Train Wreck Your Life

We're ALL for asking questions to help you learn & grow, just make sure you're asking them in a way that's valuable for you and the person you're asking. Tune in to find out the difference. Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

There'll always be an excuse not to do something that requires some sort of risk - in fact most decisions do. But then you risk the greatest risk of all - regretting not living the life or having the kind of relationship you really wanted. Tune in to hear how Nate and I muster up the courage together to keep kicking goals as a couple - and to find out the latest milestone we've achieved together! 

Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Welcome to our new home in Wyoming!!! We're so excited to be recording this for you after another 6 months hiatus (promise it won't be so long next time!). We update you on our latest life changes and also answer a question that we got of "How do you let each other be so ambitious and determined without feeling insecure about losing yourself or the other person?" Tune in to find our our advice on how ambition in a relationship can actually bring you closer. Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

With a glass of wine in hand, tune into listen to some ramblings and news on our upcoming wedding! 

Hey guys! We're excited to be back recording another episode for you on the 4th of July weekend here in the US! In this episode we discuss some things we've been working through in our relationship as well as fun questions like where we're going to live after we get married (US or Australia??) and how to navigate cultural differences in relationships with more fun and ease. Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

We are so excited to be back with another episode after a hiatus! Tune in for more laughs and D&M's as we share tips on how to show up for a partner who's struggling - and how to degas yourself. 

Join us for some more fun and relaxed chats about.. chats! Tune in for some of Nate's best tips on how to have a convo (aussie for conversation!) with anyone - especially in elevators (where sh*t can get real awkward as you watch the floors count down). Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

We're excited to be bringing you a 4th of July special episode which consists of chats about formula 1 racing, finding things to bond over with your partner (even from afar) and lotsss of cookie talk (of course!). We hope you all had an awesome independence day & appreciate you tuning in! Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

We're excited to be back with another episode, this time diving into trust in relationships - how to build more of it, especially when you're in a long distance one or you have to spend a lot of time apart from your significant other. We open up about our own experiences and how we've worked through some moments together to become stronger on the other side.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

We're baaaack! After a long hiatus, we're excited to be updating you on everything that's been happening over the last 6 months for us - how we battled through long distance (yet again!), the joy of finally being reunited against all odds aaaand introduce the new addition to our family! :)

Hey guys! We're sorry we've been MIA lately - but we are BACK to bring some ridiculousness and laughs to this crazy difficult world we're all currently facing. We hope you are keeping safe, washing those hands and remembering that we WILL get through this together - one day at a time.

We are SO excited to have a very special guest (and one of our new idols!), Ruby Snap Founder Tammy Steggell, on the show with us today! You guys have heard us yap on about how AMAZING these cookies are, and now you get to meet the phenomenal woman behind it! And when we say phenomenal - we mean it!! Just wait till you hear how much passion, dedication and tenacity Tammy has poured into making her cookie empire a reality. It's taken plenty of risks and a few ''train wrecks'',  so turn up the volume on this episode as it's one that'll have you feeling inspired to dive deeper into going after what you REALLY want out of life! 

This episode is all about us discussing one of the scariest things you can do in a relationship - share your goals and dreams. We go deep on our own personal goals, how to best approach sharing your goals with your partner, what to do when they FREAK OUT about them and how to use goals to make your relationship even better. Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Tune in for a fun recap on our Christmas road trip from New Jersey all the way down south to Florida! Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Here's the audio of our recent Facebook & Instagram Live where we dressed up in the Christmas spirit (Nate's reindeer sweater lit up and I was rocking a onesie!) while we answered your tough hitting questions - like where we plan on settling to live together and when is Nate getting down on one knee for me? Tune in to find out and join in the fun! Also to make sure you don't miss another LIVE be sure to follow us on Instagram @trainwreckyourlife

Join us as we dive in and discuss where we think chemistry comes from and how we keep it alive in our relationship so you can do the same with yours.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

So excited to be recording our first TWYL episode together in the US! This is just a relaxed one, filling you guys in on what's been happening the past few weeks, why we've been MIA & what we've got planned for upcoming episodes. We also share some of our best tips to help make your next trip even more memorable than you expect and way cooler than what you constantly see posted online.  Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

The unthinkable happens - in the best and worst ways. Join Nate and Kate as they explore how you can prepare for this even when you think you can't. Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Make promises to go to the gym in the morning, but end up sleeping in? Swear to yourself you'll sit down and write that post for your new blog, but end up on netflix instead? Committ to a new 8 week course, but end up quitting after week 3? Yep, life is filled with hard stuff so more often than not, broken promises. It might seem harmless to us in the moment, but beneath the surface it's eroding away self respect, self confidence and self discipline - three critical things you need if you want to turn goal setting into goal-getting and truly live your best life.  Tune into this episode as Nate and Kate discuss what it takes to show up for the hard stuff in life, even when you don't feel like it. As always, they'll get real with you about what their own struggles with this are and how they're overcoming them so you can too. Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly.   

Nate is real, raw and flying solo on this episode as he opens up for a heart to heart with you about dealing with the realities of life that don't make the highlight reels of instagram.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Relationships can be complicated as they are, let alone adding in long distance and time zone differences. Something we know all too well! Prompted by a question from our followers, Nate and I speak openly about what it's like to be in a long distance relationship and what we've found works best when it comes to feeling connected to one another despite living opposite sides of the world. Nate also shares a very honest perspective of what it's like to be in a relationship whilst serving in the military and what to expect if this is something you're going into with your partner.  With the unique insights and tips given throughout, there is a whole lot to be gained from this episode in terms of improving your ability to connect and communicate with your partner so you can uplevel your relationship whether it's long distance or not.  Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly.   

We've all faced injustice on some level - we've had exes who cheated and were never sorry, parents who abused or mistreated us without consequence, friends who told lies or broke promises and lacked compassion for the hurt caused - injustice is a part of our world. So how do we deal in a way that stops us becoming bitter? Tune into this episode to find out.  We focus in particular on Kate's personal story of what she went through after the driver who killed her sister on the roads of Thailand was never charged for his illegal actions. This episode is definitely a deeper dive where we begin to show a more ''serious'' side to us as we explore the topic of injustice and how to stay kind in a cruel world. Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

Buckle up for this episode as we dive into a brand new segment - ''Did you know?'' which also gives you the chance to help make a difference for our chosen charities! (See more below) We also discuss the commonly given advice that we believe you should ignore to improve your happiness and achieve more goals that actually matter to you in life.  Help us raise funds for amazing charities! Vote for our DID YOU KNOW facts on our instagram page here: @trainwreckyourlife  Nate's chosen charity is the V Foundation raising funds to help cure cancer. Kate's chosen charity of the Mission in Action Orphanage which gives a home, an education and most especially love to abandoned children in Kenya.  Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly. 

  Join us for our very first episode where we don't have much clue what we're doing other than introducing ourselves, why we've started this show and why we've called it ''Train Wreck Your Life'' (although once you hear us talk for 2 minutes you'll surely understand why!). We like to have a laugh (often at the other person's expense) while discussing the deeper things in life - like coping with grief, career choices, mental health, relationship challenges and where to find world's best cookies. Follow us on @trainwreckyourlife for fun in between episodes, plus a dash of inspiration and the odd cookie pic by our sponsors Ruby Snap Fresh Cookies. Ok so we're just telling porkies: they're not actually our sponsors - YET. But we'd love for them to be so follow them for some serious cookie porn: @rubysnap Because cookies are life. And puppies. So basically cookies and puppies solve all problems when you can't be bothered adult-ing. Tried and tested by yours truly.