentle reflections for anyone navigating stress, anxiety, burnout, grief, or change Rather than chasing peak experiences or spiritual bypassing, this podcast emphasizes embodied practice, ethical teaching, and mindfulness that meets people where they are—messy, human, and alive. If you're interested in: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life Trauma-sensitive and co...

    Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto
    117: Mini Masterclass on Emotional Intelligence 2026

    Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 30:04


    FREE MINI EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE MASTERCLASS!!Even though emotional intelligence gets talked about a lot, I think it's actually understood very little.So I decided to record a free, mini masterclass for you all and publish it on the podcast. I have stripped it back for you all and rebuilt it properly. Not as a buzzword. Not as “being nice”!! And definitely not as something only parents or teachers need to worry about.This is my mini masterclass on what emotional intelligence actually is, how it shapes EVERY interaction you have, and why in 2026 it's genuinely no longer optional regardless of who you are or where you live.You'll see why emotions are data (not disruptions), how your nervous system quietly decides whether you stay calm or lose it, and why so many adults are blaming themselves for reactions that are actually biological. I unpack the skill-building side of EI, the stages people move through when learning it, and the hidden reason awareness alone can feel uncomfortable before it feels empowering.And I couldn't NOT cover why “bad behaviour” is actually nervous system overload in disguise, how emotional intelligence predicts long-term success better than IQ, and why the adults around kids matter just as much as the kids themselves. Phew - a lot huh! You're going to love it.If you've ever thought:“I know better, so why do I keep reacting like this?”“Why does everything feel so much harder lately?”“How do I stay regulated when the world (and kids) are not?”It's not a lecture. It's not a checklist. It's a reframe that changes how you see yourself, kids, and behaviour altogether.A must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone who wants to stop surviving interactions and start handling them with clarity, steadiness, and real choice.

    Your Leadership Legacy with Tina Paulus-Krause
    How Can Leaders Effectively Bridge the Gap Between Technology and Human-Centered Design

    Your Leadership Legacy with Tina Paulus-Krause

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 36:27


    In this episode of "Your Leadership Legacy," host Tina Paulus Krauss welcomes co-host, Melissa Marks, and guest expert William Reid. Together, they explore how leadership can bridge the gap between technical innovation and human-centered design. The discussion highlights the importance of emotional intelligence, integrating AI with empathy, and empowering people at all levels. William shares insights on aligning technology with real human needs, while Tina and Melissa emphasize adaptive leadership and collaboration. The episode offers practical advice for leaders seeking to create organizations that are agile, effective, and truly focused on both people and progress. Time Stamps: Podcast Introduction (00:00:02) Tina introduces the podcast, welcomes co-host Melissa, and sets the stage for the episode. Melissa's Background & Partnership (00:00:27) Melissa shares her engineering background and how she partnered with Tina on leadership workshops. Team Excellence & Leadership Tools (00:01:01) Discussion about the impact of providing leaders with tools and resources for team transformation. Introducing William Reid (00:01:30) William Reid is introduced as the guest expert in technology and facilitation. William's Bio & Approach (00:01:38) Tina reads William's bio, highlighting his focus on connecting technical solutions with human needs. William's Career Journey (00:02:35) William shares his transition from technical roles to facilitation and human-centered work. Bridging Technical and Human Worlds (00:04:01) Discussion on the importance of connecting technical solutions to real human problems. Challenges in Tech Adoption (00:04:19) William explains the disconnect between technical innovation and user experience in daily life. Blending Technical and Adaptive Leadership (00:05:28) Melissa and William discuss the need to blend technical expertise with adaptive, human-focused leadership. Complexity in User Experience (00:06:15) William describes the challenges of designing technology that truly meets user needs. Leadership's Role in Bridging Gaps (00:09:04) Tina and William discuss leadership's responsibility in uniting diverse goals for better solutions. Leadership Perspective on Mission & Profit (00:10:03) William explains how leadership must balance mission statements with profitability and customer experience. Emotional Intelligence in Leadership (00:13:20) Melissa and Tina highlight the importance of emotional intelligence in modern organizations. AI Integration and the Human Element (00:13:56) Melissa discusses the impact of AI on organizations and the enduring importance of human involvement. The Curse of Knowledge & Customer Experience (00:15:38) William warns about experts overlooking user struggles and the need for empathy in design. Cost-Cutting vs. Customer Value (00:18:45) William critiques short-sighted cost-cutting and advocates for using AI to enhance, not replace, human roles. Leadership Gaps and Organizational Change (00:19:38) Discussion on the need for leadership to adapt structures and processes for evolving customer journeys. Solving New Problems with New Solutions (00:21:10) Tina and William emphasize the need for innovative solutions rather than relying on outdated methods. Advice for Executive Leaders (00:22:52) William offers practical steps for leaders to move organizations toward human-centered, effective solutions. Process Maturity and Problem Solving (00:23:47) William stresses the importance of mature processes and listening to real customer problems. AI, Process, and Continuous Feedback (00:26:41) Melissa and William discuss leveraging AI while maintaining strong processes and regular feedback loops. Future of Leadership & Empowerment (00:28:16) William describes the future of leadership as empowering people at all levels and removing bottlenecks. Organizational Bottlenecks & Ego (00:29:48) William explains how ego and centralized authority slow organizations and hinder innovation. Human Touch in a Tech-Driven World (00:31:43) William advocates for maintaining human interaction even as technology advances. Closing Thoughts & Where to Find William (00:33:31) Tina thanks William, who shares where listeners can find more about his work and upcoming projects. Final Reflections on Leadership (00:34:17) Melissa and Tina reflect on individual leadership, the evolving workplace, and the importance of customer focus. About the Guest William Reed is an optimist about our ability to put the right approach and solutions in front of the right problems.   Every complaint, setback, problem, or challenge is a signal to us of the need for change to the status quo.   I explore ways to help others to think differently about how they approach what they do. I work with organizations to get the right solutions into the hands of those who need them, navigating the arduous design/build process through market noise into successful usage of the solution.   Website https://www.williamreed.info/   Social Media https://www.linkedin.com/in/cciewill/   Additional Link https://www.youtube.com/@thesmartitpodcast   Main Topics or Questions The imperative to inspire the next generation of leaders. -What does the future of leadership look like -Approaches to sharing the decision-making responsibilities -Reshaping the meaning of work     About the Host Hosted by Tina Paulus-Krause, leadership coach, speaker, author, and creator of the RESET framework, this podcast is a space for leaders, professionals, and purpose-driven humans who know there is more available to them. Tina blends emotional intelligence, embodiment, lived experience, and practical self leadership tools to support meaningful transformation from the inside out. This podcast explores self-leadership, emotional intelligence, healing, difficult conversations, change, boundaries, generational healing and legacy so you can lead yourself with clarity, regulate your energy, strengthen relationships, and create results that are sustainable, aligned, and deeply human. If you are navigating burnout, transition, growth, or a desire to lead differently, you are in the right place.     Work With Me Ready to go deeper and apply what you are learning?

    Hunters and Unicorns
    Beyond the Sales Book: The Emotional Secret to 10X Career Growth

    Hunters and Unicorns

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 44:01


    In this episode, we welcome Steve Rog, CRO at Cyera, one of the fastest-growing technology companies in the world. Steve opens up about his journey from a technical networking background to becoming a high-impact leader in cybersecurity. We unpick how he landed one of the industry's most sought-after CRO roles and why Cyera's culture of humility and teamwork keeps them winning. Steve shares profound lessons on seeking out mentors, the critical importance of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) in delivery, and why he views leadership as a responsibility to help others reach their "ceiling".

    Track Changes
    Defying labels and learning to lead: With Parisa Zander

    Track Changes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2026 38:14


    This week on Catalyst Tammy chats with Parisa Zander, a seasoned professional in the tech industry who recently retired after a successful career spanning nearly three decades at companies like Meta, Samsung and Microsoft. Parisa discusses the challenges of being a woman in tech, the importance of finding one's voice, and the values that guide her leadership style, including honesty, empathy, and the need for fun in the workplace. She also emphasizes that to truly understand your customer you need to go to them and set time aside for real-world testing. How else will you see how people across the country are actually engaging with your product? Please note that the views expressed may not necessarily be those of NTT DATALinks: Parisa Zander - LinkedIn Learn more about Launch by NTT DATASee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Dead America
    From Battlefield to Boardroom - A Journey of Faith and Redemption

    Dead America

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2026 61:21


    Join us in this heartfelt episode as we speak with Ryan Reichert, owner of Our Protector Development, host of the podcast 'Our Healer, Our Protector,' and author of the 'Protector Development' book series. Ryan shares his incredible journey from growing up in small-town North Dakota, serving as a Lieutenant Colonel in the Army, battling addiction, to becoming a healer and protector through his various ventures. Discover how faith, discipline, and a relentless pursuit of improvement have shaped his life and mission to help others. This inspiring conversation delves into the highs and lows of leadership, personal recovery, and the importance of kindness and accountability in creating meaningful change. 00:00 Introduction: Awakening Hearts 00:46 Meet Ryan Reichert: A Journey of Service and Entrepreneurship 02:34 Ryan's Early Life and Military Career 04:54 Transition to Civilian Life and Entrepreneurship 08:52 Overcoming Addiction and Embracing Faith 14:06 The Power of Accountability and Community Service 17:33 Writing and Spiritual Practices 23:51 Emotional Intelligence and Personal Growth 29:47 Podcasting and Future Directions 30:13 Navigating Post-Divorce Life 30:54 Reflections on Faith and Leadership 32:17 Inspiring Stories of Resilience 33:27 The Power of Gratitude and Discipline 37:19 Overcoming Addiction and Embracing Change 40:09 The Journey of Self-Improvement 41:24 The Importance of Honesty and Emotional Intelligence 48:43 The Value of Reading and Continuous Learning 55:42 Final Thoughts and Call to Action 57:56 A Poetic Tribute to Ryan's Journey Social Media: Instagram: @armyrt1978, Facebook: @RyanT.Reichert, LinkedIn: @RyanReichert78, X: @RyanTReichert, TikTok: @armyrt1978, YouTube Channel: @OurHealerOurProtector Website: www.OurProtectorDevelopment.com

    The New Masculine
    What Horses Teach Men About Presence, Doubt, and Midlife | Tik Maynard

    The New Masculine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 65:35


    Connect with Tim Maynard: https://www.copperlineequestrian.comGet a Copy of the Book: Starting in the MiddleConnect with Travis: www.travisstock.comIG: travers03Support the show: www.patreon.com/thenewmasculineT

    Mindfulness Exercises
    Guided Meditation For Sensing Body, Breath, And Gentle Energy

    Mindfulness Exercises

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 20:53 Transcription Available


    Need a reset that actually sticks? We guide a calm, clear meditation that helps you settle your body, soothe your nerves, and steady your mind—without forcing the breath or chasing silence. Starting with simple grounding, we let the body meet the seat and the floor, then gently scan attention through legs, spine, head, and face to release hidden tension and welcome ease.As the practice deepens, we bring the hands into the experience to create reliable anchors. The left hand rests over the heart for a felt sense of warmth and care, while the right hand meets the belly to invite slower, fuller breaths. That two-point contact offers immediate biofeedback: the inhale lifts into the palms; the exhale softens the palms back into the body. It's a practical way to stimulate the vagus nerve, reduce stress, and cultivate emotional steadiness. We talk through each cue with simple, jargon-free language so you can follow along whether you're new to mindfulness or returning after a long day.We close by opening attention to the whole body at once, then touch the hands together to mark the end of practice. The goal isn't to become a perfect meditator; it's to feel grounded, present, and kind toward yourself. If you're looking for a short guided meditation that blends body scan techniques, breath awareness, and soothing hand-to-heart contact, this session offers a clear path back to center. Press play, breathe with us, and share how your body felt before and after. Subscribe for more grounding practices, leave a review if this helped, and pass it to someone who could use a gentle pause today.Support the showAdd your 5‑star review — this really helps others find us. Free Mindfulness Exercises: MindfulnessExercises.com 200 Guided Meditation Scripts: Scripts.MindfulnessExercises.com Certify To Teach Mindfulness: Certify.MindfulnessExercises.com Work with Sean Fargo: Sean.MindfulnessExercises.com/ Reduce Chronic Pain: Pain.MindfulnessExercises.com Email: Sean@MindfulnessExercises.com

    A Mental Health Break
    Navigating Mental Health in a Chaotic World (Expert Panel)

    A Mental Health Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2026 30:52


    Happy New Year! In this episode, five mental health advocates discuss their backgrounds and the current state of mental health on this expert panel. They explore the challenges faced during the holidays, the importance of self-care, and strategies for emotional well-being. The conversation emphasizes the need for support, understanding, and personal growth as we navigate the complexities of mental health in today's world with Bronwyn, Claudia, Kendra, and Tomi!As You Listen:00:00 Introduction to Mental Health Advocates 05:00 Navigating Mental Health During the Holidays 10:01 Emotional Wellbeing Trends and Challenges 15:02 Self-Care Strategies for the New Year 20:02 Looking Ahead: Goals and Aspirations for 2026"You are not alone.""Self-care is not selfish.""Trust your gut."

    Have It All
    Emotional Intelligence: The Deep Dive Continues

    Have It All

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2026 11:33


    Emotional Intelligence is such an important subject that Kris Krohn decided he needed a Part 2 to fully capture the discussion. At the end of the day, emotional intelligence is a byproduct of our belief system. Tune in as Kris continues his deep dive on why your beliefs and your emotions end up having such a massive impact on all areas of your life.