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Host Jaclyn Friedman and a rotating cast of whipsmart guests untangle the politics and culture of sex, and help out real-world sex advice-seekers.

Jaclyn Friedman

  • Jul 7, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • every other week NEW EPISODES
  • 29m AVG DURATION
  • 166 EPISODES


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LISTEN: We'll Hear Arguments

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2020 33:39


While Jaclyn's on summer hiatus, check out the brilliant first episode of We'll Hear Arguments, a miniseries about the Roe v. Wade arguments hosted by Imani Gandy and Jessica Mason Pieklo of Boom! Lawyered. Think Mystery Science Theater 3000 meets the Supreme Court. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Marathons and Sprints

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2020 13:25


An anti-racist check-in, a listener question about endometriosis, sex drive and the NuvaRing, and a call for podcast recommendations, all in under 15 minutes! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Absence of Pain is Not Pleasure (Rewind)

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2020 44:18


What can the history of Black sexual oppression and resistance in the US teach us about how Black people get all the way free? Dalycia Saah and Rafaella Fiallo of Afrosexology have a vision. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Conscious Incompetence

Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 15:02


Jaclyn is in a MOOD in this quickiesode. Click play for rants about Joe Biden and about the new Title IX regulations. Plus, some wisdom about how we all start to work on our implicit bias. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Under Pressure

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2020 41:02


Depressed lately? Anxiety spiking? Is your mental health (or your partner's) fucking with your sex life? JoEllen Notte wrote a book for you, and she's here with Jaclyn to help. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Consent in Confinement

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2020 53:14


How is COVID-19 confinement impacting your ability to navigate consent and set boundaries? In this special episode recorded for #Open, Jaclyn answers your quarantine questions and conundrums. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A Pleasure to Serve You

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2020 32:57


Why do we so often fixate on whether or not porn performers are having authentic sexual pleasure while they work? Writer, podcaster and sex worker advocate Tina Horn breaks it down with Jaclyn in this conversation about pleasure, labor, entertainment, and what believing sex workers really means. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Pay For Your Pandemic Porn

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020 16:35


Some ways to participate in Sexual Assault Awareness/Action Month while social distancing, and some ways to have a spicy sex life without touching your sex partner. It's a self-isolation quickiesode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Gossip is an English Word

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 34:32


What if women quietly telling each other who to trust and who not to was recognized as a form of justice? Native rights lawyer, professor, and MacArthur Award-winner Sarah Deer joins Jaclyn to discuss. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Not A Coincidence

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 33:10


Jaclyn is joined by activist and author of Unbecoming, Anuradha Bhagwati, to talk about the state of women's relationship to power in the wake of Warren dropping out of the primary. Don't worry, they keep a safe social distance. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Backlist and Pleasure-Forward

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 16:14


Jaclyn's back from her Believe Me tour! And she wants to hear your all-time fave feminist reads (for a new bookstore opening soon!), share what she's learned about the origins of the idea of "sex trafficking," and encourage you to make pleasure part of your critical hygiene routine. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Corkscrewed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 42:47


Why does it matter that the internet is built by and for men, and how do we survive while we try to remake it in our image? Believe Me contributors Katherine Alejandra Cross, Sady Doyle and Soraya Chemaly join Jaclyn to get into it via Corkscrew Theory, Dungeons and Dragons, and lots more. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Like a Polaroid

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2020 14:03


It's a #BelieveMe quickiesode, with updates on the high school activists fighting for their right to sex ed in Oregon, insight from Rolling Stone writer Jamil Smith, and how the internet is like a polaroid picture for women trying to be believed. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Believe Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2020 39:30


What does it mean to believe women? To believe survivors? What would become possible if we had a culture that treated women as both credible and important? Jaclyn is joined by Jessica Valenti to celebrate the publication of their new anthology Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Feminist Vengeance Squad

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 42:34


Amber Rollo is one of the three heroes who confronted Harvey Weinstein and his enablers at a comedy event in New York late last year. You're gonna want to hear her story. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

For the UK: An Army of Lovers

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2019 39:46


I'm back! And I'm sending love to everyone facing the horrible election results in the UK, in the form of a rerun of the episode I ran right after Trump was elected. It's about why pleasure isn't optional, even in these worst of times - it's a key ingredient in both our humanity and our political resistance. Let historian Hanne Blank explain as she talks with Jaclyn about what she learned during the 80s AIDS crisis, the importance of marshmallows when the world is on fire, and why an old slogan from a 1960s French Art movement should be our mantra right now. (Rewind) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Feeling of Safety

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2019 39:26


Sex! Danger! Rebellion! Underground lairs! It's all there and so much more in Safe Sex, the new comic book series from Unscrewed fave Tina Horn. What makes us feel safe, and how does it differ from what actually makes us safer? Why is bureaucracy a disproportionate tax on the poor? What are high heels good for? Go behind the scenes as Jaclyn and Tina get into it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

All Roads Lead to the Rapist

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2019 39:38


It's Part 2 of our live show at the PRX Podcast Garage! If you haven't listened to Part 1, go do that first: it's called When You Share Your Pain. This second half features filmmaker Nancy Schwartzman (Roll Red Roll) talking about why she turns her camera on rapists to pierce rape culture, and a great audience Q&A about how to sustain yourself while doing anti-rape work. Bonus: Jaclyn's been sick, so enjoy her extra-gravely voice in the intro and outro. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

When You Share Your Pain

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2019 31:44


It's Part One of the Boston live show! Featuring Bernadine Truth and audience-generated lightning round answers, and kicking off a two-part discussion about the perils and possibilities of focusing on perpetrators and enablers in our stories about sexual violence. CONTENT WARNING: contains a brief mention of suicidality. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: A Witchy Way to Move

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2019 14:38


Welcome spooky season with a reflection on crones from Sady Doyle, and then get scary active about our rights to defy sex stereotypes before the SCOTUS rules we can get fired for doing gender wrong. All this and more in a new Spare Parts quickiesode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2019 36:40


Welcome to Season Eight, Unscrewed Nation! We're kicking it off with a season-long theme -- Edge Case -- and a deep dive with the genius mind of Sady Doyle, whose new book Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers is all about the women we write off as monsters, and the surprising lessons these ultimate edge cases can teach us about fear, power, rage, and patriarchy. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Listen: Bad Christian

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2019 78:24


Last month, Jaclyn chatted with the guys of Bad Christian about sex ed, protesting ICE, voting, when kids are ready for sex, and so much more. Check it out, and subscribe to the Bad Christian podcast wherever you get your shows. Unscrewed will be back soon with a new season! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Rewind: An Army of Lovers

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2019 37:00


It's time for our annual reminder that pleasure isn't optional - it's a key ingredient in both our humanity and our political resistance. Let historian Hanne Blank explain as she talks with Jaclyn about what she learned during the 80s AIDS crisis, the importance of marshmallows when the world is on fire, and why an old slogan from a 1960s French Art movement should be our mantra right now. (Rewind) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Listen: Adult Sex Ed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2019 47:49


Another episode of one of my fave shows to share with you, this time with me on it! While I'm still on summer hiatus, enjoy me talking butt sex (and many other things) along with Myisha Battle on the legendary Call Your Girlfriend. If you dig the episode, subscribe to their entire media empire at callyourgirlfriend.com! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Listen: Suspect Class

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2019 31:47


While Unscrewed is on summer hiatus, Jaclyn is bringing you the most Unscrewy episodes of other people's podcasts! Today: an episode of Rewire.News' Boom! Lawyered, bringing you some great news from the courts that you may have missed last week. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Don't Desist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2019 16:43


Last episode of the season! Including a bunch of updates from listeners, an advice question from a woman in a dry spell, new ways to get involved with Unscrewed Nation, a political pep talk - and because I forgot to say it on the show, HAPPY PRIDE TO MY QUEER FAM!!! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What Kind of Girl Do You Want to Be?

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2019 42:19


Right-wing extremists are infiltrating public schools under the guise of "sex education" -- even in liberal school districts. But in Eugene, OR, high school girls are fighting back. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Don't Sex Strike

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2019 16:16


What to do about draconian abortion laws (hint: it doesn't involve whether or not you fuck), a call for podcast suggestions, and advice for an aspiring sex educator, all in one quickiesode. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Future Imperfect

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2019 35:19


What should the future of anti-rape work look like? Activists Lorena Kourousias and Kalima Young of the Monument Quilt project join Jaclyn to talk art, orgasms, Afrofuturism, and living your future vision now. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sex Party!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2019 35:50


Can people who support sexual freedom become a political force to be reckoned with? Fiona Patten, founder of Australia's Reason Party, is proving it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Action Month

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2019 14:46


Your dating app wish list, how to turn Sexual Assault Awareness Month into Action Month, a scary bathroom incident involving trans rights that the right-wing won't be crowing about, and a little tease from Jaclyn, all in 15 minutes. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Appetite for Power

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 37:42


Black women are often conceived of as the victims of BDSM and pornography, but can they also be sites of Black women's healing, pleasure, liberation or power? Professor Ariane Cruz, author of The Color of Kink, says yes. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: The Good Guys

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 15:40


On Biden, Dr. Willie Parker, and why the "good guys" hurt us. Plus we hear from listeners who took Jaclyn's advice and wrote in to update us on how they're doing! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Unbecoming

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 43:31


When she was young, Anuradha Bhagwati chose an unusual way to rebel against her strict immigrant parents; she joined the U.S. Marine Corps. What followed taught her about power, masculinity, double standards, trauma, bravery, activism, and much much more. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Pleasure is a Human Right

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 14:21


Listener sex ed news from Oregon, a new documentary about Steubenville, and some deep thinking about the sexual politics of liberation: all in this one quickiesode. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Room Where It Happened

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 34:43


For the 10th anniversary of Yes Means Yes, Jessica Valenti joins Jaclyn to share behind-the-scenes secrets and reflect on the legacy and future of their landmark book. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Bad Enough

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2019 16:05


Oklahoma tries to make sex ed strides, Jaclyn gives away her audiobook, and a heartaching listener question about who gets to call themselves a survivor. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Absence of Pain Is Not Pleasure

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2019 41:43


What can the history of Black sexual oppression and resistance in the US teach us about how Black people get all the way free? Dalycia Saah and Rafaella Fiallo of Afrosexology have a vision. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Super Interactive

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2019 12:50


Listeners sound off on sex ed and offer their own resources, and Jaclyn asks you to a whole bunch of stuff. Oh, and we take it wayyyy back to before the internet had search engines. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A Very Specific Mary Poppins

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 40:23


Scarleteen.com, the groundbreaking sex ed website, turns 20 this year! Celebrate with Jaclyn and Scarleteen's founder Heather Corinna, who reflects not just on how the site -- and sex ed -- has evolved in two decades, but how doing the work has evolved them as well. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: All That Gender Shit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2019 14:27


On the human cost of content moderation, sex ed news in Colorado, and a listener question about a sexual role reversal -- but not the fun kind. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This Is Why We're Bad At Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2019 38:44


In December, Tumblr banned all "adult content" from its site, only the latest salvo on a misguided quest of corporations and politicians to crack down on adult entertainment in the name of protecting the innocent. Elle Chase, who ran Lady Cheeky, one of Tumblr's most popular blogs for women-focused erotic content, and Kate D'Adamo, sex worker rights advocate, join Jaclyn to figure out how we got into this mess, why it matters, and how we can hope to get somewhere better. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: The Real Scandal

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2019 15:34


Fake nude selfies, a really amazing pop culture recommendation, and advice for a listener who's not getting what she needs. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dystopia Buddies

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2019 43:44


Now that Kennedy is out and Kavanaugh is in, how bad are things going to get for people who need abortions? Robin Marty joins Jaclyn to talk about her new book Handbook for a Post-Roe America, and some surprising ideas on how to fight back with everything we've got. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sex While Trans

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2018 45:04


Why is it so hard to find good sex advice for trans women? Educator, performer and activist Rebecca Kling joins Jaclyn to talk it out on the meta level, and to help out two very specific listeners who are going through changes as they transition. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Robots are Coming

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2018 36:09


Sex robots are here. Now what? Jaclyn catches up with cultural critic Katherine Cross to talk robot brothels, dudebros, Ex Machina, and why you should be excited for the robot uprising. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Look Alive

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2018 12:41


Trump may be banning the phrase "sexual health," plus listener questions about breaking into activism and good books for girls growing up in hostile territory. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Why Does Patriarchy Persist?

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2018 46:04


We've been fighting patriarchy so long. Why are we still drowning in it? Carol Gilligan, the mother of feminist psychology, and NYU researcher Naomi Snider think they know. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A Family Heirloom

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2018 40:06


How does fatness affect our sense of our own sexuality, our own gender, our own race? Sonalee Rashatwar, AKA The Fat Sex Therapist, joins Jaclyn to dig deep. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Spare Parts: Edge Case

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2018 12:51


Hillary Clinton, Dan Savage and comprehensive pleasure-based sex education. It's a quickiesode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

An Army of Lovers

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2018 36:51


Pleasure isn't optional - it's a key ingredient in both our humanity and our political resistance. Let historian Hanne Blank explain as she talks with Jaclyn about what she learned during the 80s AIDS crisis, the importance of marshmallows when the world is on fire, and why an old slogan from a 1960s French Art movement should be our mantra right now. (Rewind) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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