Podcast appearances and mentions of Carol Gilligan

C'est un épisode tiré de ma newsletter (abonnez-vous) que je n'avais pas prévu de faire. J'ai vu passer une info entre la story d'un anniversaire et une recette de cuisine : 62 millions de visites en un mois pour un site qui enseigne à droguer et violer des femmes. J'ai été choqué, j'ai partagé, et j'ai continué ma journée mais c'était impossible.En qualité d'homme, me taire sur ce sujet ferait de moi un complice. Alors j'ai passé plusieurs semaines à lire des études, écouter des podcasts, regarder des documentaires. Plus d'une vingtaine de sources académiques publiées entre 2021 et 2025, bell hooks, Scott Galloway, Niobe Way, Olivia Gazalé, le rapport 2025 du Haut Conseil à l'Égalité, le podcast "Des mecs solides" d'Arte Radio.Dans cet épisode, je parle du chemin, plus court qu'on ne le croit, entre un garçon de 18 ans seul et sans boussole, et une communauté qui lui enseigne la haine. J'ai questionné ce que ça dit du monde qu'on a construit : on a transformé la condition féminine en quelques décennies sans jamais proposer aux hommes une nouvelle façon d'être des hommes. J'y parle aussi des algorithmes qui exposent un ado à du contenu masculiniste en 9 minutes. De l'amitié masculine qu'on n'a jamais appris à construire. De Marvin, 18 ans, qui s'en est sorti. Et de ce qu'on pourrait faire autrement.Ce n'est pas un épisode pour justifier quoi que ce soit. C'est un épisode pour comprendre, parce que sans comprendre, on ne changera rien.Citations marquantes« La personne la plus dangereuse du monde, c'est un jeune homme seul et sans le sou. Or la société n'en a jamais autant produit. » — Scott Galloway« Les hommes ne sont pas en crise, mais ils font des crises, jusqu'au point de tuer des femmes. » — Francis Dupuis-Déry« On ne peut pas guérir dans l'isolement. Une culture de la guérison qui donne aux hommes les moyens de changer est en train de naître. » — bell hooks« C'est pas de ta faute, c'est la faute des femmes, des féministes, des woke. Une simplification pour répondre à une souffrance qui est, elle, réelle. » — Pauline Ferrari« En réalité, les hommes souffrent et toute la culture leur dit : s'il vous plaît, ne nous confiez pas ce que vous ressentez. » — bell hooksBig Ideas1. On a changé le monde sans changer les représentations masculines La condition féminine a évolué en quelques décennies, une révolution sans précédent historique. Mais les imaginaires masculins, eux, n'ont pas bougé. Des millions d'hommes se retrouvent sans carte pour naviguer cette réalité. Olivia Gazalé le met en perspective : toutes les crises de la virilité se ressemblent, sauf celle-ci — parce que cette fois, les règles du jeu ont vraiment changé. Timestamp estimé : ~10:002. Le corps comme seul territoire de contrôle restant Quand l'économie, l'école et les relations affectives paraissent hors de portée, le corps reste le seul endroit où on peut mesurer des progrès. Le fitness explose chez les jeunes hommes — 19 % des 15-24 ans en France pratiquent la musculation, deux fois la moyenne nationale. Guillaume Valet appelle ça le "capitalisme des vulnérabilités" : vendre de la certitude à des gens qui n'en ont plus. Timestamp estimé : ~20:003. Les algorithmes exposent un ado au contenu masculiniste en 9 minutes Des chercheuses de Dublin l'ont mesuré précisément : 9 minutes sur TikTok, 17 sur YouTube. Et après 2-3 heures de visionnage, 76 à 78 % des recommandations sont masculinistes. Un adolescent français passe en moyenne 4 heures par jour devant un écran. Il n'a pas besoin de chercher ces contenus. Ils le trouvent. Timestamp estimé : ~35:004. L'incel n'est pas né de la haine, mais de la solitude Le terme vient d'une femme, Alana, qui voulait créer un espace bienveillant pour ceux qui peinent à trouver une relation. Le forum a changé de main et de ton. Aujourd'hui l'idéologie incel transforme la frustration en conviction, la conviction en ressentiment, le ressentiment en désignation d'un ennemi. La "blackpill" est son moteur : un déterminisme brutal présenté comme vérité scientifique. Timestamp estimé : ~42:005. La vraie crise, c'est l'amitié masculine Niobe Way a suivi des cohortes de garçons pendant huit ans. Ce qu'elle observe est systématique : à 11-12 ans, les garçons ont des amitiés émotionnellement profondes. En grandissant, ils apprennent que ça "fait fille" ou "gay". Ils s'autocensurent, et se retrouvent très seuls sans pouvoir le formuler. Ce vide-là, les algorithmes et les influenceurs masculinistes l'ont repéré en premiers. Timestamp estimé : ~27:006. Des sorties existent, et elles passent par la connexion Marvin, 18 ans, s'en est sorti par deux chemins : une première histoire amoureuse qui l'a mis face à ses propres émotions, et une amie fille qui n'a jamais coupé le lien. Pas de déconstruction idéologique, pas de formation. Du lien. Toutes les recherches convergent : la sortie passe par la santé mentale, des modèles issus de la communauté elle-même, et la normalisation des amitiés masculines. Timestamp estimé : ~58:00Questions posées dans l'épisodeQuelle est ma responsabilité en tant qu'homme face à un phénomène comme celui-là ? Me taire, est-ce être complice ?Comment expliquer qu'on a transformé la condition féminine en quelques décennies sans proposer aux hommes une nouvelle façon d'être des hommes ?Pourquoi le corps est-il devenu le premier territoire de reconstruction identitaire pour les jeunes hommes ?Comment un algorithme peut-il radicaliser un adolescent en moins de 10 minutes sans qu'il l'ait cherché ?D'où vient le mot "incel" et comment est-il passé d'un espace bienveillant à une idéologie de la haine ?Quel est le chemin concret qui mène de la solitude à la violence ?Pourquoi les jeunes hommes les plus exposés au masculinisme reconnaissent-ils en même temps la difficulté d'être une femme ?Est-ce que comprendre cette radicalisation revient à la justifier ?Quels sont les modèles d'une masculinité réinventée aujourd'hui — dans la culture populaire, les films, les séries ?Comment sort-on de l'idéologie incel, et qu'est-ce qui fait vraiment basculer quelqu'un ?Références citées dans l'épisodeLivresbell hooks, La volonté de changer : les hommes, la masculinité et l'amour (2004) — cité comme fondation théorique sur la socialisation masculine et l'engourdissement affectifOlivia Gazalé, Le mythe de la virilité — mise en perspective historique des crises de la masculinitéScott Galloway, Notes on Being a Man (nov. 2025, NYT bestseller) — analyse macrosociale du décrochage masculinRichard Reeves, Of Boys and Men (2022) — décrochage scolaire et économique des hommesJonathan Haidt, The Anxious Generation (2024) — impact des réseaux sociaux sur la génération ZNiobe Way, Deep Secrets: Boys' Friendships and the Crisis of Connection — évolution des amitiés masculinesGuillaume Valet, La fabrique du muscle — capitalisme des vulnérabilités et fitnessFrancis Dupuis-Déry, La crise de la masculinité — politique et genreDavid Deida, The Way of the Superior Man — mentionné comme symptôme d'une tendance masculiniste dans l'entourage de GregÉtudes académiquesRodríguez et al. (2025), Deciphering the incels, Aggression and Violent BehaviorCostello et al. (2025), The Dual Pathways Hypothesis of Incel Harm, Archives of Sexual BehaviorRegehr, C., In(cel)doctrination — progression en 5 étapes vers la radicalisationMoskalenko et al., Incel Ideology, Radicalization and Mental Health (274 entretiens)Solea & Sugiura (2023), Mainstreaming the Blackpill: Understanding the Incel Community on TikTok, European Journal on Criminal Policy and ResearchMurnen et al. (2002), méta-analyse sur masculinité hostile et agression sexuelle, Sex RolesSummerell et al. (2025), masculinité et violences conjugales, Aggression and Violent BehaviorÉtude de l'Université de Dublin sur les algorithmes (comptes fictifs d'ados sur TikTok et YouTube)Podcasts & médiasDes mecs solides, Louie Média / Arte Radio (2025) — témoignages de Jules, Marvin, TristanThe Huberman Lab (interview de Scott Galloway, 2026)Documentaire sur Bertrand CantatJohann Chapoulot (historien) dans une story Instagram sur "la banalité du mal"Pauline Ferrari, journaliste spécialisée masculinisme depuis 7 ansCNN investigation sur "l'académie du viol mondiale" (avril 2026)Franceinfo, Campion J. (23 avril 2026) sur les réseaux d'hommes pratiquant les viols conjugaux sous sédatifInstitutions & rapportsHaut Conseil à l'Égalité entre les femmes et les hommes, Rapport 2025Pew Research Center — données sur le soutien émotionnel dans les relationsChercheurs citésAudrey Voal (sociologue, CEET) — distinction masculinité / virilitéCarol Gilligan (psychologue) — "rupture de la voix" dès 4-5 ans chez les garçonsMichael Stora (psychanalyste) — musculation comme antidépresseurKevin Ditter (sociologue français) — amitiés face-à-face vs côte-à-côteDylan Vegara & Angelica Ferrara — concept de "mankeeping"Caitlin Regehr — ethnographie incel, progression en 5 tempsSophia Moskalenko (Georgia State University)Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Carol Gilligan, professor at New York University, received the Kyoto Prize in Arts and Philosophy, specifically in the field of Thought and Ethics, for pioneering a new horizon for the “ethic of care” while pointing out the distortions and limitations of conventional psychological theories pertaining to women's thoughts and behaviors. By offering research-based insights into women's moral reasoning, especially in contrast to men's moral reasoning, Gilligan showed how women are more likely than men to prioritize human connections and seek solutions that preserve relationships. She called this relationship-oriented reasoning the “ethic of care” and contrasted it with the “ethic of justice,” which often entails imposing universal principles or rights, even forcefully, to resolve conflict. Gilligan does not merely contrast these differently positioned ethical frameworks; rather her life work has been deeply concerned with an enmeshment of the two for a more fully realized understanding of human maturity and development. Her work offers a new academic foundation for addressing global societal challenges like women's empowerment and the welfare of the elderly and disabled. Series: "Kyoto Prize Symposium" [Humanities] [Show ID: 41118]

Carol Gilligan, professor at New York University, received the Kyoto Prize in Arts and Philosophy, specifically in the field of Thought and Ethics, for pioneering a new horizon for the “ethic of care” while pointing out the distortions and limitations of conventional psychological theories pertaining to women's thoughts and behaviors. By offering research-based insights into women's moral reasoning, especially in contrast to men's moral reasoning, Gilligan showed how women are more likely than men to prioritize human connections and seek solutions that preserve relationships. She called this relationship-oriented reasoning the “ethic of care” and contrasted it with the “ethic of justice,” which often entails imposing universal principles or rights, even forcefully, to resolve conflict. Gilligan does not merely contrast these differently positioned ethical frameworks; rather her life work has been deeply concerned with an enmeshment of the two for a more fully realized understanding of human maturity and development. Her work offers a new academic foundation for addressing global societal challenges like women's empowerment and the welfare of the elderly and disabled. Series: "Kyoto Prize Symposium" [Humanities] [Show ID: 41118]

Carol Gilligan, professor at New York University, received the Kyoto Prize in Arts and Philosophy, specifically in the field of Thought and Ethics, for pioneering a new horizon for the “ethic of care” while pointing out the distortions and limitations of conventional psychological theories pertaining to women's thoughts and behaviors. By offering research-based insights into women's moral reasoning, especially in contrast to men's moral reasoning, Gilligan showed how women are more likely than men to prioritize human connections and seek solutions that preserve relationships. She called this relationship-oriented reasoning the “ethic of care” and contrasted it with the “ethic of justice,” which often entails imposing universal principles or rights, even forcefully, to resolve conflict. Gilligan does not merely contrast these differently positioned ethical frameworks; rather her life work has been deeply concerned with an enmeshment of the two for a more fully realized understanding of human maturity and development. Her work offers a new academic foundation for addressing global societal challenges like women's empowerment and the welfare of the elderly and disabled. Series: "Kyoto Prize Symposium" [Humanities] [Show ID: 41118]

UC San Diego is hosting the 25th Annual Kyoto Prize Symposium this week. The esteemed award is given for lifetime achievement in the fields of technology, science and the arts.One of this year's honorees is Carol Gilligan. Her groundbreaking work highlights how women and girls were excluded in psychological research. In books such as "In a Different Voice," Gilligan explored women's and girls' identity and morality, and developed the concept of "the ethic of care.""I was standing with all women and girls in receiving this prize," she said in an interview with Midday Edition. "And our voices were being recognized."Gilligan joined Midday Edition Tuesday to reflect on what she's learned about the lives of women and girls over the course of her career and share her reaction to receiving the Kyoto Prize.Guest:Carol Gilligan, professor, researcher, author, New York UniversityLinks:Registration for the 25th Annual Kyoto Prize Symposium Laureate Presentations, UC San Diego, March 11-12

In this powerful and paradigm-shifting conversation, Darin Olien sits down with Dr. Mindy Pelz to dismantle everything we've been told about menopause, hormones, aging, and women's power. This is not a conversation about "fixing" women — it's about understanding a profound neurological, biological, and evolutionary transition that has been misunderstood, pathologized, and silenced for decades. Together, they explore why menopause is not the end of vitality, but the beginning of leadership, clarity, and sovereignty — and why reclaiming this transition could fundamentally reshape families, culture, and the future of women's health.     What You'll Learn (with Full Timecodes) 00:00:00 – Welcome to SuperLife: Why this episode matters for everyone, not just women 00:01:05 – The hidden cost of modern living: Plastics, endocrine disruption, and invisible hormonal stress 00:02:47 – Introducing Dr. Mindy Pelz: Why this conversation goes deeper than anything online 00:03:17 – Why women were excluded from medical research for decades 00:05:26 – The shocking pattern Dr. Pelz saw in women in their 40s: When life looks perfect but feels unbearable 00:06:41 – The suicide and divorce statistics no one talks about 00:07:27 – Why menopause exists at all: The evolutionary mystery 00:08:55 – The Grandmother Hypothesis: Why post-menopausal women kept humanity alive 00:10:08 – The brain shift that makes women stop people-pleasing 00:11:31 – Aging, fear, and the cultural erasure of women's wisdom 00:13:10 – The female brain before vs. after menopause 00:15:13 – Darin's reflection on his mother and invisible female labor 00:16:06 – Why community, safety, and oxytocin matter more than willpower 00:18:00 – Carol Gilligan's research: When girls stop knowing what they want 00:19:32 – Menopause as an awakening — not a breakdown 00:21:24 – Why men must be part of this conversation 00:22:26 – Leadership, aging, and reclaiming relevance 00:24:18 – Family dynamics when identity shifts 00:25:33 – The problem with outsourcing menopause to hormone therapy alone 00:27:00 – How to communicate needs without blame or collapse 00:30:07 – Metabolic health, insulin resistance, and early menopause 00:31:16 – The one blood marker every woman over 40 must track (HbA1c) 00:34:45 – The Hormonal Hierarchy explained: Cortisol, insulin, sex hormones, oxytocin 00:37:44 – Menopause as a cultural rite of passage we never created 00:39:31 – Dementia, Alzheimer's, and the glucose-starved brain 00:40:23 – Why fasting is neuroprotective for women 00:42:35 – How fasting helps menopausal belly weight 00:44:36 – Why shame keeps women disconnected from their power 00:45:34 – Why puberty and menopause are happening earlier 00:46:21 – Big Pharma, fear narratives, and the HRT conversation 00:48:35 – Empowerment vs. outsourcing health 00:50:11 – Why society fears powerful, post-menopausal women 00:52:11 – Dr. Pelz's personal breaking point and nervous system reset 00:55:33 – Redefining work, marriage, and self-permission 00:58:37 – Resentment as a diagnostic tool 01:01:15 – Neuroplasticity, obstacles, and the hero's journey 01:03:16 – Why going through discomfort rewires the brain 01:04:23 – Integration: Menopause as rebirth, leadership, and collective healing 01:12:25 – Closing reflections and final takeaways     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Bite Toothpaste: Go to trybite.com/DARIN20 or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your first order Caldera Lab: Experience the clinically proven benefits of Caldera Lab's clean skincare regimen and enjoy 20% off your order by visiting calderalab.com/darin and using code DARIN at checkout.     Join the SuperLife Community Get Darin's deeper wellness breakdowns — beyond social media restrictions: Weekly voice notes Ingredient deep dives Wellness challenges Energy + consciousness tools Community accountability Extended episodes Join for $7.49/month → https://patreon.com/darinolien     Find More From Dr. Mindy Pelz: Website: drmindypelz.com Instagram: @dr.mindypelz Follow her YouTube Channel Podcast: The Resetter Podcast Order her new book: Age Like a Girl     Find More from Darin Olien: Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Website: https://superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway: Menopause isn't a failure of the female body — it's the moment a woman's brain rewires for truth, leadership, and independence. When we stop trying to fix women and start understanding this transition, we don't just heal individuals — we change families, cultures, and the future.  

Today, I am delighted to reconnect with my friend and colleague, Dr. Mindy Peltz, a New York Times bestselling author and a leading voice in women's health, hormones, and aging. She has written several books, with her most recent being Age Like A Girl. She also has a top-ranking podcast and YouTube channel.  In our conversation today, we'll explain how you can reframe menopause as an evolutionary upgrade. We dive into the neurochemical shifts that occur in menopause, exploring Carol Gilligan's work, the purpose of menopause, the influence of the Gen X generation, and how trauma influences our perimenopause and menopause experiences. We unpack the role of oxytocin, clarify why clutter is problematic, and discuss the effects of environmental psychology. We also highlight the critical importance of bioindividuality at this stage of life, and Dr. Mindy shares the books she likes and recommends. This discussion with Dr. Mindy is personal and deeply philosophical, inviting you to contemplate ideas that will continue to resonate with you long after it ends. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN: How setting boundaries improves relationships and preserves energy in midlife Why children transitioning to adulthood must be allowed to handle responsibilities How parental over-involvement can hinder the independence of young adults How the neurochemical shifts in perimenopause and menopause alter women's emotional responses and priorities The value of novelty and new experiences for supporting mental and emotional health How clutter impacts stress levels, especially during hormonal changes The benefits of creating calm environments to regulate the brain and emotional system How downsizing can bring profound peace and freedom Why solitude and personal space are essential for self-regulation in midlife How menopause creates the need for recalibrating relationship boundaries Connect with Cynthia Thurlow   Follow on X, Instagram & LinkedIn Check out Cynthia's website Submit your questions to support@cynthiathurlow.com Join other like-minded women in a supportive, nurturing community (The Midlife Pause/Cynthia Thurlow)  Cynthia's Menopause Gut Book is on presale now! Cynthia's Intermittent Fasting Transformation Book The Midlife Pause supplement line Connect with Dr. Mindy Pelz On⁠ YouTube⁠ ⁠Age Like A Girl (Website)⁠ ⁠Pre-order a copy of Age Like A Girl

Pastor Tim and Andrew Henry discuss Helen Andrews' article "The Great Feminization," in which she presents this thesis: "Wokeness is not a new ideology, an outgrowth of Marxism, or a result of post-Obama disillusionment. It is simply feminine patterns of behavior applied to institutions where women were few in number until recently."Is she right? Has God made men and women different? Does His Word clearly define the differences? Has the church been faithful to uphold His Word as our standard?The episode concludes with a discussion of the feminization and bowdlerization of English translations of Scripture.Also mentioned:Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice (1982)Andrew Jackson, speaking of Marshall's opinion in Worcester v. Georgia: "He has made his decision; now let him enforce it."Hemingway: "'How did you go bankrupt?' 'Two ways. Gradually, then suddenly.'"***Out of Our Minds Podcast: Pastors Who Say What They Think. For the love of Christ and His Church. Out of Our Minds is a production of New Geneva Academy. Are you interested in preparing for ordained ministry with pastors? Have a desire to grow in your knowledge and fear of God? Apply at www.newgenevaacademy.com. Master of Divinity / Bachelor of DivinityCertificate in Bible & TheologyIntro and outro music is Psalm of the King, Psalm 21 by My Soul Among Lions. Out of Our Minds audio, artwork, episode descriptions, and notes are property of New Geneva Academy and Warhorn Media, published with permission by Transistor, Inc. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Description: In this episode of the Matriarchy series, we explore how deeply ingrained patriarchal narratives can create a policing effect on the behavior of women.  Author, Elise Loehnen, discusses her book "On Our Best Behavior" which examines how concepts like the seven deadly sins have historically been used to restrict women's behavior and police their adherence to an idealized form of "goodness." Loehnen unpacks the insidious ways women are culturally conditioned from a young age to suppress normal human drives like anger, ambition, and sexuality. And how disrupting rigid gender stereotypes is important when raising the next generation in order to build a more compassionate world.  … Thought-provoking Quotes: ★ “Women are trained for goodness; men are trained for power.” – Elise Loehnen ★ “Patriarchy isn't just out there in systems and structures — it's in us. It's the air we breathe.” – Elise Loehnen ★ “A ‘good woman' never needs anything. She has no wants, no anger, no appetite. She exists to meet everyone else's needs — and calls it virtue.” – Elise Loehnen ★ “We are so conditioned to police ourselves that we end up policing each other.” – Elise Loehnen ★ “I hold everything I think with loose hands. This is what I know now. But I'm open to the me who might think differently later.” – Jen Hatmaker Resources Mentioned in This Episode: ➤ On Our Best Behavior by Elise Loehnen - https://bit.ly/44tz41D ➤ Goop - https://goop.com ➤ For the Love of Being Seen and Heard ft. Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/4b8YT9C ➤ Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/3JO7FOn ➤ Evagrius Ponticus (Fourth Century Christian Monk) - https://bit.ly/4b7zEV5 ➤ Pope Gregory on the 7 Deadly Sins - https://bit.ly/3y1J1XK ➤ Harvey Weinstein Abuse Cases -  https://bit.ly/4b5ktM5 ➤ Carol Gilligan - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_G... ➤ In a Different Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3JQ9IBh   ➤ Human Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3UQ1Rcn ➤ Andrew Tate - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_... ➤ Order, Disorder, Reorder (An idea Developed by Richard Rohr) - https://bit.ly/44xzHqK ➤ For the Love of The Enneagram ft. Richard Rohr - https://bit.ly/3QzzZaW ➤ Loretta Ross - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loretta... Guest's Links: ➤ Website: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ ➤ Facebook:   / eliseloehnen   ➤ Instagram:   / eliseloehnen   ➤ Twitter:   / eloehnen   ➤ LinkedIn:   / elise-loehnen-b867523   ➤ Podcast: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/episodes ➤ Blog: https://eliseloehnen.substack.com/ Connect with Jen!Jen's Website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmakerJen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmakerJen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker The For the Love Podcast is presented by Audacy.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carol Gilligan, psychologist and author of the novel "Kyra," talks about how the main character in the novel redefines the 'structure' in her therapy in order to get to the real truth behind events in her life.  The full interview from a 2008 episode of "Conversations On The Coast with Jim Foster" can be heard now wherever you get your podcasts.

I have been reflecting on the nature of practice-awakening. In the Buddhist tradition this refers to the process (both sudden and gradual) of realizing our fundamental wellbeing. This is a transformational practice. This is a healing practice. And it is mysterious. It doesn't happen in the way that we expect.Insights happen, and then are forgotten. Love is awakened and then seemingly covered over. Only to be rediscovered again. We can read the same teaching years later and feel like it opens a new level of depth, or is actually just what we needed to hear in that moment.The ancients spoke of stabilizing our insights, of familiarizing ourselves with the love, peace and understanding that we are.I am reading a book by Carol Gilligan called The Birth of Pleasure. In it Gilligan is using the myth of Psyche and Eros, to talk about the development of the psyche in women. She is also writing about relationship and the maturing of love. As I was reading I encountered a short paragraph where she introduced research between mothers and infants that revealed the relational attunement present at this early stage of our development. She spoke of how the research challenged assumptions of separation.Their research was challenging an orthodoxy of separation (we are born alone, we die alone) by revealing a reality of relationship. Finding and losing and finding again. This is the rhythm of relationship, played over and over again in the games that delight babies and young children. It is the rhythm of love.—Carol Gilligan, Birth of PleasureWhen I read this, I heard dharma practice instructions. That is the thing about immersing in the dharma, we hear it, we see it—everywhere.How many of us have this orthodoxy of separation ingrained in us? Who think thoughts or hold beliefs that—we are alone? We are separate from the rest of the world? That no one understands us? That we are unloveable or exiled in some way?The dharma challenges this orthodoxy, by revealing a reality of relationship. We can wake-up to the reality of interconnection, of non-separation. Practice is that finding and losing and finding again. Its the rhythm of love that delighted us as children. Its something we know deeply.We are never apart from it, but we get lost, as humans do. And then get found.A coin that is lost in the river, is found in the river.—Zen KoanWe are that coin. Our true nature is that coin. And actually we are the river too, where nothing is ever lost. Its always right here.In the Tibetan tradition you do practices a one-hundred-thousand times as part of the preliminary practices, called ngondro, this includes prayers, refuge practices, bows, atonement and offerings practices. I have a little taste of this from the studies I did at Tara Mandala. You keep a practice log, and you actually count.Part of the theory being that once you do it thousands of times, its in you. Faith, determination and trust are born through the practice of return. We actualize the rhythm of love that we delighted in as children.Isn't it delightful to rediscover the refuge of our breath, to reconnect with the stability and openness of our original heart?In the Zen tradition we have our own expression of this. Throughout the course of a retreat or a residential period, you will do 100s or 1000s of bows and hours of meditation. You will chant the same chants, participate in the same ceremonies, over and over again. Hogen used to say if you train at Great Vow Zen Monastery for at least 7 years—the dharma is in your bones. Ten or more years of dedicated lay practice that includes sesshin has a similar kind of embodied resonance.Part of the point here is the repetition. If we lose and find ourselves one-hundred-thousand times, we will start to trust the practice—we start to trust those periods of feeling lost, afraid or anxious as part of the rhythm of love—part of the rhythm of being. We will start to have a kind of experiential faith that love is us. That we are never apart from openness. That the peace we seek is really right here.one-hundred-thousand returns to loving kindness and kindness becomes more the ground from which we liveThe recognition, the experience of love, of ease, of understanding, takes an instant. But the true developing of the refuge takes time— perhaps one-hundred-thousand times or more.And we still get angry, we still get anxious—but our response is closer to the actual experience. We can feel the anxiety with kindness and openness, with curiosity and humility—and that changes everything.Sometimes we think, it must not be working if i still have to practice, if there is still this much anger. But this is the human realm, we live in a world with anger, with hatred, with loss and pain. Practice is an orientation of the heart, it's learning more and more to dwell with life as it actually is.Over the past year we have been reciting Ken McLeod's version of the Four Immeasureables prayer at Mud Lotus Sangha. I share it here, may you chant it 100k times until every cell in your body knows the truth behind these words.Four ImmeasurablesEquanimityMay I be free from preference and prejudice.May I know things just as they are.May I experience the world knowing me just as I am.May I see into whatever arises.Loving kindnessMay I be happy, well, and at peace.May I open to things just as they are.May I experience the world opening to me just as I am.May I welcome whatever arises.CompassionMay I be free of suffering, harm, and disturbance.May I accept things just as they are.May I experience the world accepting me just as I am.May I serve whatever arises.JoyMay I enjoy the activities of life itself.May I enjoy things just as they are.May I experience the world taking joy in all that I do.May I know what to do, whatever arises.…I'm Amy Kisei. I am a Zen Buddhist Teacher, Spiritual Counselor, Astrologer and Artist. I offer 1:1 Spiritual Counseling sessions using IFS and somatic mindfulness. I also offer astrology readings. Check out my website to learn more. I currently live in Columbus, OH and am a supporting teacher for the Mud Lotus Sangha.Summer Read— The Hidden Lamp: Stories from 25 Centuries of Awakened WomenJoin me starting on the Summer Solstice, Friday June 20th for a summer read of the Hidden Lamp. I hand selected 15 stories from the book that we will explore over the course of the summer.Weekly Online Meditation EventMonday Night Dharma — 6P PT / 9P ET Join weekly for drop-in meditation and dharma talk. We are currently exploring supportive practice forms for engaging the dharma in life outside of retreat.Feel free to join anytime. Event lasts about 1.5 hours. 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Qu'est-ce qu'une voix inoubliable ? Une voix qui s'imprime dans le corps et la mémoire est peut-être une voix qui résonne en soi, qui donne de la force, qui porte en elle un mystère difficile à saisir. Il existe sans doute autant de réponses que de personnes. Polyphonie de voix qui échappent à l'oubli. Avec   Agnès Clerc, écrivaine Alain Ghazal, comédien Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique Mo Laudi, curateur, artiste, compositeur et DJ, originaire d'Afrique du Sud Dédé Duguet, conteur martiniquais et slameur en créole et français Irène Berelowitch, journaliste et auteure radiophonique Kiko Herrero, écrivain  Références musicales Miriam Makeba, Pata Pata Eugène Mona, Doudou Ménard Archive Enregistrement sur phonographe, extrait de l'épisode  Écouter le bruit du temps 1/3 - Écouter le monde, Tous les épisodes de la série – Notes sur la voix humaine Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Le bruit de la pensée, un instrument de musique, une présence, une émotion... ? Son avant d'être parole, chaque voix exprime ce que les mots seuls ne peuvent dire. Cette série explore les lexiques, les nuances et les subtilités de la voix humaine.  Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son unique [Série 1/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son de la chair [Série 2/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son des émotions [Série 3/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son du paysage [Série 4/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son inoubliable [Série 5/5] - Écouter le monde   Équipe de production ► Conception, montage et réalisation : Monica Fantini ► Coréalisation : Laurence Allanic  – Unité de création – RFI ►Merci à Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique engagée dans la création contemporaine, pour sa collaboration. Bibliographie  Une voix humaine, l'éthique du care revisitée, Carol Gilligan, Éditions CLIMATS, 2024  La voce umana, Giorgio Agamben, Éditions Quodlibet, 2023  La voix sombre, Ryoko Sekiguchi, Éditions P.O.L, 2015  Anthologie de poésie haïtienne contemporaine, dirigée et présentée par James Noël, Éditions Points, 2015  Sous le soleil jaguar, Italo Calvino, traduit par Jean-Paul Manganaro, Éditions Gallimard, 2013  Une voix et rien d'autre, Mladen Dolar, traduit de l'anglais par Christine Vivier, Éditions-NOUS, 2012.  Voix, Gérard Wajcman, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Essai pour une histoire des voix au dix-huitième siècle, Arlette Farge, Éditions Bayard, 2009  La voix, un univers invisible, Anne Karpf, traduit de l'anglais par Geneviève Brzustowski, Éditions Autrement, 2008  Echolalies, essai sur l'oubli des langues, Daniel Heller- Roazen, Éditions du Seuil, 2007  A più voci, filosofia dell'espressione vocale, Adriana Cavarero, Éditions Giangiacomo Feltrinelli, 2003  L'Obvie et l'Obtus. Essais critiques 3, Roland Barthes, Éditions du Seuil, 1982  Écouter le monde Tout à la fois émission de radio et plateforme participative, « Écouter le monde » donne à entendre les cultures du monde à travers des sons du quotidien. Des centaines d'émissions sont à écouter en podcast sur cette page, tandis que la plateforme participative www.ecouterlemonde.net propose des cartes postales sonores et des enregistrements. À ce jour, 245 captations sonores sont disponibles en libre accès.

Régulièrement, l'équipe de Folie Douce partage avec vous les extraits les plus marquants des épisodes du podcast. Aujourd'hui, on vous propose de réécouter la philosophe américaine Carol Gilligan, théoricienne du care, évoquant la puissance des voix des adolescentes, qui sont celles de la résistance.Retrouvez cet épisode en entier sur toutes vos plateformes de podcast.À 88 ans, Carol Gilligan est l'une des plus grandes penseuses contemporaines, et accessoirement la théoricienne du care. Faisant se rencontrer féminisme et santé mentale, elle incarne toutes les valeurs que défend ce podcast. La recevoir dans Folie Douce, c'est notre cadeau de fin d'année pour vous remercier de votre écoute depuis maintenant 22 (!) épisodes.Vous trouverez cet entretien sous deux formes : l'une complètement en anglais, l'autre doublée et expliquée en français par Lauren si vous préférez (les deux se trouvent séparément dans le flux du podcast, suivez les drapeaux !)Carol Gilligan est l'autrice d'un ouvrage majeur paru en 1982, Une voix différente, dans lequel elle développe la notion de care, qui se rapproche du soin - et est principalement pris en charge par les femmes - et critique les travaux des psychologues de l'époque qui catégorisaient les enfants par leur genre. Une voix humaine, publié cette année, se présente comme une réponse au premier : cette voix différente est-elle vraiment genrée ? Elle y déploie entre autres la question de la voix, l'inner-voice en nous que l'on tait souvent, et celle que l'on utilise librement.Au micro de Lauren Bastide, elle se penche sur la notion d'écoute active, qu'elle a mise en place dans les nombreux entretiens qu'elle a menés avec des jeunes filles dans le cadre de ses travaux. Carol Gilligan parle également de sa mère, et de la jeune génération d'activistes. Elle explore ce « marché » que les femmes sont encouragées à faire avec la patriarcat, pour obtenir la reconnaissance en échange de la silenciation de leur voix authentique. Elle met en avant, à la fin de l'entretien, l'importance de l'écoute, la plus grande marque de respect, qui peut changer notre vision du monde.

Voix de Paris, de Bruxelles, de Dakar, de La Havane… Toutes les voix du monde se ressemblent-elles ? Chaque voix unique appartient à un lieu et à une culture; « Je parle avec ma voix, mais ma culture parle à travers moi », écrit la sociologue Anne Karpf. Que dit la voix de l'histoire d'une personne ? Dit-elle tout ? La série – Notes sur la voix humaine Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Le bruit de la pensée, un instrument de musique, une présence, une émotion... ? Son avant d'être parole, chaque voix exprime ce que les mots seuls ne peuvent dire. Cette série explore les lexiques, les nuances et les subtilités de la voix humaine.  Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son unique [Série 1/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son de la chair [Série 2/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son des émotions [Série 3/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son du paysage [Série 4/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son inoubliable [Série 5/5] - Écouter le monde   Équipe de production ► Conception, montage et réalisation : Monica Fantini ► Prise de son de la voix et aide au mixage : Pascal Boungo – Unité de création – RFI ►Merci à Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique engagée dans la création contemporaine, pour sa collaboration. Extraits sonores Fragments des enregistrements publiés en libre accès sur La carte des sons, plateforme participative d'Ecouter le monde : Paris, Parc de la Villette, Manège pour enfant et sa fameuse valse de Yves Zysman  Dakar, appel à la prière de Michel Créïs Bruxelles, Belgique : Deux sifflets pour un bouchon de Virgile Loiseau La Havane, Cuba : Habana Vieja, de Marjolaine Leclancher  Fragments des émissions de Ecouter le monde, de Monica Fantini : Venise, chant d'un gondolier, « Le son qui reste – Calle Paradiso » Le Caire, éclats de voix de rue, La voix du Caire  Bibliographie  Une voix humaine, l'éthique du care revisitée, Carol Gilligan, Éditions CLIMATS, 2024  La voce umana, Giorgio Agamben, Éditions Quodlibet, 2023  La voix sombre, Ryoko Sekiguchi, Éditions P.O.L, 2015  Anthologie de poésie haïtienne contemporaine, dirigée et présentée par James Noël, Éditions Points, 2015  Sous le soleil jaguar, Italo Calvino, traduit par Jean-Paul Manganaro, Éditions Gallimard, 2013  Une voix et rien d'autre, Mladen Dolar, traduit de l'anglais par Christine Vivier, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Voix, Gérard Wajcman, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Essai pour une histoire des voix au dix-huitième siècle, Arlette Farge, Éditions Bayard, 2009  La voix, un univers invisible, Anne Karpf, traduit de l'anglais par Geneviève Brzustowski, Éditions Autrement, 2008  Echolalies, essai sur l'oubli des langues, Daniel Heller- Roazen, Éditions du Seuil, 2007  A più voci, filosofia dell'espressione vocale, Adriana Cavarero, Éditions Giangiacomo Feltrinelli, 2003  L'Obvie et l'Obtus. Essais critiques 3, Roland Barthes, Éditions du Seuil, 1982  Écouter le monde Tout à la fois émission de radio et plateforme participative, « Écouter le monde » donne à entendre les cultures du monde à travers des sons du quotidien. Des centaines d'émissions sont à écouter en podcast sur cette page, tandis que la plateforme participative www.ecouterlemonde.net propose des cartes postales sonores et des enregistrements. À ce jour, 245 captations sonores sont disponibles en libre accès.

Elle est colérique, calme, joyeuse, triste, son ton blesse ou caresse bien plus que les mots qu'elle porte, la voix humaine est traversée par les émotions. Elle tremble, hésite, parfois elle craque, elle change au fil du temps. Et comme l'écrit le poète FrankÉtienne : « J'écoute encore les ratures de ma voix, elle porte des blessures, vire et chavire... ».  La série – Notes sur la voix humaine Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Le bruit de la pensée, un instrument de musique, une présence, une émotion... ? Son avant d'être parole, chaque voix exprime ce que les mots seuls ne peuvent dire. Cette série explore les lexiques, les nuances et les subtilités de la voix humaine.  Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son unique [Série 1/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son de la chair [Série 2/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son des émotions [Série 3/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son du paysage [Série 4/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son inoubliable [Série 5/5] - Écouter le monde   Équipe de production ► Conception, montage et réalisation : Monica Fantini ► Prise de son : Stéphane Portier – Unité de création – RFI ►Coréalisation : Laurence Allanic – Unité de création – RFI ►Merci à Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique engagée dans la création contemporaine, pour sa collaboration. Bibliographie  Une voix humaine, l'éthique du care revisitée, Carol Gilligan, Éditions CLIMATS, 2024  La voce umana, Giorgio Agamben, Éditions Quodlibet, 2023  La voix sombre, Ryoko Sekiguchi, Éditions P.O.L, 2015  Anthologie de poésie haïtienne contemporaine, dirigée et présentée par James Noël, Éditions Points, 2015  Sous le soleil jaguar, Italo Calvino, traduit par Jean-Paul Manganaro, Éditions Gallimard, 2013  Une voix et rien d'autre, Mladen Dolar, traduit de l'anglais par Christine Vivier, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Voix, Gérard Wajcman, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Essai pour une histoire des voix au dix-huitième siècle, Arlette Farge, Éditions Bayard, 2009  La voix, un univers invisible, Anne Karpf, traduit de l'anglais par Geneviève Brzustowski, Éditions Autrement, 2008  Echolalies, essai sur l'oubli des langues, Daniel Heller- Roazen, Éditions du Seuil, 2007  A più voci, filosofia dell'espressione vocale, Adriana Cavarero, Éditions Giangiacomo Feltrinelli, 2003  L'Obvie et l'Obtus. Essais critiques 3, Roland Barthes, Éditions du Seuil, 1982  Écouter le monde Tout à la fois émission de radio et plateforme participative, « Écouter le monde » donne à entendre les cultures du monde à travers des sons du quotidien. Des centaines d'émissions sont à écouter en podcast sur cette page, tandis que la plateforme participative www.ecouterlemonde.net propose des cartes postales sonores et des enregistrements. À ce jour, 245 captations sonores sont disponibles en libre accès.

Elle pleure, babille, bâille, ronfle, gémit, tousse. La voix humaine ne fait pas que parler, elle s'exprime sans paroles. Elle est un son qui étincelle. Elle est intouchable, pourtant elle touche, elle pénètre et inonde tout le corps. « La voix est la vibration d'une gorge de chair », comme l'écrit Italo Calvino dans le récit Un roi à l'écoute.  Tous les épisodes de la série – Notes sur la voix humaine Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Le bruit de la pensée, un instrument de musique, une présence, une émotion... ? Son avant d'être parole, chaque voix exprime ce que les mots seuls ne peuvent dire. Cette série explore les lexiques, les nuances et les subtilités de la voix humaine.  Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son unique [Série 1/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son de la chair [Série 2/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son des émotions [Série 3/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son du paysage [Série 4/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son inoubliable [Série 5/5] - Écouter le monde   Équipe de production ► Conception, montage et réalisation : Monica Fantini ► Prise de son et coréalisation : Laurence Allanic – Unité de création – RFI ►Merci à Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique engagée dans la création contemporaine, pour sa collaboration. Bibliographie  Une voix humaine, l'éthique du care revisitée, Carol Gilligan, Éditions CLIMATS, 2024  La voce umana, Giorgio Agamben, Éditions Quodlibet, 2023  La voix sombre, Ryoko Sekiguchi, Éditions P.O.L, 2015  Anthologie de poésie haïtienne contemporaine, dirigée et présentée par James Noël, Éditions Points, 2015  Sous le soleil jaguar, Italo Calvino, traduit par Jean-Paul Manganaro, Éditions Gallimard, 2013  Une voix et rien d'autre, Mladen Dolar, traduit de l'anglais par Christine Vivier, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Voix, Gérard Wajcman, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Essai pour une histoire des voix au dix-huitième siècle, Arlette Farge, Éditions Bayard, 2009  La voix, un univers invisible, Anne Karpf, traduit de l'anglais par Geneviève Brzustowski, Éditions Autrement, 2008  Echolalies, essai sur l'oubli des langues, Daniel Heller- Roazen, Éditions du Seuil, 2007  A più voci, filosofia dell'espressione vocale, Adriana Cavarero, Éditions Giangiacomo Feltrinelli, 2003  L'Obvie et l'Obtus. Essais critiques 3, Roland Barthes, Éditions du Seuil, 1982  Écouter le monde Tout à la fois émission de radio et plateforme participative, « Écouter le monde » donne à entendre les cultures du monde à travers des sons du quotidien. Des centaines d'émissions sont à écouter en podcast sur cette page, tandis que la plateforme participative www.ecouterlemonde.net propose des cartes postales sonores et des enregistrements. À ce jour, 245 captations sonores sont disponibles en libre accès.

Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Est-ce le bruit de la pensée ? Mélodieuse, monotone, caverneuse, fluette, grave, aigüe, cristalline, criarde... Avec sa tessiture, sa puissance et son timbre, chaque voix humaine est un son unique avant d'être langage.  Tous les épisodes de la série – Notes sur la voix humaine Qu'est-ce que la voix ? Le bruit de la pensée, un instrument de musique, une présence... ? Son avant d'être parole, chaque voix exprime ce que les mots seuls ne peuvent dire. Cette série explore les lexiques, les nuances et les subtilités de la voix humaine. Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son unique [Série 1/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son de la chair [Série 2/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son des émotions [Série 3/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son du paysage [Série 4/5] - Écouter le monde Notes sur la voix humaine – Le son inoubliable [Série 5/5] - Écouter le monde   Équipe de production ► Conception, montage et réalisation : Monica Fantini ► Prise de son de la voix et coréalisation : Laurence Allanic – Unité de création – RFI ►Merci à Valérie Philippin, soprano lyrique engagée dans la création contemporaine, pour sa collaboration. Bibliographie Une voix humaine, l'éthique du care revisitée, Carol Gilligan, Éditions CLIMATS, 2024  La voce umana, Giorgio Agamben, Éditions Quodlibet, 2023  La voix sombre, Ryoko Sekiguchi, Éditions P.O.L, 2015  Anthologie de poésie haïtienne contemporaine, dirigée et présentée par James Noël, Éditions Points, 2015  Sous le soleil jaguar, Italo Calvino, traduit par Jean-Paul Manganaro, Éditions Gallimard, 2013  Une voix et rien d'autre, Mladen Dolar, traduit de l'anglais par Christine Vivier, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Voix, Gérard Wajcman, Éditions NOUS, 2012  Essai pour une histoire des voix au dix-huitième siècle, Arlette Farge, Éditions Bayard, 2009  La voix, un univers invisible, Anne Karpf, traduit de l'anglais par Geneviève Brzustowski, Éditions Autrement, 2008  Echolalies, essai sur l'oubli des langues, Daniel Heller- Roazen, Éditions du Seuil, 2007  A più voci, filosofia dell'espressione vocale, Adriana Cavarero, Éditions Giangiacomo Feltrinelli, 2003  L'Obvie et l'Obtus. Essais critiques 3, Roland Barthes, Éditions du Seuil, 1982  Ecouter le monde Tout à la fois émission de radio et plateforme participative, « Écouter le monde » donne à entendre les cultures du monde à travers des sons du quotidien. Des centaines d'émissions sont à écouter en podcast sur cette page, tandis que la plateforme participative www.ecouterlemonde.net propose des cartes postales sonores et des enregistrements. À ce jour, 245 captations sonores sont disponibles en libre accès.

For my recent New York Times Magazine article on my experience of doing couples therapy with noted therapist Terry Real, I interviewed Terry's old friend and former collaborator Carol Gilligan. This is an edited version of that conversation, which is in part about Terry but also more broadly about issues of gender roles and relationships, patriarchy and politics.Gilligan, now in her 80s, is probably best known for her landmark 1982 book In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development, which proposed a new model of early psychological development that distinguished between how boys and girls develop.She's since written a host of other books, including The Birth of Pleasure: A New Map of Love; Meeting at the Crossroads: Women's Psychology and Girls' Development; Women, Girls and Psychotherapy: Reframing Resistance; and most recently Why does patriarchy persist? and Darkness now visible: patriarchy's resurgence and feminist resistance.I wrote about Gilligan and Real in a recent post on this Substack, describing how they met and ended up collaborating:“I think there's a deep love of men in Terry,” says the feminist psychologist Carol Gilligan, who first met Real in the late 1990s, after she positively reviewed his book on male depression, I Don't Want to Talk About It, in The New York Times. Gilligan had just returned to the US from England to accept a chair in gender studies at Harvard, and Real was teaching and practicing nearby at a family therapy institute in Cambridge. She was invited to visit the institute, and while there she observed Real, through a one way mirror, working with a married couple. She was struck by the intensity of his therapeutic presence, and by the way that his confrontation of men was able to simultaneously draw in both halves of the couple.“I hadn't seen a therapist who had the ability Terry had to talk with men,” she says, “and to name what was going on. I think men could hear it, and I would watch the woman, and her eyes would open wide: 'Oh my god, somebody's saying it.'”Soon Gilligan and Real began seeing couples together. At the time, Gilligan was also working with psychologist Judy Chu on a project observing four-year-old boys in pre-school. What she and Chu ended up charting was a kind of inverse of the psychological stunting process that Gilligan had identified in her earlier, groundbreaking work on the development of girls. Where girls, beginning in adolescence, would often suppress their “masculine” assertiveness and voice, boys, at age four or so, would begin to suppress their “feminine” capacities to perceive and respond to the internal states of themselves and others. Under pressure from their peers and parents, they'd begin to go emotionally dumb. Gilligan wondered if many of the romantic conflicts faced by adult couples were rooted in these parallel failures of development, and whether one could heal adult relationships by bringing these earlier selves into relation to each other in therapy.“Where was the emotionally honest 11-year-old girl who said what she saw and felt?” she says. “And where was that emotionally intelligent four-year-old boy from my studies with boys who would say things like, 'Mommy, why do you smile when you're sad?' I thought: if you could get these two people in the room, they could work out the problems in the relationship.”We talk about her work with Terry, her work with fathers of young boys, early psychological development, her take on Terry's approach to working with me, and much more. It's a relatively brief, but I think quite rich, conversation. Get full access to Eminent Americans at danieloppenheimer.substack.com/subscribe

Pour soutenir mon travail, abonnez-vous à ma newsletter sur Substack.À 88 ans, Carol Gilligan est l'une des plus grandes penseuses contemporaines, et accessoirement la théoricienne du care. Faisant se rencontrer féminisme et santé mentale, elle incarne toutes les valeurs que défend ce podcast. La recevoir dans Folie Douce, c'est notre cadeau de fin d'année pour vous remercier de votre écoute depuis maintenant 22 (!) épisodes.Vous trouverez cet entretien sous deux formes : l'une complètement en anglais, l'autre doublée et expliquée en français par Lauren si vous préférez (les deux se trouvent séparément dans le flux du podcast, suivez les drapeaux !)Carol Gilligan est l'autrice d'un ouvrage majeur paru en 1982, Une voix différente, dans lequel elle développe la notion de care, qui se rapproche du soin - et est principalement pris en charge par les femmes - et critique les travaux des psychologues de l'époque qui catégorisaient les enfants par leur genre. Une voix humaine, publié cette année, se présente comme une réponse au premier : cette voix différente est-elle vraiment genrée ? Elle y déploie entre autres la question de la voix, l'inner-voice en nous que l'on tait souvent, et celle que l'on utilise librement.Au micro de Lauren Bastide, elle se penche sur la notion d'écoute active, qu'elle a mise en place dans les nombreux entretiens qu'elle a menés avec des jeunes filles dans le cadre de ses travaux. Carol Gilligan parle également de sa mère, et de la jeune génération d'activistes. Elle explore ce « marché » que les femmes sont encouragées à faire avec la patriarcat, pour obtenir la reconnaissance en échange de la silenciation de leur voix authentique. Elle met en avant, à la fin de l'entretien, l'importance de l'écoute, la plus grande marque de respect, qui peut changer notre vision du monde.➡️ Rejoignez la communauté sur Instagram.➡️ Abonnez vous à la newsletter pour recevoir des conseils de professionnels de la santé mentale, des recommandations de livres et une curation de contenus, événements et podcasts.Folie Douce est disponible gratuitement sur toutes les plateformes : Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Deezer, PodcastAddict, Amazon Music ..Si vous avez aimé cet épisode, laissez nous des étoiles ⭐ et abonnez vous pour ne rater aucun nouvel épisode.Folie Douce donne la parole à des artistes, des militant·es, penseur·euses pour explorer leur parcours de santé mentale à la lumière de leur travail artistique ou politique. Ce podcast a pour vocation de faire émerger des récits à la première personne. Les propos de ses invité·es n'ont pas valeur d'expertise. Le terme « folie » est employé ici à des fins de renversement du stigmate et de réappropriation d'une identité habituellement imposée et marginalisée. -------------------Folie Douce est une émission produite par Lauren Bastide.Générique : Lauren Bastide et Marion Emerit sur une musique composée par Irma.Montage et mixage : Marion Emerit.Programmation et coordination : Marie Laurence-Chérie assistée de Lou Ozanam-Simon.Partenariats : The Podcast Bureau / melanie@thepodcastbureau.frConsultant : Morgan Noam

Pour soutenir mon travail, abonnez-vous à ma newsletter sur Substack.À 88 ans, Carol Gilligan est l'une des plus grandes penseuses contemporaines, et accessoirement la théoricienne du care. Faisant se rencontrer féminisme et santé mentale, elle incarne toutes les valeurs que défend ce podcast. La recevoir dans Folie Douce, c'est notre cadeau de fin d'année pour vous remercier de votre écoute depuis maintenant 22 (!) épisodes.Vous trouverez cet entretien sous deux formes : l'une complètement en anglais, l'autre doublée et expliquée en français par Lauren si vous préférez (les deux se trouvent séparément dans le flux du podcast, suivez les drapeaux !)Carol Gilligan est l'autrice d'un ouvrage majeur paru en 1982, Une voix différente, dans lequel elle développe la notion de care, qui se rapproche du soin - et est principalement pris en charge par les femmes - et critique les travaux des psychologues de l'époque qui catégorisaient les enfants par leur genre. Une voix humaine, publié cette année, se présente comme une réponse au premier : cette voix différente est-elle vraiment genrée ? Elle y déploie entre autres la question de la voix, l'inner-voice en nous que l'on tait souvent, et celle que l'on utilise librement.Au micro de Lauren Bastide, elle se penche sur la notion d'écoute active, qu'elle a mise en place dans les nombreux entretiens qu'elle a menés avec des jeunes filles dans le cadre de ses travaux. Carol Gilligan parle également de sa mère, et de la jeune génération d'activistes. Elle explore ce « marché » que les femmes sont encouragées à faire avec la patriarcat, pour obtenir la reconnaissance en échange de la silenciation de leur voix authentique. Elle met en avant, à la fin de l'entretien, l'importance de l'écoute, la plus grande marque de respect, qui peut changer notre vision du monde.➡️ Rejoignez la communauté sur Instagram.➡️ Abonnez vous à la newsletter pour recevoir des conseils de professionnels de la santé mentale, des recommandations de livres et une curation de contenus, événements et podcasts.Folie Douce est disponible gratuitement sur toutes les plateformes : Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Deezer, PodcastAddict, Amazon Music ..Si vous avez aimé cet épisode, laissez nous des étoiles ⭐ et abonnez vous pour ne rater aucun nouvel épisode.Folie Douce donne la parole à des artistes, des militant·es, penseur·euses pour explorer leur parcours de santé mentale à la lumière de leur travail artistique ou politique. Ce podcast a pour vocation de faire émerger des récits à la première personne. Les propos de ses invité·es n'ont pas valeur d'expertise. Le terme « folie » est employé ici à des fins de renversement du stigmate et de réappropriation d'une identité habituellement imposée et marginalisée. -------------------Folie Douce est une émission produite par Lauren Bastide.Générique : Lauren Bastide et Marion Emerit sur une musique composée par Irma.Montage et mixage : Marion Emerit.Programmation et coordination : Marie Laurence-Chérie assistée de Lou Ozanam-Simon.Partenariats : The Podcast Bureau / melanie@thepodcastbureau.frConsultant : Morgan Noam

In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben explores Stoicism and its relevance to parenting. Drawing on her experience as a mother to 10 children, she reflects on how Stoic principles like control, patience, and detachment have shaped her approach to raising kids. But it's not just about personal resilience ~ Danusia also gets into the limits of Stoicism, especially when it comes to addressing the broader systemic challenges that families face.   Through thoughtful reflections, she balances Stoic ideas with insights from feminist and care ethicists like bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Carol Gilligan, showing that emotional engagement and systemic awareness are essential in parenting.   This episode challenges listeners to consider how they can raise resilient children while also recognising and addressing the societal pressures their children face.   Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of Stoicism, love, and the complexities of modern parenting.   Head over to comment on this episode on the “Parents Who Think” on Substack.    Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Dr. Hillary McBride joins Jen for this month's Jen Hatmaker Book Club selection to explore her book “Wisdom of Your Body.” Dr. McBride, a psychologist and researcher, invites us to compassionately reunite with our bodies, recognizing that they are not obstacles but advocates for our well-being. In this conversation, Jen shares personal anecdotes on how this research of Hillary's changed her life, and Hillary shares insights from her latest research. * * *  Resources and Books Mentioned in this Episode: The Wisdom of Your Body by Hillary McBride - https://hillarylmcbride.com/the-wisdom-of-your-body/ For The Love Podcast episode ft. Hillary McBride - https://bit.ly/4c1TikW Dr. Carol Gilligan - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Gilligan APA's Briefing Series on the Role of Psychology in Health Care - https://bit.ly/3Yd9BbA Sacred Knowledge by William A. Richards - https://bit.ly/4cSU59p Even After Everything by Stephanie Duncan Smith - https://bit.ly/4bV40cZ Guest's Links: Hillary's Website - https://hillarylmcbride.com/ Hillary's Twitter - https://twitter.com/hillarylmcbride Hillary's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hillaryliannamcbride/ Hillary's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/hillary-l-mcbride-342a531a Connect with Jen! Jen's website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmaker Jen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmaker Jen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker?sub_confirmation=1 The For the Love Podcast is a production of Four Eyes Media, presented by Audacy.  Four Eyes Media: https://www.iiiimedia.com/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

“What I became aware of when I started writing about resistance, and I thought, the healthy body resists infection. We have an immune system. And the healthy psyche resists a culture that's going to infect us psychologically, that's going to keep us from basically being able to function psychologically. And what I realized is that there is, I mean, you see little boys going to school and they come up against it in this school, pre-kindergarten, kindergarten, where to be one of the boys they have to be tough. And then you see girls and adolescents coming into, where to be included, not excluded, to be one of the girls that people want to be with. And that's when you get there. You have to be nice. You have to be seemingly perfect. You know, she's good at everything. She's good at drawing and she's good at sports. And she never, you know, that kind of thing. And so what I'm trying to say is there's a force in the world that you're up against with this kind of stuff. It's not just coming from inside people.” So says Dr. Carol Gilligan, esteemed professor and developmental psychologist, who is the author of a landmark book called In a Different Voice—a book that I talk about and write about all the time. Back in the ‘80s—Gilligan is 87 now and still working—she looked at all the research from the likes of Lawrence Kohlberg and Piaget and made a stunning and obvious realization: These developmental psychologist giants had only ever studied boys. Typically white, middle-class boys. In response, Gilligan did a study on girls and moral development, a groundbreaking look into how culture genders our response to the world: Gilligan found that for girls, morality is relational and rooted in care—not so much law—and that fear of separation from relationship encouraged these girls to stop saying what they know. She struggled to get this study published—it was rejected multiple times—and has since become the most requested reprint out of Harvard. It also became the subject of In a Different Voice, which has sold 500,000 copies—unheard of in academic publishing. Everything that Carol Gilligan shares with us in this conversation is a revelation and also deeply resonant—and something you will know to be true. Before I go, if you missed Niobe Way's episode from a few weeks ago, tune in to that next—Niobe was Carol's student, and has done for boys what Carol has done for girls. MORE FROM CAROL GILLIGAN: In a Different Voice In a Human Voice Why Does Patriarchy Persist? Carol Gilligan's Website Niobe Way's Episode: “The Critical Need for Deep Connection” FROM MY NEWSLETTER: “What Valley Girl's Tell Us” “What Are We ‘Really, Actually” Saying “The Achilles Heel of Women”  “How to Keep Caring”  “Why is it So Hard to Scream?” EPISODES IN THE “GROWING UP” SERIES: Niobe Way, “The Critical Need for Deep Connection” Harvey Karp, M.D., ”The Long-Term Implication of Sleep” Carissa Schumacher To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

“You can't be independent if you're not deeply connected. So what happens to a child that's not deeply connected? What actually happens? Guess what happens? They don't feel the confidence to be able to take risks. They don't feel the confidence to go out and be self-sufficient. They don't feel the confidence in doing it. So we're actually backbiting, right? We're kicking ourselves in the asses when we just focus on independence. Because we need to give them the skills to be able to be independent, which are relational skills, which is knowing that when I need help, I can turn to you and you will help me and I will help you when you need it. So then you can go off and take a risk or go and live in a new city or go have your own apartment and know that you can lean on me when you need to. And so to me, the attachment story that comes out, at this point, almost a century of research on attachment is a gorgeous, gorgeous story.” So says Dr. Niobe Way, an internationally-recognized Professor of Developmental Psychology, the founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our Common Humanity (PACH) at NYU, and the Director of the Science of Human Connection Lab. She is also a Principal Investigator of the Listening Project, funded by the Spencer Foundation, the Chan-Zuckerberg Initiative and the Rockefeller Foundation. When she was a student, Niobe studied with Carol Gilligan—if you read my newsletter or listen to this podcast, you know Carol is a hero of mine and will be wrapping up this series as a guest. Niobe has done for boys what Carol has done for girls—and their research intersects and Venn diagrams in fascinating ways. While Carol's research shows that girls come to not know what they know, Niobe traces how boys disconnect from their caring and often enter a period of irrevocably devastating and dangerous loneliness. Niobe is the author of Deep Secrets: Boys' Friendships and the Crisis of Connection as well as the just-released, Rebels with a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves, and Our Culture, which offers fascinating insight into our culture at large. Along with historical context, Niobe offers beautiful case studies from her research—following and interviewing boys as they grow up—along with notes from boys who have gone on to wreak havoc on the culture, in homicidal and suicidal ways. These notes speak to disconnection, extreme loneliness, and feeling like nobody cares. As I talk about my book in living rooms around the country, I often cite Niobe and Carol Gilligan, specifically the insight that at a certain point—around 8 for boys, and 11 for girls—the word “don't” enters children's vocabulary. For girls, it's “I don't know.” For boys, it's “I don't care.” And of course, girls knows. And of course, boys care. We need to repair our culture so it's safe for them to stay connected. As you can tell, I'm very excited for this conversation. MORE FROM NIOBE WAY, PhD: Rebels with a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves, and Our Culture Deep Secrets: Boys' Friendships and the Crisis of Connection The Crisis of Connection: Roots, Consequences, and Solutions Niobe Way's Website To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss Casa Amor in Love Island USA's latest episodes, including how Kordell didn't understand the assignment and ultimately missed with Serena & how Aaron's past experiences likely informed his reaction to Kaylor's questions. They also discuss Serena's past relational traumas and the utility of Relational Cultural Therapy. In addition to discussed episodes 16-23 of season 6 of Love Island, Dr.s Kay & Ray also discuss the last 4 episodes of Bridgerton's season 3.  They discuss adolescent girls' loss of voice, according to the work of Carol Gilligan, and how Penelope's character allowed for important feminist values to be portrayed. [Warning: Dr. Ray talks about seeing dead dolphins on her trip to Cape Cod during the check-in, from 2:20m-7:27m]    ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we're having against objective reality. So, here in Reality Test, we're going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. Come Reality Test with us!Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. RayThank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypodsTikTok: @dr.realitvFacebook Page: Reality Test Pod YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPodEmail: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

Hi, It's Elise, host of Pulling the Thread. Starting next Monday, I'm doing another special series—this one is about growing up, and no, it's definitely not just for parents. It's mostly about re-parenting, or understanding the driving factors of how we all come to understand the world. You'll hear from four very different voices about childhood, social programming, and development. Two are pioneers in gender development: One of my all-time heroes, developmental psychologist Carol Gilligan, who I write about in my Substack all-the-time who wrote In a Different Voice in the ‘80s, is joining me on the show, and so is Niobe Way, who does for boys what Carol Gilligan does for girls. I'm also talking with legendary pediatrician Harvey Karp, creator of The Happiest Baby on the Block, the founder of the Snoo, and an ardent and early environmentalist—and Carissa Schumacher, a full-body psychic medium and dear friend who is going to talk to us about what it's like to raise and be a highly empathic and intuitive person—and how you can retain and develop those abilities. Or shut them down. It will be a great series, coming every Monday for the next month. I'll see you every Thursday for a regular episode. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How much should we really value altruism?Looking for a link we mentioned? It's here: https://linktr.ee/philosophyforourtimesFrom charity-givers, to those who sacrifice themselves in war for others, we see altrusim and selflessness as virtues to be applauded. Those who take no heed of their own interests are highly praised in Western culture. But many point to a danger. Studies show that altruism gone awry leads to tolerating abusive partners, eating disorders and depression. And critics argue that some of history's most horrific episodes rose from appeals to altruistic tendencies. Forced sterlizations in the West were justified as "better for all the world". Should we see unhampered altruism not only as futile, but actively dangerous? Join Professor of Humanities and Applied Psychology at New York University, Carol Gilligan, feminist icon and Professor of Philosophy at the University of Lodz, Katarzyna de Lazari-Radek, and Research Professor of Biological Anthropology at Harvard University, Richard Wrangham as they debate the dangers of altruism. Robert Lawrence Kuhn hosts.There are thousands of big ideas to discover at IAI.tv – videos, articles, and courses waiting for you to explore. Find out more: https://iai.tv/podcast-offers?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=loving-oneself-and-loving-othersSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“All growing up stages are the product of scientific investigation of the stages of growing up that people go through. And those are all defined in third person terms because they're the person or thing being spoken about. When we talk about the archaic stage or the magic stage or the mythic stage, if you look within right now, you can't see any of those stages. As a matter of fact, before we had this conversation, you had no idea that you had all these six to eight stages of growing up that you will go through. You didn't know anything about those because you can't see them. They're not first person or even second person phenomena. They're third person, the person or thing being spoken about.” So says Ken Wilber, whose work and intellect is difficult to describe. Throughout a long career—and the authoring of 20 books, including A Brief History of Everything, Grace and Grit, Sex, Ecology, Spirituality, and The Religion of Tomorrow, Wilber has put together what is essentially a synthesis of every psychological model of development. In fact, he locked himself away for years, writing every model down on pieces of yellow legal paper, and then knit them all together. I've written about Wilber's work at length in my newsletter, which is also called Pulling the Thread—I'll put links in the show notes—and I talk about his work on this show as well. Most recently, I talked about Ken Wilber with Nicole Churchill in our conversation about Spiral Dynamics. Wilber is a Spiral Dynamics wizard, though he uses it in aggregate with the work of other developmental thinkers, integrating the work of luminaries like Carol Gilligan, Robert Kegan, and others.  In today's conversation, we talk about Wilber's brand new book, Finding Radical Wholeness, which explores the five big processes we all undertake in our lives. In today's conversation, we mostly talked about two: Waking Up and Growing Up, which are often conflated. Wilber makes the case for why they are unrelated processes—and the essential nature of the latter. While Waking Up, or having a Satori experience is wonderful—and something that 60% of people report—we all need to grow up. Wilber and I spend most of today's conversation talking about our political environment from the standpoint of developmental psychology: Why we're so fractured, and what it will look like when the Integral Stage becomes the leading edge of culture and we learn how to include and transcend. I think this is fascinating, and reassuring, and excellent context for a moment that feels so out-of-control. MORE FROM KEN WILBER: Finding Radical Wholeness A Brief History of Everything Sex, Ecology Spirituality Trump and a Post-Truth World The Religion of Tomorrow Grace and Grit More books from Ken Wilber More from Pulling the Thread Podcast: “The Basics of Spiral Dynamics” with Nicole Churchill “Our Collective Psychological Development” with John Churchill More from Pulling the Thread Newsletter: Transcend and Include Embracing Nondual Thinking Right Doing Ascending and Descending States vs. Stages To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of the Matriarchy series, we explore how deeply ingrained patriarchal narratives can create a policing effect on the behavior of women.  Author, Elise Loehnen, discusses her book "On Our Best Behavior" which examines how concepts like the seven deadly sins have historically been used to restrict women's behavior and police their adherence to an idealized form of "goodness." Loehnen unpacks the insidious ways women are culturally conditioned from a young age to suppress normal human drives like anger, ambition, and sexuality. And how disrupting rigid gender stereotypes is important when raising the next generation in order to build a more compassionate world.  Jen and Elise discuss: How women are culturally conditioned and expected to embody "goodness" while men are oriented toward power  How concepts like the "seven deadly sins" have historically been used as a patriarchal "punch card" to police women's behavior Why raising boys to have an emotional inner life nurtures positive identity development The current era of politics that calls for women to challenge the patriarchal system while also having compassionate dialogue to build a new, care-centered world where everyone can flourish * * * Thought-Provoking Quotes: “Women are trained for goodness and men are trained for power.” - Elise Loehnen “The worst thing for a woman is reputational harm--just the assigning of her badness. Bad mother. Toxic coworker. Toxic boss. Unkind. She says the wrong thing. And it's sort of impossible to defend yourself against that. We have zero tolerance, and it's very scary.” - Elise Loehnen "We need a culture where the men are like, 'I would like to be more like women. I need to be caring. I want to be nurturing and creative. And yes, I can be strong and I can be masculine, but I also need this underdeveloped muscle.'" - Elise Loehnen Resources Mentioned in This Episode: On Our Best Behavior by Elise Loehnen - https://bit.ly/44tz41D Goop - https://goop.com For the Love of Being Seen and Heard ft. Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/4b8YT9C Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/3JO7FOn Evagrius Ponticus (Fourth Century Christian Monk) - https://bit.ly/4b7zEV5 Pope Gregory on the 7 Deadly Sins - https://bit.ly/3y1J1XK Harvey Weinstein Abuse Cases - https://bit.ly/4b5ktM5 Carol Gilligan - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Gilligan In a Different Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3JQ9IBh   Human Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3UQ1Rcn Andrew Tate - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Tate Order, Disorder, Reorder (An idea Developed by Richard Rohr) - https://bit.ly/44xzHqK For the Love of The Enneagram ft. Richard Rohr - https://bit.ly/3QzzZaW Loretta Ross - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loretta_Ross Guest's Links: Elise's Website - https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ Elise's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/eliseloehnen/ Elise's Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/eloehnen Elise's Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EliseLoehnen/ Elise's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/elise-loehnen-b867523/ Pulling the Thread (Elise's Stubstack Blog) - https://eliseloehnen.substack.com/ Pulling the Thread (Elise's Podcast) - https://www.eliseloehnen.com/episodes Connect with Jen! Jen's website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmaker Jen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmaker Jen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker?sub_confirmation=1 The For the Love Podcast is a production of Four Eyes Media, presented by Audacy.  Four Eyes Media: https://www.iiiimedia.com/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is it time to abandon the Golden Rule?Looking for a link we mentioned? Find it here: https://linktr.ee/philosophyforourtimesJoin us as world-leading cognitive scientist Donald Hoffman discusses his cutting-edge research about consciousness and perception, as well as its astonishing implications for the ultimate nature of reality.Donald Hoffman is an American cognitive psychologist working at the University of California, Irvine. Hoffman's Interface Theory of Perception suggests that, instead of presenting reality as it "really is", our perception is like a desktop interface that has evolved to ensure survival. To advance his theory of consciousness, Hoffman explores cutting edge physics that suggests spacetime is non-fundamental. For Hoffman we must explain consciousness in fundamental terms, beyond spacetime. There are thousands of big ideas to discover at IAI.tv – videos, articles, and courses waiting for you to explore. Find out more: https://iai.tv/podcast-offers?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=a-rule-to-live-byEmail us on podcast@iai.tv!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever noticed that most of the theorists and philosophies in our early childhood textbooks are the same handful of men-plus-Montessori? Heather got curious....who are the women (past and present) who are influencing and informing the work we're doing with young children. So, here's the first installment of a new tradition--episodes in May that invite some of my favorite women in early childhood to talk about the women who guide our work. In this episode, Heather is joined by Rixa Evershed, Carol Garboden Murray and Lizz Nolasco to discuss how Robin Wall Kimmerer, Carol Gilligan, Janet Gonzalez Mena and Rhoda Kellogg inspire them. 

Have you ever noticed that most of the theorists and philosophies in our early childhood textbooks are the same handful of men-plus-Montessori? Heather got curious....who are the women (past and present) who are influencing and informing the work we're doing with young children. So, here's the first installment of a new tradition--episodes in May that invite some of my favorite women in early childhood to talk about the women who guide our work. In this episode, Heather is joined by Rixa Evershed, Carol Garboden Murray and Lizz Nolasco to discuss how Robin Wall Kimmerer, Carol Gilligan, Janet Gonzalez Mena and Rhoda Kellogg inspire them. 

Our skies grew dark while we played in the yard. My best friend's mother picked her up in a fast car... "Mt. Saint Helens blew!" - 2 volcano blasts a few millennia apart, compared today. Recent new science in AI tech, finds groundbreaking new data, literally, of philosopher Plato's last days. We've never heard any of this, burnt and buried in Herculaneum, 79 A.D. He had a few strong opinions, and his reported last words were... common. Hmm. [I made 2 interchanges accidentally. Look for Washington state U.S. and Oregon state U.S. to be mixed up. Also, same thing about Mount Vesuvius and Mount Saint Helens. See if you can spot where! Pardon!] ________ ep 168. "She had no rhythm." notes - 5/1/2024 **CORRECTION: I stated that Mt. Saint Helens blew in 1981. It was May 1980. 6 months off! Pardon. Pretty good ballpark, got in the region, for a 44-year-old memory. ___________ Carol Gilligan, philosopher. Her book - In a Different Voice. "This is the little book that started a revolution, making women's voices heard, in their own right and with their own integrity, for virtually the first time in social scientific theorizing about women. " - https://www.amazon.com/Different-Voice-Psychological-Theory-Development/dp/0674970969 _______________________ The first known University - The Academy of Athens. Platonic Academy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Platonic_Academy _________________ "Plato's final hours recounted in scroll found in Vesuvius ash" - in Palermo Mon 29 Apr 2024: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2024/apr/29/herculaneum-scroll-plato-final-hours-burial-site ___________ "Scrolls discovered in Vesuvius ash reveal Plato's burial place and final hours | BBC News" - Date - 4/30/2024 [This is the video with the self aware commentator, talking about mansplaining.]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cjmjOj7JlA _________________ _________________ 12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/ _______ National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255 ____ National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673 _____ POD DESCRIPTION: This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me. I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention. This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely. Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mohmah/support

In this episode, Trudy Goodman speaks with Tyler Lapkin of the Joseph Campbell Foundation.One of the earliest teachers of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), Trudy taught with its creator, Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn at the MBSR clinic at University of Massachusetts Medical School in 1983. In 1995 she co-founded, and is still the Guiding Teacher at the Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy, the first center in the world dedicated to exploring the synergy of these two disciplines. She was an early adopter and now smiles  seeing mindfulness everywhere.After becoming a mother, Trudy was fascinated by human development, and studied w Jean Piaget in Geneva, Carol Gilligan, Lawrence Kohlberg, and Jerome Bruner at Harvard. Trudy co-founded a school for distressed children, practicing mindfulness-based psychotherapy with children, parents, teenagers, couples and individuals. She enjoys the company of kids of all ages and has kept her own child-like wonder and curiosity about the world she loves.Since 1974, Trudy has devoted much of her life to practicing Buddhist meditation with great Asian and Western teachers in the Zen and Theravada traditions. From 1991 to 1998, Trudy was a resident Zen teacher at the Cambridge Buddhist Association. She then moved to Los Angeles and founded InsightLA, the first center in the world to combine training in both Buddhist Insight (Vipassana) Meditation and non-sectarian mindfulness and compassion practices. Trudy has always been a connector of people, spiritual traditions, cultures, and communities, carrying her Zen delight across the divides.Trudy has trained a new generation of teachers, mindfulness humanitarians who make mindfulness and meditation classes available for professional caregivers, social justice and environmental activists, first responders, teachers, and unsung individuals working on the front lines of suffering – all done with tenderness, courage and a simple commitment to holding hands together.Trudy conducts retreats and workshops worldwide – from the hallowed halls of Mazu Daoyi's Ch'an monastery in China, to leading trainings on the ground in the intense heat of Darfuri refugee camps in Eastern Chad on the Sudanese border. She has loved it all. Trudy is still creating new projects and good trouble wherever she can. Details to be found in her forthcoming memoir!In the conversation today we discuss her life, meditation, mindfulness, and her perspective on the famous Campbell quote, "Participate Joyfully in the sorrows of the world".To learn more about Trudy visit: https://www.trudygoodman.com/ For more information on the MythMaker Podcast Network and Joseph Campbell, visit JCF.org. To subscribe to our weekly MythBlasts go to jcf.org/subscribeThe Podcast With A Thousand Faces is hosted by Tyler Lapkin and is a production of the Joseph Campbell Foundation. It is produced by Tyler Lapkin. Executive producer, John Bucher. Audio mixing and editing by Charles Mallett.All music exclusively provided by APM Music (apmmusic.com)

What's an early memory of using your voice? That's the question we kicked off our recent 3-day in-person client retreat with - and the women's answers were incredibly powerful. March is Women's History Month and March 8th is International Women's Day (#IWD2024), so this episode is about the power of women's voices and stories to change the world. From young women activists like Malala Yousafzai and Greta Thunberg to pro-choice women who are running for office to women like YOU who are out there sharing your messages, ideas, and stories, women are making a positive difference in their industries and communities. In this episode, I talk about: The history-changing importance of women getting together to share their stories and experiences The self-doubts that too often hold us back from using our voices Why we need feminism more than ever My recent realization of the story I had been telling myself vs. the bigger story of what happened when I delivered my TEDx talk about women and power in 2016   Show notes at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/378/ Discover your Speaker Archetype by taking our free quiz at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/quiz/ Enroll in our Thought Leader Academy: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/academy/  Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolcox   Mentioned: Emily's List: https://emilyslist.org/  New York Times' opinion column: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/23/opinion/alabama-embroyo-dobbs-reproductive-freedom.html  Carol Gilligan: https://its.law.nyu.edu/facultyprofiles/index.cfm?fuseaction=profile.publications&personid=19946    Related Podcast Episodes: Episode 319: The 3 Stages We Go Through as Women When We Use Our Voice Episode 267: The Way to Gender Equality is through Public Speaking Episode 163: A Feminist Approach to Public Speaking Episode 162: Why We're #ChoosingWomensVoices - and You Should Too Episode 92: Deconstructing My TEDx Talk: Why We're Uncomfortable with Women in Power

IMPORTANT: Registration is open for The Regenerative Alchemy Somatic Coach Training is open. Find out more and apply here: www.drsarahcoxon.com/coachtraining War, Masculinity, and Somatic Embodiment. In this episode we explore the intersections of war & masculinity, and how somatic embodiment offers a robust way forward on the path to collective peace. Suggested Reading: Sarah Coxon. 2021. The Way of the Priestess.  Kai Cheng Thom. 2023. Falling Back in Love with Being Human. Carol Gilligan. 2016. In a Different Voice. Judy Y. Chu. 2014. When Boys Become Boys. Marshall Rosenberg. 2015. Non-Violent Communication. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with friends and on your socials, to help grow our small regenerative community.

In this episode Julia, Westley, and Rev. Dr. Carter explore the ways patriarchal thinking influences the world around us and, more often than not, our inner monologue. We begin the episode by connecting the violence happening in Palestine and Israel to the violent nature of patriarchal thinking. We discuss where we see patriarchy in our own lives and some subtle and overt types of patriarchal thinking that impact the Church. We end the episode by exploring some of the values we can adopt to help us unlearn patriarchal thinking. In this episode we reference Ivone Gebara's book “Longing for Running Water” and Carol Gilligan's “In A Different Voice.”

Phoenix suffered through a record-breaking heat wave in July. But due to climate change, high temperatures are the new normal. But architect Marlene Imirzian designed a heat-abating building that could help keep people safe and cool. Here & Now's Peter O'Dowd reports from Phoenix. And, psychologist Carol Gilligan wrote the book "In a Different Voice," stating that women embody a caring voice different from men. Now, she's revising that work. She says that a caring voice is actually accessible to everyone, regardless of gender. Gilligan joins us to talk about her new book, "In a Human Voice."Then, our resident chef Kathy Gunst joins us to share some recipes utilizing a favorite fall fruit: apples. Gunst breaks down a number of apple varieties and offers sweet and savory recipes.

Falls euch cogitamus gefällt, lasst bitte ein Abo da und/oder empfehlt uns weiter. Abonnieren könnt ihr uns auch auf YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cogitamus Unterstützen könnt ihr uns ebenfalls: paypal.me/cogitamus oder cogitamus@posteo.de. Schaut auch mal auf UNCUT vorbei: https://www.uncut.at/. Zurück aus der SOMMERPAUSE und es geht endlich weiter mit unserer Zwei-Jahresreihe zur politischen Philosophie. Aufgrund der komplexen, vielschichtigen Themen werden wir die Jahresreihe auf zwei Jahre ausweiten. Nach der ökonomischen und klimatischen Gerechtigkeit widmen wir uns der sozialen Gerechtigkeit. Wieso gibt es trotz 200 Jahren Menschenrechten keine Gleichheit? Wieso funktioniert der vielbeachtete Gleichheitsansatz von John Rawls nicht? Inwiefern spielt die Kritik von Carol Gilligan an Kohlbergs Moralentwicklung eine Rolle? Welchen Einfluss hat die Trennung von Privatheit und Öffentlichkeit? Was sagt Seyla Benhabib dazu? Wo erkennt sie die blinden Flecken? Nächste Folge der Reihe Politikphilosophie: Kampf gegen Ungerechtigkeiten, Gewerkschaften & Menschenrechte Nächste Spezialfolge Philosophiegeschichte: Denis Diderot und die Enzyklopädisten Timemarker 00:00 Intro: Unabhängigkeitserklärung, Einordnung, Ablauf, Rückblick 08:43 Rawls Theory of Justice 23:47 Blinde Flecken 01:03:11 Lösungsansätze 01:15:25 Takeaways, Abschlusszitat, Outro Literatur/Links/Quellen Vorlesungen Uni Wien John Rawls – A Theory of Justice Martha Nussbaum - Die Grenzen der Gerechtigkeit. Suhrkamp Verlag, 2014. Martha Nussbaum – Langfristige Fürsorge und soziale Gerechtigkeit Seyla Benhabib - Der verallgemeinerte und der konkrete Andere, in: Selbst im Kontext Lisa Herzog – Politische Philosophie Bildnachweise: https://www.philomag.de/sites/default/files/styles/header_no_full_width/public/images/210128_benhabib-werkgesprach_bild-malte-jager.jpg?itok=Jq24cNMO; https://www.actionsa.org.za/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/3-Social-Justice.png; https://static.vecteezy.com/system/resources/previews/000/548/222/original/equality-vector.jpg

Please Support Our Show: Join us on SubstackLove KnotWork Storytelling? Support the show, find the in-depth show notes, and get even more stories on our Substack, Myth Is Medicine.OUR STORY:Niall of the Nine Hostages was an Irish king and the first sovereign of the powerful Uí Néill dynasty. Mari Kennedy's telling of the story begins with the birth of Niall, son of a king and an enslaved woman. In the story's most powerful, enduring element, we meet the Hag the Well, and witness her transformation into the shining Sovereignty Goddess.OUR GUESTMari Kennedy is a global gatherer of Celtic women, a yoga, breathwork, and embodiment teacher and Sovereign Woman's coach and Mentor. Six years ago she founded The Celtic Wheel, a global online journey of ritual, myth and practice for women who want to do the sacred work of the feminine. Her work weaves ancient esoteric indigenous wisdom with evolutionary modern science in service to the new more beautiful world she believes is emerging. Her passion across all her work is in uniting the opposites and playing the polarities of being human. Find Mari at www.marikennedy.com, www.thecelticwheel.com, and on Instagram: @marikennedywisdomThe marriage of the king to the goddess is at the core of the indigenous Irish tradition's concept of Sovereignty. The marriage of the feminine and masculine in the individual works on the individual as well as the collective cultural level.Mari looks to Carol Gilligan's definition of patriarchy: it is a way of living that privileges some men over other men and all men over women. Feminism has always been intended to support all people because patriarchy affects everyone in the society.Mari's story stands in contrast to Marisa's version of this story (Ireland's Forgotten Goddess Witch Queen, S1 Ep2) which places Mongfind at the center of the story. Marisa was inspired by Gearóid Ó Crualoich's Book of the Cailleach The marriage of the scholarship, the silences, and the intuitive knowing - and making room for the modern retellings.Work with MarisaMarisa is a writing coach for wellness professionals, entrepreneurs, and aspiring authors. Learn more about her services and book a complementary consultation: www.writingcoachmarisa.comFind more of Marisa's writing and get a copy of her book, The Sovereignty Knot www.marisagoudy.comFollow the show on Substack, Instagram, Facebook, and join listeners' community.

Today I'm bringing you an archived podcast episode from January, 2019. This particular episode was one of the sparks I had that ended up developing into the creative project that is now my third book, Make Some Noise. I had listened to a podcast series that got me thinking about the conditioning we as girls and women are handed and grow up in.Those beliefs and conditioning then shape the beliefs we have about how to act and how to feel about what it means to be a woman.  There are some questions I take you through as I talk about this, and a free worksheet you can download (see below).  *********************************  A few weeks ago I was listening to Scene on Radio, an excellent podcast. It was episode 10, in season 3 where it was a man telling a story about his son going to 6th grade and the changes that took place-- I'll let you listen to it (it's REALLY good, please go listen to both season 2 and 3).  There was a particular part where Terry Real, psychologist was talking and said something in particular that stopped me, and I had to pause the podcast, and cry. He talks about how children are made to “halve” themselves, to cut off certain parts of themselves (generally speaking for boys, it's emotions). He talks about a certain age when “the patriarchy hits kids, lands on them, the psychic results can be severe”. He goes on to say, “Now if you read the literature on girls and girls development, that trauma-- and I use that word on purpose-- is traumatic to excise, to cut off half of your humanity, that trauma lands on girls about 11, 12, 13-- the edge of adolescence. That's when they learn what Carol Gilligan calls ‘the tyranny of the nice and kind'. They learn to over accommodate and resent it. That's the traditional set up. Fifty years of the women's movement has changed that for a lot of girls and women, but it's still part of the culture.” So, in essence, as we enter puberty, (and btw, he goes on in this episode to talk about how it hits even younger for boys), we learn about how to be. We learn to be nice and kind and accommodating. We learn to put others' feelings, wants and needs before ours.  Join me in this podcast episode as I explore this more, and ask a series of questions for you to answer about your own life to get the parts of you back that you were conditioned to let go of.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our capacity to authentically relate to one another is shaped not only by our life experiences, early childhood, and attachment, but the broader culture we live in and the myths we pick up from society about what relationships should look like. In this episode, I speak with a trauma-informed couple's therapist about the qualities of healthy loving relationships, how toxic and transactional societal values shape how we relate, and real-life examples of moving through triggers and developing deeper intimacy. Why taking a trauma-informed lens to couples counseling is crucial The utility of “attachment styles” and putting it into context of child development and broader societal values Learning from “in tact cultures” that values connectedness and belonging from birth Transactional relationships and learning to see people beyond the scope of our own needs The 5 adaptive strategies we learn in childhood that come up in interpersonal relationships How to repair from conflict and deal with our triggers with real case examples Using mythology, narrative, and intuition in couple's work Advice for those entering new relationships Rebecca Nidorf, LCSW-R is a psychotherapist in private practice in the Hudson Valley. Rebecca Has been a practicing clinician for 25 years and part time at Bard College as a clinical supervisor and director of a crisis counseling program for 18 years. She began her career as a complex trauma therapist working with rape and incest survivors. This led to a private practice where she treats individuals and primarily, couples. Rebecca is an integrative therapist who uses teachings from a variety of mentors and practitioners ranging from Esther Perel, Terrance Real, Pia Melody, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D, Francis Weller, Resmaa Menakem, Carol Giligan and many others. Rebecca considers herself to be a consummate student. She feels a sense of soulful gratitude when working with her clients in a therapeutic setting and when she is leading retreats and teaching. Rebecca is grateful for all of the many people who have trusted her with their stories over the course of her career. Rebecca's Website: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rebecca-nidorf-new-paltz-ny/200303 Reclaiming All Parts of You: Healing Shame Workbook & Meditation :  ⁠⁠⁠https://witty-creator-9045.ck.page/e89cafda64⁠⁠⁠ Resources: Women Who Run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/241823.Women_Who_Run_With_the_Wolves Why Does Patriarchy Persist? by Carol Gilligan https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/39971978-why-does-patriarchy-persist Esther Perel https://www.estherperel.com/ Disclaimer: The DEPTH Work Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Information on this podcast in no way to be construed or substituted as psychological counseling, psychotherapy, mental health counseling, or any other type of therapy or medical advice.

Deborah Anna Luepnitz, Ph.D. is a returning guest here on the podcast. See our last conversation here: https://youtu.be/k1-9tuujKdA She was on the Clinical Faculty of the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine for over 30 years. She is currently on the faculty of the Institute for Relational Psychoanalysis of Philadelphia (IRPP). She is the author of The Family Interpreted: Psychoanalysis, Feminism and Family Therapy -- published in 1992 -- which is still taught in therapy courses around the world. Carol Gilligan called it: "A book of unusual wisdom and humanity." Her more recent book is Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Five Stories of Psychotherapy which has been translated into seven languages, plus Braille. It was recently released as an Audiobook, read by the author herself. Dr Luepnitz was a contributing author to the Cambridge Companion to Lacan, and has written about the possibility of a "third way" for psychoanalysis -- that is: one that values the insights of both the Anglo-American and French schools of thought. In 2005, she launched I.F.A. (Insight For All -- connecting analysts with homeless and formerly homeless adults in Philadelphia. In 2013, she received the Distinguished Educator award from the International Forum for Psychoanalytic Education. Join us for this new series as we discuss Freud and Man's Soul by Bruno Bettelheim. Schopenhauer's Porcupines: https://www.amazon.com/Schopenhauers-Porcupines-Intimacy-Dilemmas-Psychotherapy/dp/0465042872 Freud and Man's Soul: https://www.amazon.com/Freud-Mans-Soul-Important-Re-Interpretation/dp/0394710363Note: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a mental health professional or business consultant.

We've covered a number of episodes in the past that feed into this one, including https://www.yourparentingmojo.com/healthyboys (Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys with Dr. Judy Chu) (which focused on boys' understanding of masculinity in the preschool years), and https://yourparentingmojo.com/sports/ (Playing to Win with Dr. Hilary Levy Friedman) (which looked at the lessons children learn from sports...which aren't really related to the sports themselves...).   And of course there are the two episodes on patriarchy; https://yourparentingmojo.com/patriarchy/ (the interview with Dr. Carol Gilligan), as well as https://yourparentingmojo.com/parentingpatriarchy/ (my conversation with listener Brian Stout about what we learned during the interview).   A few weeks ago https://yourparentingmojo.com/captivate-podcast/youngfemininity/ (listener Caroline and I interviewed Dr. Marnina Gonick on the topic of girls' relationships), which stemmed from the question 'why are middle/high school-aged girls so mean to each other?' but became much broader in scope as we looked at the cultural factors shaping girls' relationships. At the end of that conversation I asked Dr. Gonick if she knew anyone who was doing work similar to hers but looking at boys' relationships, and she did!   In today's conversation Caroline returns to co-interview Dr. Michael Kehler, who is Research Professor in Masculinities Studies at the Weklund School of Education at the University of Calgary. We discuss how masculinity isn't something that boys are; it's something they do, how the traditional interpretation of masculinity hurts our boys and girls, and what parents can do to support boys in engaging in alternative masculinities that allow them to feel more whole as people.

Merel Visse and Inge van Nistelrooij talk with Kim about Care Ethics. Over the course of the episode, we discuss works by many care ethicists and other philosophically inclined thinkers. Prominent among these is Joan Tronto, whose book Caring Democracy: Markets, Equality, and Justice (NYU Press, 2013) offers a political approach to the practice of care. Also discussed are Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development (Harvard UP, 1982; useful excerpt available here) and Francois Jullien's The Silent Transformations (trans. Krysztof Fijalkowski and Michael Richardson, Seagull Books / Chicago UP, 2011). Several of Merel and Inge's publications are discussed in the episode as well. You can read their co-authored article, “Me? The invisible call of responsibility and its promise for care ethics: a phenomenological view” in Medicine, Health Care and Philosophy (2019) 22: 275–285. Full lists of publications are available for Inge here and Merel here. Both our guests are members of the Care Ethics Group at the University of Humanistic Studies in Utrecht, the Netherlands. Inge van Nistelrooij is an Associate Professor of Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies and an endowed professor of Dialogical Self Theory (DST) at Radboud University in Nijmegen, the Netherlands. Merel Visse is the Director of the Medical and Health Humanities Program at Drew University in Madison, New Jersey and an associate professor in Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies. This week's image is an undated painting titled “Resting” by Amrita Sher-Gil (1913-1941). Music used in promotional material: ‘Peace of the Night' by Crowander Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Merel Visse and Inge van Nistelrooij talk with Kim about Care Ethics. Over the course of the episode, we discuss works by many care ethicists and other philosophically inclined thinkers. Prominent among these is Joan Tronto, whose book Caring Democracy: Markets, Equality, and Justice (NYU Press, 2013) offers a political approach to the practice of care. Also discussed are Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development (Harvard UP, 1982; useful excerpt available here) and Francois Jullien's The Silent Transformations (trans. Krysztof Fijalkowski and Michael Richardson, Seagull Books / Chicago UP, 2011). Several of Merel and Inge's publications are discussed in the episode as well. You can read their co-authored article, “Me? The invisible call of responsibility and its promise for care ethics: a phenomenological view” in Medicine, Health Care and Philosophy (2019) 22: 275–285. Full lists of publications are available for Inge here and Merel here. Both our guests are members of the Care Ethics Group at the University of Humanistic Studies in Utrecht, the Netherlands. Inge van Nistelrooij is an Associate Professor of Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies and an endowed professor of Dialogical Self Theory (DST) at Radboud University in Nijmegen, the Netherlands. Merel Visse is the Director of the Medical and Health Humanities Program at Drew University in Madison, New Jersey and an associate professor in Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies. This week's image is an undated painting titled “Resting” by Amrita Sher-Gil (1913-1941). Music used in promotional material: ‘Peace of the Night' by Crowander Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Merel Visse and Inge van Nistelrooij talk with Kim about Care Ethics. Over the course of the episode, we discuss works by many care ethicists and other philosophically inclined thinkers. Prominent among these is Joan Tronto, whose book Caring Democracy: Markets, Equality, and Justice (NYU Press, 2013) offers a political approach to the practice of care. Also discussed are Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development (Harvard UP, 1982; useful excerpt available here) and Francois Jullien's The Silent Transformations (trans. Krysztof Fijalkowski and Michael Richardson, Seagull Books / Chicago UP, 2011). Several of Merel and Inge's publications are discussed in the episode as well. You can read their co-authored article, “Me? The invisible call of responsibility and its promise for care ethics: a phenomenological view” in Medicine, Health Care and Philosophy (2019) 22: 275–285. Full lists of publications are available for Inge here and Merel here. Both our guests are members of the Care Ethics Group at the University of Humanistic Studies in Utrecht, the Netherlands. Inge van Nistelrooij is an Associate Professor of Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies and an endowed professor of Dialogical Self Theory (DST) at Radboud University in Nijmegen, the Netherlands. Merel Visse is the Director of the Medical and Health Humanities Program at Drew University in Madison, New Jersey and an associate professor in Care Ethics at the University of Humanistic Studies. This week's image is an undated painting titled “Resting” by Amrita Sher-Gil (1913-1941). Music used in promotional material: ‘Peace of the Night' by Crowander Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/critical-theory

In Episode 32, Gregg welcomes Dr. Darcia Narvaez. She is Professor Emerita in the Department of Psychology at the University of Notre Dame, and has recently been identified as one of the top 2% of scientists worldwide. She is author of many excellent books and articles, including one of Gregg's all-time favorites, Neurobiology and the Development of Human Morality: Evolution, Culture, and Wisdom. In this episode, she describes her conception of the "Evolved Nest," which maps the key social, physiological, and ecological features that foster healthy human socio-emotional and moral development. They explore how this Nest aligns with the UTOK Tree of Life, and the implications for society and human development.  Darcia's Homepage: https://darcianarvaez.com/ Darcia on Twitter: https://twitter.com/morallandscapes Darcia's Moral Landscape PT Blog: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes The Evolved Nest: https://evolvednest.org/ Breaking the Cycle - Reclaiming Our Humanity with Our Evolved Nest: https://breakingthecyclefilm.org/ the 6-min. Film is on YouTube with subtitles in 15 languages: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_f4fzzFc8A --- Ressources mentioned in this episode:

Carol Gilligan (1998) contended that Kohlberg's research excluded and devalued women's ways of moral reasoning. His theories on moral development were put forth by a male, in a male dominant society, using only male subjects and thus, were biased in favor of men. She had a point. Using extensive interviews with girls ages 6 to 18, she postulated that women have differing moral reasoning tendencies than men. According to Gilligan, women tend to think of right and wrong (morality) in terms of caring relationships and connections whereas men tend to think in terms of rules and justice. She argued that these differences were largely a result, not of biological influences, but of social influences and gender conditioning that occurred in a context in which women's ways of thinking were often undervalued compared to men. As society continues to evolve (hopefully), these differences will continue to diminish.

Activists have been working to dismantle patriarchal structures since the feminist and civil rights movements of the last century, and yet we continue to struggle with patriarchy today. In their new book, Why Does Patriarchy Persist? (Polity, 2018), Carol Gilligan and Naomi Snider use psychoanalysis and psychology as frameworks for understanding the vexingly enduring power of this social structure. They offer a cogent and eye-opening theory addressing the fear of loss against which patriarchy aims to protect us, and the consequent impingements on our ability to enter into genuine relationships. In our interview, Carol and Naomi talk about how this book came about and what their ideas offer for our understanding of current political events. Carol Gilligan is a writer, activist, University Professor at New York University, and the author of In a Different Voice, one of the most influential feminist books of all time. Naomi Snider is a research fellow at New York University, co-founder of NYU's Radical Listening Project, and a candidate in psychoanalytic training at the William Alanson White Institute. Eugenio Duarte is a psychologist and psychoanalyst practicing in Miami. He treats individuals and couples, with specialties in gender and sexuality, eating and body image problems, and relationship issues. He is a graduate and faculty of William Alanson White Institute in New York City and former chair of their LGBTQ Study Group; and faculty at Florida Psychoanalytic Institute in Miami. He is also a contributing author to the book Introduction to Contemporary Psychoanalysis: Defining Terms and Building Bridges (2018, Routledge). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices